if I'm honest, I usually cut out any clips where I talk about this kind of stuff because at the end of the day it doesn't matter. BUT this is my truth - some days it's really hard to have people judging and nitpicking every single thing you do. we're all human, trying our best, and sometimes things can get overwhelming! it's important to remember that no matter how someones life looks, everyone has good & bad days. THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE, I love you endlessly!!!! 🫶
@@imtaramichelle WoW!!! You are too beautiful.. whomever see you should believe that God is true and real.. and whenever I see you I feel like Iam in a dream.. And when we wake up we will all realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real.. ❤🌷😘 Even if let say I never seen your lovely beautiful radiant cute baby face nor touched you in any place nor smelled and kissed your wonderful neck and breast.. nor heard your lovely soft warm voice you still know that you exist, & Its true that we dont see God but we all know that God exists There was a teacher who did not believe in the existence of God, he said to his students, do you see God? the students answered no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God. then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys can you see the teachers brain? then the student answered no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said the teacher is crazy he has no brain :0) the universe science says was not always there it had a beginning point the big bang meaning it was begun initiated in other words created, thus there should be a creator, there must be a God, we don"t see God and we don"t know the essence of God thats a different story, But we see how things in the universe obey rules and we see some wisdom in things indicating he is knowledgeable and wise, and we see different things many verity of things and creatures and that indicates the capability of God, and we also see that all things are made of almost the same thing for example everything is made-up of particles meaning they share a similarity somehow indicating unity Which proves that the creator of all things is one One God for all of us God initiated everything and he repeats things too, and thats clear we see many cycles of things... water cycle, animal and plants food chain cycle and so on.. God created this life and it is only a temporary sample or an example of a coming everlasting one which could be either in heaven paradise or in hell. If we try to be good humans in life and try to obey God and his messengers and those whom rightly represent them, then we will go to heaven/paradise, if not we will go to hell fire and burn in it forever.
I just want to say that you are one of the few UA-camrs I consistently watch because of how honest and positive you are. I just appreciate how you are always spreading light and positivity but you are also true to yourself and vulnerable with us. I just think you’re great, and people who comment hateful things have a sad life.
I just wanted to say I work a typical 9-5 and there are many days where I don’t feel “enough” or like I’m just not doing anything right. Happens to all of us 💗
Tara I have been a nurse for 36 years and goodness knows there has been ups,downs,laughs,tears! And goodness knows endless times of I’m not good enough, especially as a ward manager, but we do our best, you do your best we are good enough my dear. Love your vlogs. Much love xxx
Hey Tara❤ I love the quote “it’s a bad day not a bad life” I tell myself that anytime I have a bad or overwhelming day with being a mom! Makes me feel better
I love how you are always kind to people in public and say thank you and please to everyone, it’s so rare and beautiful❤ people lose kindness so easily these days.
Never let anyone take away from you. You’re an amazing young woman. So all the haters are people who are insecure with themselves and want someone else to be insecure with them. I am 76 years old in July and I enjoy watching you believe it or not you help me out a lot with what I go through each day please never change stay you and be true to yourself. Always sending you a huge hug.
People feel the need to bring others down who are successful and thriving because they themselves feel like THEY aren’t enough. It’s not about you. You’re enough you’re doing amazing and all of us who support you, are proud of you. For the people trying to bring you down…let’s wish them the best and hope they find their happiness. You’re videos have gotten me through some rough days after my mom passed just this year. Watching you thrive somehow made me feel better. Even if it was just for a moment. I appreciated it. Keep it up sis!!! ❤
Just to add to your comment. There are also successful people who do the same thing… not everyone is struggling. There are people who have a scarcity mindset and believe that other people succeeding will take away from them.
it really is so crazy how our world feels like it's falling apart, then our period comes and we just laugh away all the struggles we felt a few hours prior! all of a sudden I feel reborn & like I can take on the world haha
I just want to say, as a mom to 3 girls around your age (32, 29, & 26), I wish I had been as well put together at your age as you are. Nobody is perfect, we all have flaws, limitations, and challenges but it’s what you do with your strengths in spite of your flaws or to overcome them. I think you are doing phenomenally well.
Yes! I totally agree. And making mistakes is part of life and an essential part of the learning process. I don't know why some people can't understand that.
Thank you for sharing a vulnerable moment of your day! Remember, misery LOVES company, so anyone telling you to change is just someone who is unhappy with themselves. They see something in you they'd love to have/be, but instead of working on themselves to get there, they're trying to drag you down. You get to live life on your own terms, which is beautiful! 💕
I don't comment very often, and I have been a follower of yours since the pandemic. I am much older than you, (you remind me of my little sister) but I love your content and that you share your life with us. You are doing everything that is right for you. Don't let the negative nellies get to you. I love to grab a glass of wine and watch your vlogs. You are upbeat, fun, and just living your life. I love your close relationships with your friends and family. You made great decisions to get you where you are and I love every second that you choose to share with us!!! For every troll out there, there are plenty of us real people out here who value what you share. You are amazing - never forget that!!
People telling you that you can't handle your job because negative comments (you didn't ask for and don't deserve) bother you sometimes is literally gaslighting. Toxic, toxic, toxic. Keep being yourself, Tara. That's why we like you and why you have so many followers! ❤❤
Thank you for having the courage to simply talk about it, it means more than you know. So happy I waited to catch up on your videos the timing was perfect. I saw this when I was meant to watch it. It makes me feel better to know I’m not alone 😢💕💕💕
You got this, boo. We all have those days like you said. Usually, I let myself feel it for a bit and then move past it. Just know you got folks who love you and appreciate all you do!❤
I just want to let you know the last 2 month i binge watched almost all of your videos ! Let me tell you YOU ARE AMAZING AND BIG BLESSING! ❤ it makes me so happy to see how you live your life and being so brave to share your life with all of us wow! Big inspiration and motivation for everyone. Thank youu for being yourself bc you perfect just the way you are❤
I can totally relate with your rant about negative comments. You’re human and you have feelings and insecurities just like anyone else. It’s crazy how cruel and evil people can be for absolutely no reason. And they don’t care if it hurts the person they’re directing it too. But I always remind myself of why I do what I do AND that karma is real and they will get back what they’re putting out ten-fold.
