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So, instead of accepting $500 to cover damages the soldier decided his position in the military wasn't important. Also the second story. Who gives a crap if he's an owners son. He cost the company a bunch of time and money. Just because you sre someone's kid shouldn't make you immune to punishment.
Not road rage but likely roid rage..... When I was in we had a body builder in the group of us during training. Nobody went near him on Mondays, because that was the day after he had his roid shots. When the local big race came up we joked that we should enter him in it. Not as a jockey, as we did have the one skinny guy who could be that, but as the horse.
Story 1: The soldier overreacted over a fender bender and ruined his own life. Story 2: Proposing at a wedding is never a good idea. How are the parents on the brother's side?! Story 4: The bride sounds covertly racist. Story 5: The mother needs a therapist.
bruh, the first stotry kinda reminded me of my dad when he got rear ended by a motorcycle in his new car, he didn't even get mad, even tho his rear bumper got cracked and looked like it could break in half, but he was calm and calmed down the kid, he helped him get out of that "shock mode" that everyone kicks in when something bad and unexpected happens and both followed on with their days
19:47 the OP could have made similar snarky jabs like "I'm sorry my education that might very well be the difference between success and death is cutting into our little chats..."
For story number 2 the op should arrange it that he can announce his wife pregnancy at his brothers wedding just out of revenge and see how his brother feels. This is all dependent on how the conversation is between he and his bro
I remember reading a reddit post that someone did something similar like that except it was with pregnancy. Basically, Op was getting married & Op's sister made an announcement that she was pregnant. Op was pissed, but said nothing about it. When Op's sister was doing a baby shower, Op got everyone's attention & announced that she was pregnant. Op's sister was so pissed at her, but she knew she couldn't do anything about it.
Story 1 - that guy is the biggest jerk of the century digging his own grave at every step when OP was being nice to him in the first place. I think his brain remained at toddler age after all these years. Truly unbelieveable buy it is really possible.
Even the other side of the Venn diagram can get libidinous, especially when ovulating or the pregnancy hormones are the right mixture to kick up the libido. A lot of people see guys as oversexed because their arousal is overt. Plus the majority of the animal kingdom have the males instigate the encounters.
There are just 2 rules when going to a wedding..1) Don't make special announcements 2) do not where white(if you're a woman) and try to outshine the Bride!!! They get ONE DAY!!!! And it's all about THE COUPLE GETTING MARRIED!!!!
Nah, are you from the US? This sounds like a US thing from what I read, a wedding is a nice ceremony celebrating love, I would be happy with my brother proposing on my wedding, it would be a great memory for everyone, and all the family is there to witness.
1:46 that’s older did something so dumb. I’m 13 and I even know once your serving or have served in the U.S military your hands are considered weapons. So doing so much as punching somebody is the equivalent to hitting somebody with a weapon in the laws eyes.
Cartman is weird where like 80% of his racist ideas are actually true. Jews not having rhythm, jews having a little bag of gold around their necks, Black people being good at bass guitar, etc
@@DwarfDaddy Jews unable to play basketball. A lot of stereotypes have a nugget of truth in them and the ones about my people have some truths in them; although if you shade us, we'll shade you back harder.
The brother should have known better than to do that in the middle of the wedding ceremony. How would he feel if someone did that to him?? He should have asked and maybe they could have set up something during the reception. And the parents shame on them
i feel like i heard this story before but similar things happen, op's sister tried to annouce her pregancy when op and her husband had a wedding, than after that op has annouced her pregnancy after the wedding and honeymoon if they went that is.
It's not that you shouldn't propose during someone else's wedding/reception. It's that you should get their permission to do so at their wedding/reception. If they're cool with it, go for it. If not, drop the plan.
Story 2: unless you get permission from the bride and groom whose wedding you're attending, drawing attention away from the happiness of the events by proposing to your own significant other is a total dick move.
Story 2: If the brother actually asked op and as well as soon to be wife before the wedding, then it wouldn't be a jerk move to propose on their wedding day if they say yes. But odds are he knew op would say no, so yeah, still a jerk move and op is in his rights to fire him for this betrayal. Story 3: I just love it that the people wanting save money but only ends up losing a lot more than they are saving. If anything, if op made the right move and odds are that supervision got chewed out badly. Yeah, nepotism wouldn't get that type of people fired but they will be bashed to the ground for making a huge lost when it comes to money. Story 4: Ok, feels like Liz is being racist for pair her bride's maid with some random get who is the same race as Kelly. So, what a guy can't meet someone at an event and make friends. I think Liz just wanted to play match maker and have this plan that she brought Kelly and op together at their wedding.🙄 Those women didn't want op interacting with no other women other that Kelly. I am glad that Tom at least warned Liz not to try to hook Kelly up with op and saw how dumb of a plan it was and was on op's side. Story 5: Yeah, really glad my mom isn't like that. But I do still live with her so that might have saved me from being in that situation. Anywayz, Therapy. Enough said for op to do with their mother.
