How To Get Closure From A Narcissist
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- Опубліковано 25 сер 2021
- In today's video I will share how to get closure from a narcissist? Discover the top ten ways that have worked for me and my clients.
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Yesterday I felt like crying. Today I am smiling, and not expecting anyone else to make me happy.
Thank you Kenny. The devil will keep you ruminating and victimized. I am so glad I learned that I have to advocate for myself in letting people in my life. I am getting stronger. I binge watch Impractical Jokers to stay sane.
I used to watch that show all the time as well to keep myself safe and sane👏😁
The narcissist that broke me open, helped me see the people in my life that were also manipulating, gaslighting and abusing me, it was sad, but I had to let go of more than one relationship, but it was a good thing.
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“Normal is an illusion. What is normal to the spider is chaos to the fly.”
I find things that I enjoy. I recently found out I am a good bread maker. I also am working on mastering my interests. Baking interests me. I watch videos on icing and frosting baked goods. I also am retired from the medical field and found my gift in life. My love and understanding of dogs led me to dog sitting. I have a few regulars pups and get great joy. I'm also getting paid for something I enjoy. The positive feedback from the happy pups and their parents gives me positive affirmationtions.
The music one is amazing. My nex constantly listened to Taylor Swift break up songs and that’s when I was sure the discard was imminent.
Yes, take responsibility for why we were with an unhealthy person. We need to fix ourselves. I've realized why I put up with it. My fault also. It takes two to tango.
"love the magical memories, but not love the person!" 👍
Brilliant idea focus on anything to take your mind off the horrible relationship..it really works thanks
Yes it does!
I knew I chose mine. I knew it from the beginning, it was just easier not to see it, easier to look the other way, easier to justify, and make excuses. The only person I fooled is myself, but at the end it lead me here watching this. And I’m great full for that, but it still hurts ,I guess that’s why I turned the other way, because I knew it will. Thank you for the teaching.
Thank you for helping me to get closure Kenny. I’ve forgiven myself for the huge part I played by ignoring the red flags and very clear information I had right in front of me. I now thank “him” for helping me to heal by realizing I need to heal from the inside out!
You are so welcome
You always make my brain go bing!!!! Focus on me!!!!!
awesome
Yes, you are right!!!
I have just started listening to your series and find it very valuable. Many thanks for your direct and clear message. It cultivates accountability, which was a huge step for me to start the healing process. Appreciate YOU 🙏🏾
10% on me, dang! You're good.
What if you didn't pick the narcist, but the narcist is your older brother. I actually feel sad for him. It must be very painful and lonely to be this way. Even though I love my older brother, I stay far away from him. I chose the people I want in my life now. I still have a lot to learn on boundaries, thanks to you.
I do take responsibility and it make me angry to think about how many times my body was fighting with me to stop letting him back and on and on till we got marry.
Yes life of misery 18 years of pain.
Thank you so much
Excellent advice. Thank you. Been 21 years and mine tried to sneak in last Christmas. Triggered. I'm learning now. It was time.
I think you were speaking of The Big Bang Theory.
That’s the one 😁
The big bang theory. Mine has been auto racing, I’ve always loved it and now I’m watching hours of it. And I am going to thank you again Kenny, this is another video I needed to see.
WOW love your practical advice!
Glad it was helpful!
Thank You. Brilliant information.
Glad it was helpful!
Yes, divert your thought immediately. That goes for anything negative. For me, focusing on the past e.g. Wishing I could have done different to alleviate my current situation does not work. I'm accepting the here and now and making myself happier.
Thanks for sharing!
A few months ago I found this and lately I've been trying to find this one. Awesome stuff and you say it so well. Honesty and accountability have really helped me heal.
Glad it was helpful!
Learning about the narc can help you leave, just don’t wait until you know everything or it can be analysis paralysis.
This is so true!!! I attracked the Narc because I wanted to a Narc so I could recreate my childhood with my mother (Narc) I wanted to control ghe Narc and fix my childhood or I wanted to take all my anger out on tge new Narc maybe both.....I had to accept my part in order to get better and STOP being a victim so I could chose to live not just exist!
Hi Kenny, thank you for opening up and sharing how you found closure. That was extremely helpful.
You bet
Thank you ❤
You're welcome 😊
You can’t change the narcissist’s perspective, but you can change your perception of needing their approval and they will change for good.
This is hard to hear but I'm interested to know more. I haven't given a moment to consider where I went wrong. I wonder where I did/how to go about that thought process.
Knowledge is power baby ...I wish yall well ...now that I'm well educated in sychology therapist!!! Even though I don't yet get my license I will clarify myself as a graduate on narcs abuse I will be a utuber as well so that will wake up millions of people who are sleeping if I don't wake them up from their sleep God might not forgive me even though I'm so sure he will forgive me as I'm so sure his the forgive and the protecter ..I just wanna give people wisdom so that they live a happy ever after life ....
Do you have any videos about narcissistic siblings? I wanted to learn more about the topic from that perspective. Thank you.
That’s a great question. Unfortunately no, I haven’t done any videos on that specific topic
@@kennyweiss okay. Thank you for getting back to me.
Hi Kenny pls help me... i hv brokeup with my toxic ex almost 2 years, but still almost everyday im watching my phine whether they are online or not. Pls help i want closer 🙏💐
My mom was a Narcissist. And at the end of her life, the NARCS she created, she pointed out to me, because they abused her.
I dont think its a good thing about learning about this shit
Not sure where you get the idea that women have thousands of offers from men. Say what?? Lol I haven't been approached by a man for decades. Oh sure, some occasionally flirt with off-color remarks, but approached respectfully, by a single guy? Just doesn't happen. Maybe for others, but not this woman.
Funny lady!
And here here no masses of men approaching me either. Made me laugh u did.
Bs. No child chooses a narcissist parent