Don’t write like a robot. Prove you are human. | Shirley Taylor | TEDxBangsar

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  • @saundrasewell9159
    @saundrasewell9159 4 роки тому +33

    “Wisdom cannot be imparted. Wisdom that a wise man attempts to impart always sounds like foolishness to someone else ... Knowledge can be communicated, but not wisdom. One can find it, live it, do wonders through it, but one cannot communicate and teach it.”
    ― Hermann Hesse

  • @bettygould3679
    @bettygould3679 4 роки тому +27

    This is a very good talk, important subject, I spend too much of my day worried about the past...

  • @artcornish3520
    @artcornish3520 4 роки тому +2

    Idk what it is but TED Talks have been speaking to me directly lately.

    • @lizyvuen
      @lizyvuen 4 роки тому

      lol have you gone to a doctor about this Art?

    • @austinjay9486
      @austinjay9486 4 роки тому

      are you smoking something man??

    • @albinachatton4390
      @albinachatton4390 4 роки тому

      haha they said it all.

    • @lizyvuen
      @lizyvuen 4 роки тому

      @@austinjay9486 haha

    • @artcornish3520
      @artcornish3520 4 роки тому

      @@austinjay9486 you know what I mean, its like they are right on point.

  • @cilecarlton
    @cilecarlton 4 роки тому +2

    The moment she started speaking, I started smiling. That's the whole point of being here, right? Within our communication, connecting. So enjoyed this talk and her energy!

    • @shirleytayloruk
      @shirleytayloruk 4 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for your lovely comment, Cecile.

    • @cilecarlton
      @cilecarlton 4 роки тому

      @@shirleytayloruk Thank You!!! Shirley amazing talk. I would love to see you live speaking.

  • @teddybearlemaire
    @teddybearlemaire 4 роки тому +1

    It has been so interesting to watch how marketing has changed in the past few years from that that supposedly 'professional' (but robotic) approach.... to seemingly more human. I loved this talk. Shirley has amazing energy and such good ideas.

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 4 роки тому

      Thanks so much Teddy. I'm glad you enjoyed my talk.

  • @gwendolyncarnell
    @gwendolyncarnell 4 роки тому +5

    This has been in our group the last few days, I am glad I finally decided to watch it. I admit it I am stuck in the past.

  • @maryyouson4404
    @maryyouson4404 4 роки тому +5

    I remember working for a company that made us take some sort of test to figure out our communication styles and how we processed direction - it was interesting to see how most of our team preferred the niceties and made them more productive because they felt more appreciated.

    • @johnlum8136
      @johnlum8136 4 роки тому +1

      we had do this too! they make us retake it every year! it's really quite interesting though

  • @howiehumur
    @howiehumur 4 роки тому +1

    The world of change, that's a good thing and yet there's one thing that's still stuck in the past. Really informative talk.

  • @MindsetMediaPteLtd
    @MindsetMediaPteLtd 5 років тому +2

    Shirley! I love the focus! Yes, communication both spoken and written, changes over time to be modern, simpler and using everyday English. However ... your favourite colour hasn't changed ... it's still red! Great talk!

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 4 роки тому

      Thanks for your comment, Ricky. And my favourite colour will always be red :-)

  • @aslanaslanzade3684
    @aslanaslanzade3684 4 роки тому +3

    There used to be a time when we wrote such elegant letters, I went through my grandmothers old letters the other day, it was so beautiful. Going by post on paper I think they really cared about what they wrote, now we just throw the words out there.

  • @lauralegault
    @lauralegault 4 роки тому +17

    But some of the way we used to use language is beautiful and poetic! And sometimes getting to the point is like avoiding the journey.

  • @perfectplanssampler
    @perfectplanssampler 4 роки тому +3

    I adore words that are used well, and bored easily by others.

  • @chinadiggs543
    @chinadiggs543 4 роки тому +1

    oh this was such an amazing talk! i'm thinking so much about how i communicate with people because i think it sounds professional when really it's just so cold...

    • @ShirleyTaylor88
      @ShirleyTaylor88 4 роки тому

      Absolutely, China. That's just it. Good for you making a change now!

  • @juanlsalazar
    @juanlsalazar 4 роки тому +2

    The days of automate this automate that when reaching people will hopefully end. or at least those that make the effort should be rewarded.