Story 3: Penny wise, pound foolish is the theme here. OP was the keystone that kept the infrastructure running. The supervisor was a foolhardy idiot for not letting the OP take overtime to keep the machines running.
It's not a suckered punch if your standing there arguing. It's not right of the soldier. But it's not a sucker punch. If someone is irate you back away out of reach. If they pursue you run or swing.
Story 2: ok so from my pov proposal during a wedding is fine aslong as its after most of the wedding but if its in the middle of the wedding hell no that os not ok at all
For Story #4: when one of my old High School friends got married I was one of my friend’s groomsmen and when it was time for the reception I get assigned 2 Bridesmaids to walk in with. Funnily enough when I walked in I had a Dr. Pepper in my hand and a Bridesmaid on each arm.
Op should be careful about firing his brother for personal reasons because the brother could potentially sue on the basis of retaliation or something. The brother is definitely the jerk but op needs to ensure they have a legitimate buisness reason to fire him.
So, proposing at a wedding is indeed a dick move. You firing him for it though is called retaliation and you opened yourself up for a unfair dismissal lawsuit.
I think the brother from 2nd story isn't really the jerk, my uncle did the same thing on his friend's wedding but I kinda feel bad for the op here. I honestly don't think anyone is the jerk in this situation, I kinda wish they ended up on good terms
Story 4: I will tell you my version of the something similar that happened with me, but inverse: I am black, and I went to a family get together. In secret I am dating someone, and she is white. Similar age differences. I was 43 at the time, and she was 29. My family is well aware that I was a "late bloomer", because through much if my High School and part of college as well as during my time in the military, I did not prioritize dating or women. I come from one of those stereotypical families that many of the men had multiple children by different women, and a lot of the women had multiple children by different men. I've pledged to myself to be married to whom I have children with. Back to the event... Both myself and my girlfriend kept our relationship a secret for our own personal reasons. Not because of anything that could be construed, we both work a lot of hours in our perspective careers. My family known me to be a bit picky about who I closely associate with, and constantly attempt to set me up, which always ends in disaster. My brother-in-law always thought that he was older than me, because he looks older, but truth be told, I am 3 years older than him, and dont care. The fact is, I look younger and no kids, gives up that impression. He is married to my stepsister (we dont see ourselves as such, considering we grew up together, and I am treated as the brother she never had. He attempts to set me up with one of his cousins, seeing as we are not related at all. This person is about 32, and as far as I can tell, her hobbies are limited to smoking weed and getting drunk. I've seen her a few times at get togethers, and every time, she was always drunk and high. Mind you, I am a hardcore libertarian, and don't care if someone else has that as their prerogative, but because I am a CPL (Concealed Pistol License) Instructor, and maintain a Class A CDL, I do not partake. I rarely drink, even though I have a wine and liquor stock that can easily be valued over $10,000. Anyways, he put her up to it, and I outright rejected her advances. Later, the same evening, I was getting ready to leave (I lived about 10 minutes drive from where my sister lives (Side note, I am very secretive of where I live, and my stepsister has a vague idea of where I live. It is a nearby suburb of her city, but is very tiny. Very quiet, because the majority of the adult population is over age 55, and is about 70% white. Her city is 40% White, but still the majority... Either way, my stepsister understands why, and that is because I just want quiet and not too many uninvited guests, and my family has a nasty habit of being invasive and dropping in, unannounced at weird times of day or night). I hadnt paid attention to that woman for the duration, after I had rejected her, only for her to follow me to my pickup truck, and beat on my window. I cracked it, and she had asked me if I could give her a ride home, seeing as though she claimed to have no way home. I tried stalling, and eventually relented to giving her a ride home (future event gave me info that she did in fact have a ride, but the person giving her a ride told her to try again with me, by asking me for a ride home, in order to be alone with me, as a means to attempt to seduce me). Mind you, it was the middle of summer, I rolled down the windows because it was relatively cool, and the AC was unnecessary. She kept complaining about how hot it was, so I said that I could roll up the window and turn on the AC. She exclaimed "No!", as she proceeded to take off her shirt in my car. She had no bra on. Being a stone-faced person, I did not react (besides, my GF's boobs were a lot better looking, and hers looked like eggs on a wire), She tried numerous times to get my hand off the shift knob (yes, Millennial anti-theft, Chad Manual Transmission) to place my hands on her floppy chesticles... I immediately stopped the car and said, "You know what, we are less than 5 minutes walking distance from your house, you can walk the rest of the way!" She pleaded for me to not kick her out of my car. I then said, "If that is the case, put your F-ing shirt back on, and calm down!". She did just that. When I pulled up to her house in the largest City next county over, she asked me if I could help her take some bags (filled with food leftovers from the party), to her house. I agreed with the stipulation that i was taking it only ro the porch, and am leaving. She agreed. When I took the bags to the porch, she blurted out that she could "rock my world and change my mind", and I laughed