Why JFK's Casket Stayed Closed

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    This video was greatly informed by the book “The Death of a President" by the late William Manchester. Since new information has come to light in the past decades, a huge thank you to Stephen Fagin from The Sixth Floor Museum at Dealey Plaza for your assistance and insight into many of the details in this story.
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    Manchester, William
    The Death of a President
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    The Loved One (1965 film) directed by Tony Richardson based on the book by Evelyn Waugh
    The Sixth Floor Museum at Dealey Plaza
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    “Fond Farewells”
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    “JFK assassiantion - timeline”
    www.theguardian.com/world/201...
    “Jackie Kennedy's Secret Service Agent Remembers President Kennedy's Funeral”
    www.townandcountrymag.com/soc...
    “Burial At Sea: The Odyssey of JFK’s Original Casket”
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    “How Jackie Kennedy Orchestrated The Perfect Funeral”
    www.businessinsider.com/jfk-f...
    “Eyewitness to the Autopsy of JFK”
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    “Funeral Arrangements for John Fitzgerald Kennedy” (Gawler account)
    www.aarclibrary.org/publib/jf...
    “The woman who forced us to look death in the face”
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 28 тис.

  • @ramblinentertainment1922
    @ramblinentertainment1922 2 роки тому +26766

    It says a lot about our society that we have an almost minute by minute account of what happened after Oswald fired that gun, but in school I at least never learned anything about Jackie’s resilience in the days that followed

    • @hannatude
      @hannatude 2 роки тому +1241

      I was just saying the same thing to my friend when I sent her the link for the video.
      We were taught that it was a sad day “for the nation”. One of my high school teachers taught a lesson about subjectivity vs. objectivity by using Kennedy Conspiracy theories.
      But this is the first time I’ve ever really truly felt that they were *human*, rather than just *history*.
      …I feel like I need to go give someone a hug.

    • @slaphappysmokey1
      @slaphappysmokey1 2 роки тому +485

      Yup, that was all we were taught. Glad we have people that research and put videos together about our history that seems to have been hidden from us...unless we dig for it.

    • @freedomfirst5557
      @freedomfirst5557 2 роки тому +267

      I highly recommend seeing a couple of documentaries about Jackie.......take in about four or five of them, then you will get a clearer picture of why maybe she was...."ignored" in general by America.

    • @guido20071970
      @guido20071970 2 роки тому +244

      Oswald shot a gun?

    • @neolexiousneolexian6079
      @neolexiousneolexian6079 2 роки тому +375

      @@freedomfirst5557 Since you're just casting aspersions without even trying to provide details or explanation, I hope you understand why I and probably most people here will choose to instead... "ignore" you in general.

  • @maggiekarabel123
    @maggiekarabel123 2 роки тому +5625

    Caitlyn this may be a bit morbid even for this channel but have you considered a video about Emmett Till and the incredible bravery of his mother Mamie? She insisted on a public, open casket funeral. “Let them see what they’ve done to my baby.” It’s quite a story.

    • @DeidreL9
      @DeidreL9 2 роки тому +476

      Oh God yes. That made so much sense, what an incredible woman she was.🙏

    • @mariekatherine5238
      @mariekatherine5238 2 роки тому +269

      I third this motion.

    • @miciarokiri5182
      @miciarokiri5182 2 роки тому +465

      This is a really good topic. She could also speak with Black Historians and funeral experts about the times and what was common practice.

    • @lindadenneypu6315
      @lindadenneypu6315 2 роки тому +221

      Very sad storey he didn't deserve what happened to him

    • @flux.aeterna
      @flux.aeterna 2 роки тому +71

      Yes please

  • @MrErinholbert
    @MrErinholbert 6 місяців тому +273

    Jackie was one tough class act. She wasn’t a wilting wildflower. She’d lost two of her babies too. She endured so much heartache

    • @JinNeptune
      @JinNeptune Місяць тому +2

      3 actually

    • @miaomiaochan
      @miaomiaochan Місяць тому +3

      @@JinNeptune Including JFK Jr. or not? I know she lost Patrick and a stillborn baby girl.

    • @tiahenry4743
      @tiahenry4743 Місяць тому

      She was CIA and fired the last shot into JFk's brain. You can see a cloud of smoke coming from the left side of JFK's head in the zapruder film.

    • @charlesmitchell917
      @charlesmitchell917 17 днів тому +2

      She was tough knowing he was fucking around on her with multiple women.

  • @lucianagostinho
    @lucianagostinho 5 місяців тому +131

    The decision about the destiny of a husband's remains is sooooo painful! Me and my husband loved this channel and we discussed sometimes what we wanted to be done when we died. He died last year and I had to decide everything. It was a simple funeral, with a simple casket followed by a cremation. This video made me cry. But made me remember our conversations and our friendship.

    • @catherineyow6325
      @catherineyow6325 3 місяці тому +4

      So sorry for your loss 😢 y’all had a beautiful relationship 🩷

    • @thegreypath1777
      @thegreypath1777 2 місяці тому

      That’s why it is best for the funeral to be preplanned.

    • @hml3672
      @hml3672 Місяць тому

      A cremation doesn't require a casket since there is no body at the funeral.

  • @glytchmeister9856
    @glytchmeister9856 2 роки тому +4522

    It’s unbelievable they were so insistent on an open casket.
    The moment he died, he no longer belonged to the people. He stopped being the president. He was Jackie’s husband. Jackie should have had absolute authority the whole time.

    • @masterchief6922
      @masterchief6922 2 роки тому +19

      I opened the casket

    • @presidentceresidence5663
      @presidentceresidence5663 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah that's true but in order for the conspirators to get away with it... LBJ broke the law mostly treason and conspiracy to commit murder...

    • @maneevent1508
      @maneevent1508 2 роки тому +1

      Jackie is transgender and the one who shot him

    • @presidentceresidence5663
      @presidentceresidence5663 2 роки тому +9

      @@maneevent1508 nope....guess again

    • @maneevent1508
      @maneevent1508 2 роки тому +2

      @@presidentceresidence5663 Yes, it's a fact

  • @detectivesquirrel2621
    @detectivesquirrel2621 2 роки тому +12785

    My wife Sami was an avid follower of yours and contributed to your patroen. She died last year and despite having to fight against her parents' wishes I got Sami the Woodland Burial she wanted thanks to watching your videos.

    • @wareforcoin5780
      @wareforcoin5780 2 роки тому +7

      I'm sorry that your wife died, but I'm glad you got her the burial she wanted. That's the last gift you can give someone.

    • @bootykingfaia
      @bootykingfaia 2 роки тому +864

      i’m so very sorry for your loss.. i’m very thankful that you could give your wife that burial and give that to yourself too. may she rest in peace. that’s beautiful, and very sad. thank you for sharing. i wish you peace and light

    • @zkarebear
      @zkarebear 2 роки тому +389

      I am so very sorry for you loss. And that is so beautiful that you were able to honor her wishes.

    • @itsacarolbthing5221
      @itsacarolbthing5221 2 роки тому +210

      I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Sincere condolences. Xxx

    • @meritofapproval
      @meritofapproval 2 роки тому +92

      🌻

  • @babykukla
    @babykukla 6 місяців тому +122

    I was at Kenedy's inauguration. I want to thank you for this wonderful video. There were so many things I did not know. I felt a sense of peaceful closure, On a side note, when my mother died my sons built her coffin in the front yard. The neighbors were freaked out but the coffin was beautiful. All of her grandchildren and I painted murals on the inner walls.

    • @virginiasoskin9082
      @virginiasoskin9082 2 місяці тому +4

      Such a bittersweet memory of murals inside the casket. I lived through JFK's assassination as a teen in Pennsylvania. Those were shocking, confusing days. Very sad.

    • @GOGOSLIFE
      @GOGOSLIFE Місяць тому +1

      That's such aa awesome way for children to participate, in saying good bye to their loved one. Children need to learn to deal with the cycle of life, and sending pictures and messages with the departed is a great way to say goodbye.

    • @user-nx5ws7rf2f
      @user-nx5ws7rf2f Місяць тому +2

      Good for you!

    • @allhopeabandon7831
      @allhopeabandon7831 5 днів тому

      That is 1000x a great story! That is so healthy for a family to have closure and say good-bye!

  • @imonlytellingthetruth
    @imonlytellingthetruth 6 місяців тому +55

    'Jackie', a movie starring Natalie Portman dealt with a lot of what happened once she returned to the White House. There will always be unanswered questions about this major event in the 20th century that rocked the entire world, particularly each and every member of the Kennedy Fitzgerald family member. Thank you for your informative video and details.

    • @timyarbrough6356
      @timyarbrough6356 День тому

      Maybe entertaining but definitely not informative.

  • @holliberry2614
    @holliberry2614 2 роки тому +4393

    I remember when my stepfather died. My brother, who was his biological child, was distraught. The funeral director asked if he wanted 'casket insurance' . He was ready to say 'yes' to anything. I quickly asked "what is casket insurance'? I was told it was insurance paid so that the casket would not leak, the remains leak out, etc. I asked how we could make sure the insurance was working .....did they dig up the casket every month/year etc to make sure it was working appropriately? Of course the funeral director , goggled eyed, fumbled his answer and finally said 'no'. I said , 'then no, we don't need the added charge of 'casket insurance'.
    Not cool. Obviously a tactic to prey on the emotional situation that is the loss of a loved one.

    • @orvilleh.larson7581
      @orvilleh.larson7581 2 роки тому +312

      This is interesting. If you don't mind my asking, how long ago was this?
      "Casket insurance"? What the hell! Of course, this was a scam to extract more money from you. The funeral director felt he could offer this crap, knowing there's virtually no chance that the funeral buyer will exhume the casket to find out. You called him out over this. It's good that you did.
      Even today--with the wealth of funeral information that's available, with legal protections in place--some funeral directors still try to exploit the funeral buyer. . . .

    • @MartinGarcia-km4qs
      @MartinGarcia-km4qs 2 роки тому +340

      Its disgusting how these funeral directors try and squeeze the last dollar out of the grieving family.

    • @holliberry2614
      @holliberry2614 2 роки тому +271

      @@orvilleh.larson7581 It was over 20 years ago. I just remember my brother being distraught ( he was in his early 20's at the time....no life experience;-) and he was just overwhelmed. He was ready to say yes to anything the funeral director said. I just remember thinking..."How the F do you know if the 'casket insurance' you purchased is actually working?"
      The look on the funeral director's face was worth it ;-) But that is me.....always logical.

    • @nett6051
      @nett6051 2 роки тому +81

      Thankyou for sharing your story. Its great that you stood up and question the cost of the casket insurance

    • @tater82
      @tater82 2 роки тому +36

      Isn’t that why we buy a vault? Even with that it’s 3 different tiers at a decent upcharge 🙄 if the vault seals..it’s good.