I am so sorry to hear that there are people out there that feel they now what is better for you than you do. I enjoy watching your videos , especially when your family and Brady are in it. I love when you and your dad take on projects. You guys are making lots of memories.
Love the honesty!!! Your doing more than amazing!!!! Honestly your life is my dream life! ✨️ i dont think your doing anything wrong. Plus its your life not ours. You have your own home, a loving family, amazing friends, you travel, financially stable, your gorgeous! I wish i had your life!!!!
we luv you tara, you have a right to feel the way you feel luv❤!! we all have up and down days!! i love you for being yourself, and sharing the way you feel!! we are here for you!! luv ya babe❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤!!!!
Thank you for opening up! Life can be really mean and our own anxieties are so hard. I have been in my head a lot lately so I totally understand. Feel better ❤
I love that you’re keeping in clips like this and being real with us. I definitely am one to live in my head. I’ve recently been going through some heartbreak and the feeling of not getting out of my head as much as I was to is and overwhelming process. Im usually actively always scrolling on social media and honestly cant do it. I always feel like I’ve gotten heartbroken in the past but this one just hits really different. Questioning every ounce of my self worth. When you share vlogs like this it’s motivating to see because it helps realize your not alone and how help motivate me to push though. Seeing way that help you cope allows be to push myself to try harder to find the way to cope and get though those tough days.
When I started watching this vlog, I was also at the height of a PMS bad mood but I paused in the middle and took your advice and got outside and out of my head. When I got back home I felt SO much better and finished watching in a WAY better mood. ❤❤❤ Perfect timing. Great advice. Thanks!
You are more than enough ❤ Thank you for sharing. Going through a rough period myself, on sick leave for being burnt out. Your vlogs are the best company.
Your videos are literally my favorite videos. I watch so many UA-camrs and yours are the only ones I watch consistently and check each time you post. You are honest, real, and the most entertaining, so thank you!! 🥰
I never thought about how it might feel receiving all of those little advices from everyone on your side. With vlogs it kinda feels like we're "spending time together" sort of like catching up with a friend but you don't know us and it must be overwhelming at times to have everyone's opinion on everything you do! I'll definitely be more mindful in the comments! Thanks for sharing that!
We all struggle with these things in our daily lives. I can not imagine the amount of them you have to deal with being so open on the Internet. We as a society have forgotten how to be vulnerable and now we see it as a weakness. Be you always because your the only one❤ It’s so easy to hide behind our keyboards and nitpick and judge but they wouldn’t dare say it to your face. I tell my kiddos when they face these things in their friend groups that the only opinion that matters is what you think of yourself. No one else really matters.
Hi Tara, I’ve been a viewer for a LONG time now and just wanted to say that I relate so much to you.. I get that feeling all the time about not being good enough or not being perfect. I get those days too where I’m in my head and feel like I’m not enough. Thank you for the reminder that I’m not alone. I love your videos ❤ Keep doing you, you’re enough!
I really admire you for being so honest and also putting yourself at the internet. It’s become such a harsh place and at the same time a beautiful experience. You are like one of 3 yt vloggers I follow. I don’t agree with all you say but that’s all okay! We are different people, I really don’t understand why people have a need to bully and push people down. But just live your best life and try just to ignore them! Xoxo
I love your content - your positivity, outlook on life, the way you SHOW EMOTION! Like girl! You get excited and you cry and you laugh and your thrilled. It's important - aaalllll of it is. It's important to show it too! I just wanted to come on here and add that you can't have the highs without the lows - both teach you something and as long as you're dedicated to learning which I think you are, then you are not off track! What you said was bang on - you aren't everyone's, but you are people's cup of tea (including me). As a first responder and working in health care, I sometimes get so tired and discouraged and often forget to nurture myself and my immediate circle and you remind me to do that! I totally get the emotionality of PMS, but don't dismiss your feelings. They are important, even the rocky ones or maybe especially those ones, to reaffirm to myself that no matter people's reactions or words, I need to know why and if I am committed to the views that got challenged and if they still hold after someone said something negative, then I can be solid about that! Sometimes, people can make me re-evaluate, but only after I've gone through that process. No one, not even your closest people, will comprehend the breadth of who you are, not even you sometimes. That can be scary or it can be beautiful depending on how you look at it. I think of it as pretty amazing. I for one am glad you posted this!
Hi Tara! Thanks for being open about your experience and real struggles. I’ve been watching you for YEARS and really look forward to all your vlogs 🫶🏿 you’re doing great girly!!✨
Tara, don't change a thing. You are a beautiful person, inside and out. I enjoy watching your journey. Do your vlogs for you and what makes you feel your best. You will attract the audience that loves you for you. Thank you for sharing your life and vulnerabilities with all of us. We love you and will always continue to support you.
I just recently had a day/week like this and it’s so refreshing to hear that I’m not the only one that has felt like this! You were spot on with what you said, it doesn’t mean you can’t continue and get better at it ❤ thanks Tara
Here, let me try this whole "let's tell our internet content creator what they should be doing" thing. Tara, don't change a thing. You're doing just fine. Keep being your fabulous self, most of us here love you exactly as is. ❤ There, did I do it right? 😂
I adore you! You seem like such a fun, loyal, caring person and friend. Just remember, you are human. The negative comments are just from people who are suffering themselves and project their own insecurities. Don't ever doubt yourself because I personally enjoy watching along your life and I appreciate it!