in an obnoxiously arrogant way, and said, "Lady, you have issues that I cant help you with. You haven't a chance in hell to make me change my mind. Have a nice night....", and I left. Fast forward 2 weeks, and my family was having our "once per month family dinner", where my stepfather (retired, late 60's) and mother would cook and myself, my two brothers (who are twins), my stepsister with her husband, my biological sister and her kids, as well as a host of other kids would come over. The house is full with around 20-25 close family members. And the brother-in-law brought up how I flatly rejected his cousin's advances. He asked "What's up with that?!? You are single, you're not gay, and you had a chick ready to jump your bones at any moment, and you denied her?". I sighed in an exasperated tone... "(Insert name), you know what? She was just not my type!" My biological sister had met one of my ex girlfriends who was from Brazil. My sister exclaimed, "Well, he was dating this one white woman (she had no idea my ex was Brazilian), with HUUUUGE knockers and an hourglass figure..." My mom interjected, "As far as I know, he just dont like black women....". At this point, I just facepalmed. I blurted out, "I don't give a shit about race. I am all about personality, and the personality type I am attracted to, is rare among black women!". I turned my head to my biological sister (she is 12 years younger than me, so she was 31 at the time), "You should know.... I dated your hoghschool and college friend, (name starts with M, and she is an anime and videogame nerd... Not a weeb, but just a nerd who loved 1990's anime), she is black, I liked her personality, but she could take or leave my personality, and we remained friends." Then I turned my head forward and stared into nothing, while stating loudly (my family knows this about me, considering my military history, that if I stare blankly at no one, and speak loudly, this is addressed to everyone within hearing distance), "I prefer nerdy type women, and not party girls. I cant stand women who's impression to me, is to get high and drink. That woman was a stereotype to me, and in no way am I interested in that. I do not want this in my life, because it would jeopardize my way of living. I am actually seeing someone, and in due time, you will meet her. Until that arrangement has been met, i am done with this subject.". My family was in disbelief, and demanded that I show them a picture, stating the childish, "Picture or she doesnt exist", nonsense. I did have one selfie of us sitting on the couch together, that she had taken, and she text messaged it to me, a few months back.... I proceeded to show them. "Called it! He only likes white women", my mother exclaimed. I facepalmed, and said, "Did you not hear what I said? I dont give a shit about race. I have you know, we met at her job (she is the store manager), and we began talking about Ninja Turtles, when I remarked how she resembled April O'Neil from the 1980's cartoon, and she was amused by that, because she was a huge fan of all of the Ninja Turtles versions, and that she collects the old school action figures. As a gift, I went to a comic book store to find an old school Ninja Turtle action figure, and once I gave it to her, *SHE asked me out!"* Everyone fell silent. After what seemed an eternity, My stepfather blurted out, "Well, did you see that game earlier today (it was sunday), our team got beaten horrendously....." I remained largely silent for the majority of the dinner. My Brother-in-law approached me as I was leaving, and said, "Dude, you didnt have to be so intense... I don't mind the fact that you rejected my cousin, I just want to be like a big brother, and look out for you....", being the snarky A-hole that I can be, I asked him, "(insert name), How old is your wife?" He replied, "44, you know this...." I continued, "How much older than you, is she?" He said, "Well, she is 4 years and 3 months older... Why?", I replied, "She is only 8 months older than me. Respect your elders." His eyes bulged like saucers, as I turned and walked away. Yes, I was the jerk.
The wedding story, unless bride AND groom agree and are ok with, DON'T PURPOSE! This is a hill i will die on. If groom is ok with it but bride isn't, dont it. If bride is ok with it but groom isn't, don't do it. Its thst simple.
That last story is just awful- The OP isn't responsible for her and the mom is being way overbearing and clingy. It's understandable that she's having a hard time, but OP isn't her therapist. In my opinion, regardless of your kid's age, making them your personal therapist as a parent is the worst thing you can do, and the OP isn't the jerk for that.
The 2nd) yes you are the ah, business should be separate from family, like he can file a lawsuit against you. Instead I'd cut contact with him outside of work and never invite him to any other parties
I dont feel bad for soldier in story 1 at all, dude really punched a guy over a minor fender bender after being offered 500$ to fix it all just to ruin his own life thats pretty pathetic and anyone willing to punch someone else in a situation like this is just as pathetic For number 5 with all that shit the mom is talking id just block her because idc how much you are grieving the second you try to guilt trip me into anything i will immediately stop caring about any sadness your feeling because guilt tripping isnt something i will tolerate even a little bit
Story 4: I don't think a 7-8 year difference with the younger person being in their mid 20s is all that bad, especially if the older person looks a tad youthful. I just think the bride's unconsciously racist
I didn't think I had a similar situation with my mom when I introduced her to my girlfriend and she really shocked me when she says but all the girls you happiness School you pick a white girl believe she's she would say something like that and so racist
OP1: Guy has no place in the military. Or society really. Just the fact that he expected the military to protect him shows he isnt even intelligent enough to be.
