Your engagement story is very funny! Thank you for sharing that with us. God bless you both. The ending was funny as well. Love to you both from Massachusetts 💜
I'm a christian and I finished fashion designing in finishing school. I always wanted to design clothes that are modest and yet stylish. I want God to reflect on my works too 😍
Modesty is also an attitude. You can be covered up and totally give off sexual, seductive vibes. I think it needs to be both, especially in our pornified culture.
See I mean there’s nothing wrong with being attractive with modest clothing on but don’t seek attention or validation from people. You are of God & Jesus Christ when you put on clothing. I never wore nothing sexual to get another girl’s attention, and I was still getting girls attention because I’m of God and Jesus Christ. We are all naturally attractive in the image of Heavenly Father. ❤️😇 We don’t need devilish clothing to make us look like we are sexy or attractive. We was already made attractive before this devilish fashion world began.
First of all.. Good Luck in your Journey as a Fashion Designer/ Stylist.. May God Blesses You with a Beautiful Job that suits you.. And May He Protect and Provide You in All Your needs.. Ive always Love doing Fashion.. It was one of my passion to create something out of nothing... ❤️✌🏼 From The Netherland.
A lot of Christian these days do not want to listen to this , but this video is a must watch and very essential especially in the last days , the bride needs to prepare itself . Thank you for this video 🙏🏼
Yeah, but a lot of Christian’s also have their own opinion and judged others from a religious point of view and are over the top, but then on the other hand some do need to be pulled up on what they’re wearing 🤷🏻
@@Sacrifice-Paid Don't worry about others, just concentrate on yourself and saving souls. On judgement day God is not going yo ask you about them, he will ask you about YOU.
There's a problem in society especially with women's fashion where they describe immodest clothing as 'female empoerment'. It's why I started making vintage clothing for myself and I was surprised by how many women both in the church and out of the church wanted to wear more modest clothing but struggle to find such clothing in the local shops.
Before skank clothes were the norm, I felt like I should make pretty, feminine clothes that are ultra girly and not hot, sexy or cheap looking. Haven’t yet but pray I move forward on this.
That is so true. I've dresses for Mass, and finding ones that go below the knee are almost impossible to find. I've always dressed modest, except for the 'rebellious years' which luckily didn't last too long. Always had that voice whispering 'no, no, no'.. and thank God it was there.
I’ve been discussing this with my husband a lot lately. We help each other with regards to how to dress. Other people who aren’t Christian think that he is controlling me, but I want to respect him and our Lord.
I'm guessing you aren't walking in public in skin tight yoga pants like most women do these days. As a woman myself, I find that disgusting as you can see every crack and crevice, both front and back.... I wouldn't want to be seen wearing that the day Christ Jesus returns.
That is beautiful!! People also think that submitting to each other is wrong too! Do not listen to the world, listen to the word! God Bless you and Your Marriage!
For me, it just became unbearable to dress in tight or revealing clothes. I began to feel so vulnerable and exposed. Around the same time, I started to hear the low and dirty sentiments in music and became highly sensitive to violence and debauchery in films and television. Things that had never occurred to me, or that I actually sought after, before the holy spirit came to me.
I totally get what you are saying. I feel uncomfortable if dressing sexy or revealing, I hear music that is all about sex and immoral acts and it makes me cringe. I used to wonder how anyone could abstain from sex but being that I have no man in my life, it really isn't that hard. I always thought it was cause I was getting older, or wiser, but I am really knowing that it is because I love God and I want to live by his teachings. A part of me still wants that one man to come in my life and marry me and love me as a wife but right now I am working on my relationship with God. I will leave it in his hands as to whether I remain alone for life or find love again
@@jaymielynn5426 Reading your response here is like reading my own thoughts. Hearing the darkness in music, seeing the content in tv and movies. That's something how the Holy Spirit works in us. I feel exactly the same way as you , no man in my life and want to live for Jesus. I'd like God to bless me with a proper husband. But I will wait on the Lord. Blessings.
Lust is not just for sex. I lust after food. Thank you for this message. I am encouraged to treat my body like the temple and not a garbage dump. Pray for me please
I've always been a modest dresser but in my experience even on days when wearing overalls and no makeup, hair up in a baseball cap, men will still be pushy and catcall. But at least I know God knows I'm not inciting any unwanted attention by dressing provocatively. I cannot control how others react but I can control how I'm representing Christ. 🙏🏻
Dressing modestly is between you and God and I don't like the modern idea of men wanting women to dress a certain way they perceive of modest to keep them from stumbling.. it shouldn't be our responsibility. Let us just try our best to dress in a way WE think is modest (aka doesn't distracts us from our faith) and not in a way to please man.
@@lenab.m.3708 my dad would litteraly walk outside naked but he'd police me when I didn't wear a bra under my pijamas when I was at home.. It's not about modesty, it's about control.
@@GirlDo3 he's still a male even though he's your dad so you need to find a comfy bra to wear under your pajamas . Your dad shouldn't be walking around naked in front of you either .
@@GirlDo3 your right...but it's about modesty also . ..although when it comes to parents ...or most men then it IS about control . ..that being said then you can walk down the street wearing a long skirt and not showing any cleavage and walking to the bus stop dressed like that and still get harassed by some jerk driving by ...in this way then it's a no win situation but maybe if your dressed modest ...meaning not tight clothing or showing cleavage then it will help ...but sometimes you just can't win .males are really really horrible
I dress like an old woman according to my generation and my family, but this is how I was brought up and I am not the perfect religious person but I know how to conduct myself properly and people will see that and respect you more.
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts. It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...). Tattoos Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc... IT IS A SIN.
@@TedEhioghae that's legalism. A lot of people in the bible ripped their clothes in sorrow and repentance so they definitely showed their armpits. Would you say that Job was sinning when he did so? If the bible didn't say it was a sin, you need to provide biblical evidence that supports your claims instead of just putting out the sins of fashion that you hold to be true.
I am in my mid 70s and grew up when modesty was expected at all times, in church, or at work or just out was the agenda. I was raised in a Catholic household. Modesty was the watchword of the day. If one of my parents said something about my clothing, I would be mortified. I was invited to a summer houseparty, casual attire and bring swim clothes if you liked as they lived by the ocean and for the kids had an inflable pool. Most people were sitting in beach chairs outside enjoying the weather. I only knew the hostess so I just sat in a beach chair enjoying the weather and sipping a drink. I glanced over to see a young man sitting in a beach chair enjoying a drink with his legs crossed. The view I had was to say at the least startling. His trunks must have been old and the material inside the trunks that hold your "junk" inside the trunks had failed due to the age of the trunks. I was in direct line of site. My hostess was not in view and I wasn't sure I was seeing what I thought I was seeing. I took a quick look back and yes, I was seeing it. I didn't know the man and my hostess had disappeared. Finally after several minutes I spotted her and waved her over. I directed her gaze toward the gentleman and she gasped. I told her the information might be better from her since she knew him. She agreed and walked over to him. I had gotten up and walked away...I decided I'd had enough beach for the day. I hope the young man wasn't too embarrassed and he would invest in a new pair of swim shorts. He got up and I don't know if he left or to see if he could rectify the problem. It's one of those situations that's embarrassing to everyone.
@@TedEhioghae Well I'd never heard that and was raised Catholic. All my clothes were pretty moderate because I didn't like inappropriate body parts hanging out. At some periods of fashion, especially when shorter was the order of the day. I was always careful to sit properly and was constantly pulling something or other that I was wearing down. It wasn't easy because you didn't get much to choose from...short hemlines be it dresses/skirts or shorts were getting shorter. I wasn't comfortable, especially working in an office. I did the best I could under the circumstances.
I'm very modest and my body is for my husbands eyes only. We've been married 17 years. I keep my head down if we are around other people only because I have so much love and respect for him I'm just not interested in any other person. He fulfills my every desire and brings me laughter. God brought us together and continues to keep us together. We are each others best friends.
You keeping your head down isn't necessary. Has nothing to do with modesty. You are making yourself as less than your husband. God made us equals. Get your head up and be the person God made you. Stop disrespecting yourself. What does your husband think of your actions? Does he keep his head down around others? What's good for the goose is most definitely good for the gander.
@DiscipleDave DotCom it’s not that she’s doing something evil or bad. But it definitely is making her seem inferior to her husband. It could be bad for her self esteem
Honestly when Joe said that we are all precious I almost cried, I think we sometimes forget that we are precious in Gods eyes and that we have worth. This video was awesome and helped me to understand the importance of modesty a bit more. Thanks mate!
Yes, the blood of Jesus has declared us holy & worthy in His sight. We should remind us constantly of this eternal truth, as for many years we believed the lies of our thoughts & accepted the lebels the world has put on us. We are precious in His sight, but so are everyone and we need to look at them as precious, regardless there behavior or attitude. Love really is the answer, the pure unconditional love of God. Blessings!
You are not just another human. You were created by God and for God. You were bought with a price and are extremely valuable to Him. God wants to know your thoughts, feelings and desires on a moment by moment basis because He loves you so. If you stop your dialogue with Him then He misses it and misses you. You are special, wonderful and magnificent. He sent His Son to die for you so start to live for Him. If you are already then live freer and realise just how loved you are. Be blessed my friend.
@@starhunter9085 Ok some truth in what u say but it does MATTER how one dresses & you even know that, denial wont justify actions, forgive sin nor take awaway guilt.
@@starhunter9085 Yes I will tell you that & so will HE when you stand before HIM, there is a difference between wearing sackcloth clothing & wearing lewd clothing. But again u truly already knew that, so stop trying to manipulate our FATHER'S WORDS. If a born again male or female who is supposed to be walking in the life/light wears provocative clothing....YES YES IT DOES MATTER TO OUR HEAVENLY FATHER.
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts. It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...). Tattoos Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc... IT IS A SIN.
@@TedEhioghae I have to believe you have taken things way to far. To do your hair in a straight or curly style being a sin is lunacy. I totally understand the skin tight clothing and any revealing type of clothing. But, not the curl, straighten or color ones hair. Being I'm older now, I guess I don't have to make sure my armpit hair is concealed. Being I don't have any these days. To be honest that's just weird!!!!!!!!
