Timestamps: 1:54 - Question #1: How does a therapist feel when a patient gets mad at them in session? Nothing threatening or personal, but things like copping an attitude, getting sarcastic… 9:31 - Question #2: What are the things that can cause us to have attachment issues (other than abuse/neglect from our primary caregiver)? Can toxic friendships and having been bullied as a child and teenager cause us… 27:32 - Question #3: Can you talk about avoidant attachment style (or avoidant personality? What’s the difference?) stemming from childhood trauma? I thought I was doing fine looking at others going through the periods of abusive… 40:30 - Question #4: Can a singular "small" event, such as your dad kicking you as a kid, be considered a trauma? Or what if its combined with a bunch of small things happening occasionally over many years - like my dad slapping me, my parents yelling at me, telling me I'm stupid, worthless, etc… 45:16 - Question #5: I feel like I struggle to feel any feelings towards any other person. It's like I don't care about anybody and there is no emotional reaction when I see someone. Like I'd meet up with a friend but it wouldn't matter if I saw them or I… 52:11 - Question #6: I’ve just recently started talking about my self harm urges and self harm in therapy but I’m struggling to really get into it. How common is it to downplay how often the urges are, or how recently I’ve engaged in those types o… 58:09 - Question #7: How do I know if I need a break from therapy or if I should change my therapist? I've been with my therapist for over a year and while in the beginning I could draw a lot from our discussions… 1:06:26 - Question #8: Is it normal that after sessions with my therapist I spend a lot of time running through conversations in my head? It usually starts with things I may say or bring up, but I find myself answering for my therapist too… 1:11:34 - Question #9: How do you deal with „second hand“ trauma (if that even is a thing)? about two months ago I witnessed cops having to tell my friend and her mom that their brother/son committed suicide… 1:15:11 - Question #10: I’m wondering why I was never informed of my diagnoses even once after years of therapy! I wasn’t aware of my diagnoses until I downloaded an app where I can view my health records and I was shocked to find Gender Dysphoria on there... Thank you for doing this podcast, Kati!
I learn so much about myself (and others) by listening to these podcasts. It acts as a supplement to my weekly therapy sessions and helps a lot. Thank you.
In Germany we have a saying for when you reached your capacity... It goes like "Das Fass zum überlaufen bringen" which means that a single drop of water can cause the container to overflow
It took me having my social security disability hearing to find out I had been diagnosed with a failed back surgery, I broke out into tears because it had been over a year since my back surgery and I was still completely baffled why I was worse than I was before and I got to hear this from a California judge instead of my doctor. Regular physicians do not always tell people what they're diagnosed with consistently
Re: having conversation with therapist in my head. #8? I actually don't see what is wrong with it. I see it as me being able to process things on my own, or begin to. If I can say things to myself that I know she would say, thats a sure step towards health. My therapist totally knows I do it and I incorporate it into therapy and we joke about it. "So and so did this and you weren't there but we already talked about it and this is what you said...then this is what I said...and then you said this and it pissed me off..." 😁 And she will usually laugh because I was spot on "you know me so well." Or "and I would add this" or "why would it piss you off if that was really said to you, by anyone?" Sometimes "yikes, I don't think me or a therapist would ever judge you as harshly as you judge yourself." She will use that as a jumping off point to ask deeper questions. It really shortens the time it can take me to talk about something hard. And helps me a lot to talk about something say, embarrassing, if I have kind of practiced how to say it, what her response might be, think about all that is going thru my head and get to the core even on my own. Then in minutes I tell her the "session we had in my head", where I ended up and then we can go much deeper more quickly as we can start where I left off. I would not want to diagnose this as if it's wrong esp like OCD or even anxiety. I think it's what people who don't have Therapists do in a way with many conversations they've had throughout the day, or "I should have said" after a disagreement like we ALL do. It's not "diagnosable" really right? Isn't it growth? Isn't it an adjunct to our mental health that we are figuring stuff out for ourselves. I have no problem telling my therapist all this stuff. Intimacy: into me see. I am not half in therapy. I'm all in. Nothing off limits. It's healing time. If there is something that's hard to say, I tell her it's hard or I leave it as a doorknob issue or ask her to add it to the list for the future, with some keywords. It's like a bookmark to go back to. I know I have to do it eventually, but just not right now. Or maybe until I practice and it feels easier now. Although, these head convos are never planned. Always spontaneous. Btw, these head sessions are usually out loud conversations (I live alone!) Esp doing dishes I find this happens, or folding laundry, or driving. I think it's very normal to review things we have said, wished we had said, or how to word things we want to say. What better way to know we are healing than to be able to say to ourselves what a therapist might say? 😁👍🏽
Hiii. So I was the one who asked question 8. Thanks so much for your comment it was quite helpful. For me however it is taking up an unhealthy proportion of my time. Especially leading up to sessions. Usually leading to me not being able to sleep the night before. That's what makes it unhealthy. I definitely think it's anxiety driven in my own situation. I would bring it up in therapy but unfortunately I suffer quite badly from memory issues as part of my depression so I'm finding I completely forgot by the time it comes to sessions. I've tried writing it down but often it's weirdly difficult to put into proper sentences? I don't know? I'm jumping so fast from thing to thing and it's mostly subconsciously done which I'm not entirely sure that works? Sounds stupid. I don't think I really understand what I'm on about so I don't expect anyone else to. But anyways. Thank you so much for taking the time to comment! Greatly appreciated.