Possible he did, Article 15s are a much quicker process as well as only the first step. Could still be separated and OP just doesnt have any update on that yet. He could also be referred too court martial. On the same note though, I'm slightly laughing to myself about OP saying UMCJ and calling it a court as well.
Eh, second story op sounds like a jerk. Not that being angry isn't understandable. But as long as he was good at work, I wouldn’t take anger about a personal slight and fire someone over it.
WOW after the reaction in the video and the comments I am questioning humanity lol. Is this an American thing, that your wedding day can not be nice for anyone but you?! I would be happy about my brother proposing at my wedding, it would make it so much more special lol (i would have discussed it beforehand tho).
1st story: KUDOS BRO! Good for you! 2nd story: I get that it is not the best idea to propose a a wedding, but it is your brother. What kind of pathetic loser fires his brother over this?! I would have been happy for my brother, it would make the wedding even greater.
Story 2: No, there's no two sides to the story. The brother is the asshole plain and simple. You don't expect to or request to propose at someone else's wedding. It's 100% selfish. But yes the op is still wrong for carrying out a wrongful termination under retaliation. Severance aside, if your brother was any bit intelligent regarding labor and employment laws. You'd be in some decent trouble if he contacted a lawyer. Termination through retaliation is not covered under 'at will employment' and it would be easily proven in court why your brothers employment was terminated.
Actually the soldier was in the right to want a police report and the OP ignored the request. If it were me, I would've called the police regardless because by OP's refusal to have a police report it seemed he was hiding something.
@@viviennemorgan7217 But as OP didn't want police involvement, it calls the entire story into question. I have a feeling that the entire story was completely made up or he gave the other guy a legitimate reason to punch him and conveniently left that part out of the story.
@@magic8ball1982 nah op crashed the fender bender by accident and as he told this solider that he's sorry and doesn't want the police involved hoping that it will all blow over but no the solider reacted very badly
business should be separate from you personal life. if he was a good worker then why get rid of him. you talk it out when you go home and do what you gotta do but keep business out of that shit. unprofessional.
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LOL I can't deny, I giggled hard when I heard "Hoop-tie" instead of "hooptee". Yeah, first story is definitley NTA.
I did too 😂
Took me a sec to realize he was talkin bout a hoopty
UMCJ is equally as funny. It the UCMJ uniform code of military justice.
I was like wth? Hoop tie? Hoop-tee!
The first story is total bulls*t, it’s totally made up or at least highly embellished! There are way too many inconsistencies and errors…
OP2: "Business should be seperate from personal lives."
You're right, he never should have hired him.
That just shows the parents understand that he did something wrong
They just don't want the golden child punished for it
So, instead of accepting $500 to cover damages the soldier decided his position in the military wasn't important.
Also the second story. Who gives a crap if he's an owners son. He cost the company a bunch of time and money. Just because you sre someone's kid shouldn't make you immune to punishment.
Not road rage but likely roid rage..... When I was in we had a body builder in the group of us during training. Nobody went near him on Mondays, because that was the day after he had his roid shots. When the local big race came up we joked that we should enter him in it. Not as a jockey, as we did have the one skinny guy who could be that, but as the horse.
I'd would punch op to if he hit car
@@justinmyers9515then you are just simply pathetic and i feel sorry for anyone in your life😂
Story 1: The soldier overreacted over a fender bender and ruined his own life.
Story 2: Proposing at a wedding is never a good idea. How are the parents on the brother's side?!
Story 4: The bride sounds covertly racist.
Story 5: The mother needs a therapist.
Where's number 3?
not only that, she's trying to set these two up because she thought that they would be perfect for each other.
@@AdrianSanchez-yq2gd Didn’t have anything to say on that one
Story 2: Brother is Golden Child, likely.
bruh, the first stotry kinda reminded me of my dad when he got rear ended by a motorcycle in his new car, he didn't even get mad, even tho his rear bumper got cracked and looked like it could break in half, but he was calm and calmed down the kid, he helped him get out of that "shock mode" that everyone kicks in when something bad and unexpected happens and both followed on with their days
OP3: Ahh racism. Eric Cartman is pleased.
Exactly what I was thinking of when I heard that story.
was 'Cupid Me' in the room TEEEHEEEE
19:47 the OP could have made similar snarky jabs like "I'm sorry my education that might very well be the difference between success and death is cutting into our little chats..."
For story number 2 the op should arrange it that he can announce his wife pregnancy at his brothers wedding just out of revenge and see how his brother feels. This is all dependent on how the conversation is between he and his bro
I remember reading a reddit post that someone did something similar like that except it was with pregnancy. Basically, Op was getting married & Op's sister made an announcement that she was pregnant. Op was pissed, but said nothing about it. When Op's sister was doing a baby shower, Op got everyone's attention & announced that she was pregnant. Op's sister was so pissed at her, but she knew she couldn't do anything about it.
