@@KJ-pu8dw It was a save bc this video is about being confident and looking good to yourself and others. Him responding like that is what saved the way he was making himself look to himself and others. People who base their idea of "winning" or not off of physical fighting, are gonna be getting very few places with attractive women.
Experience is the best way to learn. I'm a pilot, and the only way you'll become a good pilot is by going through emergencies or urgencies. You should look at yourself as a piece of metal, and as you go through these things, you are being forged into a man. Each insult is a hammer strike, each stressful situation is being heated in the fire, and each self-reflection is being quenched in water.
Ur the GOAT george, and also the example clips of real dates that are not in the rest of the videos on youtube are incredibly good to actually show what u tell us
@@Im_Anthonyy I just discovered his channel so I'm wondering if these videos are real, gotta say some of the things he says in his videos are real tho.
@@Bahrtinho I’m assuming the clip in the beginning was staged for multiple reasons, it’s good content, but probably not a real date. Still good example to transition to the topic. Date videos are a little tricky cuz if it’s a real date, you’ll often run into someone who wouldn’t be ok with their date being recorded and you’ll also get a bias of only seeing the type of girls that will and fake videos (which isn’t always bad)
Dude, are you serious? It’s staged, obviously! He speaks with an accent and she says he’s an american. But he definitely has confidence if he uploads this kind of bs and says it’s real.
As a guy who often got teased as being a gay, I can confirm that that very moment I started to laugh with their gay jokes from the very next day onward those guys stopped doing it completely; and indeed we got closer.
I have a very relatable experience. I had graduated from the University of Nebraska and was traveling the country interviewing for a high tech engineering job. Every place I went they would joke about me being from Nebraska where there must be only farmers and cows. At the beginning I was getting offended and wasn't sure how to respond. I later realized this kind of joking was going on wherever I went. I decided next time I'd play along. Next interview someone asked how we get around since we don't have cars, roads or traffic lights. I told him "camels...we all ride camels and they only need a pint of water every few hundred miles". That got a laugh and by the end of the interview it's like we were best buddies and I ended up getting a dozen job offers from all over the country. Great advice.
This is why women love men that can banter. When a woman tests a man with an insult, she is seeing if he is going to show weakness by blowing up at her, getting overly emotional, OR respond with humour and playfulness, which creates the opportunity to seduce her.
That intro was amazing. I automatically assumed that you accepted the consequences of making homo jokes with a random stranger and that the girl next to you would freak out, but what I didn’t expect was that she actually tried to help you out of that situation even if you had it under control. I feel like girls always run away and avoid any kind of direct conflict, but this girl did not. Maybe because she couldn’t actually get out of the car or because she really liked you for some reason, but regardless, insane intro.
""" I feel like girls always run away and avoid any kind of direct conflict"""... Not really true in our countries! Here women are capable and actually they do stop even the most brutal and savage fights between men! And in ancient times in some Eastern European countries there was a custom/law that any woman can save a life of male criminal in a death row by appealing it (taking responsibility for his actions in the future) even if it is the last second.
You are giving good quality content, all the other youtubers do the same dating but they explain things on a very surface level and they just keep us hooked on their videos, you are explaining at a deeper level, keep up the good work man!
Yeah, he's one of the Hidden Gems UA-camrs right now. Other hidden gem is Dan Koe (he gained lots of subs, not so hidden anymore) And also Alex Hormozi is a Goated Gem I'd also put Stellar Thoughts up there if you are a bit into Spiritual side of things, he's amazing
Great story telling and getting your points across which are unique explaining things most UA-camrs don't even get into. You are unique in this realm of dating coaches or red pill or life coach, whatever you call this. Great content. You really don't sugar coat anything. Keep it up. We need more brothers to be just as bold and honest including us watching.
The only thing I disagree with is that people can never change after they did something fucked up on their past….over time you can simply forget about it, women do this all the time and can walk around confidently as if they didn’t have an entire train ran on them year ago. People can forget things even about themselves
@@TonyEbukaSG he was talking about confidence and how if you've EVER done something regrettable in life (his example was if you ever sucked a dick) then you're forever labeled by that one incident and you'll "flinch" every time someone brings it up and you can't ever have confidence. Nah, chicks do this all the time, with regards to fucked up sex acts. Which may be sociopathic sometimes idk. But moreso in a healthier sense, people can absolutely evolve over time and be drastically different than their past self, and so the "flinch" concept is true only if the mistake is fresh, or you havent genuinely had an internal transformation. Don't want people to think theres no hope, you can literally reinvent yourself in life, if you TRULY want to. Our brains have a quality called "plasticity" and although old habits die hard, they can be diminished signifcantly and new thought habits can always be formed until the day you die js
@DevilFrog61 I was asking you man, I didn’t ask you to explain what the video is sayin, I mean you and what does it have to do with the topic. Also don’t insult someone’s mom on the internet, because of a little joke, shows the joker is right and what they said really hurt you. We are all learning
I always felt some weakness in people when they reacted aggressively to provocation. Although on the one hand they do everything right as if they don't like it and put you in your place. But there is an insecurity sitting inside them becuse of fear. So a person kinda defends his boundaries but he does it because he is afraid that his boundaries will be trespassing because he takes opponent and his opinion too seriously.
