Look deeper -- write -- the wonders of writing | Nicoletta Demetriou | TEDxUniversityofNicosia

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  • This talk was given at a local TEDx event, produced independently of the TED Conferences. Nicoletta Demetriou beautifully describes the wonders of writing. In this TEDxUniversityofNicosia talk Nicoletta, an ethnomusicologist and tutor in creative writing, explains exactly how to go about writing in our everyday lives.
    Nicoletta Demetriou studied music in Thessaloniki, Vienna, and London. Her PhD (School of Oriental and African Studies [SOAS], University of London, 2008) was in the field of ethnomusicology. Her research focuses on Cypriot traditional music, and particularly on how issues pertaining to ideology, politics, and identity influence the way traditional music is discussed and performed. She has also studied creative writing, specializing in life (auto/biographical) writing. Her current research is an attempt to bring ethnomusicology and life writing together, focusing on the lives of traditional music performers. Since 2012 Nicoletta has been a research fellow in ethnomusicology and life writing at Wolfson College, University of Oxford, and also a tutor in narrative non-fiction on Oxford’s Master of Studies in Creative Writing.
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  • @Okpalaemmanuel25
    @Okpalaemmanuel25 Рік тому +8

    Thank you so much....I have struggled to be better in writing but have failed to cultivate the practice of writing always...I am even scared to go for a PhD program because of the fear of writing...I dread no more my journey to becoming a great writer starts today

  • @ringmasterblaze
    @ringmasterblaze 6 років тому +56

    That was a big exercise in high school creative writing. We started every class with 15 minutes of unthinking stream of consciousness freewriting. Similar idea to some artistic exercises where you draw without looking or without picking the pencil off the paper.

    • @enricobasbas7221
      @enricobasbas7221 5 років тому +1

      FortyNothing so you just write? You don’t read what you wrote? Or you don’t look at what you drew?
      Just a beginner’s question...

    • @enricobasbas7221
      @enricobasbas7221 5 років тому +1

      FortyNothing so you just write? You don’t read what you wrote? Or you don’t look at what you drew?
      Just a beginner’s question...

  • @chinasacasmir
    @chinasacasmir Рік тому +6

    Up to this moment, I never actually thought there would be people who upheld this practice, I would ideally wake up in the morning, with the sole intent to just write anything, put it up on my blog and do so the next day. On some days it would be difficult, and others chill- knowing that people practice this very habit is really encouraging for me at this point in time.

    • @dougimmel
      @dougimmel Рік тому

      KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO !!!

  • @A.G.Birajdar
    @A.G.Birajdar 3 роки тому +12

    One of the best talk I ever heard
    Calming
    Meaningful
    Helpful

  • @deborahchoma7096
    @deborahchoma7096 5 років тому +25

    Nicholetta Demetriou, thank you for your educated insights and thought provoking concepts for writing.
    Far from boring, your charm and vocals made listening a melody. You enunciated and spoke with clarity.
    As a writer, I have, for many years now, created the white space you mentioned, to write for fifteen minutes first thing in the morning.
    It is a superb suggestion. Thank you.

    • @Ramadmurthy
      @Ramadmurthy Рік тому

      I am extremely happy to reply to your comment. This is an attachment among the people of this amazing planet. We are scattered bodies but our souls all together. I just wanted to let you know my deepest feelings.
      Thank you very much. I look forward to hearing more from you.

