Why Your New Years Resolutions NEVER STICK! 3 Research-based Principles ✨ | Shadé Zahrai

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  • @ShadeZahrai
    @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +57

    Hi everyone! This one’s a long one, but I’ve packed it with research-based tips to help you think differently about your goals to help you step closer to your dream life in 2022. ✨
    Here are the TIMESTAMPS in case you want to skip ahead:
    0:00 - Intro
    0:41 - Your Dream Life
    1:47 - You’re at the Mercy of what you Consume
    2:56 - The Hedonic Treadmill & Achievement Orientation
    4:31 - 3 Principles to Set your New Year Intentions for your Dream Life
    4:40 - PRINCIPLE 1: Appreciate how far you’ve come
    6:32 - Self-Acceptance vs Self-Improvement Goals
    7:42 - PRINCIPLE 2: Focus on what you Want, not what you Don’t Want
    9:12 - PRINCIPLE 3: Think Big Picture, then Little Picture
    9:41 - Superordinate vs Subordinate goals

    • @kimmusicas
      @kimmusicas 3 роки тому +1

      Merry Christmas 🎁 ua-cam.com/video/5xsQsCTNi0M/v-deo.html

    • @MrMohanP
      @MrMohanP 3 роки тому +1

      💗💗💗

    • @Zaheer-Abbas
      @Zaheer-Abbas 3 роки тому

      Merry Christmas

    • @dwijensingh1413
      @dwijensingh1413 3 роки тому

      Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

    • @brutusjackendy3658
      @brutusjackendy3658 3 роки тому +1

      You did a great job there Shadé and I love it 👍

  • @sohailstone
    @sohailstone 3 роки тому +5

    Shade is super fluent that she talks , each words crafted perfectly , flowing like pearls ✌🏼

  • @avonzo
    @avonzo 3 роки тому +3

    1. Appreciate/celebrate how far you have come (Celebrate how far you have come)
    2. Focus on what you want, not don’t (approach goals and not as move away)
    3. Think big picture (super ordinate goal)), then little picture
    Thanks Shade! Best start for 2022!

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому

      Likewise Avonzo! Hope it's an amazing year for you!

  • @65685760
    @65685760 3 роки тому +3

    Your videos and shorts will always makes me more positive . . . Thanks for the video.

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +1

      So happy to hear it Narendra! Here's to an amazing 2022 - wishing you all the best as we kick off the new year! 😃

  • @venkatasubbaiahmangali6459
    @venkatasubbaiahmangali6459 3 роки тому +7

    Even without seeing the video I CAN SAY THAT this change brings US a real Christmas into our life...That is the LEVEL of hope having in you shade !

  • @krishradio1
    @krishradio1 3 роки тому +20

    Merry Christmas and a happy new year. Thank you for a wonderful message at a time when I see myself at the crossroads and the beginning of a new and exciting life ahead. I am also leaving behind a life of immense contentment, which I do want to look back at from time to time. The presentation, framing, design and editing is both tasteful and elegant and rich in content. Good luck to your 2022 journey too. 💐

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +12

      To you too Krishnan! Wishing you a wonderful start to 2022. Thank you for your lovely words too! Our videos are a team effort with my brilliant husband Faysal - we really enjoyed putting this one together and hope it helps many around the world! 😃

  • @akhtarali5558
    @akhtarali5558 3 роки тому +1

    I wish you live long. Love the effort your are trying to put to contribute in the betterment of so many lives.

  • @aabdille
    @aabdille 3 роки тому +3

    I have been listening to your interview on mind valley last week and have ever since enjoy your shorts. Keep doing this wonderful job @Zahraì

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +2

      I loved having the opportunity to share insights on Mindvalley - I'm glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for the lovely comment and hope you enjoy the other videos shared here too 🙏

    • @aabdille
      @aabdille 3 роки тому

      Absolutely Zahrai, thank you for setting a time "available" for the people you help. Stay blessed.

    • @sonjit6555
      @sonjit6555 3 роки тому

      Ma'am your shorts gave me with a lot of insights about life and on different aspects of psychology.
      Thank you

  • @KRGoswami
    @KRGoswami 2 роки тому

    Insightful thoughts represented. Those must be popping up from your mind due to well done researched. I have highest gratitude for your sharing your inner voice.

