exactly... i went on birth control 3 years ago (recently stopped bc i am no longer with my bf and wont be having sex for a lonnnng time) and soon after bc i ate all the time i gained like 35 pounds or more hahah. i wasn't skinny but still lol.. i hope to get it down this summer
It’s been a struggle for me my whole life I can go down so much then go back up I realized I usually still felt fat skinnier so I’m probably not that fat now lol just have to enjoy where your at and try your best to be healthy just because you thinner it doesn’t solve your problems or make your life better and just how we think he looks good bigger other people might think we look better bigger also🤷♀️
The way you handled this was very professional honestly. Hearing you say “my body’s okay, but I’m just not okay with my body.” Almost brought tears to my eyes because I felt that, I feel that. I was pretty heavy in high school and when I moved out I lost over 30 lbs (depression, stress, no appetite) and no one commented on my heath or well being other than saying “you look so good”. People don’t care about your health, they just hate fat people. I would also suggest that if you are trying to loose weight do it for the right reason. Do it to begin a healthy life, not just to be skinny or beautiful or whatever. Because even when you loose the weight the body issues will always be there.
ayyami - I know it’s hard but try not to be fixated on the number on the scale. Weight is such a fickle thing. You know that women can gain anywhere from 2-8 lbs of water weight during their period? It’s crazy! Try not to focus on what the scale says and the numbers aspect of weight. I know it’s hard because you’re so young but try not to compare your body to your friends bodies. You’re still growing and this is especially a rough time at the age you’re at when your body is changing. You’re going to go through a lot of growing pains. You’re in those years! If you’re looking to be healthier some of my little tips are: starting the day off with a full glass of water. Before you get out of bed. Before you pick up your phone. Before you eat before you do anything. Just one full glass. It sounds silly but it really does wonders. Start off with little easy attainable things like that. Not eating at least 3 hours before you go to bed is another one. Putting your fork, spoon, ect. down in between each bite (it helps you eat slower which is good because it gives your body time to digest and fill up. Thus you wind up not eating as much.) And most importantly know that even though you might want to be exactly like your friends, it’s actually really cool to be your own unique person. You’ll be more admired for standing out on your own as opposed to blending in with exactly what your friends are doing. That’s not even a weight thing, that’s just a good thing to keep in mind in general for all aspects of scenarios, especially at your age. Hope this helped you a little bit ❤️
I understand his feelings. Bacause he lays them all out. He uses humor and his creativity but he lets his soul be seen through those. It's not a BAD thing, he probably knows there have been times he exposed himself and it hurt him, some people do that to a person. if I may be so bold and voice one thing I know (I believe he does too, no worries), take it from a very patient and determined personality, he has POOR very very poor impulse control. I know how bad it can get, trust me.
I honestly think Drew is the most attractive he’s ever been. Drew is perfect! He is funny, intelligent, sings, plays the guitar, plays the piano, he’s relatable, he’s straight edge, he’s genuine, and he can gain ... what did he say 45lbs? ... and still look so attractive. More so than ever! I feel so bad for him that he’s uncomfortable in his own body. I have low self esteem too and that is exactly what this is. If someone tells me I’m pretty or beautiful I think they’re lying because I don’t see myself that way. Totally get where he’s coming from. It’s so sad that we can’t see ourselves the way other people see us 😞
Seriously what I was about to comment. He looks better now than before! Omg how does he not see it? 🤔 His face looks healthier in a way if that makes sense? When he was skinny he just seemed like he was one breeze away from falling over. Forever cute, intelligent and attractive no matter what, but I much more prefer him the way he looks now.
I have an eating disorder and extreme problems with my body image and when my thoughts get really negative it is hard to shower or look into mirrors. I obsess the same way; you’re not alone. Thank you for talking about this, because no one does. I really respect you ❤️
That´s it! I´m spending all night and all tomorrow doing a standing ovation for you. I´ve never seen such a respectable and good way of talking about weight issues before. Weight issues is one of the most sensitive topics in mental health and many have no idea how damaging their words can be but Drew is one of the few people that has tackled it well. Thank you.
Lemme just say, that I’ve seen your comments everywhere and I just think you are such a cool person in your videos and comments. Just keep doing what your doing. I’m subbed
Things not to point out in people: -weight -scars -body hair -deformities Edit: **basically people’s physical appearance and behaviours. There are so many things we could add to this list but long story short: keep ya snide remarks to yourself. Hope everyone has a good day/night. Love you drew
Haha me and my ex were like this, we really enabled each other with food and I gained 50 pounds in our 5 year relationship. My current boyfriend is very disciplined and likes to work out so I've lost 40 pounds since I met him 3 years ago. And it's not because he cares about my weight, but because he inspires me to treat my body better in a way. That being said it's not like that's the reason me and my ex broke up or anything like that, it was just something I noticed.
