DAVIDO'S USA 🇺🇸 & FRENCH 🇫🇷 SIDE CHICKS + HIS WIFE CHIOMA, 🇳🇬ARE ALL PREGNANT!!🤰🏽🤰🏽🤰🏽👀

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  • Davido's American Side Chick ANITA, is pregnant and is giving us all of the HOT TEA, then Side chick number 6, CHUCK MOUTH and announced her own pregnancy 👀 WhaaaAaT! 👀 I told them to check on Chioma's mental health and they came back with the news that.........Chioma is also PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!! WOW! Grab you drinks 🍹 & popcorn 🍿 my loves, THE GIST IS HOT 🥵 AND I HAVE ALL OF THE RECEIPTS 🧾 I'm adressing ALL of them in this episode! 🎥 🍿
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  • @FumiDesaluVold
    @FumiDesaluVold  Рік тому +108

    Hello my beautiful FumiNation 💕 Below are all the links to my beauty and style look in this episode! 😊
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    • @BBFLYRISEN
      @BBFLYRISEN Рік тому +1

      I am LOVING you Auntie Fumi!!!! You’re not even old enough to be my Auntie, but you and all your FABULOUSNESS warrant respect. 🤷🏿‍♀️❤️🔥🔥🔥

    • @littleone6217
      @littleone6217 Рік тому +1

      Aunty Fumi ejo Ma, can we get the plug for your fabulous turban? 🙏🏾

    • @ryanpronorzelus1983
      @ryanpronorzelus1983 Рік тому

      This is great advise for Chioma

  • @dorisalfred2760
    @dorisalfred2760 Рік тому +985

    " Not all men are husbands , not all men are fathers". It's noted ma.

  • @akosssua
    @akosssua Рік тому +372

    My father always says " marriage is not an antidote to womanizing" Chioma needs to realize she deserves better and want it. For a man to want to marry you only at the point of your child loss is not the best.

    • @giftedchild1980
      @giftedchild1980 Рік тому +52

      Chioma is slowly becoming Ani Idibia. She is too young and too beautiful. She needs to want more for herself.

    • @lilyifeyinwa3549
      @lilyifeyinwa3549 Рік тому +13

      I thought they were planning their wedding before their child died.

    • @rachellejean542
      @rachellejean542 Рік тому +1

      She is so Beautiful

    • @williewill3314
      @williewill3314 Рік тому

      @@lilyifeyinwa3549exactly they was

    • @Joyparc
      @Joyparc Рік тому +10

      Money ain’t everything.. you want peace, stability and security and commitment

  • @superwomanme
    @superwomanme Рік тому +650

    One thing some men will always have is audacity. The audacity to entitlement, theaudacity to embarrass their woman and the audacity to think that they can get away with everything. I feel for chioma who just lost her beautiful son and is still grieving while davido is out there finding comfort in other women when he should be comforting her. I know deep down she feels like these babies are replacing their son. Sad sad sad situation

    • @snsn7251
      @snsn7251 Рік тому +94

      This only holds up to certain point. After that point us women need to have self respect!! A man will treat you as you allow!!

    • @gazelle20111
      @gazelle20111 Рік тому +47

      Chioma at this point has no self respect for herself because how can she lose a child and still stay with that character while he sows his wild oats everywhere like an unsolicited philander. Just ewwwwh

    • @rlynn5390
      @rlynn5390 Рік тому +46

      If the table was turned he wouldn’t be able to handle it

    • @warriorchild2521
      @warriorchild2521 Рік тому +4

      @@snsn7251.Amen !!🙏❤

    • @warriorchild2521
      @warriorchild2521 Рік тому +9

      ❤️❤️❤️🙌🙌🙌…My thoughts exactly!!…Couldn’t have said it any better !!!

  • @user-MelQue
    @user-MelQue Рік тому +266

    That silent moment before ”not all men are husband’s“ thank you Auntie, NOTED.

  • @tiffanytembo8293
    @tiffanytembo8293 Рік тому +315

    Chioma knew/knows the man she was getting with. To think he'll change just because he's married smh it's a joke. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. & Well said Fumi.

    • @AyaEgbuho
      @AyaEgbuho Рік тому +13

      💯

    • @habibasouleymanou1855
      @habibasouleymanou1855 Рік тому +1

      ​@@thespot2035🙌❤️

    • @elvinenafack2041
      @elvinenafack2041 Рік тому +2

      Did she come and complain to you? Just give your opinion and let go.

    • @josroberts9069
      @josroberts9069 Рік тому +4

      ​@@thespot2035How is he clown? mind your language . He is a young man and these ladies knew he got a lady called Chioma they still went ahead to sleep with him for whatever reason, All the stars do it Just because your husband's haven't been caught yet doesn't mean they don't sleep around.

    • @louisewilliams9417
      @louisewilliams9417 Рік тому +1

      💯

  • @Keesha
    @Keesha Рік тому +275

    So people are jumping on her for being with a married man....saying she shoulda known. Didn't he know he was married? Why are people so quick to throw stones only at the woman?

