WOW DIDN'T KNOW SHE WOULD CRY 😢 ! BLUE OCTOBER- FEAR (ACOUSTIC) (PATRON REQUEST)

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  • @HalfAndJai
    @HalfAndJai  3 роки тому +61

    What it do HalfAndJai Family! If you’re apart of the GoodVibesTribe smash this like button and comment #GoodVibesTribe! See y’all next video! 🤟🏾🤟🏾

    • @theNOVEMBERman1116
      @theNOVEMBERman1116 3 роки тому

      #goodvibes Tribe!!! In the building 😃💯

    • @cw1956
      @cw1956 3 роки тому +1

      Like Mr. Video said recently and over whelmed him was music hits you in the feels in a way some people do not understand or expect sometimes too. I would like to see you guys bridge into some Emo music people assume that means sad and emotional but it doesn’t. Sometimes it hits a certain spot people don’t understand I think she would, you should check out The Used - Taste of Ink. There is a spot of release in metal, emo and rock music in general of being allowed to be angry, crazy and misunderstood that people don’t understand sometimes. Even Marilyn Manson if you real want to dive in.

    • @shaunlaughter4478
      @shaunlaughter4478 3 роки тому +1

      What it do Half and Jai?! Listen up Half, if y'all liked this song then you should check out a song he wrote called King. You could dedicate it our girl Jai. I know she'll love it. His name is Justin Furstenfeld. Check him out. I love what y'all do. Please keep it up! I'll catch y'all in the next video! ✌✌

    • @cecepsopian9495
      @cecepsopian9495 3 роки тому

      Please react video by ALIF BA TA he's the best finger style guitar from indonesia,,he is incredible,,,

    • @cvolk08
      @cvolk08 3 роки тому +1

      I feel your pain girl ❤ i pray we all overcome the fears that hold us back. You made this big boy teary eyed! 🙏

  • @amberavant3634
    @amberavant3634 3 роки тому +218

    The lead singer of this band is an incredible person. I went to a meet n greet of theirs two years ago. My friend Zach who passed away when I was a teenager showed me blue October. And I went to see them on Zach’s birthday & told them about it. They signed a poster, telling him happy birthday. And announced they were bringing the house down in his honor during the show. He stood in front of me and sang “I hope you’re happy”, holding my hand basically the entire performance. Meant the world to me. I felt like Zach was right there beside us. Never felt anything close to that in my life. Justin is amazing.

    • @rodneysharp7058
      @rodneysharp7058 3 роки тому +13

      Awesome story....and I too believe in Justin's healing power!!

    • @Justamy1973
      @Justamy1973 3 роки тому +11

      That just gave me the ugly cry tears..”I hope you’re happy”

    • @karaa7595
      @karaa7595 3 роки тому +11

      ❤ Justin is a beautiful soul. Thanks for sharing this story with us.

    • @GrandToast
      @GrandToast 3 роки тому +9

      Im sitting outside bestbuy right now waiting for it to open. Now im crying. Thank you for the comment!

    • @jasonstell9348
      @jasonstell9348 3 роки тому +6

      I Love Justin. I have seen them about 8 times. I've even taken my daughter who at the time was 6 to see them. When he playred Jump rope he pointed to her and said "this is for you little angel" And I have a video on youtube of it. I have done meet and greets and i even saw him eating dinner before a show in VA And he told my wife to come in and take pics with them. Truly Awesome person!

  • @shannawilliams9172
    @shannawilliams9172 3 роки тому +13

    This was the power of blue October... theres a blue song for everyone... welcome to the blue family!! 💙💙💙💙✊✊✊

  • @mrsdracon9799
    @mrsdracon9799 9 місяців тому +1

    Y’all are amazing. Thank you for choosing to listen to Blue. They (especially Justin), have saved so many people just because we finally feel like someone understands. You are a beautiful couple.