For the same reason it rather takes more effort to provoke real deals than some random insecure Joe. If someone picking it up on a insecure weakling, the thought process going to be like “Why do he picked up on me among all the people. Do I look like a loser that would put up with this shit! Do I look easy and weak! MUST PROVE MYSELF TO THEM AND ANYONE SEEING THIS TO BE WRONG!” Then you got that screaming manchild trembling in histeria and hype and trying to prove themself to be the wrong guy to mess with by creating awkward scenes. It is quite opposite with confident individuals with no self doubt. Like the past world heawyweight champion Vitaly Klitschko and Mike Tyson have been picked up by random ass people quite a lot of the time but for the most part just told them to back off and rarely get physical. They already know they are tough and so does everyone else. If they went into physical, it is for safety and making it stop after exhausting other options. Not to putting up a show. They got nothing to prove to themself or anyone else. They just know it, the whole world is.
Anger stems from boundaries being breached. Getting to the root cause of why we feel this way is exposing our vulnerability to ourselves, and is helpful. Once we acknowledge the feeling and transgression we can choose how to react. We must always acknowledge the feeling within ourselves. Using anger constructively means saying to oneself, that was not ok, I deserve better. From there on carry oneself with dignity. Reacting emotionally is undignified, reflecting then reacting confidently is dignified. Adresse the deeper wound.
If you ever wonder if the girl is into you, then just grab her hand and hold it a little. Does she cuddle your hand? Does she stroke it? If you want to be really smooth about it, then do it the second you shake hands with her. Instead of letting go at once, just keep holding it for a little longer and see what she does. Does she pat your hand, cuddle it a little, or put her other hand on it? Well... Then she wants to go home with you. :) If she pulls the hand away quickly, then just find another girl. Ez. Edit: If you didn't shake her hand to begin with, or forgot this thing, then whenever you plan to go anywhere, like the bar, or to look at the view, then _grab her hand_ and tell her that you want to go to the bar, to see the view, or whatever. If she comes with you, you know you already won.
@@borkug1566 I'm 45, and this is extensively field tested. I do sense that you're pretty insecure about approaching. If so, it's better learn how to approach without getting rejected first, before trying this.
I gotta say, holding a girl’s hand and leading her confidently through a crowd is a great move that I’ve used for years 😏 Never thought of other applications though, thanks for your other examples!
I learnt martial arts and got confident but I was never good with words or psychology. When guys would say condescending things to me I would mentally prepare to escalate to physical violence and people backed off. It kept me in a kinda no man's land.
Damn dude... I feel this man. Never seen it said so clearly. Sorry you went through that. I was the same way. I was smart and good with words, but docile to the point that I didn't understand that others wanted me to fight back. I was like... you really want war?? rn in this classroom? I still don't understand how some people come to these conclusions naturally while alot of us have to be taught.
I'm gonna be completely honest here, you remind me of my father. He super wisdomous and he says all the same stuff you say. Your channel is so underrated it's insane. Keep on keepin on 👍
I really need this video. I started working a week ago to a factory. Yes just like construction work, there are bunch of different types of people... All you said is everything to me... Thank you for this video 💪🏽💪🏽
Oh man, thank you for that. I worked in construction when I was 14-23 and it was exactly as you said. We busted each other’s balls from sunrise to sunset and we had thick skins. I lost my wife to cancer last year and when I resumed dating I had a gap of 26 years spent in politically correct corporate America which taught me to lose my confident masculine nature over time. Now I am needing to become the confident man I was at 23 and I realize all these poor boys have no path from boy to man like I had. When my oldest son was growing up I told him to seek out discomfort. Just like your hilarious skit in the beginning except going up to and talking to girls. He gets their phone number 90% of the time. I’m currently about 50/50 and it’s a lot harder for me to engage whereas all 3 of my boys do it effortlessly.
i work construction now and have been for the last 3 years. i’m just know developing the thick skin And ability to talk shit back. it is true here in america the male figure isn’t respected or upheld. it’s like a man here is a blurred image and plenty of men like myself are looking for the pathways to become a real man
Hello again george, i once again wanna come and be grateful for your content, you really made me better as a person and showed me how looks really dont matter. Everything you say makes sence and you even have proof of it actually working. I really hope you get what you deserve and grow your chanell to become very big. Love you man and thanks.
As someone else mentioned, you should consider making an account for other platforms like rumble etc, If you haven’t already. Ty for all info you give.
I can't agree that you need to make a joke to get respect. I can command respect from a look and quiet too. A few people probably know the look of "I am calmly contemplating knocking you the fuck out/putting you out of your missery" look. If you finish that with a joke, you can be sure you won't get shit from that person again,but the joke part isn't necessary. But you need to hold that stare till you see them withering or caving in.
I remember my school time, the ugly girl would say "you're gay" after you reject her and we would respond: "yeah, give me your pussy, u will see" just naturally hahaha this is not infantile at all, we men probably need it integrated in our life
George said in another video how women behave like 10 y/o kids. With kids, you have to give a negative feedback to bad behavior or they just keep pushing. So same thing here.