You are PERFECT the way you are. I get so motivated when I watch your videos. Inspired really, and all those negative people are honestly just jealous because what you do isn't easy. Not just the tech of it all, but to put your entire self out there your life for people to watch. I would like to see them try to do that and not hide behind a comment box. You keep on keeping on, because for those of us who come here every week, we adore you ❤
Don’t let anything bring you down Tara. You’re an amazing lady ❤️ you’re raw unlike any other UA-camr I watch and that makes you real. I’m a 55 years old lady that just happened to stumbled across your channel and enjoyed watching you, so I subscribed. I have daughter probably your age (not sure how old you are) and just like your channel because I enjoyed the relation you have with your mother as I do with my girls. Love you and wish you the best! ❤️🙏💪
I just wanna say I think you’re doing great in life! I watch you cause you are positive, uplifting, and authentic. Also love that lip color on you. Keep your head up and keep shining bright!
Tara, I left my job as a teacher because I was so tired of parents and administrators telling me I was doing things wrong. I couldn’t please anyone and it was horrible. To some extent I understand how you feel. You need to live your life in a way that makes you happy. People who think they know better should mind their own business!
Girl, you do you! I know you’re confident in who and what you’re all about. I also know you’ll let it go and move on. Like you said, sometimes you just have a bad day. Remember that.
Beautiful Tara. You know you best. People forget that because you invite them into your life and share aspects of it, it’s not open house on who and how you are. Keep on keeping on. Love your vlogs. ❤️
The notification i was waiting for 😭😭 tara i love you so much you are my inspration like 3 years now and i just want you to know you are not alone 🫂 thank you for everything 💜💜
Tara you've got your ish together who cares what others say! Alot of times if their life was perfect they wouldn't say anything to you!! Have a great weekend and your back yard has come a long.way!
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts Tara, I really needed to hear this today❤️. I’ve been having a bad day today, and your vlog was exactly what I needed!
Love ya Tara. I had one of those off weeks too, i was way yoo emotional. Today wss a better day. Got a compliment from a total stranger and it made my day better. 😊. You are so amazing. You are real & your Enough for me. .. Team Enough! ❤❤ love ya lots
Thank you for showing the world that you are human like the rest of us💗 I feel like people get this weird notion in their heads that they can be extra critical toward someone who they don't know personally in "real life", which quite honestly makes me angry because everyone has feelings. Just know if you are doing what feels right for you, you are doing it right. That's truly all that matters 💗
My biggest insecurity is that I’m stupid, and for you to share that you have to deal w that jab coming from other people was so powerful to me. I see you as such a successful, wise, nurturing and positive decision making person. So to know that you hear the same chatter (whether it’s external or internal) gave me the boost I needed today. Thank you ❤
Coming out of a bad day at work giiirll I can relate. I've had enough of today and have been trying to clear my head so I can enjoy my Friday and the weekend!
Thank you for doing this vlog,I know I go through days where I feel just like that too. No matter what anyone says they will never know how you feel,it's hard to explain in my case it's just hard. May is a hard month for me and the depression and anxiety runs higher for many reasons. Mental health is real and I wish more people would realize this. Again thank you for saying this for us ones that battle it each day it's a hard journey. Much love and just be you ❤
their is no right way to do snything, everyone does things in so many different ways and you are absolutely killing it, you have built such an amazing life for yoursef and it doesn’t matter what anyone has to say about it. no matter what people say you are honeslty brilliant and for everyone person that has something negative to say their are at least a hundred other people that love you to make up for it
This is why I LOVE YOU and watching your videos!! You aren't fake! You are a real human being just like us, and show that you aren't perfect, NOBODY is perfect, (granted I don't see where you messed up, or did something dumb) I don't see nor ever seen it. You are a young, inspirational human being and we all love you :)
girl, i had a breakdown on my birthday over the weekend. you make me feel normal Lol. you're one of the very few influencers i like, because of this realness right here.
It’s true everyone has those days and feel more sensitive then other days. And sadly sometimes it helps to have someone say you’ll be fine . Nothings wrong. Even though you don’t feel like nothings wrong. But it’s true. Nothing is wrong. You will see. Let the day pass. Y’all be alright.
This is why i love you and how real you are. this week i was going through some stuff as well. we all have our moments and it's OKAY. we're human. for anyone who expects differently from you or who judges you for not being "perfect", honestly need to collect themselves and look within. not one person on this planet has had perfect moments. let's be real. also, for anyone who makes you feel less than, shouldn't be watching your videos and making you feel less than. it's not a nice feeling to see or hear and i hope you know to never take responsibility for someone's judgement on you. continue doing what you are doing. ❤
Tara, I think you’re doing an amazing job at being human. You always put a smile on my face, and make my days better so thank you. 🤍 Oh also your dad helping you with your hydrangeas is SO cute 🥹
Babe YOU ARE ENOUGH YOURE AMAZING and we love you! You’re not perfect and you won’t always do everything right, especially when it comes to people who just want to see the flaws in everyone. There’s nothing normal about being perfect and we don’t want perfection from you. It honestly makes some people feel better to point out other peoples shortcomings or even just pick apart everything. But they want to dim your light. Cheer up buttercup :)
Ahhh I’m so early!! Just wanna say you’re my favorite and you truly make a difference in the world!! Keep living your best life Tara! Thank you for letting us be apart of it:)
I watch 4 vlogers..the only person I cannot miss their vlogs...that person is you my darling. I'm 75 and you are one of the few vlogers that are so honest and vulnerable..aren't we all...one piece of passing down my 75 years on this Earth...you are not here to make people happy or not..not here to be loved or liked by all...none of us have that power...not here to receive miss congenialty award...best way to ignore people who critize everyone and everything...keep on laughing...keep on succeeding...keep on loving yourself ...family..friends and life in general..heard this most of my life..rocks and stones can hurt me but words can never harm me..then laugh..dance..and say to yourself..I really don't give a rats ass stuck on an ice cube. What you think. You will be fine..you are the most loving and caring human beings here.Lots of love and happiness.
