👀WHAAAT! SOLO TRAVELER, SHAKEEMAH SMITH TELLS HER CHILLING SHANQUELLA ROBINSON STORY! GOOSEBUMPS 👻
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- Join me as I speak with Shakeemah Smith as she tells me the SPINE CHILLING story of how her friends planned and executed to leave her behind in the dead of the night in a foreign Country. 👀 I couldn't BELIVE my ears. Like 'OH WOWOWOWOWOW! AAAAAAAAAAAND, that............Shanquella was following her on her instagram page. 👀 👀 👀
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Hi Fumi
Wow….I was so surprised to here my little island mentioned ❤️🙏🏽
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Me/my family was born & raised in Antigua+Barbuda, but lots of us now live in Canada/USA
Aunty Fumi ❤️... love what you are doing in Shanquellas name... This also reminds me of the Tamla Horsford case (which was much more sinister), however unfortunately, did not get the same attention...
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It would be great to make some videos about trvale safety tips and advice. How to solve certain problems that happen and how to deal with issues in different places.
I wonder what ended up happening with that Bianca and her boyfriend.
Similar happen to me, had a friend who was getting married to someone who displayed red flags I asked my friend to consider postponing the wedding until she is happy with his conduct. It was a destination wedding I had already booked my and hubby’s plane ticket when she called to tell me I’m no longer invited to her wedding. This was a friend of over 25 years. We’ve not spoken since although I’ve heard she wants to rekindle the friendship which I do not want. It’s now been abt 15 years since the incident and the marriage lasted a few months. I’ve forgiven her but have moved on. Do not put all your trust in friends!
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That's sad for her!...I always laugh when I see men gaslighting women saying, "and that's why you're single, don't listen to single friends"...although you weren't single!...regardless of if someone is single or not sometimes, you can see the shit standing on the outside looking in and if you're a good friend you let your friends know...25 yrs you're friends and she couldn't use her logic to even take a look into what you were saying and feeling???...sad for her...I agree with you for moving on and not wanting to rekindle anything!
Never trust her again
She was probably been gaslighted, did she give you the money back for tickets...after 15 you wouldn't speak to her ever again..
Good for you my dear 👏🏽👏🏽 She doesn't deserve the friendship you were willing to give, what a shame 😒
Shanquella, in Her absence from this world, is accomplishing Her Purpose by bringing awareness & encouragement to others.
Rest Well BabyGirl🕊️
This is transformative! Some girls did a funny business with me a good 10 years ago. I left in the middle of the night while they were out clubbing. I told them I would stay behind “due to cramps.” The minute they left, I packed.. got in the car and told off. 2 hours into the road I sent a text stating my departure. Thankfully it was a local trip. I thank God for the intuition to get up and leave.
By “funny business”what I mean is condescending comments (hate is embedded in jokes), changing the subject when I talk about how I was going to defend the thesis I wrote, & talking about my new job. I literally felt their envy. It was chilling. My advice: listen to your intuition; it will save your life.
Awesome, am glad you followed your first mind!
This is amazing girl. Your a smart woman who listened to the discernment God gave you. Lucky escape. 🙏🏽❤️
The biggest mistake is not listening to my inner guidance (Gods voice). Never again will I ignore it! You ladies are inspirational❤️❤️❤️👏👍
After watching this. I would like to share my story. In 2019 I took a trip to Mexico with 2 "friends" I've known for since 2003. I'd never been there before and was excited to go. I noticed after we arrived & checked in both of them were acting weird. They're both married, one started crying on the patio, the other one was consoling her. I let them have the time to pull themselves together. Next day, as were all getting dressed they damn near accused me of taking their wedding rings?? I didn't see any rings nor did I know they'd taken them off. They found the rings. next one of them kept moving my stuff around. I asked her to leave my stuff alone. As we'd get ready to go out it seems like they were jealous of my resort wear. Mind you months b4 the trip, I was sending them cute outfit/ dress pics. They started acting distant, speaking in Spanish knowing I wouldn't understand. We'd be at the bar, one would go change outfits, as if she needed more attention from the men. Getting upset bc I didn't understand the money exchange/difference. One girl didn't seem to have much money with her. The other one seems bothered I was shopping. They got real cold on me. EXCLUDING ME FROM CONVERSATIONS. From that moment i knew in my heart the friendship was over as soon as we got BACK to the US. Fast forward to the Uber ride home I was quiet. I could believe how they both behaved. I said to myself, never again. When they exited the car, that was the last time I spoke to either of them. You'll never get the chance to treat me like a piece of crap again. Box juice shaped heffas.
😂😂😂😂. I feel you. Not even juicy juice!
Lol🤣 glad you took heed to their behavior and booted them.
