I Love You & You...& You | Our America With Lisa Ling | Full Episode | OWN
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- Can you imagine being happily married and still dating someone else ... with your spouse's consent? There are half a million Americans practicing polyamory, and Lisa Ling meets three families who are pushing the limits of love, commitment and family. (Original Air Date: March 5, 2013) Watch more of Our America with Lisa Ling on the WatchOWN app. For more information visit www.oprah.com/app/our-america...
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Let adults do what adults want to do. However, bringing strangers into your home with children around is dangerous! It's a perfect playground for predatory behavior.
It’s more honest that lying and cheating, and everyone knows what they’re getting into. They’re not preying on anyone, all grown adults. Understand it or not, like it or not, to each his own
I would not trust my daughter with anyone.
Exactly!!!! If they are adults with no kids fine - but don’t bring children ( any age ) into this .
All I could think of is this is perfectly okay but when children are involved in the family unit you need to be so so so careful and pay attention to children's needs first before anyone
@@raybuggy11 exactly
Those things happen if it's one boyfriend/husband
Not for me, but I admit the idea of having another one or two adults to help share household duties & expenses is appealing.
Lmao 😂 especially the child care and bring in the income
It reminds me of Ms. Ling’s investigation into swingers. It kind of left me with a yukky feeling. Fascinating though.
But IMMORAL
Why do they all sit holding hands? Trying to make a point?
It does not work for me
Wouldn't work for me either but I love that other people are finding what works for them ❤
Jealousy is an emotion for a reason
I would love to see how many of these “relationships” are still working! I would love to see interviews with these people now to see if they still feel the same. There seems to be atleast one person with deeply low self esteem and insecurities in each of these relationships.
I know a few couples who are 13+ years in, one 20+ when people choose to do life with someone it’s looks different for everyone. Through it all is what the vows say 😂🤷🏿♀️
To each their own. If it's not hurting anyone, then what's the issue?
God
@@marsharowaihy6725lmao. Move along..
Judge not lest ye be judged.....PERIOD.
The issue is that there are a lot of miserable people in this country who absolutely cannot stand knowing that someone else is happy.
They are energy parasites to be ignored.
It's not illegal..... Unless they all marry each other. Funny how that goes.
My husband, and kids, such a handful! I couldn't ever have imagined this kind of lifestyle...
Please just keep your kids safe 🙏
We are everywhere. And not who you might expect we are. We're happy.
Polygamy by another name is all it is.
@@cannkotlarz621 No. It's not for everyone. I'm married to one partner, but have no plans to marry my other partner. Now, if you still want to call it polygamy, I'm okay with that, but not all of us fit that definition.
@@jennas2068 Do you have children? Bringing multiple partners into a home is not safe.
@@MNP208 yes, I have three. Do you assume that I bring just any old random person into my home? Please rest assured that I don't - for my own safety as well as theirs. I dated my BF for a year before he was allowed into my home. Y'all are making some wild assumptions.
Love thy neighbor literary..I really appreciate the insight and perspective of society. I enjoy these segments even if i don't share their reasonings.
This woman is fierce and awesome! She was married and hubby says lets explore, she says sure. Turned out that she met another man who was included...than im sure hubby wasnt so interested in exploring anymore 😂. Too bad for him because she is a loving person. Now she can live her life and everyone is happy.
This life is not for me… BUT who are they hurting?! How’s it affecting your life?! It’s not so let them be.
They're hurting the CHILDREN
Ok, this is not PC. There is a trend here: people willing to share for a chunk of acceptance, to find a kind of romance and love they otherwise have not found. Also, they are nerds, notice anybody?
I'm glad that lisa interviewed the daughter.
Do they do a dna test if the woman gets pregnant. Also how do they explain their lifestyle to their kids. To each their own. Not my lifestyle
SICK, THE KIDS ARE INVOLVED IN THIS MESS. THE WOMAN HISBAND IS NOW ON HIS 3 DIVORCE, REGINA IS ROTATING MORE MEN THAN JLO!!
I have a friend who had two boyfriend, 5 Kids, 4 with the old bf, 1 with the New one, they all live together, then the first bf broke, and a couple of years latter she broke up with the second bf 😂
I have been in the lifestyle for many years! Its no issue at all if you go into it with a mature mind
Someone at some point is gonna get hurt. My concern would be with my child.
Wes's body language when w/ Gina compared to when he's w/ Jesse is much more guarded and closed-off.
He's a cheater and really wants to dump Gina and stay with Jesse, but if he can both. Like a true sleazy man!
To each their own.
I could never but I have no problem with those that do.
So HOW EXACTLY DO YOU EXPLAIN POLYAMORY TO YOUR CHILD??????????
You just talk to them about it? Ever heard of that?
If they’re born into it there’s nothing to discuss. It’s part of their life. Those are their parents.
If they’re going into it with a parent(s) the parents just need to be open honest and be open to their children(s) questions and feedback.