@@bums009 i had a similar experience. My view is healthy relationships need to inspire to be the best healthiest version of yourself emotionally and physically.
I completely understand the mentality of assuming that every who compliments you is lying/trying to make you feel better - but a lot of ppl wouldn’t bother to comment if they didn’t believe what they were saying- and drew I think u actually look great now. Filled out is kinda a good way of putting it, u look older and less like a little boy. U look hot! I think the greater issue is body dysmoprhia, and ur completely right to point out that u didn’t even like ur appearance before and prob won’t even if u lose weight until u face deeper issues. Body dysmorphia is a type of OCD where you become obsessed with things u consider to be issues about ur appearance and no matter what you do you’ll always find something else. Not sure what medication you’re on, but a higher dose of Prozac is known to be really helpful with OCD traits including body dysmorphia. I know ur brain will write this off as a lie (cuz that’s what bd does) but I think you look amazing, and I guarantee no one in public is looking at u and thinking the same things you are. I really wish u the best, as I’m struggling through beating this too! Sending so much love and thanks for brightening my day with ur videos and unique and amazing personality.
If there's one comment Drew should take to heart, it's this one. I also honestly think he's filled out and is looking hella. He really does look grown up like you said!
Drew, this is definitely one of the most relatable videos you’ve ever made. I understood every word of what you said especially the window/mirror thing. I will never forget going around and enjoying my vacation with my family then seeing my body in the reflection of a store we were passing and i had to excuse myself to go to the bathroom to cry. (p.s. I genuinely think you look lovely now and i hope we both learn to love how we look! have a nice day)
Tess G the window/mirror is one of the most relatable things I’ve ever heard. The same thing happened to me. I was getting out of my car to get Dunkin Donuts and walking up to it they had that window/mirror wall surface on the outside of the building. I saw myself, turned around, got back in my car, then sat in my car and burst into tears. I couldn’t even bring myself to go in because I felt like I was so disgusting I didn’t “deserve it”. I hope you know that you’re not alone. If you’re anything like Drew you just don’t realize how perfect you actually are ♥️ It’s really hard with all the Instagram models, Face-tune, photo editing, plastic surgeries becoming the norm, cosmetic surgeries, ect ect ect nowadays. I feel like it’s worse than ever with shoving it down our throats what we’re “supposed” to look like. I feel like people are more artificially enhanced than ever before and trying to compare to that is so unhealthy. Stay strong Tess G. I too hope you learn to love the way you look ♥️
When I'm watching a video, movie or tv show and it goes black and I see myself I feel horrible, also I changed the light bulb of my bathroom to a red one so I don't see myself that much
This is exactly how I felt when I got weight restored from being anorexic, comforting to see others talk about feeling the same when I think they look good
Went through the same as well, then developed autoimmune issues that made me gain more. Drew really put it all into words that I didn't know I needed :)
i’m going through that rn , it’s soo frUstrating because u never know if you’re gaining weight or if it’s just the anorexic brain telling you that you are , or maybe i need to but you never know because ughuhugh it’s all so confusing but it’s nice to feel less alone , thanks lol
Saaaameee.... I'm 170 cm tall and I was 50 kg or less 2 years ago and recently got my shit together and gained weight since I was SO SICK all the time and the conceqences are still here and after a while of not looking at myself and weighing myself, I weighed myself at my boyfriend's place and relaised I'm 56 kg I lost my shit for a while but hey at least I don't feel like crap all the time... Yes I'm still on the skinny side, yes I was hella skinny before I know and still am but my brain fucks with me and I see myself as if I have 80 kg... I hade to let and write that out somewhere.
You honestly do look better, even cuter than before, but I also understand how hard it is to accept it and not love how you look no matter what others think or say. Love you and hope you realize how great you are
Oh drew. You really are amazing. I’ve currently been struggling and trying to recover from anorexia for the last 5 years. It’s hard to hear that you have been constantly thinking about your weight. Obviously not trying to shame you 100% because I’ve been there. I think is video is a really good thing for you and probably therapeutic to make this video. Seeing this video helps me and will hopefully help you so so much. No matter the weight you are at, you are you. Journaling one day I wrote down something that really stuck out to me. You might not relate to it a ton. It’s kinda hippie/spiritual shit but here it is “I am not a body, a am a soul kept within the walls of a body that I must learn to nourish and take care of so my soul can carry on” I think remembering the connection between you and how you look are very far. Anyone in your life that is worth any good with love you no matter what. Why is it we can’t treat ourselves that way? Idk. But we should start to try. Treat ourselves the way that others treat you. Others give you love and respect, so love and respect what you are and have to offer to this world. 💕💕💕
Guess what......he fell out with Shane cos he told drew if he carries on eating the stuff he does when he gets older he will gain weight all of a sudden. And then drew stormed off. Guess Shane was right
I literally relate to everything you say in this vid. I have been avoiding catching up with old friends because they haven't seen me since I have gained weight and I find it so confronting. Focus on "I'.
