Mortician to the STARS! Celebrity Funeral Director Reveals All
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- Опубліковано 9 січ 2025
- Funeral Director to Stars (GQ Magazine) Mike Steen has been in the death care industry for 58 years.
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Being a funeral director isn’t for everyone . But I’m glad this man chose it . He is so diplomatic and professional , and truly cares about the families and their deceased loved ones .
Thank you Scott for this great interview . You’ve got a good hearted neighbour and friend .
Totally AGREE
My family is in the funeral business and you get to see how sick some people are. I’ve seen people that were killed by 2 young men just because they wanted to see what it felt like to kill somebody.
God Bless u
I dated a funeral director for a year and by her own admission, they're a different bunch for sure. 😆
55:35 This was a very informative video very well done by both of them
The story about Minnie Riperton was very touching. It got me when he mentioned it was similar to what he picked for his own mother.
As a daughter of a funeral director I'm always fascinated by these stories. My dad had some good ones too. My mom, also loved to visit celebrity cemeteries and one year we visited friends in L.A. and they took us to Westwood as well as Forest Lawn and Hollywood Forever. We took your tour Scott, fun to find you now on YT.
Three generations of funeral directors in my family. It is definitely an art form and a calling. This man is so dignified with his responses.
My late father was a funeral director/embalmer. There were cases that stuck with him and made him cry til the day he died and so many other interesting stories.
I'm so sorry, prayers for him now as we carry our trauma into Heaven, or next plane, I like Heaven. Love to you
My uncle was the last in a long line of gravediggers. He's shared a few fascinating stories over the years.
@@ttintagel How lucky you were! I hope you've penned some of his stories so they can be passed on to his family and friends(others he worked with).
Sad about Sebastián Cabott only having 16 people at his funeral. I liked him back in the day. Great video!
French was Forgotten.😮
That's most likely 16 more then i will have no doubt! I know there will probly only be 5 or less at mine!!! Not soundn morbid or depressing but its a sad fact that my so called "family" wont be attending at all but idgaf! 😐
Same here I may have 15-20 people I doubt it tho but in the end it doesn't really matter I Don't guess
you certainly won't since you will be dead.......@@TinaLouise73
@@TinaLouise73Same for me.
A wonderful gentleman , full of empathy compassion for all his clients !!!!!🇬🇧
I was a Licensed Embalmer in the state of Georgia, back in the 80's and due to a back injury had to "retire" from the business, but I attended the Gupton-Jones College of Mortuary Science, in Atlanta, Ga and graduated in 1980, I wish I could have stayed in the business cause I loved it, it was my calling, nothing has changed, but I'm now an old man soon to be a part of some cemetery, and so it goes!
Had a friend that attended mortuary school in Atlanta in the late 1990s. Also another in Newnan, GA.
Thank you for your service.
What a great interview! My husband and I are in our late 60s and both have health problems. We've already told the kids of the cremations and that our remains are to be put together, stirred together, so we will always be there, touching. I hope we have such a nice man like Mike Steen to handle this for our kids.
Ozzie, Davis and Ruby Dee are in the same urn together with the caption “We’re in this thing together “ I love your idea!
OMG. That's cute. Hope you have many more years!!!
So, Matthau and Lemmon are buried in the same cemetery. That's great.
They were both terrific actors
That certain is true
Odd couple
@@llamamama2910A great movie by two fantastic Actors Which are I miss very much Odd Couple is one of my favorite B&W movies
That cemetery is FULL of huge stars. Burt Lancaster is just one of them. Plus it is absolutely beautiful. It is fairly small and easy to navigate. And so peaceful.
What A Very Nice Man. God Bless Him For The Comfort He Provided For So Many Equally.
This is one of the best interviews I have ever watched. Interesting, informative and engaging. Some people find the business of death disturbing, but I find it interesting. Personally, I have all of my arrangements made so that the family doesn't have to think twice.
Thanks for your kind words. I thought it came out quite well. Your family will appreciate your preplanning, only on the day that it necessary and then they will appreciate your thoughtfulness.
2:30 @@MikeSteen-uw4rr what is the name are the books name? I would love to buy the books.
Scott, Mike is an amazing person. I believe even if you weren't a star he would give you the star treatment. He had pride in his job.
Coming from a Funeral Director this was fantastic ❤
Two fine gentlemen. This was one of the best interviews. Thank you!!!
I lived with someone for a short period while she was attending mortuary school in college and have been fascinated since. We worked together at the time and she said I was the only person we worked with that was fascinated instead of weirded out when she told them about her choice for her future profession. She has been in the funeral industry for almost 20 years and does an amazing job.
