Eye Contact With Strangers Experiment

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  • Опубліковано 23 сер 2024
  • Where has the human connection gone in our big cities? In this public experiment we discover what happens when we intentionally share eye contact with strangers...We had no idea how quickly things would escalate!
    Enjoy and share to inspire more experiences of connection in public.
    Video Recording: Jimmy James Bee​ & Ocean Trimboli​
    Editing: The Liberators International​
    Music: Eyes Wide Open - Tony Anderson

КОМЕНТАРІ • 216

  • @lenalee5516
    @lenalee5516 3 роки тому +335

    I remember that one eyecontact i made with a stranger on the train, he was sitting infront of me , at first we were avoiding to look at each other cuz it was awkward then kinda both started gazing at each other's eyes for quite a long time and we ended up smiling, his eyes were so beautiful i felt like he was looking into my soul, when he reached his station he told me to take care even tho we didn't share any conversation. Everytime i remember that moment i start smiling its been more than a year since it happened and each time i wish i can meet him again

    • @gmp782
      @gmp782 2 роки тому +7

      ITS ME i missed you so much!

    • @Zainab-cp4sf
      @Zainab-cp4sf 2 роки тому +16

      @@gmp782 wait what

    • @ss-bq4pk
      @ss-bq4pk 2 роки тому +25

      Hey, im the one who drove the train :) i loved to see you two make the connection!

    • @stfunowlamebtch
      @stfunowlamebtch 2 роки тому +20

      I was the passenger. I witnessed everything.

    • @lenalee5516
      @lenalee5516 2 роки тому +4

      @@stfunowlamebtch 😂😂😂😂

  • @mdgsk824
    @mdgsk824 8 років тому +147

    Prolonged eye contact is very personal that's why people either feel closer to someone or like their personal space is invaded

    • @frenchieseverine4514
      @frenchieseverine4514 7 років тому +3

      Right! It is personal and i don't think it is an obligation.I think that it can make some people very ill at ease to have a prolonged eye contact ..it depends on the people.

    • @mdgsk824
      @mdgsk824 7 років тому +11

      Frenchie séverine
      Yeah it's not an obligation to keep eye contact with anybody but it definitely is relevant to how you are perceived. Prolonged eye contact makes you appear more confident and open, avoiding eye contact seems either offish or insecure. It's hard to establish a connection with someone without locking eyes. I noticed if I meet someone and the person is friendly,smiles and keeps eye contact it makes me feel more at ease with them but when someone is just staring with a neutral expression it makes me uncomfortable. The context is important.

    • @frenchieseverine4514
      @frenchieseverine4514 7 років тому +1

      This video and one another gave me almost conjunctivitis.Sorry but i don't see myself looking straight into the eyes of a stranger for a minute or more .It is a personal feeling too.I like to look at the people i love or appreciate but i don't stare at them more than 20 seconds..

    • @82NeXus
      @82NeXus 7 років тому +5

      +Frenchie séverine I get what you're saying. It's about reversing the process you're talking about though. Building and realising a connection by making eye contact rather than making eye contact with someone you already have a connection with.

    • @brads5323
      @brads5323 5 років тому +5

      Chrissi I think your missing the point... it’s about not having barriers to even invade. It’s about being Human and accepting yourself as you are :)

  • @marine1341
    @marine1341 8 років тому +187

    This video and other Liberators International videos have helped to change my life as I heal from a Traumatic brain injury. As a former US Marine I was taught to be rigid and strong. But this reminds me that Strength is from within and should be shared. Spreading humanity through love and smiles. It doesn't get more simple or beautiful. Thank you.

    • @ptadisbander7959
      @ptadisbander7959 8 років тому +6

      All the best with your recovery. It really is that simple.

    • @82NeXus
      @82NeXus 7 років тому +4

      +Joshua Lear Amazing story. And courageous of you to share this. Thank you. You have an inappropriate surname for the topic though :-P

    • @jdoedoenet
      @jdoedoenet 7 років тому +3

      Semper fi, brother. Could not have said it better.