  • @oscarnotreallyawiener
    @oscarnotreallyawiener 4 роки тому +2

    awesome! it's so true! our language and intent behind our words has been so cold for so long. really enjoyed this talk!!

    • @ShirleyTaylor88
      @ShirleyTaylor88 4 роки тому

      Thanks Oscar. Please share with your network.

  • @simonoshlor
    @simonoshlor 4 роки тому +5

    When my gran died, she had like a thousand saved letters from 80 years. People really did care about writing in those days. Now we just scribble a note in an email with no care.

    • @sonny-johnson
      @sonny-johnson 4 роки тому

      I know so true, everything is so quick no care, an emoji and move on

    • @robertlcbranson6834
      @robertlcbranson6834 4 роки тому

      I love old letters

    • @candyengelhardt
      @candyengelhardt 4 роки тому

      context means purpose, get it in your words!

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 4 роки тому

      Thanks Simon, you're right... but we can all help to make changes.

  • @denisgongolev
    @denisgongolev 4 роки тому +1

    I thoroughly enjoyed this. I'm constantly going on to my mates about effective communication and how it's so much more than just words. Such a good talk, I'll be passing this on to a few people I know..

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 4 роки тому

      Thanks Denis. I'm glad this resonated with you, and thanks for sharing.

  • @successfulbecause
    @successfulbecause 5 років тому +1

    Great talk Shirley, I particularly like the challenge to people at the end... I'll remember to prove that I am human!

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 5 років тому

      Thanks Steve. Hope we can catch up when I move back to UK next year! Big changes for me!

  • @orlageary5104
    @orlageary5104 4 роки тому +1

    We all need to learn to communicate better now, our language is horrible, even in this time of crisis.

    • @albinachatton4390
      @albinachatton4390 4 роки тому

      we do, I agree with you, too much bad talk out there, when we should be showing love.

    • @charlievantas
      @charlievantas 4 роки тому

      I have so many arguments on the book face these days with idiots who are full f wild theories why this is happening.

    • @albinachatton4390
      @albinachatton4390 4 роки тому

      @@charlievantas i know this...

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 4 роки тому +2

      @@albinachatton4390, we should indeed be showing love. Thank youl

    • @albinachatton4390
      @albinachatton4390 4 роки тому +1

      @@ShirleyTaylor8888 cool cool cool, some serious stuff you presented..

  • @prisonermalloy5022
    @prisonermalloy5022 4 роки тому +4

    It also means chose your words carefully.

  • @mariannemortimer7724
    @mariannemortimer7724 4 роки тому +1

    How good is this!! I wonder if she's the reason we have seen a shift during 2020. Or perhaps considering this last year, companies are finally figuring out we relate better to a more human approach. Thoroughly enjoyed this talk!

    • @shirleytayloruk
      @shirleytayloruk 4 роки тому

      Thanks for your comment, Marianne. I do hope more people will embrace a more human style of writing.

    • @mariannemortimer7724
      @mariannemortimer7724 4 роки тому

      @@shirleytayloruk bless you!

    • @cilecarlton
      @cilecarlton 4 роки тому

      Me too! So good!!

  • @iamnotjustintrudeau7850
    @iamnotjustintrudeau7850 4 роки тому +4

    We can say so much when we just say the simple truths as a human.

  • @andididntknow
    @andididntknow 4 роки тому +1

    This is one of those talks you think you don 't need to hear, then you hear it, and boom makes a change.

  • @asikahoinka
    @asikahoinka 4 роки тому +2

    We are just terrible communicating these days, good talk!

  • @bobertgenn
    @bobertgenn 4 роки тому +2

    When you think about it, it is about time that we talked and yes wrote like humans again.

    • @gazioktay441
      @gazioktay441 4 роки тому

      its been about time for a long time.

    • @bobertgenn
      @bobertgenn 4 роки тому

      @@gazioktay441 😀😀😀

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 4 роки тому

      Thanks Bob. And we can certainly all help this to happen. Let's start NOW!

  • @wandamccauley
    @wandamccauley 4 роки тому +2

    Very good and important talk.

  • @rkskampoengku935
    @rkskampoengku935 4 роки тому

    Thank you so much Ms. Shirley since I'm started to improve on my email writings...

  • @jassmalaney2190
    @jassmalaney2190 5 років тому

    Thanks, Shirley for sharing this talk. With the way AI's are taking over repetitive jobs, your talk is thought-provoking. Your message is powerful with actionable takeaways to make the human connections. Well presented, while having all the fun in Shirley's style!

