if people thinks that our divorce bill [if it becomes a law] makes it easier to dissolve a marriage with just a snap of a finger, then they are entirely mistaken. dadaan ka muna sa butas ng karayom pa rin para mapa approve yan sa isang judge. policy pa rin ng government natin to preserve marriage as much as possible. kalaban mo fiscal at judge sa divorce proceeding. dinagdagan lang ng reason para ipawalang bisa ang kasal. hindi pa rin ito pinadali. may mabigat na consequences pa rin ang paghihiwalay ng kasal... sa bulsa, sa ari-arian, at sa mga anak.
Greatly presented and well articulated, though I wished you could have used more examples but if I guess that's just my one nitpick, besides that I am very much happy to know secular arguments against divorce and the negative effects it has on society and it's children. God bless Sir Jay and continue to fight the good fight.
Friendly Question here Does fault based devorce the same as the current system of fault based annulment... Maayos na nga para sa ngangailangan dadagdagan pa ng butas
Annulment doesn't need fault. Kailangan lang maprove na null ang kasal. May appearance lang siya na fault based kung may psychological incapacity ang isang asawa.
Napakarami talaga na kinakasal at inaabot ng ilang years para nila marealize na di sila para sa isa't isa, at umaabot sa neglet sa anak, asawa, at sa buhay nila. yung mga negative effects na prinesent mo e is nangyayare na at patuloy pa din sa paglaki KAHIT wala ang divorce bill. Di rin ako agree na ang tingin nyo sa mga makikinabang sa divroce e yung mga tao na cheater at walang respeto sa pagpapakasal. the more I try to hear the side ng mga against sa divorce (consevatives) lalu ko lang nakikita na ot of touch kayo sa madaming suffering ng mga magulong families at kinokontrol nyo mga tao ayon sa kagustuhan nyo lang. kung makakarinig ako ng maayos na gagawin nyo para sa mga taong nag sa-suffer sa maling marriage baka mabago nyo isip ko pero wala pa din akong makita e. but I respect you for not using the bible and God para sa argument mo 👍
Thank you for sharing. Need iconsider ito and tingnan pano iaaddress. I think madaming renewal communities na willing tumulong sa problematic marriages. Kailangan lang lumapit, magpakumbaba na kailangan ng tulong. Natulungan ako early on sa courtship/dating, marriage preparation at patuloy na guidance
casually saying na "may legal separation naman" legally separated couples are not allowed to re-marry bigyan dapat ng chance for a new life yung mga taong galing sa failed marriage, isa yan sa mga purpose ng divorce
2:20 do you think hindi affected ang mga bata sa family na nagsasakita? Or May drugs? May adultery? May patayan? May rape? Sex issue? At heavy issues pa?
What you are saying is just one side of the coin… Divorce are not for Everyone. Kung Ikaw ay nasa maayos na pagsasamahan ang Divorce bill ay hindi para sa iyo. So Why say No to Divorce? Huwag ninyong ipagkait ang Divorce sa mga Taong tunay na nanganailangan ng ganitong batas. masuwerte ka maayos ang relasyon pamilya mo. Pero huwag ka naman maging Maramot sa mga taong naka-kulong sa isang mapang abusong relasyon. Give them a chance na makalaya.
@@christianreyquisto3163 abuse po tlga.. kc they are pusing for divorce with grounds.. hindi no fault divorce ang gus2ng magkaroon.. Yung pag aasawa mo ng iba/ bago is 2ndary n lng... kc nga, again divorce with ground.
Things don't happen in isolation of one another. They interact with one another. What happens in one area has an effect on another area. I believe that low levels of morality leads to higher tendency to, for example, to commit crime, to abuse power, to be depressed, drop out of school, etc. So, if divorce does not improve but worsen it (as you said that is not what divorce does), then why should we continue on this path? If we know that divorce leads to greater negative effects on society, then why should we accept that? Can't we find another way? More marriage support from the gov't through couples counseling, relationship building, family therapy, conflict resolution seminars for spouses, stronger pre-CANA before marriage, etc. Are viable options that help address the problem. I simply do not see divorce as resolving any of the deep rooted issues an abusive, addict, neglect spouse has. I see divorce as a quick fix that'll only make things worse.
@@ccyd8604 so whats your solution to an MIA partner? Adik, abusive physical & sexual father his partner & children? Whats you solution to father almost killed his wife 3x? Quick fix its no ground or no fault divorce, but its not... its not the same with USA.