  • @emilyflavell1658
    @emilyflavell1658 2 роки тому +920

    I cannot even imagine how Jackie must have felt. Your description of her putting her wedding ring on her husband's finger has me in tears, that poor woman. Nobody deserves to go through this.

    • @miippi
      @miippi 2 роки тому +42

      Same. I'm European and we weren't really taught about JFK in school, until i was 20 i didn't know who Jackie Kennedy was. But holy mother of... She was so strong. Going through all of this? And staying sane?

    • @NaomiDollxoxo
      @NaomiDollxoxo 2 роки тому +24

      Yes, I didn’t know that. It brought tears to my eyes. She just wanted to show him how much she loves him to the last available second 🥺

    • @justthink5854
      @justthink5854 2 роки тому

      @@NaomiDollxoxo i was 12. Jackie was made of stainless steel.
      jeeze from the start she got it wrong about the "lone nut did it". ONeal said the back of his head was blasted out! why doesn't she quote him about that? and why show the drawings of the head wound and not any of the photos (some doctored) that have been out for decades?? the throat and head hits came from the south knoll parking lot. yes shots from all over including the north or grassy knoll. ua-cam.com/video/c8emNECYgmg/v-deo.html

    • @justthink5854
      @justthink5854 2 роки тому

      @@miippi i was 12. Jackie was made of stainless steel.
      jeeze from the start she got it wrong about the "lone nut did it". ONeal said the back of his head was blasted out! why doesn't she quote him about that? and why show the drawings of the head wound and not any of the photos (some doctored) that have been out for decades?? the throat and head hits came from the south knoll parking lot. yes shots from all over including the north or grassy knoll. ua-cam.com/video/c8emNECYgmg/v-deo.html

    • @rogeraxelsson
      @rogeraxelsson 3 години тому

      ​@@miippi
      I am a European. And, yes, I viewed the shooting on TV in black & white television.
      And - I was 7 years old when the Norwegian television sent the program again-and-again.
      And we grew-up with the knowledge of this asassination.
      But no colour TV - just black & white.

  • @lagunabay51
    @lagunabay51 5 місяців тому +21

    I was 12 when Kennedy was shot. Like millions I was shocked of the news. I followed the funeral, the inquiries for years into my 30s 40s and even in my 60s still with questions about the events of that day. This documentary finally answered so many of my questions and then some. Thank you EB for your exceptional work.

    • @livvikitty
      @livvikitty 5 місяців тому

      Wow that is so cool sir🥺 Do you remember any more of it

    • @user-gn8if3fq9j
      @user-gn8if3fq9j 12 годин тому

      Me too.

  • @tommytalache1156
    @tommytalache1156 6 місяців тому +91

    My favorite and most memorable line of this entire documentary: "There was no need for the dead person to be sprayed, sliced, pierced, pickled, dressed, trimmed, creamed, waxed, painted, rouged, and neatly dressed; Transformed from a common corpse, into a beautiful memory picture." This needs to be made into a rap song or something. Loved it!

  • @WhiteBloggerBlackSpecs
    @WhiteBloggerBlackSpecs 2 роки тому +2446

    My God losing a son and a husband in the span of three months. Jackie Kennedy had strength beyond my own comprehension

    • @mwater_moon2865
      @mwater_moon2865 2 роки тому +119

      On the upside, her loosing a baby with just 5 weeks left (35 of 40 weeks) had a profound impact on neo-natal and ultra premie medicine. Very much for the good, which is why my goddaughter survived, despite being born at only 24 weeks and 1 day.

    • @kevinlambert2756
      @kevinlambert2756 2 роки тому

      Probably should have had the bullet proof top up on the car.. but who would have thought..he would be shot..that day.

    • @abbybrown638
      @abbybrown638 2 роки тому +50

      @@mwater_moon2865 I had no idea. My daughter was born at 35 weeks. Its sad so many women and babies had to die before they figured it out. I developed HELLP syndrome, it was terrifying. she just had to be observed in the nicu though. I feel so lucky to be here laying next to her right now.

    • @felicitybywater8012
      @felicitybywater8012 2 роки тому +13

      @@mwater_moon2865 Tell your god-daughter I'm glad she made it ❤

    • @VeganSemihCyprus33
      @VeganSemihCyprus33 2 роки тому +2

      Urgent attention! ✌👉 The Connections (2021) [short documentary] 💖✌

  • @Nicolesid1
    @Nicolesid1 2 роки тому +3628

    Interesting fact, Jackie's suit was Chanel "inspired" suit made by her personal tailor. She loved Chanel designs but she wanted to be seen wearing clothing from the US, so her tailor got the fabric and pattern from Chanel but it was made in the US.
    Edit: Thank you for all the likes, and commentary. Additionally, this was in no way to say Caitlin was incorrect as the suit outside of the person and place it was constructed was Chanel.

    • @beckyowens2586
      @beckyowens2586 2 роки тому +154

      I was just thinking about how no one thought to find Jackie fresh clothes. A hundred people buzzing all over the place, hours wasted bickering and not one person thought to make sure this poor woman wasn't covered in his blood this entire time. Least of all in front of the press. It might not have been high fashion, but someone could have acquired something stately for her to wear and not be covered in blood.

    • @Nicolesid1
      @Nicolesid1 2 роки тому +180

      @@beckyowens2586 very true, but I think you have to also remember she was fighting hard to stay near her husband and to go change may mean someone getting him away from her.

    • @susanstacy2493
      @susanstacy2493 2 роки тому +429

      @@beckyowens2586 You should read some history. Jackie did not want to change clothes. Manchester's book along with other reliable sources all say that she said she wouldn't change clothes because she wanted them to see "what they had done to Jack."

    • @kingraquu3164
      @kingraquu3164 2 роки тому +288

      She refused to change clothes. She wanted to make a statement to the public.

    • @ghoulishtoad
      @ghoulishtoad 2 роки тому +66

      @@beckyowens2586 iirc i think she was so traumatized and shocked she wanted to keep it on for reasons i cant remember. The comment above im inclinded to believe she did it to let people know what they did to the president

  • @abydosianchulac2
    @abydosianchulac2 6 місяців тому +23

    I'm sure I'm only one of a multitude who have found your channel shortly after a parent died, but thank you for this frank but human insight you provide.

  • @pamelaparizo
    @pamelaparizo 6 місяців тому +36

    I see this video as a tribute to Jackie Kennedy, her love for her husband, and the sensitivity, and frame of mind to consider the public's love for him.

    • @virginiasoskin9082
      @virginiasoskin9082 2 місяці тому

      She was every inch a strong woman who did not deserve all the tragedy that happened in her life. Later in her life, I hated when the papparazzi would follow her around in NYC. I thought it most unfair and if I had been her I would have attacked them and ripped their cameras from them and sued them for breach of privacy. After all she went through and they insisted on following her around. Sickening. I don't blame her one bit for marrying Onassis. He was one person who could give her privacy to raise her children in peace.

  • @quisnessness
    @quisnessness 2 роки тому +2683

    Jackie truly did an amazing job advocating for her family's after-death wishes in a situation where people seemed determined to treat her like a child who couldn't handle the reality of death.

    • @curtissimmons2287
      @curtissimmons2287 2 роки тому +111

      She was with him even before fame she was sooo in love with him even after she got remarried..she asked to be buried next to jack

    • @Deenique16
      @Deenique16 2 роки тому +86

      Such a shame because all he did was cheat on her

    • @aprilgosa5779
      @aprilgosa5779 2 роки тому +22

      @@Deenique16 you don't know what he did we only know what the media says i am sure they blew it out of proportion

    • @aprilgosa5779
      @aprilgosa5779 2 роки тому +34

      @@curtissimmons2287 of course she married Ari as she called him out of part security not saying she did not care for him but he wasn't her Jack she wanted out of Washington especially after Bobby was also murdered she felt like her kids especially were in danger she needed a place to literally feel safe with her children so Ari took her to Greece I don't think she even went back to live in the White house after JFK died she literally said if they are killing Kennedy's my children are next

    • @aprilgosa5779
      @aprilgosa5779 2 роки тому +31

      who can handle death she was terrified especially after Bobby she knew her kids were in danger her shock and grief over Jack made her literally climb out of the car to retrieve the broken pieces of her husband she didn't remember doing it but it makes sense in her shock that she would think they could save him she could help him I mean she was his wife she wanted to help him her last words were in his ear Jack can you hear me Jack I love you I don't think that makes anyone a child who cannot handle death her husband was murdered literally before her eyes she was so brave and strong when who knows what she was going through physicallyand otherwise she must have been exhausted

  • @adrena.hamilton
    @adrena.hamilton 2 роки тому +2771

    I never realized the empowerment in that story. Way to go Jackie for sticking up for herself and her family. What a strong lady.

    • @Lori79Butterfly
      @Lori79Butterfly 2 роки тому

      Yes she was and she no doubt lived with untreated PSTD for the rest of her life! JFK was still her husband and the father of her children not just the President of the United States and brother and son of the Kennedys.

    • @newcarpathia9422
      @newcarpathia9422 2 роки тому +90

      Jackie Kennedy was an absolute powerhouse of a human being. To this day, my mother still speaks of her glowingly.

    • @carlcarlson1369
      @carlcarlson1369 2 роки тому +19

      Great video. This young lady talks with class

    • @kbmls3
      @kbmls3 2 роки тому +49

      When her doctors told her there nothing could be done to extend her life, she stopped all treatment. I remember one of the commentators saying, “She has shown us how to die.”

    • @every-istand-ophobe6320
      @every-istand-ophobe6320 2 роки тому +16

      Yeah we should forget about jfk. We will just put his wife on a pedestal! Strong independent womxn that don't need no man. Stunning and brave. I thought democrats got rid of the word woman since anyone can be one now!

  • @jburch5752
    @jburch5752 6 місяців тому +20

    That was a day that did change America. I have also visited the school book depository in Dallas. And thanks for including the video at the end which shows the book depository. If people look at that carefully it will give them a far betters perspective of the area surrounding this tragic event. Most people don't realize how close approximity the picket fence, the grassy knoll and the book depository were to each other.
    I was deeply touched by your video.
    A minor point we need not forget. You touched on the fact that there were groups who are committed to hate. Unfortunately, we still see that today.
    I hope your video will make people realize the dignity and grace of Jackie Kennedy.
    Thank you for producing this video.

  • @theicecavalier342
    @theicecavalier342 5 місяців тому +14

    Wow. I never would have imagined a mortician would be more in depth, and informative than what I read in history books. I stand in awe, and feel so much more educated about the first family. Well done.❤

  • @myracahill7409
    @myracahill7409 2 роки тому +1867

    I was in 5th grade when President Kennedy was shot. My Mother was crying when I arrived home from school, watching the trauma unfold on our black and white TV. It consumed everyone and everything. Yet, Jackie Kennedy was a pillar of strength for the nation. Although I "lived through it", I learned much from your video and thank you for your compassion.

