the fact that he wish other funeral directors wouldnt call embalming device other names like the movie kissed did, pretty much shows of how professional and respectable funeral director he is. hes amazing.
The mention of 'authorized' persons is one of the most heartbreaking things about a death. Suddenly your loved one becomes the property of the government in a way. You can't dress them, wash them, dig a hole and bury them in their favorite spot even if you own the land. They aren't yours anymore. I considered it to be a great privilege to be allowed back into the cremation room to push the button on the machine fir my mother. I had the courage to ask because of Caitlyn Doughty.
@@erynlasgalen1949 i am glad your country has that system. With a highly toxic family (including psychopaths), I would be glad if some authority took responsibility to have me buried respectfully and properly. Not all family is good. The dead body is voiceless. So some authority has to assure their rights.
Seriously. Time to move to where he is😂🤣 I feel like he would make my passing that little bit less traumatic for my family. That's enough of a reason to move I think😂😂
During a walk through a graveyard I once read an epitaph that has stuck with me for over 45 years. " Behold my friends as you walk by, as you are now, so once was I. As i am now, you must be, prepare for death and follow me". Freaked me out so much, I still remember it.
@@internal.inferno2088 possibly deep down we know that the ground has been consecrated for eternal and peaceful rest. We know that, even if for only a little while, people come to visit, express their missing us. Many cultures still visit the departed loved once a year with food and song, picnics, children laughing and playing among the stones. For many, this is a comfort that even though our shells are shed, there is still something left to participate with the ones left behind. I also firmly believe that evil can not reside there for the aforementioned reasons. Just my thought on why I enjoy that splendid peace of land.
I mean, corpse stealing is a huge way in which medical breakthroughs were made in the past and how we took steps to better understand the human body... which is what, in turn, allowed us to move toward modern medicine. It was a necessary evil at times when there are no body donations (as was the case very often in the past due to religious beliefs). Things are very different now, but it's still easy believe that he'd understand the importance as a mortician.
When you recognize that one person that's already dead may have the potential to save thousands of living people, it's not really a hard moral choice to make, lol.
When my partner died - he was very knowledgable about Egyptology. So I worked with the mortician to wrap him in a shroud, and tied gold ribbons around like a mummy binding. Plus anointing with Myrth and Frankensence. Everybody who knew him said he looked wondrrful in his finery. It was the last and best gift I could give him.
Eh, Wired probably has a set amount of wardrobe options for stuff like this. Then the guest can pick through those, trying them out prior and seeing if the fit is comfortable enough to want to sit through a whole video recording in. Either way though, the vest/pants combo is a bold and interesting move, with a beautiful wool weave, looks very lightweight and comfortable. I also love the subtle patten on the shirt which looks to be a decent cotton, possibly a blend. (The tie is also a wool it looks like.) So, I'd call it a win in the wardrobe choices/department.
Last November my grandpa passed away and Victor was the mortician who worked on his body for the funeral. He was very nice and provided an amazing goodbye to my grandpa. He is actually this nice and understanding in real life. Thank you Victor!
it's funny how the movie scenes sometimes feel almost disturbing but then Victor jumps in, explains everything and makes it sound like a daily normal task
I think it's because they basically paint his everyday job as something grim by lighting, music, and overall presentation. "God I hope morticians don't talk like that", says a mortician.
I love that his commentary on Norman Bates having his mom's corpse in the basement is "This would be incredibly illegal" I think the bigger concern is probably the murder.
His understanding of grief is what makes him an amazing mortician. He is really in touch with his feelings but also the impact death can have. He is not doing this by clocking in hours, detached, cold. He is connected, and it's very difficult to stay in connected to overwhelming feelings around death constantly. Kudos to you man!
I'm glad WIRED is listening to everyone and giving this guy more face time. I'm not remotely interested in becoming a mortician yet i've watched all his videos. Great content!!
If you're into Victor, you should check out Caitlin Doughty - her channel is Ask A Mortician and she makes videos similar to these as well as a whole fascinating range of other content. She's fantastic and if you like these, you'll almost definitely love her too.
It's entertainment, that's why people watch it. Or are you interested in being a overgrown manchild by watching Jersey Shore? Not that I endorse watching Fake Reality TV, but your point makes not much sense when you watch something you'll either watch for entertainment or education. These videos are educational, but moreso entertainment. You won't either want to be a archeologist or cartographer just having an interest in National Geographic.
I'm studying Mortuary Science and also played the game! I can say that it's relatively accurate overall, there are some things of course like the incision along the neck for the embalming fluid cannula was way too high and unnecessarily long. Also the person would be washed before embalming would occur. But those are some examples of little inconsistencies.
I've had two funerals this year. The first was my boyfriend, his eyes weren't completely closed and you could see some sort of glue on his mouth, he looked pale and yellowish like when he passed away (I saw him pass away) and I think that even if he looked like he was just asleep, nothing would have taken my pain away (Nothing can), but I wonder how it would have been had he had more preparation. The second was my Grandmother, very recent, actually. When I looked at her, all I felt was some sort of peace. She looked like she was sleeping and looked as huggable as always. They were very different funerals, with very different preparation if I may say, yet... I can only say thanks to be able to see them. You're very cool Victor, and all morticians, your job is important for all and I value it so much.
You have a defective lifeform if it cant understand the concept of death I should know my fist memory is fearing for my life in the back of the vehicle driven by a suicidal parent
@@SourceOfTheRightArm i’m genuinely sorry that you experienced that. and i hope you’ve healed or learn to. but not everybody understands or experiences death at a young age.
19:18 I can't get over the fact how Mr. Sweeny is all smiles and likeable while he continues for half a minute to give us tips on how to steal our dead grandpa through a hospital window. I'm crying laughing.
if you’re interested in more death related content you should check out the channel ask a mortician, if you haven’t already. i’d say it’s a bit of a different vibe than what victor does in these videos, but just as informative and easy to watch :)
Somebody on his other video said: "Imagine Victor M. Sweeney at his own funeral. He sees how the funeral director is preparing his body, wakes up and says, *"No no no, you're doing it wrong!"*
I know someone who knows someone who knows someone who has been told by the Great Grand Master that all masters in the guild of undertakers, gravediggers and grave keepers will reach the point where they will embalm themselves and lay themselves to eternal rest.
My mother-in-law wanted to be buried in a paint can. She had a wicked sense of humor. In fact, her funeral was the funniest thing I’ve ever seen. She would’ve loved it. The rabbi was 98 years old and continually got her name wrong and one of her sons would walk up to the pulpit and correct him quietly each time. It got to a point where it could have been a Woody Allen movie. Anyway, mother-in-law has been on our shelf in a paint can ever since.
@@Notawesomeatall7 it's actually not as enforced in reform judaism! it's definitely still more common to be buried in less progressive areas but it's definitely not completely prohibited
My sister and I viewed my father in his casket prior to the funeral. I remarked that he looked like he was merely asleep, which I imagine was the mortician's intention. So, they did a good job.
It was the same way with my great aunt. She looked like she was just taking a nap. She didn't have her hearing aids in, though. It was the only time I had seen her without them.
@@vickiweber4718 I'm thinking she won't need them anymore. So while she was living, she never napped without having her hearing aids in? It's funny what a person notices. Sorry for your loss.
@@coldblue9mm Not who you’re replying to but got to thinking about it - if you’re hearing impaired and napping, it’s probably a good idea to keep any hearing aids in so that you can hear potential fire alarms, doorbells, phone calls, etc.
@@cedar4539 What makes you think he's a sociopath? If it's his job, you're ignorant. People working with the dead tend to have more empathy than the average person.
This guy is the most well-spoken and kind-sounding expert you guys have do these videos for you. He always comes off like he's genuine in his care for what he does and it really comes across in these videos.
When my mom passed, I got to learn first hand just how kind some morticians/funeral directors are. I told them bluntly that I had no money and we have yet to find her insurance and they did everything in their power to find me the cheapest, happiest solution possible. My mom currently sits in my living room in a plastic box (the same one he showed) happily awaiting the scattering of her ashes because of good people like Mr. Sweeney
Victor's back!!! Please ask him to do a video talking about himself, how he got into the profession, his schooling, his most interesting stories on the job, if anything shakes him or makes him queasy anymore, if he's got lots mortician friends, literally anything! Love this guy and need more Victor videos!