“ Which I’ve never had of course, straight edge for life. I’m kidding I’m from California and I’m not a loser. I’m kidding straight edge for life “ 😂😂😂😂😂🤷🏻♀️
I wish I weighed 150. I'm losing weight because I was at a very healthy weight where I could've developed health issues. 15 pounds down from the beginning of the year and I feel much happier with myself
@@Emma-gt4tw Well done! That's a brilliant achievement! Keep it up! I hope you're doing it the healthy way. I put three stone (42 pounds) on in three years. Everyone told me that everyone puts weight on at university despite hardly eating and it's true. I think the alcohol's done it, especially with the World Cup last year. Cutting my alcohol intake down and its slowly coming off.
Felt that. I've gained 20 pounds and counting since march. Proud of you for taking that step and getting into therapy. The idea of actually loving yourself can be hard but you do have to accept yourself. Even if you don't think if you look good in certain things you've gotta admit your body is good at other things like giving you nutrients and providing for you and letting you pet dogs and cats and getting you from room to room. Your body serves so much more a purpose than to "look" a certain way. You as a whole are a work of art. But you have so much more to offer than just that. Your personality and sense of humor and your whole creativity process is something to be appreciated. Be kind to yourself today. I hope this reaches you. Go drink some water💖
All I can really say is thankyou for making this video. I have dealt with extreme body issues my entire life and it’s the only thing on my mind every second of the day. I am 17 and felt this since I was 10. I binge and starve in a regular basis and I haven’t found a way out. A lot of the time I don’t feel like losing weight because I love chips and ice cream but whenever I’m intimate with someone I can’t focus on them, just the way I look to them. I’m obsessed with how people see me and I can’t stop checking how I look even though I hate it. I obsess over how much I hate my body. Thankyou for helping me relate to someone and being able to see someone understands. Also thankyou for helping the people who deal with their issues through comedy. I tell someone about my issues and can’t stop laughing through it because it hurts less. Thankyou xxx luv ya
Tbh I didn't notice but when I see old pics of you you look shockingly skinny you look a healthy weight rn. I hope you can find peace with yourself bb☺️
Omg, I related to the reflection part. I literally go out of my way to avoid mirrors. And I'm pissed when I see myself in spoons or the faucet. .....I'm sad lol
From skinny legend to thicc king , I stan
Poo
He's not even thicc hes just average sized now
@@RT-dm4bi period 💅
"And my body is okay but right now I'm not okay with it."
Perfect. Bravo! Thank you for putting that into words.
okay but who also genuinely thinks he’s just as adorable??
ME
when you said "krummies" i literally forgot what a krabby patty was called for a solid minute
Saaaaame
Same lmfao
i saw this comment and i still did, lmao
If Drew ever quits youtube, I hope he becomes a motivational speaker because DAMN.
!!!!
Drew would be an amazing therapist too. He just gets it.
SirChubbyBunny 😂 ‘soldier boy crank up the gears in ur head and let them tell me what’s wrong’
drew. i mean this so genuinely. you have never been more handsome
So trueeee
yessss
katherine m yes
This is LITERALLY the most relatable video ever uploaded.
exactly... i went on birth control 3 years ago (recently stopped bc i am no longer with my bf and wont be having sex for a lonnnng time) and soon after bc i ate all the time i gained like 35 pounds or more hahah. i wasn't skinny but still lol.. i hope to get it down this summer
EmilyKate You got it girl!! I wish you luck with all that stuff!❤️
It’s been a struggle for me my whole life I can go down so much then go back up I realized I usually still felt fat skinnier so I’m probably not that fat now lol just have to enjoy where your at and try your best to be healthy just because you thinner it doesn’t solve your problems or make your life better and just how we think he looks good bigger other people might think we look better bigger also🤷♀️
"I'm still me i'm just in a slightly different shell" YES KING WE LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT
The way you handled this was very professional honestly. Hearing you say “my body’s okay, but I’m just not okay with my body.” Almost brought tears to my eyes because I felt that, I feel that. I was pretty heavy in high school and when I moved out I lost over 30 lbs (depression, stress, no appetite) and no one commented on my heath or well being other than saying “you look so good”. People don’t care about your health, they just hate fat people. I would also suggest that if you are trying to loose weight do it for the right reason. Do it to begin a healthy life, not just to be skinny or beautiful or whatever. Because even when you loose the weight the body issues will always be there.
ayyami - I know it’s hard but try not to be fixated on the number on the scale. Weight is such a fickle thing. You know that women can gain anywhere from 2-8 lbs of water weight during their period? It’s crazy! Try not to focus on what the scale says and the numbers aspect of weight.
