Wake Up! You're Literally Being Deceived Against God's Design For Marriage

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  • @offthekirb
    @offthekirb  2 роки тому +415

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    • @wishyy8049
      @wishyy8049 2 роки тому +11

      Love yo videos God bless you!!❤️❤️

    • @markbernaldez544
      @markbernaldez544 2 роки тому +7

      First joe❤️

    • @Jerry-Parker
      @Jerry-Parker 2 роки тому +10

      I have been subscribed to your channel for about a year or so , I really enjoy and look forward to your message every week . Thank you very much !
      May the Lord thy God bless you and your family .

    • @trinitywright7122
      @trinitywright7122 2 роки тому +5

      Amazing

    • @jttoering9084
      @jttoering9084 2 роки тому +7

      Thank You. It's difficult and it hurts to accept that God could forgive us and still love us sometimes. That is the stubbornness in the lady you spoke of.
      God Bless you Friend

  • @lionoffireministries
    @lionoffireministries 2 роки тому +623

    Lust = what can we GET from someone.
    Love = what can we GIVE to someone.

    • @StellaRaeVon
      @StellaRaeVon 2 роки тому +12

      Amen!

    • @toriemaesmith
      @toriemaesmith 2 роки тому +10

      AMEN

    • @quinnswafford5628
      @quinnswafford5628 2 роки тому +9

      I love that

    • @trevoromalley9226
      @trevoromalley9226 2 роки тому +9

      I agree Love says patience, I can wait , Lust says I want it now from selfishness, it's more about me than u. Not forgetting were we all came from b4 we came to faith we too are Sinners. God Bless

    • @darikmenmalngiang393
      @darikmenmalngiang393 2 роки тому +2

      Amen.

  • @jacegallagher8589
    @jacegallagher8589 2 роки тому +535

    I refuse to lose my virginity until I am married. It is so hard to find the right woman in this world, but I believe I will find a woman someday who honors God above all and who will hold me accountable as I hope to hold her accountable to God.

    • @khaidemsandip4151
      @khaidemsandip4151 2 роки тому +38

      I have dedicated my whole career to Jesus Christ. He changed my life and my career. The day I confessed my faith in Jesus Christ, after 3 months I have started a new journey in my career and that was in 2017. Now, I am working as a software developer and I have been reading the Bible since 2017 every day and by faith in his word, he gave me the best thing.
      In the same way, I know he will give me the right godly woman.
      My relationship with the opposite gender is so good since Jesus Christ came into my life.

    • @shirleyg9225
      @shirleyg9225 2 роки тому +43

      My daughter is 32 and will be married this summer- honoring God - she has remained and will remain celibate until her wedding night. She is a professional and has had many conversations with me how she is always amazed how many co workers, friends are concerned about her celibacy- she tells them I don’t ask you, don’t ask me. I am so happy she has remained faithful to God since she has been very young.

    • @coryw3823
      @coryw3823 2 роки тому +10

      Wise young man

    • @lavenderflowers1075
      @lavenderflowers1075 2 роки тому +15

      I am here. A single woman who is also waiting for her man from God.

    • @Xelec_
      @Xelec_ 2 роки тому +9

      Same

  • @60sGirl123
    @60sGirl123 2 роки тому +291

    I know people in their late 80’s. They met in high school and married as virgins and stayed faithful their whole lives. I pray those days return.

    • @bryguy8203
      @bryguy8203 2 роки тому +21

      And when the pastor said "You may kiss the bride" it was their first.

    • @freddhernanadez2230
      @freddhernanadez2230 2 роки тому +8

      Glory to God!!!

    • @YeshuaKingofkings
      @YeshuaKingofkings 2 роки тому +2

      Amen 🙏

    • @davinawonderling9361
      @davinawonderling9361 2 роки тому +7

      @Tblazer I sure hear you! It seems like the good ones are so few and already spoken for! Even though things aren't fair in this world, it's great to know that GOD is good all the time! Keep on keeping on for HIM ❤️

    • @tamuman93
      @tamuman93 2 роки тому +2

      @Tblazer - You are right brother.

  • @GrahamCommander
    @GrahamCommander 2 роки тому +126

    As a married man of nearly 40 years, who allowed porn to not only enter into our marriage but it also blinded me so much I willfully ignored the marriage vows for far too many years. Until I admitted I was a sinner and prayed for forgiveness. Praise the Lord He did and also Freed me from that vile addiction

    • @annmariehuggins-hikel8057
      @annmariehuggins-hikel8057 2 роки тому

      Yes thank you very much ........we all have to seek forgiveness for all these sins we committed freely without realizing the serious consequences as it also is followed by your children and you feel a sense of being a bad parent.

    • @jasminelaceyfitz1724
      @jasminelaceyfitz1724 Рік тому

      Atleast it was porn not with someone else your be forgiven don't worry xx

    • @GrahamCommander
      @GrahamCommander Рік тому +1

      @@jasminelaceyfitz1724 It still counts as a Sin, which I need forgiveness for
      "You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.’
      But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart"

    • @jasminelaceyfitz1724
      @jasminelaceyfitz1724 Рік тому

      @@GrahamCommander yeah but you could have acted you didn't act on it so your be forgiven xxx

    • @clayowens4176
      @clayowens4176 Рік тому

      @@jasminelaceyfitz1724 jesus made it clear that if u look with lust then u have already committed adultary... thinking about it is no less of a sin then physically doing it

  • @darikmenmalngiang393
    @darikmenmalngiang393 2 роки тому +51

    “Jesus Christ can restore your dignity”, amen and amen. 🙏

  • @teresamartin4735
    @teresamartin4735 2 роки тому +457

    I was so guilty of sexual sin before I became a Christian. Even after I became born-again, I slipped back into this sin numerous times. In my last relationship my heart was weighing heavy for about a few months. I knew I needed to end the relationship because of the guilt I was feeling. I believe it was the Holy Spirit talking to me. I ended the relationship. I repented to God The Father through my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ for not only His forgiveness; but also asked Him to unyoke me from those men. I vowed to never have sex unless I was married. Since I never want to marry again, I live a celebrate life. I've been celebate for several years having turned away from that sin.
    I feel Christ's forgiveness. My heart no longer feels heavy with that burden. I feel "clean" and don't feel that shame. I feel light. I don't look at filthy pictures. I can admire men for their handsomeness without feeling any dirty thoughts. I don't have a mind filled with sexual fantasies. It truly is liberating.
    I wish all who have sexual sin in their history and haven't repented would come to repentness because God says fornicators will not see the kingdom of God. That is pretty much most of our society. I've watched other Christian videos that talk about the severity of sexual sin. God truly does not take this lightly. It is the joining of two spirits. That supported my action I had already taken to be unyolked from those people. Repent and ask to be UNYOKED.

    • @davidwarnock5803
      @davidwarnock5803 2 роки тому +27

      Your spoken truth can set you free. May you have victory in all you do, in Jesus name!

    • @janleslie7163
      @janleslie7163 2 роки тому +24

      It's wonderful to feel clean and fresh God bless us all

    • @onerisbarett4020
      @onerisbarett4020 2 роки тому +17

      Thank you for sharing! 🥰👍🏽

    • @LizEsc
      @LizEsc 2 роки тому +9

      Amen

    • @LizEsc
      @LizEsc 2 роки тому +27

      @Trinity M you can try to rationalize sin and you can try to ignore God, but soon you can't outrun truth. You are a free agent, you can choose to be rebellious. People can choose right or wrong. There is always a choice. You choose what is easy and pleasing to your own ears.

  • @lionoffireministries
    @lionoffireministries 2 роки тому +365

    Amen. When men see a woman as a precious daughter of the Most High, they won’t degrade her in their minds.
    May we have the mind of Christ 🙏✝️

  • @Dtgn
    @Dtgn 2 роки тому +58

    I'm 19 years old I'm still a virgin till this day......I'm happy I'm willing to wait for god to send someone into my life....god bless everybody....

  • @doughaynes1048
    @doughaynes1048 2 роки тому +216

    It is dangerous to mistreat people who trust God .

