What I love about dating couples | bisexual man explains

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  • Опубліковано 19 жов 2024
  • Have you ever thought about dating couples? Ever wondered what it would be like? Or maybe you have dated a couple and want to share your experience.
    In this video I talk about why I love dating couples as a bisexual man and some of the advantages I have found.
    It can seem like a taboo but actually dating couples can be a wonderful experience. Couples give a whole new dimension to dating and it shouldn’t be disregarded.
    So let me know what you think. I’d love to hear your experiences too.
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  • @notdefining
    @notdefining  Рік тому +1

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    • @okok12-o4p
      @okok12-o4p 11 місяців тому

      #Notdefining
      Gay men never Sex with women or trans
      Why some people have sex with women or trans but call themselves gay?
      Since when were gays doing bisexual behavior?🙄
      Gay is no longer gay Because they have sex with women or trans people
      Heterosexuality is no longer heterosexual Because they have sex with men or transgender people
      I don't know why more and more people who call themselves gay but have sex with women or trans people
      This is not respectful to bisexuals at all
      This is very disrespectful 😡

    • @okok12-o4p
      @okok12-o4p 11 місяців тому

      #notdefining
      I know Bisexual, pansexual, demisexsual are in the bi area
      But gay can't have sex with women or trans
      Gay is not in bi area.
      Gay don't want vagina
      Transmen is biological women
      Transwomen have women's body ( by surgery)
      Straight can't have sex with men or trans
      Straight is not in bi area
      The fact is straight guy never want trans or have gaysex.

  • @AngelHernandez-ariesfitgod
    @AngelHernandez-ariesfitgod Рік тому +11

    I’m a gay man and I am 100% monogamous when it comes to romantic relationships, but this was so interesting to watch and to get your take on what it’s like to date couples that are open to this concept. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts and being so open 🤓 I discovered your channel recently and I love your vids. Keep being you 🫶🏻

  • @parin8718
    @parin8718 Рік тому +6

    This was a really interesting video for me! I had never really thought much about this but listening to you gave me more understanding! very insightful! thank you for sharing!

  • @limaxim
    @limaxim 11 місяців тому +4

    I’m aromantic but would be interested in becoming close with a couple. Like you said you don’t have to be the main person to them in the relationship and that takes a lot of pressure off of me especially in the romantic sense.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  11 місяців тому

      Love this. You will. If you want. You can do it.

  • @rodeanphilip7780
    @rodeanphilip7780 3 місяці тому +1

    I LOVED this! The idea of relating in a way that allows me to fully be my non-binary self thrills me to death! Thanks, Mark!

  • @vincentimbesi3947
    @vincentimbesi3947 Рік тому +7

    I’ve played with many couples and you perfectly described my feelings about the experiences. 👍🏼💜

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Рік тому +7

    I *WISH* I had the good fortune of dating a couple where I would be a source of joy rather than emotion complications.

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  11 місяців тому +3

      Omg yes. I hear you.

    • @kenofken9458
      @kenofken9458 11 місяців тому +3

      Dating involves emotional complications, whether it's only two people involved or seven. There's no way around that.

  • @elisakrivas
    @elisakrivas Рік тому +5

    As someone who's polyamorous, demisexual, and quoiromantic, I don't have the desire to see any of my partners with other people, I'm just indifferent to it because I enjoy seeing them happy. One of my boyfriends does enjoy fantasizing me with other and multiple people, so although he's monoamorous, he likes that I'm polyamorous. However, personally, I'm not interested in seeing my partners with other people, but if they want to see other people, then I'm happy they can get their needs fulfilled from others because their happiness makes me happy. I hope this makes sense.

    • @elisakrivas
      @elisakrivas Рік тому

      @@john.premose um, can you explain your comment? I don't get it.

    • @elisakrivas
      @elisakrivas Рік тому

      @john.premose oh, lol 😆 ...um...but I still don't get it 😬😁

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining  11 місяців тому +2

      Hey thanks for sharing

  • @donbrunodelamancha1927
    @donbrunodelamancha1927 11 місяців тому +1

    I have dated couples. There have been varied dynamics. Only one was there equal sexual chemistry. In the rest, I mostly with the woman. In 2 I was mostly with the man. All were fantastic, all were long term.

  • @NH-ub4ub
    @NH-ub4ub 11 місяців тому +2

    Really interesting video and liked your continues openess on who you are attracted to. 🙂

  • @sophiaamundsen9142
    @sophiaamundsen9142 Рік тому +2

    I'm a Leo, too! But I'm the opposite, I absolutely hate being the center of attention. I struggle being with one person (sexually), I can't imagine two or more! 🤪🤪🤣🤣. Definitely not for me. But I love the reasons you've given on why you love it. So interesting!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 11 місяців тому

    4:42 Classic Love vs Limerence Dilemma.

  • @wriggz9320
    @wriggz9320 11 місяців тому

    Random question. Do you have any tattoos?

  • @Matty12333
    @Matty12333 11 місяців тому

    The other day i met my mate and we went for a meal out, my sister said to me just you and him? in a sarcastic tone, possibly implying that we were dating! It's this kind of attitude which makes me scared. We are good friends but not boyfriends. Really made me angry

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 11 місяців тому

    7:35 Haha I’m a Gemini so I understand this lol