Kati, you summed up what I believe about love at first sight. In love with the idea of someone. Any idea needs time to develop and become a reality. Maybe some people just get lucky, but trusting to luck is pretty risky.
Hi Kati. I appreciate your content. I just wanted to share a different perspective to romantic vs platonic love. You utilized a desire to ‘make out’ as a differentiator, however in my experience sexual attraction is only one potential component to romantic love. With people who are asexual or identify as grey-a, the physical component is not necessarily integrated into intimacy and romantic love. Vulnerability, desire to be close emotionally, and share oneself with can mark romantic love. And these feelings do not have to be physically expressed to be romantic. Just my experience!
So the same thing happened to me with the last question on this video. I look at my health records online to make sure everything is going through insurance properly. I found out online that I was diagnosed with chronic PTSD. I was super pissed that I found out this way and kind of had a panic attack/breakdown about it privately. I asked my therapist about what I found calmly and she became visibly upset/irritated. She went on to say that a diagnosis is not my identity. So from her statement I think there's a lot of fear from therapists about clients taking that diagnosis and being so attached to it. I told myself that I should have stated up front to her that if and when there's a diagnosis then I want to be informed because it's my right. That would have been proactive on my part and also good communication. Personally, knowing my diagnosis helped me to understand what was going on with me at the time...and all those years. It helped me to move passed much of it.
Thanks Kati for your podcasts! In regards to question 8 ruminative thoughts and the difference between OCD and anxiety, doing short full body shakes (in private of course!) is a great idea! I will try it for my intrusive thoughts. Thks.
Thank you for answering my question(s) (#2)! I noticed however that you missed to answer the second to last part ("Can having been bullied as a child and teenager cause a person to have difficulty feeling romantic attraction towards someone that's the same age as them and almost only feel romantic attraction towards older people, or is that caused by something else?") Any chance we could get that answered too, in next week's podcast e.g.? 😊
Kati looking very nice in this podcast that's a nice pink blouse and your voice is always soft and calming still wish you was a therapist in the uk where I live your great at what you do x
@@elizabethbed649 hello thank you for your reply I have only just seen your comment as I haven't been on here nice to hear from you I'm honestly not great dealing with alout invmy life right now hopefully catch you next time take care x
@@elizabethbed649 I have posted a question I tried getting picked last week but it didn't get any likes would you like my question please be much appreciated x
Accomplishment can feel hollow if we look at our accomplishments and don't have anyone to share them with. That thought alone makes pursuing goals depressing if you know no one will be there to look back on things with you. At least that's how it is for me..
Hello everyone here in the comments and the ask kati anything community how is everyone hope people are coping ok I am sad my question didn't get chosen because it was very important to me and was hard to share I will post it again next time hopeing to reach out to people here and hopefully kati take care people xx
Hi Nikki, I'm sorry that your question didn't get selected. What did you ask? I'll try to keep an eye for it next time and give it a thumbs up. Good luck! I hope you have a lovely day.
