Victimhood Is Ruining Your Life
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- Опубліковано 28 лип 2024
- Expanding further on the downfalls of men's victimhood... Sharing my own experiences.
Why and how to rise above it.
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Books mentioned in this video:
The World I Live In & Optimism - Helen Keller
Mans Search For Meaning - Viktor Frankl
0:00 An identity of victimhood
1:46 The inner dialog
3:00 Let's compare
4:35 Three groups of men
9:41 Turning pain into purpose
11:01 Most haven't realized this yet
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If you're lonely take responsibility
Lonely men in your 30's - Society has failed you
Being alone in your 30s
Men need to reject victimhood
stoicism, stoic, meditations Marcus Aurelius, self improvement, productivity, philosophy, Epictetus, Seneca
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It is 6am and I got up this morning to go for a run for the first time in months. What a great video to wake up to. I found this channel about a week ago and it has contributed to my desire to choose to make a change. It's Sunday and it's raining like hell but it has to be done.
I love this. Thank you for sharing brother... made my day. Keep fckn going
Here before this guy gets big
I'm honored man
37, I've been completely alone now for 17 years or so. Depression ran in like a truck when I was 18. Next year in high school the cyber-bullying started and knocked the life out of me. The bullying began again when I was in college after HS and that's where the damage was really done. I've had a blank/numb stare like a soldier from war zone for God knows how long going from school to school and jumping from one menial meaningless job to another - the lights are out!
This year I've got to start tackling this inner turmoil and whirlwind of negative emotions. I've never really told a therapist what actually happened and I can see that time doesn't heal jack shit when it comes to repressed emotions/trauma.
Thanks for this channel - made an appointment to a psychologist and I'll see how it goes. It feels like an interesting creative year in the making. Lots of bits and pieces of ideas which on surface feel like they're randomly appearing seem to indicate for a major overhaul in direction and your channel has been a big one.
Yeah brother, it's time for you to face these things. You are being called to do that right now... Very grateful you found your way to the channel and that it's encouraged you. I'd like to recommend a book to you called "No Bad Parts," it's basically a more nuanced look at "shadow work" (facing and integrating the darker parts of our psyche post on the conscious and subconscious levels) and addressing those childhood wounds that have colored our reality for most of out lives. Preventing ourselves from truly loving ourselves, which is really the only way to genuinely love others.
Glad I saw this comment when I did. I usually don't have time to reply.
Excited for your progress and the creative upcoming year.
Sending love your way. You can do this. Keep going.... it will all be worth it once you get the other side. The darkness is there to so the light can make itself known.
@@TheConsciousMan143 Thx for the encouragement, it was a really intense April as the bad stuff started to surface from the murky depths buried there long ago. I haven't cried this much in 20+ years. Keep doing what you do - the young lost guys really need a channel like yours right now which is raw, authentic and without ego-driven BS. "There's a crack in everything - that's how the light gets in." - Leonard Cohen.
One of your best videos to date... we are allowed to be vulnerable, weak, broke or fall in the victim frame, but it's also our duty to rise above that state and don't make it permanent, that's the least we can do with our life as civilization will continue without us.
Well said man... It's the "staying in victimhood" that destroys your life. We've all visited that place from time to time, but we eventually need to push to the other side to keep growing.
Thank you for putting your message out to the world. I can put my hands up and say I’ve fell to this victim narrative my whole life and still do. It’s tough to stop patterns of thought and behaviour that are so deeply ingrained where they’re entrenched into the psyche, but it’s hard when I try to remind myself that it isn’t my fault why I keep resorting to negative thoughts patterns and behaviours as a response mechanism to these beliefs i also know and feel that I am somewhat washing my hands clean of what has to be personal responsibility at the age of 23. I deeply want to and wish to change. Whenever I tell myself I’m going to I can convince myself I e changed and at most a couple months go by and I end up in the same place of emotional instability.
I hear you brother... that's why i believe all it starts with the internal work. The external actions can be near impossible if your internal world isn't sorted... It can take time, but taking the small gradual steps, (journaling, meditation, reading books that nudge into changing your limiting beliefs, etc.) can make a night and day difference.
Getting your general physical health in order can be a game changer as well, in terms of your mental health. As you get healthier naturally your testosterone levels go up, and in turn have way more motivation. It's all linked. Rooting for you man
You survived by developing a strong mind and a strong body, to fight the evils of victimhood. Good job! You conquered the darkness that consumes many men.
