THE INTERNET COMES FOR JEANNIE MAI ABOUT PAST COMMENTS! I'M IN A MIXED MARRIAGE, SO LET'S TALK! 👀

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  • @FumiDesaluVold
    @FumiDesaluVold  11 місяців тому +28

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    • @cerezal22
      @cerezal22 11 місяців тому

      I am so glad I found you. Blessings from California Dios te bendiga❤

    • @tweetyslife253
      @tweetyslife253 11 місяців тому

      Fumi, you are so beautiful. So full of grace, class and dresses so well. Much love from France.

  • @AkuraClosetRaid
    @AkuraClosetRaid 11 місяців тому +326

    I saw a post today: the worst kind of prison is a bad marriage. Let’s pray for those we wanna marry and spend our lives with.

  • @honeybee4361
    @honeybee4361 11 місяців тому +363

    I tried to warn my Dad’s last wife, but she accused me of not wanting my Dad to have anyone. I told her I give you eighteen months. Almost 18 months to the day she had to run for her life. I love my Dad but didn’t like the way he treated women. Even when you try to warn them sometimes they don’t listen ❗️❗️❗️

    • @SLees-tv7gh
      @SLees-tv7gh 11 місяців тому +36

      I tried to warn my uncles 3rd wife, but she thought she was going to be different. Needless to say they are divorced and he is currently looking for wife #4.

    • @marykay7878
      @marykay7878 11 місяців тому +55

      kudos to you for putting your love and sense of loyalty for your father aside to warn a fellow sister. may god continue to bless you.

    • @pinkwakabeagle
      @pinkwakabeagle 11 місяців тому +39

      i've learned to shut TFU. You know why, because when I have tried to warn people, I have been told I'm negative, I'm rude, I'm intrusive --- only for the women that I have warned about their mate to end up crying and in therapy.

    • @LisaLisaCJ
      @LisaLisaCJ 11 місяців тому +9

      @@pinkwakabeagle I’m not warning anyone. They don’t listen anyways.

    • @MoJo-ng5ot
      @MoJo-ng5ot 11 місяців тому +1

      Wow that was truly nice of you to warn her 😢

  • @Lovelyone1
    @Lovelyone1 11 місяців тому +257

    Why are people upset? Jeezy knew this before he married her. All she really said was she prefers white men. Black men say all the time how they prefer non black women but now they are upset?? And why are black women upset? Let these type of black men preferences put them in their place. These type of black men need a reality check. They stay trying to put other races of women above us but can’t take it when someone does it to them. I see no problem here.

    • @chinweiheukwumere1380
      @chinweiheukwumere1380 11 місяців тому +21

      No problem at all.....I mean her first husband was white. I do feel bad for her tho when I heard it I knew people would come for her. The world has no empathy these days.

    • @mizzmolly7649
      @mizzmolly7649 11 місяців тому +7

      I totally agree with you.

    • @destinysky3816
      @destinysky3816 11 місяців тому +5

      💯 👍

    • @simplyredislandgirl
      @simplyredislandgirl 11 місяців тому +5

      Exactly!👍👏🤔😏

    • @eattoliveveganstyle65
      @eattoliveveganstyle65 11 місяців тому +14

      Really??? That’s all you heard her say. I heard ignorance and a racist remark. If she liked white men why didn’t she just say “I prefer white men”, not that the black meat will be her side peace. She was grown she knew what she was saying. I hope when or if someone refers to her daughter as the dark meat( complexion doesn’t matter) I hope she’s ok with it. She meant what she said, there is no excuse. She regrets it because she ended getting pregnant by the dark black meat.

  • @tiffanyblount7560
    @tiffanyblount7560 11 місяців тому +249

    I love how Teana Taylor is handling her separation so far. I think people forget that these superstars are real people and have real life issues just like the rest of us.

    • @AyaEgbuho
      @AyaEgbuho 11 місяців тому +9

      Whaaaaa? Didn't know. So sad for her.

    • @tanisha_tlc
      @tanisha_tlc 11 місяців тому +2

      Yes indeed amen! 🙏🏽

    • @Rubrick23.
      @Rubrick23. 11 місяців тому

      𝙷𝚊𝚑𝚊 𝚜𝚝𝚘𝚙 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚌𝚊𝚙. 𝚂𝚑𝚎 𝚠𝚊𝚜 𝚌𝚑𝚎𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚚𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚞𝚜𝚑𝚎𝚛. 𝙸𝚝𝚜 𝚠𝚑𝚢 𝙲𝚑𝚛𝚒𝚜 𝚋𝚛𝚘𝚠𝚗 𝚙𝚞𝚝 𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚑𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚘𝚗 𝚞𝚜𝚑𝚎𝚛

    • @MT-yx5cu
      @MT-yx5cu 11 місяців тому

      What? So he was cheating?

    • @lindawilliams6841
      @lindawilliams6841 11 місяців тому

      Oh. Didn't know that. Hope they can work thru it.

  • @KinkyKurlyKham
    @KinkyKurlyKham 11 місяців тому +110

    On the show Jeanie also quoted her mom as having said “Chocolate don’t go with the egg roll” referring to interracial Asian and Black relationships. And boy oh boy was she cracking up about that. She knew exactly what she said and how she meant it. This is not a “I didn’t know what I said was offensive” situation.

    • @courtneypalmer53
      @courtneypalmer53 11 місяців тому +15

      It was not a cute comment either way. And it's unfortunate how she will always be remembered for saying that specific comment. People will always think of that when they see her.

