ADULTING! Things they didn’t tell us.. 😩 | Episode 69
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- Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
- We all had a picture of how our adulthood would turn out to be while growing up. We couldn’t wait to embrace the word ‘I am an Adult’ so bad to enjoy the rightful privilege denied to us when we were kids.. Mom/dad would tell us “wait until you become an adult “ and that sentence lived rent free in our heads as we eagerly built fascinating stories about the hood! On the reals, now that we are adults and the reality of it has downed on us, there are so many things we wished we knew/taught before tapping into adulthood.
On this episode, shared a couple of them on money, careers, love, sex, parenting and general responsibility that comes with being an adult. Well, is adulthood a scam?
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Adulthood is more maintenance than destination. Facts
Yeap! 💯
This is the truth!
Adulthood is like looking both ways before you cross the street 😂and then getting hit by an airplane🤣
The ultimate truth!!😂😂
Murugi, I’m a mum too and I only started fearing dying once I had my 2 sons. Every time I get on a flight I’m just praying the whole time because my greatest fear is leaving my sons and husband alone.
I feel you on this. Let’s keep the hope alive. ❤️
Murugi: What's in between healthy and toxic?
Lydia: TOXIC😭
And that's the thing I love most about you two😂 You are true to each other and compliment each other soooo well. Glad to have clicked your first episode and besides when I'm at school, I've never missed an episode
I love how Murugi accepts that she's flawed and even embraces it, the way she admits she'd hurt someone else if she's also hurt. Not many can say that out loud.
Thank you hun. ❤️
It’s all about living your truth.
I have been following you guys since last year December. 1st, I used to feel the girly vibe but I want to categorically state to my fellow gents that this podcast is for everyone. Good vibes all through. I love you guys
It’s for everyone! 💯
Just big sisters vibes right here. Thank you ❤️
Haha... me tooo
That's very true, the older we get the more friends we are detached from due to circumstances
Facts! 💯✅
Self awareness journey is humbling. Nothing humbles you like coming face to face with yout weaknesses
I made a call to my Gp to talk to a Therapist, my assessment is tomorrow. Lydia and Murugi, in this day and age of Mental Health. God knew we needed you, since coming across you guys l have realised how much crap l have had to deal with alone. God is definitely amazing because l have seen him first hand but meeeen do we all need a professional to talk to. Wish me luck guys. As for you two ladies, when l make my first million pounds l will fly both of you to a destination of your choice by private jet. God bless you always, you are doing amazing. Free Therapists
Free indeed
Thank you Carol! This is our reason to keep going. ❤ All the best in your therapy sessions.
We can’t wait to board that jet darling! 😅🎉
I love how you girls like you are almost saying the same words at the same time. Am never on time to watch your show but I never miss to watch. Thank you for making us feel normal especially with this life happenings. Keep going 💕💕
Love that! Thank you hun ❤❤❤
I’m working on encouraging the expectation that things will last. I had so many disappointments growing up that now that I’m trying to adult I almost always place a “dark cloud” over anything good. So, I’m working on allowing things to naturally play themselves out instead of trying to terminate things before their time just so I can “stay in control “.
i do agree with Murugi when she says that there are people whos intentions are just to hurt people. Its not about corrupted chilhood, but they are real psycopaths. They dont have the empathy but their job is to see someone being hurt.......This episode am gonna re listen it.
Right? How sad though? 😢
Thank you for watching ❤
Balancing adulthood and motherhood is hectic , do they ever balance out really? I marvel at how people get time for family work themselves and still friends , I'm totally zoned out not because I want to but even creating time for myself is like once a blue moon , rarely!
The true mark of becoming an adult is having to call and make your own doctor's appointments. Like, how can I get on the phone and say I need an appointment?!? I need my mom.