"CLOTHE yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and DO NOT THINK about how to GRATIFY the desires of the FLESH" ROM 13:14. Great suggestions and comments in this video that align with this verse. Keep up the good work Joe and Emma!
Much Admiration to you for your biblical teachings as well @Bible Questions with Christopher. I always feel encouraged and strengthened by your God given wisdom and knowledge of His holy Word. With much gratitude...
Sorry but I just need more clearance joe. The holy word u just read to us also say no gold r silver but your wife as on the devil thing. Come on Joe open your wife eyes my bro love
It’s good to start the day by putting your hand in his...like the 60’s song that Ocean did best and made popular, “Put Your Hand In The Hand Of The Man From Galilee”. Jesus IS here, he said he’d abide IN us.
But he is here though. and he always is, you can't go anywhere that he's not there. It's just you can't see him and so he's not always on your present thoughts.
I'm getting my wife to watch this with me when she gets off work. I'm so glad I found your channel,the Lord is doing great things in people's lives through it.
@@offthekirb that mean suit for men because it show your physical also no designs on your clothes certain color like black and brown cloth have to be bigger/ bagger on you
started really praying for my future wife this morning! i started praying that i would be the man of God i can be while i’m single so that he would prepare me to be a good husband. love your videos so much and happy anniversary
Emma, great point, my identity was in being a nurse, a good nurse who was wanted in emergency. After a lot of years in sin, thinking I was better than a lot of people, I lost my job and I gained the beginnings of a walk with Jesus. Today I love Jesus so much, someday I will tell you what happened when I almost died, but not on this platform. Happiest of anniversaries to you and Joe, you have a beautiful giggle!
@Just like Ruth everyone's got different situations. Some find either thing easy or hard. As for me, a celibate for life, my search will be for friends only whom I can call as family
I was moved by Emma’s comment that we have to be “counter culture”. I think that really is true; as believers in Christ, we are (and should be) the ultimate counter culture. God bless you!
I've seen hubbys (unbelievers) act like grateful partners, my hubby (one who believes in Christ) is just a teller, not a doer of the word ...love (I can be glad he does not leave me for a younger one... maybe that is the love? when people get old and sick? )
@@driftwood5504 have faith that our Father is Just and the Lord has a plan for both you and your husband. When people see the marriage of Christ believers, they are to see a glimpse of the Kingdom. Never to bring glory to us, but to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. We are cheering for y’all, in this walk of life, may the Lord bless your family.
STOP WEARING UNGODLY THINGS “The night is nearly over; the day is almost here. So let us put aside the deeds of darkness and put on the armor of light. Let us behave decently, as in the daytime, not in carousing and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and debauchery, not in dissension and jealousy. Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the flesh.” (Romans 13:12-14 NIV)
hi guys , I was buying a dress from the Uk and came across a line that said modest clothes, I though wow And true to their offering there were beautifully made garments that covered you so beautifully and I started realizing that is what people want . Until I saw this I did not completely understand. To be clear I feel so much better in this dress than any in years . So there you go . ❤️
@@shirin8609 I am sorry Shirin but I don’t recall the name of the line of clothing , How ever I do buy from Marks and Spencer , a company out ok the U.K. and they have some very lovely modest clothing, now this is a big well established store and they represent several lines of clothing plus Marks and Spencer has their own line as well called M&S . They sell just about everything including children’s clothing ( this includes school uniforms) Hose hold goods , lots of choices . So far everything I have ordered from Narks and Spencer has arrived well packed and the products are of good quality . Worth a look . Sorry I was late in my reply.
I recently heard that modesty is to not draw attention to ourselves. So our "Sunday best" might be lovely, not form fitting, but it might be showy, drawing attention to us. I used to think I wore my best before The King, but I've had to reevaluate. Does my outfit make me stand out so others notice or am I walking in humility. Guard my heart, O Lord, that I do not sin.
Actually, I love fashion. Since I was 4 yrs. old I had my own style. Kind of avante garde. God created me this desire for fashion & I wanted to be a fashion designer. So....if I stand out, it's my unique style. In heaven, I may want to design as well. Some are artists, others are math geniuses. Clothes don't have to be boring, they can be fun! Take it easy on us who draw attention and get complimented. I still love God.
@@WandaWojcik It was an observation, not a judgment. I love fashion too; I just need to be careful to bring honor to my King, in attitude and dress. God bless you!
Sure, our God answers prayers, He will rebuke all disobedience when our obidience is complete. Lean not on your own understanding, acknowledge Him, he will surely gives you what you deserve. God bless you. Amen.
I love this video because, not too many people are talking about modesty these days, even in the churches. This is such good information! The fact that your wife is speaking with you on this topic, gives the impression that the message is sincere and not just sexist, controlling or male chauvinistic. Those who read the Word regularly, would know that you are speaking truth, but those who don’t, may assume you were just a controlling person, if your wife wasn’t saying it too, like she is, so it has a much better impact! Great video!👍😊🙏❤️
When possible (especially when I'm not behind the wheel of a vehicle), if I see a woman dressed immodestly & am tempted to stare, I just remove my eyeglasses so everything becomes a blur! _At those times, I thank the Lord for my poor vision._ 🤓 *"I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman."* 📖 Job 31:1, NIV
Brother Joe what a beautiful proposal you had with our sister Emma. I must say that may the Good Lord continue to shower your family with His mercies and favours. Thank you for talking about 1Timothy 2:8-15(I wish you talked about it more please). All the best everyone! Be blessed!
Adorning ourselves with garments of righteousness and modesty. What a blessing your message was to wake up to Ministers Joe and Emma Kirby. Prayers for you from Canada.
What’s sad is when I’ve talked about modesty in our very conservative church I still get blowback and critical reprimands from so many. I thank GOD that my lovely wife and daughter are convicted enough to dress very modestly so not to stumble anyone. Y’all are a blessing to my family Please keep up the videos , they are helping.
People who choose to stumble stumble on their own and cannot put the blame on others, It's called free will. I cannot blame a actress if I choose to lust after her I can only blame myself for choosing to think of her in a lustful manner.
@@emmaswain3084 amen sister it starts with the thought and one's mind where the attractiveness creates lust and if you don't dismiss it out of your mind immediately and thoughts it will manifest in your heart and become sin God bless you excellent point and statement
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts. It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...). Tattoos Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc... IT IS A SIN.
I've removed my piercings. I don't know why it was sooooooo important to do so last Autumn to take it away, but I did. I then (a few months later) removed my lip ring (piercing) I wasn't going to on that day but the feeling inside me was very persistent! So I started to remove it as fast as I could but it was stuck! I was freaking out, but finally the little disgusting ball came loosened and I got it off. I yelled " I'm free, I'm free, I'm finally free" I was actually dreading it because of the scar left behind. I didn't do this for myself. If I wouldn't of felt guilt from having these piercings I would of never removed them. Even through guilt I still left them in, until one I took out October 11th 2021 & January 16th 2022. It scares me. What if I'm getting ready to die? Or maybe Jesus is coming back? I feel much better with them out.
Don’t worry…this is you listening to the Holy Spirit. He guided you to remove these things. You don’t need them. You are perfect as you are. And no one knows what’s going to happen. You are fine.
You do realise you are believing in works and not faith right. I have noticed this man uses alot of works based messaging while hiding behind faith based disguise. Piercings and Clothes are not what make you saved it is your faith in Jesus Christ alone.
@@lokigodofmischief230 we are not saved by works, but once we are saved our works will change. If you are truly saved the Holy Spirit's work in your life begins. If your life, actions, and thoughts are not changing (you are not bearing fruit), better check your relationship with Jesus. How interesting that you are promoting a pagan god and mischief while downing the people of the living God.
Nothing in life has happened to you. It's happened for you. Every disappointment. Every wrong. Even every closed door has helped make you into who you are.
@DiscipleDave DotCom if it’s a test, then we all failed, and will fail again and again. All of us. Jesus Christ died for us, 𝘏𝘦 was tested, tried, for the things 𝘸𝘦 did so that we didn’t have to. That should be our focus, not on what we do, or will do, but on what He did because of His love for us. God bless, brother!
A person is beautiful when he/she is sincere, gentle, kind, humble. But naturally humble. Not for show. Because anything can be for show. The mercy that Christ has revealed sets everything right. As for dressing, you can dress not extravagantly and not defiantly, but still beautiful.
*This is easily one of the most forgotten and unaddressed issues in Christianity today, thank you for sharing this important lesson with the world!* ♥ Dressing modestly is often associated with Islam but it also part of Christian doctrine. You will not be able to tell in most traditionally Christian countries today, but dressing modestly _is_ required of us. Indeed, the way you carry yourself should first and foremost reflect your relationship with God. However, we have to live in this world and spend time with others. Therefore, your choice of clothes is important for your relationships with others.
I was fortunate when I grew up with a dress designer Mother. The fabric, the cut, the design were paramount. Living in Australia I became aware that Muslim men did not like much of our fashion. I actually agreed, made sure if I wore jeans I made sure I covered the crotch.. jeans and tight pants exaggerate the girl bits, so a long top. I'm 73 and lust has never been important.
He is a real content creator he don't make up any christian content for views but he make content based what he want to show us . Because some christian influencer makes content for views and money.
Whoever believes in the Lord Jesus Christ shall not perish but have everlasting life repent for the kingdom of God is at hand! Jesus is returning to judge the living and the dead repent for the kingdom of God is at hand! Jesus is returning repent the Bible says in roman 10-9 it says that whoever believes in the Lord Jesus Christ that he died for our sins and accept him as your Lord and Savior you shall be saved repent God bless ..!.!
The message in this video is right on point. The HOLY SPIRIT convicts you when it comes to dressing. The way I dressed before I became a born again, a new convert and five years later in Christ are different phases. This is the most accurate video I have seen on this topic for believers. There is freedom and peace of mind with modesty. It should never be a burden of obligation.
