#2 I married my high school boyfriend. I went to college and he went straight to work. We’ve now been together 25 years; married 19. Do not let some random chick on the internet talk you into throwing relationships away for no good reason. People aren’t disposable. If it’s time to end things anyway that’s one thing, but this advice is frankly crap.
I would say for the most part, Highschool relationships arent the most serious things and it is hard to justify making life altering decisions just to be closer to your boyfriend, obviously it worked out for you so thats great, but i think for most people its not the way to go.
@@beckettferguson4888 I’m not saying people should change their career plans or give up on personal goals. What I’m saying is the advice to automatically break up just because high school is done is arbitrary at best.
Agreed. My husband and I started dating our freshman year of high school and we got married 4 years later right after graduating… i don’t regret a thing
This is the reassurance I need! I'm an incoming freshman and my girlfriend is a senior and people have been hesitant about us moving into this new stage of my life but I love her so dearly and would never wanna break up just because I'm going to a new school in a new town. Thank you for keeping mine and her dream of high school sweethearts alive, you're a saint!
A lot of this is awful advice. You don’t necessarily get a choice in your class schedule, especially freshman year. In the working world you don’t just “get fridays off”. Taking even just one class on a Friday keeps you busy and focused on school. And if you’re so quick to dump your boyfriend because of a location change, you’re easily the problem and I hope he finds someone worth his time.
Nah on the boyfriend. I started dating my boyfriend at 13, we weren’t going to end a 5 year relationship just because I was starting college and he was going into the military. We’ve now been together for 7 years and are engaged, don’t ruin a good relationship for no reason. Love isn’t disposable.
exactly. if you would’ve ended things once you went off to college and he was in the military bc it really didn’t work out, at least you tried. giving it up not even knowing if the relationship will last though, is kind of an irrational decision. happy you and your fiancé took that chance and i wish you all of the best in the many many chapters of your life together!
I’m gonna be honest Incoming freshman usually don’t have that much control over their classes. It’s not always as simple as just “not taking” a Friday class
Yeah exactly like I was just told by my advisor that i had to take my math class every day, including friday. Monday, wednesday, friday classes are so common too like i wish but we don't control that.
Yeah, for my Friday class, everything was taken except that Friday class. My Tuesday class is at night, and I would've chosen something else if that class wasn't the only one not completely full.
You owe money with community college as well & plus community college limit your degree level it’s a good starter to get your associates and then transfer but if you got high career path goals you may need student loans & to attend graduate & university colleges
Pro tip, don’t listen to this girl. If you have a strong relationship in high school don’t break it just because of university, you need an actual reason why the relationship isn’t working to justify breaking up. Almost all of the strongest marriages are between people who started dating young. Theres been tons of study’s done that say that as the amount of relationships someone has increase, male or female, the less likely it is that when they marry someone the marriage will last. The likelihood of being happy during that marriage also decreases every time the amount of previous partners rises. My parents started dating at 15 and have been married happily for 34 years. My uncle started dating his wife at 17 and has been married for 40 years. I may agree to the statement ‘don’t compromise your dreams or where you want to go to school just to stay with a high school boyfriend, and don’t try long distance since it will never work in university’ but her take is stupid. Also, what degrees can you take where you have a small enough course load and enough freedom to not take Fridays classes? Anything to do with science or engineering makes you take 5-7 classes a semester with at least three labs a semester and buisness schools usually have you taking the same, except their labs are presentations or case studies. That leaves art’s degrees, which aren’t worth taking in the first place. I’m in engineering, but the arts options I’ve had to take have all been so unbelievably easy that I didn’t have to study, outside of homework assignments, even once, and yet the lowest grade I got in any of the 5 classes I took was 96. Anything that easy isn’t worth 20 grand a year to be learning.