I know it’s hard because you’re so young but try not to compare your body to your friends bodies. You’re still growing and this is especially a rough time at the age you’re at when your body is changing. You’re going to go through a lot of growing pains. You’re in those years!
If you’re looking to be healthier some of my little tips are: starting the day off with a full glass of water. Before you get out of bed. Before you pick up your phone. Before you eat before you do anything. Just one full glass. It sounds silly but it really does wonders. Start off with little easy attainable things like that. Not eating at least 3 hours before you go to bed is another one. Putting your fork, spoon, ect. down in between each bite (it helps you eat slower which is good because it gives your body time to digest and fill up. Thus you wind up not eating as much.)
And most importantly know that even though you might want to be exactly like your friends, it’s actually really cool to be your own unique person. You’ll be more admired for standing out on your own as opposed to blending in with exactly what your friends are doing. That’s not even a weight thing, that’s just a good thing to keep in mind in general for all aspects of scenarios, especially at your age.
Hope this helped you a little bit ❤️
Drew’s the best for that
you like -krabby patties- *_krumbies_* don't you squidward
This killed me 😂
Krusty Krabbits 😂😂😂😂
Come to Drew's videos for the lolz, stay for the unintentional therapy session that speaks to the deeply rooted, subconscious problems I have.
Same
Accurate as hell 😂
100%
“bellyzinga” -drew monson 2019
I know its cringy when people are like "bUt yOu Look So gOoD don't StResS abOuT uR weiGht" but seriously Drew, you're actually SO attractive.
He's legit a 10. His personality makes him so sexy.
i actually think the chub suits you, youre cute af dude
FullMaika my exact thought when I clicked on the video
We love a thick boi here.
Agreed
Aubrey Ackerman yikes
Kaycee Waycee wut?
4/5 dentists agree that I've gained weight!
You kill me every time 😂😂😂
i feel fat whenever i finish eating and someone goes "you finished that already??"
Amelia Taylor same 😞
Same here. 😑
I felt that-
Just because of how fast you eat, doesn’t depend on how fat you are
True I eat a lot fast and I’m still underweight some how
* how I gained 50 pounds and still managed to be a delightful person adored by many people I’ve never met *
Yes!
Cuddling With Clouds yes! ☺️
"Managed to" as if gaining weight could compromise how delightful you are.
Noelle Hele 😍
Right? If I didn't live in Florida.. He would be awesome to just chill or have convos with. He's a delight😎
"Big puffy pig! Big puffy pig!"
What will be chanted at my funeral.
Jenn Righter dude same 😂
I laughed so hard when he said that I almost cracked a rib
Omgg sameee!😂😂 That made me laugh way to hard lmao
😆
Drew is genuinely a good person, no one can disagree.
Alaina Tedrick i disagree
@@djp489 jsbdaineri ohno
@@djp489 with literally no proof
I understand his feelings. Bacause he lays them all out. He uses humor and his creativity but he lets his soul be seen through those. It's not a BAD thing, he probably knows there have been times he exposed himself and it hurt him, some people do that to a person. if I may be so bold and voice one thing I know (I believe he does too, no worries), take it from a very patient and determined personality, he has POOR very very poor impulse control. I know how bad it can get, trust me.
Title: *how I gained 50 pounds*
Drew: *WHY IS THERE NO CHUBBY SPONGEBOB!?*
I’m a banana your a grape
I personally think the extra weight makes you look AMAZING
Me too!
Yessss
Jasmin He honestly does
Yesss!
Couldn’t agree more I like thicc drew
Drew forgetting the name of Krabby Patties killed me.
pinkldy101 YES 😂😂😂 i was like how is this the thing he’s struggling with??
“CRUMBIES”😂😂❓
Krusty kramburgers
I’ve never watched spongebob but I knew that what he was saying was just not right 😂😂💀
I know he wont accept it, but homie does look so good now.
Totally thinking the same thing!!!
I agree 100%! He looks like a healthy weight!
I would date him hard
Homie Drew
Mmmmm. Definitely
"You're diet is awful. The weight gain is coming."