Last story: the mum needs a therapist not wasting her child's time
LMFAO "WHOOPETIE" Gen X here it's a Hoop-Tee
OP4: Grieving people can be selfish a-holes too and they're not entitled to other people's time.
That's the fourth stage of grief for you.
Story 1 - that guy is the biggest jerk of the century digging his own grave at every step when OP was being nice to him in the first place. I think his brain remained at toddler age after all these years. Truly unbelieveable buy it is really possible.
Old mate was going through roid rage both at the accident scene and in the military courtroom.
I have heard many stories similar to Story #4 and almost every time I question why men are stereotyped as the horndogs of the genders.
The stereotype of the angelic woman was pushed in order to get women the vote.
We were fooled.
Even the other side of the Venn diagram can get libidinous, especially when ovulating or the pregnancy hormones are the right mixture to kick up the libido. A lot of people see guys as oversexed because their arousal is overt. Plus the majority of the animal kingdom have the males instigate the encounters.
There are just 2 rules when going to a wedding..1) Don't make special announcements 2) do not where white(if you're a woman) and try to outshine the Bride!!! They get ONE DAY!!!! And it's all about THE COUPLE GETTING MARRIED!!!!
Nah, are you from the US? This sounds like a US thing from what I read, a wedding is a nice ceremony celebrating love, I would be happy with my brother proposing on my wedding, it would be a great memory for everyone, and all the family is there to witness.
It's like an unspoken rule... Don't spoil the wedding day for the happy couple.
1:46 that’s older did something so dumb. I’m 13 and I even know once your serving or have served in the U.S military your hands are considered weapons. So doing so much as punching somebody is the equivalent to hitting somebody with a weapon in the laws eyes.
Story 2, hes not the jerk but he did break a federal law of firing him in the form of retaliation.
Just because you are in the military doesn't give you the right to be a jerk!!
And Lmao, it's a hooptee.
so it's ok for the guy to punch this person in the face
Bro got punched,i felt bad for him, but feel the way u want abt it 😐
It's a minion of riggy
A punch like that can be lethal. I've seen a lot of news stories and PSAs of what we call king hits.
Love the videos can you do one school bullies?
My compliments to the player
Story 4 reminds me of that one South Park episode. Cartman did the exact same thing. It worked out for him though, because of course it did.
Cartman is weird where like 80% of his racist ideas are actually true. Jews not having rhythm, jews having a little bag of gold around their necks, Black people being good at bass guitar, etc
@@DwarfDaddy Jews unable to play basketball. A lot of stereotypes have a nugget of truth in them and the ones about my people have some truths in them; although if you shade us, we'll shade you back harder.
First story is great and all but how many times did OP say "honestly"
Learning kindness is learning how to act that you care
third story the bride came off to me as cartmen from South park. the episode where he trys to set the same race together.
The brother should have known better than to do that in the middle of the wedding ceremony. How would he feel if someone did that to him??
He should have asked and maybe they could have set up something during the reception. And the parents shame on them
So I'm guessing the dude in story one got a court martial. That's right kids, the guy now has a felony record for a fender bender.....
I like how the soldier gets in trouble not the idiot that hit the car if you hit my car and hit You to.
Enjoy getting summon to court because you used pointless physical violence on someone. What are you? A three years old child?
Is that raiden from metal gear rising revengence swinging from webs?
i feel like i heard this story before but similar things happen, op's sister tried to annouce her pregancy when op and her husband had a wedding, than after that op has annouced her pregnancy after the wedding and honeymoon if they went that is.
that's what i know.
It's not that you shouldn't propose during someone else's wedding/reception. It's that you should get their permission to do so at their wedding/reception. If they're cool with it, go for it. If not, drop the plan.
Tbh i woulnt get mad over the 2nd story but hey man to each theyr own
Story 2: unless you get permission from the bride and groom whose wedding you're attending, drawing attention away from the happiness of the events by proposing to your own significant other is a total dick move.
Story 2: If the brother actually asked op and as well as soon to be wife before the wedding, then it wouldn't be a jerk move to propose on their wedding day if they say yes. But odds are he knew op would say no, so yeah, still a jerk move and op is in his rights to fire him for this betrayal.
Story 3: I just love it that the people wanting save money but only ends up losing a lot more than they are saving. If anything, if op made the right move and odds are that supervision got chewed out badly. Yeah, nepotism wouldn't get that type of people fired but they will be bashed to the ground for making a huge lost when it comes to money.