    • @user-nubiangoddess
      @user-nubiangoddess 11 місяців тому +12

      She said all lives matter as a dig to Black Lives Matter. Of course we kno all lives matter but we kno y we say blk lives matter

    • @Mampolokeng1
      @Mampolokeng1 11 місяців тому

      I agree with you. Jeannie knew exactly what she was saying. She has always fetishized black men too and that was caught on the show from a lot of her comments.

    • @stepheessel6667
      @stepheessel6667 11 місяців тому +1

      We all say things about stuff that we have a change of mindset about. Come on people, she still went ahead to marry a black man and she has put in the work. Why can't we just move past it Smh

    • @tigerlilly9038
      @tigerlilly9038 11 місяців тому

      😳

  • @nicholec333
    @nicholec333 11 місяців тому +96

    No, I dont agree that Jeezy was solely the problem. Jeannie has been problematic for years until she got with Jeezy. A lot of her views on the black community were skewed as racially biased towards black people. The issue is other women of certain hues think that they can be aggressive and combative.

    • @thesovereignwoman6418
      @thesovereignwoman6418 11 місяців тому +1

      BM enable them, they will take them anyday. BM even project the negative stereotypes onto BW who are not those. So I am loving all this mess😅

    • @nyaugenyaful
      @nyaugenyaful 11 місяців тому +7

      even with Jeezy in my opinion she was still problematic. She broke the universal dating rule book. Anyone who trash talks his ex....... is not a good person. Her speech on her not respecting her former husband was toxic.

    • @kainaildit
      @kainaildit 11 місяців тому +2

      Exactly ‼️‼️‼️‼️

    • @ms.r.w.3404
      @ms.r.w.3404 11 місяців тому

      Exactly. She's a piece of work. I've been watching her way before she was famous. She had a fashion show. She wasn't that bad at first. Then, she became arrogant and cocky. She has always bashed black women. She referred to white men as being light and right and keeping her tight, or however she said it. She referred to black men as dark meat on the side.

    • @ceciliai.ogwude2845
      @ceciliai.ogwude2845 11 місяців тому +5

      And how do you explain his other baby mamas? The ones with the same skin tone? As far as I'm concerned the common denominator is him.

  • @carolyndye2615
    @carolyndye2615 11 місяців тому +131

    I was in more than one abusive relationship in my teens and early twenties after the loss of my twins I had the courage to walk away.
    My friends and family tried their best to warn me.

    • @cedrimar
      @cedrimar 11 місяців тому

      Good for you for leaving sister

    • @JameelaAbuBakr
      @JameelaAbuBakr 11 місяців тому +3

      It wasn’t until the birth of my daughter that I had the strength to walk away. She was 2 months old and I truly believe I saved both of our lives that day. I’m so proud of you! After becoming a Mama you realize that you want so much better for your children than you do even for yourself!

  • @kenyareid
    @kenyareid 11 місяців тому +33

    This kind of behavior from them gives them permission to keep disrespecting us, and so he married her anyway. It was not a mistake it was intentional, just because she so called and loved him ,doesn't change how she feels

    • @x80WildCat08x
      @x80WildCat08x 11 місяців тому

      That’s not true, people like you love to drag people over once comment when the reality is that the human condition is much more nuanced. People like you love to hold people to one mistake instead of recognizing that people change through experiences.

  • @JameelaAbuBakr
    @JameelaAbuBakr 11 місяців тому +19

    Fumi, I have been watching you for years now and you have got to be one of the most beautiful women in the public eye - both inside and out. You’re such a classy, compassionate and intelligent soul. Your channel is such a wonderful place for women to draw example from and find solace in. ❤ You’re doing a great job. ☺️

    • @helloxonsfan
      @helloxonsfan 11 місяців тому +2

      100% agree...!!! It's a great place for men too...!!! ❤

  • @joiil4814
    @joiil4814 11 місяців тому +299

    The speculation that this is his fault is CRAZY. Jeannie’s MOTHER moved in with them. Has anyone watched their interaction? It’s toxic. And Jeannie herself is problematic on sooooo many levels. Please wait to see what has happened instead of vilifying this man because he’s had past relationships and children. That would suggest that someone cannot grow and I KNOW you can’t be saying that. Especially because you’re stating that Jeannie can. But he can’t? That’s contradictory.
    This is a serious topic. Let the information come out, or not. But please don’t make him the villain without any confirmation that he is. We have no idea what goes on behind closed doors and the woman is NOT always the victim.

    • @jojoant5928
      @jojoant5928 11 місяців тому +41

      100% agree ..

    • @Lovelyone1
      @Lovelyone1 11 місяців тому +97

      Wait. This man knew exactly what he was getting into. It’s a different culture. A culture he put above his own. In the Asian culture parents often live with their children. Especially when a baby is on the way. The problem is that he thought she was better. This man is no victim. The only victim is his black ex fiancé that he left for his 40 year old Asian doll.
      Aren’t we tired of treating these grown men like children yet?? They will never grow if we keep shielding them from their consequences. He married her knowing what she said.

    • @shaunae6114
      @shaunae6114 11 місяців тому +35

      Agreed. She has a temper she herself said she has to work on and Tamar has called her out for not being as innocent and sweet as she tries to come off as on camera.

    • @carrington2949
      @carrington2949 11 місяців тому

      They are both problematic asf.

    • @Khiarika1
      @Khiarika1 11 місяців тому +45

      You've made HER the villian with no info tho. The info I'm going off of is that she has made a marriage last for 11 years in the past, he's left two previous women as baby mama's. I'm not saying its all HIS fault, but I definitely don't think it's all HERS.