When my sister was murdered, I was the only member of the family who didn't view her body before she was cremated. I couldn't make myself go into that room. I have an eidetic memory and I know it would have been traumatizing. That scene in my memory, even, of trying to decide whether to go in (without the further pain of seeing her lying dead) stills haunts me and sometimes I wonder if I should have gone in anyway. When my awful abusive father died, I had needed to see for myself to believe it and heal. It's different somehow, when it's someone like your little sis and she was taken senselessly by an unhinged ex.
I’m sorry that your loved one had to go like that. I truly believe that if you couldn’t bring yourself to see her like that it was because she didn’t want you to have that memory permanently ingrained in your head forever.
I will give what happened to me when I went in and shouldn't have with my mom. I was only 17 when she died, when I got to the hospital I was ready to see her, my older sister pleaded with me not to, that I did not want to see her in the shape she was in, I thought she was exaggerating when she was saying how bad our mom looked., she said she can't tell me no if I absolutely wanted to go in that room, so I went. I went in, saw her, was absolutely shocked and terrified, screamed, then ran out. The whole year afterwards I was a complete mess, I couldn't get the image out of my head, I even ended up in a teenager psych ward for 4 days because I couldn't remove the image. Things slowly got better after the first year but it took many more years for me to get over being so traumatized, and seeing the image almost every time I tried to sleep. I am 38 now and thinking about it still bothers me, the image is faded, even if I think about it now it is blurry, but part of the trauma is still there. Sorry this was kind of long, but I wanted to share my experience and say I wish I could take it back by even going in the room in the first place.
I went in to see my great grandmother and I wish I hadn't for the very reason you just gave for not seeing your sister. In your case, I think you made the right choice. Don't give yourself a hard time over it, I'll likely do the same for the rest of my family members and have done with subsequent grandparents. I'm glad of it.
As a mortician in training I don’t know who else (besides morticians) are watching this, but this man is SPOT.ON and teaching me stuff I haven’t learned yet. Thanks for the free education! ☺️
We lowered my mum's coffin down on canvas straps and chucked in a handful of dirt before stepping away. Strangely, in the weeks and months afterwards, I found it comforting to be able to say "we buried her" rather than "she was buried". It is important to have played a role in the process.
the only funerals I've been to were my great grandparents (died in 2018 and 2019, when I was 16 and 17 respectively). We threw in a rose and a handful of dirt each for each of them and it was just a really nice thing. They were buried in the same plot one on top of the other and so they share a gravestone, because that's what my great granddad wanted. He died of a broken heart almost exactly a year after my grandnanna passed pretty suddenly, it was nice to be able to reunite them after watching him struggle.
This man should have his own UA-cam channel or television show if he wishes because he is educating people and it’s very clear it with a lot of kindness.
Check out "Ask a Mortician" channel on UA-cam. She is so empathetic and caring and interesting. These conversations need to become less taboo, and she covers such an amazing range of material.
@@Skittenmeow imagine if they collaborated- and discussed their views on the death industry. I’d watch it and I’m sure I’d learn something new to think about.
i love the fact that he is so open to using anything as an urn, especially because of the price. since i couldn't afford anything more than the little crappy plastic box he showed, my dad's ashes are kept in a cookie jar i found at a thrift store that, by the smell of it, was almost definitely used to store mary j at some point, which i think he would have gotten an absolute kick out of.
So true about the glasses. When my first husband died there was an open casket and the funeral director did not put his glasses on, I had the exact same reaction!🥺
Wired knows what their audience wanted and they delivered Just want to point out this guy has the same voice and cadence as Louis Rossman on YT maybe?? Anyone wanna back me up? Also holy s&%t! The ending message Mr. Sweeney had was a whole lot deeper than just a mortician reacting to video clips. Pretty powerful message!
Gotta say I agree with the first part but can't see the likeness to Rossman what so ever, a NY ayy ayy ohh ayy im walkin' here vs fine combed intellectual Not saying Rossman is dumb, obviously he is not. Just the, style, you know?
Oh my gosh he does! Louis is so quick to the point and smart, so is Victor! That’s a really good comparison. Also Louis is also kinda…handsome to me. So I guess those two gentlemen are my type 😂
Literally every time I watch it that scene and the "Where are his glasses?? He can't see without his glasses!! Put his glasses back on!!" Ugh 😭😭😭😭 Always gets me
The actors jumping a little during the rifle volley at the military funeral is very accurate. Many civilians aren't used to how loud firearms are in real life, and while the firing party knows when to fire the salute it often takes the mourners by surprise.
My mom, my sister, and I have all had experience with firearms. We still jumped at the first shot for my dad's, even though we were given a heads up when it was to be, so, yes. Completely accurate, even if the attendees have firearm experience. While it's not a full 21 gun salute, it was 7 members each firing 3 volleys, so a total of 21 'shots'. They then gathered the shells which were handed to my mom in a nice drawstring bag. My sister and I each have one of the shells.
As a funeral director, this was thoroughly enjoyable. His conclusion was absolutely fantastic. Thank you, Victor, for doing such a good job of presenting our profession to the world. Looking forward to more videos in the future!
Mr. Sweeney easily the most down to earth, eloquent, and best dressed mortician I've seen. I could watch countless videos of him someone get this man syndicated.
What I especially love about Sweeney is that every single clip was a opportunity to teach viewers how things are handled in his field. He doesn't laugh at the scene or how ridiculous/wrong things might be. Instead he's just like 'rather than how it is done here in this clip, it would actually be more like this and this is why'. Every video with Sweeney involved has been so informative and interesting.
Hey :D former mortician! I've played it and it's fairly accurate as far as noting injuries, setting the facial features with eye caps and wiring the jaw shut (completely accurate methods), making incisions, mixing chemicals, and even aspirating the abdominal cavity with the trocar and filling it with more chemicals. The process is well done in the game, with the animations being a little simplistic of course. Overall I was pretty impressed with how accurate everything was! The only difference I noticed right away is that we would typically make the carotid artery incision around the collar bone rather than in the neck itself. It makes it easier to nicely suture the incision afterwards and hide beneath most clothing. That could differ between mortuaries though. The other thing would be what was mentioned in the video about ligature being used to tie off the artery when inserting the arterial tube. :D
This guy knows how to explain things so well. Like when hes showing something he just doesn't point and go that's how it works. He actually has the tools and is like here's what they're using and how it works. Very fascinating subject and a great person to have that obviously loves what he does and also understands how to approach grief the right way. Which makes sense since he said before in another video that he grew up around a lot of death
If you're looking for a mortician with a youtube channel until this guy hopefully makes his own, I'd recommend checking out ask a mortician. Her stuff is wonderful and she's got a fun personality.
personally love how wired keeps bringing him back for more vids. hes genuinely the most enthusiastic person ive seen despite his career and hes so enjoyable to watch
💞i think we both have same view about him it reminds me years back when i lost a friend in the middle of wars i spent two days with his body no one to help out.
I really hope Wired keeps bringing him back, he's one of the best guests. It's so obvious he loves what he's doing, and I could listen to him talk about anything for hours!!
He loves what he's doing and he is very thoughtful and kind. I thought listening to a mortician would be creepy, and weird. I couldn't have been more wrong on that.
I’m a funeral director as well. The next time anyone feels the need to call us all sorts of bad things remember what he said. We are taking care of your loved one when you can’t. And it doesn’t matter what time of day or holiday we are there to serve. I have gotten so much hate the past couple years just because of my job title and I’m tired of it
I love how caring and thoughtful he is throughout the whole process. During such a tough time in our lives, he seems like he would be a lovely and helpful Funeral Director to have.
The attention to detail that he touches on with Hill House is so astounding, like even the angle of the head. It’s exciting when shows I already love get stuff like that right.