Isolation, effect on the other side.. thats why we are not going for no fault divorce... we need grounds... This divorce can give exit to an exploited & abusive relationships... morality is on status quo... unless you make it ni fault divorce.. then morality will go south.
Good day po. Here's what i think. Dahil f-it and marriage ay kailangan ba tangalin ang marriage? Hindi ba pwede gawin stronger ang marriage nila? How about ipa counseling/rehab sa gov't ang abusive spouse? Mag couples seminar? Relationship building? Conflict resolution therapies? Family interventions? There are a lot of options out there. We can make this mandatory for such relationships. One group is The Third Option, which work with spouses going through marital issues - even those wanting to separate. Why don't we try to find better ways to strengthen the marriage first before throwing out the baby with the bath water. I do not think those abusive or addict spouses will be better when they also remarry also. We will just be increasing the number of abuses. No marriage is perfect. Everyone needs some form of support or help but on different levels. I think we should work on this first before we cheapen the dignity of marriage.
@@ccyd8604 madaling magsabi.. because your in a better place... But what if seminars & therapies did work? We you go to therapy with a rapist husband? The addict one is to himself, but please spare the other family members from bad situations.. Not all addicts what to be rehab & mostly dont like to stop... if its that so easy we will have less addiction. Divorce is not for everyone, Noone is for cheaping the dignity of marriage We are working to give exit for a BS marriages.. not all marriage has dignity.. not all marriage is from God & by God..
if people thinks that our divorce bill [if it becomes a law] makes it easier to dissolve a marriage with just a snap of a finger, then they are entirely mistaken. dadaan ka muna sa butas ng karayom pa rin para mapa approve yan sa isang judge. policy pa rin ng government natin to preserve marriage as much as possible. kalaban mo fiscal at judge sa divorce proceeding. dinagdagan lang ng reason para ipawalang bisa ang kasal. hindi pa rin ito pinadali. may mabigat na consequences pa rin ang paghihiwalay ng kasal... sa bulsa, sa ari-arian, at sa mga anak.
Greatly presented and well articulated, though I wished you could have used more examples but if I guess that's just my one nitpick, besides that I am very much happy to know secular arguments against divorce and the negative effects it has on society and it's children.
God bless Sir Jay and continue to fight the good fight.
Thanks, God bless u too. The fight is not yet over. Let's protect the institution of marriage
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Friendly Question here
Does fault based devorce the same as the current system of fault based annulment...
Maayos na nga para sa ngangailangan dadagdagan pa ng butas
Annulment doesn't need fault. Kailangan lang maprove na null ang kasal. May appearance lang siya na fault based kung may psychological incapacity ang isang asawa.
So interesting and informative
Napakarami talaga na kinakasal at inaabot ng ilang years para nila marealize na di sila para sa isa't isa, at umaabot sa neglet sa anak, asawa, at sa buhay nila. yung mga negative effects na prinesent mo e is nangyayare na at patuloy pa din sa paglaki KAHIT wala ang divorce bill. Di rin ako agree na ang tingin nyo sa mga makikinabang sa divroce e yung mga tao na cheater at walang respeto sa pagpapakasal. the more I try to hear the side ng mga against sa divorce (consevatives) lalu ko lang nakikita na ot of touch kayo sa madaming suffering ng mga magulong families at kinokontrol nyo mga tao ayon sa kagustuhan nyo lang. kung makakarinig ako ng maayos na gagawin nyo para sa mga taong nag sa-suffer sa maling marriage baka mabago nyo isip ko pero wala pa din akong makita e. but I respect you for not using the bible and God para sa argument mo 👍
Thank you for sharing.
Need iconsider ito and tingnan pano iaaddress.
I think madaming renewal communities na willing tumulong sa problematic marriages. Kailangan lang lumapit, magpakumbaba na kailangan ng tulong. Natulungan ako early on sa courtship/dating, marriage preparation at patuloy na guidance
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Conservative people get up! Moral will rise!
Will this conservative people fight the immorality in catholic church?
casually saying na "may legal separation naman"
legally separated couples are not allowed to re-marry
bigyan dapat ng chance for a new life yung mga taong galing sa failed marriage, isa yan sa mga purpose ng divorce
2:20 do you think hindi affected ang mga bata sa family na nagsasakita? Or May drugs? May adultery? May patayan? May rape? Sex issue? At heavy issues pa?