😂 not the “box juice shaped heffas” comment! I’m dying lol
Thank God, you made it home safely. Women can be so vicious when envy and jealousy enter the room. Hugs to you. 🥰🌺
The hate is always there we miss it because we are nice & kind so we assume everyone is like that. I’m glad you cut them off no second chances
I've learned that you can be friends with a woman for 20 years and she will disown you for asking her to put herself before a man who is dogging her out, but she will keep the man. She will call you judgemental instead of caring! It's insane. I just cant do silly women with low self esteem. 🤷♀️
Correct!
All those years put behind a man. Smh....
I know! It happened to me. I think she hated me for having the guts to get out of a bad marriage. She said she didn't want to know if I knew of anything her husband was doing. He ended up leaving her for another woman. Everything they had was bought on her credit. He even took her car and other belongings and gave it to the other woman. She just let him get away with it. She came to me for consolation. I'm just over it. I tried to help her before it came to this.
That’s just a classic abused minded person. They don’t think logical hence why they just don’t up and leave. It’s not about your friendship at that point, these type of people will cut off their parents. Sometimes that is for your protection as well.
I’m a flight attendant and the stories I hear coming out of Europe by young American girls are trifling. People need to be careful who you travel with . It’s the people you think you know who act crazy at times
Please let's not act like crazy happens only in America. I'm on Twitter all the time reading the craziness that is Europe. Stop.
@@nikkiball7641 thank you! Let's not act like it's only an American issue .... Jealousy and envy know no boundaries!
Trifiling? PVEL.
I don’t share rooms with ppl because of this type of craziness.
Oh mon Dios! Which remind of the Stacey case, the Fiance , which was suppose to protect her and have fun with her, became Evil😡 and Snapped on her , when she discover during the trip they are Not good soulmate , I wish she could of waited it or tell the family member to come for her , to let them know he was being abusive maybe the two of them would of been alive . He hasd a mood disorder, not everyone can deal with a person with a mood disorder. have so stories of my slo Travel, 😁now am curious to hear about shamquella,
I travel up to 6 times a year, and I'm a solo traveler. I never had friends that I trusted enough to travel with, as they weren't adventurous, planners, nor savers financially. So I said to myself don't ever take them with you. Sometimes I miss the company, however, I'd rather do it alone and not encounter the drama of other people
Hope you continue to travel, expand your horizons and eventually meet some that is able and willing to share great adventures with you! Stay safe and keep moving forward!
Amen, good for you dear 💕💕
I'm right there with you girl. I'm solo traveller myself. Been going here and there just in the USA until I spread out. I love it , being able do what I want and how I want is so freeing. Yes sometimes a little company adds to the fun but solo most for me.
That’s messed up that we can’t trust each other. But you have to look out for yourself.
Any traveling tips for first time traveler with kids are alone?
These conversations are so necessary. This happens more than we know. The more we know the better we can prepare. Salute to this young Sister.
Facts
FACTs!!! SOOO NECESSARY 🙏
This happened to me before too! My friends of over 10 years traveled with me out of town for my birthday. As so I thought. One of my friends refused to do anything I suggested and everyone went along with it. I will call her Pam. I was so upset because I did not enjoy the time there at all. We literally got lost driving on a highway for hours because Pam wanted to find a liquor store. The next day again they decided to do things Pam wanted to do. My brother stayed in the city so I asked them to drop me off there. When they came back Pam wanted to travel to another city to visit one of her friends that was in college. I refused and said I didn’t want to go visit him. So they left me. I had to call my mother to come and get me. Time does not equal trust. My mother never liked Pam. She had shown red flags before and I kept giving her the benefit of the doubt. I’m no longer so trusting anymore. Learned my lesson. I’m grateful to be able to tell my story unlike poor Shanquella.
Why did you mother have to ''Come get you''? why not just go home?
Oh, my!!! Something similar happened to my daughter. My only child. She was invited on a girls' trip. While on the trip, she was not told the correct times of the different events that had been planned. She ended up spending most of the trip in a room crying and looking for the other ladies. It was so horrible that her father had to fly and get her. I will for sure share this with her.
I know she must have felt so afraid and out of place 😢
That’s incredibly sad, I hope your daughter has recovered from that experience.
My eldest daughter is autistic and does not make friends easily and has in the past been bullied by so called friends. I totally sympathise.
That’s right go and get your baby! I would have done the same thing.
Thanks for all of your support. She is currently in counseling and doing much better.
@@nedramiller8039 good!👌🏻
Yes! Better to travel alone than with "frenemies"! Thank you Shakeema and Fumi for making people aware of this!
Especially those on a man hunt - nightmare
Fumi was spot on with her assessment. "Bianca" was shamed and was probably mad that the truth bothered her so much. And Fumi was so right, "Eboni" was the more dangerous one.
For what are friends? If I have a friend and he/she tells me one thing and I hear that something else was told to another person, I will not confront him/her but I will no longer look at that person as previously. PVEL.