It's really pretty simple, though age appropriate answers, of course. "Kids, this is Dad's special friend". Kids just want to be loved and happy. My teenager needed to know that everyone was consenting, safe, and happy. It was a great opportunity to talk about consent and boundaries.
Not for me (I'd be too jealous, TBH), but hey, if this works for some, more power to them! 😄
Robin! Youre my hero!!
I love how Robin and her husband, Chuy, seem to be fine with her new love interest. The husband does not seem to have any jealousy issues.
Thou shall not judge.
So interesting how diverse and often polar the comments to this lifestyle.
i feel a sense of awkwardness....definitely not a lifestyle i could embrace
What’s wrong with folks, this CRAZY INSANE.
Iove it!!
there is a natural limit one only has so much money after all people who are realistic even if they are ploy recognize them.....ohhhh she said expecting one person to satisfy every need I could possibly have YAS that's an unrealistic expectation i relate
No not for me. If i had to share my husband, i would cry everyday 24/7
Does their commitment and fidelity last into old age or illness? I couldn't do this and still respect myself.
So adultery. Got it.
Exactly!
It's not Biblical. So I don't support it.
So a way to cheat without guilt? 😂 Great 🥴
Cheating is about dishonesty manipulation and a lack of consent/a abuse of trust. This is different because there is consent, honesty and trust
@@mariannehavisham8323LOL It's STILL cheating.
Dave sounds like someone who didn't give them any choice but to move in...
How sick can society be. Animals are much better behave compared to these hooligans.
Do you see the irony in your statement at all? 🤔
Do what you want as adults, but bringing children into that lifestyle is abuse.
This is insulting to actual abuse victims
@@mariannehavisham8323 - Nonsense! What do you know about it?
@@kingwillie206 plenty
@@mariannehavisham8323 - Explain to me how me watching my Mother get passed around by multiple men would have been less abusive than my Dad doing drugs in front of me and kicking me in the backside at 4 or 5 years old. I like to give people a chance to explain their positions before making assumptions.
Nobody is abused or neglected at my home. Are you thinking that there's chaos or s3x in front of a child? That's super gross. My kids see hugs and affection. I'm sorry that you seem to have had such poor examples - I did too, but I've chosen not to repeat them.
I think it's cool. We've been conditioned by so many different influencers and leaders that have zero knowledge of anything other than control, why not try something different? If it works for you and everyone involved, then why not?
But a CHILD only knows what they SEE and EXPERIENCE in their own environment! So HOW are they supposed to make sense of all these different couples- married or not???
Robin. Chewy. John.
This triad is an equal match. They also have an orange cat...BONUS.
I would like to see an update❤
To each his own, but this is icky...
I think so too. Oh well.
NOONE EVER SAID ONE PERSON IS SUPPOSED TO MEET ALL YOUR NEEDS! Where are they getting that FROM?? The Bible never said that! NO one person can ever meet 100% of someone else's needs.
What if her husband had a girlfriend and her boyfriend had a wife? Would she be ok with that??
Probably.
REGINA IS SELFISH, SHE IS ALL ABOUT HERSELF.
@@janecole44Ummm, I think there’s other people besides Regina involved in the decision making.
I dont know why but lisa i love your tv work but dont care for your stories
Good point, I chose which episodes to watch,maybe you should do the same.
This seems so exhausting.... I'm happy for them but this is not for me.
Who owns the property Chewy and her girlfriend live on? Thats a lot of people living under one roof with plans for more. It sure makes the practical aspect of life like chores and shopping easier.
God law is one husband and one wife for each couple. They change God’s law to make it to work for them. That’s how moral of this country going down hill.
Ty
You are not their God, so have no place in dictating how they live their lives. God can communicate with them, just as God can communicate to you, so you in no way have any sort of authority or right to tell them what your "God" wants for them. That's between them and God. Just as who you love is between you and your God.
It's called freedom and bodily autonomy.
Morality that all
@@tyhoang1319Whose “morality?” We don’t get to dictate how other people live. You are exactly the reason why so many of us walk away from the self-proclaimed “chrissians.” You people are so intolerant of others.
@@az1infin268I like how you think. Come over here and sit with me!
Ok im waiting to hear the part where the guys have more partners too....🤔...or she just gets 2 guys?😂
They do. Sometimes the men have boyfriends and the women have girlfriends as well.
I think they call them cucks
I THINK EVENTUALLY BOTH MEN WILL LOOK TO OTHER PEOPLE. HOWEVER, BOTH MEN SEEM LIKE BETA WHIMPY WUSSY MALES.
Although I find it strange in my world I see how it can work for some people , I just wonder about there kids at school and how this is perceived by other kids and and the impact on the kids from this unusual situation.
WHAT'S REALLY HAPPENING?!?! 😮❤
Welp, it looks quite apparent to me. It’s not like it’s an unfathomable mystery like black holes or dark matter, yk?