When my father passed unexpectedly in May, we were lucky enough that a family friend was the funeral director that would be taking care of my father(they served together on the local fire department). When he called, he said “bring a full set a clothes including socks and underwear, and bring his glasses, I can’t stand seeing him without his glasses”
My mom passed in March. She was always so adamant about not being buried in her glasses. She thought it was so tacky, because people don’t sleep in them…😏 I’m sorry for your loss, and happy your father’s close friend could be the one to take care of him and your family. Love to you 🦋
@Joshua Thank you for saying that! My biggest reservation in making these was that I would fail my fellow professionals. There definitely needs to be a voice out there explaining the value of what we do- I’m just glad to have my part in that. +Victor
I am of my age in the last chapter of my life. Unfortunately, I cannot say that it was a masterpiece. Through this video, I begin to think about what the last chapter may be and what the final sentence will be. "He was a good man" would be an honor for me.
@@pklausspk i thought it was disrespectful of them to take pics of Bruce Lees body in HK morgue , suspicious death or not (drugs prolly killed him , he had massive drug addiction)
@@vixenrokana Thank you for kindly asking. When I wrote the comment two months ago I was in doubt. Meanwhile my beloved wife took it away by ending the story. We still love each other but we are too different. This was my third attempt to find a place. I'm quiet a nerd with not so much common interests that would make a woman stay. But I was unhappy too and more than once I thought about leaving. So this is a new start. I found a new place to live and this time maybe I will take more care of myself. Take care of your life!
Never let this man leave. He is so interesting. I could listen for hours. Seriously, please wired he should come back here and there (or regularly haha)
Victor is so fine. That man is handsome and he is intelligent, not to mention his understanding of grief, and the compassion he displays. I'm in love lol
This guy might as well be a University Professor for this science.... His input is so educational, it makes other people explore the profession. Thanks for that!
I remember crying so hard at Thomas Jay's death watching My Girl in the theater. When my grandfather passed a few years ago, at age 92, his funeral services provider also explained he should have his glasses on, as we'd seen him his whole life wearing them. He was absolutely right. Granddad chose a corduroy jacket and a nice shirt and I bought him some slacks that he picked out. He looked great and the mortician did an amazing job with him. Greatly appreciated.
I remember also when my grandpa died, his brother was upset that he didn’t have his glasses so my dad had to go and grab a spare pair of them to calm him down
I cried for more than a day after seeing My Girl in the theater. I am still stressed that no adult mentally prepared me for that. I think that's why, to this day, I give no craps about movie spoilers.
@@itsmenala9087 Thomas J.’s death was deeply saddening and Vada’s response was gut-wrenching. At that age, I didn’t have an earnest understanding of trauma. No one prepared me for it beforehand nor did anyone discuss it with me afterwards like someone probably should have. So I don’t like being surprised in that way when I watch movies.
My grandfather was a mortician. My step-mother was a county Sexton, running all the public cemeteries in the county, and when I was a teenager, I worked for her digging graves, etching headstones, etc. Mr. Sweeney, you've made a good presentation here. Death makes people uncomfortable, but the more we are able to talk and educate each other the better it will be.
It's really really hard and sometimes maybe less. But denial of it and then not keeping preparations in mind is probably worse. I've denied the fact that my grandma will pass away eventually for ages. Probably cause she is our only parent since childhood took care of us.But sadly I've been busy not being able to visit her quite often and building up guilt. But accepting the fact that she would eventually have to leave us and that all we can do is create good memories with her and for her has helped. It's a grounding feeling.
Awesome. My mom is in the funeral business, she sells properties, caskets, etc. A lot of her customers are in denial until they realize having everything prepared will cause less stress in the long run. I’ve picked my own casket at 11 😂 a lot of people find that weird but they will never understand.
Ikr! Its one of the two movies that I have a love/hate feeling towards. (The other being Five Feet Apart) And I think the reason that Thomas isn't wearing his glasses is that maybe they couldn't find them. His glasses had fallen on the ground at the end of the scene and he probably tried to run away and wasn't near the hive when he was found.
I could listen to him talk about this all day. I just find it so fascinating and he's obviously very good at his job. High key want him to make a podcast or something.
dude is the only person that I could watch 27 minutes of and not have to glance at my phone or check something else once in a while. Oddly entertaining and he didn't do anything but talk.
I can listen to this man all day, so much knowledge on a "controversial" topic. The way he speaks makes you change your impression of morticians and just the whole funeral business
most of us within the industry have the same attitude towards life and death as this gentleman. whenever he spoke about why we do what we do and the feelings he has towards the industry as a whole and the families that he serves, I found that my answers or my thoughts were basically exactly the same as his. I promise you we're not greedy vultures. our salary isnt crazy high considering some of the things we have to see and/or do. its actually pretty much within the average salaries for people my age in this part of the world. we do what we do purely because we care. majority of the time we end up working in the industry because we lost a loved one at a young age and the funeral director that was taking care of us and our family was super lovely and left a lasting impression upon us that made us want to follow in their footsteps. Or, along a similar line and this is what happened for me, we lost someone and they hadnt been looked after as well as we would have wanted and we want to do better for families in the future and make sure they dont have the experience that we did. ultimately we pick this job because of how much we care. i whole heartedly treat every deceased as if they were my own family. please know that 99% of us are like this man. we dont do what we do for the money or to take advantage. i couldnt even count the amount of times ive embalmed for free and not charged the family a penny. i actually make a loss when i do that because i still have to pay for my chemicals and supplies. if a family wants to see their loved one, looking peaceful and not tormented by disease (for example) but they dont have the money to pay for embalming or the use of our chapel of rest, ive embalmed for free and let them have all the time in the world within the chapel with their loved one. you cant put a price on closure. or grief. i hope ive given you maybe a bit more insight and shown you that we're just normal people and the vast majority of us aren't here trying to make as much money out of your grief as possible, of preying on your ignorance of the industry :)
@@lunarose8320 very glad they have this gentleman representing us, most problematic part of being a mortician is that the general public think were creepy or whatever, and like you said, were all like this lad, 👍🏻
He is SO cute 😍 I have a terminal illness and I don't have much longer. I also watched my Dad die of cancer. I'm terrified of dying to the point where it's been disrupting what's left of my life, but listening to him explain the process after death really is comforting for some reason. The unknown is what scares me about death but He pulls the curtain back on death for us so it's not as scary.
Enjoy the rest of your ride girl. Ill be thinking of you randomly wherever you are, kind stranger. I hope you find all the answers to life on whatever side you end up on. Hopefully its a happy one. We all will never know until our number is up. Praise to the universe for you.
@@SingerCommaMarla thank you that means a lot to me!!! I think the hardest part is I'm a single mom and I have a little girl and I just hope I will see her again someday ❤💔 thank you for your kind words ❤
@Keely I'm glad these videos have helped in their own way. The thing I think about is that we'll all get there some day, each one of us- all in our own time, some sooner, some later. It gives me some comfort to know that death is universal and inevitable. As St. Anselm of Canterbury so succinctly put it, (I paraphrase) "Death is the most certain thing and yet the most uncertain as to when it will come." So do your best with the time you have: hold your child close and let her be a part of it with you. It's those sorts of "crucible" moments that, when handled with grace, create amazing human beings. I will pray for you and your daughter. (I'm glad you think I'm cute. Haha.) +Victor
Your professionalism and empathy are highly admirable. Death is a cause of anguish and anxiety for me, having to hold my husband ( of nearly 40 years) hand as he took his last breath after a stroke, and my younger brother being there beside him as he took his last breath due to leukemia at 33. Our family tradition has always been cremation, as by choice we believe it to be right for us.Watching your videos somehow eases my anxiety towards my own death, you are very calming and informative and compassionate. Thats a wonderful quality.
I've begun watching these because my adopted daughter wants to become a mortician, and so I use this man's informative interviews to educate myself enough to have conversations with her about the industry. THANK YOU FOR THESE VIDEOS.
"For a corpse, he looks great. For a live person, not so much"
Story of my life
Lol
Omfg that just killed me 🤣
He said that line literally right after I finished reading this 😂
LMAO
LMFAO
His name couldn’t have literally been a better fit for his job. Victor Sweeney just seems too perfect
That's Victor M. Sweeny, don't forget the M.
RIGHT
@@HOTD108_ the M is fundamentally important
Amen
@@potatotoes M is for mortician
This dude totally needs his own channel. He’s just super oddly entertaining and likable.
Yes!
Agreed
Totally.
I agree! He's hilarious!