Bonjour to my fellow lightworker, you are so articulate and wise. You are helping the world be a better place. Your channel will be huge soon!!
Appreciate you saying that. Ready for it
Wow, it sounds like you have received the blessing of spiritual awakening! I have been on the same journey for the last 2 years. Your message resonates with my soul and makes my heart smile!Thank you brother for using your platform to uplift others as they navigate the challenges and obstacles of this life. You are answering the call of your higher self…this is where transcendence is found! Peace and blessings to you as you continue on the path. ✨🌞
This legit brought a tear to my eye... thank you so much for saying all of that. Very encouraging.
Still in my early 20s and just wanna say - Thank you. I have always been more mature than my peers and couldn't talk about most stuff openly, but I get some closure from these videos and a peek towards my future self and how I want to live.
So glad the videos are resonating brother. Sending love your way
Your father is definitely proud of you!
Thank you so much
One of the best channels.
Im sure it will blow up. Keep going.
Appreciate you saying that my man
I'm glad I found you. I'm thankful for this channel. You are doing things on UA-cam that I have wanted to do as well to help other men. I'm currently a year into a divorce and lost my job nearly a year ago (still looking). I'm a father of two. I'm in the first group. I'm trying to heal. I'm also trying to learn how to be alone and love myself, probably for the first time ever. I want to be creative and share my story like you so that I can help others avoid the same. I've always believed in the power of vulnerability. Thank you for showing me an example of how it can be done here. I should be sleeping, but somehow I found your videos and I'm thankful I'm not in bed yet. This could be my sign. Thank you. I'll be back to watch more soon. Subbed. ❤
One thing I've realized recently is that you need to be willing to save yourself. If you aren't willing to do that, how can you possibly expect anyone else to?
Very true brother
Yeah that's probably the key. Though it's very hard to save yourself if rumination and a cycle of negative thought patterns keep hammering away - and you believe in them.
Love from India. These wisdom-filled videos will 100% make me my Best Version. It's just now a matter of time and practice. ❤
"Just a matter of time and practice..." I love that
Keep pushing bro, your content is gold
Really appreciate the encouragement brother
Lovely & very inspiring contents. Watching from Nigeria.
All the way in Nigeria... I love that
This channel is going to blow up. It's so good.
Thank you brother... very encouraging. Working on more vids as we speak.
Hi. Im sorry for your loss. It would have been hard losing your father. I was traumatized in my life. I had a horrible experience. I have used that experience as an excuse. You bring up some good points to think about.
You even used the ‘crabs in a bucket’ analogy I’ve used for many years. Love you, brother. Great work. Keep going.
Thank you, I will. I love you too broseph
Another great video. God bless you brother!!
God bless you too. Glad it resonated man
I had almost a life-long story of living in a victimhood state. I've read Frankl and other books which had similar ideas, and though it helped me to some degree, it seemed that nothing was convincing enough to get rid of the victimhood mindset completely. I think I'm more of a "logical" thinking person so spiritual ideas just didn't click well enough for me.
Some time ago I almost randomly got another book "The Courage to be Disliked" by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga. At that moment I didn't know what this book was about and didn't have high expectations. Surprisingly, it proposed very different views on a "victim" problem and how one could possibly fix it. Those new ideas just instantly made sense for me to the degree that I certainly can tell that I will never fall into this victimhood mindset ever again.
The book is not big and is an easy-read. Hope somebody will also find it as helpful as I do.
Brother thank you for sharing this - i realize that spiritual concepts don't necessarily resonate with everyone, so thank you for the book recommendation.
At the end of the day, every individual needs to find what works for them personally
Hey man I'm at 1m27s where you talk about your dad and I'm truly so proud of what you've turned out and will continue to be and had that memory of a role model in your life. I'm so happy for you and grateful for you to share this vulnerability. I'm tearing up. As one of the human species to another, I love you man. Well done.
(My dad left us and never responded. He motivated me to be everything he was not. We choose our wins.)
You're an asshole. You made me cry by the end of the video. Thanks man. I know you make these for what you probably needed most at your lowest. Your empathy is astounding. Thank you.
I love you too brother - 100% resonate with everything you've said here... Thank you so much for sharing. Feeling super encouraged and connected
Your soul is epic
I went through the same thing with a parent. Takes courage to open up.
God bless you.