    • @sophierobinson2738
      @sophierobinson2738 2 роки тому +61

      I was in fourth grade. His death was announced over the intercom as we were leaving the cafeteria.

    • @Bluesbabesrv
      @Bluesbabesrv 2 роки тому +47

      Yes, exactly what you said. I was in 8th grade music class when the announcement was made over the school public address system, we were all being sent home. My mother too was in tears when I got home. Remember this was 1963, there were only 3 television channels, all carried nothing but the news of JFK from the assassination to the burial.

    • @juicyjules7409
      @juicyjules7409 2 роки тому +9

      My mom too we Catholic 💜🙏👱🏻‍♀️😢

    • @Tiogair
      @Tiogair 2 роки тому +20

      My mom was too! She was on a field trip and heard it on her hand radio and announced it to her class. Her teacher scolded her for “making up such an awful story”

    • @darthclaire7179
      @darthclaire7179 2 роки тому +24

      My mom has probably the closest you will ever come to a “funny“ Kennedy assassination story.
      She was about the same age and living in Houston. They sent them home from school. She comes in the door and tells my grandmother “Mama, they shot President Kennedy!” My grandmother replies, “(Name)! We don’t like him but we don’t go around saying someone shot him!”

  • @janicesullivan8942
    @janicesullivan8942 2 роки тому +715

    I cannot imagine the horror of witnessing your husband’s head being blown away. Absolutely tragic, and it happened shortly after they had lost their son Patrick. Horror upon tragedy, upon tragedy.

    • @DashSpaceski
      @DashSpaceski 2 роки тому +1

      I had no idea about a loss of a kid. Sad as.

    • @jaylasmith324
      @jaylasmith324 2 роки тому +2

      Shitttt I would be happy. He was an extreme cheater with multiple affairs

    • @arthursebastiany7311
      @arthursebastiany7311 2 роки тому +2

      imagien the horror when american bombs rained in Cuba
      Oswald did nothing wrong

    • @jimj2683
      @jimj2683 2 роки тому +29

      @@jaylasmith324 You really believe cheating is worse than getting your head blown up by a bullet? Then you must be a terrible person. Cheating is bad. But far far far away from murder.
      Please just grow up and get over your cheater. The only way to move on is to forgive and forget.

    • @xiphos8219
      @xiphos8219 2 роки тому +7

      And then Bobby Kennedy shortly after.

  • @cggage
    @cggage 6 місяців тому +13

    Thank you for the manner in which you told this story. It was very dignified. I appreciate you filling in details that I had always wondered about.
    I was only 8 years of age when JFK died. I remember it like it was yesterday. I remember the school principal coming into our classroom and whispering to our teacher who audibly gasped. There were wet eyes among the adults. We were sent home early with no explanation and told to speak with our parents. We all were shocked. For three days (as I recall) the events around JFK's assassination were televised non-stop. Here I am, 60 years later, tearing up, thinking about that time, and how sad my parents and the adults in my family were.

  • @ginelleday5412
    @ginelleday5412 6 місяців тому +29

    The entire story is still to this day heartbreaking. I'm sure Jackie Kennedy knew how close she came to Death. She handled yet again another loss of a loved one within a few short months. The loss of there 3rd child that was miscarried . I was fortunate to shake his hand as a child as he passed by in his Motorcade in route to MacDill AFB. Before heading off to Texas not knowing he would be murdered.

  • @saf2127
    @saf2127 2 роки тому +1886

    I can’t imagine the grief Jackie went through, first losing her baby, then her husband in just a few short months. That would be hard enough for any person, but when the whole world is literally watching your every move, it must have been unspeakably awful. This was a fantastic video as always, Caitlin. And if anyone reading has the chance to go to the Sixth Floor Museum, I absolutely recommend it. You will learn a lot and gain a new historical perspective.

    • @cc1k435
      @cc1k435 2 роки тому +35

      I went back in the mid 90s, and I still think of it as one of the most surreal places I've ever been.

    • @bogeydope3022
      @bogeydope3022 2 роки тому +30

      @@cc1k435 It is surreal. Because the place wasn't the assassins hideout. To this day people have to believe a magic bullet theory. You can't make this shit up.

    • @gocougs22
      @gocougs22 2 роки тому +5

      @@bogeydope3022 what’s your theory?

    • @glamdolly30
      @glamdolly30 2 роки тому

      @@bogeydope3022 Exactly - the very fact Lee Harvey Oswald was murdered mere days after the assassination is powerful proof of a conspiracy! He did not act alone - this was a highly organised, professional hit by more than one marksman. There's no way that guy achieved such an efficient murder from that distance, with that wonky-sighted gun - Lee Harvey Oswald is the most famous patsy/fall guy in the world.

    • @ellejay2021
      @ellejay2021 2 роки тому +20

      @@bogeydope3022 100% correct. Oswald had a LOT of help.

  • @bethroesch2156
    @bethroesch2156 2 роки тому +662

    This is what made her an icon. She handled it with so much dignity and grace and managed to comfort the entire country.

    • @dziobaczka18
      @dziobaczka18 2 роки тому

      @what now ok.... :D hahaha

    • @AxxLAfriku
      @AxxLAfriku 2 роки тому

      🚨🚨🚨 AAAAAAHHHHH!!! 🚨🚨🚨 school is sooooo boring i am in 8th grate and its so boring i am having sucess on youtube so i think i will drop out of school. i dont have friends so i need your opinon beth

    • @mixaliskokkinos1496
      @mixaliskokkinos1496 2 роки тому

      Well trained...?!And then she get married one of the rich man in the world...Greetings from Greece

    • @MuseMarketing
      @MuseMarketing 2 роки тому +3

      @@AxxLAfriku before you do be sure you master the English language. If you think 8th grade is "boring" wait until you're 27 and living to pay taxes. Also, don't put all your hopes in one source of income. If UA-cam is your only source of income, what is your backup plan, not mention what other side hustles do you have going on?

    • @isabellind1292
      @isabellind1292 2 роки тому +1

      @@AxxLAfriku Being bored isn't your problem if that's the best you can spell. It's not going to get you far in life. Good luck.

  • @DannyJane.
    @DannyJane. 2 місяці тому +5

    I was 15 in 1963. I didn't cry although I spent the ensuing days as if a lead weight had been placed inside my chest. My family, like millions of others, sat glued to the television which was never off. But I never cried.
    Now, 60 years later. I finally cried for a time when the world was so different, for the millions of us who lost a sense of ourselves, our innocence, and the feeling of foreboding that has never entirely left.

    • @I.M.A.Panther3619
      @I.M.A.Panther3619 2 місяці тому

      We have lived through difficult times and you are so right that an innocence was forever lost.
      I was in 2nd grade when this happened.

  • @willowamoros6009
    @willowamoros6009 5 місяців тому +9

    This is very educational. I had seen a documentary a couple days ago on his assassination but so much of what I learned in your video was left unsaid. Thank you for sharing.

  • @jpkmcg
    @jpkmcg 2 роки тому +743

    Jackie's decision to have the casket sealed was because she was appalled at how make-up made up her husband looked. I, for one, believe sealing the casket was a much more dignified way of honoring the assassinated president, allowing people to remember him as he was in life, not in death.

    • @larryaldama1673
      @larryaldama1673 2 роки тому +7

      😔🇺🇸🙏🏽🇺🇸

    • @jenn7753
      @jenn7753 2 роки тому +101

      I agree. She prevented the chance for photographs of him in that condition to live on for eternity and let him be remembered as when he was alive.

    • @ellejay2021
      @ellejay2021 2 роки тому

      @@larryaldama1673 I see that one of the replies here was deleted; I wonder if mine will be as well. I believe JFK's casket was sealed because our government ordered it to be sealed because JFK's wounds were not of those stated in the official autopsy report. I also believe that JFK was assassinated per gov't orders, therefore, no one else was to see his wounds. Interesting video.

    • @rahulmenon4357
      @rahulmenon4357 2 роки тому +23

      I doubt makeup can cover up what happened to him (the bolt action bullet thing, not tinfoil hat fantasies)

    • @glamdolly30
      @glamdolly30 2 роки тому +44

      Jackie showed great wisdom in wanting her husband to be remembered in life, not in death. After all, the person is no longer there once their spirit has left their body - it's merely the shell that's left behind. I am sure Jackie knew her husband better than anyone, and knew he would not want his dignity compromised with an open casket. I personally think it's very morbid to want to view someone after they have died - and even more so when their death was unnatural and violent!
      I am baffled though that the professional morticians made such a hash of the cosmetic work on JFK's face. Autopsy photos reveal his face was pretty much undamaged - it was the back of his head that was devastated (proving he was fatally shot from the front, not by fall guy/patsy Lee Harvey Oswald in the Book Depository behind the motorcade - but I digress).
      I suspect the people who did the work on JFK felt such pressure and weight of expectation knowing their efforts would potentially be judged by millions (had it been an open casket), that they overdid the wax and face paint, and made him look like a dummy. That said, I am glad there was no open casket, regardless of how he looked - the fact is, the man was dead, and violently murdered in the most humiliating public way. He deserved the dignity and privacy of a closed coffin, and I'm glad his widow was wise enough to ensure he got that.

  • @dennisn1672
    @dennisn1672 2 роки тому +1575

    I saw my brother in his casket. I never walked up to another afterwards. I like to remember people as they were alive. Once you see them dead. That image stays burned into your mind forever.

    • @Lergmeister
      @Lergmeister 2 роки тому +95

      I know that feeling i found my dad dead in his bed without expecting it at all. It was only around twelve hours after death but still it was unexpected. He was at my place two days earlier watching movies. His corpse will always be the picture that i get in my head when thinking about him.

    • @whatnow9159
      @whatnow9159 2 роки тому +18

      Exactly.

    • @helenaymorgan-walsh4883
      @helenaymorgan-walsh4883 2 роки тому +29

      Yes my mother is still in my mind like yesterday been 5 year’s

    • @jessicagarvin4834
      @jessicagarvin4834 2 роки тому +46

      I totally get what you are saying. I went to a open casket funeral once and saw the body. (When I was a child.) I had nightmares for months. Every sense then I refuse to go to an open casket ceremony. Even my grandpa's. Though I went to his funeral the next day.

    • @jrubicon027
      @jrubicon027 2 роки тому +29

      I agree and I am the same way. I’m sorry about your brother. I lost my sister in a car accident and I stopped going up to caskets too.

  • @rayherbst6655
    @rayherbst6655 6 місяців тому +13

    This is like ripping a wound open. At their final breakfast in Fort Worth, the smile they shared was priceless. They had been brought closer together by the loss of their son Patrick. John had spoken, “…I could stay here forever…” at Arlington just 11 days earlier, and Jackie, just 34, so dearly loved John.