  • @acolley2891
    @acolley2891 2 роки тому +19

    This made me cry. Every single thing he said is true young people!. Sexual sins leave forever scars. Jesus changes you completely but your memory still works. The devil condemns you for your filthy past, but he is a liar. If Jesus has saved you, you are saved

  • @biblequestionswithchristop8971
    @biblequestionswithchristop8971 2 роки тому +254

    In Christ we are no longer SLAVES to SIN (Inc. Sexual Sin), but that doesn’t mean we don’t STILL STRUGGLE. God deliver us from TEMPTATION and THANK you for your forgiveness. -Great Reminder and use of this Bible story Joe!

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  2 роки тому +25

      I really appreciate that you watch the whole video before commenting Christopher, thank you brother! And to anyone else reading this go check out Chris's channel too!

    • @biblequestionswithchristop8971
      @biblequestionswithchristop8971 2 роки тому +10

      @@offthekirb Hey Brother Joe. It’s my pleasure. You do such a good job of making your videos interesting. Thanks for the encouragement and Have a great weekend!

    • @Proverbspsalms
      @Proverbspsalms 2 роки тому +4

      When Got saved and delivered me, there was absolutely no struggle. I stopped that day, and had no desire to fornicate. The devil sent a person I dealt with till
      The day I got saved 3 hours away to try. Never happened

    • @corky269
      @corky269 2 роки тому

      But the Bible condones slavery...

    • @1Pet-210
      @1Pet-210 2 роки тому

      @@offthekirb
      The LORD be praised forever
      May the purpose of Calvary be accomplished in more lives through your videos
      Error@7:43
      Pro.33:32-33 should be Pro.6:32-33
      Blessings aplenty

  • @beingmarilyngail8470
    @beingmarilyngail8470 2 роки тому +82

    I decided years ago to remain single. That even having a boyfriend would be a distraction for me and my walk with the Lord. I'm telling you that God has kept me from sexual sin through prayer and trusting in Him. I refuse to allow the lust for a person to keep me from having an eternity with my Savior.

    • @freddhernanadez2230
      @freddhernanadez2230 2 роки тому +6

      AMEN! God bless and protect you sister.

    • @beingmarilyngail8470
      @beingmarilyngail8470 2 роки тому +5

      @@freddhernanadez2230 Thank you. May God bless you as well.

    • @beingmarilyngail8470
      @beingmarilyngail8470 2 роки тому +4

      @@kinglistosas5010 It is not worth it to have a few minutes of sexual pleasure and spend eternity separated from the Lord my friend.

    • @beingmarilyngail8470
      @beingmarilyngail8470 2 роки тому

      @@kinglistosas5010 Yes, to be honest I can't process eternity. Thank you for your comments. Have a blessed weekend.

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 2 роки тому +2

      Lust just is not love.

  • @ashleyallen7138
    @ashleyallen7138 2 роки тому +155

    My sexual promiscuity as an adolescent has continued to haunt me. I’m 44 now. I know I lost myself and purity that I wish I could have shared only with my husband. I’ve felt dirty and ashamed most of my life. You can never go back and change your past but I am praying Jesus will wash me clean.

    • @Swagu33
      @Swagu33 2 роки тому +15

      He will! Praying for you Ashley 🙂

    • @ericking3459
      @ericking3459 2 роки тому +11

      Yes God will forgives when you pray and meanwhile forgive yourself

    • @matheusferreira5203
      @matheusferreira5203 2 роки тому +14

      Hi Ashley. I hope God washes you in the Lamb's Blood. Meditate on this passage, it healed me , because i too feel very ashamed of my impurity and my unbelief. But here is something that heals me and that comforts my soul. "On hearing this, Jesus said, "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick.
      But go and learn what this means: `I desire mercy, not sacrifice.' [1] For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners." You have already diagnosed your disease , you just need to come to him: “Everyone whom my Father has given me shall come to me, and whoever will come to me I shall not cast out.”.

    • @al-yahnaihawkins4060
      @al-yahnaihawkins4060 2 роки тому +1

      @@ericking3459 ... Ah! Forgiving "yourself" IS Easy! ... Have ya Come to Learn HOW TO Forgive! ... Satan & all her minions yet? ... "I" Love "you" & All else who Reads This & will be Praying for ya'All Henceforth!
      Peace~

    • @Vashthestampedeo
      @Vashthestampedeo 2 роки тому +6

      The Holy Ghost pours out his Spirit and brings the increase in the name of Jesus. The latter rain proceeds the second coming and it is what waters the seed. Without the Spirit of God no one is saved. Believe in your idea of Jesus till the end of time, it does little good. You need to accept his ambassador and representative. So when the Holy Spirit shows himself and is rejected that is the unpardonable sin. To grieve the Spirit of God is to reject life.
      The exalted witness of Jesus Christ (King David) is reporting for duty.
      He was a man whose tongue held no lies,
      For he was the direct descendant of our father in the heavenly skies.
      Born to a body of fleshy sin,
      Though what laid beneath was unlike the rest of his kin.
      Jesus had the utmost grace,
      Never being wavered by evils face.
      He was wise beyond any years,
      Performing miracles that would bring crowds to tears.
      A beacon of light on top of a starless mountain,
      Where words of wisdom poured out of him as if there ran a cosmic fountain.
      His eyes pierced through you with a single glance,
      Leaving even the most hardened individuals in quite the trance.
      The Holy Spirit so ever majestically flowed inside this man,
      Naturally people caught notice and became a fan.
      Students began showing up from every mold,
      When they heard his words their hearts were sold.
      Wicked men put a price on Jesus's head,
      He was wanted alive or dead.
      Despite this he and his disciples continued their teachings,
      Where on occasion they endured terrible beatings.
      One of the twelve apostles turned to black,
      No longer having Jesus's back.
      Judas Iscariot had done Satan's bidding,
      And it is in hell where he now is sitting.
      Jesus died on the cross to pay for our shortcoming,
      However don't be saddened for if you believe in him you will see him at your homecoming.
      There he sits at the right hand of God's throne,
      Being the voice of truth and love that we all have known.
      Satan's tongue is coated in a layer of deceit,
      And he tramples over promises with his feet.
      He's a being who is bound by deceptions,
      Whose very essence oozes with misconceptions.
      He struggles to look you in your eyes,
      For his gaze holds nothing but lies.
      On occasion he will give you his hand,
      But don't be fooled by his stand.
      He seeks to corrupt your heart,
      You would be wise to avoid him from the start.
      Seeking quick pleasures and casting aside love,
      He traverses this land with push and shove.
      Now Lucifer was once not lost,
      But pride blinded him at a cost.
      Disobeying God he waged war,
      Becoming detestable to the core.
      Today he is the ruler of Earth,
      Though for all his power he has no real worth.
      However most of us have still been sold,
      Giving into sin and becoming cold.
      Nearly everyone is a puppet dancing on strings,
      Marching to delusion for their unjust kings.
      My people have given into lust,
      Becoming robots full of rust.
      However you my child are the exception,
      So when you meet me don't forget to mention.
      That you alone have been granted the key,
      And before your glory they shall all bend a knee.
      P.S.- Not too long ago I was very bitter and destructive. Literally I was covered in blood from head to toe and ripping off nails and things of that nature. In my mind Jesus was against me, he had a vendetta against me which I couldn't account for. Then slowly but surely I started having these revelations, and began delving into the word of God. It seemed like my agony was not in vain. The things which held me back eventually began to propel me forward. The darkness began fading away and an unspeakably bright light was surfacing. Jesus told me that he had to break me in order for me to rediscover who I really was. Sort of like a phoenix rising from the ashes. Today I am almost fully healed in every conceivable way, and things like being a virgin and being covered in scars I strangely enough take much pride in. I took up my cross and followed Christ and in doing so I discovered the greatest love of all.

  • @violetadonis3246
    @violetadonis3246 2 роки тому +80

    Thank you Joe for this message! I am nearly 50 years old and have not slept with anyone. May the Lord bless you for this message, it encouraged my heart to keep waiting on the Lord!

    • @SoulOfTruth
      @SoulOfTruth 2 роки тому +11

      God has someone there for u

    • @desireea.thomas2419
      @desireea.thomas2419 2 роки тому +4

      Good for you, sister Violet 🥳🎉👏🏼🥳🎉👏🏼🥳🎉👏🏼🥳🎉👏🏼 No Man, is worth losing what the Lord Gave you. I should know. I wished I could go back and change my decision in what I did wrong back in my days, but THANK YOU HEAVENLY FATHER for Forgiving me of my weak flesh. Stand strong my dear. You are a Daughter of the 👑 KING 👑

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 2 роки тому +2

      It's never too late Violet.