Sorry to hear you went through that. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. Appreciate you
This a powerful video . Thank you for your advice . Your video has spoken to me
You are so welcome - I appreciate you watching and glad it resonated with you
The villain and hero concept is very significant. You can see some people online only writing hateful comments - and not once do they spread love, and it's because they chose to. I think of the Jeckyll & Hyde theme where he explains that man is not one but two, he views the human soul as a battleground for an angel and a fiend, each struggling for mastery
Well said brother... we all certainly have the capacity for both sides.
thanks for the videos, you seem like you have a good heart. sorry about your father
Appreciate that brother. Betting you have a good heart too... Takes one to know one.
My miracle moment going from that 2nd type of man was being arrested. I thought my life was over but I had way more support than I thought the world would give a depressed lonely man with trauma and an ego that thought I knew best. Joined a 12 step group and honestly recommend it to anyone. There's a 12 step program for everything, not just usual alcohol, narcotics etc. You meet people there who majorly fucked up their lives way worse than you ever fucked yours up, and they put in work to fix themselves and live a happy productive life, and they are just there for you. You can call them and they are actually enthusiastic about helping you, listening to your story, your worries, whatever. Some guys you can hang out with after meetings. You get used to talking to people again, and just learning how to live more honestly.
Thank you for sharing man... this brought a tear to my eye. The 12 step program is truly transcendent. In many cases, you basically have to be at rock bottom in order to even be open to what it offers.
There is such a loving power that lives within the deepest part of our human consciousness that is so easy to lose touch with... Whenever you encounter genuinely kind and loving people when you are in the depths of darkness... it restores hope in a way that can't even be properly put into to language.
The whole jail system is full of victims
Another amazing video. I'm type 3 and this might actually have helped. (And I'm sorry to hear about your dad.)
appreciate you brother, keep pushing. And thank you
Amazing content brother! Can you talk more about your moments of revelation that stood critical in your life? Keep up the great work being honest and giving value!
Thanks buddy - I most definitely will. More vids are coming. I appreciate you
Thank you for this. I really hope that I am able to practice all the things you talked about. I understand this on an intellectual level which is perhaps the first step, but now the challenge is to put this into practice. My older patterns continue to haunt me despite my best efforts on a number of days, but I will certainly keep trying!
As long as your in the arena genuinely fighting to make progress (not matter how gradual), then you are ahead of 90% of people. Keep going my dude
Thank you so much my man! Would you be comfortable sharing your insta/facebook handle? I would really want to continue this conversations personally if that's fine. I have learnt a lot from your videos and I think speaking to you individually might help me even further!@@TheConsciousMan143
insta handle is just TheConsciousMan143
It seems to be that so many are unwilling to accept the challenge that is to rise up and leave the safe and familiar confines of victimhood, to leave behind that person they have identified with for so long, that person being the victim, and start working on being he who is victorious in spite of his circumstances. Indeed, becoming victorious because of and over his circumstances. And its not easy, it takes determination and commitment to work on becoming he who you are able to, and meant to, become, but that which is easy, that which is given, has little value, whereas that which is hard earned has the greatest value of all. So no matter our starting line, and although it may be behind some, it will also be ahead of some, you have to start, and the sooner you start, the better. Good luck and power to everyone on your journeys to becoming the victor!
thank you for this video. i really appreciate what your doing. ive only just stumbled across your channel and seeing the amount and sheer volume of handwork ,i dont even know you but i am immensely proud. from the editing to the message the amount of shots and even the song you wrote the quality of all of this is higher than most youtubers with subscribers in the millions keep going man beautiful work
Brother, thank you so much for taking the time to write this incredibly kind and encouraging comment... I feel seen to my core. This made my day...
Sending love your way. Thank you
Your going to excel ! The love is circulating and making an impact 🫶🏼
Please make more videos on Trauma, PTSD, Complex PTSD. These topics are very important for men who have faced trauma in their life. Will also help veterans and army guys. If you make an entire series on this, it will be hugely successful, I promise.
Hey thanks for mentioning.. there's definitely a need for this
Could you make a video going more in-depth about psychedelics? I have been on a self improvement path for the last 2 months and i stumbled upon using psychedelics to create more insight into yourself and seeing the bigger picture, i have been doing a lot of research and i want to know how i can be best prepared so i can take full advantage of the experience and not end up having a bad trip.