I know it feels bad when you share something that feels hard and it doesn't get a response. I have felt that too. Please ask it again next week. I will give it a like if I find it... ❤️
Bless you. If it helps I posted the same question for at least 4/5 weeks and it got plenty of likes this time and made it in so try not to take it personally? It might just be people haven't seen it. UA-cam has an odd way of ordering the comments. Keep posting my friend, it'll make it up there soon. I'll make sure to like if I see your question. 💞
Thank you to all of you that have taken the time to read my comment and have sent me replays back. I haven't been on here much I have only just seen your comment s I have re posted my question to kati I asked last. week please look for my name in the question s community tab. thank you again all of you means alout I appreciate it xx
For #8 I do the same thing, but also before and during. Part of me doing it is to try and find a way tobmanipulate the conversation to what I want to talk about. Durring session i will have multiple conversations going on in my head to help manipulate the conversation and so I can plan what I will say in advance. I do the same thing with other people in public, even if I don't talk to them.😂
Hi Katie. I feel like I am still grieving my last counselor, even though the counselor that I have now is great. I cry anytime I drive by (the last counselor) his office, drive through the town he lives in or will choke up to even talk about him at all. Is this normal behavior? The reason I ask is that the counselor that I have been seeing for the last year is kind and gracious and very understanding. But I fear having this overwhelming attachment to him also and can become anxious whenever he might have to change around his schedule, or he takes time off etc. I have a real deep abandonment issues (still at 61, do we ever get over it?).
I have another theory for the last question as to why the therapist put she diagnosed her patient with gender dysmorphia but never told her patient. A psych professor I had years back told me many therapists like to avoid diagnosing because it is like labeling the patient. Once they hear that diagnosis it can feel finalized, restraining and maybe even a self fulfilling prophecy. But it sounds like insurance companies need that "diagnosis" so maybe they just put what they suspected but didnt want to tell the patient because they were unsure. Also gender dysmorphia sounds like incongruence with gender vs identity and maybe the therapist felt like u would also have a diagnosis vs identity issue. Just my thoughts and regardless she really should have told her patient.
Kati, thanks a lot for these podcasts. I've a question too. When I was 13 (now I'm 22) I used to journal my feelings in my dairies. Those diaries were then found by my mom who burnt them in front of me because they contained stuff about how I feel about love (me and my family is straight, nuclear family). Now, when you say I should journal about things when they get on my nerves, I get traumatised again! What can I do to process this trauma ?
How can I deal with my pshycologist moving to another hospital and me having to continue my sessions with a new pshycologist? I really liked her and trusted her to talk about everything and anything. Any tips?
Dear Kati 🙏 Happy July 💃🎂🎉🎈 Thank you so very much. I love listening to you. I wish you and Sean a Happy 4th of July🌻🌟🏁💥🎇 i’m going to order your book Traumatized which is coming out on the day that I filed for divorce on the 7 Final divorce on 21 September 13 years ago. I’m very excited. 🙏⭐️❤️
Is this where people ask questions to get chosen for the episodes? I’ve been watching Kati’s main channel for years but I’m new to the podcast and might want to ask a question someday.
Where do we ask our questions for AKA? Why would one watch a movie 24/7 when possible I always watch the Harry Potter movies. I have some sexual abuse from my past and I never ever want anything to do with sex or sexual foreplay. I don't even want to play with myself. Why is there so much I want to do. I want to workout I want to clean I want to shower but all I do is sit around all day and end up hating myself because I accomplish none of the things I've really been wanting to do.
Timestamps:
1:54 - Question #1: How does a therapist feel when a patient gets mad at them in session? Nothing threatening or personal, but things like copping an attitude, getting sarcastic…
9:31 - Question #2: What are the things that can cause us to have attachment issues (other than abuse/neglect from our primary caregiver)? Can toxic friendships and having been bullied as a child and teenager cause us…
27:32 - Question #3: Can you talk about avoidant attachment style (or avoidant personality? What’s the difference?) stemming from childhood trauma? I thought I was doing fine looking at others going through the periods of abusive…
40:30 - Question #4: Can a singular "small" event, such as your dad kicking you as a kid, be considered a trauma? Or what if its combined with a bunch of small things happening occasionally over many years - like my dad slapping me, my parents yelling at me, telling me I'm stupid, worthless, etc…
45:16 - Question #5: I feel like I struggle to feel any feelings towards any other person. It's like I don't care about anybody and there is no emotional reaction when I see someone. Like I'd meet up with a friend but it wouldn't matter if I saw them or I…
52:11 - Question #6: I’ve just recently started talking about my self harm urges and self harm in therapy but I’m struggling to really get into it. How common is it to downplay how often the urges are, or how recently I’ve engaged in those types o…
58:09 - Question #7: How do I know if I need a break from therapy or if I should change my therapist? I've been with my therapist for over a year and while in the beginning I could draw a lot from our discussions…
1:06:26 - Question #8: Is it normal that after sessions with my therapist I spend a lot of time running through conversations in my head? It usually starts with things I may say or bring up, but I find myself answering for my therapist too…
1:11:34 - Question #9: How do you deal with „second hand“ trauma (if that even is a thing)? about two months ago I witnessed cops having to tell my friend and her mom that their brother/son committed suicide…
1:15:11 - Question #10: I’m wondering why I was never informed of my diagnoses even once after years of therapy! I wasn’t aware of my diagnoses until I downloaded an app where I can view my health records and I was shocked to find Gender Dysphoria on there...