Same experience, just worked only for about 3 months as an assembler with lots of foreigners but i got so humbled there and it was so much funn and very familiar athmosphere
My ex and I were watching tv one day and she turned to me and said “look it’s the story of your life” to which I responded quickly and confidently “Yep, co-starring you” she laughed and complimented me on how sharp and quick I responded to which I replied with absolutely nothing just silence.
God may bless you, I have been pseudo bullied practically my whole life because people tried to bully me but I manage to laugh at me so what happen next is that I have the bulliers being my friends since I manage right jokes. But the thing is that little times I tried to return the jokes so maybe it was not like ragging out but that compounded in my hearth so when my family or something gave me a critic I managed that really bad, it's funny because I lived with 3 construction guys and on that time I had a big confussion for pornography due I had an addiction to that shit and that turned me like not gay but trying stuff but when they did jokes I was so secure about me that I laugh at myself or returned in a funny way the joke and those people huge respect for them because they also respected me and they helped me when I was a foreign there, then I met Christ to years ago and I found my true identity so I actually do gay jokes and is funny because I have kinda a white flag to do it so is pretty awesome to say really tough jokes about gay to gay people and everythings it's okey xd. But yeah like the point is not just laugh at yourself also try to return the joke, not agressively but with perspicacity like really a funny joke and that's how by accident you turned a comedian. I think other stuff that you can do is expose yourself to social environments where people can laugh or give critcics to you and try to convert everything to a really funny comment never reacting. That's how for example just right now in a restaurant the workers tried to steal a part of the meal of my mom and act like nothing happened, I yeah maybe got angry but I didn't expressed my rage just feel it and then try to manage the situation saying like "Oh so I have to go to the mental clinic because maybe I am allucinating and imagine that is less food", that comment cooled the situation and then they were like "okey let's talk to the boss to change the meal" and in effect they give us the correct portion. And then I was like "yeah sorry for the stress of situation", and the employees were like "oh no no, is not your fault", then which fault was, funny enough but I recognize that I acted a little bit with histeria. Sorry for the long text, I don't have any man space to give my views on this and your content have been pretty revealing, thank you so much for helping us in becoming better mens. God really may bless you
19:36 i like the view for sure. Thanks for boosting up my evening with fun and humour. Good advises and i'm happy your work pays, already 15K, let's share and like guys. Nice day to you all
The part about working men making racist and gay jokes are valid, but a huge HR issue. Its kinda ironic because the person who ends up reporting them has every legal right to do so, but missed the chance to bond amongst coworkers. The racism written all over the bathroom stalls is actually what binds them in brotherhood across different cultures.
Understand that HR is mostly females... They're enabled by tyrants at the top level who don't want brotherhood, they want men to stay weak so they can have all the power.
I took a job learning collections, where controlling yourself while knocking on people's doors had constant scenarios for confrontation. I got quite good at it. It's proven to be invaluable for over 25 years...
I live in the UK. The part about violence whether your used to it or not... is being willing to go there with some guys.... As no amount of verbal stand up for yourself of stoic will deter some guys...... Now if your 6'4 kind of built or got good physique, then verbal may work But if your short say 5'6 .. then it maybe that you need to be willing to fight while verbalising & trying to get your respect Again how you look as am individual ie if you look SIMPLE or got no look about yourself in your eyes.. that could mean a person looking at that guy would not be taking serious, so again, sometimes dependant on the other guy...if he can see your willing to get into a physical he will kind of ignore the perception of that guy being simple & either apologise, keep quiet, back off or show of hands to say...cool. So this HOST on this video is NOT QUITE RIGHT ON THAT EXPLANATION
It depends on the context. If you're just on the streets, in a bar etc, who cares about having the respect of some punk? If you have self-respect, you don't need *everyone* to respect you. If you're working with them it's complicated, either that guy has a personal problem and others will stand up for you if you defend yourself physically, or the others don't want you around for some reason, they don't trust you...
These days with an ever growing number of genders being created to try and redefine the sex and core identify of a man, more videos like this are desperately needed. It’s this very lack of ability to understand and deal with stress/bullying/confidence testing that has resulted in the deprecating society (at least in US) that we now have. Appreciate you and your insight! It will help turn things around 🫡
I'm in a roofing company, the guys there are funny af and crack them jokes all the time. Always tryna bully each other around. I quickly understood that i had to joke around with them if not I'll be the joke.
Your banter rings true, it's how vikings would banter. The viking poet was called a Skald. It's not far removed from the English world Scold. I think you know where I'm getting with this. ;) A good skald would be able to honour the king rightly, and dishonour the enemy so much so that they'd lose their temper and attack first, which would always put them at a disadvantage.
Perfect right around the 15-minute mark he states that racism is alive and well and then turns around and says that it was all in good humour and everybody became really good friends and in that construction environment you had to grow thick skin. This gives me hope for the younger generation. Back in the 80s I I kid you not the racism card wasn't thrown around and like 90% of most people got along because of humor. Back then just like now there's a small percentage of a-holes that are the outliers
As a beer salesman for last 20.years. I learned this lesson. Use to be be a people pleaser and simp. Once I didnt give an f@#k the world opened to me. Doubled my income in two years. Woman noticed and hit on me daily. Even girls half my age. Im 41 and learned through pain and suffering to be strong. Was hard painful lessons but made my life limitless.