  • @htallii1069
    @htallii1069 3 роки тому

    I am so proud of what I achieved in 2021. I have been hitting the gym religiously since March 2021. I have been following a ketogenic diet along with intermittent fasting since June 2021. These two together have helped me be fitter along with a lot of mental clarity and energy.
    I have also been focusing on my financial health since 2018 (invest first, don’t buy crap, live below your means). Thank you, I have bigger goals for 2022 ;)

  • @rubencaballero8226
    @rubencaballero8226 Рік тому

    Amazing video I have an attitude of gratitude a mindset of joy and abundance in all its forms. Most people blindly follow the systems instead of following their goals. It is not what don’t know that hold you back, it’s what you do know that is not true that hold you back. May this new year bring you smiles and good fortune to you. So grateful, thanks.

  • @ChuksKris
    @ChuksKris 2 роки тому

    I love your channel, I just love the way you site and use professional sources not just your thoughts and opinions, great job!

  • @SaranShah350
    @SaranShah350 3 роки тому +2

    You are so clear in your mind and the choice of your words are so precise. It's amazing. Keep doing amazing work. Keep encouraging people. New year resolution wow. What a topic you choose before new year. 👍
    Happy New year.

  • @krishna2892
    @krishna2892 3 роки тому +5

    I was feeling so low for last few days but then your video came.Now seeing this ,i have my personal battery full and have started to lead my life with positivity and determination.Thank you for your effort mam.😃♥️

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +2

      Love this! Happy to hear that your personal battery has been recharged - now you're ready for a great start to 2022! Wishing you all the very best with it! 😃

  • @siddu9698
    @siddu9698 3 роки тому

    Different way to look at the things.... Twisted and most eye opening words.... Thanks ma'am for this episode

  • @harshkhatri3657
    @harshkhatri3657 3 роки тому

    You are my daily source of inspiration.I feel more positive after listening to you.
    Falling for your personality.
    Thanks keep posting.

  • @shreyashpatil1628
    @shreyashpatil1628 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much Shadé !! You have told me secret of an amazing life !

  • @rahulsubedi9
    @rahulsubedi9 3 роки тому +6

    Happy New Year Shade.... Hadn't found anyone in your level on motivating such a beautifully. Hat's off to your research. Best Wishes

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you for your very kind words Rahul - I'm so happy you find value in the videos shared here. Wishing you a beautiful start to the new year. 😃

  • @iiamrohit
    @iiamrohit 3 роки тому +1

    The timing of this couldn't have been better. Thank you Shadé!

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому

      Happy to hear it Rohit!! Have an amazing start to 2022!

  • @peterhiggins2948
    @peterhiggins2948 3 роки тому +1

    I very much enjoy your videos. They've helped me understand my sense of self and my goals and to help keep a positive mind set!! Thank you and a very happy new year to you and all! :)

  • @kulrajchavda9538
    @kulrajchavda9538 3 роки тому +8

    This is what i needed for a great positive year ahead!
    Thanks love your content shadé 💙

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +2

      Wishing you an amazing year to come Kulraj! 😃

  • @AD-ts4bf
    @AD-ts4bf 2 роки тому +1

    We just love watching your videos.. They're very informative.. We learn a lot from it.. Keep uploading it regularly..Shade❤ much love from your UA-cam family ❤✨

  • @mohammadsobhyyoussef8367
    @mohammadsobhyyoussef8367 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you Shade, wish you and your family a happy new year

  • @aryanyadav3626
    @aryanyadav3626 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks for this wonderful video...I will definitely follow ideas you have given to us. Wish you a very happy new year dear.

  • @gauravmestry743
    @gauravmestry743 2 роки тому

    Your personality make me feel better

  • @Blackpanther_yogi
    @Blackpanther_yogi 3 роки тому

    Watching your videos bring me happiness and your delivery is awesome
    You are changing the world in a way and that’s great😀😀

  • @k.k3260
    @k.k3260 3 роки тому +2

    Every time I watch your video there is always take away.. Thanks dor doing such a good work.. Happy New year to everyone and Merry Christmas to all.

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому

      Thank you K.K - so happy to hear that! Happy new year! 😃

  • @Hrdkse01
    @Hrdkse01 3 роки тому

    Shadé, Thank god I found you on UA-cam by mistake. I have found your content to be very helpful in developing both my personal and professional life.