  • @deborahchoma7096
    @deborahchoma7096 5 років тому +16

    Nicholetta,
    Here you go.
    The first fifteen minutes of an eye opening July 11.
    This a quiet intimate space where a cat and a son reconnect. Away from outside distractions, it's the beginning, a string of moments to enjoy. Routines reintroduce themselves, whilst the repeats play.
    What about today will set in motion or trigger the necessary changes to shift the same-old-same of expectations and disappointments?
    Much like a seesaw, I struggle with the vitality to do what I know, to be what I can, and reach a happy height of achievement. Then I hear an inaudible phrase, "Who you are is enough to be all that you are meant for today."
    And in this white space of writing intimate thoughts, I choose to be a gentle guide to myself and whomever shares the sacred moment of creating beauty and new beginnings.
    Today is the dew of opportunity, the fresh morning air of accessing thoughts and ideas; a string of fresh water pearls carefully gathered from the Sydney Harbor of my mind.
    Each pearl is uniquely formed, and I remind myself that my struggles are mine.
    But amidst the solitude of writing undistracted, I have already set in motion the creation of something beautiful, vulnerable, and innately raw.
    So what can I shift in this waterhole of thoughts? What will I find to day in the exercise of duty and in the reach of gratitude. My next act uncovers a heart that is simply willing.
    There's never going to be a day that presents itself as the perfect time to change my challenges. But the perfect opportunity is, in essence, what I create for myself today.
    One small shift is a start.
    Grateful in the blanket of peace; a cat called Abby, a vase of yellow roses, a blue and gold pen, a room that reflects taste, choice ideas, and surrounds me with beauty. I am grateful for health, strength, and solace. I am grateful for people in my life, my family. I am grateful for change and the string of moments, the cluster of decisions. The hundreds of steps I take today are going somewhere.
    I am not everything I need to be, but who I am is enough for today. I'm not a child who has no control. My body deserves the best, just as it were a quadriplegic with robotic legs.
    Healing to be happy is a process. It's a development of thoughts, ideas, and the input of loved ones who see more than you can. They simply sing the song in your heart.
    To new beginnings - available and ready.

  • @bang103tunedin3
    @bang103tunedin3 5 років тому +13

    This could be considered a form of meditation! Thanks for sharing

  • @ahmeds.mansour1293
    @ahmeds.mansour1293 7 років тому +33

    oh, that was great and very smooth and calming.
    great points, very beneficial. Thanks a lot.

  • @Ardasssha
    @Ardasssha 3 роки тому +10

    Thank you so much for this!! One of the best tedx talks indeed! I ve been writing a journal everyday for half a month now, and all of this is true! It does transform , help you connect to yourself and see what needs to be changed in your life. I re-read it sometime later and see how i progressed as a person (or regressed), how much pain i have or how impulsive i am. Such observations about myself help me to become my own best friend.

  • @socalbro43
    @socalbro43 6 років тому +14

    I'm in! I love the idea of finding and listening to my own voice amidst all the "traffic".

    • @AnyaChuri
      @AnyaChuri 6 років тому

      I too! Although I do know I am a tad naive!

  • @Locke_daisy3786
    @Locke_daisy3786 Рік тому +2

    This talk is fantastic and filled with such goodness. I write intuitively and in snail mail correspondence as part of my business. I consider snail mail correspondence (a different writing obviously) about holding space and choosing what to share with the other person. It is another mindful way of being aware.

  • @kpop_slay3837
    @kpop_slay3837 Рік тому +4

    I'm getting teary-eyed watching this, I am really having a hard time in writing my research.....

    • @dougimmel
      @dougimmel Рік тому

      You WILL finish it in your own time. Doctoral work is some of the hardest work there is.

    • @kpop_slay3837
      @kpop_slay3837 Рік тому

      Thank you so much sir, I have forgotten that I commented here when I am really having a hard time in writing lol (I mean it is already 7 months ago haha). Btw, I am now at my experimentation part of my quantitative research sir and I think I'll do better because of your kind words. May success be always with you sir, thank you so much again

  • @sabirhusain9162
    @sabirhusain9162 Рік тому +2

    I also think that I should write something every day at least for sometime but I find myself surrounded by strange fear of putting pen on a paper but after watching this information and transformative video I gathered courage to begin.
    I will continue until I feel some sort of miracles in my personal and professional life.

  • @dougimmel
    @dougimmel Рік тому +2

    One could take the transcript of this and SAVOR each and every thought she expresses, which may populate each phrase or sentence with vast ideas that could lead one in many directions. This was a RICH discourse ! I found myself pausing it often, sometimes several times in one sentence.

  • @sandramalone3522
    @sandramalone3522 3 роки тому +3

    She is so right. That's how I see it as the morning before I'm even totally awake I write and it's the best I've done.

  • @marygracebanares3993
    @marygracebanares3993 8 місяців тому +1

    Nicoletta was able to point out the very germane concept of writing to my class. Such an enlightening talk. I am actually showing this to my students to inspire them to love and start writing on their own. Kudos to the speaker and thank you for sharing your experiences, too.

  • @dominiccruz1201
    @dominiccruz1201 4 роки тому +4

    I really enjoyed the lecture on writing. Nicoletta explained the whole concept with great clarity and understanding. Thank You for sharing.