One thing to help with being talked over is ALWAYS finish your sentence. Someone interrupting you might have something better to say, but probably not; but if you immediately stop talking and listen to them, you’re handing over all the power in the conversation 🙃 So you don’t have to blaze forward and finish your paragraph/whole argument, but at least finish your sentence/current thought and then listen to what others are contributing to the conversation 😎
Bro you are awesome, i like you are videos very much, I'm from Macedonia and we are very similar guys,for sure we can be very good friends, I'm also very street smart and i can tell when something is fake and i can tell that situation in car with girl and a fight with that guy is stage as fuck don't pun intended, only talking about that many guys will think that if you stage videos what other isn't true about you, its only opinion with no bad intentions at all, keep up the good work man, we need more guys like you cause 90% maybe more guys on UA-cam wich say that they are date coaches and players they do not know shit about the real game, they copy each other and make load of money from beta males, you are straight as fuck and i like that casue i'm same, keep up the good work 💯 💪👊
Thank you brother!! You and Casey Zander are the epitome of masculinity and you are both teaching us the most important part, honing skills of being a full stack man by personally experiencing them.
@@christopherrussell6055 Dude that shit works when youre much younger then the guys "bullying" you. I had someone once who made a joke like that. I stood up, went right in front of him and stared in his eyes. I told him if he dares to call me again a son of a bitch I will slash open his neck and let him slowly suffocate in his own blood. In front of every body. No body ever once disrespected me after that incident. Not even my boss. I know it is psychotic and I cant imagine doing that. But you need to set boundaries otherwise those fat joes wont stop that shit. Were grown up men not some high school kids who try to joke about everything there is to feel superior
Target has Starbucks. I just found out that today. I went to get new glasses but they open at 12. Went to a Dollar general and bought two pairs of reading glasses 10 dollars each.
Thank you very much for sharing your wisdom and understanding ! Why are you showing the first video in the car ? To make us understand to not react to the girl and be calm and confident against other men ?
You saved it by yelling at him again 😂 good reaction
That was not a save. He started the fight then backed away from the fight.
If you think that's a save, you're even more pathetic than him.
@@KJ-pu8dw It’s a Russian thing. You wouldn’t understand
@@pantsonfire2216No it's not 🤣
@@KJ-pu8dw It was a save bc this video is about being confident and looking good to yourself and others. Him responding like that is what saved the way he was making himself look to himself and others. People who base their idea of "winning" or not off of physical fighting, are gonna be getting very few places with attractive women.
Experience is the best way to learn. I'm a pilot, and the only way you'll become a good pilot is by going through emergencies or urgencies. You should look at yourself as a piece of metal, and as you go through these things, you are being forged into a man. Each insult is a hammer strike, each stressful situation is being heated in the fire, and each self-reflection is being quenched in water.
Amen! How are you doing Jorge? How is the weather in VC?
I agree. I’m a pilot myself or at least I was on my way to becoming one.
I was an adventurer myself, until I took an arrow to the knee.
This is quite some motivational speech, sir,
@@Lyu-Phy wtf how?
Ur the GOAT george, and also the example clips of real dates that are not in the rest of the videos on youtube are incredibly good to actually show what u tell us
Where I can find his full videos of real dates?
@@Bahrtinho im talking about the clips he includes at the start of the videos, there are no full dates uploaded, but i would love to see those too
@@Im_Anthonyy I just discovered his channel so I'm wondering if these videos are real, gotta say some of the things he says in his videos are real tho.
@@Bahrtinho I’m assuming the clip in the beginning was staged for multiple reasons, it’s good content, but probably not a real date. Still good example to transition to the topic. Date videos are a little tricky cuz if it’s a real date, you’ll often run into someone who wouldn’t be ok with their date being recorded and you’ll also get a bias of only seeing the type of girls that will and fake videos (which isn’t always bad)
Dude, are you serious? It’s staged, obviously! He speaks with an accent and she says he’s an american. But he definitely has confidence if he uploads this kind of bs and says it’s real.
As a guy who often got teased as being a gay, I can confirm that that very moment I started to laugh with their gay jokes from the very next day onward those guys stopped doing it completely; and indeed we got closer.
Hell yeah why cant we bring old funny casual rasicm back
gaye
That sounds pretty gay tho
why are you here😒
m@@topboychris ?
I have a very relatable experience. I had graduated from the University of Nebraska and was traveling the country interviewing for a high tech engineering job. Every place I went they would joke about me being from Nebraska where there must be only farmers and cows. At the beginning I was getting offended and wasn't sure how to respond. I later realized this kind of joking was going on wherever I went. I decided next time I'd play along. Next interview someone asked how we get around since we don't have cars, roads or traffic lights. I told him "camels...we all ride camels and they only need a pint of water every few hundred miles". That got a laugh and by the end of the interview it's like we were best buddies and I ended up getting a dozen job offers from all over the country. Great advice.
Your joke was so good, it literally spread across the country and everyone sent you a dozen job offers? What a man!...
This is why women love men that can banter. When a woman tests a man with an insult, she is seeing if he is going to show weakness by blowing up at her, getting overly emotional, OR respond with humour and playfulness, which creates the opportunity to seduce her.