  • @DDRizo
    @DDRizo 6 місяців тому +12

    I read the video title and kinda chuckled to myself “well, he was shot in the head” but I watched anyhow because I enjoy your videos. Sure enough, I learned a ton that I didn’t already know again. Thank you, Caitlyn. You’re awesome.

  • @rubyy.7374
    @rubyy.7374 2 роки тому +871

    I can’t get over how gut-wrenching it must be: the man next to you, dead in an instant in one of the goriest ways imaginable. Now all eyes are on you as you frantically navigate his funerary arrangements while simultaneously consoling a grieving country.
    I adore Jackie’s strength, and thank you for shining a light on to it. Like everybody else, the fallout of the assassination never even came to mind, and I’m glad it now has.

    • @peterk8909
      @peterk8909 2 роки тому +5

      On the Zapruder film it appears his head is blown quite literally out of Jackie's hands

    • @tundrawomansays5067
      @tundrawomansays5067 2 роки тому +10

      @Not A fascist Slave V Yeah, they did. The shock and horror was indescribable. The major news network’s regular programming was preempted for the next few days all day by the news and the funeral.
      By the end of the ‘60’s this generation of kids had lost three of their role models: JFK, MLK, RFK. And then we lost so many of our generation in Vietnam.

    • @peterk8909
      @peterk8909 2 роки тому +5

      @Not A fascist Slave V Nope, a realist. That's only part of the horror of the assassination. The worst happened afterward. Since the blood and guts aspect is your focus, you don't see that.

    • @justthink5854
      @justthink5854 2 роки тому

      @Not A fascist Slave V jeeze from the start she got it wrong about the "lone nut did it". ONeal said the back of his head was blasted out! why doesn't she quote him about that? and why show the drawings of the head wound and not any of the photos (some doctored) that have been out for decades?? the throat and head hits came from the south knoll parking lot. yes shots from all over including the north or grassy knoll. ua-cam.com/video/c8emNECYgmg/v-deo.html

    • @justthink5854
      @justthink5854 2 роки тому +1

      @@peterk8909 yup jeeze from the start she got it wrong about the "lone nut did it". ONeal said the back of his head was blasted out! why doesn't she quote him about that? and why show the drawings of the head wound and not any of the photos (some doctored) that have been out for decades?? the throat and head hits came from the south knoll parking lot. yes shots from all over including the north or grassy knoll. ua-cam.com/video/c8emNECYgmg/v-deo.html

  • @TheBikerjim666
    @TheBikerjim666 Рік тому +567

    My son was murdered and the funeral home owner and director had a lot of compassion for me and my wife for losing our son in such a horrible way he didn't charge us a penny and I appreciate what he did from the bottom of our hearts.

    • @kristencalifra6421
      @kristencalifra6421 Рік тому +74

      We did that for people who lost babies n young children. Everyone donated. Casket was donated, embalming was free, plot was free.

    • @nrdalrt15
      @nrdalrt15 Рік тому +38

      I remember when a family member died young and we went to the funeral home. When my dad brought up paying, the funeral director immediately interrupted and said "no, don't worry about that now, go take care of your family and we will worry about that afterwards. Really impressive.

    • @jakkernsa
      @jakkernsa Рік тому +20

      I just became a father myself the very tought of that little man departing this world before me is unbearable. Words can't express what i want to say to you but i hope justice was served and you and your wife may find that little bid of peace left on this world.

    • @donamills863
      @donamills863 Рік тому +7

      My son passes away at 16. He shot himself in the head. We had him cremated. We didn't have a wake. He was brought from the funeral home to the church.

    • @sophiajakel4098
      @sophiajakel4098 Рік тому +17

      No parents should ever have to deal with the death of a child... and definitely no child should be murdered! My heart is with you; sincere condolences and empathy.

  • @user-qm7gn9ue5p
    @user-qm7gn9ue5p 6 місяців тому +5

    Caitlin this is the most amazing videos I have ever seen on UA-cam.
    What a phenomenal job you have done.

  • @nancyzehr3679
    @nancyzehr3679 5 місяців тому +1

    I was just thinking about you and your programmes this morning. and lo! i see youre still producing great stuff. so glad.

  • @mdthor3187
    @mdthor3187 2 роки тому +655

    Interesting factoid:
    The Secret Service Agent that jumped on the back of President Kennedy's car wrote a book about his time as the President's Secret Service Agent. He said that the former First Lady has come under fire from critics over the years because it appeared as though she was trying to get away from JFK by climbing out of the back of the car after the assassination. He says that that couldn't be further from the truth. He states that when he jumped on the back of the car that the First Lady wasn't trying to escape. She was trying to retrieve a piece of his skull that was flying across the back of the car.

    • @theblackbaron4119
      @theblackbaron4119 2 роки тому +7

      Yeah... Because that really helped him.

    • @vampsarecool
      @vampsarecool 2 роки тому +132

      You can actually see her retrieve the skull in the video

    • @emmajones8715
      @emmajones8715 2 роки тому +103

      Oh god that is horrific, what an absolutely terrible thing to witness

    • @Julia-uh4li
      @Julia-uh4li 2 роки тому +76

      This has been well known and often spoken about since the incident. I don't believe anyone thought she was trying to get away. Well, perhaps in the first few hours or days after the incident only.

    • @partyinthecloudkingdom
      @partyinthecloudkingdom 2 роки тому +227

      @@theblackbaron4119 imagine your spouse, sitting right next to you, is suddenly shot in the head by an unseen assassin. the shock of what was happening wouldn't really drive most people to act logically

  • @AliMsBeauty
    @AliMsBeauty 9 місяців тому +1040

    The thing that no-one ever mentions is how extremely close Jackie was to that fatal shot. Her cheek was against John Kennedy within inches of the bullet . How horrific would that be and how close she came to die herself

    • @portfolio91
      @portfolio91 7 місяців тому +51

      And, indeed, John Connaly was just ahead in the passenger's seat, and caught a bullet that passed through Jack.

    • @roquefortfiles
      @roquefortfiles 7 місяців тому +5

      Not with a scope at that range.

    • @johnt.9910
      @johnt.9910 7 місяців тому +31

      @@portfolio91 You actually believe that? How gullible.

    • @ericvanjames8395
      @ericvanjames8395 7 місяців тому +6

      You are so right!

    • @true6766
      @true6766 7 місяців тому

      ​​@@portfolio91it has been proven since the report of the same bullet, did not go thru President Kennedy..there was more than one shooter .and it wasn't Oswald...it was from the fence in the grassy knoll.
      I listened last night to a man who worked for the railroad, who was above on the tracks as a safety for the train track...He saw much more than those who testify & were mysteriously died.

  • @ronniemo_1622
    @ronniemo_1622 4 місяці тому +3

    Well done again.
    Thank you for your time, research, and care with which you submit this information to the public.

  • @cmasse64
    @cmasse64 3 місяці тому +2

    This was so interesting! I've seen many of your videos and I always enjoy them but this one by far was the best. Thank you!

  • @Eloraurora
    @Eloraurora 2 роки тому +290

    The choice of driver really hit me for some reason. To look out from that welter of shock and grief, see someone else's suffering, and offer him a gesture of redemption from his own self-blame... this video was bound to make me cry at some point, but that part really got me.

    • @hannatude
      @hannatude 2 роки тому +26

      Ugh, right? I have a hard time sussing out other people’s emotions on a good day - I can’t fathom being able to pick up on someone else’s turmoil and taking steps to assuage it while suffering from even a fraction of the grief Jackie had to have been experiencing.

    • @Totalinternalreflection
      @Totalinternalreflection 2 роки тому +4

      That got me too.

    • @judithfurmston3731
      @judithfurmston3731 2 роки тому +10

      Yes I noticed that too. Before Caitlin even clarified the point it struck me that he must have been really shaken.

    • @evercuriousmichelle
      @evercuriousmichelle 2 роки тому

      I'm not in the right mental place to watch the video, but I'm really curious, what did Jackie do for the driver?

    • @Totalinternalreflection
      @Totalinternalreflection 2 роки тому +12

      @@evercuriousmichelle he had terrible survivers guilt, he felt he failed to protect them, that if only he swerved this way or that he could somehow prevented it. He was broken by it and in shock of course. If I remember right,( I'll check in a minute and edit my comment accordingly, its been a long day and i have foggy brain) the next significant drive, this time Jackie, her son and the the coffin, Jackie requested that he drive. That touched him deeply as you can imagine. Watch it when you're in a better place. Best wishes.

  • @christystewart4567
    @christystewart4567 2 роки тому +909

    When my dad died in 2000 we had to choose a casket for him to be cremated in. We chose something that I swear looked like a shoe box from the 60s. Cardboard, but I knew if we’d chosen anything else dad would have reanimated, charged out of the cold storage, and demanded what the heck I was thinking.

    • @denisefoxcroft8920
      @denisefoxcroft8920 2 роки тому +99

      My Dad was like your Dad. If you're deceased, that's it. What does it matter what you're buried in. Why make your family financially suffer with a grand piece of wood 🪵 to bury you in. He said tomato boxes would be fine and a patch of earth under the African sky he loved so much would do just fine. Of course we didn't bury him in a tomato box coffin, but we did bury him next to Dhlinza Forest in Eshowe South African with God's glorious sky above him. We also buried my 2 brothers near him. Bet they're happy!

    • @ridingmoon1617
      @ridingmoon1617 2 роки тому +40

      If you are going to be cremated, spending lots of money on a coffin is a total waste. The coffin will be burned to a crisp anyway, so why spend more money on a expensive coffin?

    • @sandralynn6817
      @sandralynn6817 2 роки тому +25

      The "relationship" with the funeral home when my mother in law died was not good. After we picked out the coffin (which was very modest), and talked to the director about the other arrangements, they threw a huge price at us. My mother in law didn't have insurance so we asked if we could make payments. The director refused, saying they wanted the full amount and they refused to release the body until it was paid. Somehow we managed to scrape the money together. That wasn't all of it. When the truck with the vault arrived at the cemetery, it hit the stone archway leading into the cemetery. The funeral home demanded we pay for repairs to the truck and archway, but we threatened to take it to court and they backed down. And then on the day of the funeral the guy driving the hearse was just going to dump the casket at the cemetery and leave, but a 6' 7" 300 lb friend of my stepson's told him that if he did he was going into the hole before the casket went in. The driver stayed until we were ready.

    • @rjay7019
      @rjay7019 2 роки тому +13

      Same with my mom, she passed in 1994. Just a word of advice and I need to do this myself. Make those final arrangements. It was so hard to choose the cardboard box. Even though I know that's what she would have wanted. I've always felt 😞

    • @geester2123
      @geester2123 2 роки тому +1

      Some morticians pull the old bait and switch. Selling the high end casket, removing the body and cremating the body in a pine box, whose to know, reselling the original box for. $$$. An easy scam. Why would you buy a casket for several grand only to burn it. Makes zero sense, especially financially.