  • @chocolatesugar4434
    @chocolatesugar4434 11 місяців тому +208

    And while we’re giving grace to Jeanie let’s also go the same grace to ALL the other people who made terrible stupid and disrespectful things about black people over the past decade or so 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’ll wait

    • @Lala-eo4eq
      @Lala-eo4eq 11 місяців тому

      Right. I was today years old when I learned that prejudice and racism were mistakes lmao.

    • @valinatoussaint5485
      @valinatoussaint5485 11 місяців тому +6

      True

    • @cindycarr8708
      @cindycarr8708 11 місяців тому +40

      All I can say is she was old enough to know better. She did not have to use those words. She spoke what is and was in her heart. We give all these other nations a pass to disrespect us with their words and actions. The lady had a national platform. We are taught that if you don't have anything nice to say, keep your mouth close. If she was sorry for her words, she could have said so a long time ago. I don't have a care about their marriage, I don't know them nor do I listen to them. Keep your mouth off the Chosen Children.

    • @ernestinatakyiwaa2677
      @ernestinatakyiwaa2677 11 місяців тому +4

      Am scared of marriage. When it doesn't work out, why can't it end with respect between them.

    • @theotherdiamond3808
      @theotherdiamond3808 11 місяців тому +3

      Does this include Jezzy’s fiancé and later baby mama he was with when he met Jeanie?
      He knew what he was getting ….she knew what she was getting

  • @veronicajohnson1409
    @veronicajohnson1409 11 місяців тому +67

    As women we definitely need to take your advice that's brilliant advice. I married a narcissist and knew him all of my life but when in my 20's lost contact with him. If I would have known what the previous woman had went through I would have never went through with what I did. We have to be open to this the past tends to repeat itself with these types of people the abuse neglect of loving you treasuring you like they promised. Now my life is very hard even 6 years later picking up my pieces. I do not love him anymore I have not for a long time. My ex is not capable of love he's only selfish at all cost.

  • @shellywade245
    @shellywade245 11 місяців тому +13

    THAT DRESS IS BANGEN!!!!
    I can't wait to see more. You ALWAYS look fabulous Fumi.❤

  • @gracekale11
    @gracekale11 11 місяців тому +23

    You are beautiful Mrs. Fumi!❤
    She has CONTESTED, so I believe you’re right when you say she really loves him & wants it to work.

  • @creolefemme9829
    @creolefemme9829 11 місяців тому +20

    Shimmering pink is a wonderful color for you! I am so happy that your friend made it out of that abusive marriage alive. Thank God for her life.

  • @evelynnewburger3593
    @evelynnewburger3593 11 місяців тому +63

    Watching your channel is therapeutic!! And I’m here for it! I love!! ❤

  • @shancia125
    @shancia125 11 місяців тому +49

    I absolutely agree with you Fumi. I think Jezzy is waking up to the reality of being married and it doesn’t fit him.

    • @Graceee-uu1gr
      @Graceee-uu1gr 11 місяців тому +6

      Yeah, he doesn’t have what it takes to be a husband and a father. Just a baby daddy.

  • @jaelovelykarmachand5086
    @jaelovelykarmachand5086 11 місяців тому +28

    The raw talent to connect with your audience is so admirable. Especially because you are focused on the topic while people like me are distracted wondering🤔 how you stay focused with sweet baby Adrian in the background making us all smile🙂 and giggle🤗 hearing him play, wow you go FUMSKI! I wish jeezy and geni the best together or separately. ❤

  • @MsBeeNice2
    @MsBeeNice2 11 місяців тому +55

    FUMI !!! Sis, the slayage is distracting!!! 😆 You are glowing, i can tell that you are feeling yourself and rightfully so! Once more, a beautiful and respectful coverage of this news and i share your opinion: the ig post wasn't necessary and is VERY disrespectful, regardless of what happened. Especially since they do/did couple's therapy, and he knows her triggers and trauma. Despicable behaviour

    • @02loud
      @02loud 11 місяців тому

      I keep admiring the dress and the hair 😂 forget the topic lolll

    • @SISTAGURL
      @SISTAGURL 11 місяців тому

      She’s just so gorgeous

    • @mpizo7
      @mpizo7 11 місяців тому

      PERIOD! ❤

  • @eunicewilliams9275
    @eunicewilliams9275 11 місяців тому +23

    I think at the end of the day it's very sad because a child is the one who's going to truly suffer the most. Also there's 2 sides to every story They both need to take responsibility for what they did wrong in the relationship. This is not a one-sided Issue. None of us was behind closed doors to know really what happened. I am praying for the both of them and especially that beautiful baby.

  • @tiffster80
    @tiffster80 11 місяців тому +29

    We all deserve grace and mercy. Jennie just like many is growing, learning, etc. I can’t kick anyone while they are down. She’s going through a lot. I hope she does get her happy ever after.

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 11 місяців тому +7

      This isn't "kicking", it's "keeping it real". The same thing she was doing.

  • @kenyareid
    @kenyareid 11 місяців тому +19

    She meant what she said, I don't care how she redeemed herself , that's how they feel about us, she happened to come a cross a black man that had money and had more money and assets than her and can and will hold his own down. Jeezy is a masculine man who can back up his recipes

    • @eattoliveveganstyle65
      @eattoliveveganstyle65 11 місяців тому +8

      Thank you. She meant it and felt comfortable saying it. It is how she feels. Fumi is a wonderful person but she’s WRONG about this one

    • @marquita1636
      @marquita1636 10 місяців тому

      Yeah I normally feel Fumi is on point about a lot of things but this one not so much. I don’t know if is because she is in an interracial marriage that there is some bias or what. Either way, it’s just her opinion.

