Why men Like you More When You Don’t Care

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  • @Beautyforashes613_
    @Beautyforashes613_ 6 місяців тому +200

    Men just like the chase.. once you start showing u care. They run. Smh

    • @jelizabethpetrie6656
      @jelizabethpetrie6656 6 місяців тому

      Exactly…men aka boys are still the caveman mentality of pursue (hunt), conquer and onto the next pursuit, my husband said this like they got the bride, mission accomplished now onto conquering the job (or some- the next woman they desire)…Noticed this raising our son. Used to call this ‘oppositional defiance disorder”, if the girl he liked, liked him back, then he quickly lost interest and instead pined after the next girl who ignored him…A term floated around their clique….Treat boys like crap, they follow you like puppies.

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 6 місяців тому +12

      I think it's because polarity is gone if both are pursuing. You both can't be in the masculine role. Its emasculating if the woman pursues him.

    • @xw6475
      @xw6475 6 місяців тому +6

      Sadly but its true

    • @creatureofstyle
      @creatureofstyle 6 місяців тому +5

      Yup

    • @tigerpaws111
      @tigerpaws111 6 місяців тому +30

      so just constantly keep them in that state? it's win win because you can focus mainly on yourself and also have a man love you

  • @originalgoldengoddess
    @originalgoldengoddess 6 місяців тому +73

    Me not caring is not me playing. If i come across like i dont care.... then i genuinely don't care. No games just straight up thats how it is.

  • @basicinfo2022
    @basicinfo2022 6 місяців тому +27

    He will start caring about you when you stop caring about him. Let the man be the man. Stop caring and loving him more than he does.

    • @grumblydoore8551
      @grumblydoore8551 5 місяців тому +1

      Yes cause he’s weak and has no options other than you.

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 5 місяців тому

      No, masculine men are attracted to feminine women who act like they are the prize in the romantic relationship. Its called polarity. @@grumblydoore8551

  • @teanna4569
    @teanna4569 6 місяців тому +32

    I stay in IDGF mode, this guy think he got me wrapped around his finger under he stop initiating and thought I was gonna chase ha 😂, jokes on you .. I fell back then he texted like why we go from talking everyday to barely talking, I knew it was a test, like boy I can show warmth and affection and still detach and ghost you like ain’t nothing happened this confuses every guy I date, iam naturally and affectionate person but me keeping them at a distance confuses them they think I don’t like them, I show interest but keep they don’t know what to think but it keeps them hooked forever and ever, I got a guy that’s been lingering for 12 yrs 😂😂😂.. that game is over and he still on it lmao, I take 3-6 hrs to respond to messages but I can be warm inconsistently lol, it’s levels to me liking you,

    • @grumblydoore8551
      @grumblydoore8551 5 місяців тому

      You sound so bitter. You’re lonely and miserable. Jokes on YOU. don’t worry you still have your “pride” and “ego” tho.

  • @starchildmia9332
    @starchildmia9332 6 місяців тому +40

    Because human nature is sick. Everything in this world is a paradox. Good is treated badly, and vice versa

    • @luxbeauty4952
      @luxbeauty4952 6 місяців тому +7

      It’s not human nature. They don’t want to commit period and are loooking to play games. So once you like them it scares them and game is over. They’re different

  • @gmafia4049
    @gmafia4049 6 місяців тому +112

    Hate is more of the turn on than Love CRAZY 😂😂😂

    • @Erica-cf1xb
      @Erica-cf1xb 6 місяців тому +7

      Because all roads lead to freak offs. Haters know this. Anyone can get it. Real nasty.