Yoooo....my heart breaks everytime I have to do that
Wow! I like the parenting bit so much. I am a 24-year-old and I have always wanted my first baby/ babies in my early 30s specifically 32. I am so serious about this that I want to freeze my eggs as soon as I can afford it. So I shared this with my mom five months ago because I wanted her to be prepared to be my support system as I go through the process(I hate needles) and she wasn't for the idea. So the other day she met up with some ladies her age and they were wishing they knew they had IVF as an option, they really would have taken their time getting kids. Now she understood where I was coming from. Then hearing Murugi encouraging it made me feel like I am really making the right decision. And I also follow parenting pages like Lydia also...Just to be prepared. Glad to see that I am not alone and not weird at all. Keep up, guys!
I am so happy my daughter recommended that “I
Must watch” this. 👏🏽 👏🏽
Adulting gets much easier with competent partners but they are difficult to find because there's alot of pretence in the way people present themselves and alot of people also don't work or Don't know how to work on their issues, which always always present themselves later in relationships.
Sad truth! 😢
My favourite phrase from this podcast is when Lydia says “…and here we are!” I have made it my mantra!
Aww! 🥰
Thank you ❤️
Adulting indeed has no manual but we live and learn everyday as we embrace this perfectly imperfect journey. I’ve been listening to you guys almost daily and I appreciate the positive impact your content has on my life. Happy to see your growth, may you elevate even more 👏🏽👏🏽❤
The Simanis' minding their business
"Lydia : You wake up at 5:00 AM and Shiv has already worked out, had his banana and fed mamba🤣🤣🤣
Murugi: And now Shylo is beating the dog🤣🤣"
That part took me out 🤣🤣🤣 P for pressure!
My God me tooooo. I watch it over and over
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When all is said and done... it's the synergy for me.. I admire this type of friendship..it goes waaay beyond and above so many life aspects.
Awww! Thank you ❤❤
They didn't really tell us that it is so easy to dream but not really get to that dream...like you will honestly want something and even deserve having it but it won't necessarily be yours😩and how being nice doesn't always mean only good things will happen to you😔
I love this podcast with my soul 🥹❤️
Thank you.. we love you too. ❤️
Lydiah, some people are just bad as Murugi says. People have gone through worse and they do not let those experiences turn them into monsters
the scheming at 52:00 😂🤣
Lydiaaaa thank you for talking and emphasising more on privilege,alot of peope don't realise that literally jut being able to consume this content is a privilege by itself ❤❤❤
Exactly!! 💯 you’re welcome 😘
Love the work you guys are doing. It's true adulthood comes with the privilege of a choice, but making the decision is hectic bcs of the consequences that cones with the decision you make.
17:15 😂😂😂😂
Not throwing shade, you're throwing the whole forest.
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This episode is really good... The friendship part is really good
Hello ladies..looking gorgeous as always. I had to comment on this.On Lydia's point on adulthood seemed like a destination.So next year am turning 25 and I am so scared coz I feel like I haven't achieve as much as am expected to.I feel like am getting too old and everytime someone talks about age around me, I just shut.
Ooh hun! Release the pressure of aging. Just look at age as just a number.
Be king to self! Embrace the uncertainty of times, show up every time and do your best!
Everything else will align! ✨❤️
This episode was pure gold in so many ways 💖💖
I found your channel 2days ago and I'm bingewatching your videos and I'm likeee WHY DID I FIND OUT ABOUT YOOOU NOOOWWW😭❤️.... I'm your newest biggest 19year old fan😂😂😂😂❤️
Welcome sis! 🎉
@@tmipodcastke Thankyouu❤️
Me too, today haha
Watching you in this video made me realize I am very intentional on social media. I am not in social media well just you tube and am very selective about what I watch. Follow and watch about 4 channels faithfully. Also I never carry my phone over lunch or eat while using my phone.
Wooow i need to follow this
If discipline was a person! 🙌🏾
Murugi I felt you when you said, "people are going through a lot!" Kwanza hapo kwa fee...after a week of closing schools the new term begins. It's been a rough year.