  • @ThePettySagittarius
    @ThePettySagittarius 3 місяці тому

    Nothing Like Blue October to bring you to your knees with their words and vocals. My favorite band. Concerts are spiritual. You won't understand till you go to one.

  • @victorarana4799
    @victorarana4799 3 роки тому +10

    Blue October is a very powerful band. Justin Furstefeld (lead singer) writes all his song from his personal experience and his battle with depression, addiction, anxiety, and heartbreak. His whole discography is a journey from dark to light. Always remember, like the song said, "I used to fall, but now I get back up!" Thank you for this video.

  • @MrSnowman6869
    @MrSnowman6869 Рік тому +3

    This man has gotten me through so many hard times in my life. Ex wife,kids and everything else life has to throw at you.

  • @JoeyTen
    @JoeyTen 2 роки тому +8

    Damn, I related with her so much, I might have teared up a little. She's fortunate to have someone who can understand the anxiety, despite not experiencing as much

  • @youmustpaythetrolltoll8517
    @youmustpaythetrolltoll8517 3 роки тому +1

    Seeing him on the open book tour was a deeply moving experience. Won VIP tickets. Got to meet him, get a poster signed and and right before his manager was about to take a picture I said "weird how we've got are arms around each other like we're old friends" he said "awww we can be friends!" and gave me a full on hug so I matched it and ended up with a great picture and memory. Fear may be my favorite Blue October song as well, great choice for a reaction video. Love you guys!

  • @andy60234
    @andy60234 9 місяців тому +1

    This is the cancer fight song so many who have it listen to this song everyday. Blue October is just a great band. I first heard them around 2010 and been hooked

  • @elizabethCorkins83
    @elizabethCorkins83 3 роки тому +1

    OMG I LOVE LOVE LOVE BLUE OCTOBER SO MUCH...
    BEEN A FAN AT LEAST 15 YEARS.

  • @paulgrable7096
    @paulgrable7096 3 роки тому +1

    Jai, he overcomes the fear every day still. He talks about this in many interviews. Pay attention to the words.

  • @Mark_Mcgillvary_buckfast1994
    @Mark_Mcgillvary_buckfast1994 9 місяців тому +1

    That song is just pure emotional truth

  • @richardplunkett2550
    @richardplunkett2550 3 роки тому +7

    Welcome to the Blue October experience. Justin writes from the heart. He has a way of capturing emotion in his lyrics. Absolutely love Blue October

  • @rb-mq8qu
    @rb-mq8qu 2 роки тому

    Justin and the whole band are the most sincere and kind people. I have met them numerous times and love them.

  • @tanyagonzalez3864
    @tanyagonzalez3864 3 роки тому +4

    I love everything about this! I have horrible anxiety and depression and this band has saved me in so many ways. So awesome to see him touching the soul of another. 💙

  • @uscroosters21
    @uscroosters21 3 роки тому +54

    The raw, realness and emotion here was beautiful. You two are good souls and you have a new fan! I’ll be watching. Keep doing your thing, guys. ❤️

    • @HalfAndJai
      @HalfAndJai  3 роки тому +5

      D D thank you for joining the #GoodVibesTribe 🤟🏾🤟🏾

  • @mrfantastik8168
    @mrfantastik8168 4 місяці тому

    Can't count the amount of times I cried in the shower under running water listening to this song! Love Justin, I appreciate God inspired him to write this Song🙏🏻

  • @SAGE_Dust
    @SAGE_Dust 3 роки тому +1

    Please don’t cry 😞 you can relax 🥰 you got nothing to prove to any of us...you be you... both of you are great just the way y’all are 😊🙃🥰

  • @nicolebeimel228
    @nicolebeimel228 3 роки тому +15

    Thank you for appreciating Blue October. These songs have helped me through so much of my life.

  • @danflak2370
    @danflak2370 3 роки тому

    Justin totally pulls every nerve out in every song he performs, this band is and always has been amazing!!