    • @eh4577
      @eh4577 4 роки тому +1

      There are no former Marines Joshua. You're a Marine for life and then you'll be tasked with guarding the streets of Heaven. Semper fi Marine

    • @pointerlover3492
      @pointerlover3492 3 роки тому +2

      Thank you for your service and God bless you on your journey of healing.

  • @MrPuredude
    @MrPuredude 4 роки тому +64

    No words have been said but wow this has me in tears.

  • @lmarievita
    @lmarievita 2 роки тому +32

    Sitting here like a big baby crying. This is beautiful, meaningful and powerful.

  • @philoki
    @philoki 3 роки тому +14

    Wow this is fucking beautiful.
    I could imagine this becoming a worldwide trend in cities with all the connections we have lost due to covid

  • @TheMatute85
    @TheMatute85 9 років тому +64

    that was absolutely powerful and beautiful

  • @abeforee4780
    @abeforee4780 2 роки тому +7

    The most moving form of Art I have ever experienced. Thanks Liberators.

  • @GigiBeleaDK
    @GigiBeleaDK 2 роки тому +6

    Why do I burst in tears when I watch this video ? I'm not sad ... I'm only human :)

  • @georginajovanovic
    @georginajovanovic 3 роки тому +13

    Loving well intended eye contact with no judgement is true beauty

  • @DannyD1Chung
    @DannyD1Chung 8 років тому +131

    damn.. who's cutting onions in here?

  • @Bigfellr
    @Bigfellr 8 років тому +30

    i have anxiety and i did this aswell in my city. tears came down my eyes when the 5ith person came. it was my mother😢😢

    • @EternalFlameProductions
      @EternalFlameProductions 7 років тому +1

      shut up

    • @Bigfellr
      @Bigfellr 7 років тому +11

      Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche you need a hug

    • @calvincalvin8750
      @calvincalvin8750 7 років тому

      well fuck

    • @lh2o748
      @lh2o748 6 років тому +1

      Bigfellr I have anxiety too I wish I'll have the courage to do it one day like you did ☺

  • @elguaje2
    @elguaje2 5 років тому +4

    Where have we gone? When even eye contact with another person excites us, we get more distracted every day and forget the beauty of life.

  • @derekhively1210
    @derekhively1210 3 роки тому +11

    I always make my way back to this gem. Something about this is so moving🖤

  • @dsethi05
    @dsethi05 9 років тому +14

    Beautiful . Eyes are the gateway to one's soul .

  • @peacenowfran
    @peacenowfran 8 років тому +3

    we all gathered in Miami last night and what a great experience. so many people; so much love. renewed my faith

  • @kalimbafairy8182
    @kalimbafairy8182 3 роки тому +4

    The power of eye contact! I was in tears watching this video

  • @xyloiscool
    @xyloiscool 9 місяців тому

    This gives me a bit of that "Despite everything, it's still you" feeling.

  • @annaroing9751
    @annaroing9751 8 років тому +4

    Smiling and tearing.... Love and gratitude

  • @coppersulphate002
    @coppersulphate002 5 років тому +3

    This should not be an experiment but a daily part of life! If I stare into your eyes, trust that I want to know you afterwards

  • @abbieamavi
    @abbieamavi 8 років тому +27

    I want one of these to come to my city....

    • @inter_1097
      @inter_1097 7 років тому +5

      Ask your friends to help you start one!

    • @ShamSham519
      @ShamSham519 7 років тому

      Veni Vidi Amavi check if there is one close to you on September 23rd 2017 :)

  • @ab-xs1ss
    @ab-xs1ss 3 роки тому +1

    I couldn’t watch the whole thing without skipping as if they are looking in to my eyes...god this is so powerful. We don’t need words or actions all the time, just an eye contact is enough to feel serene,

  • @sharoncohen3803
    @sharoncohen3803 2 роки тому +3

    Humanity is beautiful

  • @lindokuhleshandu4024
    @lindokuhleshandu4024 Рік тому +1

    Why is this hitting me emotionally? It's just eye contact for crying out loud. I guess it's much more than that.
    I once fell in love with a girl who only just looked at me without saying a word. That's how powerful eye contact is.