Tara!!!!!! It’s so frustrating to hear about these comments bringing you down. It’s funny how they click to watch you & try to change the things that make you special , yet I’m here watching because I think all the things you do are so special!!! You motivate me to do more for myself & I can sit here for HOURS binging your content because it’s so YOU & not all cookie cutter shit! I appreciate your vulnerability. I get annoyed hearing you talk about this simply because I hate that people make you feel like that. LET THE GIRL LIVE! You don’t like it leave & leave space in the comments for us girlies who want that positive , fresh, productive, vibes that Tara creates in this little community! Girl, BYE ✌🏻 KEEP IT UP TARA! I come here to watch YOU & your truest you. 🤍 even on the hard days ✨🤍
The emotions totally make sense right before! I felt so relieved when my OG GYN doc told me I wasn't crazy or crazy emotional for no reason, it was just the hormones and then as soon as it hits, something is released (I forget what) and we are leveled out again 😊
Tara, One of my secrets in life. It took around 40 years or so to figure it out. Now in my 50's I have seen it work. If someone is not important to me or in my daily life, I really don't digest what they say. I just refuse to let them take up space in my heart, soul or mind rent free. In case of toxic family or friends I go no contact. Period. No conversations about it. I block them and move forward. If their behaviors change then I might decide to involve them again. But for the most part, I keep my mind and soul free of opinions that don't add to my contentment. You are on a good course in life, don't let people who are not on their course, disrupt yours. Light and love sent your way.
Hey, love this was a great video now don't let nobody control your life. They wish they had your life. So keep the video coming and thank them for giving you a bag ❤❤❤
You're not alone. Advice is okay when asked. And while well intended, it CAN be and IS overwhelming when you're public. You're allowed to feel too much about it. You're also allowed to do what feels right to you.I'vee had a few shitty days back to back, and ya know, sometimes you just gotta go thru them and then put it behind you. It IS normal, like you said. Hope you feel better!! ❤
I think ur doing an amazing job and I love how real u are. I have 3 young kids and my life is a mess but sometimes the best lives are messy lives. Just remember their comments are a reflection of them and not you they r trying to make themselves feel better or justify the way they do things as being correct. Keep being you
Love you girl..ignore the naysayers who only put you down because they are pea green jealous of you and your success. You've worked hard for everything you have...be proud you deserve the best...big big hugs
Never feel like you have to apologise for talking about your period or your hormones or even just the way you are feeling, at some point we've all been there. we all have bad days. and knowing that someone else especially someone we all look up to has those days is really comforting and lets you know you're not alone. also we all love you and there is always going to be more good than bad. Love you and hope you feel better xxx
Thank you for sharing this. I’ve had a couple weeks like this, and it really changes my frame of mind knowing it’s not just me. I scheduled myself a nail appointment and feeling better. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Honestly,I think you are doing so many things right! I'm 31 and wish I had my stuff together as much as you do. I know you aren't perfect but for your age you have accomplished so much. Just remember the people who say mean things on here are just trying to make you feel bad because they don't like themselves. They see you being happy, successful, traveling, etc. And they want to tear you down. It's still not easy to read mean things. It hurts. But remember you aren't doing anything wrong. Nothing is wrong with you. It's them. Also your outfit you walked in was very cute and your hydrangeas are beautiful ❤️
if I'm honest, I usually cut out any clips where I talk about this kind of stuff because at the end of the day it doesn't matter. BUT this is my truth - some days it's really hard to have people judging and nitpicking every single thing you do. we're all human, trying our best, and sometimes things can get overwhelming! it's important to remember that no matter how someones life looks, everyone has good & bad days. THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE, I love you endlessly!!!! 🫶
Thank you for sharing!
Love you too ❤
Exactly, thank you!
Tara, you are enough! What matters is if you like who you are. Everyone else can sit and spit!💗
It’s so important to share our truths. You are doing a great job at this life malarkey and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. 🩷
The heightened stress and anxiety and emotional outbursts and then you get your period and youre like “oh…well that makes sense…” IS SO REAL
RIGHT?!?!?! LOL
@@imtaramichelle
WoW!!!
You are too beautiful..
whomever see you should believe that God is true and real..
and whenever I see you I feel like Iam in a dream..
And when we wake up we will all realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real..
❤🌷😘
Even if let say I never seen your lovely beautiful radiant
cute baby face
nor touched you
in any place
nor smelled and kissed your wonderful neck and breast..
nor heard your lovely soft warm voice
you still know that you exist,
& Its true that we dont see God but we all know that God exists
There was a teacher who did not believe in the existence of God, he said to his students, do you see God?
the students answered no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God.
then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys can you see the teachers brain?
then the student answered no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said the teacher is crazy he has no brain
:0)
the universe
science says
was not always there it had a beginning point
the big bang
meaning it was begun initiated in other words created,
thus there should be a creator,
there must be a God,
we don"t see God and we don"t know the essence of God thats a different story,
But we see how things in the universe obey rules and we see some wisdom in things indicating he is knowledgeable and wise, and we see different things many verity of things and creatures
and that indicates the capability of God,
and we also see that all things are made of almost the same thing
for example everything is made-up of particles
meaning they share a similarity somehow indicating unity
Which proves that the creator of all things is one
One God for all of us
God initiated everything and he repeats things too, and thats clear we see many cycles of things... water cycle,
animal and plants food chain cycle and so on..