This gentleman sounds so kind and calm. I think he was well suited for his profession..
I definitely agree..Very informative video
What a lovely, respectful chap. Thanks all 🇬🇧
John Belushi is buried on Martha’s Vineyard in Massachusetts. He was moved from his original grave to an unmarked grave in a different part of the same cemetery because of all of the disruption, trash and visitors the grave created.
Rest in Peace really should be a "thing".
What a shame that they had to move his remains to an unmarked grave! People should be more respectful of the resting places of the dead.
Originally, he was under a boulder that had a simple inscription "Belushi". People trampled the adjacent graves, so they took a space at the end of the row, erecting a new memorial. People leave things, like beer, and the neighbors aren't trampled. I half suspect they just removed the boulder and re-sodded it and he is in fact in the original site, now unadorned.
@@jeffnewman9735 I hope so. I disgusts me how people disrespect cemeteries like they’re theme parks.
I hope he can rest now. Ppl can be so disrespected
As a UCLA student in the early '70s, I didn't know of this cemetery until , while in line to see "Star Wars" in 1977, I overheard some ladies behind me mention that "Marilyn Monroe's buried around here somewhere." When I eventually located Westwood Village Memorial Park, it became one of my favorite places to visit over the years (Taking flowers to Dorothy Stratten's grave on her 50th birth date in 2010, etc.) I took my niece to visit before I moved to Arizona in 2021. She was so fascinated with the history of the people buried there, including one of my art professors, William Brice (son of Fanny Brice). In conclusion, the grave marker of comedian Rodney Dangerfield reads "There Goes the Neighborhood!" ("I tell ya, I get no respect!"-R.D.)
What a genuinely nice, sincere, caring gentleman.
I was fascinated by this piece, and I’m especially glad that you mentioned Minnie Riperton. Very few people mention her and I am grateful that you did❤
What a beautiful voice Ms Ripperton had.
She is remembered for shattering people's ear drums..
Thank you for sharing your stories with us. It takes somebody special to do this job well, with kindness, grace and compassion, this describes you.
Thank you, Scott, you are always so respectful!
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wow , fascinating interview! What a lovely man he is! Apart from the celebrity information, I was most touched by his comment that he has helped make loved ones look like themselves again. After my mom passed away in hospice a few years ago, she looked terrible, but a wonderful funeral director made her look absolutely beautiful and even a bit glamorous! I never forgot that, so people who do this for a living, whether for celebrities or for us "everyday" people are truly blessed by God to be in the profession of helping the grieving loved ones during such difficult times. One of your best interviews on the channel!
Thank you Scott for sharing Mr. Steen's stories, what a fabulous neighbor to have. I could sit and listen to these all day...
Scott this was fascinating!! I could have listened to hours of you and Mr. Steen talking! I hope you'll do another video with him in the future. Thank you and wonderful job!
Mr. White is a man with class! Thank you for handling our loved ones with integrity and grace...loved what you said about your handling of Minnie Ripperton.💜🙏🏾
I love how he keeps all the details private and doesn't exploit the Deceased or Their Family. I know for sure Dorothy Stratton was horrible abused before he used a shotgun. May they all rest in peace
1st day of my retirement, my friend, and I can't think of a better way to start it off than listening to this. I have always wanted to go to Palm Springs (I'm from Canada). You and I would get on like a house on fire, I just know it.
Congratulations on your retirement--enjoy every minute of it!
Great Show💛💟💛
Enjoy your retirement
Rock on! Enjoy your time, lady of leisure!
Palms Springs is wonderful. I spent some time there to see a friend. When I was there, they had a giant Marilyn Monroe statue.
FANTASTIC INTERVIEW, MIKE SEEMS A LOVELY, COMPASSIONATE AND CARING MAN,👍👍
Scott, You mentioned Pete Duel when looking through the one death certificate book and Pete Duel is a forgotten actor from the series "Alias Smith and Jones (1971-1973). It weird to hear his name mentioned. He would be a great subject for a video on his life and death at 31 in 1971. I'm a fan of his.
I agree, though I think he’s buried back where his family were from, not in California so I don’t know if Scott could visit him? Though maybe his house
I adored him! I was 13 when he died and me and my group of friends were devastated 😥
@@ilanarhian Yeah he's buried in Penfield New York.
@@pamelaJoyce384 I was 5 months old when he died but me and my dad used to watch the reruns
@@Leola-yk4oq I’ve always wanted to go back and watch again. My 13 year old heart was so broken when he died that I’ve never tried to look for reruns.