Or just look hurt and not know what to say.
@@jasonsanders8091 that's getting emotional
Women are such hard work is it worth the trouble?
Exactly 👍
@@jk1735ableIts not a lot of work at all, masculine men banter with women np
That intro was amazing. I automatically assumed that you accepted the consequences of making homo jokes with a random stranger and that the girl next to you would freak out, but what I didn’t expect was that she actually tried to help you out of that situation even if you had it under control. I feel like girls always run away and avoid any kind of direct conflict, but this girl did not. Maybe because she couldn’t actually get out of the car or because she really liked you for some reason, but regardless, insane intro.
Dude it's a made up story in the beginning, a man being called gay is just acting. Noone behaves like that in russia
You’d be surprised at the monsters this World can create.
Just acting dude😂
""" I feel like girls always run away and avoid any kind of direct conflict"""... Not really true in our countries! Here women are capable and actually they do stop even the most brutal and savage fights between men! And in ancient times in some Eastern European countries there was a custom/law that any woman can save a life of male criminal in a death row by appealing it (taking responsibility for his actions in the future) even if it is the last second.
@azhuransmx126 yeah now i see it. The thumbnail is different than what is shown in the video
You are giving good quality content, all the other youtubers do the same dating but they explain things on a very surface level and they just keep us hooked on their videos, you are explaining at a deeper level, keep up the good work man!
Yeah, he's one of the Hidden Gems UA-camrs right now.
Other hidden gem is Dan Koe (he gained lots of subs, not so hidden anymore)
And also Alex Hormozi is a Goated Gem
I'd also put Stellar Thoughts up there if you are a bit into Spiritual side of things, he's amazing
Fully agree!
Every additional video I watch from this guy I like him more and more, this dude is pure comedy and his advice is gold 😂
This Guy by far is the most real on this subject
Great intro : felt like a movie .
So much wisdom in these videos mam, light years ahead of most teachers
Great story telling and getting your points across which are unique explaining things most UA-camrs don't even get into. You are unique in this realm of dating coaches or red pill or life coach, whatever you call this. Great content. You really don't sugar coat anything. Keep it up. We need more brothers to be just as bold and honest including us watching.
Another banger lfg, you're the only channel who's notifications I have turned on
the ending of that sketch was really funny somehow, made me haha, good job
The only thing I disagree with is that people can never change after they did something fucked up on their past….over time you can simply forget about it, women do this all the time and can walk around confidently as if they didn’t have an entire train ran on them year ago. People can forget things even about themselves
It's all in your mind bro.
What are you talking about? And how does it relate to the topic, I don’t understand.
@@TonyEbukaSG he was talking about confidence and how if you've EVER done something regrettable in life (his example was if you ever sucked a dick) then you're forever labeled by that one incident and you'll "flinch" every time someone brings it up and you can't ever have confidence. Nah, chicks do this all the time, with regards to fucked up sex acts. Which may be sociopathic sometimes idk. But moreso in a healthier sense, people can absolutely evolve over time and be drastically different than their past self, and so the "flinch" concept is true only if the mistake is fresh, or you havent genuinely had an internal transformation. Don't want people to think theres no hope, you can literally reinvent yourself in life, if you TRULY want to. Our brains have a quality called "plasticity" and although old habits die hard, they can be diminished signifcantly and new thought habits can always be formed until the day you die js
@AC your mom hurt me, yea
@DevilFrog61 I was asking you man, I didn’t ask you to explain what the video is sayin, I mean you and what does it have to do with the topic. Also don’t insult someone’s mom on the internet, because of a little joke, shows the joker is right and what they said really hurt you. We are all learning
you’re the kind dude i’d be hanging with no joke hahah
I always felt some weakness in people when they reacted aggressively to provocation. Although on the one hand they do everything right as if they don't like it and put you in your place. But there is an insecurity sitting inside them becuse of fear. So a person kinda defends his boundaries but he does it because he is afraid that his boundaries will be trespassing because he takes opponent and his opinion too seriously.
For the same reason it rather takes more effort to provoke real deals than some random insecure Joe. If someone picking it up on a insecure weakling, the thought process going to be like “Why do he picked up on me among all the people. Do I look like a loser that would put up with this shit! Do I look easy and weak! MUST PROVE MYSELF TO THEM AND ANYONE SEEING THIS TO BE WRONG!” Then you got that screaming manchild trembling in histeria and hype and trying to prove themself to be the wrong guy to mess with by creating awkward scenes.
It is quite opposite with confident individuals with no self doubt. Like the past world heawyweight champion Vitaly Klitschko and Mike Tyson have been picked up by random ass people quite a lot of the time but for the most part just told them to back off and rarely get physical. They already know they are tough and so does everyone else. If they went into physical, it is for safety and making it stop after exhausting other options. Not to putting up a show. They got nothing to prove to themself or anyone else. They just know it, the whole world is.
@@koray6261 hey bro good point. I am somehow like this sometimes. how do you solve this anger problems?
Anger stems from boundaries being breached. Getting to the root cause of why we feel this way is exposing our vulnerability to ourselves, and is helpful. Once we acknowledge the feeling and transgression we can choose how to react. We must always acknowledge the feeling within ourselves.