He has a channel. Look for it in the comments he replies to
I would trust this guy 100% with mine and my families remains, he seems like he genuinely respects his job
He's a Great Scientist, extremely dedicated, professional, smart, also funny. SAVAGE
This mans professionalism is the peak of what his job entails.
the fact that he wish other funeral directors wouldnt call embalming device other names like the movie kissed did, pretty much shows of how professional and respectable funeral director he is. hes amazing.
You have to be careful with the pressure, no second chances. interesting director
doing splits on it
I like how he talks about how you can’t just steal your grandpa’s body, but then also gives tips on how to get a body out the window a bit easier.
Just yeeted out of the window and use it as a Halloween decoration
Came here to say this exact thing. Sweeney is great.
He doesn't condone, but he does understand.
The mention of 'authorized' persons is one of the most heartbreaking things about a death. Suddenly your loved one becomes the property of the government in a way. You can't dress them, wash them, dig a hole and bury them in their favorite spot even if you own the land. They aren't yours anymore. I considered it to be a great privilege to be allowed back into the cremation room to push the button on the machine fir my mother. I had the courage to ask because of Caitlyn Doughty.
@@erynlasgalen1949 i am glad your country has that system. With a highly toxic family (including psychopaths), I would be glad if some authority took responsibility to have me buried respectfully and properly. Not all family is good.
The dead body is voiceless. So some authority has to assure their rights.
Being a mortician seems like a composite of several jobs : a beautician, carpenter, scientist, doctor, therapists, stylist.
And a forensic.
So the best job for a serial killer to go undetected would be mortician
_Noted_
Yup. My best friend does it allll
Carpenter? You do realize they don't make the caskets themselves right?
@@RosesAndIvy maybe the mortician will have to fashion unwanted wood into something more respectable
I've said this once and I'll say it again: if this man isn't my mortician, I'm not dying.
Seriously. Time to move to where he is😂🤣 I feel like he would make my passing that little bit less traumatic for my family. That's enough of a reason to move I think😂😂
Lol 😂😂😂
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Im dead
At this point I wonder what is his waiting list like because of this video and the series
During a walk through a graveyard I once read an epitaph that has stuck with me for over 45 years. " Behold my friends as you walk by, as you are now, so once was I. As i am now, you must be, prepare for death and follow me". Freaked me out so much, I still remember it.
At least I'm not the only one who walks through graveyards. They are so comforting. Don't ask me why 🤷
@@internal.inferno2088 possibly deep down we know that the ground has been consecrated for eternal and peaceful rest. We know that, even if for only a little while, people come to visit, express their missing us. Many cultures still visit the departed loved once a year with food and song, picnics, children laughing and playing among the stones. For many, this is a comfort that even though our shells are shed, there is still something left to participate with the ones left behind. I also firmly believe that evil can not reside there for the aforementioned reasons. Just my thought on why I enjoy that splendid peace of land.
That sounds so freaking cool, I would love to see that.
That is so creepy, because it's true😟😟😮
Nope don't like that
I just can't get enough of this guy. Nobody can. Hot mortician Victor Sweeney. Internet idol.
the name is so fitting
Big same.
Mortician Icon
Victor *M.* Sweeney.
If only he wasn't a religious... pro-lifer
We can't get enough of him and wired knows it
I’ve had enough.
@@DiaryOfaCell You are free to not watch it 😌
True that
YESSS
SAME - INSTANT click!!!
I love how he's more offended by cocky morticians with a knight's complex than people stealing corpses
I mean, corpse stealing is a huge way in which medical breakthroughs were made in the past and how we took steps to better understand the human body... which is what, in turn, allowed us to move toward modern medicine. It was a necessary evil at times when there are no body donations (as was the case very often in the past due to religious beliefs). Things are very different now, but it's still easy believe that he'd understand the importance as a mortician.
Makes sense that he has thought about the morals of being a mortician more than the morals of stealing corpses
Yeah, priorities lol
One make him and his profession look bad. The other just makes the thieves look bad.
When you recognize that one person that's already dead may have the potential to save thousands of living people, it's not really a hard moral choice to make, lol.
When my partner died - he was very knowledgable about Egyptology. So I worked with the mortician to wrap him in a shroud, and tied gold ribbons around like a mummy binding. Plus anointing with Myrth and Frankensence.
Everybody who knew him said he looked wondrrful in his finery.
It was the last and best gift I could give him.
I’m so sorry for your loss❤️ This was so sweet and wonderful to read, and I’m glad you could do that to comfort yourself and him❤️❤️❤️
I'm sure he was very proud to have such kingly attires to undertake his journey to the fields of reeds!
Wow thats awesome Im a massive WW2 fan. Might get buried as an SS officer.
@@icmull might wanna rethink that.
This is so beautiful 🥺😭 I'm so sorry for your tremendous loss 💔
Not only am I fascinated by everything this guy does, his drip is never off and I respect that
Drip?
@@Maidaseu his outfit
Well he's paid to dress dead people it would be a shame if his outfits are worse than them
He only drips because he oozes
Agreed
Everyone, let's just get Victor his own show in WIRED already. We definitely want to see him as more than just a guest on occasional videos.
OMG YES PLS
What content tho?
Y E S !
@@johnreydelatorre3450 death, bereavement, burial, funeral
I don’t think he’d have time for that though considering he’s an actual mortician
Dude came with a bow tie this time. He’s definitely playing to the crowd at this point.
As he should. (｡•̀ᴗ-)✧
That swoop vest is pretty snazzy too.
Mad?
Eh, Wired probably has a set amount of wardrobe options for stuff like this. Then the guest can pick through those, trying them out prior and seeing if the fit is comfortable enough to want to sit through a whole video recording in.
Either way though, the vest/pants combo is a bold and interesting move, with a beautiful wool weave, looks very lightweight and comfortable. I also love the subtle patten on the shirt which looks to be a decent cotton, possibly a blend. (The tie is also a wool it looks like.) So, I'd call it a win in the wardrobe choices/department.
This dude is not playing to any crowd since he knows the audience.
Last November my grandpa passed away and Victor was the mortician who worked on his body for the funeral. He was very nice and provided an amazing goodbye to my grandpa. He is actually this nice and understanding in real life. Thank you Victor!
The way this guy talks and dresses radiates “cool science teacher”. So happy they brought him back for another video
Hey I've seen you before, do you watch dead meat or czs world
@@Lol-ik8xm yes i love dead meat!
El Hopper, yeah I was gonna say you're slowly becoming someone I see in a bunch of comment sections. I guess we have the same taste.
HOT SCIENCE TEACHER
You’re everywhere omg hi 😭 again
it's funny how the movie scenes sometimes feel almost disturbing but then Victor jumps in, explains everything and makes it sound like a daily normal task
I think it's because they basically paint his everyday job as something grim by lighting, music, and overall presentation. "God I hope morticians don't talk like that", says a mortician.
He's kinda like the Dr Mike of morticians
Dear Wired - please give this man a regular UA-cam series or something of that nature. I will literally watch anything you put him in.
I SECOND THIS
Same.
Agree!
No literally he’s so wholesome
Absolutely! Victor seems really nice and a very interesting guy.
I love that his commentary on Norman Bates having his mom's corpse in the basement is "This would be incredibly illegal" I think the bigger concern is probably the murder.
I was thinking when he said that, “it’s only illegal if they know she died”
Did he murder her though?
@@dasik84 yes
His understanding of grief is what makes him an amazing mortician. He is really in touch with his feelings but also the impact death can have. He is not doing this by clocking in hours, detached, cold. He is connected, and it's very difficult to stay in connected to overwhelming feelings around death constantly. Kudos to you man!
Said it all.
In another video of his he said he love his job cuz growing up people were always dying so I assume he would know quite a bit about it
Agree 100%
Btw you're very beautiful Latika
@@cartoonhanks1708 um little creepy there mate
I'm glad WIRED is listening to everyone and giving this guy more face time. I'm not remotely interested in becoming a mortician yet i've watched all his videos. Great content!!
Who would guess they make more of the content that is very popular? It's crazy talk
If you're into Victor, you should check out Caitlin Doughty - her channel is Ask A Mortician and she makes videos similar to these as well as a whole fascinating range of other content. She's fantastic and if you like these, you'll almost definitely love her too.
@@azuradawn5683 hello fellow deathling!