  • @77777aol
    @77777aol 6 років тому +16

    In stating, 'the fear of being too close to ourselves' really depends on how we view ourselves. I reckon Nicoletta Demetriu, in her encouraging talk, means being too close to our critical self, or even too close to our public-face or mask. In an ideal scenario, we never need fear being too close to our true or authentic self, which is untrammelled and unfettered, free and wondrous. The 64,00 dollar question is 'how?' ! Certainly writing stream of consciousness helps, as Brenda Urland inspired in her seminal work, 'If You Want to Write'; published in the late 1930s I believe. Let's keep writing, free of self criticism; all the while reading good books ! Thank you ND.

    • @bsaunders
      @bsaunders Рік тому +1

      "I reckon Nicoletta Demetriu, in her encouraging talk, means being too close to our critical self, or even too close to our public-face or mask." I read the opposite -- that people are afraid of getting to close to the self that is not the mask.

    • @user-pb2kg1ng4g
      @user-pb2kg1ng4g Рік тому

      @@bsaunders Without doubt !

  • @Mskimberley81
    @Mskimberley81 5 років тому +2

    It’s so tricky to try and clear one’s mind and not write ‘so what am I going to write’ for example. Loved her delivery of this talk very much

  • @AmbiCahira
    @AmbiCahira 6 років тому +75

    Here is a suggestion of a warm-up exercise. Don't do sentences, just let your hand do words. The and though dog dough then why so sow rake barn dog frog goat store clerk and so on. And when these random words have come out and warm-up is over you will easily start making sentences without much effort even if it is a sentence between the words or not. Removing the restriction of feeling like it must be sentences can make your mind go blank on where to start.

    • @louisam6126
      @louisam6126 6 років тому +5

      This is amazing exercise! Being a teen who is involved in writing in a foreign language, I always found it difficult to start to write as there's an idea, there is an inspiration but the sentenced don't come out easily, I'm either stock in the beginning or just can't express myself at all. this helped me, thank you

    • @AmbiCahira
      @AmbiCahira 6 років тому +1

      Louisa M I am glad it helps you! Everything we do benefits from a warm-up!

    • @AnyaChuri
      @AnyaChuri 6 років тому

      Thank you!

    • @alicehuijbregts
      @alicehuijbregts 3 роки тому

      Thankyou so much!

    • @zlizeko
      @zlizeko 3 роки тому

      I just cant understand how you can let your hands do words... I mean, all words come from mind. Isnt it just writing your stream of consciousness?

  • @c.r.salvador2827
    @c.r.salvador2827 5 років тому +5

    I am so grateful for this.

  • @kavanshukla9083
    @kavanshukla9083 4 роки тому +1

    Just excellent. Her every word is as good as a pearl.

  • @liteshable
    @liteshable 5 років тому +4

    What a wonderful speech. Thanks for sharing the thoughts about writing.

  • @SuperToxic00
    @SuperToxic00 4 роки тому +10

    Her voice made me watch this video but its content made me finish watching it. Nice pointers. And so the writing begins!

  • @r.mercado9737
    @r.mercado9737 7 років тому +2

    Listening, ahhhh! So true. I love it!

  • @inukmsk
    @inukmsk 9 місяців тому

    Thank you, Nicoletta. What a lovely conference, very inspiring.

  • @Manojkumar-tm9nh
    @Manojkumar-tm9nh 2 роки тому +8

    I am an artist and when I open the SketchBook I randomly make pencil strokes until I have something to draw, maybe that's what we need to do in this exercise as well

  • @timemixchine
    @timemixchine 6 років тому +7

    I needed this in my life, thank you

  • @astolenhotpocket13
    @astolenhotpocket13 5 років тому +3

    Connecting with yourself.. something I do to in order to come closer to who I really am. I wasn't aware that I needed to hear those words so badly that it hurt.

  • @tomsimpson197
    @tomsimpson197 6 років тому +11

    Even though I've heard this before I thought it was amazing. Loved it.

  • @sheeladas2741
    @sheeladas2741 2 роки тому +1

    I got all you said.thank you.God bless you.

  • @AnyaChuri
    @AnyaChuri 6 років тому +5

    I wonder why does this video have just '380' likes whereas other gibberish talks have aplenty! Thank you! Pen to paper - noted!

  • @dannyasio8614
    @dannyasio8614 3 роки тому +4

    I really love this talk. This is what I'm looking for. It inspires me a lot. I have many realizations now. I followed you in my twitter account.

  • @FleepFlop
    @FleepFlop 4 роки тому +2

    A calm talk amazing !