Using anger constructively means saying to oneself, that was not ok, I deserve better. From there on carry oneself with dignity. Reacting emotionally is undignified, reflecting then reacting confidently is dignified. Adresse the deeper wound.
I love how she says she is scared but she has a grin before AND after the incident :D
If you ever wonder if the girl is into you, then just grab her hand and hold it a little.
Does she cuddle your hand? Does she stroke it? If you want to be really smooth about it, then do it the second you shake hands with her. Instead of letting go at once, just keep holding it for a little longer and see what she does. Does she pat your hand, cuddle it a little, or put her other hand on it? Well... Then she wants to go home with you. :) If she pulls the hand away quickly, then just find another girl. Ez.
Edit: If you didn't shake her hand to begin with, or forgot this thing, then whenever you plan to go anywhere, like the bar, or to look at the view, then _grab her hand_ and tell her that you want to go to the bar, to see the view, or whatever. If she comes with you, you know you already won.
pro strat right there
Thanks casanova.
Sounds like the kind of dating advice 14 years old teenagers give each other. Recipe for awkwardness.
@@borkug1566 I'm 45, and this is extensively field tested. I do sense that you're pretty insecure about approaching. If so, it's better learn how to approach without getting rejected first, before trying this.
I gotta say, holding a girl’s hand and leading her confidently through a crowd is a great move that I’ve used for years 😏 Never thought of other applications though, thanks for your other examples!
I learnt martial arts and got confident but I was never good with words or psychology. When guys would say condescending things to me I would mentally prepare to escalate to physical violence and people backed off. It kept me in a kinda no man's land.
That sounds isolating.
😁
Damn dude... I feel this man. Never seen it said so clearly. Sorry you went through that. I was the same way. I was smart and good with words, but docile to the point that I didn't understand that others wanted me to fight back.
I was like... you really want war?? rn in this classroom?
I still don't understand how some people come to these conclusions naturally while alot of us have to be taught.
I'm gonna be completely honest here, you remind me of my father. He super wisdomous and he says all the same stuff you say. Your channel is so underrated it's insane. Keep on keepin on 👍
I really need this video. I started working a week ago to a factory. Yes just like construction work, there are bunch of different types of people... All you said is everything to me... Thank you for this video 💪🏽💪🏽
I was a boxer in my 20s. That built my confidence tremendously
Oh man, thank you for that. I worked in construction when I was 14-23 and it was exactly as you said. We busted each other’s balls from sunrise to sunset and we had thick skins.
I lost my wife to cancer last year and when I resumed dating I had a gap of 26 years spent in politically correct corporate America which taught me to lose my confident masculine nature over time. Now I am needing to become the confident man I was at 23 and I realize all these poor boys have no path from boy to man like I had.
When my oldest son was growing up I told him to seek out discomfort. Just like your hilarious skit in the beginning except going up to and talking to girls. He gets their phone number 90% of the time. I’m currently about 50/50 and it’s a lot harder for me to engage whereas all 3 of my boys do it effortlessly.
i work construction now and have been for the last 3 years. i’m just know developing the thick skin And ability to talk shit back. it is true here in america the male figure isn’t respected or upheld. it’s like a man here is a blurred image and plenty of men like myself are looking for the pathways to become a real man
Hello again george, i once again wanna come and be grateful for your content, you really made me better as a person and showed me how looks really dont matter. Everything you say makes sence and you even have proof of it actually working. I really hope you get what you deserve and grow your chanell to become very big. Love you man and thanks.
A womans interest in me is confidence to me indeed.
As someone else mentioned, you should consider making an account for other platforms like rumble etc, If you haven’t already. Ty for all info you give.
Love these videos man. they are filled with so much value. keep em coming 🙏🏽
Men, you are the number one adviser I have ever seen
Muscular + Masculine = Mascular... I'm going ot use that from now on damnit. I'M MASCULAR!!!
I like to give my women that milkshake they like... It takes a lot of hard sucking to get it through that straw thoooough...
I can't agree that you need to make a joke to get respect. I can command respect from a look and quiet too. A few people probably know the look of "I am calmly contemplating knocking you the fuck out/putting you out of your missery" look. If you finish that with a joke, you can be sure you won't get shit from that person again,but the joke part isn't necessary. But you need to hold that stare till you see them withering or caving in.
I remember my school time, the ugly girl would say "you're gay" after you reject her and we would respond: "yeah, give me your pussy, u will see" just naturally hahaha this is not infantile at all, we men probably need it integrated in our life
George said in another video how women behave like 10 y/o kids. With kids, you have to give a negative feedback to bad behavior or they just keep pushing. So same thing here.
Same experience, just worked only for about 3 months as an assembler with lots of foreigners but i got so humbled there and it was so much funn and very familiar athmosphere
man i love your content give us more
A good way is to actually practice online as other peoples confidence is through the roof on there
This man doesn't even need fancy clothes to make you agree with him
Why would clothes matter that much
You need clothes to make up your mind?
This is why bullying is not that bad. If someone gets bullied it is because that person cannot stand up for themselves
Hey. I like the masculine banter topic. Maybe you could expand on the locker room talk thing
you are so funny man. I actually laughed so much in this video. Glad my friend showed me your channel.