  • @Cantetinza17
    @Cantetinza17 11 місяців тому +26

    I remember when she said this I KNEW that it was going to be something that was gonna come back and bite her. Jeannie says some really crazy things cause after all she likes keeping it real, especially on that show. When she would talk like she would try so hard to express it to connect with the crowd, but it would be like, "Girl, clean that up for the people that will take that all kinds of wrong".
    That happened to my coworker. One of his older daughters came to her and told her, "Don't marry my Dad he's a f-up, I'm sure you could do so much better". She sort of listened, but didn't take the warning and he would abuse her then gas light her. They got into an altercation and he called the cops on her for scratching his face in self defense and she got taken in and she had to pay fees and what not. it took THAT to finally leave him alone.

  • @creating1_c1999
    @creating1_c1999 11 місяців тому +40

    People will overlook your offenses when they love you but when they are done with you they will burn you in the same house they built for you.

  • @gigireddick3239
    @gigireddick3239 11 місяців тому +27

    Fumi you are one gorgeous woman!! I love your style and message. Pretty much everything you say I am in agreement with you!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @que_fela
    @que_fela 11 місяців тому +3

    I love how Fumi will digress into her look and back to the topic 😅❤️

  • @robertdavis1217
    @robertdavis1217 11 місяців тому +13

    I believe these two love each other, but you can’t have a marriage when one’s mother is hanging around 24/7. Jeezy had to put his foot down when Jennie was in labor, she was going to be in the delivery room, Jeezy told Jennie she had better get mama mai straight because he would there. Jeezy just got fed up with Jennie and her mother. Same problem with Freddie, Freddy stated it just wasn’t the fact that Jennie didn’t want kids he was fed up with her mother always in their marriage.

    • @Graceee-uu1gr
      @Graceee-uu1gr 11 місяців тому

      Plenty of men are happily married to Asian women and live with their MIL. Not sure why black women continue to coddle a 40 something grown man. Like wouldn’t he know if this was a deal breaker from the beginning?

  • @mauveletteburchell606
    @mauveletteburchell606 11 місяців тому +7

    Sista Fumi you have the heart of gold ❤🙏🏼. You're so forgiving and see the best in every one no matter who the person is. That's a wonderful character for someone to have.

  • @1980lelee
    @1980lelee 11 місяців тому +57

    I believe he definitely did this without her knowledge I feel like she is surprised just as us smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @nikkipeters5086
      @nikkipeters5086 11 місяців тому

      Blindsided? I doubt...her attitude is pretty obvious and he must have told her that hes not gonna put up with it forever. Also from the beginning we saw Jeezy putting in the work she was the one who told us all that he did for her. But there's nothing more unattractive than a loud domineering woman. Most men run from that and dont want to see that in the home.
      Lord help us and what marriage has now become😢

    • @arigodut
      @arigodut 11 місяців тому +1

      How can she be surprised if they’ve been separated since June. If you go through separation both parties are aware. If you are separated then you know divorce is coming.

  • @mrscreoledavis205
    @mrscreoledavis205 11 місяців тому +8

    Every time your videos begin and your storefront rolls I get excited thinking today is the day for Fumi’s new collection! I can't wait for your line to drop! 🎉

  • @teebellerina8783
    @teebellerina8783 11 місяців тому +149

    I do a thumbs up every time Fumi shows her fabulicious outfits
    Edit - I dont believe Jeanie made a mistake in saying what she said, I believe that is how she felt. She was explicitly specific. What I DO agree is that she since changed her mind on the matter. That’s entirely different. I’m not judging either way, I’m being matter of fact about it. I couldn’t care less to be honest.

    • @CherieButler
      @CherieButler 11 місяців тому +17

      Exactly…she meant that ish. I still like Jeannie though.

    • @MoKnowsRealEstate
      @MoKnowsRealEstate 11 місяців тому +18

      Exactly! I do not believe she is racist BUT she is prejudice. And she said what she said cause she meant that.

    • @jumpscare1530
      @jumpscare1530 11 місяців тому +17

      Yeah, I feel like she forgot where she was for a moment and was being the "genuine" version of herself and not the "host" version and let slip her true feelings.

    • @shawnmatthews9594
      @shawnmatthews9594 11 місяців тому +5

      Exactly.

    • @Kelaine72
      @Kelaine72 11 місяців тому +6

      I guess I'm built differently. It never bothered me. Everyone has some ignorance in them unfortunately.

  • @shecreates365
    @shecreates365 11 місяців тому +12

    You look soooo beautiful!!....Hair, face and dress is GIVING!!!...Yasssss hunty!!!💯👏🏾💕

  • @arie7687
    @arie7687 11 місяців тому +42

    Proximity to Blackness doesn’t mean you’re not racist. You can be close to Blackness and still think you’re better than Black people. To justify dehumanizing a group of people with “she listens to E40” is unwise and irresponsible on his part. Honestly, this isn’t her first racial micro aggression on that show. She was so disrespectful to the Black women on that panel all the time.

    • @so.many.obstacles
      @so.many.obstacles 11 місяців тому +10

      Speak!!!

    • @extrelason6793
      @extrelason6793 11 місяців тому +1

      Please we need to forgive her for her ignorance. Black people are also racist and tribalism to themselves, so JEANNIE is not the first nor the last. FORGIVENESS IS WHAT MATTER FOR HER HEALING.

    • @joiil4814
      @joiil4814 11 місяців тому +1

      Speak on it!

    • @vickyserr
      @vickyserr 11 місяців тому

      @@extrelason6793you serious??? GTFOH😏😏😏😏

    • @allbutperfect
      @allbutperfect 11 місяців тому +2

      @@extrelason6793 Honey...Black people can't be racist to themselves, that's called "internalized racism", very different from someone outside of the community. So it's not equivalent. Forgive her if YOU want but you can't bludgeon the rest of us with flawed logic.