God created this life and it is only a temporary sample or an example of a coming everlasting one which
could be either in heaven paradise or in hell.
If we try to be
good humans in life and try to obey God and his messengers and those whom rightly represent them, then we will go to heaven/paradise, if not we will go to hell fire and burn in it forever.
I just want to say that you are one of the few UA-camrs I consistently watch because of how honest and positive you are. I just appreciate how you are always spreading light and positivity but you are also true to yourself and vulnerable with us. I just think you’re great, and people who comment hateful things have a sad life.
I love how honest you are about REAL THINGS we ALL go through. Thank you for always staying true to yourself and keeping it REAL ❤️❤️❤️
I just wanted to say I work a typical 9-5 and there are many days where I don’t feel “enough” or like I’m just not doing anything right. Happens to all of us 💗
Yes this 💯
Yessss.
🙌 it's one of those things that life throws at us, and sometimes, it can be such a struggle to overcome.
So true 💙
Tara I have been a nurse for 36 years and goodness knows there has been ups,downs,laughs,tears! And goodness knows endless times of I’m not good enough, especially as a ward manager, but we do our best, you do your best we are good enough my dear. Love your vlogs. Much love xxx
I've been experiencing this with my job too. Thank you for showing how human you are. WE WILL GET THROUGH IT
Hey Tara❤ I love the quote “it’s a bad day not a bad life” I tell myself that anytime I have a bad or overwhelming day with being a mom! Makes me feel better
I love how you are always kind to people in public and say thank you and please to everyone, it’s so rare and beautiful❤ people lose kindness so easily these days.
Never let anyone take away from you. You’re an amazing young woman. So all the haters are people who are insecure with themselves and want someone else to be insecure with them. I am 76 years old in July and I enjoy watching you believe it or not you help me out a lot with what I go through each day please never change stay you and be true to yourself. Always sending you a huge hug.
People feel the need to bring others down who are successful and thriving because they themselves feel like THEY aren’t enough. It’s not about you. You’re enough you’re doing amazing and all of us who support you, are proud of you. For the people trying to bring you down…let’s wish them the best and hope they find their happiness. You’re videos have gotten me through some rough days after my mom passed just this year. Watching you thrive somehow made me feel better. Even if it was just for a moment. I appreciated it. Keep it up sis!!! ❤
Just to add to your comment. There are also successful people who do the same thing… not everyone is struggling. There are people who have a scarcity mindset and believe that other people succeeding will take away from them.
it really is so crazy how our world feels like it's falling apart, then our period comes and we just laugh away all the struggles we felt a few hours prior! all of a sudden I feel reborn & like I can take on the world haha
I just want to say, as a mom to 3 girls around your age (32, 29, & 26), I wish I had been as well put together at your age as you are. Nobody is perfect, we all have flaws, limitations, and challenges but it’s what you do with your strengths in spite of your flaws or to overcome them. I think you are doing phenomenally well.
So I’m not the only one watching who is old enough to be Tara’s mom? Whew!
Yes! I totally agree. And making mistakes is part of life and an essential part of the learning process. I don't know why some people can't understand that.
favorite part of my day💕💕 love seeing how open and honest you are in every vlog. It’s like watching my bestie
Tara I think your Awesome don’t ever let anyone bring you down We can only do our best you have a very refreshing and vibrant personality ! ❤
Thank you for sharing a vulnerable moment of your day! Remember, misery LOVES company, so anyone telling you to change is just someone who is unhappy with themselves. They see something in you they'd love to have/be, but instead of working on themselves to get there, they're trying to drag you down. You get to live life on your own terms, which is beautiful! 💕
I don't comment very often, and I have been a follower of yours since the pandemic. I am much older than you, (you remind me of my little sister) but I love your content and that you share your life with us. You are doing everything that is right for you. Don't let the negative nellies get to you. I love to grab a glass of wine and watch your vlogs. You are upbeat, fun, and just living your life. I love your close relationships with your friends and family. You made great decisions to get you where you are and I love every second that you choose to share with us!!! For every troll out there, there are plenty of us real people out here who value what you share. You are amazing - never forget that!!
People telling you that you can't handle your job because negative comments (you didn't ask for and don't deserve) bother you sometimes is literally gaslighting. Toxic, toxic, toxic. Keep being yourself, Tara. That's why we like you and why you have so many followers! ❤❤
Thank you for having the courage to simply talk about it, it means more than you know. So happy I waited to catch up on your videos the timing was perfect. I saw this when I was meant to watch it. It makes me feel better to know I’m not alone 😢💕💕💕
You got this, boo. We all have those days like you said. Usually, I let myself feel it for a bit and then move past it. Just know you got folks who love you and appreciate all you do!❤
I just want to let you know the last 2 month i binge watched almost all of your videos ! Let me tell you YOU ARE AMAZING AND BIG BLESSING! ❤ it makes me so happy to see how you live your life and being so brave to share your life with all of us wow! Big inspiration and motivation for everyone. Thank youu for being yourself bc you perfect just the way you are❤
I can totally relate with your rant about negative comments. You’re human and you have feelings and insecurities just like anyone else. It’s crazy how cruel and evil people can be for absolutely no reason. And they don’t care if it hurts the person they’re directing it too. But I always remind myself of why I do what I do AND that karma is real and they will get back what they’re putting out ten-fold.