Story 4: Ok, feels like Liz is being racist for pair her bride's maid with some random get who is the same race as Kelly. So, what a guy can't meet someone at an event and make friends. I think Liz just wanted to play match maker and have this plan that she brought Kelly and op together at their wedding.🙄 Those women didn't want op interacting with no other women other that Kelly. I am glad that Tom at least warned Liz not to try to hook Kelly up with op and saw how dumb of a plan it was and was on op's side.
Story 5: Yeah, really glad my mom isn't like that. But I do still live with her so that might have saved me from being in that situation. Anywayz, Therapy. Enough said for op to do with their mother.
Story 3: Penny wise, pound foolish is the theme here. OP was the keystone that kept the infrastructure running. The supervisor was a foolhardy idiot for not letting the OP take overtime to keep the machines running.
It's not a suckered punch if your standing there arguing. It's not right of the soldier. But it's not a sucker punch. If someone is irate you back away out of reach. If they pursue you run or swing.
Story 2: ok so from my pov proposal during a wedding is fine aslong as its after most of the wedding but if its in the middle of the wedding hell no that os not ok at all
Hoop tie holy shit
For Story #4: when one of my old High School friends got married I was one of my friend’s groomsmen and when it was time for the reception I get assigned 2 Bridesmaids to walk in with. Funnily enough when I walked in I had a Dr. Pepper in my hand and a Bridesmaid on each arm.
Who da fuq proposes at somebody else's wedding?!?!
Story 2.. the unlawful termination lawsuit will be fun for OP
how does the unlawful termination fit for op?
@@viviennemorgan7217 OP fired the brother in retaliation for the betrayal. Last I looked, retaliatory termination is illegal in Wackyland.
@@JamesDavy2009 what about him.
Op should be careful about firing his brother for personal reasons because the brother could potentially sue on the basis of retaliation or something. The brother is definitely the jerk but op needs to ensure they have a legitimate buisness reason to fire him.
So, proposing at a wedding is indeed a dick move.
You firing him for it though is called retaliation and you opened yourself up for a unfair dismissal lawsuit.
To OP5 I went through a similar situation with my mother and I just shut my phone off for like 2-3 days and it fixed it
First story nah he ain’t the jerk
I think the brother from 2nd story isn't really the jerk, my uncle did the same thing on his friend's wedding but I kinda feel bad for the op here. I honestly don't think anyone is the jerk in this situation, I kinda wish they ended up on good terms
All the brother had to do was ask for permission.
Story 4:
I will tell you my version of the something similar that happened with me, but inverse:
I am black, and I went to a family get together. In secret I am dating someone, and she is white. Similar age differences. I was 43 at the time, and she was 29. My family is well aware that I was a "late bloomer", because through much if my High School and part of college as well as during my time in the military, I did not prioritize dating or women. I come from one of those stereotypical families that many of the men had multiple children by different women, and a lot of the women had multiple children by different men. I've pledged to myself to be married to whom I have children with. Back to the event... Both myself and my girlfriend kept our relationship a secret for our own personal reasons. Not because of anything that could be construed, we both work a lot of hours in our perspective careers. My family known me to be a bit picky about who I closely associate with, and constantly attempt to set me up, which always ends in disaster. My brother-in-law always thought that he was older than me, because he looks older, but truth be told, I am 3 years older than him, and dont care. The fact is, I look younger and no kids, gives up that impression. He is married to my stepsister (we dont see ourselves as such, considering we grew up together, and I am treated as the brother she never had. He attempts to set me up with one of his cousins, seeing as we are not related at all. This person is about 32, and as far as I can tell, her hobbies are limited to smoking weed and getting drunk. I've seen her a few times at get togethers, and every time, she was always drunk and high. Mind you, I am a hardcore libertarian, and don't care if someone else has that as their prerogative, but because I am a CPL (Concealed Pistol License) Instructor, and maintain a Class A CDL, I do not partake. I rarely drink, even though I have a wine and liquor stock that can easily be valued over $10,000. Anyways, he put her up to it, and I outright rejected her advances. Later, the same evening, I was getting ready to leave (I lived about 10 minutes drive from where my sister lives (Side note, I am very secretive of where I live, and my stepsister has a vague idea of where I live. It is a nearby suburb of her city, but is very tiny. Very quiet, because the majority of the adult population is over age 55, and is about 70% white. Her city is 40% White, but still the majority... Either way, my stepsister understands why, and that is because I just want quiet and not too many uninvited guests, and my family has a nasty habit of being invasive and dropping in, unannounced at weird times of day or night). I hadnt paid attention to that woman for the duration, after I had rejected her, only for her to follow me to my pickup truck, and beat on my window. I cracked it, and she had asked me if I could give her a ride home, seeing as though she claimed to have no way home. I tried stalling, and eventually relented to giving her a ride home (future event gave me info that she did in fact have a ride, but the person giving her a ride told her to try again with me, by asking me for a ride home, in order to be alone with me, as a means