    • @Anna-B777
      @Anna-B777 6 місяців тому +2

      61 years old and celibate all my life. I do not feel lonely, I love the Lord Jesus and focus on my eternity in Heaven, which gives me strength every day. God bless you all.

  • @davidwarnock5803
    @davidwarnock5803 2 роки тому +154

    For the believer, the Bible says: Greater is he who lives within me than he who is in this world. Thank you Jesus for being with me!

    • @paulallen7962
      @paulallen7962 2 роки тому +1

      What convinces you that the Bible is God's word and not just another mythology?

    • @davidwarnock5803
      @davidwarnock5803 2 роки тому +3

      It's just faith for it also says we cannot please God without it. I just choose to believe

    • @davidnewhart2533
      @davidnewhart2533 2 роки тому +3

      @@paulallen7962
      Because everything in it has been proven to be true!!!
      The prophecies in it are lining up in the world today!

    • @kezia7229
      @kezia7229 2 роки тому +1

      @@paulallen7962 lets read it and find out 💕

    • @youknowitstrue3826
      @youknowitstrue3826 2 роки тому

      @@davidwarnock5803 First in what? God didn't compile and canonize any Christian canon. God didn't tell you to worship a human being alongside Him as His co-equal. God didn't tell you to worship any satanic triad-idol.

  • @sdjnjferri
    @sdjnjferri 2 роки тому +28

    One of the best sermons i heard when i was a teenager was called, 'Amnon had a friend'. All about the friends we make and how they can shape our lives.

    • @jessicawade8091
      @jessicawade8091 2 роки тому +3

      I was just praying for my son to be surrounded by the right friends right before I saw your comment. He is 21 and their hearts are becoming hardened so so early these days.

    • @sdjnjferri
      @sdjnjferri 2 роки тому

      @@jessicawade8091 keep talking to him. Know what’s going on in his life. Ask him about his friends. Asking him questions, like “What are some god decisions you made today?” Or “Did you do anything today that you regret?” And “How will you do it differently tomorrow?” Where is your son’s dad with all this stuff?

  • @Exnihilo5691
    @Exnihilo5691 2 роки тому +168

    One of the best explanations of sexual sin and its consequences I’ve ever heard! This video should be shown to everyone in church fellowship; especially our teens!

  • @servantofGod4003
    @servantofGod4003 2 роки тому +11

    For nine years. I have been living alone. My family and Friends are long gone, there have been time where the loneliness has been to much to bare. And when I was feeling my worst, for some reason I remembered that I have an old Bible here. So I started to read it then I came across a few of your video's, and the lion of Judah video's. And started to understand what I had been reading even more, and I now know that this book holds nothing but truth. I have got rid of all my self help books, I have got rid of all my witch craft books and any thing to do with the magic. It has all been thrown in the rubbish.
    The only reason I had to loose my family and friends. Was because God knew that with them in my life I would never hear his word.
    I know I still have a lot learn but I am so grateful to the Lord for taking everything thing I loved away so that when he does restore them to me, I will tell them what I've learnt so they will also know the truth.

  • @abigailccc
    @abigailccc 2 роки тому +209

    Loved this message Joe. So many people out there feel too much shame after sexual sin to turn to God and this gives alot of hope for them.

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  2 роки тому +21

      Amen!

    • @Vashthestampedeo
      @Vashthestampedeo 2 роки тому +8

      The Holy Ghost pours out his Spirit and brings the increase in the name of Jesus. The latter rain proceeds the second coming and it is what waters the seed. Without the Spirit of God no one is saved. Believe in your idea of Jesus till the end of time, it does little good. You need to accept his ambassador and representative. So when the Holy Spirit shows himself and is rejected that is the unpardonable sin. To grieve the Spirit of God is to reject life.
      The exalted witness of Jesus Christ (King David) is reporting for duty.
      He was a man whose tongue held no lies,
      For he was the direct descendant of our father in the heavenly skies.
      Born to a body of fleshy sin,
      Though what laid beneath was unlike the rest of his kin.
      Jesus had the utmost grace,
      Never being wavered by evils face.
      He was wise beyond any years,
      Performing miracles that would bring crowds to tears.
      A beacon of light on top of a starless mountain,
      Where words of wisdom poured out of him as if there ran a cosmic fountain.
      His eyes pierced through you with a single glance,
      Leaving even the most hardened individuals in quite the trance.
      The Holy Spirit so ever majestically flowed inside this man,
      Naturally people caught notice and became a fan.
      Students began showing up from every mold,
      When they heard his words their hearts were sold.
      Wicked men put a price on Jesus's head,
      He was wanted alive or dead.
      Despite this he and his disciples continued their teachings,
      Where on occasion they endured terrible beatings.
      One of the twelve apostles turned to black,
      No longer having Jesus's back.
      Judas Iscariot had done Satan's bidding,
      And it is in hell where he now is sitting.
      Jesus died on the cross to pay for our shortcoming,
      However don't be saddened for if you believe in him you will see him at your homecoming.
      There he sits at the right hand of God's throne,
      Being the voice of truth and love that we all have known.
      Satan's tongue is coated in a layer of deceit,
      And he tramples over promises with his feet.
      He's a being who is bound by deceptions,
      Whose very essence oozes with misconceptions.
      He struggles to look you in your eyes,
      For his gaze holds nothing but lies.
      On occasion he will give you his hand,
      But don't be fooled by his stand.
      He seeks to corrupt your heart,
      You would be wise to avoid him from the start.
      Seeking quick pleasures and casting aside love,
      He traverses this land with push and shove.
      Now Lucifer was once not lost,
      But pride blinded him at a cost.
      Disobeying God he waged war,
      Becoming detestable to the core.
      Today he is the ruler of Earth,
      Though for all his power he has no real worth.
      However most of us have still been sold,
      Giving into sin and becoming cold.
      Nearly everyone is a puppet dancing on strings,
      Marching to delusion for their unjust kings.
      My people have given into lust,
      Becoming robots full of rust.
      However you my child are the exception,
      So when you meet me don't forget to mention.
      That you alone have been granted the key,
      And before your glory they shall all bend a knee.
      P.S.- Not too long ago I was very bitter and destructive. Literally I was covered in blood from head to toe and ripping off nails and things of that nature. In my mind Jesus was against me, he had a vendetta against me which I couldn't account for. Then slowly but surely I started having these revelations, and began delving into the word of God. It seemed like my agony was not in vain. The things which held me back eventually began to propel me forward. The darkness began fading away and an unspeakably bright light was surfacing. Jesus told me that he had to break me in order for me to rediscover who I really was. Sort of like a phoenix rising from the ashes. Today I am almost fully healed in every conceivable way, and things like being a virgin and being covered in scars I strangely enough take much pride in. I took up my cross and followed Christ and in doing so I discovered the greatest love of all.

    • @freddhernanadez2230
      @freddhernanadez2230 2 роки тому

      Amen! Hallelujah to Jesus Christ

    • @yashrajjohn5587
      @yashrajjohn5587 2 роки тому +1

      @taras gubarik God bless you brother

    • @okeydokey9693
      @okeydokey9693 2 роки тому +1

      @@Vashthestampedeo Amen and Amen

  • @walterf6993
    @walterf6993 2 роки тому +53

    Those are some beautiful words. "Jesus can restore your dignity". I still feel the shame of my sins in my memory, even after believing in Jesus and accepting His salvation and death in my place for my sins. Thank God, the shame doesn't last as long or present as strong as before. I often remember when I was young and in my youth there was a certain innocence and virtue. But I lost it all by living a sinful and depraved life. Then one day I knew I had lost my innocence and any virtue I seemed to possess. So God came and picked me up out of the mire and filth my life had become and washed me in the blood of His own Son Jesus. And now God looks at me and sees the redemptive work of His Son in me. And so I know that it's Jesus' innocence and virtue and holiness that I can stand before God in, and that's what keeps me going.

  • @MM-lw8wl
    @MM-lw8wl 2 роки тому +128

    We all need to hear this message, I'm guilty of these things. Our nations are falling into this sin. Please repent , our Lord Jesus Christ 🙏 can get you free of this. Great message Joe!

  • @rickyhemmle6183
    @rickyhemmle6183 2 роки тому +37

    This sin will stay with you even after forgiveness. It is a scar that seems never to leave. Thank you for youe ministry.