*GoT theme starts playing*
Harmony B. Dead
😂
You sound like you're telling out loud EVERY thought thats going through your brain and that's hipnotizing and amazing.
ive gained weight too, this is very relatable. youre still a beautiful boy inside and out dont forget it papi drew
Sydney W I’m going to start calling him papi drew now lol
I honestly think Drew is the most attractive he’s ever been.
Drew is perfect! He is funny, intelligent, sings, plays the guitar, plays the piano, he’s relatable, he’s straight edge, he’s genuine, and he can gain ... what did he say 45lbs? ... and still look so attractive. More so than ever!
I feel so bad for him that he’s uncomfortable in his own body. I have low self esteem too and that is exactly what this is. If someone tells me I’m pretty or beautiful I think they’re lying because I don’t see myself that way. Totally get where he’s coming from. It’s so sad that we can’t see ourselves the way other people see us 😞
champagnecoloredeyes I relate to all of this so hard
Seriously what I was about to comment. He looks better now than before! Omg how does he not see it? 🤔 His face looks healthier in a way if that makes sense? When he was skinny he just seemed like he was one breeze away from falling over. Forever cute, intelligent and attractive no matter what, but I much more prefer him the way he looks now.
i really hope he sees your comment. all of it is 100% accurate
I have an eating disorder and extreme problems with my body image and when my thoughts get really negative it is hard to shower or look into mirrors. I obsess the same way; you’re not alone. Thank you for talking about this, because no one does. I really respect you ❤️
Hi babe! I hope you're doing well and are able to reach the road to recovery this year. I'm rooting for you! xx ❤️
“The camera doesn’t add 45 pounds, the Wendy’s does”
Me: **slowly puts down my Wendy’s burger** :’(
egghead dead
🤣
Aw bb :c
egghead I legit ate 2 baconators in the last 48 hours.
egghead I felt that in my bones 😂
IM SCREAMING “I’ve been eating like a five year old at their birthday party”
eggplant iguana when he talks like a 5 year old pizza, hamburger 😂😂😂
I like drew anyway he looks, but thicc drew is my favourite
I've been watching old videos of Drew in a new light since he revealed he was struggling with addiction
That´s it! I´m spending all night and all tomorrow doing a standing ovation for you.
I´ve never seen such a respectable and good way of talking about weight issues before. Weight issues is one of the most sensitive topics in mental health and many have no idea how damaging their words can be but Drew is one of the few people that has tackled it well. Thank you.
Lemme just say, that I’ve seen your comments everywhere and I just think you are such a cool person in your videos and comments. Just keep doing what your doing. I’m subbed
i just wanna say i see you everywhere
omg u look like Micheal Jackson
I think we watch all the same videos bruh
That is facts.
I respect you so much for keeping your word about singing soulja boy as your intro in every single video.
Things not to point out in people:
-weight
-scars
-body hair
-deformities
Edit: **basically people’s physical appearance and behaviours. There are so many things we could add to this list but long story short: keep ya snide remarks to yourself. Hope everyone has a good day/night.
Love you drew
chlo acne too
Don't point out anything the person cant change in the next 5 seconds pretty much.
Body hair? Body hair is a good thing unless you're a woman who wants your man to be bald like a baby. Which is DISGUSTING.
Richard pointing out body hair on girls
And skin color. I’m extremely pale and I hate when people say “omg you’re so pale!!” It would be the same if I told someone they were so dark
Almost everything Drew is saying about himself is things Shane has said to hurt him.
came here to say the same thing :(
1:32 literally shane in that one video 🙄
Exactly 😩🥺
This is genuinely heartbreaking
6:33 🧐
Honestly, I think you look so good! The weight gain suits you and makes you even more attractive
Agreed. Hes so much cuter now
THATS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING
so you like to lie to people?
Lauren she was just quoting Drew at 8:28 haha
Yasmin McCann i didn’t even catch onto that! Comment deleted lol.
Thanks!
“You’re filling out” is THE MOST triggering sentence ever. This is the most relatable content at the moment and I love you for it.
sad love react 😒
Drew is talented, funny, handsome, sweet, unique, has a great singing voice and I am LIVING for his newly found bod. You look AMAZING Drew no kidding.
I gained 50 pounds by getting into a relationship and becoming too comfortable lol
Haha me and my ex were like this, we really enabled each other with food and I gained 50 pounds in our 5 year relationship.
My current boyfriend is very disciplined and likes to work out so I've lost 40 pounds since I met him 3 years ago. And it's not because he cares about my weight, but because he inspires me to treat my body better in a way.
That being said it's not like that's the reason me and my ex broke up or anything like that, it was just something I noticed.