  • @queenroyaltyrules55
    @queenroyaltyrules55 11 місяців тому +10

    I'm speechless! Your wisdom is beyond words. Thank you!! You're such an inspiration. Also queen you stay slaying!!

  • @CherieButler
    @CherieButler 11 місяців тому +17

    You are such a grace filled woman 👩🏽; I love getting your sensible take on hot topics.

  • @ladyfitness67
    @ladyfitness67 11 місяців тому +5

    Her comment regarding ‘meat’ was reference ONLY about Black men. Nothing to do with Black Women. Her comment was not ‘stupid’ she knew exactly what she said and exactly what it meant.

  • @oliviakboateng
    @oliviakboateng 11 місяців тому +9

    Thank you sister Fumi. Really interesting reflection on the situation. You are so wise to address this and advise our black community on how to handle comments like this. I feel the same way. We need to move with the times and embrace other people so we can correct them with love rather than anger because they sometimes dont know what they are saying. If we want grace, we need to give grace to others too. You are so inspiring in your fabulous dresses!

  • @kankan244
    @kankan244 11 місяців тому +3

    Sister, you are Serving "Black Beauty" in these outfits!! ❤

  • @stoney300
    @stoney300 11 місяців тому +34

    Jennie is beautiful and shes a wonderful mom, as much as she said that she was young. We all make mistakes and she has grown. Its sad but shell contine to be an amazing mom and woman. 🎉🎉🎉❤ auntie fumi you look fabulous, great work

    • @linedafelix2800
      @linedafelix2800 11 місяців тому +7

      My heart truly breaks for her. I am sure it came to her as a surprise. I pray she finds inner peace, strength and for her to continue stepping forward for the sake of her beautiful daughter.

    • @Lala-eo4eq
      @Lala-eo4eq 11 місяців тому

      The lady is 40+, y’all are some coons to think she didn’t know better. This comment section is shocking.

    • @taneshadavis-ho-shing8558
      @taneshadavis-ho-shing8558 11 місяців тому

      She was not young. She was racist. And yes she’s beautiful with her filter and make up for sure

    • @finessefine
      @finessefine 11 місяців тому +1

      She was young? She was in her early 40s when she said it, though.

    • @englishgarden2036
      @englishgarden2036 11 місяців тому

      Stop making excuses for her. She wasn't young. That a bunch of bullshyte.

  • @ppinnock4725
    @ppinnock4725 11 місяців тому +28

    Looking gorgeous Mrs Fumi. These stories of abuse are so heart-wrenching. Remember males and females are victims of abuse as well. I believe we need to let them tell their story (Jeannie/jazzy). Thank you for your well-received messages in this video.

    • @SondagHaluka
      @SondagHaluka 11 місяців тому

      L llpllllllll

    • @allbutperfect
      @allbutperfect 11 місяців тому

      We ALL need to remember that women are abused more by men than the other way around and so it makes sense that the first assumption, with whatever evidence informs people's opinions, would be the male is the abuser.

  • @baronesslizzy8428
    @baronesslizzy8428 11 місяців тому +8

    They could go for Christian marriage counselling together and fight for the blessing that their marriage is rather than give up! ❤❤ Fumi.

    • @ms.j.williams4625
      @ms.j.williams4625 11 місяців тому +1

      Again it takes two people to make it work. Christian counseling will not work if one or the other refuses to change. Again, I tried that with my ex. Ours was a Christian marriage but he did not live like it was. He refused to go to any kind of counseling. I wish something celebrities will set boundaries and not allow even the good times in their relationships to be publicized.

    • @baronesslizzy8428
      @baronesslizzy8428 11 місяців тому

      @@ms.j.williams4625 I have to agree with you. It does take two to participate for marriage to work. Still, I am expressing a hopeful wish.

  • @litchielitch0323
    @litchielitch0323 11 місяців тому +71

    All she had to do was see who he is. Twos children mothers he didn’t marry and he ended an engagement abruptly to be with her. The writing was in the wall. To blindside someone with a divorce shows no respect especially as celebrities. They usually out out a statement together announcing their divorce but instead, he’s left so much for speculation and for her to be crucified.

    • @alisanina
      @alisanina 11 місяців тому

      Women always think they’re special compared to the man’s previous relationships.

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 11 місяців тому +4

      She knew exactly what it was. Non-black women do things to "spite" Black women all the time...

    • @indigophoenixskies1030
      @indigophoenixskies1030 11 місяців тому +1

      Being streetwise doesn't make someone dangerous. Sounds like a dog whistle. I know white collar accountants with no ethical center... what are you saying?

    • @marcusmelancon3426
      @marcusmelancon3426 11 місяців тому +1

      It’s so crazy how he’s getting all the blame for this she is problematic as well her comments about black men where when she was married and to me she fetishized black men she’s also made comments about how her mother views interracial relationships especially with black men and they were very racist so her moving her mother knowing how controlling she is probably became a problem especially if she started making those comments they got married every quickly and a child won’t fix a relationship it adds pressure and it’s was already put out he put the petition to separate in June so they we’re already separated before she made that video praising him to me that’s calculating because now he looks like the bad guy

    • @ccleavemebe4790
      @ccleavemebe4790 11 місяців тому +1

      @@indigophoenixskies1030he is dangerous

  • @MCLottotv
    @MCLottotv 11 місяців тому +5

    No way I'm marrying a woman who sees me a side order of French fries!!