Mike is so lovely and so professional. What a gent
I love going to Westwood every time I visit LA. The many LA cemeteries make me feel like I'm getting to know all my fave golden age celebs
Excellent Scott! Please, please do a part 2!!
I’m going to Pierce Brothers for the first time in two weeks. I’ve wanted to visit for years now. This video was a great watch in preparing for my trip.
FABULOUS!! Thanks very much, Mike....and thank you, too, Scott...!! 😃
What a find. Thanx so much. Paying my respects to my favorite director, John Cassavetes, has been on my bucket list for years and I finally got to do it last summer. I was hoping you’d talk about his service. Thanx again, fascinating interview.
What a professional kind and gentle man. This was another interesting video Scott that you do so well. I had visited Westwood when myself and my family went to California. Your right when you say people do like to visit and see where Marilyn is buried. When we were in LA we went for the old Hollywood places, lunch at the Chateau Marmont , dinner and lunch at Musso's and of course a tour of the Paramount Studio. We even stayed at a 1930's Airbnb in West Hollywood. What a great time it was and I will never forget it.
Can you take me?
Scott you make interviewing look easy, but considering all the awkward interviews I’ve seen and/or heard, I’ve decided it must be a skill. Very well done. Kudos to both of you. Would love a part 2!
This interview was beyond wonderful. Loved the stories and you asked all the questions I would have! (Well, if I knew to ask them!)
This man is a gift! Having such a caring soul to guide you through the process is a priceless blessing. I'm sure Mike served every family he worked with with kindness and care when they needed it most. ❤
Thank you for doing this interview! You're the best Scott!
Scott, this was such a lovely interview to listen to. Thank you for taking time to interview Mr. Steen. Hearing the trust that people had with him and his discretion was so heartwarming.
This was an interesting interview. Mr. Steen is a gentleman the way he discussed working with various high profile people, and handling their loved one's funeral arrangements. He is a handsome man as well! Scott you are a class act in everything that you do! Thank you for your super videos! They are always very fascinating, and every time I get a chance to watch your videos, I'm always glued to my computer to listening to you! Best to you!
My Mom bought her "condo" (as she called it) in the Sanctuary of Devotion at Westwood in 1981. We laid her to rest there in 2006. My Dad still has roses delivered to my Mom every week. I love visiting.
My Mother called hers and My StepDads "The Penthouse Suite". They're in a mausoleum here in Gardendale , Alabama, on the Top floor. Poppa passed in 2007. Mother in 2022.
(When they bought it Poppa said "now, Anna, you're scared of heights, soooo"...she said "WAIT! you're right!, but,.... hey, I'm gonna need a little excitement then". 😂 They were so crazy!
Your Dad sounds like an Amazing man!
Your Dad is so sweet! I’m sure she appreciates it!
What a lovely man, thank you Scott for a great video
Roy Orbison is also buried in an unmarked grave, not too far from Don Knotts (if memory serves me right)
Makes my heart break not having a maker for Roy Orbison!!! Such a magnificant singer, and wonderful and kind human being!!!
His second wife had no respect for his grave that makes me so sad.HE WILL ALWAYS BE MY NUMBER 1 SINGER OF ALL TIME.MAY HE RIP.LOVE HIS VOICE SO MUCH.🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜😇😇😭😭
@sharonstephenson I don't know why he doesn't have a marker. I know some celebrities prefer to be buried in anonymity as they sure had none while they were alive. That said, he has a son and other family and I'm sure if they wanted to they could have one done. Maybe it was in Roy's Will or made known to the family he didn't want one or wanted it to be delayed. Sometimes, when the family doesn't agree on a stone, that delays a marker as well. I don't know the circumstances but at least we can all honor him through his music and memory. He had a voice like butter. I also just LOVE the solo tribute KD Lang did to him of Cryin'. It is moving and outstanding. The lines he would have sung when they did it as a duet the year he died, she sang just slightly late. A perfect tribute in my humble opinion. If you haven't heard it, it is worth looking it up.
Just WOW! This conversation was fascinating. So we'll done. Mr. Steen is so down to earth, HONEST and real. I hope you do another with him. Well done!
Wow! I absolutely loved this interview! The stories he could tell - kind of wish I could sit down and just listen. Thanks for sharing, Scott ❤️
Fascinating interview with Mr. Steen and what a fascinating career he had. Enjoyed this very much! Thank you to you both! 💜
I must have watched 'Six Feet Under' five, or six times. Showed a lot of the politics involved in the funeral bussines. Such a great show. Hope you're well, Scott.