I remember having this conversation with a group of teens. The girls are just trying to find "cute" clothes and that is the thought they are having, but they didn't realize that the guys didn't care AT ALL about the "cute" outfit, they were looking at the contents....with the world so over sexualized it is a hard lesson for people to understand...go with the times and all that! Great teaching and I love that you make this something personal, sharing your life. It makes it real and people will listen and think!
It is so difficult because it has to come from their hearts. But if all around them suggests it differently, they often want that. And if you as a parent suggest the proper way, they may perceive this as forbidding stuff. It takes a lot of wisdom to raise children these days. May all parents receive that wisdom in the name of our Lord Jesus.
Oh gosh, I appreciate this video. These are the things more leaders should speak about. I love how God is leading his servants to speak more TRUTH. I love Truth. Love this video!
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts. It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...). Tattoos Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc... IT IS A SIN.
Thank you for bringing your wife into this discussion as well. It's encouraging for me as a man to hear a woman of God speak of modesty, I often feel hopeless in finding a woman that doesn't display her body for the world to see. I make an effort to dress more modestly hoping that in turn I will attract a woman that dresses modestly
When we owned an ice cream business we went to fairs, festivals, and high schools to sell our cups of ice cream. I noticed from time to time that the young girls who were dressed immodestly would pull their clothes together as if to hide a little when they interacted with me in the booth. I was smiling, happy, engaging, and non-judgmental, but something about our interaction caused them to want to cover up what they had exposed. I believe it was the Holy Spirit in me that convicted them and nothing about me personally. Those who are dressed immodestly are convicted by the Holy Spirit when they encounter him. They either hide as Adam and Eve did or they become angry and try to find something wrong with the person who has the Holy Spirit dwelling in them. Mankind knows what is modest and what is not, even unbelieving men will show more respect to a woman dressed modestly than they do to a woman who is showing to much. They sort of sense the immodest woman wants them to lust after her, that's why she dresses that way.
100! Same with me! Biblically, it seems that women are to wear only dresses and our heads are supposed to remain covered! Of course appropriate dresses! Thanks for being decent as well!
Your wife is one of a kind, a true woman of Christ 🥺❤️thank you for this beautiful message, and I pray I have a future spouse like yours as well. God bless you joe❤️
I've always dressed modestly even as a teenager, I can count the number of times I've worn makeup or skirts and dresses. I don't wear skirts and dresses mainly because I just don't enjoy them, it's a personal preference. But otherwise my clothing decisions have always been centred around modesty, comfort and smartness. There's always been pressure to wear more revealing clothes, makeup and jewellery, even my mom and family members have shamed me for being too modest. I remember getting called a prude for dressing modestly and trying to be a lady in general- not being overly loud and raucous and being low-key and quiet by nature. Some people may even accuse you of not caring for your appearance if you don't wear makeup, no matter how healthy and hygienic you are. I think it's genuinely hard for women to be modest in this culture, you're definitely going to be called a repressed and self-conscious prude, even by older people. Even then, don't sacrifice your conscience for the world, because ultimately that will bring you much more fulfilment.
I am sorry to hear you are shamed by women in your own family for dressing and behaving modestly. There is nothing wrong with being modest. Too many people follow what they see in fashion magazines, movies and on tv that is revealing and often ridiculous-looking. You can be stylish and classy without being immodest. Be yourself and pray for their eyes to be opened.
You don't have to wear skirts and dresses if you don't want. When the Bible says that women shouldn't wear what pertains to a man, you have to realize that neither men nor women wore trousers back in those days, therefore trousers don't pertain to a man. Also, you shouldn't be bothered by being called a prude. Being prude is a good thing. Non-religious people have it wrong.
As someone who is an artist and works in Hollywood and fashion, I struggled with this conviction for so long even as a baby Christian and even 10+ years in. I am more curvier and I always felt like if I wore modest clothing or loosing clothing would make me feel look I looked like i gained weight so I would wear clothes that were tight fitting clothing or even gym clothes. This video definitely helped a lot and the Lord brought conviction to me about if you cant evangelize in it comfortably, then don't wear it. So this is another area that I have to truly learn how to surrender. Thank you for this video. I absolutely agree with everything you said. Ultimately I want to learn how to please God and win souls and no longer live for self and walk in the flesh, but rather walk in the spirit. I'm so glad God has me watching your evangelism videos again so I can start winning souls again
As a believer, dressing modestly is also seeking his Kingdom and His righteousness, being concerned for his Kingdom. Beautiful message brother Joe. The society is so lustful, that i often get minded of the scripture, Matthew 18:7 Woe to the world for the causes of sin. These stumbling blocks must come, but woe to the man through whom they come!
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts. It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...). Tattoos Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc... IT IS A SIN.
Would be lovely and encouraging if Emma will have a Christian you tube channel for women 🙂, she is so intelligent, God is changing lives through you two. ❤️❤️
I think one account for both of them is enough. They should not make separate videos. They are one with God anyway. "As the wife clings to her husband who follows after God"
I know this was 2yrs ago, but it popped up on my page and as a young woman in Christ modesty is something I examine in myself daily. So this video was more confirmation for me, may God bless you and your family abundantly. Much love from a fellow sister 💖
@@starhunter9085 but our clothing can cause others to sin So he is trying to say we should be decently dressed I for one is chubby and curvy, when I wear tight fitting clothes, the stares I get is different when I am decently dressed dear
Great topic especially for the present age, i work at a retail store and am appalled at some of the clothes we get for the teen aged girls where all the parts of the body that needs covering is open and many of the young men's clothes have all kinds of grotesque or demonic graffiti on it. We need to pray and teach the younger generation about God.
@@lokigodofmischief230 he’s may very well be talking about lustful drawings that may appear as graffiti it’s not that he’s just coocoo in the head bro pls do not take this out context
@@Shofargirl1 YES!!! I always capitalize GOD JESUS THE HOLY SPIRIT and any pronoun referring to THEM. I'm sure it probably looks funny to some that I capitalize even the pronouns, but I dont care, THEY are GOD and deserve such reverence!
A big yes on the modesty! I try to be very mindful of this. Amen.We must be modest in our speech also. Especially when we are in mixed sex company. Serious subjects tend to become jokes with immature people. Some topics should be avoided altogether in groups.
About a month ago i've been celebrating the 10th anniversary of the wedding. I decided to invite my wife to our favorite restaurant in Kraków (about 70km away from our home) and re-propose to her with another ring. And guess what! We are in the half of our journey to Kraków and I suddenly realized I left the ring at home! I had no other choice but turn back and do extra 60km both directions to get the ring. Luckily my wife thought it was really funny and I am silly. I'm convinced that's why she loves me ;)
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts. It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...). Tattoos Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc... IT IS A SIN.
I really think alot of men who include their wives in ministry Very helpful .She is a real blessing to you Joe .You are so fortunate to have such a supportive wife So blessed .
The best thing I ever done was give my life to Christ, I'm devoted to follow Jesus Christ with my entire being, He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less. John 3:30 ✊🏾🤍🕊️
Ok... Only .... That there is no need for christ to become greater CHRIST IS PERFECT also.. You are using John 3:30 incorrectly , THAT'S NOT WHAT IT MEANS. Have you read the entire chapter, do you understand what john was saying and why ? you have completely changed the context of John 3:30 and you have done so to suit your own needs Christians do this a lot, they literally take passages from the bible, TAKING SNIPPETS OUT OF CONTEXT you gave your life to christ..........GREAT, good for you You are happy............. GREAT.. good for you andyou love jesus... GREAT.. good for you but you can't end the comment by taking a quote of john's completely out of context. OK THINK ABOUT IT READ YOUR BIBLE AGAIN READ THE ENTIRE CHAPTER UNDERSTAND WHAT IT MEANS AND WHAT JOHN MEANT TO SAY AND UNDERSTAND WHY IT DOESN'T APPLY IN THIS SITUATION
@@margaretdiji6723 I'll carry my cross the way he told me too, showing others what he represents Matthew 5:13-16 I choose to give him glory through my lifestyle because he told me so and because I want to bring honor to the one who saved me. If you don't feel the same cool, but don't put me in the mix🤍✝️ one love
This was such a great message! I have a teenage daughter who is by nature very modest. It’s sad to see some of the girls she’s know her whole life dress like an adult woman going to a club.
So well explained. I don't think I've ever heard someone say what is precious is covered. It's usually spoken of with more of a religious tone. Which even I've been guilty of. I appreciate this message; thank you.
I still use my engagement ring as a wedding ring. He used his whole check! My birthstone as the piece. I was the only woman he had ever loved. I still am a decade later, and while it’s not always easy, it’s worth it. People still find me bizarre for not having my ears pierced. I’ve had women point it out at doctors visits. I never considered myself modest but maybe I am. Thank you both for this video. Congratulations to the love you both are constantly growing.
Joes story about his proposal reminds me of how we are sometimes. Sometimes, God has something great planned for us. He has a reward, but it is waiting on the other side of a struggle, anger, uncertainty or a conflict. Sometimes, we just don’t listen to God, because we have strife. But once we do as he asks, follow His path and climb that mountain, conquer that giant, we find true pleasure in Jesus. Nothing worth having comes easily.
It was really a good topic. And I loved the fact that you touched both on the women and the men. Because most of the time when we talk of dress code for a christian, only a woman's dressing comes into discussion. May God bless you for the wonderful work both of you are doing. It was my first time on the channel, but I enjoyed every minute of it.
I agree men these days have clothing so tight it's almost painted on! I have started to see a trend emerge for more relaxed items and I think it's good for all of us to (men and women) be more thoughtful of what we wear and why.
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts. It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...). Tattoos Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc... IT IS A SIN.
It’s really hard when you ate the one dressing modest and while you are out with your spouse they ate checking out every woman that passes in short dress , tight pants, low cut shirts . They just can’t help themselves as they have done it for so many years . It’s very sad . Christ should be our focus but this world has a stronghold over many .
Everyone has been brain-washed by the telli-box to tolerate immodesty. It's popular to know the double-speak for sexual innuendos, and if we don't laugh along we make the others uncomfortable around us. I love that both of you did this video together, because it's a he & she issue, it's not the man preaching down to the woman, or vise-versa, it's us helping us in Christ.