    • @sheca8699
      @sheca8699 Рік тому +21

      They are not ino both parties are to be blamed. However sleeping with him is one thing, but to have a whole child by a married man is another level. You have to think about yourself and your child. Ask your self do I really want to raise my child with someone who is their for what a few minutes or maybe an hour or two. That would not be fair to you nor the innocent child

    • @Desiree-Dulce
      @Desiree-Dulce Рік тому +30

      I agree the women didn’t make any vows Davido did

    • @zainabinti5170
      @zainabinti5170 Рік тому +1

      😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Nanafia1
      @Nanafia1 Рік тому +32

      I believe her when she said she didn’t know he was married. Davido never posted wedding pictures and there’s nothing on his page indicating that he’s married. Mainly those in the African community know that Chioma and Davido did a traditional marriage mainly in order to properly burry their late son. It was a private ceremony.

    • @marycole7196
      @marycole7196 Рік тому +8

      ​@@sheca8699 Are you supporting/condoning abortion? What if, that's the only child she might ever have, or, lose her life/womb, in the process? Not condoning what happened, but it's happened, it's got to be lived with, periodt.

  • @mapeauxnoire
    @mapeauxnoire Рік тому +415

    I honestly feel bad for Chioma and still feel that the circumstances around her son's death were strange. I hope she finds herself.

    • @career5690
      @career5690 Рік тому +66

      @@stylebydebbie4912it’s common but not normal don’t say that.😢

    • @nadine8764
      @nadine8764 Рік тому +50

      I honestly don't feel sorry for chioma anymore. She knew what she signed up for. She always knew he was a womaniser. He already had a couple women pregnant while he was dating chioma. Marrying him won't make him faithful, it'll just make her legally bound to all his bs

    • @nidea278
      @nidea278 Рік тому +17

      Unfortunately for children of that age, drowning in swimming pools is a fairly common occurrence. The same thing happened to Debanji's son. And in Ifeanyi's case, his dad was just teaching him how to swim the week before so its possible that he was curious to get into the pool again. That apart, he was a very lovely hyperactive child from the videos posted. All it took, is a second to look away. May his soul continue to rest in peace.

    • @rusuvero3620
      @rusuvero3620 Рік тому +7

      The Big Auntie we all need❤❤❤
      Well said 👏🏽

    • @nirvanawellness3619
      @nirvanawellness3619 Рік тому +9

      ​@stylebydebbie4912 there's nothing normal about that death. Shush!!

  • @ChidubemEgwim
    @ChidubemEgwim Рік тому +384

    It's honestly mind boggling that he can sleep with all these women (and we only know the ones that got pregnant) without any form of protection. Even if you don't care about your wife, you should at least care about yourself.

    • @josroberts9069
      @josroberts9069 Рік тому +4

      So you believe all these stories, these other stories is just to try separate this couple. What happens to cut and past stories. When Rihanna was pregnant with. asap that's how they carried rumours about him going out with Rihanna.

    • @joyandpeacefullaughter5307
      @joyandpeacefullaughter5307 Рік тому +56

      ​@@josroberts9069these women have evidence he sent them money and dated, Oponu.

    • @carrington2949
      @carrington2949 Рік тому +2

      @@josroberts9069Stop being a super fan. If he did not want his name in the streets then he should have been discreet. All of these women need to get an HIV test and some therapy.

    • @gracegeorge7285
      @gracegeorge7285 Рік тому +25

      @@joyandpeacefullaughter5307These kind of people must continue to talk rada rada no matter what facts they see koro koro 😮

    • @nightwishisthegreatestband6355
      @nightwishisthegreatestband6355 Рік тому +23

      @@josroberts9069 stop making excuses. Anita gave us receipts of the texts with him admitting that there were others

  • @kudalavida3494
    @kudalavida3494 Рік тому +149

    This Davido giving his stick to any woman who breathes his direction is low, dirty and disrespectful. It’s giving me Innocent 2Baba Idibia vibes. My heart bleeds for Chioma, over and above the tragic loss of her Son, this man is going to break her so badly she will not recognise herself if she doesn’t leave! This is just a marriage on paper because Davido is running the streeeeeeets, and not gloving it, busy having babies on her left, right and centre. He won’t stop. Run Chioma, Run! Aunt Fumi dishing gems as always ❤ from Durban, South Africa 🇿🇦

    • @ruthpartridge6314
      @ruthpartridge6314 Рік тому +8

      True

    • @giftedchild9490
      @giftedchild9490 Рік тому +7

      I think Chioma is fine..

    • @aselyne5631
      @aselyne5631 Рік тому +1

      Chioma has decided to waste her youth on Davido he is a star and gives her the lifestyle she ain't leaving believe that and he'll stay with her out of guilt NOT love

  • @hlengiwemasondo2858
    @hlengiwemasondo2858 Рік тому +132

    Chioma probably listening to her family that probably say she must not leave because of the benefits they get from her being married to Davido. One day she will stand up for herself and leave.

    • @knowz2367
      @knowz2367 Рік тому +14

      Doesn't Chioma come from a rich family? Isn't her father a multi millionare?

    • @Chacha355
      @Chacha355 Рік тому +22

      She too is there for the money

    • @werqzeleke2815
      @werqzeleke2815 Рік тому +9

      ​@@knowz2367don't think so afterall he would have paid for her school fee but he couldn't instead davido did yet she dropped out.