  • @MMSCOTT-mx8dm
    @MMSCOTT-mx8dm 11 місяців тому +12

    Praying for her and the baby🙁❤‍🩹💔🙏

  • @janicescott-pair97
    @janicescott-pair97 11 місяців тому +4

    Beautiful video of a survivor. Whoever she is, I'm glad you made it through. 😊

  • @Esther-im2yi
    @Esther-im2yi 11 місяців тому +6

    You look gorgeous Ms Fumi. I love love the dress. You look perfect in it❤

  • @janiceburgess4679
    @janiceburgess4679 11 місяців тому +9

    I agree. It's one thing to have your family live with you. But, when they are toxic is another.

  • @debrahardy6651
    @debrahardy6651 11 місяців тому +5

    Loved the dress Fumi and I love watching your show also. Always looking to see what next you’re gonna be talking about.

  • @dafricathomas2686
    @dafricathomas2686 11 місяців тому +1

    I just LOVE your outfit today❤

  • @Barbarayoutification
    @Barbarayoutification 11 місяців тому +5

    Thank you for all your great work, dedication, consistency and fabulousity. You give life!!!! Love you, dearly.

  • @MagicianNoriginal
    @MagicianNoriginal 11 місяців тому +1

    Gorgeous Fumi! Those colours! 💜

  • @demekonrn
    @demekonrn 11 місяців тому +13

    I never feel any ways about people saying what their preferences are in a potential partner. I have my own. Whenever I have ever envisioned "my man", I saw a black southern man. That's what I know. That's what I like. I'm I'm 45. I'm single. I have been abstinent for 6.5yrs. I guess my partner(s)will be no less than 3 cats & I'm okay with that😂

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 11 місяців тому +1

      Having a preference outside your racial group is entirely different

  • @chs6467
    @chs6467 11 місяців тому +5

    I like your videos, Fumi. Your assessments of situations always seem to be spot on, fair, looking at both side. You know what I think happened with JM? She was trying to be cutting edge and clever. She was on a talk show where they talk…and sometimes they talk absolute nonsense. This was one such occasion, and I’m sure she regretted it promptly.

    • @chs6467
      @chs6467 11 місяців тому

      And oh..you’re looking great..👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

    • @allbutperfect
      @allbutperfect 11 місяців тому

      It means she already harbored such thoughts and felt comfortable enough to speak them out loud when she was at her most comfortable state...

  • @kemi1486
    @kemi1486 11 місяців тому +6

    Jeannie was one of the annoying, cornball, over talking, chatter boxes who made that show hard for me to watch. It seems she was trying to Rhyme and sound cool in that statement but missed. Still her comment rings of racial biases but if Jeezy liked it, then I love that for him & any other black man (dark meat) who choses to be with her.

  • @DaraKFulton
    @DaraKFulton 11 місяців тому +4

    Aunty!!! Your dress is giving me disco diva !! LOVE ❤❤❤❤ I was binge watching on your makeup tutorials. I love you and how classy you are. I appreciate all that you do ! And love your commentary on Jeannie and Jeezy. Also will you still do Sister to Sister and storytimes?

  • @carolyndye2615
    @carolyndye2615 11 місяців тому +7

    The dress is Gorgeous!!!

  • @danio8837
    @danio8837 11 місяців тому +5

    The comment she made, wasn’t taken out of any context. She said what she said and said it with her chest. My hope is that she did learn and grow from it!

  • @AngiePantalonez
    @AngiePantalonez 11 місяців тому +5

    You seems so fabulous!
    You made a great observation about his mother passing away and perhaps he married Jennie because of what he was going through and now he has healed. That is very possible. No one has touched on that.

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 11 місяців тому +1

      Actually a lot of people mentioned that in their videos...

  • @ndilekamomoza4538
    @ndilekamomoza4538 11 місяців тому +1

    First time coming on your channel , you represent class elegance thank you Lady

  • @Yahushuas_Bride_Sarai
    @Yahushuas_Bride_Sarai 11 місяців тому +15

    As a Indigenous Latina , who's married to An Afro-American, we live as an intercultural couple... It behooves me to see people talking about "oh it's never gonna work, look at their two cultures..."
    Don't you know moses win outside of his culture and married Zipporah ❤...
    But in this social climate, the skin tone and Race matters to everybody, they can't understand that
    Sometimes people just aren't good fits, whether they're the same skin tone or different.😢😢😢

    • @denisehenry3427
      @denisehenry3427 11 місяців тому +1

      You said it all. Thanks ♥

    • @tomiad23
      @tomiad23 11 місяців тому +1

      Well Moses and Zipporah hot separated as well😮
      Congratulations to you and your partner and May goodness and mercy follow you Always ❤️

    • @haahmayan9637
      @haahmayan9637 11 місяців тому

      Afro Cuban 🇨🇺woman here and I concur my husband is from the Bahamas 🇧🇸, blessings to you and your union sis ❤ continue to be a pillar of rest for your king and keep the haters and begrudged nosey people out your business cause people are so ruthless to start drama

  • @suzynaomie6045
    @suzynaomie6045 11 місяців тому +3

    Greetings from Russia, You look fabulous aunty Fumi!

  • @nokiddin3045
    @nokiddin3045 11 місяців тому +1

    Fumi, thank you for your example.

  • @annie_sayss
    @annie_sayss 11 місяців тому +3

    Fumi looks stunning 😍😍

  • @carlaedwards5444
    @carlaedwards5444 11 місяців тому +1

    Love your commentary on this topic. You make a lot of sense. The best I have heard on UA-cam so far.❤😊

  • @trinathompson8587
    @trinathompson8587 11 місяців тому +4

    It never ceases to amaze me how people are so influenced by the stereotypes they hear about other ethnicities. Jeanie might have been influenced by the narrative that Black men worship non-black women, and Jeezy by the whole submissive nature that Asian women are said to have! In the end they found out that everyone is an individual,and have their own personalities and values shaped by personal experiences separate from their racial identity!