not her saying that your shouldn’t date your bf from high school in college like bffr a lot of people end up marrying their high school sweetheart plus imagine saying to your partner “sorry i have to break up with you cuz im going to college” like what that’s so stupid. don’t break up with someone just because you’re going to college if you have a healthy and nontoxic relationship. plus please don’t drink in college and don’t drink period but especially in college. college is a place to learn not to mess around and party, you’ll have time for that afterwards.
exactly my boyfriend and I plan to stay together and try to make it work. Even if it will be difficult we are both willing to try. Plus I need to be focused on my studies anyway, not trying to find new potential partners lmao
@@idkaname1539 real imo learning is more important than partying/hooking up/looking for more partners. like ppl rlly pay thousands of dollars to go to college just to skip class?
@@shevontea I agree wholeheartedly. Education is an investment and people should always make the best out of it and use the resources around them to better their education.
Unless your going to different schools and you know one of you will inevitably get drunk, fuck some rando, and sever your relationship, id always say to keep them. Going to a new school is a dumb reason to break up, especially if your both going together
@@orange_turtle3412 fr like if ur partner is gonna end up cheating and college isn’t a healthy environment for them to stay monogamous and yk that then break up. but then again if they cheat it’s their fault and you should always break up if they do.
Ask for help. How is this not on there? If youre struggling with something and you have an exam soon, don't assume it won't be on the test because IT ALWAYS IS! Ask your professors, ask the people around you, get a group together. It's not high school where you can just not study and still get a good score. If you don't study for a college exam, you're fucked. So throw away your pride for like an hour and ask for help.
Thank you for the advice because I'm planning on going to college after I graduate highschool and I'm planning on calling my mother often especially when I get into college🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Usually you should bring your high school bf to college but in some scenarios, you can. My bestfriends parents fell in love at 15 and went to college together! ❤
Avoid getting a job your first year. You want to be a student full time to make sure you get as many credits as possible and so you can enjoy college life. Apply to scholarships and get a meal plan to support your academics. If you absolutely need to work contact your school about how you can make sure you get all your credits.
Pick a major that will land you a JOB! Few majors do. The only ones I know for sure are: Engineering Nursing Medical school Law school Anything medical: MRI Nuclear Medicine Ultrasound
Please, I don’t recommend breaking up unless you’re in a terrible situation with your relationship. A change in your lifestyle shouldn’t be what makes or breaks your relationships
Also, work while going to college so u don’t have to take out loans. Find overnight jobs that have tons of down time where u can do assignments and pay tuition cash. Do NOT take out loans if u don’t have to.
Don’t let your high school boyfriend change the course of your life. However, if things are good, I see nothing wrong with trying long distance. If it works it works, just make sure you two aren’t making too many sacrifices that’ll alter your futures (unless you want to)
Im never going to take Friday classes because I have a buddy who's mom went to MSU and she took a Friday class and it took her until like 8pm and didn't get home until like 10:30
Only time id really make the argument not to bring your bf/gf to college is if they’re going somewhere super far away and you’ll barely ever see each other. When your that distant, someone will inevitably fuck someone else and it will end on bad terms. Better to end it on good terms and not risk the heartbreak. But if your going to the same college, you’ll probably only get closer since your living in the same place. Hell, I know people who met in HS, go to different (nearby) colleges, and im still pretty confident they’ll take it all the way to marriage
@@Wanda-v4b Yeah. I tend to notice there are 2 main kinds of relationships: the “im only in it for the sex/status” type where its really just prolonged infatuation, and the people that have actual genuine love for each other. Ive seen the second work really well even at long distance, but the first will probably fail because you arent actually that dedicated and have more chance to get with someone else
Break up with high school girl/boyfriend?! Really? Doesn’t that seem like a pretty big generalization to say to everyone that they don’t need that person? My parents met in high school, and it worked out.