    • @hlengiwemasondo2858
      @hlengiwemasondo2858 Рік тому +19

      @@knowz2367 where does it say she come from a rich family? She clearly comes from an average family. U can't come from from a rich family and tolerate that

    • @godsgrace3304
      @godsgrace3304 Рік тому +14

      Her parents have no hand in it. She chose to be with him no matter what. We are from the same village.

  • @ashaade4176
    @ashaade4176 Рік тому +176

    Honestly, I love the interjection of Pigin in the conversation and I seriously love your Pigin english so much.

  • @katlegomhlauli8423
    @katlegomhlauli8423 Рік тому +205

    You truly addressed Chioma like an aunty who cares it really brought me to tears.. the care and kindness woooow

  • @rositas4491
    @rositas4491 Рік тому +94

    As much as I feel bad for chioma, she needs to be held accountable for her life choices. She knew very well what she was getting into. She will remain with Davido until she is fed up. Hope she is safe. Because Davido has already shown her that he has no regards for her safety.

    • @SandcastleGirl
      @SandcastleGirl Рік тому +10

      Thank you! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @KK-so1zd
      @KK-so1zd Рік тому +8

      True. Chioma got some issues too.

    • @giftedchild9490
      @giftedchild9490 Рік тому +2

      So far that girl has not complained to anyone...

    • @AlwaysBeTactful
      @AlwaysBeTactful Рік тому +12

      @@giftedchild9490 oh really...so should remain oblivious to the fact that she is highly at risk now

    • @gloriasimiyu5082
      @gloriasimiyu5082 Рік тому +1

      This sounds Victim blamey friend. Why would we blame the woman for what her loved one has done in deceiving her? We are human. We are complex. We all get hurt and it’s not our fault.

  • @suziedeschene5069
    @suziedeschene5069 Рік тому +169

    He has the audacity. This is a sad case all around. I Hope she musters up the courage to leave him. She’s incredibly beautiful, resourceful and she’s still young. She needs to pack and Go

    • @patiencekonney4922
      @patiencekonney4922 Рік тому +19

      She will not go any where, he has money and she don’t feel that she deserves better. Rita Marley went through the same shit. We as black women don’t value ourselves. All these women knew about Chioma but don’t care because he has money.

    • @Jojo111
      @Jojo111 Рік тому +1

      EASILY SAID WHEN ITS NOT I YOUR SHOES..

    • @juliatripp2010
      @juliatripp2010 Рік тому +1

      @@patiencekonney4922 Yuo, so until she can care about herself, she is being foolish to stay. But she is a beautiful young girl and can find another man. She should be in a position to at least get alimony

    • @aselyne5631
      @aselyne5631 Рік тому +2

      She is ok looking and knows very well she will not bag another Davido,she's not interested in an average guy,she ain't leaving

    • @God.sDaughter
      @God.sDaughter 11 місяців тому

      Money money money money money money!
      Women don’t like leaving wealthy men.

  • @kateodumu6640
    @kateodumu6640 Рік тому +60

    Sad! What is even more annoying is how Nigerians are justifying Davido's behaviour. I think this is good to tame him a bit. As for Chioma, I want to believe she understood the memo from the beginning. She knew what she got herself into and I know she enjoys the luxury that comes with being with Davido and that alone is enough for her to get with everything that comes with it. The earlier we know that not all men are husbands, the better for us. As for Anita, just like aunty Fumi rightly said, she shouldn't bother herself responding to trolls. Her mental health should be her focus on this journey. She should not even bother coming to Nigeria, set the stage and do your interviews remotely.

    • @tayoosiyemi5130
      @tayoosiyemi5130 Рік тому +3

      Agreed. But altho Anita lied , that girl knew Davido was married. Everyone knew he was in a relationship. Davido is totally wrong. But Anita, slept without protection she also wants the attention. We are in 2023, before she started relationship with him I am such she looked him up🤔😒.

    • @mahoganybonsai
      @mahoganybonsai Рік тому +1

      ​@tayoosiyemi5130 my understanding is that they were on and off before he married with him even referencing her in a couple of his songs...

  • @mwatepreciouschikunivan-ri5573
    @mwatepreciouschikunivan-ri5573 Рік тому +77

    If there is Chioma’s friend/family here please play her the excerpt where Fumi addresses her coz that’s soooooo deep and profound! I hope truly hope that Chioma sees this episode ♥️

  • @drvivianvoke8541
    @drvivianvoke8541 Рік тому +47

    DAVIDO IS NOW A JOKE 😂
    IT IS PITY .😢

    • @NkNk-vg8fc
      @NkNk-vg8fc Рік тому

      No be so. His IG is flooded with love. His talent supersedes all of this I was soo surprised 😮

  • @tee0714
    @tee0714 Рік тому +17

    One of a husband's responsibilities is to protect his wife. Where is the protection of the wife when the husband has unprotected sex with other women? 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @cnmrichgraced
    @cnmrichgraced Рік тому +61

    We all need an Auntie Funmi in our lives.

  • @reginatabb4068
    @reginatabb4068 Рік тому +37

    Some of the most UNATTRACTIVE men do the most to get woman to make theirself larger in life than they are.❤

  • @euphemiangweform6794
    @euphemiangweform6794 Рік тому +27

    I died when she said “ if you open your legs he will come, it sweet, it’s soft …” 😂😂😂😂

  • @SerayahB
    @SerayahB Рік тому +89

    Aunty Fums, your delivery on this one was EPIC. You sound so good speaking pidgin English.