  • @joeyfulmer3493
    @joeyfulmer3493 3 роки тому +66

    The great Justin Furstenfeld AMAZING artist! Has also overcame things that break ALOT of people especially artists...y'all would definitely like more of Blue October's work! There is actually a documentary about Justin's battles its called "Get back up" definitely worth a watch! Beautiful reaction.

  • @careycravescinema_xoxo
    @careycravescinema_xoxo 2 роки тому +4

    I saw them live in concert and they were so intimate with the crowd. They make u feel special and u feel unity when they perform. Justin is incredible all around. As an artist and as a human being

  • @amyt9362
    @amyt9362 10 місяців тому

    Sweetheart… go to a show and be TRANSFORMED when this man pours it ALLLLL out on stage! Amazing… his story…and it continues

  • @robertwallace5471
    @robertwallace5471 Рік тому

    My fav band of all time. So underappreciated or known.....best lyrics and performances and no one, no one, connects with the audience like Justin. I grew up maybe 10miles from him in Alief, TX back in the 80's but never heard of him then...and apparently he was pretty big locally. Was introduced to him 5 years ago by a friend and now I travel to see them as much as I can.

  • @frostedframerate1055
    @frostedframerate1055 Рік тому +1

    To have shared such a deep and personal part of yourself with all of us is the showing that you are overcoming fear. Keep on keeping on!

  • @joycollins2772
    @joycollins2772 3 роки тому +48

    I have anxiety and depression. Just from things that have happened in my life. I feel your pain. You made me cry. And this song is beautiful. 🖤🖤🖤

  • @anthonyleger68
    @anthonyleger68 3 роки тому +8

    Sweetheart, you are not alone. I am dual diagnosed with anxiety and depression. And I am in recovery. When I heard this song, I broken down. He put a face on it for me. And it gave me strength. Knowing your enemy is when the battle can be won. Keep on fighting.

  • @jsevris
    @jsevris Рік тому +1

    I feel very similarly to you when in comes to anxiety, when I hear this song I feel better, but the fear always seems to creep back in, and we have to constantly renew our strength to overcome.

  • @juggleyourballsoff
    @juggleyourballsoff 3 роки тому

    Girl you are beautiful and dude please protect her at all cost. You are one in a million that knows what you got. The most beautiful thing I got out of this video is that you have her back.

  • @lisamonalisa9288
    @lisamonalisa9288 Рік тому

    He is an amazing singer!
    You can overcome that anxiety.. one breath at a time, one day at a time… hang in there you are worthy!!!! I’m sure things you can do that he struggles with, he just may not show it. Stop comparing yourself with others.. as you get older- you won’t care, cause the ones that love you will take you as you are :)

  • @Amberhx1
    @Amberhx1 3 роки тому +5

    When my anxiety and bipolar depression gets too much to handle I blast this song on repeat. It actually relieves a lot of the pain.

  • @shawntoups3220
    @shawntoups3220 9 місяців тому +1

    Don’t give anxiety a voice and never let it back you in a corner 😎

  • @michaelyoungstrom9412
    @michaelyoungstrom9412 3 місяці тому

    It's okay love. I've been diagnosed with depression and anxiety since junior year high school. I did a high school talent show on acoustic guitar, Slide by The Goo Goo Dolls, and was AFRAID but I did it. The whole auditorium stood up and applauded including teachers I had. This was back in the early 2000's.

  • @simply417guy
    @simply417guy Рік тому +2

    I absolutely love that it brought out that emotion in Jai so quickly, I cry every time I hear it and I’m a 56 year old guy with 2 grown kiddos. Justin has been through some dark dark times, like I have, like a lot of us in the Blue October family have. I listened to this song 100’s of times when I went through my divorce, I know it by heart and it’s my favorite song by Blue October. I’ve seen them perform it 3 times live as a band and I saw Justin perform it on his solo tour, it’s absolutely incredible 🥰 (I’m crying now 😏)

  • @scottmarra7280
    @scottmarra7280 3 роки тому

    True love...ANY man who gets up to get a tissue for the one he loves...that's a real man and true love. Both of ya...shine on.