Thank you for doing this podcast, Kati!
I learn so much about myself (and others) by listening to these podcasts. It acts as a supplement to my weekly therapy sessions and helps a lot. Thank you.
In Germany we have a saying for when you reached your capacity... It goes like "Das Fass zum überlaufen bringen" which means that a single drop of water can cause the container to overflow
Great phrase :) thank you! Always ask a German if you need a feeling described haha!
In Italy is "La goccia che fa traboccare il vaso", it's the same meaning of the last straw.
La gota que derramó el vaso
Thanks Laura! perfect saying, how true at times!
Anyone else super satisfied with the wall detailing behind Kati being so symmetrical? 😂😍🥰
/💁🏼♀️\
my god, but her right shoulder (im not sure how to spell that) was always a liiiiittle bit off, it was KILLING me
Good morning everyone :)
Good morning! How is your day going so far?
Good morning :)
Good evening😁
Your voice is sooo refreshing
It took me having my social security disability hearing to find out I had been diagnosed with a failed back surgery, I broke out into tears because it had been over a year since my back surgery and I was still completely baffled why I was worse than I was before and I got to hear this from a California judge instead of my doctor. Regular physicians do not always tell people what they're diagnosed with consistently
Re: having conversation with therapist in my head. #8? I actually don't see what is wrong with it. I see it as me being able to process things on my own, or begin to. If I can say things to myself that I know she would say, thats a sure step towards health.
My therapist totally knows I do it and I incorporate it into therapy and we joke about it. "So and so did this and you weren't there but we already talked about it and this is what you said...then this is what I said...and then you said this and it pissed me off..." 😁 And she will usually laugh because I was spot on "you know me so well." Or "and I would add this" or "why would it piss you off if that was really said to you, by anyone?" Sometimes "yikes, I don't think me or a therapist would ever judge you as harshly as you judge yourself." She will use that as a jumping off point to ask deeper questions. It really shortens the time it can take me to talk about something hard. And helps me a lot to talk about something say, embarrassing, if I have kind of practiced how to say it, what her response might be, think about all that is going thru my head and get to the core even on my own. Then in minutes I tell her the "session we had in my head", where I ended up and then we can go much deeper more quickly as we can start where I left off.
I would not want to diagnose this as if it's wrong esp like OCD or even anxiety. I think it's what people who don't have Therapists do in a way with many conversations they've had throughout the day, or "I should have said" after a disagreement like we ALL do. It's not "diagnosable" really right? Isn't it growth? Isn't it an adjunct to our mental health that we are figuring stuff out for ourselves. I have no problem telling my therapist all this stuff. Intimacy: into me see. I am not half in therapy. I'm all in. Nothing off limits. It's healing time. If there is something that's hard to say, I tell her it's hard or I leave it as a doorknob issue or ask her to add it to the list for the future, with some keywords. It's like a bookmark to go back to. I know I have to do it eventually, but just not right now. Or maybe until I practice and it feels easier now. Although, these head convos are never planned. Always spontaneous.
Btw, these head sessions are usually out loud conversations (I live alone!) Esp doing dishes I find this happens, or folding laundry, or driving.
I think it's very normal to review things we have said, wished we had said, or how to word things we want to say.
What better way to know we are healing than to be able to say to ourselves what a therapist might say? 😁👍🏽
Hiii. So I was the one who asked question 8. Thanks so much for your comment it was quite helpful. For me however it is taking up an unhealthy proportion of my time. Especially leading up to sessions. Usually leading to me not being able to sleep the night before. That's what makes it unhealthy. I definitely think it's anxiety driven in my own situation.