  • @BellaFelicia
    @BellaFelicia 11 місяців тому +5

    I believe they had an arrangement and she fell in love. His ex's would have never talked to her because they knew what that was. I think that Jeezy loves black women just like most black men. They just don't know how to love black women properly because they haven't seen it done properly. That's why it doesn't work when they cross over. The color doesn't change the man.

    • @cosmicempress1222
      @cosmicempress1222 11 місяців тому +1

      Wow this was a lightbulb 💡 moment. Didn’t think of it this way. You’re on to something here -

  • @AmandaCC88
    @AmandaCC88 11 місяців тому +1

    You’re so gorgeous and gracious aunty Femi! 😍🥰🫶🏽

  • @TransformingJo
    @TransformingJo 11 місяців тому +6

    New subscriber- YOU are absolutely FABULOUS ❤

  • @Karabo_Mash
    @Karabo_Mash 11 місяців тому +1

    I agree with you on this one Fumi. I think Jeannie definitely wanted to salvage their marriage you can tell from the post she made not so long ago when he launched his book. It even came out that the application was notarised in June. So those papers have been done and waiting for filing.

  • @purplepink5630
    @purplepink5630 11 місяців тому +8

    Hi Fumi, will you address the anger management issues Jeanie admitted to in previous interviews as a contributing factor? They're both at fault, neither should've married each other as they're both broken people with several unresolved issues. Their baby deserves better

    • @gracegeorge7285
      @gracegeorge7285 11 місяців тому

      Do you know that lots of people have anger issues but will never admit it? She may have that but loved him enough to keep it in check…the marriage is still too young

    • @purplepink5630
      @purplepink5630 11 місяців тому

      @@gracegeorge7285 my comment was in particular reference to the interview she actually did admitting it, so she was public about it. Research on UA-cam

    • @purplepink5630
      @purplepink5630 11 місяців тому

      Here's a clip of the interview where Jeannie Mai admits to having a "hot temper": ua-cam.com/video/fpF7Mb_tABs/v-deo.htmlsi=0-YeItlDQkYw7Mn-

  • @emin5488
    @emin5488 11 місяців тому +4

    He is a grown ass man with already enough experience to know how to handle a marriage. Loosing a close relative doesn't excuse a shity behavior. Jeannie in the other hand, need to value herself and work on her image after all the humiliation she brought to her self ( I am sorry that video about his book was CRINGE).

  • @ladybird2356
    @ladybird2356 11 місяців тому +3

    I just love your style and that dress is fabulous 😊❤

  • @cheryllawrence2743
    @cheryllawrence2743 11 місяців тому +11

    Thank you Fumi, we are human. We ALL have opened our mouths and inserted our foot before we knew what happened. When you are in love you should not see color, especially in a marriage where you plan on sharing your lives together forever. I don’t say, I have a black friend and she makes the best…, NO, I say, “ I have a girlfriend, eww girl, she makes the best Ox tail soup you eva put in your mouth mmm. If they say ox tail 😳? I crack up🤣🤣🤣. Yeah, my soul Sista girl 😅. I love your channel. My first time here. I’m subscribed n notified n hit that like 😊. Stay blessed 🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼

  • @sweetpotato469
    @sweetpotato469 11 місяців тому +6

    FUMI! I want you to see this and know that you are literally on 🔥!!! You are so beautiful and gorgeous, and every video recently I have been in shock and awe... you literally look oscar-ready! ♥

  • @mycatisaslayqueen9778
    @mycatisaslayqueen9778 11 місяців тому

    Wow Fumi! You look STUNNING❤

  • @QueenBee1118
    @QueenBee1118 11 місяців тому +16

    I don't care what Jeanie said. She doesn't deserve to be treated the way Jeezy is treating her.

    • @eattoliveveganstyle65
      @eattoliveveganstyle65 11 місяців тому

      Wow! You don’t care that she said a disrespectful and racist remark. So you care more about a person who you don’t know personally than you care about her obvious racist remark. Karma is always waiting around the corner. In addition we don’t know what REALLY happened and whether it was his or her fault why he chose to divorce her. Maybe he realized she married the dark meat for the wrong reasons

  • @ScheritaUnique
    @ScheritaUnique 11 місяців тому +1

    Fumi, your laugh is so contagious. I just love it. ❤️

  • @SeasonedWoman1900
    @SeasonedWoman1900 11 місяців тому +6

    She didn’t ask other women because she saw herself as better than them possibly

  • @sarahmuzaki4656
    @sarahmuzaki4656 9 місяців тому

    Yes Doctor Fumi. Thanks for this episode too. I propose that you do an analysis of marriage among black communities in America. So much negative stuff going on and affecting young generations!!!

  • @nattygirldred
    @nattygirldred 11 місяців тому +5

    I was kinda sort of TRIGGERED with these videos.I believe because you’re a good woman Fumi and good hearted also because you mind you Brand, you mind your Family and you mind your business that you in your heart of hearts you believe that deep down people move like you do. They do not. There is a lot of black self hatred amongst a LOT of these men. I believe that because of the business that Ms. Mai was it, she knew EXACTLY the man she married but he was smitten with her and his net worth was ALOT more than hers and she thought as many women do who get preferential treatment from rich black American men, that he would never be that way with her. She just didn’t realize that men with these types of issues don’t change and she got the same man that she ALREADY knew him to be: an abuser, a thug ( his description not mine) and a multiple baby daddy. It’s a mindset. I believe many black women give her a pass and I honestly don’t know why. Maybe because she can take a pretty picture and have a baby with GOOD HAIR. I NEVER thought what she said was wrong. She had a candid moment. If she had to choose all things being equal she would choose a white man. I have NO PROBLEM with that. I date all kinds. But I still don’t think she prefers black men but she needed help paying that alimony to the main course. End of.