this is awful advice if you actually want to be successful in life 1. take all classes push through hard work it will be worth it when your successful work hard to play hard 2. personally i wouldn’t date casually i date to marry but its just your preference but dont give up on relationships so easily like that 3. WORST ADVICE I HEARD. DONT LET YOURSELF GET PEER PRESSURED UNDERSTAND YOUR LIMITS SO DONT DRINK IF YOU DONT WANT TO WHO CARES IF ITS NOT A CUTE LOOK DONT CARE ABOUT PLEASING OTHERS LIKE THAT
California is beautiful and Los Angeles has a lot of wonderful areas especially USC. The politicians and the fools that voted for them are what’s making it bad. The state is amazing. People who love it should fight for it. Not abandon it…
@@a.h.i267 what a bad comment. Throwing the first stone refers to a physical act, as was a custom at the time. Anyone found committing adultery were to be killed, stoning them being one form of punishment. So, what you're trying to say here isn't correct at all. It is not wrong to say, "that is a sin". you made such a smart comment a.h.i good job!!
as a non-drinker, the majority of people are going to drink anyway and they need good advice on how to do it as safely as possible. “Ease into it” is good advice. Don’t get blackout drunk your first time, guys.
#2
I married my high school boyfriend. I went to college and he went straight to work. We’ve now been together 25 years; married 19. Do not let some random chick on the internet talk you into throwing relationships away for no good reason. People aren’t disposable. If it’s time to end things anyway that’s one thing, but this advice is frankly crap.
I would say for the most part, Highschool relationships arent the most serious things and it is hard to justify making life altering decisions just to be closer to your boyfriend, obviously it worked out for you so thats great, but i think for most people its not the way to go.
@@beckettferguson4888 I’m not saying people should change their career plans or give up on personal goals. What I’m saying is the advice to automatically break up just because high school is done is arbitrary at best.
@@Wanda-v4b thats fair
Agreed. My husband and I started dating our freshman year of high school and we got married 4 years later right after graduating… i don’t regret a thing
This is the reassurance I need! I'm an incoming freshman and my girlfriend is a senior and people have been hesitant about us moving into this new stage of my life but I love her so dearly and would never wanna break up just because I'm going to a new school in a new town. Thank you for keeping mine and her dream of high school sweethearts alive, you're a saint!
A lot of this is awful advice. You don’t necessarily get a choice in your class schedule, especially freshman year. In the working world you don’t just “get fridays off”. Taking even just one class on a Friday keeps you busy and focused on school. And if you’re so quick to dump your boyfriend because of a location change, you’re easily the problem and I hope he finds someone worth his time.
Exactly. Also, professors aren't stupid. I mean, they will give important material on Friday that comes on the test.
Nah on the boyfriend. I started dating my boyfriend at 13, we weren’t going to end a 5 year relationship just because I was starting college and he was going into the military. We’ve now been together for 7 years and are engaged, don’t ruin a good relationship for no reason. Love isn’t disposable.
Awesome doesn’t even sound possible but I hope you guys last forever
@@Messup7654 it's a really cute story. I wish them the same
exactly. if you would’ve ended things once you went off to college and he was in the military bc it really didn’t work out, at least you tried. giving it up not even knowing if the relationship will last though, is kind of an irrational decision. happy you and your fiancé took that chance and i wish you all of the best in the many many chapters of your life together!
This is the exception, not the rule though.
I’m gonna be honest Incoming freshman usually don’t have that much control over their classes. It’s not always as simple as just “not taking” a Friday class
Yeah exactly like I was just told by my advisor that i had to take my math class every day, including friday. Monday, wednesday, friday classes are so common too like i wish but we don't control that.
Obviously she means if you have the option to
Yeah, for my Friday class, everything was taken except that Friday class. My Tuesday class is at night, and I would've chosen something else if that class wasn't the only one not completely full.
Team high school sweethearts 🤍
Im going into college this year with my girlfriend- def team highschool sweat hearts
Don't take out student loans.
Go to community College.