"you're about as ripped as a McDonald's french fry" 🤣 I relate to this soooo much. I am getting married in three weeks. I love seeing videos with you and your wife!
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts. It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...). Tattoos Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc... IT IS A SIN.
I am from Jamaica and I just became a Christian just 2 months ago, so I am a baby christ and your channel has been very helpful in my walk with Jesus. one question though, I am very shy and a bit awkward, what is the best way to spread the gospel and win souls for Jesus?
My advice would be, in your personal life anyway: to let everyone know about your faith in JESUS CHRIST, and then live your life by example. When people see you’re at peace, filled with love, and live righteously, GOD willing, they will want to follow HIM also. Let them come to you when they’re ready instead of preaching to them or judging them. I pray GOD continues to bless you, in the mighty name of JESUS CHRIST!!! Praise HIM for bringing you back home with us!!!
Hi brother. Best way I spread the word, by living it. Living that I get it won't daily and then say I'm sorr and mean it. Living others with the love God have me, loving those around me, even those who wrong me. Be the light Jesus was and is for us. You won't even have to preach his name, because his actions through you will scream. Until next time my brother x
I love that you both love the Lord. So sweet at the end, ‘are you going to give them to me?’ Funny. I’ve done things like that, kind of being sheepish, and my wife calls me a dork then gives me a big hug and kiss. God bless you Joe and you too Emma.
Sometimes its because of idolatry We idolize our beauty over God even in the church...we wear things that distract ourselves that we forget what we went to church for; to serve one another through the spirit of the Lord ❤️ I hope you understand
I appreciate what you are saying. I never dressed immodestly until I gained weight and it seemed to wreck my confidence. So I started wanting to feel the current trend of 'bodyconfidence' and wearing what accented my curves especially on date nights or time out with friends. I needed the compliments and it changed my spirit, honestly. Not only that, but I would be insecure the whole time!! What a relief to refocus on pleasing Christ and my husband, and it doesn't mean I've got it all sorted - but I'm a work in progress going in the right direction.
Such an interesting topic, thank you Joe and Emma. I remember having a conversation with a friend, who would wear quite tight and low cut clothes and heels to Church. She snapped at me that she can wear what she wants to Church. This video is enlightening. Thank you.
Thank you Joe and Emma! So well said!! In this day and age I find it terribly hard to find clothes that are becoming while not being immodest in their cut and design!
I think with being modest … it’s still okay to like fashion though. I’ve been trying to do it with layers. Especially for the fall weather. Cute sweaters and nice boots lol
@Alvin Ochola lol well..most clothing I see today that are more fashionable are the ones that are sexually appealing. Or if you have certain curves that stand out… even a modest outfit might look promiscuous. So I think layers look good lol or maybe I just don’t know how to dress lol
@@jessicamiller746 I like the trend of scarves and sweaters, and I still love clothing I just avoid certain garments but it isn't because of men looking at me it is because of the way I looked at myself and felt about myself. I think we are like-minded.
@@jessicamiller746 + yes there is definitely a "fun" or even costumey aspect to clothing - that's what I like about clothing. I naturally believe in modesty.
@@TooTallTurtle87 yeah men always say that but yet you looking right at the same man that says that how he drools over the woman who's wearing skimpy skirts and skimpy shirts
Instead of trying to not look, make yourself immune, even when you look. Fight the disease, not the symptom. Don't deal with problems, get yourself in a place where problems are minimal while respecting the definition of problem
2:46 Moral of the story 4:18 Bible verses about modesty 5:30 Modesty for men as well... 5:52 Women struggle with lust as well... 11:55 I feel convicted...
Very authentic and sympathetic couple😍😍 As a Christian women I would love to see more videos about your life as a godly married couple.. what kind of struggles u may or not face and how u include God in ur everyday life/routine… Greetings from Germany :)
Yeah, for example its sad to see so many women ”twerking” and wearing so light clothes.. Just because they want attention.. They are like sexualizing themselves and sexually provocating, manipulating guys with lustful thoughts.
Yes! Conviction of sin is huge in Church! In the body...we need to honour others...Love your neighbour as yourself... Hallelujah Amen 🙏🏼 This is a beautiful ministry! Thank you to you both! May the Lord bless you both, more, than you think you already are! Amen 🙏🏼
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Your engagement story is very funny! Thank you for sharing that with us. God bless you both. The ending was funny as well. Love to you both from Massachusetts 💜
I'm a christian and I finished fashion designing in finishing school. I always wanted to design clothes that are modest and yet stylish. I want God to reflect on my works too 😍
Which finishing school did you attend
@@jesusislord3280 I went to Slims fashion school :) it's in the ph :)
THAT'S AMAZING!! KEEP IT UP FOR THE LORD! 🤍
Let me know when you start selling I’m ready to buy
@@ablackfamily749 thank you! I'm saving for buying materials. I kind of used up my all my savings in the pandemic. Salaries were cutted short. :)
I am Indian Christian 🇮🇳...... praying for you all..... please pray for me ,pray for my family and pray for India 🇮🇳
Same here bro..
I will :) may God be with u in this time
@777 = elohim ...Jay masih ki 😇
I'm here too 🇮🇳
Brave
It's good to see a good married couple happily together and talking about the word of God.
Agreed
Yessssss!!!
You have the same name as my cousin. She goes by her married name but Tucker is her maiden name and my mother's maiden name. My Uncle's daughter.
They are a sweet couple. Very blessed they are.
Yes it is
Modesty is also an attitude. You can be covered up and totally give off sexual, seductive vibes. I think it needs to be both, especially in our pornified culture.
Agreed
True but dress in modesty is fundamental to begin with
@@phebeovercomer8851right
See I mean there’s nothing wrong with being attractive with modest clothing on but don’t seek attention or validation from people. You are of God & Jesus Christ when you put on clothing. I never wore nothing sexual to get another girl’s attention, and I was still getting girls attention because I’m of God and Jesus Christ. We are all naturally attractive in the image of Heavenly Father. ❤️😇 We don’t need devilish clothing to make us look like we are sexy or attractive. We was already made attractive before this devilish fashion world began.
First of all..
Good Luck in your Journey as a Fashion Designer/ Stylist..
May God Blesses You with a Beautiful Job that suits you..
And May He Protect and Provide You in All Your needs..
Ive always Love doing Fashion..
It was one of my passion
to create something out of nothing...
❤️✌🏼 From The Netherland.
A lot of Christian these days do not want to listen to this , but this video is a must watch and very essential especially in the last days , the bride needs to prepare itself . Thank you for this video 🙏🏼
True
@@rebeccapratap9078 amen
Yeah, but a lot of Christian’s also have their own opinion and judged others from a religious point of view and are over the top, but then on the other hand some do need to be pulled up on what they’re wearing 🤷🏻
A lot of “Christians” are not really Christians
@@Sacrifice-Paid Don't worry about others, just concentrate on yourself and saving souls. On judgement day God is not going yo ask you about them, he will ask you about YOU.
I liked how Emma said our identity is in Christ and not in the clothes we wear. That really helps me with starting to let go of my vanity.
Amen !!!
Amen✝️✝️
Amen
There's a problem in society especially with women's fashion where they describe immodest clothing as 'female empoerment'. It's why I started making vintage clothing for myself and I was surprised by how many women both in the church and out of the church wanted to wear more modest clothing but struggle to find such clothing in the local shops.
Ann-Marie Sweeney+ Classic '40's style dresses and coats /hats gloves...
I know, it's all so cheap and tawdry.
Get a vintage tweed suit! Seriously though, 1920's-1940's the people were so well dressed.
@@matthiashepworth6583 Already made one years ago.
Before skank clothes were the norm, I felt like I should make pretty, feminine clothes that are ultra girly and not hot, sexy or cheap looking. Haven’t yet but pray I move forward on this.
That is so true. I've dresses for Mass, and finding ones that go below the knee are almost impossible to find. I've always dressed modest, except for the 'rebellious years' which luckily didn't last too long. Always had that voice whispering 'no, no, no'.. and thank God it was there.
I’ve been discussing this with my husband a lot lately. We help each other with regards to how to dress. Other people who aren’t Christian think that he is controlling me, but I want to respect him and our Lord.
I'm guessing you aren't walking in public in skin tight yoga pants like most women do these days. As a woman myself, I find that disgusting as you can see every crack and crevice, both front and back....
I wouldn't want to be seen wearing that the day Christ Jesus returns.
That is beautiful!! People also think that submitting to each other is wrong too! Do not listen to the world, listen to the word! God Bless you and Your Marriage!
For me, it just became unbearable to dress in tight or revealing clothes. I began to feel so vulnerable and exposed. Around the same time, I started to hear the low and dirty sentiments in music and became highly sensitive to violence and debauchery in films and television. Things that had never occurred to me, or that I actually sought after, before the holy spirit came to me.
Amen… same for me. The Holy Spirit will convict me with these things also. Thank you Jesus for your teaching us right from wrong
Meeee too!!
amen
I totally get what you are saying. I feel uncomfortable if dressing sexy or revealing, I hear music that is all about sex and immoral acts and it makes me cringe. I used to wonder how anyone could abstain from sex but being that I have no man in my life, it really isn't that hard. I always thought it was cause I was getting older, or wiser, but I am really knowing that it is because I love God and I want to live by his teachings. A part of me still wants that one man to come in my life and marry me and love me as a wife but right now I am working on my relationship with God. I will leave it in his hands as to whether I remain alone for life or find love again
@@jaymielynn5426 Reading your response here is like reading my own thoughts. Hearing the darkness in music, seeing the content in tv and movies. That's something how the Holy Spirit works in us. I feel exactly the same way as you , no man in my life and want to live for Jesus. I'd like God to bless me with a proper husband. But I will wait on the Lord.
Blessings.
Lust is not just for sex. I lust after food. Thank you for this message. I am encouraged to treat my body like the temple and not a garbage dump. Pray for me please
God bless you on your weight loss journey😏
Thank you for this. I am sorry Lord. Please Help me control myself, Lord.