Have been taking a lot out of your videos about improving myself and appreciate them a lot. Keep up the good work!
hey brother - I’m definitely considering doing a video on psilocybin. It’s tough however, because it’s not currently legal in my country… so it’s a bit of a grey area at the moment. Considering it regardless, because I know there are guys out there like you who could use some guidance with set, setting, safety, intention… but I’m still mulling it over. Thanks for the comment
Thank you
I cry while watching you bro
My condolences to you for your father. It must have been traumatising to grow up with that. I grew up without a father who never showed any interest in me. By the time I became an adult and went looking for him I found out he was dead. First time I met him was at his gravestone.
I am really glad and proud that you turned out the way you did. You're married (congrats!) and got your life together (do you have kids?). It is natural to give into bitterness, resentment and despair but so hard to overcome it. Much like the man from Dostoyevsky's Notes from the Underground. If one sinks into the former then you end up like my father who failed 3 marriages and left all 3 families growing up without a father. He later prematurely died from the effects of alcoholism and other addictions.
But if one manages to overcome it then, like you, one can bring so much good to this world. I'm 32, never been in relationship but I want to find a woman I can spend the rest of my life with. I want to get married, have children and build a family. I want to raise kids so that they are well prepared for hardships of the modern world. So that they don't have to undergo the suffering I did.
I wholeheartedly agree with the general message of the video but I don't think the argument of "someone has it worse than you and turned out better anyway" is suitable for a lot of men. It's been used against me a lot of times as well because I grew up in rich environment compared to my relatives but all that money and comfort did not negate my psychological pain. In fact, it made my bitterness worse. My point being is: someone has it worse than can be misused ad infinitum and ad absurdum. It only serves to denigrate the sufferer even further when what he needs is more positive motivation and support.
Thank you for your videos. I'm looking forward for more.
Man thank you for sharing all of this... really appreciate you. I am not married currently, but have been before. That's a whole story...
And I hear you on that last paragraph you wrote... I think it's more the idea that there's really no point in "comparing traumas" ...even if someone seemingly has it much worse on the surface... that we as men need to take responsibility regardless. We've all been dealt a unique hand (often difficult in it's own way), that we need to learn to work with.
Thank you again for sharing. Much love
@@TheConsciousMan143 Ah well, my apologies. I agree on the notion that you can beat yourself up when it comes to "suffering olympics". I've done it plenty of times myself to justify my desolation.
Fatherlessness though for men is a unique curse. It's very difficult to learn how to be your own father. But that's where channels like yours and the books you recommended come in.
I hear hear you brother… I was definitely blessed to have my father for a time as a kid. so grateful for that… but then mentors in the form of books, etc was certainly a life changer. appreciate your thoughts man
Preview: There's another chapter after the 30's. If 'having it all' or 'being your best self' is the destination a young man strives for, it does pay off and at some point you can get everything you want with the effort. But, that feeling that everything will be "ok" if I can make it from A to B isn't completely true. Acceptance (not meaning complacency) is a tough pill to swallow when you feel that the future you is the 'acceptable' version of you and when you arrive you realize you could have accepted every version of you and been happier for it. External purpose is not a substitute for internal love, but it sure can be a longterm surrogate for it. This work will still remain at the 'finish line'. I would have started that work in my 20's and 30's if I knew then what I know now.
Brother... I completely agree with you here. Thank you for sharing - Enjoying and appreciating all aspects of the journey, and accepting each and every version of yourself as you progress into your potential is absolutely vital. Yes, you need a destination to have the motivation to move at all, but once you're moving you have to be present and appreciate each and every step of the process...
The idea of "gaining the world and losing your soul" is relevant here... that's why going within regularly and really getting to know your true essence comes before everything else.
So glad I found your channel. Currently on the uphill climb out of a very dark place and definitely needed to hear a lot of the advice in your videos. Do you think you could make a video strictly on the topic of psilocybin? I’ve been microdosing to help along the way but I’m interested in higher doses but would be nice to hear how you went about it, but obviously you can’t give “medical advice” so you’d just have to share your experiences and how you went about it personally.
I'm glad you found the channel too brother - One thing I will say is that "being in a dark place," sucks... but for me personally it was a time when my inner core was being re-forged for the better, even when i didn't realize it. And although painful, looking back... I'm most grateful for the dark seasons I've been through. They are what brought about the inner change that gave me purpose and clarity. But those dark times are not fucking easy... so I feel you.
I've already gotten numerous requests to do a video on psilocybin... So I'm definitely going to do it, but it's going to take some time to fully figure out how to map it all out in way that makes sense and is helpful for whoever is watching. I want to share my experiences, but some crazy stuff went down that I myself am still processing...
It's been on my mind a lot though , and I know there are guys out there like you who would find my experiences helpful. Stay tuned brother.