Adulting as a parent is on a different level! 😪
Murugi looking gorgeous in that outfit🔥🔥
Thank you 😊
''when are we going back to daddy '' lydia sign up for comedy 😅😅😅
Ok, i cannot hold it any longer! Thank you Murugi and Lydia! Your honesty and authenticity is refreshing. I always look forward to Wednesdays. I wish u the best in all ur endeavours. ❤️
Wow, thank you! ❤❤❤
The reason I had not subscribed yet is because I’m just always absentminded 😂 I watch and then zone out! So today… I’m hitting the subscribe button and turning on post notifications 🔔. Imagine it’s that simple 😅😅😅
It's like marriage, you can only experience it when you get there. I was told that single people are the busiest people. They always have things to go to, functions, programs, parties etc. Apparently married people always have time.
My brother and I are so toxic lol. Lydia said her parents separated when she was nine and we both looked at each other and lust laughed at the fact that we were much younger when ours separated. And just started throwing around jokes about our parents' separation and then he just says "I was born at a very young age and when I was seven months, my parents separated." 😂😂😂
Glad you related! 😂
And my conclusion is adulting is not a scam but a reality and regardless it has to be lived accordingly...and this is what makes us human...25 year old me is glad Atleast I have you, you're preparing 26 yr old me..I appreciate it.Marrieta Kisaka a brand on UA-cam was here
love how you have embraced your journey. Congratulations love! ❤
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Congratulations on your big news.. it's amazing and inspiring to watch you grow.
Thank you so much!❤
Ready to listen to amazing insights on adulthood 😍😍
Awesome! ❤️
Separating kids from their dad that’s the worst feeling ever, it makes women feel like they’re selfish yet it’s the best thing for everyone involved. Then a woman keeps praying that the kids will come to understand the reason as to why
Adulting & parenting has no manual, you learn on the job
Absolutely!
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The funny thing about adulting is that you eventually get used to it and ultimately appreciate it. Just wait a few more years, you'll see 🙂
Sure! 💯
Another episode and another lesson learnt 🥳🥳I always look forward to every new episode
I love it!!
The number of times Joan has used "I feel like "🤣🥰
@lydia I also don't watch stories. It is so healthy for my mental health. Even on WhatsApp, I choose to mute all of them. I only open a few of them when I want.
To paraphrase Murugi,
"There are people who are just bad people, they hurt others for no reason. No matter how kind one is, some people will do one dirty. Just because one is good it doesnt mean good will be done back to them. Being good could lead to getting used"
So relateable. Some people are just shitty human beings. They know what they are doing. They are toxic and manipulative. They are just bad and they get worse with age. They have perfected the art of manipulation. They conciously are shitty every day.
Yaaiy, finally subscribed 👏👏
Welcome Inbetweener! 🎉❤️
As a gent I'm addicted to this channel 😀😀😀
This episode was amazing ladies...we are not helping you commit a murder Jo😂😂
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😂😂 Lydia on death is so me. You don't know you are dead, so live life and be kind.
😅❤
Ahh. So i left my first comment be4 listening to the podcast... 🤣🤣 this is def my 11 11 moment of clarity message in a weird way.. thank you so much.
You're the best! 😅❤
OMG!! I resonate so much with this episode my guka (mums dad) died last year in the morning of my birthday, and i cant celebrate it any more, because tell me should my mum be happy its her daughters bday or should she be mourning her dad?😪 i questioned God alot. Like why that day? Why not the day after or the day before,do you know what i mean?
Adulting is the absolute gherro😂😂 I have surely learned a thing or two along the way while adulting. I have enjoyed this episode💓
Glad you enjoyed it!❤
I feel that cooking point deep in my soul!
I am like Lyd..always good to people,can't hurt or embarass people..too bad it's always taken granted for..or find people who are the total opposite..be it friendships or rlshps
People can be ungrateful! 😢
I think in regards to the letting your children see you going through life situations,it could be done child appropriate.
As a mom I believe we are given the ability to know what's right for your child.so emotions can also be shared.can be scary at first but it helps your child express themselves.i have noticed my child become better in communicating since she knows mama understands since I saw her cry yesterday....more mature than her age emotionally for sure .
Usiende kulilia mtoto hapo for an hour pliz ukitukana babake though😅😅😅kindly.