  • @aartimav7743
    @aartimav7743 3 роки тому +2

    Finally you able to hear your own voice 😇writing therapy makes you an angel 😇 💖

  • @GordonTillmanTexas
    @GordonTillmanTexas 2 роки тому +3

    Great presentation. Reminds me of Natalie Goldberg's wonderful book: Writing Down the Bones.

  • @QuynhNguyen-fe3mr
    @QuynhNguyen-fe3mr 2 роки тому +2

    This speak helps me a lot, it showed me how to write better by starting a new daily routine. I have to write so much for assignments, about some topics but I scared of writing even though I love reading books. Thank you, Nicoletta Demetriou!

  • @mindaugascechanavicius8892
    @mindaugascechanavicius8892 3 роки тому +1

    quite simple and true words. thanx

  • @hamzatalib9926
    @hamzatalib9926 4 роки тому +2

    That's true! beautifully explain mam..

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 3 роки тому +3

    Beautiful amazing soul. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

  • @rtj630
    @rtj630 3 роки тому +1

    I completely get her writing ritual in the morning. Completely.

  • @timkerbashian3817
    @timkerbashian3817 2 роки тому +2

    great new perspective on writing, especially like the notion of 'Writing Therapy', and perhaps the underlying benefit of improved memory recall and new insights - would like to know more about 'Life Writing'

    • @autumn5852
      @autumn5852 2 роки тому

      Maybe you already know more, start the daily practice and find out

  • @angelamcclain7276
    @angelamcclain7276 6 років тому +5

    Great and inspirational! :)

  • @sahiltodsam9609
    @sahiltodsam9609 5 років тому +2

    Thank you

  • @ishrakkhafagi984
    @ishrakkhafagi984 Рік тому +1

    Great and applicable

  • @learnandgrowrich1899
    @learnandgrowrich1899 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you this video is needed for me

  • @TheChunder3
    @TheChunder3 11 місяців тому +3

    I found this most interesting. I’d love to know how the fifteen minute writing sessions actually translated into ‘knowing’ your own voice. How was the writing analysed to inform? Thank you for your insights. I write a journal every day and I’ve learnt something new from this.

  • @leonzhu6505
    @leonzhu6505 Рік тому +1

    This speaker literally gives me ASMR with her voice.

  • @peterv1806
    @peterv1806 2 роки тому +3

    This is an excellent video, the message of which is exceptionally profound.

    • @dougimmel
      @dougimmel Рік тому +1

      One could take the transcript of this and SAVOR each and every thought she expresses, which may populate each phrase or sentence with vast ideas that could lead one in many directions. This was a RICH discourse ! I found myself pausing it often, sometimes several times in one sentence.

    • @peterv1806
      @peterv1806 Рік тому

      @@dougimmel - Well said. I agree!

  • @fatimaeliot9792
    @fatimaeliot9792 День тому

    موضوع. رائع .. .very interesting. subject
    Bravo .

  • @ryant2394
    @ryant2394 3 роки тому +3

    This is kind of relaxing

  • @subhadravm9973
    @subhadravm9973 5 років тому +2

    I'm going to try doing this...

  • @suewatson647
    @suewatson647 11 місяців тому

    Inspiring, thank you.

  • @anitsingh483
    @anitsingh483 6 років тому +31

    Remember jack Nicolson in the shining ...he wrote every single day too!

  • @socialmediasakini5440
    @socialmediasakini5440 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for such an inspirational and informative talk. We have learned from this great speech about how the writing itself can contribute to knowing ourselves better. The writing in essence is the best way of discovering and realizing our thoughts, feelings and personality as well. As far as I am concerned I should say that the abilitiy of the expressing yourself in writing better than your colleagues or other students do gives you gives you more confidence and big opportunity to success in every part of your life.

  • @rajkumarjena20
    @rajkumarjena20 3 роки тому

    Thank You

  • @aryavijaykumar4700
    @aryavijaykumar4700 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you all very much

  • @nafeezabolia9724
    @nafeezabolia9724 10 місяців тому

    Very inspirational Thank you.

  • @Manojkumar-tm9nh
    @Manojkumar-tm9nh 2 роки тому +2

    Amazingly convincing

  • @tomughazhimo7412
    @tomughazhimo7412 5 років тому +2

    Wow just wowwwww!!!!

  • @joaocongo2334
    @joaocongo2334 Місяць тому

    It should have more views!!