@@bums009 i had a similar experience. My view is healthy relationships need to inspire to be the best healthiest version of yourself emotionally and physically.
Yes
Oof I gained 50 pounds because my ex was controlling and wouldn’t let me do anything 😬🤣 my bf now is my gym partner so that’s good haha
I completely understand the mentality of assuming that every who compliments you is lying/trying to make you feel better - but a lot of ppl wouldn’t bother to comment if they didn’t believe what they were saying- and drew I think u actually look great now. Filled out is kinda a good way of putting it, u look older and less like a little boy. U look hot!
I think the greater issue is body dysmoprhia, and ur completely right to point out that u didn’t even like ur appearance before and prob won’t even if u lose weight until u face deeper issues.
Body dysmorphia is a type of OCD where you become obsessed with things u consider to be issues about ur appearance and no matter what you do you’ll always find something else.
Not sure what medication you’re on, but a higher dose of Prozac is known to be really helpful with OCD traits including body dysmorphia.
I know ur brain will write this off as a lie (cuz that’s what bd does) but I think you look amazing, and I guarantee no one in public is looking at u and thinking the same things you are. I really wish u the best, as I’m struggling through beating this too! Sending so much love and thanks for brightening my day with ur videos and unique and amazing personality.
If there's one comment Drew should take to heart, it's this one. I also honestly think he's filled out and is looking hella. He really does look grown up like you said!
💯
This is such a sweet comment
Sarah Rich thank you for this. It puts things in perspective for me too.
Sarah Rich honestly i don’t know if it’s this deep. it’s really smart but i’m just unsure of this theory
"Hard to lose weight when your depressed". Whoa thats true and thats me. This whole vid is how i feel. Im like YES. Yaas. yes.
Honestly the way you explained this was so eloquently worded, I’m gonna have to show people this video when they start talking shit about weight gain
I agree! Tinted reflective windows are a hate crime
Honestly Drew, you looked good before and you look good now
"Like, it's always been my special day..."
1,000% relatable.
The divorce analogy was TOO REAL and suddenly I am UPSET
Me too ! So triggered
I knoooooooooow.
Amanda von Heyden the going to the therapist part was also a humdinger
"And it aint my fault that McDonalds is everywhere." I felt that.
You look great your voice is great and you’re killing it with the content
Now watch me you
Nobody:
Drew: *WHERE. IS. CHUBBY. SPONGEBOB?*
I didn't know I needed this comment ❤️
EXCUSE ME my name is nobody are u discriminating against my name! I'm Soooooo afended.
(JK my jokes are just sad)
I'm only 1:40 into this video and I've already smiled and thought "I fucking love you man" at least twice. Because it's true.
Are you at my house? I did just that haha
The weight makes you look more masculine. Way more attractive in my opinion!
🙄
Drew, this is definitely one of the most relatable videos you’ve ever made. I understood every word of what you said especially the window/mirror thing. I will never forget going around and enjoying my vacation with my family then seeing my body in the reflection of a store we were passing and i had to excuse myself to go to the bathroom to cry. (p.s. I genuinely think you look lovely now and i hope we both learn to love how we look! have a nice day)
Tess G the window/mirror is one of the most relatable things I’ve ever heard. The same thing happened to me. I was getting out of my car to get Dunkin Donuts and walking up to it they had that window/mirror wall surface on the outside of the building. I saw myself, turned around, got back in my car, then sat in my car and burst into tears. I couldn’t even bring myself to go in because I felt like I was so disgusting I didn’t “deserve it”.
I hope you know that you’re not alone. If you’re anything like Drew you just don’t realize how perfect you actually are ♥️ It’s really hard with all the Instagram models, Face-tune, photo editing, plastic surgeries becoming the norm, cosmetic surgeries, ect ect ect nowadays. I feel like it’s worse than ever with shoving it down our throats what we’re “supposed” to look like. I feel like people are more artificially enhanced than ever before and trying to compare to that is so unhealthy.
Stay strong Tess G. I too hope you learn to love the way you look ♥️
shoutout to the ladies n gents who’ve cried in the bathroom during prom 😍😳👅
When I'm watching a video, movie or tv show and it goes black and I see myself I feel horrible, also I changed the light bulb of my bathroom to a red one so I don't see myself that much
You won’t believe me but i just have to say I TRULY think you look better now. Like freal.
Agreed
I don’t think he looks better or worse, he looks just as good as before
4/5 dentists agree that ur the embodiment of sex
Lmao
Yes
Attack the one who disagreed ✊😠
😂
Ya your kinda hot! I like the extra pounds
Thanks for being the most authentic person. Through thick or thin (pun intended) you're still gunna be amazing.