Scheduled cry sessions are a thing! Get into it...🤚 Life is a lot sometimes!
For sure
Truth! 💯
Great episode girls!
To the point on the responsibility of feeding the family especially when nanny is away, have him/her prep several snacks and meals to store in the fridge/freezer before s/he leaves for the weekend. That way, you don’t slave in the kitchen and instead get to spend time more usefully.
Oh yes! ✔️
Now your child is wearing tissue 😂😂 got me
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OMG Murugi talking about doom ! I relate 💯💯💯💯💯💯
It’s now a luxury mahn! 😭
This is epic.....Bills,bills are exhausting I wanna go back home😭😭😭
Shukishaaaa 😭😭
I hope you see this because its 10 months later, but i would love you to do adulthood series for the guys taken abroad vs kenya.
Mamba was just chilling 🤣🤣
Then boom! 😂😂😂
Well done ladies on the Spotify grant. So proud of you guys 🎉
Thank you hun ❤
I'm New here after Lynn ngugi☺️ & loving it ❤
Welcome to the inbetweener family!
How many channels do u have to shoot more than one video in one day, i only know this and i can't get enough of you ladies.
Wueh! ADULTING is Adulting. Sema T for Tuff😭. Lydia's top🔥😍. Hongera Podcasters👏🏾💐 #WCW❤️❤️.
Wacha tu! 😢
Thank you ❤
Lydia:my man my man my man..yess❤
😂 Shiv was just chilling.....
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Lydia KM's TOXIC was soooo spot on and hilarious. Love her! Love her honesty! 🙌🙌💕
So glad! ❤
i love Lydia's energy
🤗🤗❤️ to sit and listen to adulthood mmmmbecause weeuhhh!!!!😩😩
It's doing the thing, ey? We keep showing up though.
Masaibu ya roho! 😭😂
@@tmipodcastke masaibu ya kila internal organ😫😂mara the pancreas sijui nose is facing sideways,,but we move🏃♀️💨
I no longer wait for experience to be my teacher,I choose tmi to do it
We love you 😘 ❤
Murugi you are so right, just because you usually make decisions all the liability should be permanently placed upon you.
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Love you guys so much , “ni maakili tu hapa”❤❤
long endless slog is more like..there is no structure in adulting, kids have more structure and schedule than adults, in adulting we are left to figure things out by ourselves, but for kids, we create schedules and timetables.
Love U girls... you are such an inspiration
Aww! Thank you. ❤
I 1000% agree with not having enough time to do everything
Wheew! 😢
My fav fuckinnnnn podcast😭😭🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️i love yaahhh!!!
Thank you 🙌🏾❤️
Enjoyed this episode ❣️❣️
Thank you for watching ❤
The first one here🧡🧡🧡
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This show is carrying me ooh🤣🤣🤣
I love you guysss😭❤️
We love you sweetie ❤
Not Shiv and Mamba🤣🤣🤣
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Yummy mummy and Lydia you are true warrior sister.much love from Radio.TheArenaFm
Great lessons learned especially the fact that life always moves on.
I just need to pace myself.
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Can't wait to watch this because ADULTING 🤦😭
the gherrrrooo
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Am always waiting for a new episode, always learning
Thank you❤
and now we are here ...Lydia ,should be a thing ,.😂
Definitely watching this again and many times
Remember to share too 😊
As a child I used to hate waking up at early to go to school, I just wanted to grow up and wake up at 11 or 12. Now I wake up at 5 am to go to the gym and then work and I just can't believe that you actually don't get to just do anything you want as an adult. 🙃🥲
Most relatable comment! We really wanted to grow up only to realize that the grass ain’t greener on the other side. 😭😪
What an Episode!!!!!
I always leave here better than I came.
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Our pleasure ❤
Lesson of the day "you make the choices but the will make you"I think I said it wrong what matters is that I understood the point
I love this, am just starting listening to it
Glad you do ❤
Thanks for that, Nawapenda
Cake and ice-cream, twice a month only though. 🥳🥳🥳🥳can we be best friends please 😂😂😂
Let’s hun! 😅