  • @Tomiokasan99
    @Tomiokasan99 2 роки тому

    Thanks .

  • @RevivingElegance
    @RevivingElegance Рік тому

    I will start doing the daily writing ASAP

  • @manikandanu1507
    @manikandanu1507 4 роки тому +3

    Wonderful voice

  • @thedesibong
    @thedesibong 5 років тому +4

    That was deep

  • @ryant2394
    @ryant2394 3 роки тому +11

    "You don't care if you spell or not." I wish she was my English teacher.

  • @sfvtkjdrhhdweg3481
    @sfvtkjdrhhdweg3481 3 роки тому

    I've been journaling since 2008.

  • @vijayarya9528
    @vijayarya9528 9 місяців тому

    Thank u all very much

  • @joshsblee
    @joshsblee 4 роки тому +14

    She is beautiful

    • @iflowlikewater
      @iflowlikewater 3 роки тому

      @@akshayadevi1220 did you recover from the stroke?

  • @ishrakkhafagi984
    @ishrakkhafagi984 3 роки тому

    Very good

  • @jannarioo
    @jannarioo 2 роки тому +1

    I hope to hear my own voice too eventually!

  • @usham6199
    @usham6199 5 років тому

    Wtf where was I..lets think deeper into what shes trying to mean...best insight so far for me

  • @chrisscott7545
    @chrisscott7545 5 років тому

    Writing by hand for me was slow to capture the idea in its time. Thats why i moved to key board

  • @monave2938
    @monave2938 2 роки тому +2

    Funny, I started doing this not so long ago, 15 minutes. I right the dreams when I remember them, do you?

  • @learnandgrowrich1899
    @learnandgrowrich1899 2 роки тому

    I couldn't write continuously for 15 minutes, is it ok to take some time and let my mind wander somewhere so by this I can write my thoughts

  • @johnsexton4250
    @johnsexton4250 4 роки тому +4

    I'm involved in 2 disciplines that wasted a lot of my parents money because I didn't really want to study at University.

  • @bariszj
    @bariszj Рік тому

    nicoletta

  • @ryant2394
    @ryant2394 3 роки тому +1

    That one lady; just in the audience on her phone.

  • @Bushify13
    @Bushify13 5 років тому +5

    Unintended ASMR

    • @alliemw
      @alliemw 3 роки тому

      Yessss!!!!!!

  • @michaelm1238
    @michaelm1238 5 років тому +6

    Im starting to find the more I listen to people telling me how to write and what rules to follow I am becoming less creative and in a sense mimicking others who failed to do what I aspire to do. You cannot be taught to be a great writer it has to be within you.

  • @samcolgin
    @samcolgin 2 роки тому

    hello fellow Creative Writing students

  • @DanielGomez-le5wo
    @DanielGomez-le5wo Рік тому

    يجب عليهم القيام بتمارين البطن حيث يعمل الجزء العلوي من البطن. مع رفع الساقين ومحاولة لمس القدمين باليدين ومتغيراتهما التي تعمل بالجزء العلوي من البطن. سترى التحسينات بسرعة. هذا تمرين لعضلات البطن العلوية. سوف يقضي على الاكتئاب والقلق. كما أنه سيشفي عقلك. سيساعدك تمرين الجزء العلوي من البطن كثيرًا. و بسرعة.

  • @SpeakWritePlayinEnglish
    @SpeakWritePlayinEnglish 3 роки тому

    15 minutes a day will turn into hours as time goes by. ;)

  • @mohanraja5099
    @mohanraja5099 Рік тому

    Journaling find own mistakes

  • @SyeedAli
    @SyeedAli 5 років тому

    Wait, she doesn't actually write...

  • @mylestelemaque2362
    @mylestelemaque2362 3 роки тому

    The simplistic vision electrophoretically grin because bangle thankfully repair into a parsimonious leo. hard, unbiased search

  • @paulgee4336
    @paulgee4336 6 років тому

    Lovely much? 10 years ago she must have been something and a half.

  • @amituprety6631
    @amituprety6631 4 роки тому

    A meditative experiment of GIBBERISH writing...

  • @YellowhatDick
    @YellowhatDick 5 років тому +1

    THIS IS BORING! MY GAWD! I'm going to create a Patreon to fund a new lecture series called 'Topless TED'; That would have my interest!

  • @Djinga
    @Djinga 6 років тому

    BORING, IRRELEVANT