I would bring it up in therapy but unfortunately I suffer quite badly from memory issues as part of my depression so I'm finding I completely forgot by the time it comes to sessions. I've tried writing it down but often it's weirdly difficult to put into proper sentences? I don't know? I'm jumping so fast from thing to thing and it's mostly subconsciously done which I'm not entirely sure that works? Sounds stupid. I don't think I really understand what I'm on about so I don't expect anyone else to.
But anyways. Thank you so much for taking the time to comment! Greatly appreciated.
idky but i just love the visualization of when Katie says, "pull the rip cord, im out of here - WAAAH"
I love this one too 👍
🤣
Kati, you summed up what I believe about love at first sight. In love with the idea of someone. Any idea needs time to develop and become a reality. Maybe some people just get lucky, but trusting to luck is pretty risky.
Kati, you have such a great way of explaining things!! Love it, thank you!
I'm halfway through this and already learned a lot of new things about myself! Thank you very much about your work!
pretty cool that there’s usually a theme every week haha :)
Hi Kati. I appreciate your content. I just wanted to share a different perspective to romantic vs platonic love. You utilized a desire to ‘make out’ as a differentiator, however in my experience sexual attraction is only one potential component to romantic love. With people who are asexual or identify as grey-a, the physical component is not necessarily integrated into intimacy and romantic love. Vulnerability, desire to be close emotionally, and share oneself with can mark romantic love. And these feelings do not have to be physically expressed to be romantic. Just my experience!
So the same thing happened to me with the last question on this video. I look at my health records online to make sure everything is going through insurance properly. I found out online that I was diagnosed with chronic PTSD. I was super pissed that I found out this way and kind of had a panic attack/breakdown about it privately. I asked my therapist about what I found calmly and she became visibly upset/irritated. She went on to say that a diagnosis is not my identity. So from her statement I think there's a lot of fear from therapists about clients taking that diagnosis and being so attached to it. I told myself that I should have stated up front to her that if and when there's a diagnosis then I want to be informed because it's my right. That would have been proactive on my part and also good communication. Personally, knowing my diagnosis helped me to understand what was going on with me at the time...and all those years. It helped me to move passed much of it.
Hey Kati! Thanks for the great videos!!!!
Thanks Kati for your podcasts! In regards to question 8 ruminative thoughts and the difference between OCD and anxiety, doing short full body shakes (in private of course!) is a great idea! I will try it for my intrusive thoughts. Thks.
Thank you for answering my question(s) (#2)! I noticed however that you missed to answer the second to last part ("Can having been bullied as a child and teenager cause a person to have difficulty feeling romantic attraction towards someone that's the same age as them and almost only feel romantic attraction towards older people, or is that caused by something else?")
Any chance we could get that answered too, in next week's podcast e.g.? 😊
Yay! I realised while listening.. I haven't said "I don't know" in therapy in ages 😁
Thank Kati & the community! All the questions & answers are always so informative. I pre ordered your new book! ❤️
Happy Thursday Kati Headed to therapy and Im ready to watch after!! Much love xoxo
Thank you Kati! This was very helpful❤️
Kati looking very nice in this podcast that's a nice pink blouse and your voice is always soft and calming still wish you was a therapist in the uk where I live your great at what you do x
Hey, good to see you Nikki :) How are you doing?
@@elizabethbed649 hello thank you for your reply I have only just seen your comment as I haven't been on here nice to hear from you I'm honestly not great dealing with alout invmy life right now hopefully catch you next time take care x
@@elizabethbed649 I have posted a question I tried getting picked last week but it didn't get any likes would you like my question please be much appreciated x
OMG! The full body shake works! I just did it.
I had been catastophizing fir hours and tried it. Maybe that’s why dogs are nicer people.
Thank you Katie!!!!!!!!
Accomplishment can feel hollow if we look at our accomplishments and don't have anyone to share them with. That thought alone makes pursuing goals depressing if you know no one will be there to look back on things with you. At least that's how it is for me..
Hello everyone here in the comments and the ask kati anything community how is everyone hope people are coping ok I am sad my question didn't get chosen because it was very important to me and was hard to share I will post it again next time hopeing to reach out to people here and hopefully kati take care people xx
Hi Nikki,
I'm sorry that your question didn't get selected. What did you ask? I'll try to keep an eye for it next time and give it a thumbs up. Good luck! I hope you have a lovely day.
I know it feels bad when you share something that feels hard and it doesn't get a response. I have felt that too. Please ask it again next week. I will give it a like if I find it... ❤️
Bless you. If it helps I posted the same question for at least 4/5 weeks and it got plenty of likes this time and made it in so try not to take it personally? It might just be people haven't seen it. UA-cam has an odd way of ordering the comments.