Exactly!!! They NEVER go away
You owe money with community college as well & plus community college limit your degree level it’s a good starter to get your associates and then transfer but if you got high career path goals you may need student loans & to attend graduate & university colleges
YES. And apply to student aid even if you don’t think you qualify because there’s a chance you do.
@@Cyancat123 To end up paying it back with interest? #SayNo2Usury
Nahhh girl that’s where you cross the line I WILL NEVER BREAK UP MY GIRLFRIEND just because I’m going to college next fall
good for you if you can do that. but people change alot and need to live. thats all ima say
@@mistyybrooke I half agree
4 years of getting ran through by half the dorm
ONG😂😂
Don't smash in college it might end bad.
stay strong fellas you'll find someone who cares
😂😂😂😂
I married my high school boyfriend. I’m in my 40’s and have no regrets. I 100% agree with you. Good people deserve effort.
Pro tip, don’t listen to this girl. If you have a strong relationship in high school don’t break it just because of university, you need an actual reason why the relationship isn’t working to justify breaking up. Almost all of the strongest marriages are between people who started dating young. Theres been tons of study’s done that say that as the amount of relationships someone has increase, male or female, the less likely it is that when they marry someone the marriage will last. The likelihood of being happy during that marriage also decreases every time the amount of previous partners rises. My parents started dating at 15 and have been married happily for 34 years. My uncle started dating his wife at 17 and has been married for 40 years. I may agree to the statement ‘don’t compromise your dreams or where you want to go to school just to stay with a high school boyfriend, and don’t try long distance since it will never work in university’ but her take is stupid.
Also, what degrees can you take where you have a small enough course load and enough freedom to not take Fridays classes? Anything to do with science or engineering makes you take 5-7 classes a semester with at least three labs a semester and buisness schools usually have you taking the same, except their labs are presentations or case studies. That leaves art’s degrees, which aren’t worth taking in the first place. I’m in engineering, but the arts options I’ve had to take have all been so unbelievably easy that I didn’t have to study, outside of homework assignments, even once, and yet the lowest grade I got in any of the 5 classes I took was 96. Anything that easy isn’t worth 20 grand a year to be learning.
not her saying that your shouldn’t date your bf from high school in college like bffr a lot of people end up marrying their high school sweetheart plus imagine saying to your partner “sorry i have to break up with you cuz im going to college” like what that’s so stupid. don’t break up with someone just because you’re going to college if you have a healthy and nontoxic relationship. plus please don’t drink in college and don’t drink period but especially in college. college is a place to learn not to mess around and party, you’ll have time for that afterwards.
exactly my boyfriend and I plan to stay together and try to make it work. Even if it will be difficult we are both willing to try. Plus I need to be focused on my studies anyway, not trying to find new potential partners lmao
@@idkaname1539 real imo learning is more important than partying/hooking up/looking for more partners. like ppl rlly pay thousands of dollars to go to college just to skip class?
@@shevontea I agree wholeheartedly. Education is an investment and people should always make the best out of it and use the resources around them to better their education.
Unless your going to different schools and you know one of you will inevitably get drunk, fuck some rando, and sever your relationship, id always say to keep them. Going to a new school is a dumb reason to break up, especially if your both going together
@@orange_turtle3412 fr like if ur partner is gonna end up cheating and college isn’t a healthy environment for them to stay monogamous and yk that then break up. but then again if they cheat it’s their fault and you should always break up if they do.
Ask for help. How is this not on there? If youre struggling with something and you have an exam soon, don't assume it won't be on the test because IT ALWAYS IS! Ask your professors, ask the people around you, get a group together. It's not high school where you can just not study and still get a good score. If you don't study for a college exam, you're fucked. So throw away your pride for like an hour and ask for help.
Thank you for the advice because I'm planning on going to college after I graduate highschool and I'm planning on calling my mother often especially when I get into college🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I’m 19 and going to college next year finally got excepted to the school I want to go to
Congrats bro
What college?