  • @Biggarou
    @Biggarou 6 місяців тому +1

    That was probably the most tasteful and at the same ytime informative video I have seen on youtube in a while. Thank you for presenting it. No speculation no theories, just facts.. Flawlessly exucuted.

  • @scarymonsterzz
    @scarymonsterzz 2 роки тому +418

    Thank you for mentioning their son, Patrick. I remember hearing about how he died because he was born only 5 weeks premature. I recently had a baby who was born 11 weeks premature yet he surived his birth and is healthy and gaining weight everyday. Aparently the science of neonatalogy owes a lot to Patrick Kennedy. Because of his death there was a big push in the medical field for advancements to be made to save babies born prematurely. A lot of new techniques to help babies survive being born earlier and earlier eventually came about because of his death. It's amazing to me that my baby and millions of other babies born much earlier than Patrick can now live and grow to be healthy happy children all because of the advancements made in medical science that came about in the past few decades.

    • @charlayned
      @charlayned 2 роки тому +32

      So glad to hear your baby's doing well. I had a couple of early (4 week) kids who have given me grandkids now (and almost great grandkids). My husband was a 12.5 week early in 1956. I have pictures of him in the isolette. He's survived, is doing great.

    • @maureenogorman8740
      @maureenogorman8740 2 роки тому +26

      I remember reading about their very preemie baby and how his death was such an impact on jfk/jbk. When I realized he was only 5 weeks early and yet had at best a 50/50 chance, it was stunning. My kid was only a week later and while she was in the NICU for a few days, it was almost routine. Patrick Kennedy's death was on the president's mind constantly for the last few months of his life. Taking this hidden and almost shameful event and putting it into the public view, spurred so much research. My kid benefited from this tragedy.

    • @lindashepard4621
      @lindashepard4621 2 роки тому +17

      I have an elderly friend whose first child was born early and died from the same issues as Patrick. Interesting that both Jackie and my friend were smokers, which can be linked to premature births. I believe Mrs Kennedy had a miscarriage or still birth previously.

    • @gamerbabexo6558
      @gamerbabexo6558 2 роки тому +6

      Happy to know your little guy is growing and thriving, I've learned something new today, thanks for sharing.

    • @khowler
      @khowler 2 роки тому +15

      Learn something new every day. I had no idea that Patrick Kennedy was the reason we have more technology for premies. Glad your child is doing good.

  • @skittstuff
    @skittstuff Рік тому +1339

    I never knew how much Jackie was involved in all of the aftermath. She really seems like an unsung hero here. I can't imagine the strength it would take to be so calm, dignified, and compassionate after sitting next to your husband as he's assassinated and having his blood all over you.

    • @handsomesag4668
      @handsomesag4668 Рік тому

      she blew his brains out with a pistol, truth in plain sight

    • @silentsmilez503
      @silentsmilez503 Рік тому +5

      She killed her husband shot him w a single shot revolver

    • @vivinamorrison
      @vivinamorrison Рік тому +9

      I know! Did you know she herself ordered the Cason that carried Abraham Lincoln’s body? 😮❤

    • @peggyjones7687
      @peggyjones7687 Рік тому +1

      @@silentsmilez503 you are misinformed. Oswald killed JFK.

    • @peggyjones7687
      @peggyjones7687 Рік тому +29

      @@vivinamorrison as was her right. I was 12 when he was assassinated and if I lived to be 171 I would never forget that week. It is tatooed to the inside of my skull. And now I hear they don't even teach it anymore. How sad.

  • @jasonrodgers9063
    @jasonrodgers9063 6 місяців тому +1

    I've been to the museum that now occupies the 6th floor of the Texas book depository and saw the corner window that was preserved as it was at the time, as you showed us in the video. Beyond chilling.

  • @Awannabestylist
    @Awannabestylist Місяць тому

    This was very well done. As a retired cop/crime scene tech, I always wondered about some of the things you researched and reported.

  • @kimberlys8422
    @kimberlys8422 2 роки тому +934

    I read the Clint Hill book and when he described Jackie gathering up her husband's brain matter and telling him "I love you, Jack" that really hurt my heart

    • @julecaesara482
      @julecaesara482 2 роки тому +13

      she what

    • @Peannlui
      @Peannlui 2 роки тому +99

      @@julecaesara482 Portions of his brain was all over the back seat of the car and on Jackie's hands. I believe she was quoted as saying so.

    • @trinitythex6625
      @trinitythex6625 2 роки тому +5

      Wow I need to read that book!

    • @B-ch6uk
      @B-ch6uk 2 роки тому +25

      I thought she jumped out of that car quickly. She was probably covered in his blood and brain matter too. I can't imagine.

    • @imaginaryvintage2695
      @imaginaryvintage2695 2 роки тому

      @@julecaesara482 Shouted "CAN I KISS YOU???" after trying to kidnap her.

  • @dalehammond1704
    @dalehammond1704 2 роки тому +673

    I can't even imagine how Jackie was able to endure everything. One minute they're smiling and waving at the crowds and suddenly her husband is dead. Then she has to deal with all the events after that fatal shot. How many people could hold up through this type of nightmare? She was some special person.

    • @Jeremiah13tears
      @Jeremiah13tears 2 роки тому +9

      I think she knew about her husbands affairs for years Not that she didn’t love him. I think she did what looked morally well of the times.

    • @iuliagribanova7019
      @iuliagribanova7019 2 роки тому +36

      @@Jeremiah13tears It's still horrible to see your husband being killed in front of your eyes. I doubt she wanted him dead

    • @B-ch6uk
      @B-ch6uk 2 роки тому +13

      Probably shock and disbelief. I'm sure reality hit her after everything settled down.

    • @imaginaryvintage2695
      @imaginaryvintage2695 2 роки тому +2

      Ariana Grande could NEVER

    • @s-unrise
      @s-unrise 2 роки тому +17

      @@imaginaryvintage2695 wtf does ariana grande have to do with it

  • @markfitzgeraldstudent8332
    @markfitzgeraldstudent8332 5 місяців тому

    Simply fabulous work, @Caitlin Doughty. Well done.

  • @jeffreydamato8702
    @jeffreydamato8702 Місяць тому

    Wow, I watched that whole thing in one sitting so quickly, I can't believe how fascinated I was by it when I really needed something to distract my attention so thank you! Great stuff! My first piece from you, instant subscribe.

  • @pooryorick831
    @pooryorick831 2 роки тому +734

    A lot of people don't realize that when Jackie turned around and reached out over the back hood of the car, she was not trying to help Clint hill get into the car. She was actually reaching for a chunk of Jack's skull and brains. Jackie's courage and poise in the hours and days after she witnessed something so horrible was nothing short of amazing. It helped calm the grieving nation. For that at least she should be remembered as a hero.

    • @christianhight5774
      @christianhight5774 2 роки тому +10

      Actually I did! In high school i did a presentation on JFK, so yeah I did my research

    • @ellendaniels8715
      @ellendaniels8715 2 роки тому +46

      Poor thing might've thought getting the piece of his flesh back might save him or help somewhat in her state of mind.

    • @dwighta8215
      @dwighta8215 2 роки тому +4

      Paul, you’re so wrong it’s not even funny.

    • @snakesnoteyes
      @snakesnoteyes 2 роки тому

      @Terri Kay this is like the shadows argument for moon landing conspiracy folks, you know just enough to ask questions, but not enough to understand the answers. The way that high caliber ammo works and LHO’s angle easily explains that.

    • @maternalheart66
      @maternalheart66 2 роки тому +5

      I feel like it’s a misconception that people don’t know that, as I see this fact posted very frequently

  • @cooperationiskey
    @cooperationiskey 2 роки тому +556

    I've learned WAY more about the human side of the Kennedy assassination through this video than I have through decades of bigger-production documentaries and the America school system. Thank you for a beautiful, educational video.

    • @anitarosetorres420
      @anitarosetorres420 2 роки тому +2

      Same

    • @1971dave
      @1971dave 2 роки тому

      You too have learnt nothing then have you, on the day there were several snipers, JFK to 911 a rich man's trick, 3 hour-long documentary you may want to watch that,

    • @julzmgrforll7278
      @julzmgrforll7278 2 роки тому +1

      Could not have said it better!

    • @susanpalle3199
      @susanpalle3199 2 роки тому +1

      I know exactly what you mean.

    • @mnkee11
      @mnkee11 2 роки тому +1

      I highly recommend Clint Hill’s books. I learned so much from his recollections in both Five Presidents and Mrs Kennedy and Me.

  • @colleenregan9130
    @colleenregan9130 12 днів тому

    I have watched this multiple times. In my opinion, this video is amongst your finest work. Thanks for all you do, you’re a wonderful teacher!!

  • @markbenavidez6398
    @markbenavidez6398 2 місяці тому

    Thank you. That was very interesting and informative. I was 4 years old when President Kennedy was Assanated but have always been fascinated by him and we even went to the museum in Dallas which was a humbling place to see and stand on the 5th floor and look out that window. Thank you again for your work !

  • @indigohammer5732
    @indigohammer5732 2 роки тому +412

    Sixty years later, it's still a horrifying, shocking event. That poor, poor woman. No one deserves that. No one.

    • @BigRatNuggz
      @BigRatNuggz 2 роки тому +2

      Wow it’s been 60 years?! My aunt was probably 12 or 14 when he past

    • @denisefoxcroft8920
      @denisefoxcroft8920 2 роки тому +11

      It feels like yesterday. I'm 71 and remember the shock of the assassination. Really horrifying event.

    • @jadenharris4960
      @jadenharris4960 2 роки тому

      Its 59 years honey I was born in 63 & I’ll be 59 this year ....smh
      Don’t rush it

    • @miaomiaochan
      @miaomiaochan Місяць тому

      A lot of things had been bungled between the time Kennedy was shot to the time he was buried, but we have to give the people involved some grace, as this event was unforeseen, shocking, world-changing, and deeply traumatizing. No one could have prepared adequately for it.

  • @davidroddick91
    @davidroddick91 2 роки тому +468

    Jackie was a remarkably strong woman. I can't imagine going through what she went through and being so in control. And finding out here that she was already in mourning for her infant son.

    • @LuvBorderCollies
      @LuvBorderCollies 2 роки тому +24

      Plus she was well aware of John's wandering eyes and hands, but she kept up the facade.

    • @lizadivine3785
      @lizadivine3785 2 роки тому +22

      @@LuvBorderCollies as caroline once said that’s between them. There is no doubt to me that jfk and jbk did love each other.

    • @seanbrown9048
      @seanbrown9048 2 роки тому +4

      @@LuvBorderCollies “Happy birthday mister president…” lol

    • @seanbrown9048
      @seanbrown9048 2 роки тому

      @@lizadivine3785 it was an arranged marriage, a power coupling insisted on by Joe, the fixer who made JFK president.