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 5 років тому

      Aw that's very kind of you, Jass. I'm glad you enjoyed it!

  • @zackpinonet
    @zackpinonet 4 роки тому

    is this why all the big companies are trying to be more personable now? i'm starting to rethink popular business models now... so much relies on communication and just as Shirley has said... great talk

  • @NishantGrandMaster
    @NishantGrandMaster 5 років тому +1

    Wow.. thought-provoking! Thanks Shirley for your brilliant speech and message!

  • @carolanneoswald2551
    @carolanneoswald2551 4 роки тому +2

    246 billion emails, and I think I have half of them in my inbox!!

  • @kobetclark
    @kobetclark 4 роки тому

    We do need more human communication, god knows everything has changed.

  • @eliseseveniegn
    @eliseseveniegn 4 роки тому +2

    I saw this today after going through emails yesterday and thinking how they all looked the same...

  • @Linzoid358
    @Linzoid358 5 років тому +3

    Love the RED Hair! Talk about change

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 5 років тому +1

      Hehe thanks, Lindsay. It was of course the lighting in the studio, but I loved it too!!

    • @Linzoid358
      @Linzoid358 5 років тому +1

      @@ShirleyTaylor8888 , of course. Loved the presentation too

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 5 років тому +1

      Thanks Lindsay... did you like my dancing? haha

    • @Linzoid358
      @Linzoid358 5 років тому +1

      @@ShirleyTaylor8888 Very swish

  • @aminaasli170
    @aminaasli170 4 роки тому

    Im glad Im still writing in the old formal way, and never been influenced by the new one.💙

    • @ShirleyTaylor88
      @ShirleyTaylor88 4 роки тому +1

      Times change, Amina. We need to change with the times.

    • @cilecarlton
      @cilecarlton 4 роки тому

      Formality never provided connection though!!

  • @jhonusalazar
    @jhonusalazar 4 роки тому +12

    Isn't writing like a robot the way we are taught?

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 4 роки тому

      Oh dear, Jhon, if that's how you were taught, I'm sorry to hear that.

    • @austinjay9486
      @austinjay9486 4 роки тому

      Yes I think it is too!

  • @lynnecousins
    @lynnecousins 4 роки тому +11

    Oh I know a few robots, beyond their writing, everything about them...

    • @joycewright2788
      @joycewright2788 4 роки тому

      hahahahaha

    • @amberdenkins
      @amberdenkins 4 роки тому

      That may be the only way they know how to cope... Chances are they have more feelings going on inside of them than they let off.

  • @aaronereid
    @aaronereid 4 роки тому +1

    I know I am stuck many times in the "what if", this is a clever talk.

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 4 роки тому +1

      Thanks Aaron.

    • @dannyturkin6229
      @dannyturkin6229 4 роки тому

      me too aaron

    • @aaronereid
      @aaronereid 4 роки тому +1

      @@ShirleyTaylor8888 Just saw this Shirley (Ive been isolating lol) great talk and replying made me watch again.

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 4 роки тому

      Thanks Aaron. Great to hear from you. I think we'll need even better communication after this pandemic. Take care.

  • @lannydaslin
    @lannydaslin 4 роки тому +2

    What has happened recently shows we are stuck in another time.

    • @jonasblix
      @jonasblix 4 роки тому +1

      I am thinking of sending this to our communications department ... lol

  • @mikeliyichuan7109
    @mikeliyichuan7109 5 років тому +1

    With regard to this TED talk, I found the content very insightful. Please be advised that I will be disseminating this to my network to improve their writing. 😂
    Totally guilty of writing like that back when I was working with the government! Thank you for the simple yet impactful message, Shirley!

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 5 років тому

      That's really funny, Mike. Thanks and good luck helping me in my mission to get rid of this old-fashioned writing! :-)

  • @brittaniecrum
    @brittaniecrum 4 роки тому +1

    It's never to late or too early to use good kind words...

  • @WilliamSmithnotthatone
    @WilliamSmithnotthatone 4 роки тому +1

    BRILLIANT!!!

  • @itouchtheskyilovetrentino
    @itouchtheskyilovetrentino 5 років тому +3

    Human have feelings and spirits.

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 5 років тому +1

      They do indeed. Thanks.