Absolutely, Meika...she displayed passive aggression attitude, she acted as if nothing was wrong, but quietly joined in the plot to leave the young lady. It was the same exact behaviors that was demonstrated by those who traveled with Shanquella, they all appeared to be cool, but strongly collectively participated and watched Shanquella be beaten and murdered. Fumi was right, Eboni was the most dangerous one! I am willing to bet all the Cabo6 had characteristics of being passive aggression, harboring toxic thoughts of jealously and envy, yet smiling and pretending to be Shanquella friend, awhile waiting for an opportunity to display their true feelings for her, it was definitely obvious, no way would I have stood there and allowed that to happen to my friend, somehow, someway, I would have pretended to make a store run or something, even made a call to the POLICE, of a gun on the premise, made a bathroom run to text or something, anything to tell or perhaps prevent that from happening to a friend. All of Cabo6 is guilty and should be charged and convicted!
Been traveling solo for two decades after an experience when 2 girls wanted to jump me. Something told me they were on some foul sh!+ and I ditched them before they could move on me. Turns out they were jealous of me then and continue to be mad from afar because they can’t touch me and never could. Thank God
This girl has really inspired me and has taught me to luv your own company more no matter what, people don't define you ,you define your own happiness always inspire to be happy alone .Walking alone is better than walking with fake friends!!!!!!!!!
Excellent cautious tale. I saw her interview on Chronicle Speaks. So sad to know “a bad guy is the reason for the girls” split up. So so sad. I hope all young foolish girls are listening. Buy the condo for a family member not “a boyfriend”.
100%
I did as well
*assets*
Thank you!!!😊
That woman is the definition of stupid
I have chills 😮ladies last year I can honestly say I was traumatized by “friends” I mean TRAUMATIZED! Being used and abused for my open heart and gifts…I finally found the courage to start my CREATIVE COACHING program. (I was being used for my creative gifts that I would FREELY SHARE WITH “friends🙄”) I don’t know every scripture in the Bible but YOUR ENEMIES BECOMING A FOOTSTOOL IS REAL! I was thankful I was shown truly colors because it pushed me closer to my purpose. I wish Shanquella saw the light before those demons tragically ended her life. 😔 & I hate that she had to become an example of the importance of keeping good hearted people around. ALSO, that situation helped me reevaluate MYSELF. What about me is allowing these types of women in my life? Baby, the self reflections and inner work that came with answering that question is the key to EVERYTHING. Happy New Year ladies 🥂
Thx for the inspiration 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@@senayon85 🙏🏽✨
Let the Lord continually use you for your creativity.❤
It’s so terrible when gfs off load their problems to you and you in your good heart try to give them some advise. She then turns on you accusing you of “trying to break them up”.
This crap happened to me. I learned the hard way. Don’t waste time on people who don’t want to listen.
Sometimes people just want to vent and just have your pity/sympathy. NOT solve their problems for them.
At the end of the day, people hear what they want to hear and if you against what they want to hear, they (don’t self reflect and in turn) think “you are the problem,” which is really sad.
Since that incident, I now ask my gfs do you want advice or do you just want me to listen? Even when they tell me they want advise, I let them draw their own conclusions, I do that by asking them “if a friend is in your situation and is asking you for advice what would you tell them?” This way you stay neutral and not threatening to them.
I hope my incident and advise is able to help someone who needs it.
I am just sorry that this happens to a lot more women, more than we know or are made aware of.
Stay safe, ladies. My prayer, blessings and best wishes goes out to you. ❤❤❤
Fumi, I love your channel. I hope more women are able to find you. Your advices are always genuine and heartfelt. Bless you for sharing. ❤❤❤
I suppose the best to say after these offloadings is: I trust you to do what is best for you. People are funny. Most need just a listening ear but we, ladies, love to offer advice because we tend to see things clearer when we are not personally involved. PVEL.
Thank you for advising that we ask what they would advise another person who was facing their challenges. I will definitely use this one! PVEL.
Letting the person draw their own conclusions from strategically asked questions is a really good idea. I will definitely adopt that approach.
Fumi, you are just the voice for Shanquella. This was an awesome interview and a great topic. Thanks for the education.
Wow, thank you ❤
This video is so timely for me. I was here thinking about my trips for this year and whether I wanted to solo travel but after listening to her, I’m convinced that I will be doing some solo travels this year.
Same 🙌🏾
I love solo travel. Once I faced my fear towards the matter it’s been a wrap ever since. Be sure to try and post once you’ve already successfully reached destination back in US if traveling out of country! Shit US as well people are wicked. You’d be surprised who doesn’t have good intentions for you.🙏🏽
I found out after 27 years that my former best friend was not a friend at all. How did I miss it. We were supposed to go on a trip last November of 2022, but I canceled because I to pay IRS and was helping my daughter. She was irate that I canceled and was like you can do a payment plan. I no longer felt comfortable
Happiness and blessings this new year to all Fumination!!