  • @ABSOLUTfiftytwo
    @ABSOLUTfiftytwo 3 місяці тому +2

    Caitlin Omg! I totally love you! You and your videos, explaining with just a touch of levity are special and yes, amazing. Thank you 🙏

  • @JennieBanks
    @JennieBanks 3 місяці тому +3

    Incredible video. Wow. I had no idea. Thank you so much for giving this a level of respect it richly deserved.

  • @katmorrison6078
    @katmorrison6078 2 роки тому +561

    Honestly…..I get the closed casket thing completely. My mom died after multiple months of being sick in the hospital and the funeral home tried to restore her. I remember being asked to see her in the casket and for my opinion and went to look and……I literally blocked it out of my memory because she didn’t look like my mom at all. Not the funeral home’s fault, she had been sick for a long time, but I couldn’t even look without completely dissociating.
    We ended up having a closed casket funeral and I’m glad we did. It was better to remember her full of life and healthy instead of being reminded of the months of hell at the end of her life.

    • @ejrose1339
      @ejrose1339 2 роки тому +10

      This is also why we had a closed casket for my grandparents funerals, it was better to invasion them the way I did in life rather than what they looked like in a casket.

    • @Crrly
      @Crrly 2 роки тому +14

      I,as a Swede, don't get the open casket funerals, nor embalming. And we don't use caskets, we have coffins. Of course I understand it's different around the world, I don't wanna come off as disrespectful.

    • @nmhg
      @nmhg 2 роки тому +5

      All of my grandparents had open caskets but one of them died after being in a coma in the hospital for like a month. She had had a lot of brain bleeding and she didn't look at all like herself. It was awful to see, tbh. But my mom and her siblings and my grandma's siblings wanted to see her one last time so of course we respected that

    • @someidiot420
      @someidiot420 2 роки тому +7

      oh my god same, my aunt died in a drunk driving accident and my mom straight up didnt let me go to the funeral bc when we went to view her my 7 yr old self pretty much had a breakdown and insisted that they had replaced her with someone else. it didnt look like her. i still remember it vividly and it still doesnt look like her. now that i think about it, it was kinda traumatizing.
      like you said, not the funeral home's fault at all. but i think a closed casket wouldve been best. if that had been the case i probably wouldve been able to go and say goodbye. im still kinda angry abt that.

    • @douglasgriffiths3534
      @douglasgriffiths3534 2 роки тому +4

      @@nmhg I didn't want to see my parents or in-laws after they passed. We were asked if we wanted to, but declined. It would have been the last image of them, and I'd rather remember them as they were in life. We have many photos to remember them by. (Jan Griffiths).

  • @smang7866
    @smang7866 Рік тому +1296

    I recently lost my son. The costs at the funeral home were revolting. The cost to have my son transported from the neighboring city he was found in, closer to home, permits etc, added insult to injury. There’s little empathy and compassion for the mourning. A prime opportunity to prey on the vulnerable and add emotional stress for the lack of financials for the proper burial, cremation and resting place.
    It’s inhumane.

    • @brandondavidson2200
      @brandondavidson2200 Рік тому +72

      I'm so sorry for not only your loss but that you had to deal with all of that. I can't even imagine what you're going through. You sincerely have my deepest condolences.

    • @scottnyc6572
      @scottnyc6572 Рік тому +41

      So sorry for your loss.Theres a level of compassion that should be expected your absolutely correct.

    • @ragtopannie
      @ragtopannie Рік тому +23

      I’m so sorry about the loss of your son. My deepest condolences.

    • @pdkrace
      @pdkrace Рік тому +17

      Our family sends our condolences to you.

    • @jademusic1211
      @jademusic1211 Рік тому +19

      I'm so deeply sorry about your son and the cruel unfairness of the financial burden that resulted.😥💔 Sending you and your family love and healing prayers.😔❤️

  • @AdoptThisDog
    @AdoptThisDog Місяць тому

    This is a wonderful video covering such a sensitive subject with clarity and grace. Thank you

  • @juliaknight6544
    @juliaknight6544 Місяць тому +1

    I really do enjoy your commentary. A lot of people are freaked out about death but people have to realize it’s all a part of life and it’s an interesting part that no one ever talks about and I like your commentary you’re not ghoulish at all you’re very straightforward and you cross things over veryinterestingly with Carismatic if I use for lack of a better word, look forward to more post on your channel

  • @piecesofgold1086
    @piecesofgold1086 2 роки тому +1437

    the treatment jackie received from both the public and the kennedy family after her husbands death was abhorrent. bobby was the only one who was kind to her and he was murdered the same way as his brother not long after. she lived with severe PTSD for the rest of her life and never recovered from it.
    i rarely see anyone talk about her after his death, so i really appreciate this video.
    EDIT: Barbara Leamimg wrote a fantastic biography about Jackie for anyone who’d like to know more!

    • @staceykelly4211
      @staceykelly4211 2 роки тому +89

      Jackie remained a public figure for the rest of her life. She was later known as Jackie O. She married Aristotle Onassis. Her every move was followed.

    • @PungiFungi
      @PungiFungi 2 роки тому +12

      Let's not do revisionist history.

    • @ghoulishtoad
      @ghoulishtoad 2 роки тому +15

      @@PungiFungi ?

    • @carstennn
      @carstennn 2 роки тому +23

      I really agree. I remember learning about this in school and having so many questions about her, with my history teacher having no answers for me. He did end up doing research and telling me another day but it wasn’t something he had thought of before.

    • @ReflectedMiles
      @ReflectedMiles 2 роки тому +28

      @@ghoulishtoad It's a reference to Jackie being central to the story and a comfort to the country in her own way, controversial as all political figures are but also shown much compassion and the nation grieving with her, which I can attest to from having been part of that time in the US--not quite as the OP would have it.

  • @TracyTuten-sh5tr
    @TracyTuten-sh5tr 11 місяців тому +1152

    I think Jackie carried out her role as First Lady flawlessly. She did a wonderful job with the funeral for the family and nation.

    • @JackieOwl94
      @JackieOwl94 11 місяців тому +34

      My mother studied the Kennedy’s and admired them. I’m named after Jackie Kennedy. I learned of her sacrifice and love for the president as a small child. I can’t imagine her grief and her resolve.

    • @mattwilliam5522
      @mattwilliam5522 10 місяців тому +7

      Jackie be pure evil

    • @Abkeda
      @Abkeda 9 місяців тому +26

      @@mattwilliam5522 you knew her personally? I think not. Keep your comments to yourself. Just because this is UA-cam you don't get to speak ill of the dead.

    • @mattwilliam5522
      @mattwilliam5522 9 місяців тому +4

      @@Abkeda I'm sorry to hurt your feelings lol but the deal is I don't care what you think so you should be quiet

    • @mattwilliam5522
      @mattwilliam5522 9 місяців тому

      @@Kennedy_77441 history says it she's pure evil

  • @frances-if5fp
    @frances-if5fp 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for how you thoroughly, yet compassionately handled this subject. I tear up no matter how many times I see videos about the assassinations of Jack Kennedy, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., and Robert Kennedy...all the good that could have come of their efforts, had they not been wrenched from life prematurely.

    • @miaomiaochan
      @miaomiaochan Місяць тому +1

      I can't imagine what it must have been like to have lived through the 1960s. Death after death after death of major public figures must have felt like the death of hope itself.

  • @StuMcAlister.
    @StuMcAlister. 5 місяців тому +2

    Another excellent explainer. Thank you, Caitlin 👍

  • @glendafulton
    @glendafulton 2 роки тому +176

    She had just lost her baby then her husband I always thought of Jackie as a strong lady but with all this added information I don't think I have ever seen anyone male or female that can come close to the strength of this amazing Lady I pray you have found the peace you so deserve

    • @rulerofomicronpersei8
      @rulerofomicronpersei8 2 роки тому

      The Kennedys are terrible terrible people, you don’t know the half of it.

  • @moredena
    @moredena 2 роки тому +142

    When I was in high school, my boyfriend was stabbed to death by a home intruder. I remember going to his funeral. They had a viewing before where his close friends and family were invited to see him. It's been more than 20 years and I still remember seeing my friend there, dead and still. Obviously had been all done up. And all I remember is crying and saying it couldn't be him because he wasn't smiling.
    I can imagine that Jackie felt much the same... And that gives me great compassion for her. ❤️

    • @shirleysue228
      @shirleysue228 2 роки тому +1

      moredena,
      When the soul leaves the body, the essence of that person is gone.
      The body remains, but not their spirit, therefore leaving you somewhat empty and realizing the person, what made them is gone.
      It's hard to explain.
      That's what I felt anyway looking and touching my son in his coffin.

  • @sunday6092
    @sunday6092 2 місяці тому

    Nicely covered Caitlyn. I was 5yrs old when JFK was assassinated. I wondered why the world seem to be crying. JFK jr & I shared the same birthday. The images on our black & white TV played over & over, burning that day forever in my mind. I can still recall it all as if were yesterday.

  • @CrissyLynnB
    @CrissyLynnB 5 місяців тому +1

    Was born in '66 so I have no actual memory, only what I have watched of this event throughout my years. I am always overcome by tears watching Jackie and the grace she held during those days. So kind to others who loved Jack and comforting them while dealing with her own trauma and grief. She was and always will be one of the classiest women I've known.

  • @niferanne53
    @niferanne53 2 роки тому +365

    My mom went to school with Jackie and my grandfather David C. Mearns, who was a Lincoln historian and worked at the Library of Congress was called the night of JFKs assassination. He and my grandmother went to the Library with flashlights in hand and retrieved all the documentation related to the funeral of Lincoln, so that those details might be incorporated for Kennedy’s funeral.

    • @jessica.L.edwards
      @jessica.L.edwards 2 роки тому +22

      This is fascinating. Thank you for sharing! I would love to hear more about their experiences related to the Kennedy’s, if you are willing to share!

    • @GildaLee27
      @GildaLee27 2 роки тому +17

      Your grandfather David Mearns did a great service to this nation that night. I am grateful that he and your mother were there and knew what to do. May God bless the United States of America.

    • @louisebrandon5950
      @louisebrandon5950 2 роки тому +8

      Thanks so much for sharing 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

    • @pamela5250
      @pamela5250 2 роки тому +9

      That’s an incredible family history.

    • @niferanne53
      @niferanne53 2 роки тому +1

      @@jessica.L.edwards there aren’t many more stories related to the Kennedy’s. My mom ran into Jackie a few times in DC and she was always warm and gracious with her. My grandfather had more interesting experiences through the Library. He was sent to catalog the White House library. This was when Taft was in office. The president’s dog and he did not get along. One day after returning from lunch, he found the dog again in the library behind a window curtain. My grandfather gave him a good kick only to find out it was the President opening up a window. It’s reported they both laughed! While at LOC he met Robert Todd Lincoln who asked that he curate his father’s papers after Robert died, which he did do. He was close friends with Carl Sandburg , Archibald MacLeish and other notables, but he was just my grandfather to me.