  • @camillejoasil3875
    @camillejoasil3875 Рік тому +68

    “Anywhere you go on tour you must get somebody pregnant “😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @delightschwartz2155
      @delightschwartz2155 Рік тому

      It's how he remembers his itinerary. I won't say lol because there are some women that are truly disadvantaged by his behavior. Wake up ladies - make yourselves top priority. Don't fall for the okey-doke.

  • @lus7144
    @lus7144 Рік тому +30

    When Aunty Fums said "so Anita bye bye, Chioma take a seat " 😂😂😂

  • @oseayinde4062
    @oseayinde4062 Рік тому +33

    Not all men are husbands. I think that says it all.

  • @ataganabelieve5822
    @ataganabelieve5822 Рік тому +22

    This woman is so descriptive of men, she understands life. Money and fame is good, but the happiness you pass unto your spouse and people around is paramount. 😂

  • @VM-9911
    @VM-9911 Рік тому +30

    As African women we really need to learn ( baby just passed on and boom he wants to marry me)🤔red flag to me.
    Never make a life changing decisions after trauma , loss and excitement.

  • @lindao.ezenwammadu7056
    @lindao.ezenwammadu7056 Рік тому +57

    Love the outfit ❤
    Anita has a point 😂 when she says , “does he look married?”
    But i give her a side eye 👀 when she says she doesn’t know he is married. naah! Can’t believe that.

    • @samkaybeauty2862
      @samkaybeauty2862 Рік тому +7

      For real though 😅, everybody knows Davido was married 🤣.

    • @SandcastleGirl
      @SandcastleGirl Рік тому +23

      Exactly! If I was dating a very popular artist, I'd be googling his history. This reminds me of the time Megan Markle said she did not know who prince Harry was, like really? Even when you did find out, you need to do your due diligence to research who this person is and family history! It's 2023 people, I'm sorry but there are no excuses, she just likes the lifestyle and bag that comes with this man smh!

    • @ElizabethHome153
      @ElizabethHome153 Рік тому +8

      ​@@samkaybeauty2862 everybody from Nigeria, not everybody cause i been listened to him for every but didn't know he's married.

    • @nolilolittle3986
      @nolilolittle3986 Рік тому +9

      Truthfully I didn't know Davido married Chioma until this scandal came out. Plus she lives in another part of the world, it's normal to just know the surface stuff about certain celebrities.

    • @elixrofspice2312
      @elixrofspice2312 Рік тому +12

      Me that I’m in Ghana that’s closer to Nigeria I didn’t know that he was married ooh 😂
      How much more someone in USA

  • @elizabethchase3058
    @elizabethchase3058 Рік тому +26

    I agree 💯 with you Fumi.. with all the STD's out there; Why not protect yourselves ladies? Yes we as women have to make smart choices

  • @nnekanwobodo3641
    @nnekanwobodo3641 Рік тому +98

    When I say am proud of Nigerians; this is what I mean! Effortless, poise, beautiful and intelligent!! Can’t wait for the podcast and talk show!!!❤

    • @scripted_serenity
      @scripted_serenity Рік тому +3

      Amen

    • @Mkym365
      @Mkym365 Рік тому +2

      💯💯💕🌸

    • @Themystergamerr
      @Themystergamerr Рік тому +2

      She sounds Sierra Leonean though

    • @alkahinat4558
      @alkahinat4558 8 місяців тому

      @@Themystergamerras a half Sierra Leonean, she does
      But Fumi is also half Gambian I believe, so maybe that’s why her accent isn’t straight up Naija

  • @misspickles47
    @misspickles47 Рік тому +171

    SISTA FUMI!!!! You went all the way in, and I was here for it!!! I discovered myself soooo late in life. So much time wasted, I could of did so much better at parenting. If I had known the strength I needed, and I looked for in my husband, was in ME all the time. I was the one who always rose to the equation, while my husband retreated. My lesson was ==> nobody can love you all the way, if you don't even know yourself all the way. The entire real true mature you has to be presented, if you want to you to be loved. Unfortunately, I decided that I don't want to be in ANY relationship. I am 20 years into loving and discovering myself. My new love is knowledge. Learning about people, places, and things. Loving the world as a whole. Because really in the big picture, we're all in a relationship with each other. If we don't make this relationship work, there is no hope for humanity. So "I" decided that my love is wasted on 1 individual (with exception of my extended family). I took my love global. I don't want or need my love returned. I give my love freely and unconditionally to humanity. 1 Creator, 1 World, 1 Love.

    • @MT-yx5cu
      @MT-yx5cu Рік тому +14

      I love how you stated this. This is deep and not many will understand. I feel the same way❤

    • @osatoyvonneezomo7025
      @osatoyvonneezomo7025 Рік тому +4

      Feel exactly the same

    • @camillehomez1894
      @camillehomez1894 Рік тому +9

      Wow! This makes me feel reassured for choosing to continue to wait for a quality partner to have children with, I am 39. Wow, I have always said I wanted a partner/marriage/family. I have been doing the work over the past 4 years to heal, I have learned so much during this time and I am now praying that God will send my husband, a man who is emotionally healthy and healed as I will be too!
      Thank you for your comment @misspickles47

    • @osamedennadi6309
      @osamedennadi6309 Рік тому +3

      This is how it should be. Just be alert and careful so it doesn't lead to letting yourself go or getting involved with multiple people because one doesn't want to be hurt.