Same to you 💕💕
This is why when I travel, I prefer to put travel arrangements in my name, and have everyone pay their own way. My husband even hates carpooling with others to events, parties because we want to come and go when we want. Maybe we're control freaks, but we feel more comfortable.
I was at a friends house one time and we were getting ready to go out. Her sister was coming with us too. She was training to become a makeup artist and asked if she could do my makeup, so I let her. She ended up making me look so ugly, huge caterpillar eyebrows, clashing eyeshadow it was so so awful and I had to go out looking like that. It was the first time I felt jealousy from someone I knew and trusted. So childish and stupid
Wow! Just wow! 😰
Was she "jealous" or just inexperienced??
@@ToniaAlex13.Amen!!!👍🏽❤
This is why I have older friends (Big women friends). I cherish their friendship and listen to their council
This was a wonderful video. We all are praying for justice for Shanquella. I tell my daughter this "everyone who says that they are your friend could secretly be jealous of you."
Moral of the story is, everyone is not your friend and stop interfering with others relationship because it will never end well. A mentally and emotionally unstable woman will ALWAYS choose a man over anything else.
The thing is people like the the woman in the story has always been like that, but a lot of women turn a blind eye to the behavior until they turn on them because they thought they were the exception.
Lastly, women are foolish at any age, maturity does not come with age.
Thank you so much very inspirational to me and all other women God bless you Fumi
Betrayal unfortunately extends beyond age, length of friendship and sometimes even family, marital or religious ties. You would not always know to expect the depth of the betrayal, sometimes overlooking signs because of love and relationship. Truly , while forgiveness is very necessary in relationships, how can two walk together or travel together, except they agree?
I stumbled on Shakeemah while following the Shanquella saga ,so I was aware of her terrible experience before you, Fumi, but your injection, into it brought a further chill to my being...I fervently pray that justice for Quella comes soon , early this new year.
I am loving this Passport Abuser, and her personality...I wish her welll.
Happy 2023 ,Fumi!!!!!!!
Same from chronicle speaks video
I love this sister talk, it is so valuable! Especially as a Black Woman who fears traveling alone!
I had a similar experience with an ex-friend (former friend) who invited me on a girl's trip to NOLA back in 2018. We were friends at that time but the people she invited, I consider them as an associate (friends by association). I won't say I was close with any of them. On the trip, the "ex-friend" was acting strange and distant because even though she planned the trip, she only choose activities based on what she liked. I was not a fan it at all and her so-called friends were not a fan, but they were cowards to not admit it to the ex-friend. Mindful, I am an avid solo traveler and this was my first group trip experience. I hated that experience and it was a waste of my time and money. I wasn't a fan of the people I went with and I should've trusted my instinct to not go because I felt it in my spirit that this trip wouldn't be easy. Someone I consider a close friend, whom I treated like a family member revealed their true colors by singling me out and leaving me alone in a place I wasn't too familiar with. Luckily, as an experienced solo traveler, I knew how to navigate my way around NOLA. Once I return home, I defiantly blocked and deleted those fake girls and decided to continue traveling solo. Lesson learned! Please surround yourself with the right people and know it is perfectly fine to travel solo and DO NOT let anyone make you feel insane for wanting to see the world! I love traveling solo because I can move and have fun at my own place without being judged on being me! Shakeemah, thank you!! We need more influencers like you! And btw I am planning another solo trip but this time to Tulum, MX for my 30th birthday! I am ready!
✍️🏽Thank you Fumi for this story and all the stories. Much success in 2023, and a sincere “merci beaucoup” for keeping us informed while looking beautiful.🙏🏽
Fumi, you are such an amazing human being! Your compassion is so genuine and it reaches and teaches. Having Shakeemah on the show was incredible. If all women who have experienced anything similar to what the both of you went through, would not be ashamed or fearful; step up and speak out; more women would listen and take heed. It’s going to take a strong move of us to make that happen. I believe it will. Thank you Fumi for sharing your story and sharing your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Prayers of continued success for both of you beautiful women. Peace and blessings❤️❤️
I have been following the passport abuser for reasons of wanting to stop waiting on others to live life more abundantly. Thank you sharing your story!
Ohh emmmm gee! I have been bullied and crossed so many times that I really don't have friends. I'm better off with my family and my husband and kids. The smaller my circle the less drama. This story actually triggered me. I got so anxious because I've felt the ramifications of jealousy and betrayal and it's horrible. I'm so glad you are okay. ❤️🙏
Your better off trust me, my mother is like this lovely woman but doesn’t have any female friends. And she explained they bring more “drama then happiness”. I agree with her now with what I been through with some of my friends.
Love this!!! I'm half Nigerian and half African-American. This is what Black women need to see, hear, share, and experience. Kudos to both!