  • @themerlynn
    @themerlynn 2 роки тому +647

    Everyone focuses on the controversy and conspiracies theories surrounding jfk's death. No one really looks at the human side of it. Thanks you for the video Caitlin.

    • @VeganSemihCyprus33
      @VeganSemihCyprus33 2 роки тому

      Urgent attention! ✌👉 The Connections (2021) [short documentary] 💖✌

    • @KingShxdow
      @KingShxdow 2 роки тому

      us understanding the 'human' side is what pisses us off about the situation dumbazz. Hes a man who got his face blew off, something wasnt right about it and MF's wanted answers.

    • @balanced-shez8226
      @balanced-shez8226 2 роки тому +1

      There's was conspiring alright

    • @JFK-ir7yz
      @JFK-ir7yz 2 роки тому

      The human side is bringing the true murdered and conspirators to justice. Everything else is just smoke and mirrors. Come on man. Wake up already .

    • @knightofcydonia1192
      @knightofcydonia1192 2 роки тому

      @@balanced-shez8226 Liar

  • @terri200
    @terri200 6 місяців тому +3

    This was a completely different situation!! Jackie was in shock, she loved him and she did everything correctly for what she could do!! I remember being sent home early from school and watching everything with my family!! People have to leave this alone!! People can be so gruesome and money hungry. Thank you for always sharing info!!🙏💖🪶💞

  • @61rampy65
    @61rampy65 4 місяці тому

    I seem to recall that the guards guarding the casket in the rotunda were originally ordered to be faced away from the casket. Jackie had them turn around to face the casket, saying something like 'I don't want people's back turned to the President'. I had just turned 10 when the assassination occurred, but I remember my aunt calling us while I was home for lunch. When I got back to school, TVs were set up in some rooms so we could watch the news. Many kids were crying. A very sad day for the US, and the world. This is only my 3rd Caitlin video, but I am highly impressed with the depth, the research, and especially the presentation.

  • @maggiejackson2160
    @maggiejackson2160 2 роки тому +257

    So, I was at my side-hustle at a doggie daycare earlier today when one of our regular dogs, Crushy, died very peacefully in her sleep in the corner of the playroom. Obviously, it came as a shock and was really kind of awful to have to deal with, but it brought into sharp relief the skills that I’ve gained from watching your content, Caitlin. I am so grateful for the honest, rational, compassionate, and loving way that you approach death and grieving; having this video to watch after coming home today was a gift.

    • @tiffprendergast
      @tiffprendergast 2 роки тому +5

      Sorry

    • @killerqueen1115
      @killerqueen1115 2 роки тому +12

      I am so sorry that you had to experience Crushy's death! My family's dog who I grew up with died in my arms and I still think of that moment til this day. But as you sad she died peacefully, I hope that this knowledge can help you work through the grief. Hope you feel better soon, and please remember the countless beautiful moments that Crushy had in her life! Sometimes the grief overshadows all the happy memories we have

    • @loes3000
      @loes3000 2 роки тому +7

      R.I.P. Crushy 🕊🦴

    • @ink3539
      @ink3539 2 роки тому +3

      I'm sorry for your loss 😢

    • @crystalBall9287
      @crystalBall9287 2 роки тому +5

      😢 RIP Crushy Hopefully that pup got one last happy romp around

  • @groovymovie3213
    @groovymovie3213 2 роки тому +425

    Jackie’s own mother was totally dismissive of her trauma even when Jackie was standing in front of her in the suit that STILL HAD JOHN’S BLOOD ON IT. Poor Jackie. I hope she managed to find some sort of peace in her life.

    • @bigdindallas1
      @bigdindallas1 2 роки тому +28

      She wanted everyone to see what was done,,,

    • @lizh1988
      @lizh1988 2 роки тому +23

      Mrs Bouvier, Jackie's mom, was really mean to her daughter when she was young, slapping her and telling her to get a rich man. I don't think she was very human.

    • @Apollo_Blaze
      @Apollo_Blaze 2 роки тому +4

      I think Jackie found some sort of peace, but not totally...I do not think you can be totally healed from something like that event without hypnosis...I think she found her own type of peace through her children

    • @bobjones2041
      @bobjones2041 Рік тому +1

      Trump laughed there's late night footage of it

  • @nancynewton8094
    @nancynewton8094 2 місяці тому +1

    I remember that day so very well. I was 11 years old in 7th grade, and just after 11:00 in California our school Principal came over the class speakers telling us that President Kenedy had been shot and died while in Dallas. My father was a Marine stationed at Camp Pendleton. We got let out of school. I had barely walked in the door when dad called to tell me base was on lock down and to lock the house and wait for mom to get home with my siblings. We sat glued to the television watching Walter Cronkite and the news for days. We didn't have recorders or view later options back then. It was live only.

  • @nbcatlover
    @nbcatlover Місяць тому +2

    People later questioned Jackie’s marriage to Onassis, but he could buy the privacy & protection from the public eye when she needed it.

  • @chomama1628
    @chomama1628 2 роки тому +382

    This was the most detailed account of what occurred after Jack’s death that I had ever heard. Thank you from someone who was alive at the time and felt the grief as a citizen to this senseless act. Our world was never the same. It is seared into the fabric of America. Well done.

    • @pamelagay3303
      @pamelagay3303 2 роки тому +1

      Yes I was alive also at the time. I was age 12.

    • @abhinavpatil759
      @abhinavpatil759 2 роки тому +2

      You cry this hard when they lynched MLK Jr.? What about Malcolm X?

    • @Redhand1949
      @Redhand1949 2 роки тому +1

      Agreed. I was a sixth-grader in school when the unbelievable news came that day over the PA system. The event was an absolute turning point in our history. As you state it so well, "Our world was never the same" after it. And yes, this video is excellent.

    • @MommaZim2
      @MommaZim2 2 роки тому

      Cheryl..I just posted a comment..please read it

    • @curbozerboomer1773
      @curbozerboomer1773 2 роки тому +2

      This woman got a few things wrong...that fancy casket did indeed get the interior covered up, to keep the blood and gore from ruining the interior...but it was not several rubber bags...the nurses installed a large, plastic bedliner they took from a hospital bed...it was quite broad, and covered very well. Then, the body ws wrapped in two sheets...one was wrapped round JFKs very bloody head; the 2nd one was wrapped around the rest of his body...when his body was removed from the fancy casket at Bethesda, prior to autopsy, the two people transferring the body actually thought that large plastic liner was a type of body bag!...Their mistake triggered quite a few theories concerning JFKs body being somehow messed with...but none of that was true. BTW...for the most complete, thorough accounting of how JFKs autopsy went, please read the book-Reclaiming History"...an incredibly well-researched book, using only factual information. Much more detailed than this shallow video could ever be!

  • @RubyBlueUwU
    @RubyBlueUwU 2 роки тому +829

    I’ve really never known much about JFK as a president or Jackie as a person, but this story has always been so heartbreaking and I am forever amazed at her strength and presence after something so unimaginably traumatising and horrific

    • @LorienInksong
      @LorienInksong 2 роки тому +53

      Honestly when stuff like this happens, even to politicians, I just see horrible trauma. Its just awful the way Jackie got treated. I mean gosh you already got a reply callously pointing out her faults just 'cause.

    • @sophierobinson2738
      @sophierobinson2738 2 роки тому +24

      @@poppynogood6097 Your name fits you quite well.

    • @RubyBlueUwU
      @RubyBlueUwU 2 роки тому +44

      @@poppynogood6097 that’s a really awful way to judge someone’s character. Addicts are not inherently bad people, although people like you are.

    • @slugluv1313
      @slugluv1313 2 роки тому +16

      agreed -- i was only 4 years old when JFK was assassinated -- my earliest memory is of his funeral procession on TV -- i do not think that i even understood the concept of "President" -- but i knew by what i was watching on TV and by what i was feeling around me that something had gone horribly wrong -- not just on a small, local level but all over the world -- you could sense the trauma everywhere

    • @FannyAdamsGhost
      @FannyAdamsGhost 2 роки тому +9

      True, it's odd to see so many kids criticizing how she handled things when people these days are easily triggered by a simple word. People were built tougher back then.

  • @ciscodepr
    @ciscodepr 5 місяців тому +1

    Hi, just wanted to say I have always been interested in JFK, and this was a tremendous film filled with great information. Great work, and keep it up for you gained a subscriber!!

  • @Rsysas
    @Rsysas 2 місяці тому +1

    This story has fascinated me since childhood. So much has been said about the caskets and damage to the body. Great job- one of the best jfk videos. Thank you

  • @laurenconrad1799
    @laurenconrad1799 2 роки тому +481

    When the world needed her most, she returned. ❤️

    • @torquettalk
      @torquettalk 2 роки тому +2

      Happy (late) Easter!!!

    • @cruisingcory5414
      @cruisingcory5414 2 роки тому

      Lmao

    • @PrometheusV
      @PrometheusV 2 роки тому +9

      Because she's the Mortician we deserve, AND the one we need right now

    • @laurenc.2889
      @laurenc.2889 2 роки тому +2

      Exactly my thoughts! Our death mother has returned and we have been blessed! 🖤

  • @Zuckerpuppekopf
    @Zuckerpuppekopf 2 роки тому +510

    Part of JFK's head was blown off, - in the old movie footage you can see Jackie trying to catch the piece of skull that blew off his forehead. Even if there wasn't an autopsy, I'd imagine patching up that kind of damage would be difficult to disguise. Better to remember a person as they were while living rather than how they looked after they died.

    • @kadymedina
      @kadymedina 2 роки тому +55

      You can even see in this video, thats what she was doing when she went diving over the seat after he got shot.

    • @that.neurodivergent
      @that.neurodivergent 2 роки тому +21

      Ohhhhh my goodness I can't even imagine that level of trauma... 💔

    • @USNCBSLIXXX
      @USNCBSLIXXX 2 роки тому +2

      Amen.

    • @mwrcrft
      @mwrcrft 2 роки тому +7

      If they could make Sonny Corleone presentable then they can do about anything with the right motivation.

    • @widowrumstrypze9705
      @widowrumstrypze9705 2 роки тому +5

      @@mwrcrft I know, right? The Irish Mafia were slackers!

  • @violet9853
    @violet9853 6 місяців тому +3

    I love you, sister. Great job on your presentation.
    I love your humor.
    I always laugh out loud. ❤

  • @juliaknight6544
    @juliaknight6544 Місяць тому +2

    My son at the age of 28 years old was brutally stabbed 24 times when I saw him in the casket he looked like nothing had happened to him. I can tell you from experience the the funeral home made my son look absolutely beautiful like he had never been attacked. People don’t realize how important that is and the grieving process and I’ll never ever forget how much it helped me and make me with what it happened. Thank you for what you guys do to make our losses more bearable.