Try fasting Diana, it will definitely help
Gluttony is a Sin. 🙏 Praying for you.
Please pray for me to treat my body in a holy manner, and lose weight. 😢
I am sorry Lord Jesus. 🙏🏻
I've always been a modest dresser but in my experience even on days when wearing overalls and no makeup, hair up in a baseball cap, men will still be pushy and catcall.
But at least I know God knows I'm not inciting any unwanted attention by dressing provocatively. I cannot control how others react but I can control how I'm representing Christ. 🙏🏻
Dressing modestly is between you and God and I don't like the modern idea of men wanting women to dress a certain way they perceive of modest to keep them from stumbling.. it shouldn't be our responsibility. Let us just try our best to dress in a way WE think is modest (aka doesn't distracts us from our faith) and not in a way to please man.
@@lenab.m.3708 my dad would litteraly walk outside naked but he'd police me when I didn't wear a bra under my pijamas when I was at home.. It's not about modesty, it's about control.
@@GirlDo3 he's still a male even though he's your dad so you need to find a comfy bra to wear under your pajamas . Your dad shouldn't be walking around naked in front of you either .
@@GirlDo3 your right...but it's about modesty also . ..although when it comes to parents ...or most men then it IS about control . ..that being said then you can walk down the street wearing a long skirt and not showing any cleavage and walking to the bus stop dressed like that and still get harassed by some jerk driving by ...in this way then it's a no win situation but maybe if your dressed modest ...meaning not tight clothing or showing cleavage then it will help ...but sometimes you just can't win .males are really really horrible
Yes that is true about men. Nuns have even been raped by evil men. I still will continue to follow God's teaching for modesty however.
I dress like an old woman according to my generation and my family, but this is how I was brought up and I am not the perfect religious person but I know how to conduct myself properly and people will see that and respect you more.
Girrrl same ❤️
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts.
It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...).
Tattoos
Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc...
IT IS A SIN.
@@TedEhioghae that's legalism. A lot of people in the bible ripped their clothes in sorrow and repentance so they definitely showed their armpits. Would you say that Job was sinning when he did so?
If the bible didn't say it was a sin, you need to provide biblical evidence that supports your claims instead of just putting out the sins of fashion that you hold to be true.
I am in my mid 70s and grew up when modesty was expected at all times, in church, or at work or just out was the agenda. I was raised in a Catholic household. Modesty was the watchword of the day. If one of my parents said something about my clothing, I would be mortified.
I was invited to a summer houseparty, casual attire and bring swim clothes if you liked as they lived by the ocean and for the kids had an inflable pool. Most people were sitting in beach chairs outside enjoying the weather. I only knew the hostess so I just sat in a beach chair enjoying the weather and sipping a drink. I glanced over to see a young man sitting in a beach chair enjoying a drink with his legs crossed. The view I had was to say at the least startling. His trunks must have been old and the material inside the trunks that hold your "junk" inside the trunks had failed due to the age of the trunks. I was in direct line of site. My hostess was not in view and I wasn't sure I was seeing what I thought I was seeing. I took a quick look back and yes, I was seeing it. I didn't know the man and my hostess had disappeared. Finally after several minutes I spotted her and waved her over. I directed her gaze toward the gentleman and she gasped. I told her the information might be better from her since she knew him. She agreed and walked over to him. I had gotten up and walked away...I decided I'd had enough beach for the day. I hope the young man wasn't too embarrassed and he would invest in a new pair of swim shorts. He got up and I don't know if he left or to see if he could rectify the problem. It's one of those situations that's embarrassing to everyone.
@@TedEhioghae Well I'd never heard that and was raised Catholic. All my clothes were pretty moderate because I didn't like inappropriate body parts hanging out. At some periods of fashion, especially when shorter was the order of the day. I was always careful to sit properly and was constantly pulling something or other that I was wearing down. It wasn't easy because you didn't get much to choose from...short hemlines be it dresses/skirts or shorts were getting shorter. I wasn't comfortable, especially working in an office. I did the best I could under the circumstances.
I'm very modest and my body is for my husbands eyes only. We've been married 17 years. I keep my head down if we are around other people only because I have so much love and respect for him I'm just not interested in any other person. He fulfills my every desire and brings me laughter. God brought us together and continues to keep us together. We are each others best friends.
Jesus says to look up
You keeping your head down isn't necessary. Has nothing to do with modesty. You are making yourself as less than your husband. God made us equals. Get your head up and be the person God made you. Stop disrespecting yourself. What does your husband think of your actions? Does he keep his head down around others? What's good for the goose is most definitely good for the gander.
God bless you.
Keeping your head down seems like inferiority rather than respect. He loves you,you love him. So look up and be proud of 17 years.
@DiscipleDave DotCom it’s not that she’s doing something evil or bad. But it definitely is making her seem inferior to her husband. It could be bad for her self esteem
Honestly when Joe said that we are all precious I almost cried, I think we sometimes forget that we are precious in Gods eyes and that we have worth. This video was awesome and helped me to understand the importance of modesty a bit more. Thanks mate!
Yes, we are significant !! Amen
Yes, the blood of Jesus has declared us holy & worthy in His sight. We should remind us constantly of this eternal truth, as for many years we believed the lies of our thoughts & accepted the lebels the world has put on us. We are precious in His sight, but so are everyone and we need to look at them as precious, regardless there behavior or attitude. Love really is the answer, the pure unconditional love of God. Blessings!
Yes brother think like this he literately loves you more then you love him
You are not just another human. You were created by God and for God. You were bought with a price and are extremely valuable to Him. God wants to know your thoughts, feelings and desires on a moment by moment basis because He loves you so. If you stop your dialogue with Him then He misses it and misses you. You are special, wonderful and magnificent. He sent His Son to die for you so start to live for Him. If you are already then live freer and realise just how loved you are. Be blessed my friend.
Great video Joe! Loved seeing you and your precious wife ministering together! Great job man!
Thank you brother, it was such a blessing have her help on this sensitive topic! - Joe
Me, too!!
Loved this double duo for Yeshua
@@starhunter9085 Ok some truth in what u say but it does MATTER how one dresses & you even know that, denial wont justify actions, forgive sin nor take awaway guilt.
@@starhunter9085 Yes I will tell you that & so will HE when you stand before HIM, there is a difference between wearing sackcloth clothing & wearing lewd clothing. But again u truly already knew that, so stop trying to manipulate our FATHER'S WORDS. If a born again male or female who is supposed to be walking in the life/light wears provocative clothing....YES YES IT DOES MATTER TO OUR HEAVENLY FATHER.
@@starhunter9085 clothing which stirs up lust.
I absolutely love joe and his wife, I’d love to have a marriage this full of light and positivity
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts.
It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...).
Tattoos
Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc...
IT IS A SIN.
I admired what's right it shall be given to u
And I say amen for you. I wish I could just say let me be the man for you. But God will give you a good man
@@TedEhioghae thank you for this ig……
@@TedEhioghae I have to believe you have taken things way to far. To do your hair in a straight or curly style being a sin is lunacy. I totally understand the skin tight clothing and any revealing type of clothing. But, not the curl, straighten or color ones hair. Being I'm older now, I guess I don't have to make sure my armpit hair is concealed. Being I don't have any these days. To be honest that's just weird!!!!!!!!
"CLOTHE yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and DO NOT THINK about how to GRATIFY the desires of the FLESH" ROM 13:14. Great suggestions and comments in this video that align with this verse. Keep up the good work Joe and Emma!
Much Admiration to you for your biblical teachings as well @Bible Questions with Christopher. I always feel encouraged and strengthened by your God given wisdom and knowledge of His holy Word. With much gratitude...
Perfect✝️
Sorry but I just need more clearance joe. The holy word u just read to us also say no gold r silver but your wife as on the devil thing. Come on Joe open your wife eyes my bro love
Congratulations to u bout
What Christian girls supposed to wear don’t say long skirt it not my style
What a lovely couple Christ has put together 🤍😊
I like when she says "If Jesus were here" this is a great way to think and it's a good standard to follow.
He is there
@@joannawidmoser8351 I know. But it's nice to acknowledge this in every situation. Sometimes people know he is near, but won't act as if he was
It’s good to start the day by putting your hand in his...like the 60’s song that Ocean did best and made popular, “Put Your Hand In The Hand Of The Man From Galilee”. Jesus IS here, he said he’d abide IN us.
But he is here though. and he always is, you can't go anywhere that he's not there. It's just you can't see him and so he's not always on your present thoughts.
Being a Christian woman I totally agree with you, God bless you brother
I'm getting my wife to watch this with me when she gets off work. I'm so glad I found your channel,the Lord is doing great things in people's lives through it.
Bless you brother Joseph, thank you also for sharing with your wife! - Joe
@@offthekirb that mean suit for men because it show your physical also no designs on your clothes certain color like black and brown cloth have to be bigger/ bagger on you
Have fun sleeping on the couch.
@@jasonspencer8558 I hope hell is not real but if it is your going
@@anthonyboyce2202 you saying God lied?
What a wonderful marriage and relationship they have. May God continue to bless them.
I am very blessed, but we certainly aren't perfect Ray 😂
@@offthekirb God bless you Pastor
Amen
started really praying for my future wife this morning! i started praying that i would be the man of God i can be while i’m single so that he would prepare me to be a good husband. love your videos so much and happy anniversary
Thought I was being weird praying for this. Glad to know am not alone😊
Keep me in ur prayers ....
@@poonamnair4719 shooting your shot? 👀😏
God bless you and your family Amen 🙏
@@poonamnair4719 😂savage
Emma, great point, my identity was in being a nurse, a good nurse who was wanted in emergency. After a lot of years in sin, thinking I was better than a lot of people, I lost my job and I gained the beginnings of a walk with Jesus. Today I love Jesus so much, someday I will tell you what happened when I almost died, but not on this platform. Happiest of anniversaries to you and Joe, you have a beautiful giggle!
While everyone's obsessed for romance these days, me in the corner is just wondering when I'll get group of faithful and loyal friends in life lol
I think it's easier to find a good spouse than loyal friends!
