My mother is a 6w5 and I'm a 7w8. We clash a lot over our contrasting ways of experiencing and processing anxiety. However, we can have a lot of fun together, and our respective propensities for loyalty allows us to (eventually) reconcile whenever we have a falling out. I can't imagine being in a romantic relationship with someone who grapples with as much anxiety as I do, and then on top of it consistently processes their anxiety towards the worst-case scenario. I seek solutions but can sometimes appear uncaring or dismissive about the feelings that crop up for things that don't go smoothly. My mother focuses on the negatives too much, and she can harbor sadness/anger/resentment for years. As family members, love and loyalty binds us, but especially so when we acknowledge our differences and make a deliberate effort to not try to dominate the other to think like we do. Letting my mother vent is helpful, and her sticking to actionable requests is indeed helpful for harmony to be maintained. With a lot of the 6s in my life, I find a great appreciation for their grit and ability to be there when things go south. They're great people.
My mother is a 6w5 and I'm a 7w8. We clash a lot over our contrasting ways of experiencing and processing anxiety. However, we can have a lot of fun together, and our respective propensities for loyalty allows us to (eventually) reconcile whenever we have a falling out. I can't imagine being in a romantic relationship with someone who grapples with as much anxiety as I do, and then on top of it consistently processes their anxiety towards the worst-case scenario. I seek solutions but can sometimes appear uncaring or dismissive about the feelings that crop up for things that don't go smoothly. My mother focuses on the negatives too much, and she can harbor sadness/anger/resentment for years. As family members, love and loyalty binds us, but especially so when we acknowledge our differences and make a deliberate effort to not try to dominate the other to think like we do. Letting my mother vent is helpful, and her sticking to actionable requests is indeed helpful for harmony to be maintained.
With a lot of the 6s in my life, I find a great appreciation for their grit and ability to be there when things go south. They're great people.
Thank you so much
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Can you do type 5 and type 2?