  • @markarich159
    @markarich159 15 днів тому +1

    Wow, I have to agree about the sheer greed and ruthlessness of funeral directors. My father died in March 2022. He had requested himself, in order to spare the family, the least expense possible, that he be cremated and have a modest service. We followed his instructions to the letter. When I got the bill from the funeral Director, I almost died myself $7000!!! The funeral director had charged $5000 for a one hour usage of his space for the memorial service. Five grand to use a space for one hour. I had assumed the bill would be no more than two grand since my father wasn’t embalmed or anything like that.
    P.s. I know you requested not to talk about conspiracy theories, but when you said, Jackie said “it isn’t Jack“. It probably wasn’t. One of the main theories is the reason JD Tippett was killed is because he looked so much like John Kennedy his fellow officers nicknamed him JFK because the resemblance was so striking. The conspiracy theory goes that tippet was actually the one who was autopsied and buried so that they could make the wound on Tippet conform to the traditional narrative that was said to the American public - that being that he was killed by three shots from Lee Harvey Oswald from the back from the book depository. The truth being Kennedy was shot from the front from thetriple overpass, not the grassy knoll. There was no way they could manipulate the real Kennedy’s body to conform to the traditional narrative, so Tippet was replaced, and the wounds were re-created on his body.

  • @babycakes1402
    @babycakes1402 2 роки тому +721

    So sad that PTSD was 'unheard of' at that time, otherwise both Jackie and Clint Hill might have been properly diagnosed & gone through counseling 'at the time', rather than to have to suffer for so long. She 'held it together' for the funeral then completely fell apart & she, for obvious reasons, dreaded November, especially 'that day' until the day she herself died.

    • @lindamedina4722
      @lindamedina4722 2 роки тому +45

      PTSD wwas refered to as "Shellshocked"

    • @kellydalstok8900
      @kellydalstok8900 2 роки тому +77

      @@lindamedina4722 I don’t think people realized at the time that people could suffer from it outside a war situation.

    • @vincentender1486
      @vincentender1486 2 роки тому +17

      @@kellydalstok8900 My father for sure believed that before witnessing me having flashbacks and the person who caused the ptsd was the one who was also triggered them because of things said and what they then did once I started slipping. He was mortified with himself and what he had thought he had known, I don't think he's fully forgiven himself.

    • @Felamine
      @Felamine 2 роки тому +12

      The epilogue of H.G. Wells' "The War of the Worlds" talks about the main character suffering from what could be called PTSD, and that book was written all the way back in the 1890's...
      "I must confess the stress and danger of the time have left an abiding sense of doubt and insecurity in my mind. I sit in my study writing by lamplight, and suddenly I see again the healing valley below set with writhing flames, and feel the house behind and about me empty and desolate. I go out into the Byfleet Road, and vehicles pass me, a butcher boy in a cart, a cabful of visitors, a workman on a bicycle, children going to school, and suddenly they become vague and unreal, and I hurry again with the artilleryman through the hot, brooding silence. Of a night I see the black powder darkening the silent streets, and the contorted bodies shrouded in that layer; they rise upon me tattered and dog-bitten. They gibber and grow fiercer, paler, uglier, mad distortions of humanity at last. And I wake, cold and wretched, in the darkness of the night."

    • @matthewstorer8236
      @matthewstorer8236 2 роки тому +39

      It is sad that PTSD wasn't recognized back then. "Shellshock" was thought to only occur in soldiers in intense battle. This woman wore her husband's brains and nobody did a thing for her. It's a testament to Jackie's strength to go on for her children.

  • @heatherwhatever7714
    @heatherwhatever7714 Рік тому +1398

    Jackie was such a young lady. My Mom wrote her a letter of condolences. She received back a hand written letter of thanks. Jackie’s hand must have hurt from all those notes.

    • @saguirre760
      @saguirre760 Рік тому +26

      Do you still have the letter?

    • @stormbunnie6966
      @stormbunnie6966 Рік тому +17

      Wow. My mom also loved Jackie.

    • @aprilgray9705
      @aprilgray9705 Рік тому +15

      Awe that's so kind I pray she is at peace.

    • @docadams7099
      @docadams7099 Рік тому +60

      But the pain in her hand was nothing compared to the pain in her heart. She was so dignified.

    • @jaggirl
      @jaggirl Рік тому +12

      That's really lovely of her.

  • @Shirtgama
    @Shirtgama 2 місяці тому +2

    This has one of my top ten favorite thumbnails

  • @edgardorubio7103
    @edgardorubio7103 5 місяців тому

    Caitlyn you were amazing, loved your way if telling the story.

  • @moonluna464
    @moonluna464 Рік тому +809

    My uncle was the first child ever with a complex heart disease in the 60's (Now they can literally do a simple surgery and after a few days the kids can go home). He died at age 3. Scientists asked my grandparents to keep his body to experiment on to see what exactly was the issue, but as extreme Christians, they didn't want that. In a weird coincidence, the mortuary was filled so the casket with my 'uncle' in it had to stay in their house for days until the funeral. However they said 'NEVER OPEN THE CASKET, NO MATTER WHAT'! Everyone complyed..except for my 6 year old mum. She finally got the casket open after a few days and found..rocks. There was no body whatsoever. So the hospital stole my uncle's body. My grandparents never knew but had a hunch. So even though this means my uncle probably helped thousands of people with his autopsy, it's disgusting they did this behind my grandparents back.

    • @All_Loves_Lost
      @All_Loves_Lost Рік тому +33

      Wow that’s crazy

    • @mspink2150
      @mspink2150 Рік тому

      Did they ever recover your uncles body for a Funeral?

    • @HavenNemiroff
      @HavenNemiroff Рік тому +85

      I think it's a complicated situation, I understand your disgust and it's valid. But I also think that the hospital did the right thing. I don't like the idea of denying anyone autonomy over their body after death, but I believe when your body can advance science and save lives you have a responsibility to do so. I have a rare genetic disease and have signed all the paperwork for scientific donation.

    • @whoisharo4689
      @whoisharo4689 Рік тому +7

      whoa...

    • @sarahholmes2277
      @sarahholmes2277 Рік тому +42

      I am so sorry this happen to your family. At such an unfathomable time, person (s) took advantage and stole the most precious. Disgusting and absolutely beyond words.
      I lost my son when he was very young too, and the pain is indescribable but to then face the horror of your child being stolen is something even else.

  • @MissJellybean
    @MissJellybean Рік тому +969

    The level of class and grace Jackie Kennedy displayed in such grief is beyond comprehension. She was a lady in every sense of the word.

    • @HauntedDocumentaries
      @HauntedDocumentaries Рік тому +22

      Class, grace, and respect. She was a true defintion of a woman. I love it.

    • @jennifermiller8335
      @jennifermiller8335 Рік тому +26

      One is no longer a lady if they cry?

    • @joannefigs641
      @joannefigs641 Рік тому +4

      She knew of his many indiscretions.

    • @thomasharvey3755
      @thomasharvey3755 Рік тому +13

      She shire was a woman of impeccable, taste, and statuesque. She’s the definition of a true woman.

    • @t.j1036
      @t.j1036 Рік тому +10

      @@jennifermiller8335
      That's like saying if a man cries he's no longer a man lol

  • @ohok3608
    @ohok3608 29 днів тому

    I've seen every JFK video there is and learn more about this whole thing from your video than almost any other

  • @user-yd4mr8jr6o
    @user-yd4mr8jr6o 3 місяці тому +1

    You did a great job on explaining everything on the story 👍🏻🤘🏻

  • @helenl3193
    @helenl3193 2 роки тому +242

    Jackie asking the same agent to drive them to the hospital absolutely floored me. I'm so impressed that she was even aware of the impact it was having on the agents around her in the moment, let alone able to be compassionate and insightful enough to find a meaningful way to reach out to him and help him heal like that!
    Just incredible, kudos Jackie!
    Also, is it possible that the charges from the Dallas funeral home were so high because they might have damaged the hearse's locking mechanism as well as the casket?

    • @spazzyshortgirl23
      @spazzyshortgirl23 2 роки тому +11

      Ya know…that kinda makes sense

    • @emcaco
      @emcaco 2 роки тому +16

      Oof yeah. How much does it cost to repair a specialized hearse element.

    • @tundrawomansays5067
      @tundrawomansays5067 2 роки тому +15

      It just breaks my heart all over again to watch Jackie crawling back towards the trunk of the vehicle to attempt to retrieve the bone and tissue of her husband’s brain.

    • @SadisticSenpai61
      @SadisticSenpai61 2 роки тому +17

      When you're in that kind of situation, habits tend to kick in. For a woman who was very used to being in the public's eye and paying attention to what the ppl around her need/expect, leaning into that kind of thing would be a reflex and also a way to keep herself from dwelling on what's going on. In that sort of situation, it can be easy to feel very detached from what ppl expect you to feel or do. It hasn't quite sunk in, you know?
      And yeah, I imagine the costs to repair the hearse probably played a role in the size of the bill. I'm very glad they decided to destroy the casket. That kind of thing absolutely should _not_ end up in the hands of collectors, nor should it be used as some kind of... shrine.

    • @PaladinDansesGirlfriend
      @PaladinDansesGirlfriend 2 роки тому +6

      Plus the driving a brand new hearse all over - wear and tear

  • @CatMomMarina
    @CatMomMarina Рік тому +932

    The way Jackie was treated throughout the whole process is insane, it's a great example of how we dehumanize public figures even in their most fragile moments.

    • @fjb3544
      @fjb3544 10 місяців тому +7

      Fragile? She was only with him because of the aftermath of the damage it would have called if she divorced him. He was cheating on her and she knew it. He told Monroe he was going to leave Jacky for her.

    • @shaynewheeler9249
      @shaynewheeler9249 10 місяців тому +2

      Pine coffins

    • @debracarey9944
      @debracarey9944 9 місяців тому

      It was a set up. It was all planned and Jackie tried to talk President JFK out of going, but he wanted to go, because he was going to spill the beans.

    • @MichaelChong100
      @MichaelChong100 8 місяців тому

      Lol, Marilyn Monroe and Jackie Kennedy aren’t perfect women but these rumors of the Kennedy affairs have been debunked time and time again and yet you guys still believe the bull****.

    • @megan-1600
      @megan-1600 7 місяців тому +16

      @@fjb3544she was literally sat next to him when he was shot in the head, her clothes soaked in his blood. That was her husband, whom she loved. Wtf are you talking about

  • @justadreamin1004
    @justadreamin1004 15 днів тому

    Well done Caitlin! I am 68 years old and didn't know any of this! ----- Well done!

  • @robertawestbrooks9531
    @robertawestbrooks9531 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing such an amazing experience. I cried when he was shot, and hearing the real story, makes me feel so close to this famous family ❤❤❤❤