It's entertainment, that's why people watch it. Or are you interested in being a overgrown manchild by watching Jersey Shore?
Not that I endorse watching Fake Reality TV, but your point makes not much sense when you watch something you'll either watch for entertainment or education. These videos are educational, but moreso entertainment. You won't either want to be a archeologist or cartographer just having an interest in National Geographic.
@@BigHalfSteps Shut up
Ask him to play the short horror game called Mortuary's Assistant and to give his critique on the embalming side of the game. Would love to see that.
This needs to be pinned. This needs to be a thing.
I would LOVE to see that
I'm studying Mortuary Science and also played the game! I can say that it's relatively accurate overall, there are some things of course like the incision along the neck for the embalming fluid cannula was way too high and unnecessarily long. Also the person would be washed before embalming would occur. But those are some examples of little inconsistencies.
Boost this!!
^^^
I've had two funerals this year.
The first was my boyfriend, his eyes weren't completely closed and you could see some sort of glue on his mouth, he looked pale and yellowish like when he passed away (I saw him pass away) and I think that even if he looked like he was just asleep, nothing would have taken my pain away (Nothing can), but I wonder how it would have been had he had more preparation.
The second was my Grandmother, very recent, actually. When I looked at her, all I felt was some sort of peace. She looked like she was sleeping and looked as huggable as always.
They were very different funerals, with very different preparation if I may say, yet... I can only say thanks to be able to see them. You're very cool Victor, and all morticians, your job is important for all and I value it so much.
🙏🏼❤
My condolences. I hope you are doing okay now.
So very sorry for your losses...healing is a complicated process...may yours be gentle...
I’m very sorry for your losses. Sending my condolences
I am so sorry to hear this. I'm wishing you all the best with your healing. I hope the best for you. 💟
I love Victor's commentary. He's definitely NOT creepy, he knows his business and he seems like a very likable guy. 🙂
Of course he's not creepy 🤣.
Ok but I rly hope he doesn’t plan my funeral.
@@jamesmylife6578 🤣
@@stephaniebaker6001 Brother Love : "And what is brother Bearers first name ?" , Bearer : "Paul"
@@postersandstuff Haha! Good one! 😁
So obsessed with Victor! When is he starting his own channel? He could literally explain anything and I'd watch the crap out of it!
Agree, his tone of voice is so satisfying to listen. I would spend my free time to watch it all if he has his own YT channel
He could be just like that goth mortician channel
When I die, I want him to take care of my body lol
@@Draculapin I wouldn't need to be dead for that....
Y'all should check out Caitlin Doughty! Her channel is Ask A Mortician and she's incredible! If you like these videos, you're going to love her stuff.
I want to know how he would describe death to a child. He just seems like he would know the best way.
I think he's already talked about the very same thing in another video.
You have a defective lifeform if it cant understand the concept of death I should know my fist memory is fearing for my life in the back of the vehicle driven by a suicidal parent
@@SourceOfTheRightArm That's just incorrect lol. And your own personal experience does not others reality make
@@SourceOfTheRightArm i’m genuinely sorry that you experienced that. and i hope you’ve healed or learn to. but not everybody understands or experiences death at a young age.
@@KuroHebi do you know which video??
19:18 I can't get over the fact how Mr. Sweeny is all smiles and likeable while he continues for half a minute to give us tips on how to steal our dead grandpa through a hospital window. I'm crying laughing.
The fact that this just made me laugh out loud literally is awesome.
Hilarious omg
the like count being 911 its just the icing on the cake for this comment
I thought he would mention the slide board
Oh man, something like this literally happened with my late father, except it was out the back door of the morgue.
This guy is so likeable and entertaining. And something about him is so appropriate to his profession.
It's definitely his clothing
And the name. Victor M. Sweeny sounds like a movie character-
@@turtlemine4613 You mean like the demon barber of Fleet St.?🩸💈💀
He's really sweet and calm
Very well said
We can just collectively agree that he is our favorite mortician
And you’re absolutely righr
the youtube channel ask a mortician is also cool
him and hu tao, definitely
came to the comments just to express this
mine is Caitlin and him
I love this guy.
He's so nice and calm and comforting, he makes death less scary
if you’re interested in more death related content you should check out the channel ask a mortician, if you haven’t already. i’d say it’s a bit of a different vibe than what victor does in these videos, but just as informative and easy to watch :)
@@j.ourney way different vibe, Sweeney rocks
@@johnmillay6790 Different vibe sure, but Caitlyn's whole mission is to take the fear out of death.
@@colinray4186 👍
A person who's often meeting dead people a lot, reminds them that this is where everyone end and one should make the full use of what you have left.
Somebody on his other video said:
"Imagine Victor M. Sweeney at his own funeral. He sees how the funeral director is preparing his body, wakes up and says, *"No no no, you're doing it wrong!"*
something something Monty Python , lol
I know someone who knows someone who knows someone who has been told by the Great Grand Master that all masters in the guild of undertakers, gravediggers and grave keepers will reach the point where they will embalm themselves and lay themselves to eternal rest.
My mother-in-law wanted to be buried in a paint can. She had a wicked sense of humor. In fact, her funeral was the funniest thing I’ve ever seen. She would’ve loved it. The rabbi was 98 years old and continually got her name wrong and one of her sons would walk up to the pulpit and correct him quietly each time. It got to a point where it could have been a Woody Allen movie. Anyway, mother-in-law has been on our shelf in a paint can ever since.
Sounds like a fun family!
That's so amazing. You sound like a great family!
Judaism prohibits cremation so it's interesting a Rabbi would agree to do a funeral where a body was cremation.
I’m so sorry for your loss, but that’s so funny 😭😭
@@Notawesomeatall7 it's actually not as enforced in reform judaism! it's definitely still more common to be buried in less progressive areas but it's definitely not completely prohibited
I hope they keep bringing him back or he gets his own channel. He definitely makes this very educational
Ikr I love vids with him.
@@angelawright-swifte6247 definitely a gem
i think we're just obsessed by how charming this man.. lol
I'd love to see him team up with Caitlyn, who has her own UA-cam channel (@AskAMortician, IIRC?).
he also did do a good job on not making it creepy
My sister and I viewed my father in his casket prior to the funeral. I remarked that he looked like he was merely asleep, which I imagine was the mortician's intention. So, they did a good job.
It was the same way with my great aunt. She looked like she was just taking a nap. She didn't have her hearing aids in, though. It was the only time I had seen her without them.
Same for me.
Sorry for your loss
@@vickiweber4718 I'm thinking she won't need them anymore. So while she was living, she never napped without having her hearing aids in? It's funny what a person notices. Sorry for your loss.
@@coldblue9mm Not who you’re replying to but got to thinking about it - if you’re hearing impaired and napping, it’s probably a good idea to keep any hearing aids in so that you can hear potential fire alarms, doorbells, phone calls, etc.
For a guy with a profession that's considered grim, he seems like a really cheery fellow who appears to truly love his job
casually mentioning he's been doing this since he was eighteen.... an eighteen year old at a mortuary feels like a tim burton movie
The name victor also gives me very tim burton vibes
YES he is the star of a Tim Burton film I swear
His name is a double Tim Burton reference
Well his name is Victor Sweeny…
Funny you mention Tim Burton since the mortician's surname is Sweeney and Burton directed the film adaptation of Sweeney Todd
He is just such an interesting person, I could hear him talk for hours.
It’s all in the looks, trust me 😉
@@cedar4539 What makes you think he's a sociopath? If it's his job, you're ignorant. People working with the dead tend to have more empathy than the average person.
This guy is the most well-spoken and kind-sounding expert you guys have do these videos for you. He always comes off like he's genuine in his care for what he does and it really comes across in these videos.
Him and the insect guy!
Of course he's well-spoken, he talks to spirits
Agreed, he’s so knowledgeable and just pleasant all around! Erik, the linguistics expert is a close second (for me personally).
When my mom passed, I got to learn first hand just how kind some morticians/funeral directors are. I told them bluntly that I had no money and we have yet to find her insurance and they did everything in their power to find me the cheapest, happiest solution possible. My mom currently sits in my living room in a plastic box (the same one he showed) happily awaiting the scattering of her ashes because of good people like Mr. Sweeney
Heck yeah. This is how it is done. I don't believe in "pushing" sales or giving families bills they can't afford.