Hey thanks so much for the response. I have definitely been able to see how this is all changing me for the better but like you said it is freakin hard. Microdosing as been like having someone hold my hand and guide me along the way but I think I do need a mystical experience as it’s been over a decade since I’ve had one and I believe there are some fears to face in that now. I know what you mean though my past psychedelic experiences I feel I am still processing as well but I believe I need to go back to fully understand what they were teaching me. I’ve had a fear of going back after having an experience in which I believed I was dead for hours and was shown how my death would affect everyone I know and love… would be a long message to type out the entire experience but definitely curious what you went through! Did you happen to have a sitter? One thing I’m worried about with a sitter is if I face difficulties and them getting concerned about my well-being haha
There's so much we could discuss... I'm definitely going to make an official "mushroom" video at some point where I share my experiences, dosing, sitter, etc... as well as an overall trip report of my biggest trip
There's just a lot to unpack, so it'll take me a bit to gear up for making that video. Just know it's on my radar.
Hey bro. I havent watched this video. But i just watched the "part 1" (popped up in my home page. It was a nice video.)
I just wanted to recommend you to analyze the title you used for this video, compared to the first one, and try to understand why the first one is much better. Titles are crucial for hitting the algorithm.
Its the "avoid my mistakes" part, that served as the hook.
I appreciate the feedback man. Let me know if you have any title recommendations
Could you make a video on books you recomend tank you so much have a good day
That's a great idea... will def do that at some point
Hey great video! What are the wide neck shirts you wear? Need some of those
I believe the shirt in this vid was Zara or H&M
Im crying, the way this videos resonated with my inner self, you made a great job bro, keep going. Im sure youre father is proud of you, bless your soul. Greetings from Venezuela.
I appreciate that man - Sending love you way
Thank you, I am 28 and the situation you describe is all about you, I feel your every word, thanks for being my older brother! You work means a lot!
You are so welcome my dude. Glad you can relate. We're all in this crazy life together. Keep pushing. Happy you're here
I'll probably ask my doctor for antidepressants. I have no idea how to get mushrooms, so they are not an option. I tried to fix my ways and it works for a while, but I go back to being depressed anyway. Sorry, demons won... now I'll dull myself to avoid suffering. There is no point of suffering for something that may never change.
Man i hear you on this...To be honest the mushrooms sort of found me when I was ready. I got this feeling deep down that it was path i was meant to explore, and then let go of trying to find them. Then randomly I met someone (without searching), and they connected me.
I wouldn't say the demons necessarily won... that's still ultimately up to you.
As far as anti-depressants go, I think that it's a useful temporary tool for a lot of folks who are so incapacitated emotionally... that the antidepressants can at least get you to baseline for a time. However, it will treat the symptom but it won't fix the cause. I would encourage you that once you "feel better" from the medication and have a hint of motivation again, to do the inner work. Meditate, journal, pray, go within, read books (like "The Power of Now, and The Way of The Superior Man)... and then when you start to heal those inner crevices and you feel ready, at that point talk to your doctor and slowly wean off of the medication.
Rooting for you brother.
@@TheConsciousMan143 thank you bro. Also great content, I hope your channels grows more.
Absolutely man. Keep me updated@@josephang9927
I recognize I have no excuse and feel like I've done less with more than almost anyone. I'm in shape, look a lot like you, pretty good job that I hate and isn't amazing, few friends and no social status. I have no means to meet women except approaching on street or going out alone,, which I do, but the poor success eats at me and I feel like a creep. I don't have that purpose or gift to give the world. I don't really care about anything anymore. I guess I'm group 3. I have no reason to be this way and it's pathetic. I'd have to rewire my brain and become extremely extroverted and find a talent that I don't think I have. I'll try new things like join an MMA gym and try to recreate my self image that I'm not a loser creep. I mean I honestly look like you and feel that way, it's embarrassing to have self esteem that low
This is so relatable that I thought it describes my current life, except for the MMA gym cause that's what I'm doing already. Didn't help with self-esteem a bit, but at least it's fun and I want to continue with it.
I utterly understand how disheartening it can be to finally grow some courage to do something and fail despite all the effort and mental struggles. Especially when you see how others so easily get something you just seemingly can't get.
Considering that I'm in a similar situation, I don't think I have any credibility to give you advice. I think we'll just have to keep going on and hope that one day it will work for us.
You're not alone!
I hear you brother... no need to feel embarrassed. Often times just having some degree of "self awareness" can be painful at first.