I like how they did the show's final episode.
I loved that show. They would lead in with somebody's death every episode. We called that part "Croaker of the Week".
Ohhh, Mr. Michael's!
This entire presentation is fascinating and so neatly produced. Your guest, Mike Steen, had so many interesting anecdotes about a wonderful bygone era in Hollywood. Such a respectful, humble spirit. He would be a delightful guest to enjoy a game of Spades or Hearts with. Thank you both for giving us your time and talent. 24:27 His story about Truman Capote and Joanna Carson is to die for!
Hey Scott! Love what you do. The quote on D Stratton’s grave is Ernest Hemingway. @dearlydeparted
With all the BIG NAME people who he has helped in the sorrows of life. To be as humble as he is, to only help and provide a closing in life. Yes, without a doubt, this is his calling in life. What a great man. Thank you, I truly appreciated and enjoyed this.
Scatter my ashes, l have no personal need for a permanent marker, etc., but your stories are so damn entertaining! Great interview, Scott!
Same here.
CHEAPER!@@lonrgrrl59
Fellow Detroiter, now in San Diego, blah blah blah. Worked my way through college and medical studies by way of funeral home and Wayne County medical examiner work etc. So many memories of so many people places discussions and things by way of this video. Love you, and your channel. This episode was exceptional. Cheers and all the best.
Can you embalm me?
Scott, you are the best. I am known among my small circle of friends as having an encyclopedic knowledge of old Hollywood, but you always have something new and exciting to tell us!
What a lovely gentleman and a great video! Thank you, Scott. ❤
That is a very blessed man to walk into a profession and stay there with satisfaction for the rest of his life.🎉
Thoroughly enjoyed this interview with Mike. Thanks Scott for all you and Troy do.
He seems like a very nice and caring man. I sure he could share a lot more interesting stories and events he experienced in his career. More than I am sure he had time to discuss with you.
This was a revealing and unexpected treat. Great interview and Mike is a sweetheart.
I could listen to both of you talk for hours. Great storytellers! Thank you! 💙
What a great video! Cool to know that he was from Nebraska as I was also born and raised there. 👏💙
Where from neb I'm Omaha neb
@@TamiJohnson-pt9fy I was born in Lincoln but raised in North Platte. 💜
Scott you always do the very best interviews. You have an amazing gift for this. I only wish they each were twice as long and didn't ever have to end. Great job once again Scott!
Poor Marilyn! Nothing but disrespectful men around her even in death 💔🥲
So glad I'm not the only one who had this thought process.
Was thinking the same way
Me, too. 💔
Yep very DISRESPECTFUL
Agreed. I think it was awful that his family allowed that - Marilyn deserves dignity in her final resting place.
Enjoyed this video. I visited the Westwood cemetery 10 years ago to visit dearly departed celebrities and a few of them I had met prior to their death with whom I had some light conversation. Thanks for this great video it brings back memories.
Another great video! Obviously, Mike has the demeanor to serve families during very difficult times. His sincerity definitely comes across.
How wonderful---please do a part 2 !!!!!!!!!!!
Superb interview!! What a stellar conversation between two witty, wise gents. Thank you - & bravo!
I really appreciate how tasteful and respectful this interview is.
My best friend's dad was a funeral director/owner when I was 12. I have seen Batesville caskets in Manila. It is what Batesville Indiana is known for.
Fascinating interview, thanks Scott
This was a great interview. Enjoyed it very much.
I was in LA in 1995. Drove by Westwood. If you blink you will miss it. Did not have time to stop. I always feel like I have been there thanks to you Scott and also thanks to Jordan the Lion too. Mike was really an interesting guy. Great stories.I am going to rewatch the Marilyn video.
MTM's son Ritchie died one month AFTER Ordinary People opened in theaters....
Loved this conversation! What a lovely man Mike Steen is; amazing career.
Thank you!
I could definitely watch a three hour video of this guy. He’s very interesting.
Well done. I think he was very diplomatic in what he shared.
Fantastic chat!
What a fascinating career Mr. Steen had.
One thing about LA is the historical cemeteries. Each one is super fascinating in its own right.
Westwood Cemetery is near where I live; once a month I take a stroll there... love the place.
Thank you Scott.
Always pure joy to watch your videos.
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Marilyn Monroe got little respect when alive and respecting the dying wishes of the man buried above her is more disrespect. If I were her close relative, I'd have her moved.