Its amazing that she was able to move on, live her life and travel around the world and build her following. Her friends were so wrong for leaving her like that. Not as chilling as what happened to Shanquella but definitely hurtful and snakey. This is why I don't do girls trips or even hang out with women like that.
I LOVED this vid for SO many reasons! I also, love how this young woman stated that she’s met so many wealthy Africans!!! I’m Malawian-American; I was born and raised in America to Malawian immigrants. I’ve been to Malawi(southeast Africa) multiple times in my life(most recently in 2021), and I’ve ALWAYS been very tied to my Malawian heritage/culture…and it especially warmed my heart to hear a Black-American say such nice things about Africans. I’ve had too many experiences over the course of my life where I’ve heard my Black-American counterparts say disgusting-horrible things/misconceptions about Africa. I myself know a lot more rich Africans living in Africa…and not America!!! Thanks Auntie Fumi for this vid!!! I love your channel and will make sure to follow this young lady on Instagram.😊🙏🏾
Looks like I'm not the only one from the warm heart of Africa on this platform 🇲🇼😍
@@faithmcherebanda No, you are definitely not the only one here from 🇲🇼!!!!🙌🏾🙏🏾
We use the term friend so lightly. We have to reach deep and understand that everyone can’t be our friend. Every time I tell my ideas a friend takes it. I stopped sharing and boom no one is going ish lol do YOU! You don’t need a bunch of people to have fun ….traveling alone has brought me so much peace. Great insights ladies thank you! I’ve learned to only hang with folks 10 steps ahead of me.
I am right there with you! It's sad you cannot share ideas and not fear disloyalty from so called "Friends"
Keep spreading the word...note that if you are still afraid to go solo, some churches have annual activities that include traveling as well
Listening to this, I'm reminded of a trip to the islands I took with two "friends". Once we landed that's when they started acting funny. I was introduced to a pothead, that tried but didn't get anywhere. They actually left me in the middle of crowd. It was festival time. Luckily, I made my way back to the hotel and immediately made reservations for my return. These were long-term "friends" also.
I have learned now that in adjacent to warning my teenagers about false Friends I also need to consel them on what to do in threatening situations while traveling with friends also. Thank you!
I had a friend of ten years that I recently had to let go. I am a person that keeps my personal life to myself but I was having extreme issues with a business partner and I told my friend many details and implicitly trusted her. A short time later I ran into a mutual friend of mine and my friend that also knows the business partner. She started questioning me about the partner and couldn't believe that "he wasn't a nice guy" and knew details that she was obviously told. I was completely devastated, as this could have really hurt me financially and socially. Our friendship was over in that moment, as I knew gossiping was more important to her than protecting me. The level of detail she told let me know that she wanted to hurt me and probably enjoyed the ramifications. Sad lesson to learn.
I haven't been following Fumi for long but let me say I love and admire you so much 💗 keep doing the beautiful work your doing 💗
You may not have a daughter, but you are a motherly persona to those of us that did not get the teachings of how to carry ourselves and navigate the world as it relates to our friends and those in our social circles. You are a beautiful person with a beautiful spirit. Thank you for taking the time to share your gifts.
If you’re reading this I wish for God to bless you with genuine friendships. I have a handful of GENUINE friends that have proven themselves over 10 years. God gave them to me and I trust them with my LIFE. Don’t think that women are all vindictive, jealous, and spiteful. THEY ARE NOT. God will bless you with REAL friends.
my friend of 13 years once told me she wants to be married to my hubby should I die. I laughed it off and she mentioned it again after a year. The third time she mentioned it I ran for my dear life. I discontinued the friendship with immediate effect.
Yall shouldnt take this as have no friends, trust no one. It should be taken as BE CAREFUL who you trust, always have your guard up whilst looking for red flags. Always have a family/loved one in the loop in case.
Stay safe and spread love. ❤❤❤
Sounds exhausting 😩.
Thank you both for sharing these experiences with us women. We need to know. I've travel by myself since my 20's. I've been to Europe alone and acts prefer traveling, because I can do what I want to do. I've met other women who travel alone as well. It's safe and smart ways to do it. I follow Rick Steves and stay in places that he recommends and he's never steered me wrong. I wish you both the happiest of New Year's!
Yep. Rick Steves is THE TRUTH! I also follow a guy here on YT, Wolter's World. I trust his recommendations ESPECIALLY his Europe do's and don't.
@@bronzedrage Thank you for the tip. I will check him out as well.
Some friends just want you to nod and say "yas queen , you walk into that car crash with that guy you go" SMDH
A real friend is gonna tell you something you don’t want to hear but you need to hear it. That real friend may not be able to change your mind from doing wut your heart wants to do, but his/her conscience will be clean when you crash and burn and will still be there for the aftermath to help you heal thru the recovery process.
its so sad that she was that mad that she gave her loving advice. How was "don't give this ain't shit dude money" a diss to that girl? Thats a shame.