@Just like Ruth everyone's got different situations. Some find either thing easy or hard. As for me, a celibate for life, my search will be for friends only whom I can call as family
Both are easy
As long as you are the main character of an action story
@@oscarwong4201I don't think it depends on oneself and efforts. It's all about the will of God in the end
Ok. You have one here.
How much have you got already?
I was moved by Emma’s comment that we have to be “counter culture”. I think that really is true; as believers in Christ, we are (and should be) the ultimate counter culture. God bless you!
I've seen hubbys (unbelievers) act like grateful partners, my hubby (one who believes in Christ) is just a teller, not a doer of the word ...love (I can be glad he does not leave me for a younger one... maybe that is the love? when people get old and sick? )
@@driftwood5504 have faith that our Father is Just and the Lord has a plan for both you and your husband. When people see the marriage of Christ believers, they are to see a glimpse of the Kingdom. Never to bring glory to us, but to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. We are cheering for y’all, in this walk of life, may the Lord bless your family.
We are the salt of the earth !
And we are not not to conform to this world !
STOP WEARING UNGODLY THINGS
“The night is nearly over; the day is almost here. So let us put aside the deeds of darkness and put on the armor of light. Let us behave decently, as in the daytime, not in carousing and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and debauchery, not in dissension and jealousy. Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the flesh.” (Romans 13:12-14 NIV)
hi guys , I was buying a dress from the Uk and came across a line that said modest clothes, I though wow
And true to their offering there were beautifully made garments that covered you so beautifully and
I started realizing that is what people want . Until I saw this I did not completely understand. To be clear
I feel so much better in this dress than any in years . So there you go . ❤️
Could you mention the name? Please and thank you
PRAISE GOD THANK YOU FOR ALL THE BLESSINGs in JESUS NAME AMEN!!
What line was it?
@@shirin8609 I am sorry Shirin but I don’t recall the name of the line of clothing , How ever I do buy from Marks and Spencer , a company out ok the U.K. and they have some very lovely modest clothing, now this is a big well established
store and they represent several lines of clothing plus Marks and Spencer has their own line as well called M&S .
They sell just about everything including children’s clothing ( this includes school uniforms)
Hose hold goods , lots of choices . So far everything I have ordered from Narks and Spencer has arrived well packed
and the products are of good quality . Worth a look . Sorry I was late in my reply.
Absolutely, from a man's point of view most of us are not attracted to Woman who dress provocative
I recently heard that modesty is to not draw attention to ourselves. So our "Sunday best" might be lovely, not form fitting, but it might be showy, drawing attention to us. I used to think I wore my best before The King, but I've had to reevaluate. Does my outfit make me stand out so others notice or am I walking in humility. Guard my heart, O Lord, that I do not sin.
Amen 🙏🏼
Good point
Actually, I love fashion. Since I was 4 yrs. old I had my own style. Kind of avante garde. God created me this desire for fashion & I wanted to be a fashion designer. So....if I stand out, it's my unique style. In heaven, I may want to design as well. Some are artists, others are math geniuses. Clothes don't have to be boring, they can be fun! Take it easy on us who draw attention and get complimented. I still love God.
@@WandaWojcik It was an observation, not a judgment. I love fashion too; I just need to be careful to bring honor to my King, in attitude and dress. God bless you!
@@WandaWojcik if you dress in long loose garments, and covering your entire leg till the ankles then ur ok with the Lord.
I love how you look at your wife with so much humility to learn like it's the very first time you saw her..
I prayed to God for my future wife a couple of hours ago and you’ve posted this video! God is alive! Amen!
@@joyinthemorning44 that’s wonderful! God bless you both and your family! ❤️
@Ellis Bell thank you so much ❤️ God bless you too 🙏
@@joyinthemorning44 me too, married for 22 years and I praise God for a wonderful Christian wife she gave me.
Sure, our God answers prayers, He will rebuke all disobedience when our obidience is complete. Lean not on your own understanding, acknowledge Him, he will surely gives you what you deserve. God bless you. Amen.
I always pray for me x-wife.
I love this video because, not too many people are talking about modesty these days, even in the churches.
This is such good information! The fact that your wife is speaking with you on this topic, gives the impression that the message is sincere and not just sexist, controlling or male chauvinistic.
Those who read the Word regularly, would know that you are speaking truth, but those who don’t, may assume you were just a controlling person, if your wife wasn’t saying it too, like she is, so it has a much better impact! Great video!👍😊🙏❤️
When possible (especially when I'm not behind the wheel of a vehicle), if I see a woman dressed immodestly & am tempted to stare, I just remove my eyeglasses so everything becomes a blur!
_At those times, I thank the Lord for my poor vision._ 🤓
*"I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman."*
📖 Job 31:1, NIV
Amen right decision .
lol Love it! Anything that aids you staying on the path to God is a blessing. I've the same eyesight.. without glasses, the world is fuzzy.
Brother Joe what a beautiful proposal you had with our sister Emma. I must say that may the Good Lord continue to shower your family with His mercies and favours.
Thank you for talking about 1Timothy 2:8-15(I wish you talked about it more please).
All the best everyone! Be blessed!
I really do not like clothes shopping anymore because it's so hard to find clothing that makes you look nice without making you look sensual.
Shop in the grandma section.
@@Kelle0284 Hooray for us grandmas!
I’ve started making my own clothes
Pray about it! 🙏🏾
Philippians 4:6-8
& John 21:6,
Matthew 6:25-34
@@HolinessUntoTheLord. I do. Sometimes I'm able to find things that are just right. God supplies!
THANK YOU!!! The church at large just seems to ignore this issue.
"You cannot force someone to love you. The best you can do is strive to be someone worthy of loving."
Well said
Adorning ourselves with garments of righteousness and modesty. What a blessing your message was to wake up to Ministers Joe and Emma Kirby. Prayers for you from Canada.
🙏🙏
What’s sad is when I’ve talked about modesty in our very conservative church I still get blowback and critical reprimands from so many. I thank GOD that my lovely wife and daughter are convicted enough to dress very modestly so not to stumble anyone. Y’all are a blessing to my family Please keep up the videos , they are helping.
You might not ever know, but some will listen to you.
People who choose to stumble stumble on their own and cannot put the blame on others, It's called free will. I cannot blame a actress if I choose to lust after her I can only blame myself for choosing to think of her in a lustful manner.
@@emmaswain3084 amen sister it starts with the thought and one's mind where the attractiveness creates lust and if you don't dismiss it out of your mind immediately and thoughts it will manifest in your heart and become sin God bless you excellent point and statement
Keep talking regardless of the back blows and reprimands! Jezebel wanted her way too! Look where she ended up!
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts.
It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...).
Tattoos
Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc...
IT IS A SIN.
I've removed my piercings. I don't know why it was sooooooo important to do so last Autumn to take it away, but I did. I then (a few months later) removed my lip ring (piercing) I wasn't going to on that day but the feeling inside me was very persistent! So I started to remove it as fast as I could but it was stuck! I was freaking out, but finally the little disgusting ball came loosened and I got it off. I yelled " I'm free, I'm free, I'm finally free" I was actually dreading it because of the scar left behind. I didn't do this for myself. If I wouldn't of felt guilt from having these piercings I would of never removed them. Even through guilt I still left them in, until one I took out October 11th 2021 & January 16th 2022. It scares me. What if I'm getting ready to die? Or maybe Jesus is coming back? I feel much better with them out.
Don’t worry…this is you listening to the Holy Spirit. He guided you to remove these things. You don’t need them. You are perfect as you are. And no one knows what’s going to happen. You are fine.
You do realise you are believing in works and not faith right. I have noticed this man uses alot of works based messaging while hiding behind faith based disguise. Piercings and Clothes are not what make you saved it is your faith in Jesus Christ alone.
Margo, think of it this way. Your getting ready to live ! God has a plan for you, he’s preparing you.
Amen
@@lokigodofmischief230 we are not saved by works, but once we are saved our works will change. If you are truly saved the Holy Spirit's work in your life begins. If your life, actions, and thoughts are not changing (you are not bearing fruit), better check your relationship with Jesus. How interesting that you are promoting a pagan god and mischief while downing the people of the living God.
Nothing in life has happened to you. It's happened for you. Every disappointment. Every wrong. Even every closed door has helped make you into who you are.
In Jesus' name, Amen! Thank you for your wonderful comment :) God bless you!
@@kadd4415 Bless you
Beautiful ❤️🙏🏼
@DiscipleDave DotCom do you think this life is a test? If so I don't think I have done so well but I believe In Christ
@DiscipleDave DotCom if it’s a test, then we all failed, and will fail again and again. All of us. Jesus Christ died for us, 𝘏𝘦 was tested, tried, for the things 𝘸𝘦 did so that we didn’t have to. That should be our focus, not on what we do, or will do, but on what He did because of His love for us. God bless, brother!
So sweet. You should have Emma on more often if she feels lead, she is great at explaining with down to earth style as you do Joe.
i second that! loved seeing emma!!
My thoughts exactly while I was watching. 🤣🤣🤣
May God Almighty continue to grant you guys more grace in your marriage, family and ministry.
A person is beautiful when he/she is sincere, gentle, kind, humble. But naturally humble. Not for show. Because anything can be for show. The mercy that Christ has revealed sets everything right. As for dressing, you can dress not extravagantly and not defiantly, but still beautiful.
True facts👍🏽🙏🏽
This. You have stated it so eloquently, so perfectly!!
@@amycbullard Thank you :)
*This is easily one of the most forgotten and unaddressed issues in Christianity today, thank you for sharing this important lesson with the world!* ♥ Dressing modestly is often associated with Islam but it also part of Christian doctrine. You will not be able to tell in most traditionally Christian countries today, but dressing modestly _is_ required of us. Indeed, the way you carry yourself should first and foremost reflect your relationship with God. However, we have to live in this world and spend time with others. Therefore, your choice of clothes is important for your relationships with others.