  • @stellahall8321
    @stellahall8321 3 роки тому

    You complement each other. He brings you up you pull him down . Not in a bad way. You need each other....for balance. You guys are wonderful!

  • @melaniecascio5933
    @melaniecascio5933 3 роки тому

    My favorite band EVER. They have soooo many amazing songs, pleaseeeess do more!!!!!!
    Justin, that singer has suffered from severe depression and anxiety his whole life and eventually went to rehab where he eventually reforms God and learned how to love himself and his family.

  • @loljoyful1
    @loljoyful1 Рік тому +1

    You two are a beautiful couple!!!!! Thanks for demonstrating this for me to see!!!

  • @loraharvey6740
    @loraharvey6740 3 роки тому

    As I said in a previous comment. My wife passed at 38 yrs old due to cancer. We were married just days before her passing. We knew each other all our lives though. She heard this song for the first time during one of Billy's live streams. She instantly took to it. It was played in the house everyday and sometimes more than once . It helped her to calm that fear of what was to come and the unknown. When she passed she was at peace and no fear showed in her. I think this had a hand in that. Jai you hang in there. Look to this as an anthem for yourself. Lora had anxiety also. It is very real and painful. But it can be overcome. Don't force it and don't rush it. Play this as many times a day as you need to. You will get there. Love y'all.

  • @ryanjackson846
    @ryanjackson846 3 роки тому +5

    I have severe ptsd and anxiety from serving in 2 wars. There are a few songs out there that have let me live a happy and beautiful life. It took a long time for me to understand exactly what Justin is singing about. It's wonderful how bright and beautiful life is. I hope you get past it and can thrive!!!

    • @kallandracampbell2105
      @kallandracampbell2105 3 роки тому

      I have ptsd too. Have you heard of SGB therapy? It did wonders for me

  • @GrandToast
    @GrandToast 3 роки тому

    You really, REALLY, should dive into Blue October, so much emotion, so much talent.

  • @BionicLemming
    @BionicLemming 3 роки тому

    I love Blue October and Justin because the music is written from a genuine heart.

  • @WizardPandora
    @WizardPandora 3 роки тому +41

    One of my favourite, along with Worry list, and Hate me, they also have a brand new song called The Weatherman

    • @mattcoulthard3166
      @mattcoulthard3166 3 роки тому

      chameleon boy!!

    • @loraharvey6740
      @loraharvey6740 3 роки тому +1

      Love you Mrs. Wizard

    • @pcorral82
      @pcorral82 3 роки тому +2

      The worry list. That's a rough song to listen too. Great song though

    • @fergk5527
      @fergk5527 3 роки тому

      I've haven't came across your both channel until now. I want to say thank you for showing this video.
      This video has had an empact on me for years now and completely transformed my life... back then. Unfortunately I can't say so much for these days as I'm a complete alcoholic.
      Thank you for sharing a song that's so meaningful.

    • @Calexicoxoxo
      @Calexicoxoxo 3 роки тому +2

      @@fergk5527 everyday presents a new opportunity. Justin has been doing the 12 steps live sessions through the pandemic lockdown and they are recorded on his channel...also they launched get back up TV. He is taking you through the steps with his heart, music, and stories. So even if you aren't ready....it is gooooood! I'm not an alcoholic but married to one so I also want you to know you are loveable, despite what any negative voice may be shouting in your head. 💙

  • @Gesseran11
    @Gesseran11 2 роки тому

    I feared, i struggled, i conquered and i GOT BACK UP! I am a massive Blue October fan. Love from Norway