    • @MT-yx5cu
      @MT-yx5cu 11 місяців тому

      All.of.this. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 this comment should be pinned lol

  • @warriorgoddessyaaasantewaa4773
    @warriorgoddessyaaasantewaa4773 11 місяців тому +6

    This is the third video I've watched that you've done on this subject, and it's all been speculation, fluff, and anecdotal stories about your own life that don't really relate to what's being discussed. I'm not passing judgment on their relationship, because I don't know anything more about it than you do. But the way this video is being framed is to excuse Jeannie and vilify Jeezy. What did your friend's abusive marriage have to do with her objectifying Black men with her comment? You don't know what's in either of their hearts and you don't know who's at fault for the relationship ending. It's probably better to say that than to get on here trying to make Jeannie into an angel just because you want her to be. Jeezy could very well be the problem; but let's allow that to come to light before we kick too much dirt on his name. After all, there are three sides to every story.

    • @SuperKasa1000
      @SuperKasa1000 11 місяців тому

      What are you saying and implying with this esssy here,? She (Fumi) addresses how everything she says is speculation and gives advice to both parties using her own experiences.

    • @cosmicempress1222
      @cosmicempress1222 11 місяців тому +1

      I concur, thought I was the only one who noticed. So many irrelevant things in this video. The YT influencer doesn’t have to verbally say he’s the villain, but it is certainly implied by the way this video is put together. At least that’s my perception. When some of our neuromelanated people marry their preferences they sometimes take on perspectives that don’t necessarily reflect a positive light on our men and women. Everything about this depiction of the titled video is so cringe

    • @warriorgoddessyaaasantewaa4773
      @warriorgoddessyaaasantewaa4773 11 місяців тому

      @@cosmicempress1222 I completely agree.

    • @warriorgoddessyaaasantewaa4773
      @warriorgoddessyaaasantewaa4773 11 місяців тому

      @@SuperKasa1000 if it's an essay, you should be able to clearly decipher what I *said* ; because I didn't mince words and I certainly didn't *imply* anything. I quite frankly, said what I said. Moreover, Fumi only occasionally says that she's speculating; and I already said that her use of her personal experiences really is not relevant to the situation at hand. And if she's speculating, how can she give advice to this couple?? *She doesn't even know what happenened!!*

  • @maryryan
    @maryryan 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Fumi....
    For your enlightenment on this case....
    So sad...
    So true....
    And devastating....😢
    Yout version is true to both sides.....
    Greetings from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @tanyapetersen7426
    @tanyapetersen7426 11 місяців тому +7

    Fumi, I meant to tell you in the first video about Jeezy and Jeannie that you are looking so fly and fabulous. Your skin is luminous and glowy. I am still sho cked about Jeannie. I love them both.

  • @bellareana3226
    @bellareana3226 11 місяців тому

    Gaaadsppppp omg Auntie Fumi!! This look 🤌🏽🩷💕

  • @pstar1111
    @pstar1111 11 місяців тому

    Fumi you look Gorgeous in that dress. Love the color on you,it brings out your skin tone. 🌹

  • @debrag3666
    @debrag3666 11 місяців тому

    Fumi great insight. You have a lot of empathy. Thank you

  • @finessefine
    @finessefine 11 місяців тому +1

    Gorgeous!! ❤ 🔥 Loving this dress!

  • @sexydeeize
    @sexydeeize 11 місяців тому +1

    Mrs Fumi you are stepping on our necks with your fabulosity

  • @Angie-ci1lp
    @Angie-ci1lp 11 місяців тому

    You’re absolutely GORGEOUS and beaming with CLASS. Thank you for sharing the truth 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

  • @toryaanderson659
    @toryaanderson659 11 місяців тому +7

    That's a huge problem women don't listen to women ❤

  • @joanns2606
    @joanns2606 11 місяців тому

    I love the way you tell your stories very knowledgeable

  • @myloury
    @myloury 11 місяців тому +3

    Woww Aunty you are looking Marvelous ❤❤❤❤

  • @sbusisiweshaba1715
    @sbusisiweshaba1715 11 місяців тому +2

    Why is Jeezy a red flag and Jeannie experienced growth? Both parties had red flags.

  • @lydiaboafo
    @lydiaboafo 11 місяців тому +2

    Aww very great job for taking care of your friend’s children ❤

  • @maryalicebynum8808
    @maryalicebynum8808 11 місяців тому

    Fumi, you give such good advice to and for people who want to judge so easily. I’m much older than you but I listen and still learn at my age and appreciate people like you who give deep thought to situations before your commentary. Keep on being your very forward thinking self and fighter for justice and fairness.

  • @tante.fatmata
    @tante.fatmata 11 місяців тому +3

    She is contesting the divorce😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sandraD3971
    @sandraD3971 11 місяців тому +2

    Dress looks fabulous on you🔥great choice

  • @trishbrowncfggg9661
    @trishbrowncfggg9661 11 місяців тому

    Fumi you couldn’t have said it any better. You would be a good judge because you are honest.

  • @Gillianbless4587
    @Gillianbless4587 11 місяців тому +1

    We all say things that we shouldn't have said. Forgiveness is the pathway to everything.