to attempt to seduce me). Mind you, it was the middle of summer, I rolled down the windows because it was relatively cool, and the AC was unnecessary. She kept complaining about how hot it was, so I said that I could roll up the window and turn on the AC. She exclaimed "No!", as she proceeded to take off her shirt in my car. She had no bra on. Being a stone-faced person, I did not react (besides, my GF's boobs were a lot better looking, and hers looked like eggs on a wire), She tried numerous times to get my hand off the shift knob (yes, Millennial anti-theft, Chad Manual Transmission) to place my hands on her floppy chesticles... I immediately stopped the car and said, "You know what, we are less than 5 minutes walking distance from your house, you can walk the rest of the way!" She pleaded for me to not kick her out of my car. I then said, "If that is the case, put your F-ing shirt back on, and calm down!". She did just that. When I pulled up to her house in the largest City next county over, she asked me if I could help her take some bags (filled with food leftovers from the party), to her house. I agreed with the stipulation that i was taking it only ro the porch, and am leaving. She agreed. When I took the bags to the porch, she blurted out that she could "rock my world and change my mind", and I laughed in an obnoxiously arrogant way, and said, "Lady, you have issues that I cant help you with. You haven't a chance in hell to make me change my mind. Have a nice night....", and I left. Fast forward 2 weeks, and my family was having our "once per month family dinner", where my stepfather (retired, late 60's) and mother would cook and myself, my two brothers (who are twins), my stepsister with her husband, my biological sister and her kids, as well as a host of other kids would come over. The house is full with around 20-25 close family members. And the brother-in-law brought up how I flatly rejected his cousin's advances. He asked "What's up with that?!? You are single, you're not gay, and you had a chick ready to jump your bones at any moment, and you denied her?". I sighed in an exasperated tone... "(Insert name), you know what? She was just not my type!" My biological sister had met one of my ex girlfriends who was from Brazil. My sister exclaimed, "Well, he was dating this one white woman (she had no idea my ex was Brazilian), with HUUUUGE knockers and an hourglass figure..." My mom interjected, "As far as I know, he just dont like black women....". At this point, I just facepalmed. I blurted out, "I don't give a shit about race. I am all about personality, and the personality type I am attracted to, is rare among black women!". I turned my head to my biological sister (she is 12 years younger than me, so she was 31 at the time), "You should know.... I dated your hoghschool and college friend, (name starts with M, and she is an anime and videogame nerd... Not a weeb, but just a nerd who loved 1990's anime), she is black, I liked her personality, but she could take or leave my personality, and we remained friends." Then I turned my head forward and stared into nothing, while stating loudly (my family knows this about me, considering my military history, that if I stare blankly at no one, and speak loudly, this is addressed to everyone within hearing distance), "I prefer nerdy type women, and not party girls. I cant stand women who's impression to me, is to get high and drink. That woman was a stereotype to me, and in no way am I interested in that. I do not want this in my life, because it would jeopardize my way of living. I am actually seeing someone, and in due time, you will meet her. Until that arrangement has been met, i am done with this subject.". My family was in disbelief, and demanded that I show them a picture, stating the childish, "Picture or she doesnt exist", nonsense. I did have one selfie of us sitting on the couch together, that she had taken, and she text messaged it to me, a few months back.... I proceeded to show them. "Called it! He only likes white women", my mother exclaimed. I facepalmed, and said, "Did you not hear what I said? I dont give a shit about race. I have you know, we met at her job (she is the store manager), and we began talking about Ninja Turtles, when I remarked how she resembled April O'Neil from the 1980's cartoon, and she was amused by that, because she was a huge fan of all of the Ninja Turtles versions, and that she collects the old school action figures. As a gift, I went to a comic book store to find an old school Ninja Turtle action figure, and once I gave it to her, *SHE asked me out!"* Everyone fell silent. After what seemed an eternity, My stepfather blurted out, "Well, did you see that game earlier today (it was sunday), our team got beaten horrendously....." I remained largely silent for the majority of the dinner. My Brother-in-law approached me as I was leaving, and said, "Dude, you didnt have to be so intense... I don't mind the fact that you rejected my cousin, I just want to be like a big brother, and look out for you....", being the snarky A-hole that I can be, I asked him, "(insert name), How old is your wife?" He replied, "44, you know this...." I continued, "How much older than you, is she?" He said, "Well, she is 4 years and 3 months older... Why?", I replied, "She is only 8 months older than me. Respect your elders." His eyes bulged like saucers, as I turned and walked away.
Yes, I was the jerk.
Strory 5: wow just wow :/
The wedding story, unless bride AND groom agree and are ok with, DON'T PURPOSE! This is a hill i will die on. If groom is ok with it but bride isn't, dont it. If bride is ok with it but groom isn't, don't do it. Its thst simple.
First person is lucky they are not dead.
He can get past immigration quite easily. American citizen who was booted from the military and the military will get him back into the US
Story 2... maybe the OP should announce his wife being pregnant during his brother's wedding. Shoe on the other foot ... then say "Psyche"!