  • @beebsblue
    @beebsblue 3 роки тому +1

    I love how you backed up what you said with evidence. Super helpful video 😊💖💫

  • @wajahatkhan9455
    @wajahatkhan9455 3 роки тому +3

    Wow! Shade! To be honest it was one of the best insights for setting resolution. Thank you so much for sharing it with us. Merry Christmas and a happy new year.

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +1

      So happy to hear it resonated and was of value! Thank you for your lovely comment Wajahat. Merry Christmas to you, happy holidays and have a beautiful new year! ✨

  • @nishasusanvarghese5367
    @nishasusanvarghese5367 3 роки тому

    I found this channel recently and i feel it that this channel is personalized for me.. Thanks🌹
    Happy New Year❤️

  • @re-cordinglyf7176
    @re-cordinglyf7176 3 роки тому

    I am not partying right now...But this video made me really happy and cleared my mind in a sense. Thank you so much and Happy new year.

  • @BigQuestionsTV
    @BigQuestionsTV 3 роки тому +8

    Love your videos Shadé! This one came at the right time :) Merry Christmas!

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +4

      Happy to hear it was timely! Merry Christmas to you and happy holidays! ✨

    • @vinodpandey9142
      @vinodpandey9142 3 роки тому

      @@ShadeZahrai new year wishes..am to late for this was unwell..

  • @rajeshkkv
    @rajeshkkv 3 роки тому +1

    Spread the positivity! Happy new year

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому

      Always!! 😃 Happy new Year Rajesh!

  • @ragulmurugesan7182
    @ragulmurugesan7182 3 роки тому

    Dear Shade, we really needed this for the new beginning. Thank you so much.🥺

  • @balraambalraam905
    @balraambalraam905 Рік тому

    Amazing video I have an attitude of joy and abundance in all its forms most people blindly follow the systems instead of following ❤

  • @chandanishreya6236
    @chandanishreya6236 3 роки тому

    Thankyou so much Shade Zahrai, I really appreciate your efforts for bringing such a value adding and meaningful content... lots of love ❤️❤️

  • @agnelgeorge3059
    @agnelgeorge3059 3 роки тому

    At the highest level to be a better person every other moment.

  • @dwijensingh1413
    @dwijensingh1413 3 роки тому

    Wishing you and your family a very Happy New Year Shade! Keep shining!

  • @muralid4912
    @muralid4912 3 роки тому

    Happy New Year Shadé!
    Thanks for your videos last year which really relieved me of some tough circumstances. Looking forward to learn more from you this year!

  • @kieran2347
    @kieran2347 3 роки тому

    Thanks for these amazing videos, Shadė!
    Wishing you and yours a happy and prosperous new year 2022!

  • @ssaran2
    @ssaran2 11 місяців тому

    Very motivating speech! Thank you Shade!

  • @apurbabar4565
    @apurbabar4565 3 роки тому +3

    Loved it sister. Thank you very much. Thank you very much for this wonderful vdo. Felt like my own elder sister was helping me with life lessons.💓Merry Christmas and a very Happy new year.❤❤🙏

  • @marygrace5054
    @marygrace5054 3 роки тому

    Shadé this is amazing!!! Thank you so much, happy new year and wishing you all the best always.

  • @tirthjoshi3543
    @tirthjoshi3543 3 роки тому

    Merry Christmas and happy new year. Now insted of taking resolutions for new year we will make instentions.
    Thanks for sharing 🙂

  • @SatishKumar-qb3gm
    @SatishKumar-qb3gm 3 роки тому

    Great to see you again, keep doing the stuff you do, Congratulations and a very happy new year Shade

  • @12ii345
    @12ii345 3 роки тому

    Thank you, I needed this 🖤🖤🖤🖤✨

  • @reenap2286
    @reenap2286 2 роки тому

    Hi Zahrai, you're Fantastic! & Brilliant! I ever came across.. You are jus amazing, the way you transform the lives! Thanks to the videos! Keep going..