"And the moral of the story is I am in therapy" - Me, anytime someone asks me if I'm okay
"The weight is coming, it's gonna come.. Its kinda like when my parents divorced" 😂😂
You lookin great Drew. I miss you, Garrett, and Shane. You need to Reunite!
Hailey Faith me to so much.
Yea
Spooky boys need to reunite!
I know I miss them I watched all their videos again over the past few days I hope they are still close
Now they can all be thiccboys together
addressing things that people "are gonna say" before they even say anything, prime anxiety thing I feel that
I think we ALL gained 50 pounds.
Seriously. This is so relateable.
i lost 10 kilos, haha suckers.
@@Gee-xb7rt congrats!
😙
I sure did! 😂
gisforgary 😂 I’m going into this summer 40 lbs lighter, congrats
I felt this video iN MY BONES but also wow love that we are gaining weight together as a family
drew trying to pronounce and remember krabby patties is iconic
"I am the party and no one's invited " 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭 need that on a hoodie please
Agree
I’m obsessed about my weight too Drew, welcome to the life of being self conscious 25/8
This is exactly how I felt when I got weight restored from being anorexic, comforting to see others talk about feeling the same when I think they look good
I just went through the same thing (weight restoring after an ED) and I just wanted to say that I'm right here with you.
Went through the same as well, then developed autoimmune issues that made me gain more. Drew really put it all into words that I didn't know I needed :)
@@PeaceLoveSarahJane same same same!
i’m going through that rn , it’s soo frUstrating because u never know if you’re gaining weight or if it’s just the anorexic brain telling you that you are , or maybe i need to but you never know because ughuhugh it’s all so confusing but it’s nice to feel less alone , thanks lol
Saaaameee.... I'm 170 cm tall and I was 50 kg or less 2 years ago and recently got my shit together and gained weight since I was SO SICK all the time and the conceqences are still here and after a while of not looking at myself and weighing myself, I weighed myself at my boyfriend's place and relaised I'm 56 kg I lost my shit for a while but hey at least I don't feel like crap all the time... Yes I'm still on the skinny side, yes I was hella skinny before I know and still am but my brain fucks with me and I see myself as if I have 80 kg... I hade to let and write that out somewhere.
“I am the party. And no one’s invited.”
I just gained a bunch of weight and I was that skinny person so I feel you and I love you hun
Drew isn’t fat he is ...T H I C C
T H I C C
! ! !
When Drew's talking about his hatred of mirrors I can hear Shane screaming 'YAS QUEEN'
I miss the duo onscreen together!
I hear “ME”....
Yaaaaa
i hear him saying “MEEEE”
Tiffany Renee lol
You honestly do look better, even cuter than before, but I also understand how hard it is to accept it and not love how you look no matter what others think or say. Love you and hope you realize how great you are
Oh drew. You really are amazing. I’ve currently been struggling and trying to recover from anorexia for the last 5 years. It’s hard to hear that you have been constantly thinking about your weight. Obviously not trying to shame you 100% because I’ve been there. I think is video is a really good thing for you and probably therapeutic to make this video. Seeing this video helps me and will hopefully help you so so much. No matter the weight you are at, you are you. Journaling one day I wrote down something that really stuck out to me. You might not relate to it a ton. It’s kinda hippie/spiritual shit but here it is
“I am not a body, a am a soul kept within the walls of a body that I must learn to nourish and take care of so my soul can carry on”
I think remembering the connection between you and how you look are very far. Anyone in your life that is worth any good with love you no matter what. Why is it we can’t treat ourselves that way? Idk. But we should start to try. Treat ourselves the way that others treat you. Others give you love and respect, so love and respect what you are and have to offer to this world. 💕💕💕
I never genuinely laugh at someone’s videos like I do with drew . Nothing and no one can compare to him
Saaaaame
Agree!!!
I guess you are what you eat...A SNACK
_"I am the party and no one's invited." - Drew Monson, 2019_
What happened to you and shane? Miss you guys!!
They still hang out just off camera. Shane video advantage are usually a lot and drew not in a place to go out and do the crazy shit Shane does.
Purple Rat wait they still hang out, are you sure cause I’m living for that!
Guess what......he fell out with Shane cos he told drew if he carries on eating the stuff he does when he gets older he will gain weight all of a sudden. And then drew stormed off. Guess Shane was right
@@maariyahiqbal1662 stop being a bitch
@@maariyahiqbal1662 wtf is your attitude
"I'm the party, but no one is invited." ICONIC
"I'm kidding straight edge for life, I'm kidding I live in California and I'm not a loser, I'm kidding straight edge for life."