  • @FeeLeap
    @FeeLeap 2 роки тому +51

    We are once like Ammon who desire sin but when the true Son of God came… He teaches us to learn how to become pure and kill our sin.
    If you are reading this.. it means God really loves you.

    • @diananievesavellanet
      @diananievesavellanet 2 роки тому +2

      Just so you can be clear. Joe mispronounced this man's name. It's not Ammon but, Amnon.🤗

    • @freddhernanadez2230
      @freddhernanadez2230 2 роки тому +1

      God bless you my brother in Christ. Jesus IS Lord!!!

    • @FeeLeap
      @FeeLeap 2 роки тому

      @@diananievesavellanet yes. 🙂

    • @FeeLeap
      @FeeLeap 2 роки тому +1

      @@freddhernanadez2230 God bless you too brother.

  • @r0meoh0t3l6
    @r0meoh0t3l6 2 роки тому +16

    I’ve failed the lord tons of times, but he’s never gave up on me. I know that for a fact!

  • @sarahandrews5611
    @sarahandrews5611 2 роки тому +4

    You are so right. When I was young I had my heart broken and I died a spiritual death but I didn't realise that at the time but I felt dead inside when I became a Christian I felt forgiven and clean again. My message to young girls was you have a special gift don't give it away to anyone no matter what the boys or men say to yo u. I love the scripture 'Therefore if anyone is in Christ Jesus they are a new creation the old has gone the new has come ' . Praise God His mercy is great.

  • @newytacc9447
    @newytacc9447 2 роки тому +24

    Dear Brother, as I sit here composing this comment my heart is absolutely BREAKING ! My wife, and the mother of our 4 wonderful Sons after 29 years of marriage seems to now have a hardened heart towards me and her love has faded. We've been together for 32 years, and they've been full of ups and downs like many couples have. There has been no infidelity or abuse of any kind, we even survived her breast cancer back in 2012, and I, with no regrets LOVED her through it ! She was an absolute inspiration, and I thank the LORD she has been in remission ever since. I'm trying so hard to hold on and LOVE her as CHRIST has commanded me to do ! I need ALL the PRAYERS I can get, FROM EVERYONE ! Please PRAY for our Marriage and give any GODLY advice you can think of. BLESSINGS Brother Joe ! 🙏✝️🙏

    • @newytacc9447
      @newytacc9447 2 роки тому

      @@lisasweat4999 AMEN, you are so right ! 🙏✝️🙏

    • @pineconemarty
      @pineconemarty 2 роки тому

      Please, get on your knees and ask God to help you with this. God delivers miracles and he can heal your hearts.

    • @greaterfuture8734
      @greaterfuture8734 2 роки тому +1

      I pray you and your spouse will bring glory onto the eyes of God & let Agape be filled in your Marriage. Amen

    • @am1995am2
      @am1995am2 Рік тому +1

      I pray your marriage stay strong. May God be with you all the days of your life.🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @newytacc9447
      @newytacc9447 Рік тому +1

      @Ashley Murray Thank you very much, and may the Lord Bless you and your loved ones ! 🙏✝️🙏

  • @lashawnablanton4649
    @lashawnablanton4649 2 роки тому +74

    Thank you! This is true. Sin is like a cancer we have to kill it before it kills us!! I've been manipulated by men and I feel so broken 💔 Lord please bring me a Godly husband. And remove every ungodly soul tie and sin.

    • @adrianobattaglia4060
      @adrianobattaglia4060 2 роки тому +3

      The biggest enemy are we ourselves. God bless you

    • @20greeneyes20
      @20greeneyes20 2 роки тому +6

      It's a shame men don't think like we do.
      We are emotional , men are Physical.
      Not saying all of them but most of them Their desires are Very Strong.....
      Sex seems to drive them, and will do anything to get it. Like he said manipulate us. It's like a game using strategies to get what they want......
      Never Settle. Your equal or better.
      Today many have and hold very little values or morals.
      You hold on to yours. Nobody is worth You looking Bad in God's Eyes No One....
      This is certainly Not the time to Sin for Jesus Christ will Return Very soon According to Bible Scriptures.
      Think Smart Sister 😉 ❤️

    • @Luzviminda777
      @Luzviminda777 2 роки тому +4

      @@20greeneyes20 I drove taxi in my youth , women can be very persistent . God bless all honest people everywhere 🙏

    • @joeruriti8418
      @joeruriti8418 2 роки тому +3

      We stand with you in our prayers that you get through you soul tie and found fearing God husband. Someone who seek God 'first'.

    • @lashawnablanton4649
      @lashawnablanton4649 2 роки тому

      @@20greeneyes20 AMEN, Thank you! And God bless you

  • @livingalifeoftruthministries
    @livingalifeoftruthministries 2 роки тому +4

    It's such a battle in my life. Only Jesus who is the truth knows my truth. Day by day! Glory Glory Hallelujah thank you my precious King.

  • @mitchelllight4085
    @mitchelllight4085 2 роки тому +13

    That is so true, I actually feel emotionally empty. From heartbreak and from hookups trying to fill a void, and among other things being empty. Christ is the only way to fill out cup. Amen

  • @Asgard2208
    @Asgard2208 2 роки тому +30

    I always come away touched by your videos, Joe. You've got a gift, brother!

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  2 роки тому +2

      I'm always touched by your gracious comments Paul! Lord bless you - Joe

  • @roxanajames-hernandez6166
    @roxanajames-hernandez6166 2 роки тому +25

    I love this video. Thank you so much for this. I lived a life of sin. I was raped by my older step cousins when I was in another country before I came to America as a child. Then grew up with an abusive adoptive mother who made me feel as though I was worse than trash in a gutter! When I grew up, I lived various places and had different relationships with different men and even had two gorgeous son out of wedlock. For years, I was looking for love and redemption in people who didn't care anything about me! I attended church and yes, I knew, walked, and talked with GOD! I repented of my sins, gave my life to Jesus when I was in my late 20's. But it wasn't until two years ago, at the age of 41 that I felt GOD'S grace and mercy fall down on me in the middle of church service one Sunday! I felt Jesus' sweet redemption and He changed my identity and gave me back my life. GOD is a merciful and forgiving GOD but He is also a jealous and Zealous GOD for His people! I LOVE GOD THRU JESUS SO MUCH THAT I WANT TO LIVE MY LIFE FOR HIM NOW!!!!

    • @Luzviminda777
      @Luzviminda777 2 роки тому +1

      HalleluYah . I've been a handful , thrived in sin . but I kept myself for 7-8 years now and God has been giving me dreams that came true . May He continue to bless you .

    • @munyamboperez7371
      @munyamboperez7371 2 роки тому

      Amen

    • @rabbittko1421
      @rabbittko1421 2 роки тому +1

      Amen dont let your past conquer you, because you're a changed woman!

  • @aiyana7618
    @aiyana7618 2 роки тому +30

    I had a dream just today, that I married my crush. But then this video showed up. I believe God is speaking to me. I commited a sexual sin yesterday and I am so guilty and ashamed of myself.

    • @lukak882
      @lukak882 2 роки тому +3

      Thats a spiritual husbund in a dream, fast and pray for 40 days, perhaps daniel fast, to be free from antimarriage curse

    • @jasminelaceyfitz1724
      @jasminelaceyfitz1724 Рік тому +1

      God definitely gives signs in Ur dreams

  • @Ryanjoned163
    @Ryanjoned163 2 роки тому +32

    God will make a way for you when there seems to be no way God has gone b4 you and made a way just trust God he is a friend that sticks closer than a brother when everyone else lets you down Jesus is right by your side hallelujah

  • @ryanmumo7948
    @ryanmumo7948 Рік тому +2

    I like the mango illustration we are told at school, that eating an unripe mango isn't quite enjoyable for it is bitter but if you wait so as to get a ripe mango, it will be sweet and juicy. Therefore to all young and unmarried people who read this remember to wait, ask God for patience and strength to stay strong 💪 no matter the situation for we are weak but he is strong. God bless 👍.

  • @CreationForeverMinistries
    @CreationForeverMinistries 2 роки тому +19

    This is excellent preaching here. Sin is poisonous and deadly.