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hoop tie
Any reason there is no audio?
That last story is just awful- The OP isn't responsible for her and the mom is being way overbearing and clingy. It's understandable that she's having a hard time, but OP isn't her therapist.
In my opinion, regardless of your kid's age, making them your personal therapist as a parent is the worst thing you can do, and the OP isn't the jerk for that.
The 2nd) yes you are the ah, business should be separate from family, like he can file a lawsuit against you. Instead I'd cut contact with him outside of work and never invite him to any other parties
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I dont feel bad for soldier in story 1 at all, dude really punched a guy over a minor fender bender after being offered 500$ to fix it all just to ruin his own life thats pretty pathetic and anyone willing to punch someone else in a situation like this is just as pathetic
For number 5 with all that shit the mom is talking id just block her because idc how much you are grieving the second you try to guilt trip me into anything i will immediately stop caring about any sadness your feeling because guilt tripping isnt something i will tolerate even a little bit
That's what happens when steroids get involved.
Story 4: I don't think a 7-8 year difference with the younger person being in their mid 20s is all that bad, especially if the older person looks a tad youthful.
I just think the bride's unconsciously racist
at least the groom isn't angry at his best man, because they're friends.
I didn't think I had a similar situation with my mom when I introduced her to my girlfriend and she really shocked me when she says but all the girls you happiness School you pick a white girl believe she's she would say something like that and so racist
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OP1: Guy has no place in the military. Or society really. Just the fact that he expected the military to protect him shows he isnt even intelligent enough to be.
I'm surprised he didnt get a dishonorable discharge over everything.
Possible he did, Article 15s are a much quicker process as well as only the first step. Could still be separated and OP just doesnt have any update on that yet. He could also be referred too court martial. On the same note though, I'm slightly laughing to myself about OP saying UMCJ and calling it a court as well.
I was going to say cells
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It would be a different matter if op went on to Kelly and wouldn't take no for an answer. Women's double standards
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I just fire him on the spot
Bro the thimbnail showed a marine
....it's _"Hoop-Tee"_ pfft
K. O.
I think.... You are the jerk for firing him.
Eh, second story op sounds like a jerk.
Not that being angry isn't understandable. But as long as he was good at work, I wouldn’t take anger about a personal slight and fire someone over it.
WOW after the reaction in the video and the comments I am questioning humanity lol. Is this an American thing, that your wedding day can not be nice for anyone but you?! I would be happy about my brother proposing at my wedding, it would make it so much more special lol (i would have discussed it beforehand tho).
It's more a western thing. There is more to the West than just Wackyland.
It's weird all right and also racist I mean he only hooked you up with her because she happens to be black as well
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1st story: KUDOS BRO! Good for you!
2nd story: I get that it is not the best idea to propose a a wedding, but it is your brother. What kind of pathetic loser fires his brother over this?! I would have been happy for my brother, it would make the wedding even greater.
Story 2: No, there's no two sides to the story. The brother is the asshole plain and simple. You don't expect to or request to propose at someone else's wedding. It's 100% selfish. But yes the op is still wrong for carrying out a wrongful termination under retaliation. Severance aside, if your brother was any bit intelligent regarding labor and employment laws. You'd be in some decent trouble if he contacted a lawyer. Termination through retaliation is not covered under 'at will employment' and it would be easily proven in court why your brothers employment was terminated.
Actually the soldier was in the right to want a police report and the OP ignored the request. If it were me, I would've called the police regardless because by OP's refusal to have a police report it seemed he was hiding something.
I was thinking the same thing.
op crash into this guy's car by accident and he punched him in the face that's a thing called overreacting.
@@viviennemorgan7217 But as OP didn't want police involvement, it calls the entire story into question. I have a feeling that the entire story was completely made up or he gave the other guy a legitimate reason to punch him and conveniently left that part out of the story.
@@magic8ball1982 nah op crashed the fender bender by accident and as he told this solider that he's sorry and doesn't want the police involved hoping that it will all blow over but no the solider reacted very badly
That guy that fired his brother is definitely wrong. I understand how that is disrespectful but firing him over that is too far
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No you are not
@@florentinavasile2582yes he is
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Ok first Im a girl second when i made the comment the video was posted a couple of seconds before
@@Isa_marshmellow OK sorry for not knowing who you are
business should be separate from you personal life. if he was a good worker then why get rid of him. you talk it out when you go home and do what you gotta do but keep business out of that shit. unprofessional.
Nah actions have consequences
Yet Warner Bros decided to fire Johnny Depp from Fantastic Beasts due to his personal life...
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Ur not there is 7 people before you
I Know I found out after
@@florentinavasile2582 ok
I'm the 1st view
Story 3: Bride is a racist, OP has some 🦝tendencies... everyone sucks in that story
Ya right im not believing rhe titlw story XD