I am so sorry to hear that there are people out there that feel they now what is better for you than you do. I enjoy watching your videos , especially when your family and Brady are in it. I love when you and your dad take on projects. You guys are making lots of memories.
Love the honesty!!! Your doing more than amazing!!!! Honestly your life is my dream life! ✨️ i dont think your doing anything wrong. Plus its your life not ours. You have your own home, a loving family, amazing friends, you travel, financially stable, your gorgeous! I wish i had your life!!!!
I’m loving the addition of the menu items you order - so interactive and fun! ❤
we luv you tara, you have a right to feel the way you feel luv❤!! we all have up and down days!! i love you for being yourself, and sharing the way you feel!! we are here for you!! luv ya babe❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤!!!!
Thank you for opening up! Life can be really mean and our own anxieties are so hard. I have been in my head a lot lately so I totally understand. Feel better ❤
I LOVE watching your vlogs in the morning. You’re always funny and energetic and put me in a better mood☺️
I love that you’re keeping in clips like this and being real with us. I definitely am one to live in my head. I’ve recently been going through some heartbreak and the feeling of not getting out of my head as much as I was to is and overwhelming process. Im usually actively always scrolling on social media and honestly cant do it. I always feel like I’ve gotten heartbroken in the past but this one just hits really different. Questioning every ounce of my self worth. When you share vlogs like this it’s motivating to see because it helps realize your not alone and how help motivate me to push though. Seeing way that help you cope allows be to push myself to try harder to find the way to cope and get though those tough days.
When I started watching this vlog, I was also at the height of a PMS bad mood but I paused in the middle and took your advice and got outside and out of my head. When I got back home I felt SO much better and finished watching in a WAY better mood. ❤❤❤ Perfect timing. Great advice. Thanks!
You are more than enough ❤ Thank you for sharing. Going through a rough period myself, on sick leave for being burnt out. Your vlogs are the best company.
the hair looks AMAZING tara omg
Your videos are literally my favorite videos. I watch so many UA-camrs and yours are the only ones I watch consistently and check each time you post. You are honest, real, and the most entertaining, so thank you!! 🥰
I never thought about how it might feel receiving all of those little advices from everyone on your side. With vlogs it kinda feels like we're "spending time together" sort of like catching up with a friend but you don't know us and it must be overwhelming at times to have everyone's opinion on everything you do! I'll definitely be more mindful in the comments! Thanks for sharing that!
We all struggle with these things in our daily lives. I can not imagine the amount of them you have to deal with being so open on the Internet. We as a society have forgotten how to be vulnerable and now we see it as a weakness. Be you always because your the only one❤ It’s so easy to hide behind our keyboards and nitpick and judge but they wouldn’t dare say it to your face. I tell my kiddos when they face these things in their friend groups that the only opinion that matters is what you think of yourself. No one else really matters.
Hi Tara,
I’ve been a viewer for a LONG time now and just wanted to say that I relate so much to you.. I get that feeling all the time about not being good enough or not being perfect. I get those days too where I’m in my head and feel like I’m not enough. Thank you for the reminder that I’m not alone. I love your videos ❤ Keep doing you, you’re enough!
I really admire you for being so honest and also putting yourself at the internet. It’s become such a harsh place and at the same time a beautiful experience. You are like one of 3 yt vloggers I follow. I don’t agree with all you say but that’s all okay! We are different people, I really don’t understand why people have a need to bully and push people down.
But just live your best life and try just to ignore them! Xoxo
I love your content - your positivity, outlook on life, the way you SHOW EMOTION! Like girl! You get excited and you cry and you laugh and your thrilled. It's important - aaalllll of it is. It's important to show it too! I just wanted to come on here and add that you can't have the highs without the lows - both teach you something and as long as you're dedicated to learning which I think you are, then you are not off track! What you said was bang on - you aren't everyone's, but you are people's cup of tea (including me). As a first responder and working in health care, I sometimes get so tired and discouraged and often forget to nurture myself and my immediate circle and you remind me to do that! I totally get the emotionality of PMS, but don't dismiss your feelings. They are important, even the rocky ones or maybe especially those ones, to reaffirm to myself that no matter people's reactions or words, I need to know why and if I am committed to the views that got challenged and if they still hold after someone said something negative, then I can be solid about that! Sometimes, people can make me re-evaluate, but only after I've gone through that process. No one, not even your closest people, will comprehend the breadth of who you are, not even you sometimes. That can be scary or it can be beautiful depending on how you look at it. I think of it as pretty amazing. I for one am glad you posted this!
Hi Tara! Thanks for being open about your experience and real struggles. I’ve been watching you for YEARS and really look forward to all your vlogs 🫶🏿 you’re doing great girly!!✨
Tara, don't change a thing. You are a beautiful person, inside and out. I enjoy watching your journey. Do your vlogs for you and what makes you feel your best. You will attract the audience that loves you for you. Thank you for sharing your life and vulnerabilities with all of us. We love you and will always continue to support you.
I just recently had a day/week like this and it’s so refreshing to hear that I’m not the only one that has felt like this! You were spot on with what you said, it doesn’t mean you can’t continue and get better at it ❤ thanks Tara
Here, let me try this whole "let's tell our internet content creator what they should be doing" thing.
Tara, don't change a thing. You're doing just fine. Keep being your fabulous self, most of us here love you exactly as is. ❤
There, did I do it right? 😂
Perfect
I adore you! You seem like such a fun, loyal, caring person and friend. Just remember, you are human. The negative comments are just from people who are suffering themselves and project their own insecurities. Don't ever doubt yourself because I personally enjoy watching along your life and I appreciate it!
I honestly love your videos. anytime you post, seriously makes my day. I tend to binge watch so it's like chillin' with a friend.