  • @Coldstar86
    @Coldstar86 2 роки тому +16

    Lord forgive me of all of these sins, Lord lead me to your kingdom that I may dwell with you forever and ever I ask in the precious name Jesus Amen! Thank you brother Joe for today's message.

  • @quattron-1126
    @quattron-1126 2 роки тому +9

    You were born for this Joe. You were born for moments like these… I thank Jesus for putting me on your channel. You good hearted man you.

  • @jennyflitter129
    @jennyflitter129 2 роки тому +120

    Hi Joe,I love your ministries.
    May God ,shower you with the Richest Blessing.I look forward to listening to you every week,Joe.♥️💓

  • @dreyb1801
    @dreyb1801 Рік тому +1

    Friends are extremely important to the type of life decisions one makes. Many Christians erroneously think they can continue to relate closely with their old unbelieving friends and keep growing spiritually. It's an error.

  • @Ron-SA
    @Ron-SA 2 роки тому +3

    The world needs more like you Joe Kirby. God bless your ministry. So loving and graceful. In words and action. Grace. So much Grace

  • @andreafleet
    @andreafleet 2 роки тому +19

    I once told a man "that thing u feel for me is not sexual desire its gods love, my soul connects with yours and that attraction u feel has nothing to do with sex and if u remove the sexual desire we could have a true pure friendship a true connection" he looked at me like I was crazy but its true. The spark that two ppl feel when they think they are a match is a true connection but most ppl act on that feeling in the wrong way then its ruined forever. After I found Jesus Christ I had a light within me that certain people were attracted to usually those people didnt believe in Jesus Christ so its hard to explain to them where the attraction comes from. The darkness within them craves my light.

  • @livingyourbestlife711
    @livingyourbestlife711 2 роки тому +19

    You must never apologize (11:30) for preaching the truth! What you preach is true. I have experienced this dishonor as a younger man and am very repentant of this sin. Only through Christ have I also been restored of my dignity. Thank you for sharing! I hope others heed this message and learn from this message.

  • @tinekedijk7385
    @tinekedijk7385 2 роки тому +1

    Yes ,restored my dignity and washed me clean .The most wonderful happening !!

  • @VondaInWonderland
    @VondaInWonderland 2 роки тому +22

    "My dignity", that's what I'm worried is missing. I've been hurt, and lied about in the church, and I have felt stuck for so very long. I've been pure for many years, but have no trust in anyone. God has never left me or forsook me in anyway, ever. My brokeness stems from what I believe to be, "my lack of dignity". Thank you brother ♥

    • @spiroclimb2523
      @spiroclimb2523 2 роки тому +3

      Well good fortune for you, a person's dignity is in Christ not in themselves. Not even (arguably the most productive and obedient Christian who has ever lived, the Apostle Paul ever put any stock in his own worth but all of it in Jesus Christ. I'd say you're exactly where a Christian should be, no need for any bad feelings.

    • @Vashthestampedeo
      @Vashthestampedeo 2 роки тому +1

      The Holy Ghost pours out his Spirit and brings the increase in the name of Jesus. The latter rain proceeds the second coming and it is what waters the seed. Without the Spirit of God no one is saved. Believe in your idea of Jesus till the end of time, it does little good. You need to accept his ambassador and representative. So when the Holy Spirit shows himself and is rejected that is the unpardonable sin. To grieve the Spirit of God is to reject life.
      The exalted witness of Jesus Christ (King David) is reporting for duty.
      He was a man whose tongue held no lies,
      For he was the direct descendant of our father in the heavenly skies.
      Born to a body of fleshy sin,
      Though what laid beneath was unlike the rest of his kin.
      Jesus had the utmost grace,
      Never being wavered by evils face.
      He was wise beyond any years,
      Performing miracles that would bring crowds to tears.
      A beacon of light on top of a starless mountain,
      Where words of wisdom poured out of him as if there ran a cosmic fountain.
      His eyes pierced through you with a single glance,
      Leaving even the most hardened individuals in quite the trance.
      The Holy Spirit so ever majestically flowed inside this man,
      Naturally people caught notice and became a fan.
      Students began showing up from every mold,
      When they heard his words their hearts were sold.
      Wicked men put a price on Jesus's head,
      He was wanted alive or dead.
      Despite this he and his disciples continued their teachings,
      Where on occasion they endured terrible beatings.
      One of the twelve apostles turned to black,
      No longer having Jesus's back.
      Judas Iscariot had done Satan's bidding,
      And it is in hell where he now is sitting.
      Jesus died on the cross to pay for our shortcoming,
      However don't be saddened for if you believe in him you will see him at your homecoming.
      There he sits at the right hand of God's throne,
      Being the voice of truth and love that we all have known.
      Satan's tongue is coated in a layer of deceit,
      And he tramples over promises with his feet.
      He's a being who is bound by deceptions,
      Whose very essence oozes with misconceptions.
      He struggles to look you in your eyes,
      For his gaze holds nothing but lies.
      On occasion he will give you his hand,
      But don't be fooled by his stand.
      He seeks to corrupt your heart,
      You would be wise to avoid him from the start.
      Seeking quick pleasures and casting aside love,
      He traverses this land with push and shove.
      Now Lucifer was once not lost,
      But pride blinded him at a cost.
      Disobeying God he waged war,
      Becoming detestable to the core.
      Today he is the ruler of Earth,
      Though for all his power he has no real worth.
      However most of us have still been sold,
      Giving into sin and becoming cold.
      Nearly everyone is a puppet dancing on strings,
      Marching to delusion for their unjust kings.
      My people have given into lust,
      Becoming robots full of rust.
      However you my child are the exception,
      So when you meet me don't forget to mention.
      That you alone have been granted the key,
      And before your glory they shall all bend a knee.
      P.S.- Not too long ago I was very bitter and destructive. Literally I was covered in blood from head to toe and ripping off nails and things of that nature. In my mind Jesus was against me, he had a vendetta against me which I couldn't account for. Then slowly but surely I started having these revelations, and began delving into the word of God. It seemed like my agony was not in vain. The things which held me back eventually began to propel me forward. The darkness began fading away and an unspeakably bright light was surfacing. Jesus told me that he had to break me in order for me to rediscover who I really was. Sort of like a phoenix rising from the ashes. Today I am almost fully healed in every conceivable way, and things like being a virgin and being covered in scars I strangely enough take much pride in. I took up my cross and followed Christ and in doing so I discovered the greatest love of all.

  • @l.k.1111
    @l.k.1111 2 роки тому +2

    Promiscuity and looseness is so advertised and promoted it sickens me every day. Love yourself and care about yourself and your health. Sad world.😔

  • @mariainnapereira6016
    @mariainnapereira6016 2 роки тому +9

    Please pray for me my children and grandchildren for peace and salvation protection happiness health deliverance forgiveness prosperity and grace mercy

  • @JoJo-mm8sn
    @JoJo-mm8sn 2 роки тому +2

    I have a testimony to give. I am 42 and still untouched. I tried to lose my virginity to a married man because I was so angry at God. Four times I tried and each time, we never got to commit this sin. I believe God was protecting me. I was lucky.May God be with you wherever you arr

  • @chikamsonwamara
    @chikamsonwamara 2 роки тому +27

    God bless you Joe. I love the way you simplify the gospel ,using everyday happenings questions about life that everyone can relate to.
    More grace from our Lord Jesus Christ to you.

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you for your encouragement in the Lord sister! - Joe

  • @tamarawolverton3895
    @tamarawolverton3895 2 роки тому +4

    This should be shown in the middle school instead of the health classes. This is annointed and timely thank you Joe off to show my daughters! 💗💗💗

  • @jaymielynn5426
    @jaymielynn5426 2 роки тому +18

    I read that story just recently, it hurt my heart for her and hearing it again it made me cry, you definitely brought life and reality to that story. As heartbreaking as it is, it's unfortunately true. Thank you Joe. God bless

  • @jimpsonuyaguari9665
    @jimpsonuyaguari9665 2 роки тому +1

    I have fell on the sexual sin by my ignorance and by not knowing the Word of God. Now that I am knowing God truthfully, my life had cleanse and it feels like born again. God bless you. 🙏

  • @jeremiahkirby6552
    @jeremiahkirby6552 2 роки тому +43

    God bless you all that have tasted death and returned. God bless you all that are just hanging on by a thread. God bless you all that have gotten so used to pain that life without it seems odd. God bless you all that have gotten so close to ending your life but chose the pain of living instead. God bless you all that willingly give. God bless you all that smile back at strangers. God bless you all that will take time out of your lives to enrich somebody else's. God bless you ALL!