  • @samuelraj5833
    @samuelraj5833 3 роки тому +1

    🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
    Your this message is also highly inspirational packed with valuable tips.Keep on inspiring millions and millions of individuals in the coming NEW YEAR 2022 also.🙏

  • @LolaOyus
    @LolaOyus 3 роки тому

    I enjoyed it. I listened to it twice. Happy New Year Shade

  • @AishLovesSpaghetti
    @AishLovesSpaghetti 3 роки тому

    Hey! I love your work and style sense. Would like to see a video on how different dressing styles can work in our favor and surely some tips from you would be amazing. As I said earlier your looks in every video are so pleasant and not to mention the make up is always on point. 💖💖💖

  • @bonfacesdream
    @bonfacesdream 3 роки тому

    Wauuu this is perfect and much teachings and inspirations....On Point....💪

  • @mahinshahriar8897
    @mahinshahriar8897 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you for the effort. Love your work.

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +3

      Thank you for the lovely comment Mahin! It's a team effort with my husband Faysal - we love sharing empowering content with this wonderful community! ✨

  • @imendridi7256
    @imendridi7256 3 роки тому +1

    Best wishes for the new year dear lady. Thank you for your wonderful and positive vibes videos. Staying tuned for more videos on the new year 🎉❤️👌

  • @ashrafhassan6610
    @ashrafhassan6610 3 роки тому +1

    In love with those words🥰

  • @41rahulteja13
    @41rahulteja13 3 роки тому

    You are very wonderful to hear. Thank you 😊 for your content and videos it’s really helpful.
    Advance happy new year 🥳

  • @aai1010
    @aai1010 3 роки тому +2

    Brilliant content as always !! Thank you and Wish you a very Happy New Year.

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you - glad you enjoyed it! Wishing you a wonderful start to the new year! 😃

  • @swapnilwankhede3440
    @swapnilwankhede3440 3 роки тому

    Thanks for uploading useful information.
    I am agree with you.

  • @subhodeepghosh7190
    @subhodeepghosh7190 3 роки тому

    Best video about "constructive future planning" .

  • @bekaluamare8495
    @bekaluamare8495 3 роки тому

    Thank you Shadé! Eloquently done, applicable, and a pleasure to follow! Happy holidays to you!
    Cheers!

  • @iaadarshdubey
    @iaadarshdubey 3 роки тому

    relatable content felt this in life. thank you

  • @siddharthmanumusic
    @siddharthmanumusic 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much, Shadé! Happy New Year!

  • @drba77
    @drba77 3 роки тому

    Great video as always Mrs. Zahrai! With love and respect 👍

  • @Wanderers-Bulgaria
    @Wanderers-Bulgaria 3 роки тому

    Shade, congrats for the positive attitude 😊

  • @georgeatenchangndi3518
    @georgeatenchangndi3518 3 роки тому

    Love every bit. It was a fantastic session. Thank u so much and Happy New year 💥💥

  • @amirmikhail5659
    @amirmikhail5659 3 роки тому

    Merry Christmas 🎄🎁 and happy new year 🎊🎈

  • @jitendrakhot634
    @jitendrakhot634 3 роки тому +1

    Happy in Present moment... ✨️🥳

  • @matchachada
    @matchachada 3 роки тому

    Thank you for keeping me motivated today with your video, it means so much 💕

  • @yuriktevanyan9567
    @yuriktevanyan9567 3 роки тому

    Thank you and happy new year.

  • @sreejithchandran118
    @sreejithchandran118 3 роки тому

    Merry Christmas Shadezahrai. Advance happy New year. Filled with full of positive and happiness.

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +1

      To you too Sreejith - happy holidays and happy new year! 😃

  • @margiesvanmori
    @margiesvanmori 3 роки тому

    You are so inspiring! I am moving into my van this year to travel and I love this video! Thank you for the inspiration and motivation!

  • @rockkisback7144
    @rockkisback7144 3 роки тому +1

    And merry Christmas to you and your country and family.
    Thank-you.

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому

      Likewise Rockk - have a very happy new year too! 😃

  • @samdanieljabaselvan3852
    @samdanieljabaselvan3852 3 роки тому

    Great video to watch on 2022

  • @VijayShukla-qy4sd
    @VijayShukla-qy4sd 3 роки тому

    Happy holidays and Merry Christmas

  • @kabhis2002
    @kabhis2002 3 роки тому +2

    Looking forward to a new year of wonderful content 🥰🥰

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +1

      As are we Abishek! 😃 Hope you have a wonderful end to 2021 and beautiful start to 2022.