What you are saying is just one side of the coin… Divorce are not for Everyone. Kung Ikaw ay nasa maayos na pagsasamahan ang Divorce bill ay hindi para sa iyo. So Why say No to Divorce? Huwag ninyong ipagkait ang Divorce sa mga Taong tunay na nanganailangan ng ganitong batas. masuwerte ka maayos ang relasyon pamilya mo. Pero huwag ka naman maging Maramot sa mga taong naka-kulong sa isang mapang abusong relasyon. Give them a chance na makalaya.
For better, or for worse. People entering marriage are aware of this.
@@lili_toniKht patayin kana nag asawa mo magsasama p rin kayo? How about marape na anak mo? Masira na buhay ng partner & mga bata? Magsama pa rin?
On point.. selfish kasi yung iba.. akala nila full & always sunshine & rainbow ang mundo & relationships ng tao.
2:00 kung low conflict wlang pla... mukhng hindi grounds yun base doon sa bill.
How about irreconcilable differences sa Section 5.f ng bill? (genuine question)
@@franzchristianvelasco9693 nice question.. No nga ba ang irreconcilable difference.. dpt may clarification jan.
0:41 Pwdeng bang magpakasal ulit kung legal separation?
No, dahil kasal pa rin kayo. Pinaghiwalay lang ng physically.
@@johndexterramos7645 kaya nga is it comparable sa divorce? Mukhng hindi...
Pinaglayo lng...
In other words, hindi naman talaga abuse ang issue sa divorce kundi ang kagustuhang makapag asawa ng iba.
@@christianreyquisto3163 abuse po tlga.. kc they are pusing for divorce with grounds.. hindi no fault divorce ang gus2ng magkaroon..
Yung pag aasawa mo ng iba/ bago is 2ndary n lng... kc nga, again divorce with ground.
SO LONG !?!?
1:22 May nagsasabi bang divorce is for morality boost?
Things don't happen in isolation of one another. They interact with one another. What happens in one area has an effect on another area. I believe that low levels of morality leads to higher tendency to, for example, to commit crime, to abuse power, to be depressed, drop out of school, etc. So, if divorce does not improve but worsen it (as you said that is not what divorce does), then why should we continue on this path? If we know that divorce leads to greater negative effects on society, then why should we accept that? Can't we find another way? More marriage support from the gov't through couples counseling, relationship building, family therapy, conflict resolution seminars for spouses, stronger pre-CANA before marriage, etc. Are viable options that help address the problem. I simply do not see divorce as resolving any of the deep rooted issues an abusive, addict, neglect spouse has. I see divorce as a quick fix that'll only make things worse.
@@ccyd8604 so whats your solution to an MIA partner? Adik, abusive physical & sexual father his partner & children?
Whats you solution to father almost killed his wife 3x?
Quick fix its no ground or no fault divorce, but its not... its not the same with USA.
Isolation, effect on the other side.. thats why we are not going for no fault divorce... we need grounds...
This divorce can give exit to an exploited & abusive relationships... morality is on status quo... unless you make it ni fault divorce.. then morality will go south.
1:01 so dhil nag f-it ng usa gagawin n rin ntin? Hindi pwde gumawa tayo ng stronger law?
Good day po. Here's what i think.
Dahil f-it and marriage ay kailangan ba tangalin ang marriage? Hindi ba pwede gawin stronger ang marriage nila? How about ipa counseling/rehab sa gov't ang abusive spouse? Mag couples seminar? Relationship building? Conflict resolution therapies? Family interventions? There are a lot of options out there. We can make this mandatory for such relationships. One group is The Third Option, which work with spouses going through marital issues - even those wanting to separate. Why don't we try to find better ways to strengthen the marriage first before throwing out the baby with the bath water. I do not think those abusive or addict spouses will be better when they also remarry also. We will just be increasing the number of abuses. No marriage is perfect. Everyone needs some form of support or help but on different levels. I think we should work on this first before we cheapen the dignity of marriage.
@@ccyd8604 madaling magsabi.. because your in a better place...
But what if seminars & therapies did work?
We you go to therapy with a rapist husband?
The addict one is to himself, but please spare the other family members from bad situations..
Not all addicts what to be rehab & mostly dont like to stop... if its that so easy we will have less addiction.
Divorce is not for everyone,
Noone is for cheaping the dignity of marriage
We are working to give exit for a BS marriages.. not all marriage has dignity.. not all marriage is from God & by God..
@@ccyd8604well said
#Yestodivorce
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Char. You willingly chained yourself