    • @Tlittau3944
      @Tlittau3944 2 роки тому +1

      Thank ~You for posting your comment. It touched me more than I can begin to say... God Bless You. Stay safe & Stay Well & Thank~You again.

    • @jeremiahkirby6552
      @jeremiahkirby6552 2 роки тому

      ​@@Tlittau3944 Thanks! Though I wrote that comment and posted it I can't claim it came from me. It blew in like a breeze on a hot Summer day. HE lets me see the comments separate the wheat from the chaff and I'm allowed to find tender hearts like yours! God/Dad spoke to me. He sounded so young. I've also got the hear the Son's voice. I've heard them both. This Summer I'll be a 30 year brain tumor survivor. I'm 42 and I've already had 4 strokes. He will work though me and I'm so blessed that He does. God bless you!

  • @heather7119
    @heather7119 2 роки тому +16

    This is beautiful. I can tell u that for me and millions of women , one of our biggest mistakes, biggest shames, biggest rebellions, and worst decisions deal with sexual immorality. Whether we were/are victims or volunteers. But I want to encourage everyone that I cried out to the Living God to heal me of my shameful past, break all those ungodly and unholy soul ties, give me emotional control, control of my lust, to actually see sex the way You God intended it to be. To show me your purpose in my life to fulfill, whether it’s is Your will or not to send me Your choice for my husband. And He did, and continues to do it every day, giving me peace, courage, wisdom, faith and joy. I’m no one special, not rich, have no special connections, no celebrity status or beauty, but God has healed me. Jesus walks with me spiritually and The Holy Spirit guides me in this crazy world. If I can receive all this mercy and grace ANYONE can. God is not a respecter of man and no one is beyond His grace and mercy. God bless y’all 💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @AndyFlagg1
    @AndyFlagg1 2 роки тому +11

    This is so important to understand for our young men out there.

  • @Anonymous-yu5ih
    @Anonymous-yu5ih 2 роки тому +1

    Hey... I'll tell you what. I am tired of being disappointed and let down by life. I have done a good job of managing my expectations lately, but life likes to find a way to not meet them. I honestly want to give Jesus like one more shot.

  • @keithlucas6260
    @keithlucas6260 2 роки тому +37

    After my first wife ran off and ripped my heart out I fell into drinking, drugs, partying and womanizing....I've lost count of the women I've been with hoping that one would "fix" the pain.
    This went along until 24 years ago while working for the DPS and finding myself having to rent a hotel room after splitting up with the last gal, only to find that the Hotel manager was a real Christian bible believing church attending woman.
    We started dating and got married with the occasional hiccups that every marriage has.
    I've never had an affair, however with the constant bombardment of spam including porn spam and emptying it almost daily, I've opened a few of them out of curiosity and have definitely sinned by doing so.
    Would appreciate prayers on this.

    • @be2the4out
      @be2the4out 2 роки тому +1

      you dont need anyone to pray for you, what? are you a roman chatolic? no? than speaking to your Father is enough..

    • @divinerevelation.777
      @divinerevelation.777 2 роки тому +5

      @Keith Lucas Lord God we pray in the name of Jesus that Keith would be delivered from the spirit of sexual immorality and perversion. Thank you God, thank you Jesus. Amen 🙏🏼

    • @lionofjudah4244
      @lionofjudah4244 2 роки тому +2

      @@be2the4out i thought this too but the Bible says that a prayer of a righteous person helps! James 5:14

    • @stevebramblet7192
      @stevebramblet7192 2 роки тому +3

      God bless you Keith, I think if you talk to many men, most of us have had a struggle or are currently struggling with porn. My advise is to let your wife know and pray with you. Also to get a few close male friends who you can trust as accountability partners. There is software like Covenant Eyes that can help as well. And finally, nurture your relationship with Christ. Fill your time with Jesus and you won't have time for anything else. 🙏🏻

  • @antoinettegorman8833
    @antoinettegorman8833 2 роки тому +2

    I must say . You have me crying 😢. I just seen myself run to Jesus on the cross and hugging him so so tight with tears in my heart and eyes . With his precious blood on my cheeks and clothes from the embrace of the way I feel I’ve sinned. I love Jesus with all my heart ❤️. Please lord Jesus have mercy on me and on the whole world. Thank you Jesus for dying on the cross for my sins . Please forgive me . I repent. Thank you for this video

  • @Dan-Harvy-k9y
    @Dan-Harvy-k9y 2 роки тому +43

    THANK YOU MISTER KIRB for sharing the word of God♥️♥️♥️

    • @uncleken7955
      @uncleken7955 2 роки тому +5

      God*

    • @sonyia7521
      @sonyia7521 2 роки тому +2

      Kindly alway write God with capital G not small g, He is God Almighty

    • @3trnitii392
      @3trnitii392 2 роки тому +2

      *God

    • @Dan-Harvy-k9y
      @Dan-Harvy-k9y 2 роки тому +1

      @@uncleken7955 Yeah Sorry about that...I'll fix it😊

    • @uncleken7955
      @uncleken7955 2 роки тому +2

      @@Dan-Harvy-k9y good man

  • @snite5235
    @snite5235 2 роки тому +2

    This story always made me feel sick when i read it. I felt so sad for the girl.

  • @Ed.Medved7
    @Ed.Medved7 2 роки тому +14

    I really appreciate your Channel and your videos! Im from Russia and have been subscribed to your Channel for couple of years already. Once I was saved by Jesus, and became a Christian, I saw your Channel on UA-cam and subscribed.
    Thank you for your work, and may God Bless you and your family further through. We all need to hear this, and I will even translate it to my Russian friends so they can understand.

    • @al-yahnaihawkins4060
      @al-yahnaihawkins4060 2 роки тому +1

      @Eduard Ivashchenko ... Greetings Eduard - *_have "you" Ever Heard of "me" & "my" other 143,999 brothers, who are Scattered ALL Over the Place OUT There!? & what "our" Job is Going to BE ... once "we" are "Gathered" & "Sealed"_* - as Rev 7 & 14 speaks of? ... Please Translate the Videos that "my" King has been Leading "me" to bring forth & FEW Come! as - Satan Wants NONE of her's! To Escape! ... Can "you?" - "I" am Here to Help! "I" Love "you" & ALL From Russia & the WHOLE ROTTEN WORLD! ... and - "I" Will be Praying for "you" & All Else! Henceforth!
      Peace~

    • @lorrainewhitehead9080
      @lorrainewhitehead9080 2 роки тому +1

      Praying for you and the people of your country as I do the people of Ukraine. It is all in His mighty, wonderful hands. 🙏🏽🙏🏼✝️❤️

  • @MikeMcInroe
    @MikeMcInroe 2 роки тому +1

    Great stuff there and thank goodness God can restore our dignity! Satan wants to make us feel ashamed and think otherwise but God....He is so full of Grace and Mercy! Mike in sunny Central Florida

  • @byron_7774
    @byron_7774 2 роки тому +20

    I remember that story from the Bible I thought to myself "wow! That's so messed up" ..but once again you made a great video, thank you

  • @7Risen7Phoenix7
    @7Risen7Phoenix7 2 роки тому +1

    LORD, I beg You to forgive me for having had desire for my cousin for twenty years.
    Yes, I know this desire is doubly sinful, and I feel such guilt and shame for it. Please, LORD, remove this ugly, vile sin from my heart, my mind, my soul. May my desiire refocus onto the woman You intend for me.

  • @gracie.arnold
    @gracie.arnold 2 роки тому +10

    i love your messages.. i grew up in the late 60s early 70s and the sexual revolution was in full swing.. and it was overpowering. may your message reach all the ones out here that needs it.

  • @dabiyel5294
    @dabiyel5294 2 роки тому +2

    Now i know i am not the only one fighting such sins , thank you all for sharing testimonies here, its key to unlock to my closed way through jesus

  • @kathybarnes3809
    @kathybarnes3809 2 роки тому +6

    This video has helped me more than you know. I now know I have been forgiven. I thank you for opening my eyes to knowing that, I have carried this with me for years. God bless you.