  • @Bostons_Freak_Flag
    @Bostons_Freak_Flag Рік тому

    You guys covered Blue !!! Damn , good looks !!! "Light you up" by Blue October is a song that will tug your heart strings guys . It's about addiction . I overcome that disgusting mental battle 8 years ago when I lost my best friend (cousin) , my sister , many many friends and almost died a few times . God took care of me for some reason and this group is HUGE on keeping me on the right side of things , keeping the honor of my loved ones that fell to this garbage fire of a problem . RIP Matty, Heather , Danny , Joey , Eric ... I'll stop

  • @Calexicoxoxo
    @Calexicoxoxo 3 роки тому

    Justin & Blue October is pure musical magic! 💙 They are my therapy. Check out his acoustic rendention of their song "King"

  • @Libby_74
    @Libby_74 2 роки тому

    Blue October songs make me cry too😟. I have dealt with anxiety and fear since I was 12. Still working on it, it comes and goes. Good for you for showing vulnerability...I consider that a sign of courage and never anything to be ashamed of. It is scientifically healthy to release tears as well.😊. You have a supportive man. Bless you guys🙏

  • @brandyhaman3743
    @brandyhaman3743 Рік тому

    Every song I mean every song touches everyone to a great degree
    Life, relationships... He says it best no other artist can nail it like Justin. I love this artist.

  • @Uriahjw
    @Uriahjw 3 роки тому

    Having someone that understands you and sticks by your side no matter what is the greatest gift of all. I wouldn't feel guilty because he is expressing his love for you and it's nothing to him to do it because he loves you that much. Love always put together those that need each other the most.

  • @cdgtube2000
    @cdgtube2000 3 роки тому

    Really gotta commend both of you for allowing yourself to be vulnerable on camera like that. I think its a very brave thing.

  • @harleyprocell3864
    @harleyprocell3864 2 роки тому +1

    I have seen this band live and let me tell you this man can sing live so well! If you get the chance go see them!

  • @winkybinx
    @winkybinx 3 роки тому +1

    As a major Blue October fan & fellow panic & anxiety disorder fighter, I thank you for this video! This hit my heart big time. You both are awesome and have my respect. Definitely going to subscribe!💙

  • @vaccinatedanti-vaxxer
    @vaccinatedanti-vaxxer Рік тому

    I found blue october about 20 years ago in one of those channels that no one watched, but had this cool TV show that was like a budge MTV. The only song I remember was "calling you" back in 2003. When youtube became a thing, they became one of my favorite. But since I haven't listen to them much, didn't even know they were still making new songs. This reaction gave me a new appreciation for the band. They are still one of those underrated bands most people never heard of. But thanks for the reminder how powerful their music is.

  • @Sanni1717
    @Sanni1717 8 місяців тому

    you should meet the band live...the meet & greets are great and all members of the band #blueoctober are incredible persons ...and the music...just listen...it will bring you to much more tears...and it will make you happy. I love them so much💙💙💙

  • @gardntears
    @gardntears 2 роки тому

    I love you guys- your reactions are always real and honest. I love the vulnerability and love that you both show with one another. It's a beautiful thing! I'm not sure if you caught it, but at the end of the song, in the quiet part, he does essentially tell you to pray to get through things. He sings,
    "Now Breathe...
    And ask for more.
    If you're bitter still...
    Ask Him to help you carry on."
    Justin wasn't always a real believer but had a life-changing moment in rehab that helped him find God and himself all at once. He tells about it in his Open-Book Tour, and it gives me chills every time. I cry almost every time I hear this passionate acoustic performance because I know his story (and mine) and I'm so damn proud of him (and me- and now you too, Jai) for persevering! Remember- We have survived ALL of our hardest days so far!