  • @rylandevans
    @rylandevans 8 років тому +4

    This was interesting to see. For me it was making a point about people seldom never, well hardly ever looking at strangers in town and city centres. People are indeed way too caught up with their own egos and preoccupied with looking 'cool' by creating a vision of themselves having plenty else going on. It's sad that population centres come across as so unfriendly.

    • @aerocap
      @aerocap 7 років тому +1

      I can't agree more about what you wrote and realised I was like this as well.
      Damn, seems we've all forget about our relatives, yet we need each other so much..

  • @shamrock2shamrock
    @shamrock2shamrock 8 років тому +2

    This is truly an insightful experience. Go on give it a go today. See what happens.

  • @IFEGRIZZLY
    @IFEGRIZZLY 4 місяці тому

    I did this in Copenhagen in 2015, and I have never forgotten

  • @markodell9741
    @markodell9741 8 років тому +5

    Absolutely beautiful .....without a doubt!!.......

  • @MystiCaendra
    @MystiCaendra 9 років тому +3

    Tolles Video. Das zeigt wie wichtig zwischen-menschliche Begegnungen sind. Sehr berührend.

  • @TheMikejoce
    @TheMikejoce 8 років тому +8

    I was touched just watching

  • @numinous2506
    @numinous2506 Рік тому

    In the future eye contact is how we communicate mostly. Vocal sounds are only used for extremes of pleasure or displeasure and for entertainment.
    You can say a lot more without words.

  • @forestnraindeers3690
    @forestnraindeers3690 2 роки тому +1

    I did similar to this when I was a kid it's called blinking contest. The one who blinks first will lose and the other person wins

  • @Ginicanbreathe
    @Ginicanbreathe 8 років тому +22

    You guys are incredible, amazing and perfect.
    You inspired me to make my own video here in Malaga and it is my proudest work so far. Love you

    • @alexateodor
      @alexateodor 8 років тому +2

      +Ginicanbreathe share it with us?

    • @aerocap
      @aerocap 7 років тому

      +Ginicanbreathe
      I hope you done that and I would enjoy to see it. Please share!

  • @zaramorgan1363
    @zaramorgan1363 8 років тому +3

    Beautifully moving, powerful stuff.... ! thank you x

  • @lexi.LM15
    @lexi.LM15 2 роки тому +3

    This was just so beautiful and moving. I loved it.❤

  • @Vishnu-fb1tq
    @Vishnu-fb1tq 21 день тому

    Eye contact can power to trigger love and attraction. When two persons make eye contact release the hormone oxytocin it increases love and affection and they laugh each other with eye contact it also increase love and attraction.

  • @jloc803dw
    @jloc803dw 4 роки тому +1

    What a simple yet powerful act

  • @stupidlyhopeful
    @stupidlyhopeful 5 років тому +1

    This makes my heart swell. No.. You are crying 😩

  • @ComedicEinstein
    @ComedicEinstein 6 років тому +1

    Essentially they are just looking at eyeballs but if you look at eyeballs that are out of their sockets the reaction is different so it has nothing to do with staring into someone's eyes but more of a social stigma as to what that certain action means to specific people. It's equally as awkward as holding a strangers hand.

    • @DarthMessias
      @DarthMessias 2 роки тому

      Damn! You are some romantic...xD

  • @brads5323
    @brads5323 5 років тому +3

    In my whole life I have never seen something so heart warming

  • @metamorphic8
    @metamorphic8 2 роки тому

    …gOLd… & essential in these challenging, socially distanced times…
    Although we may not -currently-be able to share hugs, we can still share the L❤️VE
    ❤️🙏🏼❤️💞❤️🙏🏼❤️

  • @Yadzudsu.
    @Yadzudsu. 2 роки тому

    Wow very beautiful!
    The Eyes are the Lamps of the Body. ~The Bible

  • @sterrenstof49
    @sterrenstof49 9 років тому +7

    the eyes are the soul

  • @fabiocroix6231
    @fabiocroix6231 7 років тому +1

    I cried and felt very deep emotions to see that

  • @19HurdyGurdyMan46
    @19HurdyGurdyMan46 7 років тому +2

    Deeply moving. Well done.