He really built a fan base here - what a great guy - is he getting a Netflix series yet?
Oooh, yes please do that Netflix lol
No thanks
@@morganjames5180 you mad 🤣
Morticians in movies: dark, evil, somewhat twisted
Him: 😃
More like: 🤓
I know Victor, he works in my hometown. He really is just like this. ❤️
More like: 😄🤵🏻♂️✨
And then there is Karen Greenlee, who is more like the movie trope.
he's so cute
Victor's back!!! Please ask him to do a video talking about himself, how he got into the profession, his schooling, his most interesting stories on the job, if anything shakes him or makes him queasy anymore, if he's got lots mortician friends, literally anything! Love this guy and need more Victor videos!
He talks about this in the video where he answers questions about death.
Absolutely 💯 would love to hear his back story.
When my sister was murdered, I was the only member of the family who didn't view her body before she was cremated. I couldn't make myself go into that room. I have an eidetic memory and I know it would have been traumatizing. That scene in my memory, even, of trying to decide whether to go in (without the further pain of seeing her lying dead) stills haunts me and sometimes I wonder if I should have gone in anyway. When my awful abusive father died, I had needed to see for myself to believe it and heal. It's different somehow, when it's someone like your little sis and she was taken senselessly by an unhinged ex.
My heart goes out to you. I can't imagine how hard it must have been to make that decision. I'm sorry for your loss.
I’m sorry that your loved one had to go like that. I truly believe that if you couldn’t bring yourself to see her like that it was because she didn’t want you to have that memory permanently ingrained in your head forever.
Hugs..your bravery!
I will give what happened to me when I went in and shouldn't have with my mom. I was only 17 when she died, when I got to the hospital I was ready to see her, my older sister pleaded with me not to, that I did not want to see her in the shape she was in, I thought she was exaggerating when she was saying how bad our mom looked., she said she can't tell me no if I absolutely wanted to go in that room, so I went. I went in, saw her, was absolutely shocked and terrified, screamed, then ran out. The whole year afterwards I was a complete mess, I couldn't get the image out of my head, I even ended up in a teenager psych ward for 4 days because I couldn't remove the image. Things slowly got better after the first year but it took many more years for me to get over being so traumatized, and seeing the image almost every time I tried to sleep. I am 38 now and thinking about it still bothers me, the image is faded, even if I think about it now it is blurry, but part of the trauma is still there. Sorry this was kind of long, but I wanted to share my experience and say I wish I could take it back by even going in the room in the first place.
I went in to see my great grandmother and I wish I hadn't for the very reason you just gave for not seeing your sister. In your case, I think you made the right choice.
Don't give yourself a hard time over it, I'll likely do the same for the rest of my family members and have done with subsequent grandparents. I'm glad of it.
As a mortician in training I don’t know who else (besides morticians) are watching this, but this man is SPOT.ON and teaching me stuff I haven’t learned yet. Thanks for the free education! ☺️
Not a mortician! I'm fascinated by this video.
Also not a mortician! But a future client 🙂
Also not a mortician. Love watching videos of this guy.
I could be wrong but I feel like actual morticians might actually be in the minority of viewers of this video
May I ask, why you want to be a mortician, and how you got into this? It’s not something most people think of when asked what they want to do someday…
We lowered my mum's coffin down on canvas straps and chucked in a handful of dirt before stepping away. Strangely, in the weeks and months afterwards, I found it comforting to be able to say "we buried her" rather than "she was buried". It is important to have played a role in the process.
the only funerals I've been to were my great grandparents (died in 2018 and 2019, when I was 16 and 17 respectively). We threw in a rose and a handful of dirt each for each of them and it was just a really nice thing. They were buried in the same plot one on top of the other and so they share a gravestone, because that's what my great granddad wanted. He died of a broken heart almost exactly a year after my grandnanna passed pretty suddenly, it was nice to be able to reunite them after watching him struggle.
@@arisnightingale7801 i’m so sorry for your losses.
I'll hopefilly remember this piece of advice
I just seen myboy cuzzin do this for there dad my heart was shattered for them I'm very proud of u to find the streanth and courage to do so .
Victor Sweeney is the most mortician name I've ever heard.
This man should have his own UA-cam channel or television show if he wishes because he is educating people and it’s very clear it with a lot of kindness.
Check out "Ask a Mortician" channel on UA-cam. She is so empathetic and caring and interesting. These conversations need to become less taboo, and she covers such an amazing range of material.
He would give "hello youtube welcome to my unboxing video" a whole, WHOLE new meaning
@@Skittenmeow imagine if they collaborated- and discussed their views on the death industry. I’d watch it and I’m sure I’d learn something new to think about.
@@mikalin9286 I would love that! Ask. Mortician is a favorite.
This guy is the absolute greatest. Bring him back a million more times please
Check out Caitlin Doughty if you like him
@@TheMilkMan8008 yes I follow her, but does this guy have a channel
i love the fact that he is so open to using anything as an urn, especially because of the price. since i couldn't afford anything more than the little crappy plastic box he showed, my dad's ashes are kept in a cookie jar i found at a thrift store that, by the smell of it, was almost definitely used to store mary j at some point, which i think he would have gotten an absolute kick out of.
i’m so sorry for your loss. i’m sure he would’ve loved it.
@Digby Dooright i’m so sorry for your loss.
So true about the glasses. When my first husband died there was an open casket and the funeral director did not put his glasses on, I had the exact same reaction!🥺
I get so excited every time they bring him on. Mans should have his own show
Wired knows what their audience wanted and they delivered
Just want to point out this guy has the same voice and cadence as Louis Rossman on YT maybe?? Anyone wanna back me up?
Also holy s&%t! The ending message Mr. Sweeney had was a whole lot deeper than just a mortician reacting to video clips. Pretty powerful message!
Exactlyyyy. Finally a channel that actually listens to their audience.
Lmao louis Rossman! Louis basically does the same thing this guy does but with MacBook
Gotta say I agree with the first part but can't see the likeness to Rossman what so ever, a NY ayy ayy ohh ayy im walkin' here vs fine combed intellectual
Not saying Rossman is dumb, obviously he is not. Just the, style, you know?
Bruh, I never figured YOU'D show up in the comments of a video like this, Toast! Not saying that it's bad or anything but wow. Hey, dude, what's up?
Oh my gosh he does! Louis is so quick to the point and smart, so is Victor! That’s a really good comparison. Also Louis is also kinda…handsome to me. So I guess those two gentlemen are my type 😂
My dude finds "My Girl" sad, the amount of respect for this man. That film is soul crushing and I love it. Underrated gem.
I was gonna say the same thing!
I saw it when I was a kid. I was sad for days 😞
Ikr?🥺😔
Anna Chlumsky's acting is on point
Literally every time I watch it that scene and the "Where are his glasses?? He can't see without his glasses!! Put his glasses back on!!" Ugh 😭😭😭😭 Always gets me
The actors jumping a little during the rifle volley at the military funeral is very accurate. Many civilians aren't used to how loud firearms are in real life, and while the firing party knows when to fire the salute it often takes the mourners by surprise.
My mom, my sister, and I have all had experience with firearms. We still jumped at the first shot for my dad's, even though we were given a heads up when it was to be, so, yes. Completely accurate, even if the attendees have firearm experience.
While it's not a full 21 gun salute, it was 7 members each firing 3 volleys, so a total of 21 'shots'. They then gathered the shells which were handed to my mom in a nice drawstring bag. My sister and I each have one of the shells.
As a funeral director, this was thoroughly enjoyable. His conclusion was absolutely fantastic. Thank you, Victor, for doing such a good job of presenting our profession to the world. Looking forward to more videos in the future!
Hey may I ask a personal question? What made you want to be a funeral director? I’m genuinely curious and mean no disrespect
@@jeremyblackwater439 Came here to ask the same. I always wondered about this. Is it perhaps because it was a family profession or something?
@@Fazer_600 I wanna be thrown out of an airplane with a Superman costume on.
Hopefully one day, your entire industry will be extinct and the whole world will switch to natural burial.
@@JordanBlue1 The heck is wrong with your head? How hard is it spinning?