Thank you for this video. It's amazing how many of us have actually gone through this type of stuff with so-called friends. But this same type of thing is why I travel solo and have so for over 20 years now. And putting those trips on layaway is the best thing ever. I must say.
I love how she lives in Antigua!! I live in Grenada and I will love to learn more from her in terms of travelling from the Caribbean.
Fumi, what a great video. Shaquille lives through both of you beautiful woman. This is exactly what Shanquella wanted out of life. Her case has cause people fight for justice. As well as unify people, and expose evil on all level...
I really enjoyed everything Thepassortabuser share she's truly an amazing young lady. I wish her, and Shanquella would have had a chance to speak to one another.
As tragic as Shanquella murder was. It's cause people to see life from a different perspective. And not to call people our friends, who don't really represent that.
Happy New Year Queen Fumi, keep working in Excellence. We love you, your phenomenal.
Justice for Shanquella Robinson. Bravo!! Another great video Fumi..❤🎉⭐🙏🏽👑👸🏽⭐❤🙌🏽⭐🎊
Oh, what a beautiful and amazing girl Shakeemah is. I loved this episode. Thanks Fumi for this. Happy New Year to you, Adrian and Ole. Blessings.
Beautiful conversation and educating us thanks Fumi for having her.
I had to let a 10 year and a 13 year friendship go as well when I found out what they were capable of. I walked away and never looked back and I have had peace ever since! I did not realize that they were baggage that were weighing me down.
What a great episode. Black women supporting each other’s instead of harming each other is top tier 💕
Happy New Year Fumi & FumiNation followers. It’s a shame that we can’t trust the ones we feel are close friends or ppl we consider family. God be with us. This world’s energy has changed.
It’s so crazy that when you look out for your sister, you get belittled or cussed out just for being a friend smh so sad, I have followed thepassportabuser, she was a joy 🥰❤️💜 she dropped so many jewels, I’m definitely traveling in 2023 thank you fumi for this interview, such an awesome way to start the new year
I experienced a situation like this. I told my good girlfriend not to event this old guy she use to date not to invite to the party...she did...long story short I was told I was being "too friendly" when I told her the guy was bad news from jump....needless to say we are no longer friends. This situation hurt so bad. I was with her through some very rough times in her life (when no one else was there) and she cut our friendship over this!!!! I can relate to this issue. Matters of the heart are so delicate.
I love that she shared her story of what happened.
She turned that around n got so blessed n passing it forward. She is a superstar. Shanquella was a superstar too n envied by creatures who'd rather see her dead then to succeed. Bad intentions toward her n deceiving friends took her life... I too was once left behind in another country, the other side of the world. By myself with no money n abandoned by my cousin n his friend. Of course I was scared but just for a minute bc I refused to fall down. I stayed until my plane tkt date n learned to travel on my own by myself from there on
Same thing happened to me. Went on a trip with a college friend of 8 years . I almost got in a fight with her and her cousins cause it came out she was jealous because I was married and etc but luckily another girl was on the trip..also married... said let's go get another room because she saw the madness. On our way home on the plane, the married girl said she never saw our college classmate like that.
A lot of us been through this. The crazy thing is your friends won't even tell you why they have animosity with you. The just shut down and assume you already know.
Passport Abuser is giving us alllll the looks!!!
I enjoyed this interview so much. Wow! Who would ever imagine that your "friends" could actually be the danger you encounter when traveling abroad! I will agree, as someone who took my first solo trip in 2019, it's hands-down one of the most empowering experiences a woman can have. Get out there, Ladies!
Jealously is the thief of souls. Girl, God is with you, and He is always with you, Amen. Stay blessed, my beautiful sisters ❤️.
BFFs are not forever.....looks like. Beautiful women are at risk of being used by men AND women. It's shocking and heartbreaking. My BFF of 20 yrs tried to have sex with two of my boyfriends......I had no idea but both guys told me. I got rid of her. She has no idea I know. We haven't spoken in years anyway.
Thank you for this video. Amazing advice, ladies.
Happy New Year!
Leaver her in the bin with the rest of the trash.
Bianca is a whole pick me. Pick mes really get on my damn nerves. Giving a man $42,000 for condo who treats you like crap is ridiculous. I had a similar friend when I was in my 20s. Her boyfriend was physically abusive towards her & she ghosted me when I told her to leave his ass. Her kids were terrified of him so I thought I was trying to help. I even called the cops on him one time. I learned a valuable lesson when she ghosted me, never give a woman advice about her man. Just mind your own damn business & if the man is violent just stay away.