I c u Drew I c u
WHY IS THIS ACTUALLY THE MOST RELATABLE VIDEO EVER OOOOOOOMG
I literally relate to everything you say in this vid. I have been avoiding catching up with old friends because they haven't seen me since I have gained weight and I find it so confronting. Focus on "I'.
omg i felt the obsessive part on such a deep level you brought tears to my eyes. i’m so sorry you know that feeling. YOU LOOK GREAT BOO
Honestly I think drew looks better with the extra pounds!
truuuuuu
I am extremely gay, and I agree.
(no homo)
yesss I just want to see him with a nice haircut now and he'd be a solid 10
@@My600LbJamz lol
ChërryMötel No, he looked better when he was a healthier weight.
“i am the party & no one’s invited”
im laughing. thank you drew i missed you
“ Which I’ve never had of course, straight edge for life.
I’m kidding I’m from California and I’m not a loser.
I’m kidding straight edge for life “
😂😂😂😂😂🤷🏻♀️
"Those reflective tinted windows on buildings... they were created by the devil"
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
From someone who went from 100 pounds to 150 in a few months...thank you!!!! All of these thoughts always went through my mind
This happened to me from October until January. I thought I never gained weight and now it won't leave.
i did the same. it'll be alright. sometimes your body needs it.
I wish I weighed 150. I'm losing weight because I was at a very healthy weight where I could've developed health issues. 15 pounds down from the beginning of the year and I feel much happier with myself
@@Emma-gt4tw Well done! That's a brilliant achievement! Keep it up! I hope you're doing it the healthy way. I put three stone (42 pounds) on in three years. Everyone told me that everyone puts weight on at university despite hardly eating and it's true. I think the alcohol's done it, especially with the World Cup last year. Cutting my alcohol intake down and its slowly coming off.
@@CallMeBeautifulRacoon Don't worry, what I'm doing is perfectly healthy. Just exercising more and cutting out bad foods
I literally screamed when u tried guessing the name of Krabby patties
krummies
Felt that. I've gained 20 pounds and counting since march. Proud of you for taking that step and getting into therapy. The idea of actually loving yourself can be hard but you do have to accept yourself. Even if you don't think if you look good in certain things you've gotta admit your body is good at other things like giving you nutrients and providing for you and letting you pet dogs and cats and getting you from room to room. Your body serves so much more a purpose than to "look" a certain way. You as a whole are a work of art. But you have so much more to offer than just that. Your personality and sense of humor and your whole creativity process is something to be appreciated. Be kind to yourself today. I hope this reaches you. Go drink some water💖
hello drew i am following your explicit instructions to leave a comment because i am an obedient stan
this comment has my energy and i do not like it!
I’m so glad you talked about this because I struggle with weight obsession and just knowing I’m not alone really helps
Soulja hurt me when he started selling bootleg handheld gaming consoles.
You're one of the few guys that can carry his weight well, it makes you look buff and muscular instead of fat
The first time I was this early, drew was still in Shane’s videos. Drew come back the the spooky bois ;-;. I’m missing the crew.
I loved the spooky boys but let's get off his ass about them and just comment about this actual video
Samee
I miss him in any of Shane’s videos
Sollux Captor bruh they just said they missed him lol
Me too 😣
If anyone was wondering, his album really is amazing and deserves attention. You should go listen to it.
I loved your message about being accepting of all body types
All I can really say is thankyou for making this video. I have dealt with extreme body issues my entire life and it’s the only thing on my mind every second of the day. I am 17 and felt this since I was 10. I binge and starve in a regular basis and I haven’t found a way out. A lot of the time I don’t feel like losing weight because I love chips and ice cream but whenever I’m intimate with someone I can’t focus on them, just the way I look to them. I’m obsessed with how people see me and I can’t stop checking how I look even though I hate it. I obsess over how much I hate my body. Thankyou for helping me relate to someone and being able to see someone understands. Also thankyou for helping the people who deal with their issues through comedy. I tell someone about my issues and can’t stop laughing through it because it hurts less. Thankyou xxx luv ya
Age 22: Spongebob screaming and he’s chubby
Me: I felt that on a person level 😂😂😂😂😂
Tbh I didn't notice but when I see old pics of you you look shockingly skinny you look a healthy weight rn. I hope you can find peace with yourself bb☺️
Completely forgot about the crank that opening....makes me smile every time
Omg, I related to the reflection part. I literally go out of my way to avoid mirrors. And I'm pissed when I see myself in spoons or the faucet. .....I'm sad lol
Kiara ya good sis?
Pastel milk パステルミルク umm.. no lol
Kiara Williams
i relate too hard lol
I think the worst is public mirrors in clothing stores just on random walls like I turn and almost die bc it me