    • @barbaramandela1371
      @barbaramandela1371 Рік тому +2

      Love this for you. Your words deeply resonate with me.

  • @I_am_agirlfromtheislands
    @I_am_agirlfromtheislands Рік тому +162

    Oh Fumi you are the epitome of black beauty love the look today. Looking for a summer makeup tutorial from you for the natural looking goddess glow. I’m here for it!!!😊

  • @gracedrosie5127
    @gracedrosie5127 Рік тому +43

    Chiamo girl, doesn't even have std herself , she knew him and all his ways but still married him. I think she more into the lifestyle than her well being. She know what to do.

    • @ebele50
      @ebele50 Рік тому +4

      And how do you know? Did you hear from her? You guys like to pass judgement without knowing the fact. Some of you will happily clothe and sponsor a guy who shows you pepper just to remain in the relationship for the same love. This woman has shown in many ways that is unsteady and full of discrepancies with her narratives. People are giving the pornstar relevance and she has grown her account to close to a million followers. You guys should live Chioma alone.

    • @tonyamontgomery2733
      @tonyamontgomery2733 Рік тому +4

      In order to properly bury their son in their culture a marriage had to take place. Nigeria doesn't roll like America in being accepting out of wedlock children. They are shunned even in death. Tribal and cultural values are very important. The ❤elders are very imposing.

    • @sassybish9121
      @sassybish9121 Рік тому

      , is it now okay to fornication and give birth outside wedlock? Seems like Chioma and Davido forgot about tribal and cultural rules.

    • @delightschwartz2155
      @delightschwartz2155 Рік тому

      That may be true, I've just now learned about her situation... but now that she knows what she's in for, she needs to figure out what she really wants for herself. Looks to be a difficult life with a profound lack of respect from her husband... even though he's well off and I'm sure she benefits from that.

  • @suzannedaniels3526
    @suzannedaniels3526 Рік тому +77

    As a proud Nigerian 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬 I can relate with everything you have said aunty funmi. You did justice to this topic 💯. Big ups to you my beautiful Nigerian auntie . I love it when you speak naija pidgin 😜😜😜 .. it gives me LIFE❤️❤️❤️

    • @yemi1able
      @yemi1able Рік тому +7

      Queen Fumi👸🏽!!! As usual, nobody does it like you!!! Where have you been all our lives!!!🤣🤣🤣
      Perfecto👍🏾👏🏾🌸💖
      Please we want more of indigenous English from you ooo, we your fans they gbadun you joo😄🥰🥰🥰

  • @Africanhousewivesphiliac
    @Africanhousewivesphiliac Рік тому +87

    Chioma is definitely going through a lot now. Sending her my love

  • @julietedochem9041
    @julietedochem9041 Рік тому +75

    Spoken like a good mother to her naughty daughter. God bless you Ma'am. 🙏❤

  • @rbraxton00
    @rbraxton00 Рік тому +83

    I don’t know anything about this; however, my heart goes out to anyone who’s being cheated on. I was a wife that was cheated on. So I have first hand knowledge. It’s not a good thing. I’d say get out of that relationship. It’s beneath you. This man loves himself, no one else.

    • @applecandyfolks7979
      @applecandyfolks7979 Рік тому +12

      He doesn't love himself, not even his health

    • @rbraxton00
      @rbraxton00 Рік тому +2

      @@applecandyfolks7979 that’s so true!

    • @marycole7196
      @marycole7196 Рік тому +2

      So so True. He is, beneath you. Hopefully, you respect/love yourself enough to see/understand that. GOD bless.

    • @aselyne5631
      @aselyne5631 Рік тому +1

      ​@@applecandyfolks7979Oh he does, they do what they want when they want and don't think of anyone else

    • @naturalbeauty4734
      @naturalbeauty4734 8 місяців тому

      ​@@aselyne5631AGREED 👍 Some men are SELFISH!!!

  • @laure8993
    @laure8993 Рік тому +64

    Hi Madame Fumi. Well said. New here watching you and I like every single thing you said here. I am American born Togolese, our African brothers I wish they learned our parents' mistake and be better husbands and treat their women better unfortunately some of them just carry on. Great job sister Fumi.

  • @VeritasVerla
    @VeritasVerla Рік тому +21

    Fumi I don’t believe she didn’t know he was married. She did and as a pregnant woman, what is her reason for coming on social media, when she was sleeping with him, why didn’t she tell us. Now that the relationship has soured she’s all up and down social media. If you read all her posts, you would see she doesn’t keep hers story straight, she says she doesn’t need anything from him but then asks for money. She wants him to accept. The child and when the family member wishes safe delivery sand says they will take responsibility of the baby if the baby is his she fires back at him. Also what is the contract Clark’s is referring to. She says she’s for woman empowerment but she berated chioma in her first initial posts disssing her many times then all of a sudden it’s free chioma. What davido did is totally wrong but women like Anita are like the devil himself. She is a clout chaser

    • @nolilolittle3986
      @nolilolittle3986 Рік тому

      The 'devil himself' that Davido slept with and continues going around with people like her. He has a discreet wife at home but this man LOVES the clout chasers and deserves every heat he gets because ironically the clout is also making him money.
      This whole drama is a normal thing at this point with his BMs, even happened with the mothers of his first girls. They should all face the consequences of their actions because funny enough it'll all die down, the baby will be accepted as an Adeleke, and the cycle will continue with someone else because David will forever be the problem.