See my comment above about horrid Hugh Hefner: he’s just as disgusting!
At the cost of the cemetery. This should not have been allowed. She was a beautiful lady that deserved respect.
And, what is puzzling to me is his wife was okay with that!! It is creepy and so disrespectful, in my opinion.
@@melaniemansfield3319allowed not aloud.
move the other guy. she was there first and should not have to move because of the other family.
What a great guy... thanks for this Scott!
This was awesome Scott!! Thank you!!😊
Well done, Scott. Mike is a class act.
Very respectfully done. I thank you both for a wonderful discussion and memorializing these departed lives. Something we just all deal with. Makes me think of some things that I need to get in order for my own passing. I have a tendency to procrastinate and we know not the day or hour.
Glad you enjoyed it!
This was awesome. Such a in-depth overview of so many superstars. I was glued to my screen the entire time. Thank you so much for this presentation, in fact I saved this to my favorites and will watch this again. Blessings.
This guy is fascinating. I can absolutely believe every thing he says. He is willing to say that he does not know or he didn’t have anything to do with it. He’s not taking credit for anything he didn’t do pr not know about. Great interview. Been there three times beautiful place toe see
Wow Scott, you never cease to amaze. Such a nice man and a great interview. Another great interview by a great Interviewer. A great cemetery to wander. Thanks Scott and hi to Troy.
Glad you enjoyed it! We're fortunate to have such an interesting friend!
@@DearlyDepartedTours you have so many interesting friends. I’m in awe of your repertoire. Thanks for sharing your friends with us.
As always Scott, great job and thanks to Mike for sharing his professional knowledge.
This was very important. I always wanted to know what they did with your organs if you had an autopsy. I enjoyed it and saw a lot of famous people. Keep up the good work.
Scott I have to say the listening to you talk to Mike was so interesting. This was something that i had no idea that all these people were at that cemetery. Thank you again for what you do.
Amazing video thankyou Scott I oould listen to you all day long,Scott I wanted to ask him out of all the celebrity funerals he dealt with which one stood out the most to him ❤❤
I very much enjoyed this talk. Thank you!
My Dad was a Funeral Director in Hollywood decades ago...Before Hollywood Forever was nameed that ...I worked in the TV/motion pic distribution biz in the 70's & 80's... I know I have a book...♡☆ Wild was the funeral biz ...I dobated my body to science & Mom joined tge Neptune Society...Made me wonder as a kid about the 60's movie "The Loved One"...😮
Yes, please write a book!
I really enjoyed listening and watching your video. RIP to all the beautiful people who have passed. Some gone too soon!
You need to come to Hollywood Cemetery in Richmond Virginia. You will see a lot of famous people in there.
That's an awesome cemetery!
What an interesting interview. Such a caring, compassionate man. We should all be so lucky to have someone like him to help in a such a vulnerable time of need. We need more people like him.
Note. Peter Lawford's father is Intered a few miles south at Inglewood Park Cemetery. He could have been placed there with him.
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@Dearly Departed Thank you for this amazing interview with Mr. Steen🙂 It was fascinating to hear the stories he had to share, and did so with so much passion for his work which in the business he is in is so appreciated. Love❤️ & Light☀️ Scott to you and Mr. Steen. I absolutely loved listening to his memories shared and to the great questioned you asked🫶🏻
Thank you Scott!
Wow, such an interesting interview. Your guest is such a classy man, hope most funeral directors are like him.
You need a podcast Scott so interesting
Wow Scott, great video...THANKS. My best friend and I visited LA from Canada in 2004 and we loved the visit to Westwood. PS: Also visiting Errol Flynn's grave in Forest Lawn was AMAZING...."in like Flynn".
I didn't recognize my own mother at her funeral. The funeral home must have done one of those 40 minute embalming. 😢
Scott, please consider a deep dive about William Schneid PHD. That would be very interesting
Oh no. Now, I really understand your comment. So sorry 😞
When I walked in to see my grandma, I about walked back out. I did not think it was her. Somebody decided they'd make her look like a circus clown(make-up). I never saw make-up on her face, except for lipstick. I was floored. It was traumatic!
When I went in to see my grandma I saw that one of her eyes was open. I shut the lid and let the funeral director know and he pulled the curtain and put some better stitches in. I'd rather it have been me than others discovering this as I was a former cosmetologist and was a nurse at the time and did family and friend's hair and makeup for their funeral's, I'm sorry that happened to you. I was always worried that I wouldn't do a good job as that was the last memory of people seeing them. I took my time and didn't leave until I was satisfied that I did well.