  • @Miselain
    @Miselain 2 роки тому

    I know this is a bit old, but you made me cry. My fiance I've known since grade school lived 500 miles away and I had such severe anxiety. He wanted me to visit for his birthday and my anxiety grabbed ahold of me and wouldn't let me go. It took hours of crying, convincing myself and this song on repeat to force myself in the car. I drove 9 hours straight scared to death with my son. It'll be a year next month that I've been here with him. I conquered my fear and anxiety. We are seeing Blue October in November and I can't wait. I felt and understood everything you said and I wanted to give you such a big hug. You are amazing. 🖤

  • @annahall9676
    @annahall9676 3 роки тому +1

    I felt this. So glad I clicked on this today. Fear has held me back all my life. Fear of failure has kept me from pursuing literally EVERYTHING. Goals. Dreams. All of it. I feel you sis. Thank you for sharing your story. Maybe today I can take a few baby steps towards overcoming because of you. God bless❤❤

  • @jeniw8443
    @jeniw8443 3 роки тому

    Jai, that man LOVES you. God bless your beautiful hearts and beautiful love for each other.

  • @fangconnors59
    @fangconnors59 Рік тому

    When she started crying- I died. Ugh 😭❤️❤️❤️ I think you are wonderful ❤️ I’m so sorry you feel anything less than wonderful, I feel like you’re such a sweet honest soul and it seems like y’all have such an understanding & supportive relationship.

  • @melindafrisco3784
    @melindafrisco3784 3 роки тому +32

    Love Blue October, Justin writes from his heart, he writes about his metal illness, drug addiction, fighting for child custody...he is amazing!!

  • @rucca2008
    @rucca2008 3 роки тому

    Awww darling, you just defeated your beast! Well done! Thank you for this video.🤗

  • @familyhess100
    @familyhess100 2 роки тому +1

    This man's current wife pulled him out of the addictions that his mental illnesses were fueling and he wrote a song to her called "how to dance in time". Maybe not worth a reaction video but worth a watch. In a live from Manchester version, he starts the song by just calling her name. In his most passionate voice. You literally feel this dudes love and appreciation for her in how he calls her name. Makes you wonder if anybody calls your name with that level of passion. Appreciate the video.

    • @amyt9362
      @amyt9362 10 місяців тому

      So sad they’re divorced now too.

  • @robertfreeze92
    @robertfreeze92 3 роки тому +4

    The whole live album "Arguing with a Tree" truly is a life saving type of album. Justin is one of the few artists that can touch your soul.

    • @jodidemay5521
      @jodidemay5521 Рік тому

      This is actually from the album called sway. Argue with a tree actually was one of their 1st albums

  • @lorenzodicocco3748
    @lorenzodicocco3748 3 роки тому

    Look after your girl bro. She has a good heart. God Bless....

  • @marciashaw792
    @marciashaw792 3 роки тому +4

    He is a recovery 8 years 3 months. He also do a recovery show every Tuesday night

  • @angieallen8
    @angieallen8 3 роки тому +4

    My favorite song Fear!!! I'm still fighting haven't found that peace, yet. He's fought and overcame so much.

  • @vanessaford9037
    @vanessaford9037 3 роки тому

    Thank you for your openness and vulnerability. When you love someone you don't ever really think of it as a "compromise". It's just love. You love them for all that they are, as they are. Much love and support to you both.

  • @FrenchiesNYorkies
    @FrenchiesNYorkies Рік тому

    I truly feel this man says God use me as a vessel to share whatever part of my pain and passion you need to reach your children with your message of hope and faith.. and when you hear it it rocks
    You to your core.

  • @jspade1973
    @jspade1973 3 роки тому

    Half is the best name for your partner. He is the other Half of your heart. When you feel the beast (anxiety) approaching, cut it in half by feeding off your mans emotion. Together you can overcome. Knowing you have someone there to fight with you makes you twice as strong. God bless you 2.

  • @katielee7057
    @katielee7057 2 роки тому

    I ended up here trying to calm myself down from a panic attack. Seeing your emotion, seeing that you feel how I do, that helped me so much. Much love to you, I pray for the day when neither of us deal with this again

  • @lisalovesrobthomas1446
    @lisalovesrobthomas1446 2 роки тому

    Worry List is so moving! Gives me chills and makes me cry!