WHAT IS REALLY HAPPENING IS THAT CHUEY AND JON WANT EACH OTHER, THEY ARE MANIPULATING ROBIN , MAKE HER THINK THEY WANT HER FAT UGLY OLD SELF BUT THESE 2 MEN WANT EACH OTHER.
Who truly benefits?😮
Oh please..welcome back to the 60’s .,
Do any of these ppl work? Who the hell has time for such shenanigans
no way!!
Cringing.. but to each it's own
Regina‘s marriage fell apart after she brought her boyfriend into the mix, gee … I never thought that would happen. 😆😆😆😆
It’s human nature to be jealous and want what’s yours to be only yours. These people are delusional and what’s really sad is when you see a child growing up in that environment.
I wonder if Regina would be open to her husband bringing another woman in the mix. Somehow I don’t think she’d really be into it. Regina likes it because she’s benefiting of having two men. I bet you if her husband brought a woman into the mix shit would hit the fan.
She does Fijian massage? I think that is what it is called since she is seated and using her feet.
John seems WAY more into Chewy than Robin.
Definitely not for me, though in this economy, having all those incomes could certainly be nice ;)
That is a pity. What is the stupid things occur in our life.😢
America is on the wrong trek.
❤♾️
Regina is goals
moondancer: and you care why????Imquoted that because it is a precept in the Bible admonishing "believers". So you pick and choose what is CONVENIENT for your prejudices and discard the rest ehhhh? It is YOUR belief system not mine. I can also say, " Let he who is without sin cast the first stone". It is always best to withhold judgment of others...it is in YOUR belief system up to GOD to judge, not up to YOU.
A "W". 😅😅😅😅
What happens with sexually transmitted diseases?
I was thinking the same. 🤣 She didn't ask the hard question.
😮very strange indeed 🤔 😕
I think Jon got in that relationship for Robin's 16 year old daughter.
SAY IT'S NOT SO!?!? ❤️
I litterly thought the same thing soon as I saw her daughter like comon now we ain't stupid smdh
HOW GROSS.
ROBYN'S DAUGHTERMIS A VERY PRETTY YOUNG LADY. I HOPE ROBYN IS GUARDING HER DAUGHTER SAFETY. THIS POLYAMORY CRAP SEEMS VERY SELFISH.
yep
One of the guy will be have an eye for her daughter
These are people wanting their cake and to eat it too.
Lol. Look at all the judgemental going on. These are grown a** adults. Let them live. If you weren't interested in this type of lifestyle. Then why click the video lol
She has a daughter. So it's not all grown a$$ adults.
Exactly. It's really wild that people are so threatened. (And to the busybody parson worried about the kids....my son is just fine, thanks. I hope you understand that he's not negatively effected. He sees loving and peaceful adults. He's decided that he feels like a monogamous person, which is just fine with me.)
Viewers are quite entitled to have an opinion. Just because it may differ from yours doesn't mean anyone is threatened.
@@jennas2068 you're forgetting the child - she didn't ask for this nastiness in her life.
@@janeenharrison1953 Nobody has forgotten the child. If you think having a child in a polyamorous home is "nasty" and that in some way has a negative effect on the child, then you either have a really disgusting mindset or you aren't paying attention. MORE adults around is beneficial to a child. A nurtured and encouraged child is a happy and healthy child. Please don't use the "what about the children" card to cover for your prejudices. It's a flawed argument.
Polygamy by a different name.
Exactly
To be 100% honest, these are all fringe people, so I’m not surprised. I didn’t see a normal one in the bunch.
🤮🤮🤮
regina is one lucky lady. this was not around when i was in my younger years.
Yeah, actually they did and have since forever. The word they used is “infidelity.”
Regina is a dude LOL
Having no self respect or morals. Being a bad role model to her kid. Unlucky, IMO.
You think she is lucky?? Ugh
Look up professor Marsden -he had a polyamorous relationship in the 1920s, 30s 40s.. polyamory has always existed and it's different to infidelity
Freaks n’ Geeks
Regina has the juice lucky girl a husband and a boyfriend
Yuck 🤢
ALL OF THESE MEN SEEM GHEY/
Weird peope
Disgusting 🤢
They’re all weirdos
Gross
weired
Don't USE THE WORD "COMMITMENT "! That's blasphemous! It's anything BUT!! And you know that.
Gross! Why do we rebel against the Lord for the sake of a feeling?
Because “we” is plural and not everyone thinks, believes or feels as you (or I) do. It has nothing to do with your magical guy in the sky.
@@tundrawomansays694 magical? Go ahead and convince yourself that God doesn't exist. That's on you
@llamalady8700 yes ma'am! Amen!
So sad that some of you LIMIT God
@@Eileen-ne6qx limit God? He's sovereign. His Will requires obedience. Quit trying to make Him whatever you want.
Gross.
Not what God intended … I’ll pass on watching
WOW this is So Nasty ... which one of those dudes are unemployed 😅
Probably you 😅
@@bogu3290 negative Sir I have one wife and I'm employed
😂😂😂