  • @jm98navy
    @jm98navy 3 роки тому +1

    Definitely the time to do this or at least in the next months. Reconnect!!! Great idea!!!

  • @samhawkins650
    @samhawkins650 2 роки тому +1

    Truly awesome human connections are vital to us all

  • @joyogude
    @joyogude 7 років тому +3

    This actually made me cry! Love it!!

  • @HamzahAbusamak
    @HamzahAbusamak 9 років тому +7

    I wouldn't could make it without lip kissing! ^_^

  • @justinhughes4119
    @justinhughes4119 2 роки тому

    Not even a minute in and I can already feel it

  • @deanp7899
    @deanp7899 2 роки тому

    great channel, only stumbled across it today

  • @dorothystaals3154
    @dorothystaals3154 7 років тому

    Fantastisch!! So simpel...and yet so difficult for people.... 'I CONTACT"! Dorothy Staals

  • @MAX88587
    @MAX88587 9 років тому +10

    so beautiful! hey i wanna get a hug too :D...

  • @Ecolomeus
    @Ecolomeus 8 років тому +1

    thx for remembering the good sides of human

  • @helenefrachon2902
    @helenefrachon2902 8 років тому +4

    Magnifique, très émouvant ❤️❤️❤️

    • @aerocap
      @aerocap 7 років тому +1

      Oui, émouvant et tellement rare. J'aime ceux qui osent aller chercher l'humanité au fond de nous, réprimée à nous apprendre à ne pas la montrer et la partager. On a pourtant que ça, les relations humaines sont notre bien le plus précieux quand elles sont échangées dans le respect et la considération, sans elles rien ne sert à rien et n'est que la solitude.

  • @jbylin
    @jbylin 5 років тому

    This just makes one happy. Profound.

  • @uptownpotatoes
    @uptownpotatoes 9 років тому +9

    Powerful.

  • @Annihillation
    @Annihillation 7 років тому +1

    the woman has a mom face...she doesn't need to say a word to comfort you and you feel that everything is gonna be ok...

  • @pablolis9029
    @pablolis9029 2 роки тому

    People are beautiful!

  • @reeblesnarfle5443
    @reeblesnarfle5443 3 роки тому

    Really really great points, not to be missed. 🙏😎👍💜

  • @mohammed_sardar
    @mohammed_sardar 9 років тому +3

    beautiful video!

  • @alcosboys
    @alcosboys 9 років тому +13

    marina abramovic tribute ;)

  • @jodilynn3555
    @jodilynn3555 5 років тому +1

    Connection...beautiful. ❤️👀

  • @acommiecrusader2575
    @acommiecrusader2575 8 років тому +3

    Just amazing

  • @bettinagerloff7810
    @bettinagerloff7810 7 років тому

    Ich kann Ihnen leider nur auf Deutsch schreiben. Danke für Ihre Nachricht. Wir alle könnten so friedlich und einfühlsam gemeinsam leben. Herr Peter zeigt es uns so oft.

  • @dchandumanisha2054
    @dchandumanisha2054 Рік тому

    Amazing concept

  • @Ben-Jembai
    @Ben-Jembai Рік тому

    Wow...in tears

  • @whatthefuckery-.-7222
    @whatthefuckery-.-7222 7 років тому +2

    This made me cry 😭

  • @melvinwatkins2015
    @melvinwatkins2015 Рік тому +1

    Hello my name is Melvin and there are a lot of people that I have to come friends with in other words confidence s for one reason we took one second to look in each other's eyes without saying a word I can't explain it I guess we are peculiar people

  • @martinlukacovic7265
    @martinlukacovic7265 8 років тому +2

    Amazing video with astounding sound by Tony Anderson :)

  • @AnandChaugule
    @AnandChaugule 2 роки тому

    We connected deep with each others for spreading love ❤️ to the world 🌎

  • @leldemotivane
    @leldemotivane 9 років тому +2

    Beautiful x

  • @robertovazquez2047
    @robertovazquez2047 5 років тому

    Beautiful... no words needed.

  • @YM-ue1lh
    @YM-ue1lh 2 роки тому

    Wow I couldn’t see the video because I had tears in my eyes

  • @CincyShaves
    @CincyShaves Рік тому

    That was beautiful!