You are PERFECT the way you are. I get so motivated when I watch your videos. Inspired really, and all those negative people are honestly just jealous because what you do isn't easy. Not just the tech of it all, but to put your entire self out there your life for people to watch. I would like to see them try to do that and not hide behind a comment box. You keep on keeping on, because for those of us who come here every week, we adore you ❤
I had that week last week! I think you are wonderful, don’t let your thoughts keep you down!
Tara you’re def enough! Pure positivity here. Your vlogs make my day.
Don’t let anything bring you down Tara. You’re an amazing lady ❤️ you’re raw unlike any other UA-camr I watch and that makes you real. I’m a 55 years old lady that just happened to stumbled across your channel and enjoyed watching you, so I subscribed. I have daughter probably your age (not sure how old you are) and just like your channel because I enjoyed the relation you have with your mother as I do with my girls. Love you and wish you the best! ❤️🙏💪
I just wanna say I think you’re doing great in life! I watch you cause you are positive, uplifting, and authentic. Also love that lip color on you. Keep your head up and keep shining bright!
Tara, I left my job as a teacher because I was so tired of parents and administrators telling me I was doing things wrong. I couldn’t please anyone and it was horrible. To some extent I understand how you feel. You need to live your life in a way that makes you happy. People who think they know better should mind their own business!
Girl, you do you! I know you’re confident in who and what you’re all about. I also know you’ll let it go and move on. Like you said, sometimes you just have a bad day. Remember that.
I'm a week behind but I feel ya. This week for me has been rough emotionally. I hope you are feeling better. Just be who you are ❤️!
Beautiful Tara. You know you best. People forget that because you invite them into your life and share aspects of it, it’s not open house on who and how you are. Keep on keeping on. Love your vlogs. ❤️
The notification i was waiting for 😭😭 tara i love you so much you are my inspration like 3 years now and i just want you to know you are not alone 🫂 thank you for everything 💜💜
Tara you've got your ish together who cares what others say! Alot of times if their life was perfect they wouldn't say anything to you!! Have a great weekend and your back yard has come a long.way!
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts Tara, I really needed to hear this today❤️. I’ve been having a bad day today, and your vlog was exactly what I needed!
Sending you love 🫶🏼
Love ya Tara. I had one of those off weeks too, i was way yoo emotional. Today wss a better day. Got a compliment from a total stranger and it made my day better. 😊. You are so amazing. You are real & your Enough for me. .. Team Enough! ❤❤ love ya lots
Thank you for showing the world that you are human like the rest of us💗 I feel like people get this weird notion in their heads that they can be extra critical toward someone who they don't know personally in "real life", which quite honestly makes me angry because everyone has feelings. Just know if you are doing what feels right for you, you are doing it right. That's truly all that matters 💗
My biggest insecurity is that I’m stupid, and for you to share that you have to deal w that jab coming from other people was so powerful to me. I see you as such a successful, wise, nurturing and positive decision making person. So to know that you hear the same chatter (whether it’s external or internal) gave me the boost I needed today. Thank you ❤
The beginning of this vlog was so relatable!
You are doing amazing. Never doubt yourself🧸
omg literally EVERY angle.....Tara is just 😚🤌🏼
You do you hun I look forward to seeing your Vlogs every time and some of the things you do started today. Thank you for that
Coming out of a bad day at work giiirll I can relate. I've had enough of today and have been trying to clear my head so I can enjoy my Friday and the weekend!
Thank you for doing this vlog,I know I go through days where I feel just like that too. No matter what anyone says they will never know how you feel,it's hard to explain in my case it's just hard. May is a hard month for me and the depression and anxiety runs higher for many reasons. Mental health is real and I wish more people would realize this. Again thank you for saying this for us ones that battle it each day it's a hard journey. Much love and just be you ❤
their is no right way to do snything, everyone does things in so many different ways and you are absolutely killing it, you have built such an amazing life for yoursef and it doesn’t matter what anyone has to say about it. no matter what people say you are honeslty brilliant and for everyone person that has something negative to say their are at least a hundred other people that love you to make up for it
This is why I LOVE YOU and watching your videos!! You aren't fake! You are a real human being just like us, and show that you aren't perfect, NOBODY is perfect, (granted I don't see where you messed up, or did something dumb) I don't see nor ever seen it. You are a young, inspirational human being and we all love you :)
girl, i had a breakdown on my birthday over the weekend. you make me feel normal Lol. you're one of the very few influencers i like, because of this realness right here.
It’s true everyone has those days and feel more sensitive then other days. And sadly sometimes it helps to have someone say you’ll be fine . Nothings wrong. Even though you don’t feel like nothings wrong. But it’s true. Nothing is wrong. You will see. Let the day pass. Y’all be alright.
THE SIMPLE WILD IS MY ALL TIME FAVORITE BOOK!! im so happy u loved it, also ily forever thats all ok bye
This is why i love you and how real you are. this week i was going through some stuff as well. we all have our moments and it's OKAY. we're human. for anyone who expects differently from you or who judges you for not being "perfect", honestly need to collect themselves and look within. not one person on this planet has had perfect moments. let's be real. also, for anyone who makes you feel less than, shouldn't be watching your videos and making you feel less than. it's not a nice feeling to see or hear and i hope you know to never take responsibility for someone's judgement on you. continue doing what you are doing. ❤
Tara, I think you’re doing an amazing job at being human. You always put a smile on my face, and make my days better so thank you. 🤍
Oh also your dad helping you with your hydrangeas is SO cute 🥹
Babe YOU ARE ENOUGH YOURE AMAZING and we love you! You’re not perfect and you won’t always do everything right, especially when it comes to people who just want to see the flaws in everyone. There’s nothing normal about being perfect and we don’t want perfection from you. It honestly makes some people feel better to point out other peoples shortcomings or even just pick apart everything. But they want to dim your light. Cheer up buttercup :)
I love how unapologetically YOU you are! If you wasn’t I wouldn’t watch. You make me wanna always do better!