    • @merlemackenzie
      @merlemackenzie 4 роки тому +2

      yes and they dont feel our feeling if our faces are in phones

  • @georgiarouse
    @georgiarouse 4 роки тому +1

    Nothing, I mean nothing has changed like we are changing right now, it's like a bad dream happening. And then you see people flaunting what experts say, sorry but I am terrified right now.

    • @lucyiberard1219
      @lucyiberard1219 4 роки тому

      I know this I see this I am scared of this.

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 4 роки тому

      Lucy, it's a scary world right now. We need to take care.

  • @jasonopdebeeck4444
    @jasonopdebeeck4444 4 роки тому +1

    We aren't robots, make your words mean something.

  • @luizantoniomachado
    @luizantoniomachado 4 роки тому +2

    I hate emails, not sure because of the content as much as the volume.

  • @margotaylor-ritchie5937
    @margotaylor-ritchie5937 4 роки тому +1

    I want to find her books!

  • @janetpannel
    @janetpannel 4 роки тому +2

    I think I have met people that are devolving too.

  • @braulio.zamora
    @braulio.zamora 4 роки тому +2

    It's sad, as if we aren't even human, just machines connected to flesh puppets, and the machines communicate dispassionately.

  • @timmymckinley
    @timmymckinley 4 роки тому

    I have thought the past week, people (for the most part) are communicating better now during this social distancing. Maybe because we are limited in time to what we can say..

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 4 роки тому

      Yes, Tim, I think some people are taking more care with communication now, for sure.

  • @annemery885
    @annemery885 4 роки тому +2

    I do house work therefor I am, not sure change is in my cards.

  • @maverickvassallo
    @maverickvassallo 4 роки тому +2

    Changes, isn't that a David Bowie song?

  • @russhearn
    @russhearn 4 роки тому +1

    Going to take some real communication to cut through after all this...

    • @lizyvuen
      @lizyvuen 4 роки тому

      true, wow it is so strange right now.

    • @russhearn
      @russhearn 4 роки тому

      @@lizyvuen wow I know.

  • @tibogoth
    @tibogoth 4 роки тому +2

    2nd time watching, and I like this, but I dont seem to have time to communicate better. What if your bosses don't give you the time, everything is numbers n ow not context.

  • @shystrshystr
    @shystrshystr 4 роки тому +1

    Is it tougher to communicate now, when we can't connect?

  • @billconconi
    @billconconi 4 роки тому +2

    It's funny but right now when all I have is devices to communicate, I realize how context is lost in text, or maybe my ability to convey it.

  • @joanguckel
    @joanguckel 4 роки тому +1

    Haha, half the time I get these I am not a Robot security checks, I get them wrong. I think a robot would get them right..

  • @jimwebbjr
    @jimwebbjr 4 роки тому

    Times they are a changin - Bob Dylan

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 4 роки тому

      They are indeed, Jim. But sadly many people aren't keeping up with the times as far as our business writing is concerned

    • @jimwebbjr
      @jimwebbjr 4 роки тому

      @@ShirleyTaylor8888 I think everything will begin to change now, we may change back to where real communication is important.

  • @eduardovillalobos4134
    @eduardovillalobos4134 4 роки тому

    yo solo queria mi pelicula

  • @listalk4264
    @listalk4264 4 роки тому +1

    Like si un anuncio de mierda de redireccióno automáticamente a este video

  • @kaylacalkins489
    @kaylacalkins489 4 роки тому +2

    Um you speak that everything evolves, I am not sure the US President has!

  • @carliewilferth
    @carliewilferth 4 роки тому

    It seems everything these days either is or sounds just like an auto response. Perhaps a personal connection will make real connections and business.

    • @ShirleyTaylor8888
      @ShirleyTaylor8888 4 роки тому

      Carlie, thanks for your comment. It's awful isn't it. All this jargon and template language! We do need to get real!!

  • @valak316
    @valak316 4 роки тому

    time2watch

  • @elke-femke
    @elke-femke 4 роки тому

    Emails OMG

  • @georgewatkiss
    @georgewatkiss 4 роки тому

    From the days of secretaries and dictation.

  • @karamazov3467
    @karamazov3467 4 роки тому

    How did i got here?

  • @mohaaa6924
    @mohaaa6924 4 роки тому

    E

  • @kikesandoval3159
    @kikesandoval3159 4 роки тому

    Tomate