I was fortunate when I grew up with a dress designer Mother. The fabric, the cut, the design were paramount. Living in Australia I became aware that Muslim men did not like much of our fashion. I actually agreed, made sure if I wore jeans I made sure I covered the crotch.. jeans and tight pants exaggerate the girl bits, so a long top. I'm 73 and lust has never been important.
He is a real content creator he don't make up any christian content for views but he make content based what he want to show us . Because some christian influencer makes content for views and money.
Whoever believes in the Lord Jesus Christ shall not perish but have everlasting life repent for the kingdom of God is at hand! Jesus is returning to judge the living and the dead repent for the kingdom of God is at hand! Jesus is returning repent the Bible says in roman 10-9 it says that whoever believes in the Lord Jesus Christ that he died for our sins and accept him as your Lord and Savior you shall be saved repent God bless ..!.!
Motives vary.
ofcourse he wants views for people to hear the gospel and not the money that is made from vews.
The message in this video is right on point. The HOLY SPIRIT convicts you when it comes to dressing. The way I dressed before I became a born again, a new convert and five years later in Christ are different phases. This is the most accurate video I have seen on this topic for believers. There is freedom and peace of mind with modesty. It should never be a burden of obligation.
I remember having this conversation with a group of teens. The girls are just trying to find "cute" clothes and that is the thought they are having, but they didn't realize that the guys didn't care AT ALL about the "cute" outfit, they were looking at the contents....with the world so over sexualized it is a hard lesson for people to understand...go with the times and all that! Great teaching and I love that you make this something personal, sharing your life. It makes it real and people will listen and think!
Very true but most women not only dress for cuteness but for attention from many that’s what makes it worse
-claps to both- that is very true
It is so difficult because it has to come from their hearts. But if all around them suggests it differently, they often want that. And if you as a parent suggest the proper way, they may perceive this as forbidding stuff. It takes a lot of wisdom to raise children these days. May all parents receive that wisdom in the name of our Lord Jesus.
I definitely struggle with lust and I pray a lot for help because I’ve backslid a few times and the guilt is overwhelming
Every man’s biggest struggle , you’re not alone
Prayer is a wonderful thing, pray to God to help you with fight against your fleshly esires.
Oh gosh, I appreciate this video. These are the things more leaders should speak about. I love how God is leading his servants to speak more TRUTH. I love Truth. Love this video!
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts.
It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...).
Tattoos
Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc...
IT IS A SIN.
I appreciate how you emphasized helping each other from lust by dressing modestly.
Thank you for bringing your wife into this discussion as well. It's encouraging for me as a man to hear a woman of God speak of modesty, I often feel hopeless in finding a woman that doesn't display her body for the world to see. I make an effort to dress more modestly hoping that in turn I will attract a woman that dresses modestly
Did you mean man?
When we owned an ice cream business we went to fairs, festivals, and high schools to sell our cups of ice cream. I noticed from time to time that the young girls who were dressed immodestly would pull their clothes together as if to hide a little when they interacted with me in the booth. I was smiling, happy, engaging, and non-judgmental, but something about our interaction caused them to want to cover up what they had exposed. I believe it was the Holy Spirit in me that convicted them and nothing about me personally. Those who are dressed immodestly are convicted by the Holy Spirit when they encounter him. They either hide as Adam and Eve did or they become angry and try to find something wrong with the person who has the Holy Spirit dwelling in them. Mankind knows what is modest and what is not, even unbelieving men will show more respect to a woman dressed modestly than they do to a woman who is showing to much. They sort of sense the immodest woman wants them to lust after her, that's why she dresses that way.
True Word sis
Lots of insight in your comment sister. Thank you.
100! Same with me! Biblically, it seems that women are to wear only dresses and our heads are supposed to remain covered! Of course appropriate dresses! Thanks for being decent as well!
So happy to hear this video and some of the comments were so true it's how I feel also
Yep before salvation I never thought about dressing nice but was worried that what I was wearing wouldn’t make someone ‘want me’
Your wife is one of a kind, a true woman of Christ 🥺❤️thank you for this beautiful message, and I pray I have a future spouse like yours as well. God bless you joe❤️
@Kel Rowland stop being a legalistic we should all want a women of character like Emma.
I've always dressed modestly even as a teenager, I can count the number of times I've worn makeup or skirts and dresses. I don't wear skirts and dresses mainly because I just don't enjoy them, it's a personal preference. But otherwise my clothing decisions have always been centred around modesty, comfort and smartness. There's always been pressure to wear more revealing clothes, makeup and jewellery, even my mom and family members have shamed me for being too modest. I remember getting called a prude for dressing modestly and trying to be a lady in general- not being overly loud and raucous and being low-key and quiet by nature. Some people may even accuse you of not caring for your appearance if you don't wear makeup, no matter how healthy and hygienic you are. I think it's genuinely hard for women to be modest in this culture, you're definitely going to be called a repressed and self-conscious prude, even by older people. Even then, don't sacrifice your conscience for the world, because ultimately that will bring you much more fulfilment.
Remember the world will hate you like they hated Jesus and his ways do not care of what people say care about what Jesus would say
I am sorry to hear you are shamed by women in your own family for dressing and behaving modestly. There is nothing wrong with being modest. Too many people follow what they see in fashion magazines, movies and on tv that is revealing and often ridiculous-looking. You can be stylish and classy without being immodest. Be yourself and pray for their eyes to be opened.
You don't have to wear skirts and dresses if you don't want. When the Bible says that women shouldn't wear what pertains to a man, you have to realize that neither men nor women wore trousers back in those days, therefore trousers don't pertain to a man. Also, you shouldn't be bothered by being called a prude. Being prude is a good thing. Non-religious people have it wrong.
Thanks for this they even think that I'm in a cult
Thank you so much for your kindness, I love you guys ❤
As someone who is an artist and works in Hollywood and fashion, I struggled with this conviction for so long even as a baby Christian and even 10+ years in. I am more curvier and I always felt like if I wore modest clothing or loosing clothing would make me feel look I looked like i gained weight so I would wear clothes that were tight fitting clothing or even gym clothes. This video definitely helped a lot and the Lord brought conviction to me about if you cant evangelize in it comfortably, then don't wear it. So this is another area that I have to truly learn how to surrender. Thank you for this video. I absolutely agree with everything you said. Ultimately I want to learn how to please God and win souls and no longer live for self and walk in the flesh, but rather walk in the spirit. I'm so glad God has me watching your evangelism videos again so I can start winning souls again
As a believer, dressing modestly is also seeking his Kingdom and His righteousness, being concerned for his Kingdom. Beautiful message brother Joe.
The society is so lustful, that i often get minded of the scripture, Matthew 18:7 Woe to the world for the causes of sin. These stumbling blocks must come, but woe to the man through whom they come!
You two are so perfect for each other! Your interactions made me smile.
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts.
It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...).
Tattoos
Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc...
IT IS A SIN.
Would be lovely and encouraging if Emma will have a Christian you tube channel for women 🙂, she is so intelligent, God is changing lives through you two. ❤️❤️
I think one account for both of them is enough. They should not make separate videos. They are one with God anyway.
"As the wife clings to her husband who follows after God"
@@29YC00 i agree cameo appearances are enough
Before I read your comment, I had that very same thought.
I know this was 2yrs ago, but it popped up on my page and as a young woman in Christ modesty is something I examine in myself daily. So this video was more confirmation for me, may God bless you and your family abundantly. Much love from a fellow sister 💖
The timing of me seeing this video is like God is directly responding to me.. wow 🙏🏼
That's me right now too 😂
The way Joe looks at his wife is so beautiful
It was a real blessing to have Emma on the video! God bless you Shu - Joe
@@offthekirb And bless you too
Joe's wife looks so beautiful.
That's right😁 the ways he looks at her when she speaks is really sweet. God bless him and his family.
@@starhunter9085 but our clothing can cause others to sin
So he is trying to say we should be decently dressed
I for one is chubby and curvy, when I wear tight fitting clothes, the stares I get is different when I am decently dressed dear
Great topic especially for the present age, i work at a retail store and am appalled at some of the clothes we get for the teen aged girls where all the parts of the body that needs covering is open and many of the young men's clothes have all kinds of grotesque or demonic graffiti on it. We need to pray and teach the younger generation about God.
Amen! It is truly difficult to find decent clothing for young teen girls!
Indeed...Let's rise up and counter this demonic culture
🤣 Demonic Graffiti. So word art is inherently demonic? Oh man you are so works based it's appalling
@@lokigodofmischief230 he’s may very well be talking about lustful drawings that may appear as graffiti it’s not that he’s just coocoo in the head bro pls do not take this out context
And guilt trip them
Loved it!
Let's ALL dress up in deeds and behaviour (and clothes) to honour the Lord!
God bless you all!
Modesty is the art of encouraging people to find it out for themselves how wonderful you are in god
*God 🥰
@@cahsu0617 Thanks for correcting this. I hate it when people write GOD with lower case. They will not write their name like that.🙄
@@Shofargirl1 YES!!! I always capitalize GOD JESUS THE HOLY SPIRIT and any pronoun referring to THEM. I'm sure it probably looks funny to some that I capitalize even the pronouns, but I dont care, THEY are GOD and deserve such reverence!
A big yes on the modesty! I try to be very mindful of this. Amen.We must be modest in our speech also. Especially when we are in mixed sex company. Serious subjects tend to become jokes with immature people. Some topics should be avoided altogether in groups.
About a month ago i've been celebrating the 10th anniversary of the wedding. I decided to invite my wife to our favorite restaurant in Kraków (about 70km away from our home) and re-propose to her with another ring. And guess what! We are in the half of our journey to Kraków and I suddenly realized I left the ring at home! I had no other choice but turn back and do extra 60km both directions to get the ring. Luckily my wife thought it was really funny and I am silly. I'm convinced that's why she loves me ;)
this is so wholesome! 😭
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts.
It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...).
Tattoos
Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc...
IT IS A SIN.
Jewellery is a sin, do you know that?
@@TedEhioghae could you support that claim with some verse from the Bible, that wearing a wedding ring is a sin?