    • @gracelikerain5039
      @gracelikerain5039 6 місяців тому +2

      😂

    • @MahloliMakhetha
      @MahloliMakhetha 6 місяців тому +2

      😂😂

    • @incogb6696
      @incogb6696 6 місяців тому +1

      No .. they just manipulated you

  • @nenaperez3395
    @nenaperez3395 6 місяців тому +95

    Crazy, you always center me and remind me that i don’t need to rush, get anxious, or fearful.
    It always goes back to being confident. Thank Dr. Alex 🙂

    • @hashh2019
      @hashh2019 6 місяців тому +3

      i know this is unsolicited but your picture is crazy. you are beautiful girl but you really need to work on your insecurities- tone the physical stuff down n grow your soul, be at peace n someone good will come your way.
      sorry to say this out of the blue but pictures like that attract the wrong guy for the wrong goal and the good ones don’t even try.
      sorry again but im just giving a good advice that may sound harsh. peace to you

    • @jibarabicha4853
      @jibarabicha4853 6 місяців тому

      @@hashh2019You can look classy and still attract DUSTIES. Leave that girl alone. Such a weird comment to leave a complete stranger.

    • @grumblydoore8551
      @grumblydoore8551 5 місяців тому

      Your time has gone 🤣

  • @princessak21
    @princessak21 6 місяців тому +41

    This came so on time - I was telling my friends just yesterday the reason why am single in because when I don’t like a guy he likes me and if I do like them they don’t like me - I swear that’s been the story of my life 😅

    • @VivSees
      @VivSees 6 місяців тому +5

      Story of 90% of people even those in marriages

    • @tinyking11
      @tinyking11 6 місяців тому +15

      Same here so now I don’t like anybody. 😂 I just want the money, I don’t care about love or feelings anymore. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @b.services9851
      @b.services9851 6 місяців тому +2

      Lmao 😂that’s why you gotta follow Alex advices. Try to be behave like you don’t care & let him lead!

    • @grumblydoore8551
      @grumblydoore8551 5 місяців тому

      Like 90% of women you want what you can’t have the tall rich guy cause you think you’re more attractive than you really are so you don’t wanna settle for “less” bud when you’re older the men you thought you were better than become better and they marry a younger moe feminjne girl.

    • @princessak21
      @princessak21 3 місяці тому

      @@b.services9851 I’m doing this now and it’s working girls

  • @SamSam-ph5uj
    @SamSam-ph5uj 6 місяців тому +50

    if you show a bit of coldness they may take it as non interest and move on to someone who is interested. so this tactic does not work all the time.

    • @Sweetness092
      @Sweetness092 6 місяців тому +27

      Exactly some men don’t like mind games they move on ..

    • @kimora7964
      @kimora7964 6 місяців тому +79

      U are thinking from a place of fear. If they move on.. u were not valuable to them. At least then u know they are not good for you.

    • @gabrielnadia1085
      @gabrielnadia1085 6 місяців тому +39

      Yes they move on to someone who is interested, because they were not there to STAY in the first place😂 and give their best. Better off without them.😊😊

    • @miami7446
      @miami7446 6 місяців тому +6

      Remember, he's not saying to be a terminator. However, I do think even if you aren't - with men like this, they were unsure/not that interested to begin with. My thoughts anyway.

    • @Ohdarling_
      @Ohdarling_ 6 місяців тому +17

      Girl get up!!! Stop being weak

  • @brittnyy113
    @brittnyy113 6 місяців тому +12

    Sad that it has to be this way but it's true! It's always when I'm Ms. Nice Girl that men play me or hurt me. But the men i ignore, walk away from, or treat like sh!t, they treat me like a Queen!! Why are men this way??!!

    • @tinyking11
      @tinyking11 6 місяців тому +8

      When a woman is treating a man terribly his ego isn’t being stroked, he loves the chase also he’s constantly seeking validation from the mean girl. It’s all about winning when it comes to a man. It’s toxic & weird to me but that’s their mindset. That’s why you should always choose the man that likes you more than you like him. You will benefit more from the relationship bc he will cater to you.