  • @slfjdiejd
    @slfjdiejd Рік тому +1

    Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
    Mark 10:9

  • @dannysteel4604
    @dannysteel4604 2 роки тому +3

    One of the best restoration of broken hearts talks I have heard in a long time…
    I’m a pastor in New Zealand living in an area with more broken hearted people than I have seen before.
    Thanks for a great video.. I pray blessing on you and your ministry..

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for watching Pastor Danny! My family is from NZ originally "Waimate" to be precise!

  • @dilippunna3648
    @dilippunna3648 2 роки тому +1

    What a wonderful preaching, god bless you. Thanks for reminding my sin, I’m following Christ but I let down and disobeyed him. Jesus is the only way the truth and being righteous. I’m falling everyday, but with his grace and holy spirit I can overcome my sins. Praying for everyone who is struggling with sexual sins or secret sins, come to Christ and repent and live in him. Amen!

  • @rainej7013
    @rainej7013 2 роки тому +8

    Great message, thank you Pastor Joe❣️👍❤️🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦✝️✝️✝️✝️

  • @stevenmclaren4972
    @stevenmclaren4972 2 роки тому +2

    I have to say your humility and gentle way of sharing the Gospel is so heart warming. Joe its an honor to have you as a brother in Christ what a Glorious Loving graceful God we have. Thank you for your channel 🙏 we all struggle sometimes and we all fall short of God's Glory. Thanks to the finished work on the cross we all have a living Hope Christ Jesus. The author and finisher of our faith. He saves us and he keeps us , nothing will take us out of his hand.

  • @irenemaheshe5821
    @irenemaheshe5821 2 роки тому +58

    You’ve been blessing a lot of people thank you for everything you do may God bless you

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  2 роки тому +12

      It's a privilage to serve all you guys, God is good!

    • @thomaswalsh909
      @thomaswalsh909 2 роки тому

      Hi Joe thanks for your videos truly encouraging would be great to chat in person one day i recognise your accent isn't to far from where I'm from 👌🙏

  • @shalinil1780
    @shalinil1780 2 роки тому +1

    I fall short of words to explain how much I needed to watch this right now at this moment in my life. No matter how many times I wander away into darkness, Jesus never fails me, he never gives up on me... All praise and thankgiving belongs to Him forever and ever. Thanks so much for posting this video. Stay blessed always!!!

    • @Vashthestampedeo
      @Vashthestampedeo 2 роки тому +1

      The Holy Ghost pours out his Spirit and brings the increase in the name of Jesus. The latter rain proceeds the second coming and it is what waters the seed. Without the Spirit of God no one is saved. Believe in your idea of Jesus till the end of time, it does little good. You need to accept his ambassador and representative. So when the Holy Spirit shows himself and is rejected that is the unpardonable sin. To grieve the Spirit of God is to reject life.
      The exalted witness of Jesus Christ (King David) is reporting for duty.
      He was a man whose tongue held no lies,
      For he was the direct descendant of our father in the heavenly skies.
      Born to a body of fleshy sin,
      Though what laid beneath was unlike the rest of his kin.
      Jesus had the utmost grace,
      Never being wavered by evils face.
      He was wise beyond any years,
      Performing miracles that would bring crowds to tears.
      A beacon of light on top of a starless mountain,
      Where words of wisdom poured out of him as if there ran a cosmic fountain.
      His eyes pierced through you with a single glance,
      Leaving even the most hardened individuals in quite the trance.
      The Holy Spirit so ever majestically flowed inside this man,
      Naturally people caught notice and became a fan.
      Students began showing up from every mold,
      When they heard his words their hearts were sold.
      Wicked men put a price on Jesus's head,
      He was wanted alive or dead.
      Despite this he and his disciples continued their teachings,
      Where on occasion they endured terrible beatings.
      One of the twelve apostles turned to black,
      No longer having Jesus's back.
      Judas Iscariot had done Satan's bidding,
      And it is in hell where he now is sitting.
      Jesus died on the cross to pay for our shortcoming,
      However don't be saddened for if you believe in him you will see him at your homecoming.
      There he sits at the right hand of God's throne,
      Being the voice of truth and love that we all have known.
      Satan's tongue is coated in a layer of deceit,
      And he tramples over promises with his feet.
      He's a being who is bound by deceptions,
      Whose very essence oozes with misconceptions.
      He struggles to look you in your eyes,
      For his gaze holds nothing but lies.
      On occasion he will give you his hand,
      But don't be fooled by his stand.
      He seeks to corrupt your heart,
      You would be wise to avoid him from the start.
      Seeking quick pleasures and casting aside love,
      He traverses this land with push and shove.
      Now Lucifer was once not lost,
      But pride blinded him at a cost.
      Disobeying God he waged war,
      Becoming detestable to the core.
      Today he is the ruler of Earth,
      Though for all his power he has no real worth.
      However most of us have still been sold,
      Giving into sin and becoming cold.
      Nearly everyone is a puppet dancing on strings,
      Marching to delusion for their unjust kings.
      My people have given into lust,
      Becoming robots full of rust.
      However you my child are the exception,
      So when you meet me don't forget to mention.
      That you alone have been granted the key,
      And before your glory they shall all bend a knee.
      P.S.- Not too long ago I was very bitter and destructive. Literally I was covered in blood from head to toe and ripping off nails and things of that nature. In my mind Jesus was against me, he had a vendetta against me which I couldn't account for. Then slowly but surely I started having these revelations, and began delving into the word of God. It seemed like my agony was not in vain. The things which held me back eventually began to propel me forward. The darkness began fading away and an unspeakably bright light was surfacing. Jesus told me that he had to break me in order for me to rediscover who I really was. Sort of like a phoenix rising from the ashes. Today I am almost fully healed in every conceivable way, and things like being a virgin and being covered in scars I strangely enough take much pride in. I took up my cross and followed Christ and in doing so I discovered the greatest love of all.

  • @jakobbearne8105
    @jakobbearne8105 2 роки тому +3

    Joe honestly brother this couldn't have come at a better time! I've managed to keep away from this kind of temptation for a short while now. I was really struggling,so I prayed. I believe God put this video here for me. All the Glory to Him! 💕

  • @Sam-Greer
    @Sam-Greer 2 роки тому +1

    Forgive me God in the name of your holy son Yeshua ✝️ for what I have committed against my soul.

  • @Unknown86483
    @Unknown86483 2 роки тому +72

    God will not only protect his daughters, but everyone who has believed in him.

    • @corky269
      @corky269 2 роки тому

      But history tells us that is not true.

    • @annemurphy9339
      @annemurphy9339 2 роки тому

      @@corky269 YHVH God protects every single one of His children from the eternal damnation that is rightfully ours for being fallen creatures. He protects us because He will set every wrong to right, and will erase every single tear we ever cried. In the flesh of a man, Yeshua ha’Mashiach suffered trials and tribulation and warned His followers that they/we will too - but there is ultimate protection, grace and victory in the end.

    • @Unknown86483
      @Unknown86483 2 роки тому

      @@corky269 Do you mean something like when nero massacred Christians? Iconoclasm? Many persecutions were throughout history yes,but as it is said in the bible sometimes we have to make hard decisions either to die with Christ or to die in hell. But it's God's will if he protect us.

    • @corky269
      @corky269 2 роки тому

      @@Unknown86483 50 to 70 million people lost their lives in WWII. Many of those were Christians. Where was God?

    • @Unknown86483
      @Unknown86483 2 роки тому

      @@corky269 i already told you, for a Christian it's a privilege to die for God. Sometimes you have to make tough decisions to die for christ, or die in hell... Not that God won't protect us but if we die for him, he will erase every single tear from our eyes....

  • @cosmicnobody2529
    @cosmicnobody2529 2 роки тому +1

    JOE KIRBY, PLEASE PRAY FOR ME TOO...

  • @cmaried87
    @cmaried87 2 роки тому +3

    This is such a sad story. My heart aches for Tamar 💔
    So few men truly value what virginity means to a women.

  • @gerardaston4924
    @gerardaston4924 2 роки тому +1

    Also everyone that you and whoever they’ve been with , so shall you and them

  • @isabelcoreas9885
    @isabelcoreas9885 2 роки тому +4

    I'm very happy to have a brother in Christ like you.
    Thank you Jesus ❤️ I pray one day my faith is more deepened like yours and that I can share it boldly like you.