  • @user-ed9fj3hh4b
    @user-ed9fj3hh4b 3 роки тому

    Awww Jai I want to hug you. I've listened to this band when they first came out and this song hit me the same way. I live with anxiety and it can be terrible feeling and most people don't understand. You got a good man next to you and I'm happy that he can help you thru your days and you don't have to face it alone. Bless you both

  • @TimberLee13
    @TimberLee13 2 роки тому

    Oh My My, is one of my new happy favorites. But Fear is my go to song to pull myself out of the dark moments. Glad you took time to listen and enjoyed it.

    • @TimberLee13
      @TimberLee13 2 роки тому

      The actual video is awesome to... When he's at the ocean. Very powerful.

  • @adamwayne6080
    @adamwayne6080 3 роки тому

    Jai, you wouldn't believe who I am in my world and I needed to see you here. I feel exactly the same. Half, I mean nothing other than pure love and concern for her, and you. I am quite lost all on my own. There is healing in this video Jai, trust that your next great success is involved and through your next discomfort and uncomfortable situation. Stay your course, keep looking at each other and never look away.

  • @jennyhunt6160
    @jennyhunt6160 3 роки тому

    This dong helps me so much because I suffer from anxiety and severe depression..when I found this song and it made me not feel alone. My husband didnt understand at first too but now he understands and tries to help like your man...you have a good man to helpyou through it. Be Strong we can overcome this....your beautiful and funny and smart. Love yourself, your worth it!!!❤❤❤

  • @christinadennis7934
    @christinadennis7934 3 роки тому

    For God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power love and a sound mind. One of my favorite verses.

  • @cassiewinters331
    @cassiewinters331 3 роки тому +5

    My hero Justin Furstenfeld! His lyrics are the story of my life

  • @ksmith3510
    @ksmith3510 3 роки тому

    Welcome to the blue October family!! We all have anxiety and depression and we all try to life each other up and keep each other going!!

  • @TheAnthonyc9
    @TheAnthonyc9 6 місяців тому

    Thanks for being brave! Many of us struggle with anxiety, your not alone! And thats the point of a lot of BO songs, is to start the conversation on tough subjects.

  • @scottmason7581
    @scottmason7581 3 роки тому +23

    You can tell the love between you both. It's such a rare thing these days. My wife has had to sacrifice somethings she would be doing if I didn't suffer from mental illness. God Bless you both.

  • @whatacrazylife
    @whatacrazylife 2 роки тому

    I listen to this every morning and anytime during the day that I need it. It gets me through my day and helps me to understand that my mental health is something that only I can do anything about. Outside triggers are out of my control. I take it a day at a time. Music is always a great escape and really helps.

  • @laurierogers2698
    @laurierogers2698 4 місяці тому

    i love, love, love her feelings

  • @jaymes2159
    @jaymes2159 3 роки тому

    Beautiful Jai! Your pain hurts me. Love you! Let Jason's music give you comfort like it does the rest of us B.O. addicts. The best kind of addiction ever.

  • @420smokinghippiechick
    @420smokinghippiechick 3 роки тому

    Head up girl...listen to this song over n over when ur anxiety rises...SING IT OUT WITH HIM...ITS EMPOWERING!! PEACE TO YOU.💖✌💜👑🌟

  • @briantroupe6764
    @briantroupe6764 2 роки тому

    Justin Furstenfeld and Blue October connects on so many levels any of their songs resonates so powerfully. Check out the song Worry List.

  • @ericeguaras4989
    @ericeguaras4989 Рік тому

    Incredible, true, amazing, so much substance and feeling!

  • @loripark6391
    @loripark6391 3 роки тому

    Wow,I feel you. I go inside myself too. What I've learned is to let people help you. And frankly, sometimes a good song making me cry can help. It's like a purge of feelings. Thanks for talking about this. Don't feel guilty, you are a great woman! Crying shows strength we just don't realize. Feeling more than other people is strength. We feel what others are not capable of.💜 you are strong

  • @augustblew
    @augustblew 3 роки тому +16

    May God Bless you both. This life is our classroom, we graduate after.