When it comes to purpose, I'd say it starts with just following your genuine curiosities and interests, while just keeping the idea of purpose in your peripheral. That in and of itself can start to give you a sense of purpose... The MMA thing is great, but only IF it genuinely interests you, and you feel excited/curious about it. Sometimes you have to dabble in a bunch of different things for awhile, until you find something that clicks for you and feels purposeful.
Props to you for going out and approaching... I know how tough that is. If you can keep going out alone and reframing any rejections from "lack of success," to it actually being gradual growth and growing pains. Most men won't even put themselves in that position to be rejected, so you should be proud of yourself for the courage. Think back to when you first started going to the gym and training... you were weak, and easily felt sore. It took a lot of time for lifting to feel good and natural and to see results. Same with things like cold approaching and social dynamics in general.
I'm glad you have your physical fitness, and health in order... seems like putting more focus on the inner work might be good. Start with reading something like "Way Of The Superior Man," ... that book really helped connect some dots for me personally... honestly can't recommend it enough.
Thank you @@TheConsciousMan143
Hi sir, I built self esteem by doing things I’m proud of like helping people and animals, being honest and kind. Picking up things I didn’t drop and opening doors for people - literally and figuratively. We are all connected and you can find purpose in service to others. ❤
At least he’s making money from his victim hood.
stop crying.. start self-optimizing.. so nothing else like all these "men-helpers". Dont call urself the conscious man then.. ur not helping. U dont know what other peoples problems are, everybodys life is different, so who are u to judge? I get ur point to motivate people but in the end its just unempathic crap im sick of these dudes saying i had these 1-2 problems and overcame them so ur now in a position to judge. Praising self-efficacy is cool but only if u actually also care about the problems others have which u never had or 100% couldnt even imagine because u never had them. Were individuals so please dont forget that
watch the full video brother - the first half is really just to grab attention in a world of short attention spans. The second half and ending is the main point of the video.
I by no means think I’m better than other men… I may be a step or two ahead of some but I’m right there in the trenches with them. Feeling and processing emotions is very necessary, I agree with you, However a whole lifetime of victimhood can literally kill a man, and lot of men are stuck there and stay stuck there unfortunately. We are in this together. Much love
@@TheConsciousMan143 Friendly answer but sadly u didnt get the point. Problems of people are different so were not in this together.. Like ppl have challenges that u cant even imagine they have and u have different ones so u cant say its a motivation problem its just enemphatic bs that doesnt help.. and i feel u really wanna help in some way
@the reason one of the reasons were around other people is to learn from them and their failures a wise person always learns from other people's stories Rubindy
@@truthseeker7474 ?? u drunk :> :
@@Rubindy I know I sounded a little strange but the truth is nobody really cares about you you have to care about yourself and you have to learn from other people's experiences that's all I'm saying
i will keep listening to you and watch your videos and stay subscribed only until you don't sell out. The moment you sell out for financial profit over genuine wellbeing of your audience, I will unsubscribe and remove your channel from my recommendations. I love your videos so far. Please don't ever sell out. You are just one candle in a vast darkness of corporate greed and manipulation in the youtube world.
I appreciate you man... we definitely all need to keep each other accountable. The best case scenario is to be able to both look after the wellbeing of the audience, AND to be able to make money in a way that doesn't negatively affect them. "Sell out" pretty open to interpretation and is subjective from person to person.
I personally have paid a lot of money for books and retreats over the years that have genuinely helped me grow and learn... while I have also financially helped the authors of those books and facilitators of those retreats... which created a win/win scenario in my opinion.
I have much more an abundance mindset these days. Where I'm much more open to both giving, and receiving
I agree with you@@TheConsciousMan143 However my point is that, we all know who is selling out and who is not. We all know how to tell who is doing it purely for profit and who is doing it to genuinely help others. There is no problem in making money but you and me both know there are influencers, all they worship is money. They will just do anything that makes them money no matter that happens to their audience. There is a lot of manipulation around. What makes you think, you were recommended to me. I have weeded out most of the so called Gurus and mens influencers out of my youtube so, all I can see is quality content that actually matters. And believe me, I can tell where the influencer is crossing the line from being genuinely helpful to becoming greedy. I have a sense for it.
Absolutely man - you seem like a very genuine and intuitive individual. Feel free to reach out and keep me accountable if i start to veer off track. I'm just a human and still learning myself. Grateful to have you along for the ride with me
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Thank you
Appreciate you too