1:00 damn that hit hard
Real
My ex and I were watching tv one day and she turned to me and said “look it’s the story of your life” to which I responded quickly and confidently “Yep, co-starring you” she laughed and complimented me on how sharp and quick I responded to which I replied with absolutely nothing just silence.
God may bless you, I have been pseudo bullied practically my whole life because people tried to bully me but I manage to laugh at me so what happen next is that I have the bulliers being my friends since I manage right jokes. But the thing is that little times I tried to return the jokes so maybe it was not like ragging out but that compounded in my hearth so when my family or something gave me a critic I managed that really bad, it's funny because I lived with 3 construction guys and on that time I had a big confussion for pornography due I had an addiction to that shit and that turned me like not gay but trying stuff but when they did jokes I was so secure about me that I laugh at myself or returned in a funny way the joke and those people huge respect for them because they also respected me and they helped me when I was a foreign there, then I met Christ to years ago and I found my true identity so I actually do gay jokes and is funny because I have kinda a white flag to do it so is pretty awesome to say really tough jokes about gay to gay people and everythings it's okey xd. But yeah like the point is not just laugh at yourself also try to return the joke, not agressively but with perspicacity like really a funny joke and that's how by accident you turned a comedian.
I think other stuff that you can do is expose yourself to social environments where people can laugh or give critcics to you and try to convert everything to a really funny comment never reacting. That's how for example just right now in a restaurant the workers tried to steal a part of the meal of my mom and act like nothing happened, I yeah maybe got angry but I didn't expressed my rage just feel it and then try to manage the situation saying like "Oh so I have to go to the mental clinic because maybe I am allucinating and imagine that is less food", that comment cooled the situation and then they were like "okey let's talk to the boss to change the meal" and in effect they give us the correct portion. And then I was like "yeah sorry for the stress of situation", and the employees were like "oh no no, is not your fault", then which fault was, funny enough but I recognize that I acted a little bit with histeria. Sorry for the long text, I don't have any man space to give my views on this and your content have been pretty revealing, thank you so much for helping us in becoming better mens. God really may bless you
19:36 i like the view for sure. Thanks for boosting up my evening with fun and humour. Good advises and i'm happy your work pays, already 15K, let's share and like guys. Nice day to you all
OMG, i really like the intro though hahahahaha. Thanks for sharing such beautiful tresor and master piece videos
There is a time also to get serious and cold dark. It’s not all about keeping your cool.
This is my second video I am watching of you… and I can already tell you know a great deal about feminine nature
Make a video how to get a woman emotionally attached forever with you.
If she loves u she will matejust treat her another normal human being don't put her on pedestal that's all
The part about working men making racist and gay jokes are valid, but a huge HR issue. Its kinda ironic because the person who ends up reporting them has every legal right to do so, but missed the chance to bond amongst coworkers. The racism written all over the bathroom stalls is actually what binds them in brotherhood across different cultures.
Understand that HR is mostly females... They're enabled by tyrants at the top level who don't want brotherhood, they want men to stay weak so they can have all the power.
I took a job learning collections, where controlling yourself while knocking on people's doors had constant scenarios for confrontation. I got quite good at it. It's proven to be invaluable for over 25 years...
Construction is great for building character. Im an electrician and I love it
The start of this vid was hilarious... You gave the girl an emotional rollercoaster ride in 10seconds 0:17
Your channel is Diamond 💎 and your words are Pure Gold . Thanks Brother
I live in the UK.
The part about violence whether your used to it or not... is being willing to go there with some guys....
As no amount of verbal stand up for yourself of stoic will deter some guys......
Now if your 6'4 kind of built or got good physique, then verbal may work
But if your short say 5'6 .. then it maybe that you need to be willing to fight while verbalising & trying to get your respect
Again how you look as am individual ie if you look SIMPLE or got no look about yourself in your eyes.. that could mean a person looking at that guy would not be taking serious, so again, sometimes dependant on the other guy...if he can see your willing to get into a physical he will kind of ignore the perception of that guy being simple & either apologise, keep quiet, back off or show of hands to say...cool.
So this HOST on this video is NOT QUITE RIGHT ON THAT EXPLANATION
It depends on the context. If you're just on the streets, in a bar etc, who cares about having the respect of some punk? If you have self-respect, you don't need *everyone* to respect you.
If you're working with them it's complicated, either that guy has a personal problem and others will stand up for you if you defend yourself physically, or the others don't want you around for some reason, they don't trust you...
These days with an ever growing number of genders being created to try and redefine the sex and core identify of a man, more videos like this are desperately needed. It’s this very lack of ability to understand and deal with stress/bullying/confidence testing that has resulted in the deprecating society (at least in US) that we now have. Appreciate you and your insight! It will help turn things around 🫡
They took down the video about balance of significance. Please upload it again, it was so good.
Thanks for sharing the first part of the video and goodbye.
This was Grade A wise, funny uplifting content for men.
I'm in a roofing company, the guys there are funny af and crack them jokes all the time. Always tryna bully each other around. I quickly understood that i had to joke around with them if not I'll be the joke.