    • @damarisjembere218
      @damarisjembere218 Рік тому +1

      I'm with you 100%. She knew exactly what she was doing

  • @kerriannejones9351
    @kerriannejones9351 Рік тому +14

    This entire situation is wild. I didn't know Davido was getting down like that. He's cheating and not using protection and the problem could be more widespread than we are aware. Chioma must ask herself if Davido would stay with her if she had so many outside kids. He has a problem. Sometimes love is not enough. As for Anita, she is young and naive and having a baby for a man who blocked you from his life is hard. This would be difficult for the baby. She might not care about Davido but she would care about Davido breaking her little kid's heart due to his responsibilities to his wife and other women out there. Plus children are naturally curious about their parents.

  • @OlaedoOwenbrown
    @OlaedoOwenbrown Рік тому +24

    I spotted no lies. Auntie Fumi, your wisdom is exemplary

  • @folashadeadejumo8041
    @folashadeadejumo8041 Рік тому +29

    Is the audacity of having unprotected sex for me.

  • @msnicole4777
    @msnicole4777 Рік тому +39

    I don’t believe for one minute she didn’t know Davido was married.

    • @jedidjab4346
      @jedidjab4346 Рік тому +13

      She said she knew Chioma as a side chick. I didn’t know myself that he was married lol he never posted it she didn’t either

    • @hannahakorede6497
      @hannahakorede6497 Рік тому +5

      Yeah she lying in the text messages she show in her ig she told Davido she still desired him even though he married

    • @shanizlucymwangi
      @shanizlucymwangi Рік тому

      @@hannahakorede6497 what's her handle

  • @Ninavelli
    @Ninavelli Рік тому +27

    I pray chioma find this video and the words you had for her
    You made me cry and I don’t even relate, my life is not bad
    I wished I had a mother or a aunty like you
    I take your wise words aunty Fumi
    God bless you 🤎

  • @amiralovesart
    @amiralovesart Рік тому +10

    To do this, while your wife is mourning the death of her son, less than a year after he died...omo, wickedness abounds oo

  • @ananasvostel
    @ananasvostel Рік тому +36

    Aunty Fumi- i didn't know you could speak pidgin so well! Great episode, and full of wisdom as always.

    • @khadijahd01
      @khadijahd01 Рік тому

      😊of course she can. The first I hear her I smiled...I love that she speak it. Proud to be Nigerian 😊😊😊. English is to many words to make a direct point😂

  • @shirleyvanarsdalecrabtree2880
    @shirleyvanarsdalecrabtree2880 Рік тому +11

    Also Anita’s child should know ALL of its siblings, no matter the country. It’s not any of Davido’s children’s fault that he ‘s made such a mess. 🙏🏾😔❤️ To Chioma.

  • @Presidentialmoments232
    @Presidentialmoments232 Рік тому +17

    you ate them all for breakfast lunch and dinner , with such class and wisdom. At some points i felt like you were talking to me. blessings

  • @samiyoabdiali7214
    @samiyoabdiali7214 Рік тому +70

    TRUE FACTS AUNTIE TOLD AND SAID NO LIES. And FUMI is and always gorgeous inside and out 👑🔥👏🏾🖤💜🧡❤✌🏾

  • @nestef5790
    @nestef5790 Рік тому +21

    The softness and compassion you're giving to Chioma during your video... Thank you for this.

  • @ThabiNyoni
    @ThabiNyoni Рік тому +7

    15:53 that airport will humble you 😂😅 all the way regulated and checked 😅 trust and believe they will

  • @npkandi
    @npkandi Рік тому +65

    You are funny, Fumi. You tell the truth and lighten it up with humor. Love you!❤

  • @MentalWellnessWithWaihiga
    @MentalWellnessWithWaihiga Рік тому +32

    I don't know if I believe if she did not know that he was married. I knew he was married. However going after Anita ain't it. It's Davido's issue. Very sad that the wife is collateral damage,but she can choose to move on without him if she is wise.

    • @hannahakorede6497
      @hannahakorede6497 Рік тому +4

      She actually knew she reveal a text message of her telling Davido she still desire him even though he marry to chioma this lady lies too much

    • @gracefullyme7350
      @gracefullyme7350 Рік тому +2

      Whether she believes it or not, the responsibility to be faithful is on him. I don't agree with seeing married men however the person in a committed relationship has the responsibility

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Рік тому +1

      ​@@gracefullyme7350: Both have responsibilities -- the married person to their marriage, the single person to verify who they're dealing with

  • @plaineblaine2757
    @plaineblaine2757 Рік тому +31

    Chai Davido!!! Anita came out to say she’s pregnant on Tuesday, Wednesday another girl named Ivonna came out to say she’s also pregnant by Davido. Assurance in the MUD! What a disgrace.