  • @chriscross2001
    @chriscross2001 2 роки тому +1

    Please God, Forgive me, help me not be lost. Help me to repent and follow your teachings

  • @kathyyore309
    @kathyyore309 2 роки тому +4

    Was molested at church. Traumatized me for a long time. When I came back to God,I got my life back.

  • @willclemens6689
    @willclemens6689 2 роки тому +1

    All sin is basically instant gratification if you think about it

  • @Hyabest_213
    @Hyabest_213 2 роки тому +5

    I believe in God .may God forgive me for all i have sinned alot.thank you joe kirby for all your amazing words .

  • @ratguyevan151
    @ratguyevan151 2 роки тому

    This video changed my life.
    I've been going through a horrible sin rabbit hole. I keep falling and then giving up and falling and giving up and so on and so forth. But this video, and this verse keeps me strong throughout all of my trials and tribulations.
    Proverbs 27:20: "Death and destruction are never satisfied, and neither are human eyes."

  • @1daddyDA
    @1daddyDA 2 роки тому +27

    Joe thanks again for this wonderful message. I love reading the Bible and discovering how God has used so many Women in his service. I loved the Story of Deborah and how she had her own Court. I love the story of Mary as well. Not just that she was Jesus earthly Mother but because she is a perfect example of a person who simply said ‘God’s will be done’ and just accepted what would happen. On a human level I think to myself Mary must have been quite frightened. She was after all a very young girl but she somehow stayed with God’s will.
    One verse I love is where it says ‘Mary remembered these things and pondered them in her heart’. Pondering the things of God in our own heart often makes me see in fact not only how God is providing for me but how he loves me. Then we have Rachel and even the Woman at the well. Joe I’m no Saint but I thank God that he sent his Son to take the penalty for my/ sins and now I can be with God eternally.
    Joe I agree that we have all messed up. Looking back at what I did In my teens, twenties and so often when in all honesty I had turned my back on God (or like Amon thought ‘okay, I want God but at the same time I want X Y & Sins as well) I get the message in particular with regards to sexual sin. I totally get that idea that Amon had that ‘as soon as I get this all will be perfect’ (and of course it never was, it fell apart, it degenerated, thrills fade and love did not exist) I guess you could say I have been where falling down drunk Amon had been. (Although of course nobody had thank God ever taken a hit out on me.) Maybe it’s inevitable that I feel a sense of regret for that time even now.
    Yet I am reminded of how Samson died. He had ‘paid’ by literally being blinded and reduced to dragging a millstone in the darkness. Yet when he is chained between the two pillars he resolves that suddenly his life will mean something. Suddenly he uses his strength and power in the service of his God, his creator, his sustainer, the true focus of his love, his energy, his power, his worship. So it is he dies and destroys God’s enemies too.
    Now I don’t know if Samson felt shame and regret before his death but I do believe he finally met and reunited with his God. The one true God whom I will worship, praise, honour and adore.

  • @dv4740
    @dv4740 2 роки тому +1

    Jesus endured our shame and rejection that we might share his glory and acceptance of the father. He is worthy. Thank you Joe

  • @Strive1324L
    @Strive1324L 2 роки тому +5

    Proverbs 6:32-33 always reminds me of that consequence.

  • @Nobllshit
    @Nobllshit 2 роки тому +1

    I'm suffering right now because of this same thing. I created a terrible situation because I wanted to be with someone. Now we are together and it's destroying both our lives and she has no where to go. I can't believe I let this happen.

  • @crutchergal6818
    @crutchergal6818 2 роки тому +6

    This is so true. Soul ties can be broken, but it takes a lot of prayer. Sexual sin only leads to disaster. Another great video Joe!

  • @annieremis5872
    @annieremis5872 2 роки тому

    I am a Dirty lost empty broken sinner. but Thanks to GOD for his Grace & Mercy,he forgive me and saved me and restore me and give me everlasting life Through JESUS CHRIST. 😭 Thank you LORD GOD, thank you LORD JESUS and HOLY SPIRIT 👑✝️🕊️🙌

  • @BlueHairedGrandma
    @BlueHairedGrandma 2 роки тому +4

    I am so impressed with your ability to ALWAYS speak God's truth, to do it in love and without "man's" judgment! If there were more people who could do this, churches would be full of the broken! Thanks, Joe for your diligence, love, and unwavering fight for God's truth!

    • @freddhernanadez2230
      @freddhernanadez2230 2 роки тому

      Amen! God bless Joe and his ministry. God bless you too sister. Jesus Christ IS Lord!!!

  • @purplehearts3287
    @purplehearts3287 Рік тому +1

    I was in a relationship with an unbeliever. He was a former JW. He told me his childhood was so forced to be a JW, and now, as an older man, he didn't want anything to do with God. I left him 10 months ago. I now understand as a new Christian what it means to be equally yoked. I pray that one day, the Lord will put a God-fearing man into my life. For now, I'm still healing and making my relationship with Jesus stronger as each day goes by. ✝️🙏💜

  • @riomagallona6826
    @riomagallona6826 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you Jesus for replacing these desires with love for you!

  • @jeremiahmostadzoomsquad2571
    @jeremiahmostadzoomsquad2571 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you friend how much I appreciate your words of wisdom. There is no doubt that I have put cigarettes and medicinal marijuana in my life every single day for the last 30 years. I see what an empty shell I am but I see the strength and love and endurance of Jesus that surrounds me. Everyday is a battle but the Lord is with me

  • @trinitywright7122
    @trinitywright7122 2 роки тому +34

    Dear Joe, I love all of your videos but addressing this topic so well is one of the best things you have ever done. When I think of how many times I wish someone had said this to me when I was a child when I was a teenage girl when I was extremely beautiful as a young woman how much now being in my 60s I wish that someone had told me about sex within the boundaries of marriage and a marriage to a godly Man was the only thing acceptable to God and how anything else kills you and removes you from God's presence... And if you don't believe in my friends and if you don't believe what Joe is saying here I am a living testimony to the truth of this.
    I did not know about the story of Ammon and that is incredible. And what a poignant thing our heavenly father has done by putting that story in the Bible to show us even in this day and age how evil all of this is. Pornography is evil and I'll tell you what else is music full of half nude women prancing around. Or men who look like they're taking advantage of women in their music videos or singing horrible lyrics about them. Lucifer is The Great deceiver and uses all of these things to keep you away from our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and especially when you are young, the last for sex and relationship can overwhelm you so much you think of nothing else.
    Thank you Joe for this very eye-opening impressive video and you always tackle the hardest subjects with the greatest of poise. God bless you and I continue to always pray for you because I love your teaching so much.

    • @MM-lw8wl
      @MM-lw8wl 2 роки тому +1

      Very good post, I hope alot of people read this.

    • @millie4jesus560
      @millie4jesus560 2 роки тому +3

      I totally agree. Lost my virginity at 15. I was very ignorant about practically everything. I was neglected, lonely, with an alcoholic dad and brother, emotional abuse, shame, raised in violence. I was a very nervous child. Screaming, crying hysterically when violence broke out in the home. No one ever held me, and comforted me. Looking back I realize I just needed love. ♥️ That's why I was so vunerable.
      This is an excellent video!! 💯% facts!! God bless!

    • @freddhernanadez2230
      @freddhernanadez2230 2 роки тому +1

      @@millie4jesus560 Thanks be to God HE set you free through HIS Son Jesus Christ! And HE DOES love us. God bless you sister.

    • @millie4jesus560
      @millie4jesus560 2 роки тому

      @@freddhernanadez2230 Amen!! God bless you as well. 🙂👍

  • @shellystanley9746
    @shellystanley9746 2 роки тому

    Joe, you reach out with such love and compassion. Through you Jesus speaks to my heart. Please keep preaching. This world is full of abomination everywhere we look. That serpent has done a great job twisting our thoughts and deceiving us all. We admire your words of love through our Savior. 😍

  • @liaprestige1200
    @liaprestige1200 2 роки тому +3

    Best 15 minutes of my life

    • @offthekirb
      @offthekirb  2 роки тому +1

      Praise God, I'm so pleased it was an encouragement to you!

    • @susanlee207
      @susanlee207 2 роки тому

      What a beautiful comment ❤

  • @kalungiphiona5485
    @kalungiphiona5485 Рік тому

    I can't go a day without watching your videos, they keep me intouch with God, I'm 27 this year and waiting, wherever he is I pray God blesses him until we meet.