I had to watch that intro more than five times. LoL😂
That first minute was some of the funniest shit i seen today 😂😂
You have to destroy your ego to build a ruge confidence
Thanks George,Great Advice
I don't like the goofy intro but I ve leaned alot from you thanks man
Your banter rings true, it's how vikings would banter. The viking poet was called a Skald. It's not far removed from the English world Scold. I think you know where I'm getting with this. ;) A good skald would be able to honour the king rightly, and dishonour the enemy so much so that they'd lose their temper and attack first, which would always put them at a disadvantage.
Perfect right around the 15-minute mark he states that racism is alive and well and then turns around and says that it was all in good humour and everybody became really good friends and in that construction environment you had to grow thick skin. This gives me hope for the younger generation. Back in the 80s I I kid you not the racism card wasn't thrown around and like 90% of most people got along because of humor. Back then just like now there's a small percentage of a-holes that are the outliers
16:38 - 17:03 Reminds me of that joke, “They could call me ‘Argus the Bridge Builder’ or ‘Argus the Mason’ but nooooo, you hump a sheep one time…” 🤣
Probably the best opening I’ve ever seen in a video 🤣
Its another great video... Thank you for sharing😢
Worked with Scottish builders were brain destroying. 🔥🔥🔥
Probably the Best job which i ever had 💪❤️💪❤️💪🏴🏴🏴
goat channel with goat advice
The intro, top fucking gangster ! LOL
As a beer salesman for last 20.years. I learned this lesson. Use to be be a people pleaser and simp. Once I didnt give an f@#k the world opened to me. Doubled my income in two years. Woman noticed and hit on me daily. Even girls half my age. Im 41 and learned through pain and suffering to be strong. Was hard painful lessons but made my life limitless.
That intro was so funny and dayum she gorgeous
How do I stop getting mad about people talking over me, disrespecting me, and mocking me when I try to speak seriously?
have self respect and understand that it's mostly not personal😊
One thing to help with being talked over is ALWAYS finish your sentence. Someone interrupting you might have something better to say, but probably not; but if you immediately stop talking and listen to them, you’re handing over all the power in the conversation 🙃 So you don’t have to blaze forward and finish your paragraph/whole argument, but at least finish your sentence/current thought and then listen to what others are contributing to the conversation 😎
Operate as though they don’t exist. If they confront you, then do as they did.
omg the first clip he driving with woman is so funny and interesting xd,we need more and long versions of that
Funny but very true, which is probably why it's funny.
You are a good teacher by the way. Your videos are informative & entertaining
bro that was funny affffff🤣
I dont feel anything nowadays tackling situations that i once feared . I feel a deep sense of calmness within me. Is this confidence?
It’s wisdom and perspective
Yes bro, you've already over that BS. Congrats 👏👏
Bro you are awesome, i like you are videos very much, I'm from Macedonia and we are very similar guys,for sure we can be very good friends, I'm also very street smart and i can tell when something is fake and i can tell that situation in car with girl and a fight with that guy is stage as fuck don't pun intended, only talking about that many guys will think that if you stage videos what other isn't true about you, its only opinion with no bad intentions at all, keep up the good work man, we need more guys like you cause 90% maybe more guys on UA-cam wich say that they are date coaches and players they do not know shit about the real game, they copy each other and make load of money from beta males, you are straight as fuck and i like that casue i'm same, keep up the good work 💯 💪👊
Damn the first one was fine.
Thank you brother!! You and Casey Zander are the epitome of masculinity and you are both teaching us the most important part, honing skills of being a full stack man by personally experiencing them.
That guy that says to calmly and politely address the disrespect look at his appearance he looks like a pretty boy 😂
This podcast is so funny😂😂😂 Thank you George
Please make a video how to start a conversation in a flirting way you are a great coach
It’s all internal 👍🙏🐉
Real shit right here bro
We want more of that funny sh#it 😂
I dont care who or what it is, if he speaks about my parents in that way i am going to show him how he has to speak with me after work.
Did you learn nothing from the video 😂
@@christopherrussell6055 Dude that shit works when youre much younger then the guys "bullying" you. I had someone once who made a joke like that. I stood up, went right in front of him and stared in his eyes. I told him if he dares to call me again a son of a bitch I will slash open his neck and let him slowly suffocate in his own blood. In front of every body.
No body ever once disrespected me after that incident. Not even my boss. I know it is psychotic and I cant imagine doing that. But you need to set boundaries otherwise those fat joes wont stop that shit. Were grown up men not some high school kids who try to joke about everything there is to feel superior
It's amazing no one in the comments can tell that intro was staged / scripted
Target has Starbucks. I just found out that today. I went to get new glasses but they open at 12. Went to a Dollar general and bought two pairs of reading glasses 10 dollars each.
Not even a minute in & I'm pissing myself🤣
Thank you very much for sharing your wisdom and understanding ! Why are you showing the first video in the car ? To make us understand to not react to the girl and be calm and confident against other men ?
you're actually russian Denmo. working in a construction with stereotypical blue collars and came out as a PUA guy.
man this is gold
Can you please publish your full infields with the girls you’ve approached like the one in the video
0:38 lmaoo well played
Your channel is really good