    • @yannicknixon479
      @yannicknixon479 6 місяців тому

      Its human nature. Its the same with women. The women idgaf about loovee tf out of me. The ones i show i care just be playing. I guess we’ll forever be toxic with this kinda advice

  • @samanthaguirado4280
    @samanthaguirado4280 6 місяців тому +14

    For me personally I notice I’m more talkative when I don’t like them and will sound more nervous if I do 🤣

    • @nebitnoprezime9871
      @nebitnoprezime9871 6 місяців тому

      That’s so me girl😅

    • @Beautyforashes613_
      @Beautyforashes613_ 6 місяців тому +2

      That’s bc when u don’t like them u have nothing to prove… so it comes off as a friendly conversation rather than you trying ur hardest to get him to like everything about u(like when u like a guy)

  • @tabythadiamond827
    @tabythadiamond827 6 місяців тому +11

    You constantly saying to develop a meditation practice has absolutely changed my life and my emotional well-being and I don't have enough thank yous to say to thank you enough father Alex 🙏🏾 God bless you

  • @UknownWorlds
    @UknownWorlds 6 місяців тому +5

    Honestly I am listening but this is not what I want. If I stop caring then I just do and Inkove foward. I won't care of my crushes opinions etc. They had a chance to get to know me and they lost. Its time to move foward to someone that will trully appreciate me whole heartedly as I will do them. That's what I want to attract. Where we can both come whole and be willing to truly know each other.

  • @LunakieCherrie
    @LunakieCherrie 6 місяців тому +4

    He’s not as caring to me even tho he pays for my bills but he’s always busy and I really want to change things.
    I’ll be starting this and start caring for myself

  • @whyjustwhy2168
    @whyjustwhy2168 6 місяців тому +7

    Yeah I just leave the person alone. Find another....have so many in rotation at all times. You won't care trust me

  • @Lesah_
    @Lesah_ 6 місяців тому +9

    This is why you must do rotational dating

    • @tinyking11
      @tinyking11 6 місяців тому +4

      THIS‼️🙌🏽🔥 Always date multiple people so you won’t be afraid to lose that person.

  • @luckyjessica3518
    @luckyjessica3518 6 місяців тому +6

    I’m so purchasing that course!! Ive been wanting something like that from you!

  • @ME-rj9gb
    @ME-rj9gb 2 місяці тому

    I'm just going to focus on my God, higher self, and my money. I don't have time being who I'm not. Thank you.

  • @xw6475
    @xw6475 6 місяців тому +3

    Father Alex, you are so so right about the trauma. Would you please make a video about how to overcome your neediness?

    • @brookr.1737
      @brookr.1737 5 місяців тому

      Now why you calling this ordinary man, Father. Get up off your knees girl, cmon sis

    • @xw6475
      @xw6475 5 місяців тому

      @@brookr.1737 sis, what do you mean by get off my knees?

  • @Kleopatra_vault
    @Kleopatra_vault 6 місяців тому +8

    🩵🩵🩵Please Alex, 🩷🩷🩷make a video on prince William and Kate. The Relationship is toxic asf. He don’t even want to stand next to her. I believe he got rid of her. 😢

    • @beigenegress2979
      @beigenegress2979 6 місяців тому +1

      William did that girl so dirty!
      He ran out the “daylight ours” on the “clock” of her youth and beauty!
      I’m not saying she’s unattractive now or when he FINALLY married her, but he kept her waiting for the entire decade of her youth!
      Chile!

    • @xv900
      @xv900 6 місяців тому +1

      That’s what happen when you chase the man .. she spied like crazy to meet him «naturally »
      Lmaoo

    • @PreYeah
      @PreYeah 5 місяців тому +1

      Wow, I actually had no idea that Prince William and Kate’s relationship was like that! It was always Harry and Meghan coming under the spotlight with how strenuous their relationship was.
      Was William not wanting to stand by Kate and stringing her along mentioned in Prince Harry’s book?

  • @CCrockergirl
    @CCrockergirl 6 місяців тому +1

    Well I’ve been certainly acting like I don’t care.. so hopefully it’s working ..

  • @caliblue2
    @caliblue2 6 місяців тому +10

    Without having watched the video The reason is they’re smart not to care. If all men want the same thing and a woman “cares” how many men would she care about? It’s all about being selective.