Mr. Sweeney easily the most down to earth, eloquent, and best dressed mortician I've seen. I could watch countless videos of him someone get this man syndicated.
*caitlyn doughty has entered the chat*
Please keep bringing him back, he should have his own show
What I especially love about Sweeney is that every single clip was a opportunity to teach viewers how things are handled in his field. He doesn't laugh at the scene or how ridiculous/wrong things might be. Instead he's just like 'rather than how it is done here in this clip, it would actually be more like this and this is why'. Every video with Sweeney involved has been so informative and interesting.
I think Victor has more than earned his "a good man" status.
agreed!
Yes! Now we all need to write hilariously great epitaphs for him.
"I mean, that really should be the goal of all of us; to just be a good person" -Victor Murphy Sweeney
His name, clothes and just everything it suits him “Victor sweeney” he has an old style clothing andf stuff , the glasses and his way of speech
I would really like to see a mortician see how accurate the mortuary assistant is, minus the demons and stuff, just the embalming part
Hey :D former mortician! I've played it and it's fairly accurate as far as noting injuries, setting the facial features with eye caps and wiring the jaw shut (completely accurate methods), making incisions, mixing chemicals, and even aspirating the abdominal cavity with the trocar and filling it with more chemicals. The process is well done in the game, with the animations being a little simplistic of course. Overall I was pretty impressed with how accurate everything was!
The only difference I noticed right away is that we would typically make the carotid artery incision around the collar bone rather than in the neck itself. It makes it easier to nicely suture the incision afterwards and hide beneath most clothing. That could differ between mortuaries though.
The other thing would be what was mentioned in the video about ligature being used to tie off the artery when inserting the arterial tube.
:D
That’s so neat!
This guy knows how to explain things so well. Like when hes showing something he just doesn't point and go that's how it works. He actually has the tools and is like here's what they're using and how it works. Very fascinating subject and a great person to have that obviously loves what he does and also understands how to approach grief the right way. Which makes sense since he said before in another video that he grew up around a lot of death
This mortician (Victor M. Sweeney) needs to be a regular now! Or at least he should open his own UA-cam channel. He’s so fascinating!
If you're looking for a mortician with a youtube channel until this guy hopefully makes his own, I'd recommend checking out ask a mortician. Her stuff is wonderful and she's got a fun personality.
@@mirroredhour omg yes yes
He does have a channel lol
@@akio_kurowhat is it?
@@Diavelii ua-cam.com/channels/plJzJendfah_GkRTBL1snQ.html
He doesn't have any videos tho lol
personally love how wired keeps bringing him back for more vids. hes genuinely the most enthusiastic person ive seen despite his career and hes so enjoyable to watch
Then check the channel "Ask a Mortician".
ayo, makima pfp
i have this feeling he's a hired actor but also the editing helps
@@Danilo-O i thought that too, but i actually found the website for his practice and he's the real deal
I love how he presents his interesting information in a light hearted and fun way, it's like he's that fun teacher who has a dark sense of humor.
Victor Sweeney gives morticians a good reputation. He seems like such a caring guy.
💞i think we both have same view about him it reminds me years back when i lost a friend in the middle of wars i spent two days with his body no one to help out.
I really hope Wired keeps bringing him back, he's one of the best guests. It's so obvious he loves what he's doing, and I could listen to him talk about anything for hours!!
same when someone is excited to tell you something, I find it even more interesting.
He loves what he's doing and he is very thoughtful and kind. I thought listening to a mortician would be creepy, and weird. I couldn't have been more wrong on that.
I’m a funeral director as well. The next time anyone feels the need to call us all sorts of bad things remember what he said. We are taking care of your loved one when you can’t. And it doesn’t matter what time of day or holiday we are there to serve. I have gotten so much hate the past couple years just because of my job title and I’m tired of it
I'm puzzled, why are you "hated on" and called bad names because you're a funeral director? I've never heard of such a thing!
Why would you be receiving hate? That’s crazy. What you do is super important and you should be appreciated.
@@clatterpigeon3845 people are dumb man, they expect the dude to do it for free? And somehow make a living too? 😂
Tracy, It might not be hate, it could be fear !
@@lisalu910 because some say they charge way to much. thousands. Alot goes to the plot and headstone. nothing to do with the mortician.
I love how caring and thoughtful he is throughout the whole process. During such a tough time in our lives, he seems like he would be a lovely and helpful Funeral Director to have.
How he kept a straight face during the Mrs Bates reveal is beyond me.
He's seen worse probably
@@Y2K_Bugs It's more hilarious than scary in terms of realism.
As funeral directors I’ll tell you right now we’ve seen worse than make up in a movie.
The attention to detail that he touches on with Hill House is so astounding, like even the angle of the head. It’s exciting when shows I already love get stuff like that right.
When my father passed unexpectedly in May, we were lucky enough that a family friend was the funeral director that would be taking care of my father(they served together on the local fire department). When he called, he said “bring a full set a clothes including socks and underwear, and bring his glasses, I can’t stand seeing him without his glasses”
“I can’t stand seeing him without his glasses” really hit me hard
@@maxolson7545 I can tell you that the toughest thing a funeral director will have to do is to take care of a close friend
My mom passed in March. She was always so adamant about not being buried in her glasses. She thought it was so tacky, because people don’t sleep in them…😏
I’m sorry for your loss, and happy your father’s close friend could be the one to take care of him and your family. Love to you 🦋
Thats so lovely
As a teen who lost her father a few days ago, I'm at least glad I can know what to expect at his funeral (though it's going to be rough)
Hey, how did it all go?
Losing a parent is one of those things we'll all do- but it doesn't make it any easier.
I hope you're doing alright.
As a funeral director and embalmer, I really appreciate the tactful way you discuss our profession. Thanks Victor, I can't wait for your next video.
@Joshua
Thank you for saying that! My biggest reservation in making these was that I would fail my fellow professionals. There definitely needs to be a voice out there explaining the value of what we do- I’m just glad to have my part in that.
+Victor
@@victorm.sweeney8828 I subscribed to you. Please start making videos.
I’ll see what I can do.
I just have to find a little time!!
@@victorm.sweeney8828 You provide a valuable service to our country and you do it very well
You look like one too (good thing)
Victor and Ask a Mortician really need to collab because both talk about the subject of death and dead bodies in such a unique and educational way.
I like her a lot, too.
AGREED!
Doubt he needs a partner to split the money. He's doing just fine on his own. You'd make a lousy agent.
@@schrisdellopoulos9244 what
@@schrisdellopoulos9244 Never heard of a UA-cam collab before? You must be new here.
This dude changed the way i think about death.
He is one of the best that wired has ever brought in, and he deserves more attention.
Then watch "Ask A Mortician"
I am of my age in the last chapter of my life. Unfortunately, I cannot say that it was a masterpiece. Through this video, I begin to think about what the last chapter may be and what the final sentence will be. "He was a good man" would be an honor for me.
Still having a good time, Peter?
Thank you for your wishes. Right now I start all over again.
@@pklausspk i thought it was disrespectful of them to take pics of Bruce Lees body in HK morgue , suspicious death or not (drugs prolly killed him , he had massive drug addiction)
How are you doing Peter?
@@vixenrokana Thank you for kindly asking.
When I wrote the comment two months ago I was in doubt. Meanwhile my beloved wife took it away by ending the story. We still love each other but we are too different.
This was my third attempt to find a place. I'm quiet a nerd with not so much common interests that would make a woman stay. But I was unhappy too and more than once I thought about leaving.
So this is a new start. I found a new place to live and this time maybe I will take more care of myself.
Take care of your life!
Never let this man leave. He is so interesting. I could listen for hours. Seriously, please wired he should come back here and there (or regularly haha)
This dude needs his own UA-cam, he's handsome, well dressed, and well spoken!
Not to mention he appears to be a master of his craft.
VERY well dressed
They definitely thought this guy was only going to make one appearance, but he got so popular they made him into a regular
I love how he explains precisely, I wish my teachers were like that
Victor is so fine. That man is handsome and he is intelligent, not to mention his understanding of grief, and the compassion he displays. I'm in love lol
And a wicked sense of humour!!
cringe
@@CutMeSomeSlackTheVII haha you take an L
@@jakeybaby he took a hefty one indeed
The wedding ring...