Love the 2nd go-round of your hair. The money pieces are so pretty!!
I love you and hope you're feeling better Tara. Wish I could give you a big hug, sending a lot of good vibes from Brazil 🖤
Ahhh I’m so early!! Just wanna say you’re my favorite and you truly make a difference in the world!! Keep living your best life Tara! Thank you for letting us be apart of it:)
You deserve the world. You have worked so hard for everything. Give yourself grace 🌸We love you.
The only person you need to be “enough” for is yourself!!!! Screw everyone else!!! Love and light!!!!!❤
I watch 4 vlogers..the only person I cannot miss their vlogs...that person is you my darling. I'm 75 and you are one of the few vlogers that are so honest and vulnerable..aren't we all...one piece of passing down my 75 years on this Earth...you are not here to make people happy or not..not here to be loved or liked by all...none of us have that power...not here to receive miss congenialty award...best way to ignore people who critize everyone and everything...keep on laughing...keep on succeeding...keep on loving yourself ...family..friends and life in general..heard this most of my life..rocks and stones can hurt me but words can never harm me..then laugh..dance..and say to yourself..I really don't give a rats ass stuck on an ice cube.
What you think.
You will be fine..you are the most loving and caring human beings here.Lots of love and happiness.
You seem like such an amazing friend to have!! Love your videos! xx
Tara!!!!!!
It’s so frustrating to hear about these comments bringing you down.
It’s funny how they click to watch you & try to change the things that make you special , yet I’m here watching because I think all the things you do are so special!!!
You motivate me to do more for myself & I can sit here for HOURS binging your content because it’s so YOU & not all cookie cutter shit!
I appreciate your vulnerability. I get annoyed hearing you talk about this simply because I hate that people make you feel like that.
LET THE GIRL LIVE! You don’t like it leave & leave space in the comments for us girlies who want that positive , fresh, productive, vibes that Tara creates in this little community! Girl, BYE ✌🏻
KEEP IT UP TARA! I come here to watch YOU & your truest you. 🤍 even on the hard days ✨🤍
The emotions totally make sense right before! I felt so relieved when my OG GYN doc told me I wasn't crazy or crazy emotional for no reason, it was just the hormones and then as soon as it hits, something is released (I forget what) and we are leveled out again 😊
I love a chatty vulnerable you, I know it’s hard to open up so I appreciate your vulnerability ❤ you’re enough and worthy of everything life gives you
But you make our days brighter! You are more than enough….look at this beautiful life that you created for yourself, all by yourself ❤
Idk why but I love when you have your egg bites, soup dumplings, and soup in your vlogs. It’s comforting for some reason 😂 love you 💕
Love this 💞
Bad days are so normal & life isn’t perfect ❤
Also just planted hydrangeas & need to test my soil ph so this was perfect!!
Tara,
One of my secrets in life. It took around 40 years or so to figure it out. Now in my 50's I have seen it work.
If someone is not important to me or in my daily life, I really don't digest what they say. I just refuse to let them take up space in my heart, soul or mind rent free. In case of toxic family or friends I go no contact. Period. No conversations about it. I block them and move forward. If their behaviors change then I might decide to involve them again. But for the most part, I keep my mind and soul free of opinions that don't add to my contentment. You are on a good course in life, don't let people who are not on their course, disrupt yours. Light and love sent your way.
Hey, love this was a great video now don't let nobody control your life. They wish they had your life. So keep the video coming and thank them for giving you a bag ❤❤❤
You're not alone. Advice is okay when asked. And while well intended, it CAN be and IS overwhelming when you're public. You're allowed to feel too much about it. You're also allowed to do what feels right to you.I'vee had a few shitty days back to back, and ya know, sometimes you just gotta go thru them and then put it behind you. It IS normal, like you said. Hope you feel better!! ❤
it was super amazing meeting you on saturday!! hope you had an awesome rest of your day! 🩷🩷
We all love you so much and love you for always staying true to who you are!
We love you babe, you are strong and doing the best you can ❤
I think ur doing an amazing job and I love how real u are. I have 3 young kids and my life is a mess but sometimes the best lives are messy lives. Just remember their comments are a reflection of them and not you they r trying to make themselves feel better or justify the way they do things as being correct. Keep being you
Love you girl..ignore the naysayers who only put you down because they are pea green jealous of you and your success. You've worked hard for everything you have...be proud you deserve the best...big big hugs
Girl, I needed to see this today. Thank you for sharing your life, it really inspires me ❤
Never feel like you have to apologise for talking about your period or your hormones or even just the way you are feeling, at some point we've all been there. we all have bad days. and knowing that someone else especially someone we all look up to has those days is really comforting and lets you know you're not alone. also we all love you and there is always going to be more good than bad. Love you and hope you feel better xxx
Everyone has their off days! Ilysm
Thank you for sharing this. I’ve had a couple weeks like this, and it really changes my frame of mind knowing it’s not just me.
I scheduled myself a nail appointment and feeling better. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Honestly,I think you are doing so many things right!
I'm 31 and wish I had my stuff together as much as you do.
I know you aren't perfect but for your age you have accomplished so much.
Just remember the people who say mean things on here are just trying to make you feel bad because they don't like themselves. They see you being happy, successful, traveling, etc. And they want to tear you down.
It's still not easy to read mean things. It hurts. But remember you aren't doing anything wrong. Nothing is wrong with you. It's them.
Also your outfit you walked in was very cute and your hydrangeas are beautiful ❤️