  • @agnesalbarka5366
    @agnesalbarka5366 Рік тому +2

    Aunty Funmi, this advise you gave Chioma is meant for me... I have been in a toxic relationship for the longest time. I thought I won't get love from anyone else.I loved that soul with my every breath but I didnt get half of what I gave. I sat down one night and asked myself how long will I allow myself to be a toy in the hand of a confused Man? I walked away and never looked back

  • @Eniola_Said_So
    @Eniola_Said_So Рік тому +134

    I love you Fumi ❤ and I love how you’re so sensitive with cultural differences but still very much SPOT ON with the assessment of the situation! I can’t wait for a TALK SHOW!!!

    • @Creyole
      @Creyole Рік тому +13

      Or listen to a pod cast with an occasional guest. I only want to listen to her, Fumi is all I need…she is EVERYTHING!

    • @doreenonekalit9888
      @doreenonekalit9888 Рік тому +2

      🙏🏿👌🏾

    • @reneegranger6109
      @reneegranger6109 Рік тому

      Can't wait.

  • @ucheiwuajoku1037
    @ucheiwuajoku1037 Рік тому +15

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 Pidgin sweet for your mouth o Fums 😍🥰

  • @elainecorpuz4136
    @elainecorpuz4136 Рік тому +29

    I adore this color scheme on you, Auntie Fumi! I feel like lavender/purple/blue look stunning on you the most! You’re oozing with radiance and vibrancy! Love ittttttttt!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Lee-ef4wu
    @Lee-ef4wu Рік тому +37

    The most beautiful advise to all us women no matter what colour or age...Thank you Fumi❤

  • @JAkin_
    @JAkin_ Рік тому +22

    Thank you 🙏 - Madam Fumi for sharing great words of *WISEDOM* , not just to Chioma - (the wife), but to alll womenfolk globally.
    We in KE 🇰🇪 wish Chioma all the best in her endeavors + a healthy gestational period. Please be strong, stay SANE, stay HEALTHY for yourself and the unborn child! 🙏

  • @Cindy4ctv
    @Cindy4ctv Рік тому +18

    They will only do what these women allow. Well said. Thank you.

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Рік тому +1

      No, good men do good regardless. Bad men do bad regardless.

  • @tc8330
    @tc8330 Рік тому +6

    Gosh, I’m not pregnant for DAVIDO neither have I ever been with him. But this video was for me none the less and I’m sure plenty of you ladies can relate. Let us love and choose ourselves first.

  • @inspiringyoutobecompletely9948
    @inspiringyoutobecompletely9948 Рік тому +48

    You are going to look stunning with your natural hair ❤

  • @EstherAivinhenyi
    @EstherAivinhenyi Рік тому +25

    Lesson learnt " not all men are husbands, not all men are fathers." Wellsaid Fumi which is why some women have chosen to stay single to avoid this disaster with many toxic men out there in today's world!
    This is a SAD REALITY in the 21st Century!! God Almighty of Israel protect and guide our footsteps 👣 for I Am Fearfully and Wonderfully made, no man on planet earth can take the place of my God Almighty of Israel in Jesus Christ Mighty Holy name Amen 🙏

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Рік тому

      🖐🏾 ME

    • @EstherAivinhenyi
      @EstherAivinhenyi Рік тому

      @@Heyu7her3 you are a mere mortal and have no fear of God Almighty who created you and the air you breath! Don't MOCK the MOST HIGH, The I Am Who I Am, you would not be able to contend His WRATH. 🔥 🔥 🔥
      May God Almighty of Israel have mercy on you.

  • @annabellenwaorgu8170
    @annabellenwaorgu8170 Рік тому +3

    In Igbo culture, if a child born out of wedlock dies, the father of the child doesn’t have any authority over the child’s body and he can’t bury the child in his own household. And given David’s family’s affluence they’d obviously want to bury the child themselves but can’t. Hence why the got married- I think. IMO. But we only know what we know. we don’t know what we don’t know. Bless that little boy’s soul. God help Chioma and everyone else involved cos this is truly embarrassing.

  • @angelinam6654
    @angelinam6654 Рік тому +61

    ❤❤❤❤Love the going back to natural hair. I'M HERE FOR IT!!!. I love it when black women embrace our own hair. Such a positive message for young black girls. I'm also 54 and went back to my natural hair last year.

    • @Flomaria08
      @Flomaria08 Рік тому

      Oh…seems I missed that part. I’ll rewatch but can you give me the time. Thanks.

  • @reginatabb4068
    @reginatabb4068 Рік тому +13

    Men create their own drama this is DAVIDOS drama.. These drama queens fall right into it. They invite drama . She had to know about this guy could have happened on purpose?❤

  • @greenytaddict
    @greenytaddict Рік тому +11

    The dust is global

    • @adaofcharles1217
      @adaofcharles1217 Рік тому +1

      😂😂😂 I wonder how and when, we will get dust free.

  • @praretapascall2031
    @praretapascall2031 Рік тому +45

    Fuji you are such a beautiful black woman and you are here to inspire black women all around the world.