  • @jackiesimpson7606
    @jackiesimpson7606 Рік тому

    @jai you shocked me when you cried and said why. I have only ever seen you as a strong confident woman, never realizing you disappear in taping. I thought it was just you giving your man his time and turn. I watch all the time in silence because I am also consumed by fear. I broke silence today to tell you the only way I have been able survive this fear is knowing people see only what you let them see.. as far as I can see; you’re killing it baby! Keep your head up and show the world your magnificent light that only you can shine. You 2 are absolutely loved

  • @wendyjohnson402
    @wendyjohnson402 3 роки тому

    First I want to say that you are an amazingly supportive couple and that is beautiful. You remind me of my husband and me. 26years married in August. Second..... Justin writes , plays and sings from the heart. His inspiration is refreshing and has helped a lot of people through rough times( I have depression ) . My Favorite from Blue October is 18th Floor Balcony , but no matter what song you listen too , you will get some kind of message out of it. Have a most amazing day everyone. Remember to love , be kind and support everyone . We all need it sometimes.

  • @Hope4Rain27
    @Hope4Rain27 3 роки тому

    Justin sings what I feel. I'm so happy you felt it, too. I cried with you and I've seen him live.

  • @luciferluci4570
    @luciferluci4570 3 роки тому

    please underatand how hard it is to push ur voice like Justin did from a seated postion.. so beautiful!! absolutely a great singer and artist

  • @victoriadelarosa4179
    @victoriadelarosa4179 Рік тому

    Justin is a very Beautiful person Got to meet outside after the show in El Paso, Texas Very Humble person I love his music 🎵🎶

  • @ritamariechaumont1342
    @ritamariechaumont1342 3 роки тому +6

    He had me crying the first time I heard it. You should hear him live in his Open Book concerts. I manage anxiety too and I’m proud of y’all for listening and being real !!

  • @ruthalvarado7086
    @ruthalvarado7086 3 роки тому

    My heart was breaking for you, I wanted to jump thru the tv and hug you!
    My daughter suffers from severe anxiety and it KILLS that there is nothing I can do to help her- So sorry you have to go thru that, and sorry Justin made you cry!
    ❤❤❤❤

  • @MiniSculptedStories
    @MiniSculptedStories 3 роки тому

    I've watched a lot of your videos. This is the one that made me subscribe. Love them all but this is THE one. Thank you Jai for being vulnerable. I feel you 100%! You're speaking my words. You are so brave. Blue October is one of my very favorites because he is US. I'm so glad you liked this. Peace inside. I wish you peace... inside.. LOVE!

  • @jipsigal
    @jipsigal 3 роки тому

    As someone who has dealt, daily, with PTSD and anxiety for almost 20 years, the Blue October song has been my mantra for years since I first heard it. It truly felt like the Word of God was speaking to ME, through Justin Furstenfield (the band’s songwriter and frontman, featured in an acoustic performance you reviewed here), that all I needed was to BREATHE, ask for more - and if I were bitter, still, to ask God to help me carry on.
    Jai, I so feel you, hun. This may not be what you wanted to hear (it wasn’t for me, either), but the fear never ‘goes away’. It has to be conquered everyday. This song was Justin’s personal ‘letter to himself’, to GET BACK UP, every time. It relates the self-love we have to allow ourselves to be strengthened by, reassured and motivated by, so we CAN believe and we CAN face and conquer our ‘beast’. By acknowledging it for what it is - we can stare back at it and WIN.
    YOU GO GIRL. ❤️

  • @danflak2370
    @danflak2370 3 роки тому

    So real, this is why we are all connected and truly need each other, helped my wife get through a very tough time. My wife and I were totally in the same place a couple of years back, you got this!

  • @northlord1447
    @northlord1447 3 роки тому

    Blue October has many many amazing lyrical songs.