  • @bilalsh807
    @bilalsh807 2 роки тому

    Meeting the souls. Probably the same ppl we were in heaven together along ago, or we may meet again there

  • @AltairdeAlmeida1111
    @AltairdeAlmeida1111 9 років тому +2

    We do this regularly in a holistic transformative system called Biodanza, accompanied with music and movement, in a more gentle and very progressive way, allowing both partners to be in feedback with each other. That way we learn to build self-confidence, joy, deepen love of ourselves and of others. May All Beings Be Peaceful.

    • @aerocap
      @aerocap 7 років тому

      +Altair de Almeida
      Great, I wonder where it takes place.. The way you explain it shows sensivity, I wish you get pleasure and success, seems like you deserve it

  • @susanas.v.7314
    @susanas.v.7314 6 років тому +1

    It's all about confidence. I have none so I can't hold eye contact at all

  • @viajesparavivir
    @viajesparavivir 3 роки тому

    Touching experiment

  • @JenniferMoleski
    @JenniferMoleski 5 років тому +1

    Damn. That made me emotional.

  • @Sandalphon9
    @Sandalphon9 9 років тому +2

    Wonderful! Love It!!

    • @AquarielCharm
      @AquarielCharm 8 років тому

      +Sandalphon9 - Love this, thanks for posting Sandalphon.

  • @valeriecasse1207
    @valeriecasse1207 Рік тому

    Yes, only the water separate us.

  • @SouthCircinus
    @SouthCircinus 9 років тому +4

    I didn´t cry watching this

  • @joepie3
    @joepie3 9 років тому +1

    At the Pier Scheveningen, october 15th, 17-20 hrs.
    Hope to meet/see you there ♡ ♥

  • @snc9584
    @snc9584 8 років тому +3

    This is nice, but my college professor did something similar and the girl I was put with was not wanting any of it. Kind of embarrassing.

    • @Bodankful
      @Bodankful 7 років тому +1

      Looks like she is insecure

  • @larrysimmons6082
    @larrysimmons6082 2 роки тому

    I would like to see more of this..

  • @cheetahlip
    @cheetahlip 2 роки тому

    Beautiful made me cry 😢

  • @rbrav559
    @rbrav559 Рік тому

    Love this ❤

  • @te22a
    @te22a 8 років тому +4

    They would see nothing but emptiness in my eyes. Plus I'd be cross-eyed just to mess with them. :)

  • @theguy2647
    @theguy2647 5 років тому

    Amazingly simple

  • @Dennis-fw9bd
    @Dennis-fw9bd 4 роки тому

    Wow, amazing!

  • @user-ej8vt3xi1g
    @user-ej8vt3xi1g 7 років тому

    Hello from Zürich a Cool Experience my first time

  • @federicagadea3541
    @federicagadea3541 9 років тому +3

    It's beautiful, where was it?

    • @14104404
      @14104404 9 років тому

      Federica Gadea Perth, Western Australia :)

  • @davidlanman8483
    @davidlanman8483 9 років тому +3

    It only takes a minute to create sympathetic understanding?

    • @frenchieseverine4514
      @frenchieseverine4514 7 років тому +3

      NO or yes but it is very rare,a mystery of attraction..and you can see other things in the eyes of the person who looks a you than love..

  • @mokurd2591
    @mokurd2591 8 років тому +3

    i like this

    • @mescnick
      @mescnick 6 років тому

      MO KURD me too brother

  • @guaiyaxs8570
    @guaiyaxs8570 2 роки тому

    Damn i need this!!

  • @psychotherapieweidinger
    @psychotherapieweidinger 9 років тому

    looking 4ward to the event in vienna :-)

  • @cozycollision
    @cozycollision 4 роки тому +1

    i have a sudden urge to go talk to some strangers :)

  • @annamagari
    @annamagari 2 роки тому

    Io cerco sempre un contatto con lo sguardo e mi viene di sorridere sempre a tutti ...anche dietro questa mascherina...solo con gli occhi....

  • @biznunya2358
    @biznunya2358 8 років тому +1

    They know they can blink right?