If he's phsyically abusive, why do you think "just leave" is proper advice? She probably ghosted because it was impossible for her to just leave without getting physically harmed and she didn't know how to explain that to you. Having a crappy boyfriend is one thing, but having a physically abusive man is a total different experience you can only know if you've lived it. I don't think I'd even take that to heart honestly, poor girl was probably trapped
Paying for the "D'...know her self esteem was really in the toilet
Chicks without self love cannot be around me
@@Rossi.K absolutely and it's a shame that many women think this way. Even Fumi talking about her friend being "jealous" when the women probably are also offended and insulted hearing that their so-called friends thinks they're jealous of them... when they probably just don't want to be a third wheel, be in a triangle or be in catty drama.
This gave me chills. Wow... And the fact that Shanquella followed her too. The fact that this happened to you too Fumi. wow Thank you for sharing
I'm so glad she's well and alive. I hope she continues to enjoy her solo trips and make genuine connections. Solo trips are cheaper anyways and you can do anything and everything you want to do...why waste money on friends who are Judas Escariot's minions?
I’m so sorry this happened Thank goodness your Angels had charge over you to keep you all ThankGod for praying parents!!
Hurt people hurt people.. I had a friend who got married.. the world saw the red flags but the person. After a situation took place, I had to have a heart to heart to show my loyalty of friendship and that she didn’t have to be alone during such a horrible point in her life. Well, the person turned around attacked me, my relationship, my family and walked away. Best…day…ever…To date, my soul is well and my heart is blessed 🥂.. the friendship no longer exist and funny enough it’s not missed. Karma did show up and I love and respect her. A friend should be a ride or die in my eyes.. words should never hurt to where you want to hurt..
Thank you for bringing this young lady to your channel. I saw her story a few weeks ago but I'm glad you shared her with us today. My son offered a trip to st. Thomas for me and I didn't go because I haven't been on vacation by myself in 35 years. My son is 36. I will never not go again because of fear. I love you Fumi your energy makes me feel beautiful and reminds me I can have more and be more. I will always be a fan. Love to London from the Bronx NYC. BTW HAPPY NEW YEAR and God bless and keep you and your family
I had someone who I thought was a good friend. I told her that she deserved better. Finally when he showed his true colors, she was devastated.
I called her and she said i will call you back. She never called back. I sent a few text and they were all ignored.
That was in September, she ignored me until Christmas and texted Merry Christmas. I didn't respond since she completely ghosted me. Ignored all my calls and text to her for months. I never heard from again. This year it will be 2 years. This was a friend that I talked and texted to daily.
Realized she was not a real friend. I didn't do anything to her. We were talking normally. Until the day I called and she said I will call you back.
Thank you Fumi for bringing this beautiful lady (passport abuser). This is so inspiring. Solo traveling is something I have been thinking about for almost a year now. Now I know I can up and go alone and I will be fine. I always felt it will be aquoad to travel alone. Thank you and happy new year xx.
Thank you so much for this video, Aunty Fumi. We really need people like Shakeemah. Lots of girls are willing to explore the world as part of the leveling up process, but we need to hold each other's hands and move. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
16:07 Too often we are quick to called people our friends because we share the same interests. I tell my son, “when you look in the mirror, do the people in your life mirror back who you are”? If not, they are NOT your friends. Friends don’t envy, plot, scheme, lie on you, nor disrespect you. Friends respect first themselves, others, are honest, hold you accountable, tell you what you need to hear and not what you want to hear and don’t get angry because they know it is coming from a place of love and respect.
Beautifully put!
O, how I love the cartoon lady before everyone of your video's, she walks like she's on a mission and minding her own business.
I literally got goosebumps trust me I feel every word
This convinced me to go solo when I start travelling!
I’m definitely joining this course. So inspirational. Upon reflection I realize I have my own similar story which has kept me fearful about trusting people. Perhaps there should be a forum to share these stories and uplift each other. Thank you Fumi for wresting light out of this tragic act. RIP Shanquella, your death is not in vain.
Love'd this interview Fumi, I saw Shankeemah Smith share her story on another channel recently. But I enjoyed how you structured this interview and the questions you asked. Very inspiring ❤️
Thank you Fumi!! Our hearts still cry out for Shanquella. Her death is a tragic. Shanquella wasn't fortunate as this lady. They will all surely answer to the Most High God. Sometimes, the best advice to give others is none at all. After you warn them, you may need to step back. The lessons of life is absolutely necessary for our growth. I'm glad that the 2 ladies had some human respect to walk away and not hurt their friend. I applauded them for leaving. They were nothing like Shanquella 's so- called friends. I only wished that Shanquella's so-called friends would have left her unharmed and checked out as well. That is truly a blessing when you can walk away unharmed. We all get red flag signals, whether or not we choose to acknowledge, they are there. When you are younger, acceptance and fitting in is part of building your self esteem. You want to be liked. Thank God this lady still have her life, family, career...... Shanquella's parents has loss their daughter, her clients has loss someone they trust and love, and also mourned by her friends and the community. Shanquella didn't have a chance and didn't deserve this. She was beautiful and wanted so much out of life. My hearts swells for her parents. I can't imagine losing my child in this horrible way. Shanquella's death is unparalleled to this story. She was murdered. Even my so-called friends doesn't compare to Shanquella's story. Also, I applauded them for walking away from me and left me unharmed. There are many lessons is this narrative. These females plotted after the conversation. Trustworthy is important in friendships
and when it's broken, it can fester into hate. Shanquella's frenemies planned their brutal attack prior to the trip. RIP Shanquella.. Gone too soon and never forgotten. Justice will be served!!!