I really think alot of men who include their wives in ministry Very helpful .She is a real blessing to you Joe .You are so fortunate to have such a supportive wife So blessed .
The best thing I ever done was give my life to Christ, I'm devoted to follow Jesus Christ with my entire being, He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less.
John 3:30 ✊🏾🤍🕊️
Ok...
Only .... That there is no need for christ to become greater CHRIST IS PERFECT
also.. You are using John 3:30 incorrectly , THAT'S NOT WHAT IT MEANS.
Have you read the entire chapter, do you understand what john was saying and why ?
you have completely changed the context of John 3:30 and you have done so to suit your own needs
Christians do this a lot, they literally take passages from the bible, TAKING SNIPPETS OUT OF CONTEXT
you gave your life to christ..........GREAT, good for you
You are happy............. GREAT.. good for you
andyou love jesus... GREAT.. good for you
but you can't end the comment by taking a quote of john's completely out of context.
OK
THINK ABOUT IT
READ YOUR BIBLE AGAIN
READ THE ENTIRE CHAPTER
UNDERSTAND WHAT IT MEANS AND WHAT JOHN MEANT TO SAY
AND UNDERSTAND WHY IT DOESN'T APPLY IN THIS SITUATION
@@martinkuliza God bless you ✊🏾🤍✝️no need to get upset have a great day.
Jesus Christ has already been exalted and gloried.
@@margaretdiji6723 I'll carry my cross the way he told me too, showing others what he represents Matthew 5:13-16 I choose to give him glory through my lifestyle because he told me so and because I want to bring honor to the one who saved me. If you don't feel the same cool, but don't put me in the mix🤍✝️ one love
Joe I think you should invite your wife to make more videos with you she looks very wise
She is so precious! I can see the Holy Spirit in her behavior and her sincerity. God bless you both!
You have a beautiful wife and what a beautiful message where 2 people who are married, to be talking together about God.
God Bless you both! ❤️
This was such a great message! I have a teenage daughter who is by nature very modest. It’s sad to see some of the girls she’s know her whole life dress like an adult woman going to a club.
I LOVE this video! Thank you! Too often, the focus is only on the woman. I love that our identity is in Christ.
That's why I usually wear T-shirts and jeans. For a female like me in The U.S. it is year round modesty.
WE are saved by grace through faith
Thank you for this video.
I'm 16 and Christian.
I very much needed it.
So well explained. I don't think I've ever heard someone say what is precious is covered. It's usually spoken of with more of a religious tone. Which even I've been guilty of. I appreciate this message; thank you.
I still use my engagement ring as a wedding ring. He used his whole check! My birthstone as the piece. I was the only woman he had ever loved. I still am a decade later, and while it’s not always easy, it’s worth it.
People still find me bizarre for not having my ears pierced. I’ve had women point it out at doctors visits. I never considered myself modest but maybe I am.
Thank you both for this video. Congratulations to the love you both are constantly growing.
Joes story about his proposal reminds me of how we are sometimes. Sometimes, God has something great planned for us. He has a reward, but it is waiting on the other side of a struggle, anger, uncertainty or a conflict. Sometimes, we just don’t listen to God, because we have strife. But once we do as he asks, follow His path and climb that mountain, conquer that giant, we find true pleasure in Jesus. Nothing worth having comes easily.
It was really a good topic. And I loved the fact that you touched both on the women and the men. Because most of the time when we talk of dress code for a christian, only a woman's dressing comes into discussion. May God bless you for the wonderful work both of you are doing. It was my first time on the channel, but I enjoyed every minute of it.
I agree men these days have clothing so tight it's almost painted on! I have started to see a trend emerge for more relaxed items and I think it's good for all of us to (men and women) be more thoughtful of what we wear and why.
This channel has helped me a lot in getting to know more about what the Lord wants for us and not just from us
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts.
It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...).
Tattoos
Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc...
IT IS A SIN.
It’s really hard when you ate the one dressing modest and while you are out with your spouse they ate checking out every woman that passes in short dress , tight pants, low cut shirts .
They just can’t help themselves as they have done it for so many years . It’s very sad . Christ should be our focus but this world has a stronghold over many .
That is sad. And, not very respectful of you.
@@cynthiasnyder1561 I think you misread her post.
Yes mine checks out other ladies as well yet neglects me
Everyone has been brain-washed by the telli-box to tolerate immodesty. It's popular to know the double-speak for sexual innuendos, and if we don't laugh along we make the others uncomfortable around us. I love that both of you did this video together, because it's a he & she issue, it's not the man preaching down to the woman, or vise-versa, it's us helping us in Christ.
"you're about as ripped as a McDonald's french fry" 🤣 I relate to this soooo much. I am getting married in three weeks. I love seeing videos with you and your wife!
congrats to the newlyweds!!💗
Lucky you that you're getting married. I fear God will make me die alone
Where is he ripped like a French fry? I needed this chuckle cause somebody done lied to this man. 😂
It is a sin for women to wear trousers/pants and shorts and it is a sin for men to wear dresses/gowns and skirts.
It is a sin to use makeup, jewellery, piercings, fake hair, dyed hair, change the hair type (curly, straight, etc...).
Tattoos
Show body (armpits, vagina shaped, buttocks shapes), etc...
IT IS A SIN.
@David💫 Why thank you! I have just seen this, my bride is a wonderful lady, and the wedding was splendid. God bless :)
I am from Jamaica and I just became a Christian just 2 months ago, so I am a baby christ and your channel has been very helpful in my walk with Jesus. one question though, I am very shy and a bit awkward, what is the best way to spread the gospel and win souls for Jesus?
IMO, quoting the perfect passage from the bible in UA-cam comments 😇
Spread the Gospel in the Internet....🙏
My advice would be, in your personal life anyway: to let everyone know about your faith in JESUS CHRIST, and then live your life by example. When people see you’re at peace, filled with love, and live righteously, GOD willing, they will want to follow HIM also. Let them come to you when they’re ready instead of preaching to them or judging them. I pray GOD continues to bless you, in the mighty name of JESUS CHRIST!!! Praise HIM for bringing you back home with us!!!
@@S.D.M022 what if you are the only christian in your family and you are trying to follow christ but all around you, is unrightousness?
Hi brother. Best way I spread the word, by living it. Living that I get it won't daily and then say I'm sorr and mean it. Living others with the love God have me, loving those around me, even those who wrong me. Be the light Jesus was and is for us. You won't even have to preach his name, because his actions through you will scream. Until next time my brother x
I always feel blessed after watching your videos
Me to lade
I love that you both love the Lord. So sweet at the end, ‘are you going to give them to me?’ Funny. I’ve done things like that, kind of being sheepish, and my wife calls me a dork then gives me a big hug and kiss. God bless you Joe and you too Emma.
Sometimes its because of idolatry
We idolize our beauty over God even in the church...we wear things that distract ourselves that we forget what we went to church for; to serve one another through the spirit of the Lord ❤️
I hope you understand
I appreciate what you are saying. I never dressed immodestly until I gained weight and it seemed to wreck my confidence. So I started wanting to feel the current trend of 'bodyconfidence' and wearing what accented my curves especially on date nights or time out with friends. I needed the compliments and it changed my spirit, honestly. Not only that, but I would be insecure the whole time!! What a relief to refocus on pleasing Christ and my husband, and it doesn't mean I've got it all sorted - but I'm a work in progress going in the right direction.
Such an interesting topic, thank you Joe and Emma. I remember having a conversation with a friend, who would wear quite tight and low cut clothes and heels to Church. She snapped at me that she can wear what she wants to Church. This video is enlightening. Thank you.
You were being a good friend to attempt to talk to her. Prayers that the Holy Spirit will convict her.
Thank you Joe and Emma! So well said!! In this day and age I find it terribly hard to find clothes that are becoming while not being immodest in their cut and design!
God Bless you! You're so faithful in God.
I think with being modest … it’s still okay to like fashion though. I’ve been trying to do it with layers. Especially for the fall weather. Cute sweaters and nice boots lol
@Alvin Ochola lol well..most clothing I see today that are more fashionable are the ones that are sexually appealing. Or if you have certain curves that stand out… even a modest outfit might look promiscuous. So I think layers look good lol or maybe I just don’t know how to dress lol
@@jessicamiller746 I like the trend of scarves and sweaters, and I still love clothing I just avoid certain garments but it isn't because of men looking at me it is because of the way I looked at myself and felt about myself. I think we are like-minded.
@@jessicamiller746 + yes there is definitely a "fun" or even costumey aspect to clothing - that's what I like about clothing.
I naturally believe in modesty.
There is elegant modesty. Modesty is beautiful. It is honoring to God to dress in a holy, separated, and beautiful manner.
@@TooTallTurtle87 yeah men always say that but yet you looking right at the same man that says that how he drools over the woman who's wearing skimpy skirts and skimpy shirts
Instead of trying to not look, make yourself immune, even when you look. Fight the disease, not the symptom. Don't deal with problems, get yourself in a place where problems are minimal while respecting the definition of problem
absolutely..and is the way
This sounds sensible
But not sure how someone
Actually does it ?
2:46 Moral of the story
4:18 Bible verses about modesty
5:30 Modesty for men as well...
5:52 Women struggle with lust as well...
11:55 I feel convicted...
Very authentic and sympathetic couple😍😍
As a Christian women I would love to see more videos about your life as a godly married couple.. what kind of struggles u may or not face and how u include God in ur everyday life/routine…
Greetings from Germany :)
Amen! I wish more of the Modern Women and Men will realize that their body is the temple of the Lord and cover-up themselves smh! God help us all
Yeah, for example its sad to see so many women ”twerking” and wearing so light clothes.. Just because they want attention..
They are like sexualizing themselves and sexually provocating, manipulating guys with lustful thoughts.
Seeing you both together talking about Jesus has made my day. Thank you both!
Yes! Conviction of sin is huge in Church! In the body...we need to honour others...Love your neighbour as yourself...
Hallelujah Amen 🙏🏼
This is a beautiful ministry! Thank you to you both!
May the Lord bless you both, more, than you think you already are! Amen 🙏🏼