Love this dude. Also, I wasn't expecting tips on sneaking a body out a window. Nice!
I was pleasantly surprised, too. You never know when you're gonna need knowledge like this.
Very helpful nice tip lmao
This guy is a viewer favorite for sure. He just talks very well and he talks in ways you understand while actually informing you.
Victor is so cool, he breaks it right down into simple terms while using correct terminology, he does it so perfectly articulate!
This guy might as well be a University Professor for this science.... His input is so educational, it makes other people explore the profession. Thanks for that!
I remember crying so hard at Thomas Jay's death watching My Girl in the theater.
When my grandfather passed a few years ago, at age 92, his funeral services provider also explained he should have his glasses on, as we'd seen him his whole life wearing them. He was absolutely right. Granddad chose a corduroy jacket and a nice shirt and I bought him some slacks that he picked out. He looked great and the mortician did an amazing job with him. Greatly appreciated.
I remember also when my grandpa died, his brother was upset that he didn’t have his glasses so my dad had to go and grab a spare pair of them to calm him down
I cried for more than a day after seeing My Girl in the theater. I am still stressed that no adult mentally prepared me for that. I think that's why, to this day, I give no craps about movie spoilers.
Your grandpa sounds like he had a great fashion sense
@@starkman78 why what happened
@@itsmenala9087 Thomas J.’s death was deeply saddening and Vada’s response was gut-wrenching. At that age, I didn’t have an earnest understanding of trauma. No one prepared me for it beforehand nor did anyone discuss it with me afterwards like someone probably should have. So I don’t like being surprised in that way when I watch movies.
My grandfather was a mortician. My step-mother was a county Sexton, running all the public cemeteries in the county, and when I was a teenager, I worked for her digging graves, etching headstones, etc.
Mr. Sweeney, you've made a good presentation here. Death makes people uncomfortable, but the more we are able to talk and educate each other the better it will be.
Hey my last name is sexton!!
It's really really hard and sometimes maybe less. But denial of it and then not keeping preparations in mind is probably worse. I've denied the fact that my grandma will pass away eventually for ages. Probably cause she is our only parent since childhood took care of us.But sadly I've been busy not being able to visit her quite often and building up guilt. But accepting the fact that she would eventually have to leave us and that all we can do is create good memories with her and for her has helped. It's a grounding feeling.
Awesome. My mom is in the funeral business, she sells properties, caskets, etc. A lot of her customers are in denial until they realize having everything prepared will cause less stress in the long run. I’ve picked my own casket at 11 😂 a lot of people find that weird but they will never understand.
I like him because he’s very cheerful,very informative and just seems like a super friendly person
He's right about My Girl. That scene never ceases to be upsetting
Ikr! Its one of the two movies that I have a love/hate feeling towards. (The other being Five Feet Apart) And I think the reason that Thomas isn't wearing his glasses is that maybe they couldn't find them. His glasses had fallen on the ground at the end of the scene and he probably tried to run away and wasn't near the hive when he was found.
I literally bawl my eyes out,during the My Girl scene.
I could listen to him talk about this all day. I just find it so fascinating and he's obviously very good at his job.
High key want him to make a podcast or something.
the most fascinating people are those in love of what they do because they are passionate about it. It's encouraging, motivating and engaging.
Would be interesting for him to review non-westernize funeral-movie scene. Such as the Japanese movie "Departures". And other cultural practices.
This is an underappreciated comment! Wired, I hope you see this one!
I think they would need someone else for that video, as the practices can be VERY culturally specific.
Bump
@@alimon89 I think the og comment would just want his thoughts on it and not necessarily more info
they would need someone Japanese for that, which Id def watch, just I don't think he'd be an authority on that matter
dude is the only person that I could watch 27 minutes of and not have to glance at my phone or check something else once in a while. Oddly entertaining and he didn't do anything but talk.
I can’t stop watching this. He makes an uncomfortable subject interesting. Literally a perfect job fit here…
If you're interested in this, Ask A Mortician on UA-cam is great! Caitlin is so educational but also funny and compassionate.
I can listen to this man all day, so much knowledge on a "controversial" topic. The way he speaks makes you change your impression of morticians and just the whole funeral business
most of us within the industry have the same attitude towards life and death as this gentleman. whenever he spoke about why we do what we do and the feelings he has towards the industry as a whole and the families that he serves, I found that my answers or my thoughts were basically exactly the same as his.
I promise you we're not greedy vultures. our salary isnt crazy high considering some of the things we have to see and/or do. its actually pretty much within the average salaries for people my age in this part of the world.
we do what we do purely because we care. majority of the time we end up working in the industry because we lost a loved one at a young age and the funeral director that was taking care of us and our family was super lovely and left a lasting impression upon us that made us want to follow in their footsteps. Or, along a similar line and this is what happened for me, we lost someone and they hadnt been looked after as well as we would have wanted and we want to do better for families in the future and make sure they dont have the experience that we did.
ultimately we pick this job because of how much we care. i whole heartedly treat every deceased as if they were my own family.
please know that 99% of us are like this man. we dont do what we do for the money or to take advantage. i couldnt even count the amount of times ive embalmed for free and not charged the family a penny. i actually make a loss when i do that because i still have to pay for my chemicals and supplies. if a family wants to see their loved one, looking peaceful and not tormented by disease (for example) but they dont have the money to pay for embalming or the use of our chapel of rest, ive embalmed for free and let them have all the time in the world within the chapel with their loved one.
you cant put a price on closure. or grief.
i hope ive given you maybe a bit more insight and shown you that we're just normal people and the vast majority of us aren't here trying to make as much money out of your grief as possible, of preying on your ignorance of the industry :)
@@lunarose8320 very glad they have this gentleman representing us, most problematic part of being a mortician is that the general public think were creepy or whatever, and like you said, were all like this lad, 👍🏻
He is SO cute 😍 I have a terminal illness and I don't have much longer. I also watched my Dad die of cancer. I'm terrified of dying to the point where it's been disrupting what's left of my life, but listening to him explain the process after death really is comforting for some reason. The unknown is what scares me about death but He pulls the curtain back on death for us so it's not as scary.
Enjoy the rest of your ride girl. Ill be thinking of you randomly wherever you are, kind stranger. I hope you find all the answers to life on whatever side you end up on. Hopefully its a happy one. We all will never know until our number is up. Praise to the universe for you.
@@SingerCommaMarla thank you that means a lot to me!!! I think the hardest part is I'm a single mom and I have a little girl and I just hope I will see her again someday ❤💔 thank you for your kind words ❤
@Keely
I'm glad these videos have helped in their own way.
The thing I think about is that we'll all get there some day, each one of us- all in our own time, some sooner, some later.
It gives me some comfort to know that death is universal and inevitable. As St. Anselm of Canterbury so succinctly put it, (I paraphrase) "Death is the most certain thing and yet the most uncertain as to when it will come."
So do your best with the time you have: hold your child close and let her be a part of it with you.
It's those sorts of "crucible" moments that, when handled with grace, create amazing human beings.
I will pray for you and your daughter.
(I'm glad you think I'm cute. Haha.)
+Victor
Please tell me you’re still here.
Also check out Ask a Mortician. Caitlin has really helped me with grief and death.
Sending you prayers
Your professionalism and empathy are highly admirable. Death is a cause of anguish and anxiety for me, having to hold my husband ( of nearly 40 years) hand as he took his last breath after a stroke, and my younger brother being there beside him as he took his last breath due to leukemia at 33. Our family tradition has always been cremation, as by choice we believe it to be right for us.Watching your videos somehow eases my anxiety towards my own death, you are very calming and informative and compassionate. Thats a wonderful quality.
"Victor M. Sweeney" has to be the most "mortician"-name a person could possibly have
Ikr. Hahaha
I've begun watching these because my adopted daughter wants to become a mortician, and so I use this man's informative interviews to educate myself enough to have conversations with her about the industry. THANK YOU FOR THESE VIDEOS.
i'd suggest Ask A Mortician on UA-cam for more of the lighthearted but informative content !
Your daughter is an interesting person
Those must be fun afternoon talks.
@@maye1474 I love her. Lol.
Imagine referring to your child not just as your daughter, but as your "adopted daughter".