Well done!! Enjoyed this video❤️❤️❤️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 The connection between you two was spot on, I loved it!!!
Two beautiful women with a lot of love to share, thank you so much for your transparency and vulnerability
Solo Traveler thanks for sharing your story! Thank God you were not physically injured, I pray the will of Jesus Christ over your life
Enjoyed watching the interview…… this was informative ❤
Fumi I think you are turning into a talk show and I love it for you. Keep growing Mama.
All of my love
South Africa 🇿🇦
Happy New Year Fumi! ✨🎆✨Thank you for bringing us Shakeemah’s story. We never know why things happen, but we know it happened for a reason greater than ourselves. Thankfully, Shakeemah was able to turn her bad experience into a lucrative business and career. It gives us hope! ❤
Thank You Madame Fumilicious 🙏
This was Very Enlightening Ladies, So happy to be able to View & Listen to Your Stories.
God Bless You Fumi for having this Amazing Young Woman to Share her life Info with Us All.
May God Be with Shanquella R.😇 and her family,
Always🙏
Fumi, you are wonderful and so compassionate, loving and kind. What an interesting and informative program! The similarities regarding experiences between you, Shanquella and Shakeemah are indeed spine chilling! All three stories/experiences horrific!
So love this interview and budding friendship Fumi. You are both an inspiration. I just ❤ the affirmations and the spiritual affirmation that a tragedy has bought you two together. The inspiration and intentions is rippling.....
Keep rising and inspiring Shanquella RIP.
Thank you for sharing your story , this happens a lot more than I realize . I don’t trust anyone either
Fumi Nation, sometimes it’s true that we can be caught off guard by the actions of our so called “friends “. However, PLEASE DO NOT IGNORE ANY SIGNS THAT ARE GIVEN TO YOU ABOUT YOUR FRIENDS. Often times the Holy Spirit WARNS us and we ignore what the spirit is telling us! Please don’t be that girl!!! Pay attention.
Thank You for sharing your video with us as a young woman you are very intelligent, ambitious,and determine to shoot for your goals . I'm under your horoscope and knew how you felt when someone deceived you especially when you accepted with a clean and honest ❤️ you used your intelligence know the truth and when to step off the hard rocky road it's always good to take chances on your own to know how solid you can stand I complement you for the turn you made in your life, being alone doing what you like it turns out to be very progressive and can achieve more than you expected to be , blessings to you presently and in the future ahead of you 🇹🇹 subscriber.
Solo is best. Even when I have agreed to meet someone somewhere, I travel by myself, book my own accommodations, have my own Uber or vehicle....nothing in tandem with anyone else. I do not go in on any cost with anyone, and I always let someone, other than anyone I may be meeting, know who, what, when, and where. I tried one time when I was 22, and my spirit led me to see that I had let a dangerous enemy into my life. As God would have it, the plans fell through. Fast forward a year later, I got engaged, and the "enemy" literally put their hands on me and started fighting me at the job. Jealousy, envy, and coveting actions that resulted in my being assaulted. Since that situation, I have only had significant associations. No friendships, and I am cool with that. My life is too precious to let others risk it. I am the ultimate friend to others, but that is where I draw the line.
I travel with my best friend-my husband! Always a great time and no drama. Happy New Year Everyone! 🙏
She is a good friend. God bless you young lady. May babies in the house. I’m May 29.
THEIR IS NO SUCH THING AS FRIENDS, THEY ARE FRENEMIES, REMEMBER TO KEEP YOUR FRIENDS CLOSE AND KEEP YOUR ENEMIES CLOSER!!!! PEOPLE WILL PRETEND THAT THEY ARE YOUR FRIEND JUST TO GET CLOSE TO YOU TO FIND OUT EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU!!! YOU CANNOT DEAL WITH FAMILY EITHER, THEY ARE YOUR WORST ENEMIES, REMEMBER TO LOVE YOURSELF AND FEEL YOURSELF!!! NEVER LET YOUR LEFT HAND KNOW WHAT YOUR RIGHT HAND IS DOING!!! ALWAYS KEEP LOOKING OVER YOUR SHOULDER!!! BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!!! NEVER LET YOUR GUARD DOWN!!!
OMG Fumi
Thank you so much for this episode. Absolutely mind blowing. Your guest is truly amazing.
Loving this channel ❤️ black love black togetherness black sisterhood always positive