Keep posting my friend, it'll make it up there soon.
I'll make sure to like if I see your question. 💞
Thank you to all of you that have taken the time to read my comment and have sent me replays back. I haven't been on here much I have only just seen your comment s I have re posted my question to kati I asked last. week please look for my name in the question s community tab. thank you again all of you means alout I appreciate it xx
@@nikkimckay860 sure Nikki, I'll go and do it now. I hope that your week is starting off well!
For #8 I do the same thing, but also before and during. Part of me doing it is to try and find a way tobmanipulate the conversation to what I want to talk about. Durring session i will have multiple conversations going on in my head to help manipulate the conversation and so I can plan what I will say in advance. I do the same thing with other people in public, even if I don't talk to them.😂
That dance analogy is on-point...so true...unfortunately
great video!
Hi Katie. I feel like I am still grieving my last counselor, even though the counselor that I have now is great. I cry anytime I drive by (the last counselor) his office, drive through the town he lives in or will choke up to even talk about him at all. Is this normal behavior? The reason I ask is that the counselor that I have been seeing for the last year is kind and gracious and very understanding. But I fear having this overwhelming attachment to him also and can become anxious whenever he might have to change around his schedule, or he takes time off etc. I have a real deep abandonment issues (still at 61, do we ever get over it?).
I have another theory for the last question as to why the therapist put she diagnosed her patient with gender dysmorphia but never told her patient. A psych professor I had years back told me many therapists like to avoid diagnosing because it is like labeling the patient. Once they hear that diagnosis it can feel finalized, restraining and maybe even a self fulfilling prophecy. But it sounds like insurance companies need that "diagnosis" so maybe they just put what they suspected but didnt want to tell the patient because they were unsure. Also gender dysmorphia sounds like incongruence with gender vs identity and maybe the therapist felt like u would also have a diagnosis vs identity issue. Just my thoughts and regardless she really should have told her patient.
Kati, thanks a lot for these podcasts. I've a question too. When I was 13 (now I'm 22) I used to journal my feelings in my dairies. Those diaries were then found by my mom who burnt them in front of me because they contained stuff about how I feel about love (me and my family is straight, nuclear family). Now, when you say I should journal about things when they get on my nerves, I get traumatised again! What can I do to process this trauma ?
Love your show. Your intro music is kinda long. You give such amazing and sound information. I feel lucky I found your channel 😊
How can I deal with my pshycologist moving to another hospital and me having to continue my sessions with a new pshycologist? I really liked her and trusted her to talk about everything and anything. Any tips?
Omg this is the podcast for meeee
Whats the best way to deal with/treat my ocd panic disorder and recovering from anorexia b/p subtype?
Sean and Kati, please accept my condolences. ❤️
-Lightning fan ⚡️
What happened?
Dear Kati 🙏 Happy July 💃🎂🎉🎈 Thank you so very much. I love listening to you. I wish you and Sean a Happy 4th of July🌻🌟🏁💥🎇 i’m going to order your book Traumatized which is coming out on the day that I filed for divorce on the 7 Final divorce on 21 September 13 years ago. I’m very excited. 🙏⭐️❤️
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The answer to question 2 is making me think about the bachelor franchise 😂😂😂. Do they all have attachments issues?
Is this where people ask questions to get chosen for the episodes? I’ve been watching Kati’s main channel for years but I’m new to the podcast and might want to ask a question someday.
Hi! She asks for questions on this page through the community tab on Sundays at 8 am CST.
@@miamiggwilson4849 thank you!
Where do we ask our questions for AKA?
Why would one watch a movie 24/7 when possible I always watch the Harry Potter movies.
I have some sexual abuse from my past and I never ever want anything to do with sex or sexual foreplay. I don't even want to play with myself.
Why is there so much I want to do. I want to workout I want to clean I want to shower but all I do is sit around all day and end up hating myself because I accomplish none of the things I've really been wanting to do.
Thanks gorgeous for your continued podcasts.
Rogaje333 :-)
I think I disagree with the answer at 26 minutes. Some things we can only get from healthy attachments and we cannot give it to ourselves.
Hahaha at 1.20 does the lady realise she let out a curse word .
You look so beautiful in this pink colour
What have you been doing lately?
I'm so early today. 😁
Do you have a facial tick.