  • @saranzeb1533
    @saranzeb1533 3 роки тому +1

    Wonderfull to hear from you. Keep it up. And I always enjoy you content. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому

      Thanks Saran! Glad you enjoyed this one - we had fun putting it together 😃

  • @kulmesh
    @kulmesh 3 роки тому +2

    Love the way of speech delivery...

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +1

      Hope you enjoy this one Kalmesh, and hope you have a wonderful New Year!

    • @kulmesh
      @kulmesh 3 роки тому

      @@ShadeZahrai Happy New Year Yoo too

  • @stormbreaker82
    @stormbreaker82 3 роки тому +2

    You look Lovely , Happy new year.
    " Expect disappointment then you will never be disappointed "
    ( people say always stay positive and think only postive stuff would happen , but no one says what if the results aren't positive, at a certain scenario the quote might work ) what do u think

  • @RAGHAVVENKATES
    @RAGHAVVENKATES 3 роки тому

    Shade always opens🙂😇 mind , glad to follow up

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому

      Happy to hear it was mind-opening Raghav! Wishing you a wonderful end to the year! ✨

  • @asmereg
    @asmereg 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this ❣️

  • @ahmedmm786
    @ahmedmm786 3 роки тому +2

    Amazing advice like always! Thank you so much. Happy holidays! 🎄🎅🏼

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому +1

      Happy holidays Ahmed! Wishing you a wonderful wrap-up to 2021, and great start to 2022. 😃

  • @cassievoo2
    @cassievoo2 3 роки тому

    Merry Christmas 🎄

  • @dwijensingh1413
    @dwijensingh1413 3 роки тому

    Merry Christmas!

  • @laichengdihingia7482
    @laichengdihingia7482 3 роки тому

    shade, thank you so much! really helpful.😁❤

  • @avishajain170
    @avishajain170 3 роки тому

    Bro I love your shoulders they look so good 😭

  • @RaviRaj-sf4kf
    @RaviRaj-sf4kf 3 роки тому

    New year's first gift🙏🙏🙏

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  3 роки тому

      Happy (early) New Year to you!

  • @rockkisback7144
    @rockkisback7144 3 роки тому

    Shade zahrai i didn't seen so much your video instead seen short more your expressions, your monopoly and most like your supple and sweet voice just don't have words to describe throughout every video just a kinda stuff looks like 'you are life line and one of a kind' life is travelling us throughout all dimensions and some do with it discrimination some understand and some overstimulated while in life or specially in young age and some are consider and pretends like they know all throughout youtube also but it yet to left with shade zahrai you are the answer of bunches of problems and question in just your short at youtube and yes i expect it here if we people wanna apart then life and beyond it and real values of life instead of what worst we do and live leads to just nothing kinda then just we gotta see your videos it's the only channel real you have to have those presiously values in life.
    Love from india 💟💟💟
    🎤🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @gunishjha4030
    @gunishjha4030 3 роки тому +1

    it's exciting to listen to you.

  • @azeemhafeez5097
    @azeemhafeez5097 3 роки тому

    You give me great motivation.

  • @vasamsettivenkatakalyankum8350
    @vasamsettivenkatakalyankum8350 3 роки тому +1

    Excited to see notification as always😍😍😍

  • @darpanbansal3978
    @darpanbansal3978 3 роки тому +1

    Very nice and useful. Thank you 😇😇😇

  • @monusharma6992
    @monusharma6992 3 роки тому

    Hey wonderful job i see you after 2 month ya happy new year 👍😊

  • @joas2011gc
    @joas2011gc 3 роки тому

    I really love your videos. it's very useful for me.

  • @suzimanipur2983
    @suzimanipur2983 3 роки тому

    happy new year 🙂

  • @arvindvaz6816
    @arvindvaz6816 3 роки тому

    Hai! I recognized you with your voice. Complement of the season.

  • @rashmipandith994
    @rashmipandith994 2 роки тому +2

    I love your accent shadé ....😁

  • @adamamac-nathan322
    @adamamac-nathan322 3 роки тому

    Shadé, 🥰🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘
    Thanks so much

  • @LullaLiam
    @LullaLiam 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for Christmas gift(video) , dear Santa 🙂

  • @taxbazaar7364
    @taxbazaar7364 2 роки тому

    Your English pronunciation I really helpful for understand English very smoothly.

  • @ibnrochd8273
    @ibnrochd8273 3 роки тому +2

    ingenious!