    • @creatureofstyle
      @creatureofstyle 6 місяців тому

      Yes, but then when I selected him and actually decided to care for him after 3 years he decided not to show up and seemed to lose interest quickly 🙄 Idiot

  • @peypeyyy96
    @peypeyyy96 5 місяців тому

    Blast from the past for me! I haven't seen you in forever in my recommendation. Last time i remember watching you your tooth was chipped? Glad to see your still making good content ❤

  • @Silvijais
    @Silvijais 6 місяців тому +3

    After long time i clicked on your topic ..something i know but strugle is real.😂

  • @steph6109
    @steph6109 6 місяців тому +12

    Is this all men or just avoidant men.
    Theres a big difference between triggering an avoidant attachment and triggering a primal chase of a 'high status female'

    • @PreYeah
      @PreYeah 5 місяців тому

      Good question! I’d like to know this too.

  • @lauraschouweiler-sy1os
    @lauraschouweiler-sy1os 2 місяці тому

    This is good advice!

  • @autotelicstate33
    @autotelicstate33 27 днів тому

    If you don’t like them that much let them gooooooo

  • @neemyneemuneemy6502
    @neemyneemuneemy6502 6 місяців тому +1

    What is father Alex's prescription to pain
    Him :"Meditation"
    😂

  • @bungleboy7
    @bungleboy7 6 місяців тому +3

    I'm actually really interested how did your personal behaviour with women get changed over the years by practicing meditation? Will that come with time or even after few meditation sessions?

  • @Shay_845
    @Shay_845 6 місяців тому +2

    Do you have a bundle for all courses together? In a previous video you did and included bonuses but I can’t remember which video it was. Thanks.

  • @user-nd3db4vk6x
    @user-nd3db4vk6x 4 місяці тому

    Can you make more videos on this topic it’s soooooo true 😮

  • @jenbrady7566
    @jenbrady7566 2 місяці тому

    Great video

  • @user-yk9sk7pg6v
    @user-yk9sk7pg6v 6 місяців тому +1

    thanks, ALEX

  • @user-kc3un6qk2w
    @user-kc3un6qk2w 6 місяців тому +1

    I really appreciate you

  • @NatBruneaux
    @NatBruneaux 5 місяців тому

    Not you using Seals niece line 😂

  • @Curvy_runway
    @Curvy_runway 5 місяців тому

    Truth!

  • @terrylu1843
    @terrylu1843 6 місяців тому +1

    Very true

  • @LL-ub3ey
    @LL-ub3ey 6 місяців тому

    Would u make a video on how to not feel guilty after breaking up with a good man.

  • @veronika9279
    @veronika9279 5 місяців тому

    Why didn’t I see this earlier 😢

  • @beigenegress2979
    @beigenegress2979 6 місяців тому +4

    It’s true. I don’t really date, but sometimes I’m on Soc media spaces of BW who date IR, chile!
    The majority of BW don’t date IR and aren’t even interested, but there is a hyper focus on BW who date IR/marry IR, by you-know-who.
    The stories i could tell about this madness! 😮

    • @yannicknixon479
      @yannicknixon479 6 місяців тому

      What does IR mean?

    • @beigenegress2979
      @beigenegress2979 6 місяців тому

      @@yannicknixon479 Date/Marry IR -Interracial or “IR”

    • @humilis42
      @humilis42 6 місяців тому

      ⁠who is “you know who”?

    • @humilis42
      @humilis42 6 місяців тому

      @@beigenegress2979
      What?

  • @maryborrego4981
    @maryborrego4981 6 місяців тому +5

    This isn't always true 😅

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 6 місяців тому +2

      Well duh there are always exceptions 😅

  • @gabrielleihunde1477
    @gabrielleihunde1477 6 місяців тому

    Nice hair

  • @sharonhammonds5244
    @sharonhammonds5244 4 місяці тому

    Sad game.

  • @zainabrose96
    @zainabrose96 3 місяці тому

    damn

  • @grumblydoore8551
    @grumblydoore8551 5 місяців тому

    You mean Simps with no options 🤣

  • @Pandababyy247
    @Pandababyy247 6 місяців тому +1

    💋🌹💋💋

  • @mimekodesigngroup853
    @mimekodesigngroup853 6 місяців тому

    Father Alex I have noticed your seem to have a lot of inflammation/mucus…