  • @dianefranklin8785
    @dianefranklin8785 Рік тому +33

    Yeah!!! Wonderful! So happy for you. I’ve been natural since I was 27 years old and I and 56 yers old now. It’s going to be a great journey for you. Happy day! 🤩🤩

  • @rosemaryotabor1760
    @rosemaryotabor1760 Рік тому +4

    I just felt that silent before saying "not all men are husbands, and not all men are fathers" 😢I love the way you analysed this topic FROM ANITA, DAVIDO AND CHIOMA. I love your honest opinion

  • @moniquechance2209
    @moniquechance2209 Рік тому +8

    So true Fumi not all men are father’s, not all men are husbands . Wise words you’re an inspiration to us women. Wish these ladies all the best and a safe and healthy pregnancy! Please ladies focus on yourselves and your babies. Put you and your child first!

  • @lolatiku
    @lolatiku Рік тому +7

    Aunty Fumi your pidgin dey sweet me for body 😂😂😂

    • @NkNk-vg8fc
      @NkNk-vg8fc Рік тому +2

      Davido matter make her burst into pidgin English 😂😂

  • @MsTima-eg1xe
    @MsTima-eg1xe Рік тому +11

    No matter what we say, nothing will change this guy. There are so many like him and still women love them to death. May those children make different choices when they are grown, amiin 🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾
    Love you sis and keep it up ❤

  • @bigbrownbabe
    @bigbrownbabe Рік тому +2

    I believe she didn't know , he acts so single .

  • @gggreene73
    @gggreene73 Рік тому +2

    I’m American. I’ve been a Davido fan for 7-8 years. I did not know he was married until about a week ago.

  • @trishbarasa3310
    @trishbarasa3310 Рік тому +3

    The makeup is gorgeous. And those words of wisdom spoke to a lot more of us ❤

  • @jbanson7030
    @jbanson7030 Рік тому +10

    makeup is chef's kiss! 💋

  • @virginiajoseph4458
    @virginiajoseph4458 Рік тому +1

    Fumi you so right.
    You hit the nail on the head.

  • @reneegranger6109
    @reneegranger6109 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for breaking it down for both women. 💕💕

  • @adonnaberesford3420
    @adonnaberesford3420 Рік тому +10

    Well spoken Fumi. You always tell it like it is

  • @sticky3000
    @sticky3000 Рік тому +3

    I absolutely luv this wise woman and how she gathered all of them together and gave them a much needed word! Speak Fumi! 🖤🖤🖤

  • @amakachukwurah5801
    @amakachukwurah5801 Рік тому

    I just love who you are! Straight to point.

  • @sxvnsrevenge
    @sxvnsrevenge 10 місяців тому

    Good one Fumi!! You are spot on as usual sis! ❤

  • @ps.yourstruly
    @ps.yourstruly Рік тому +4

    You SLAYYEEEEED this look today! Wow😍😍😍Queen💗

  • @TheAfricanHub29
    @TheAfricanHub29 Рік тому +8

    You nailed it ma’am 👏👏” the Miss France” made me laugh 😂

  • @namagembe67
    @namagembe67 Рік тому

    Fumi you gave the best analysis. Words of wisdom

  • @njideakatobechukwu1715
    @njideakatobechukwu1715 Рік тому +2

    Aunty Funmi!!! I love the entire look!💖💖💖

  • @Winniegirl85
    @Winniegirl85 Рік тому +23

    You look beautiful Fumi love your look.

  • @jacintannani2262
    @jacintannani2262 Рік тому +5

    Chioma is another Annie Idibia. She's not going anywhere even if Davido has 10 more babies with 10 different women. They love the money and glamour.

  • @sandraangus753
    @sandraangus753 Рік тому

    The best read and advice, was what you said to and about Davido. Great job Fumni!

  • @justbeingoctavia
    @justbeingoctavia Рік тому +1

    Such a beautiful message to Chioma! I hope she receives this and that God opens her eyes to her self worth 🙏🏾

  • @khrstnsibley1
    @khrstnsibley1 Рік тому +10

    I've come to comment before even hearing about Davido to tell you you look stunning in that turban and the beat is immaculate👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 I'm reminded that African women really are the beauty standard. You look stunning💯

  • @neshbean-zr7rt
    @neshbean-zr7rt Рік тому +3

    I’m glad you’re keeping it real and not being Bias. The problem in this relationship is Davido. He’s out here sleeping with 3 different women unprotected smh this is ridiculous. Nina is a beautiful woman in and out she didn’t deserve all the hate she received when Davido was cheating knowingly. I really can’t feel bad for Chioma because before she even married him she knew he was out here cheating. When you allow yourself to be a doormat a man will continue to walk over you sadly. Please take care of yourselves ladies HIV is real.

    • @wordsbymaribeja1470
      @wordsbymaribeja1470 Рік тому

      She was in Dubai renting herself out, this is what they do. And, we've seen this template before. This is how the Drake's now baby mother retired from her career as a sex rental and 'influener'.

  • @tebohoashorgrinmahlatsi8303
    @tebohoashorgrinmahlatsi8303 Рік тому +1

    Wow, the wisdom you possess. Just Wow!

  • @lindaegwuonwu3287
    @lindaegwuonwu3287 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much, Auntie Fumi. I LOVE ALL YOUR TAKE ON THIS.

  • @brandyandcream2
    @brandyandcream2 Рік тому +13

    Aunty Fumi coming with the facts and the tea! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @sharonburke9708
    @sharonburke9708 Рік тому +4

    You’re a wise woman! I salute you

  • @reginaampaire9227
    @reginaampaire9227 3 місяці тому

    Fumi...u make my days...ur wisdom, story telling is something else....