Same
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Usually you should bring your high school bf to college but in some scenarios, you can. My bestfriends parents fell in love at 15 and went to college together! ❤
This is a great list!
I'm going to call my mother often especially when I get into college 🥰
Avoid getting a job your first year. You want to be a student full time to make sure you get as many credits as possible and so you can enjoy college life. Apply to scholarships and get a meal plan to support your academics. If you absolutely need to work contact your school about how you can make sure you get all your credits.
POV your watching after knowing your dad invest you college fund to grow it but lost it all
Pick a major that will land you a JOB! Few majors do. The only ones I know for sure are:
Engineering
Nursing
Medical school
Law school
Anything medical:
MRI
Nuclear Medicine
Ultrasound
biology and business too
Political science and criminal justice do as well
You can get a job in real estate area too it just depends on what you do!!
Anything in education! Those can encompass creative interests, while securing you a job
My first semester of college I have one Friday class that ends at 11:50am
i love my bf though, its worth a shot
Please, I don’t recommend breaking up unless you’re in a terrible situation with your relationship. A change in your lifestyle shouldn’t be what makes or breaks your relationships
Me at 16 going to college🥶🍷🗿
Also, work while going to college so u don’t have to take out loans. Find overnight jobs that have tons of down time where u can do assignments and pay tuition cash. Do NOT take out loans if u don’t have to.
Do you know any jobs that offer a lot of down time?
If you have any personal experience, would you also be comfortable sharing?
Tips from Hermione. Nice
You have so many cool subjects in your school. In Greece, we have the bare minimum, and most of the teachers dont love their jobs, and we get bored.
"I'll promise you'll break up"
Yeah kinda whack
12:06 STATE OF DECAY MENTIONED 🗣️🔥
Im two days in to college …
ITS COLLEGE though, NOT a 4 year party
Don’t let your high school boyfriend change the course of your life. However, if things are good, I see nothing wrong with trying long distance. If it works it works, just make sure you two aren’t making too many sacrifices that’ll alter your futures (unless you want to)
I didn’t have a choice 💀 have tons of classes on Friday but near none on Tuesdays and Thursdays
Literally cannot see the notes bc her head ahh
My program has classes all day 8:30 to 4:30 on Friday lol. The program coordinators don't want us having a life outside the program 😅
Just don't drink.
Im never going to take Friday classes because I have a buddy who's mom went to MSU and she took a Friday class and it took her until like 8pm and didn't get home until like 10:30
I’m in college and I still am dating my boyfriend from my senior year of high school, you can’t throw away relationships for no reason
Bro what😂
Y’all have got to quit with the constant jump cuts, it’s extremely distracting and hard to watch
I don’t taking fri classes for 3 semester already because then I get them to do homework or anything related to do chores!
Who gave sister a microphone 😂😂😂
I never want to drink anyways so easing in to drinking Is not in mind
I’m streaming college in September, pls give me advice I’m nervous for it
Only time id really make the argument not to bring your bf/gf to college is if they’re going somewhere super far away and you’ll barely ever see each other. When your that distant, someone will inevitably fuck someone else and it will end on bad terms. Better to end it on good terms and not risk the heartbreak. But if your going to the same college, you’ll probably only get closer since your living in the same place. Hell, I know people who met in HS, go to different (nearby) colleges, and im still pretty confident they’ll take it all the way to marriage
Long distance is hard but it’s possible. Frankly, people that will cheat on you with distance will probably cheat on you anyway.
@@Wanda-v4b Yeah. I tend to notice there are 2 main kinds of relationships: the “im only in it for the sex/status” type where its really just prolonged infatuation, and the people that have actual genuine love for each other. Ive seen the second work really well even at long distance, but the first will probably fail because you arent actually that dedicated and have more chance to get with someone else
Inevitably... Speak for yourself PLEASE.
I disagree with #1, but 100% agree with all the rest.
I’m also looking at USC!
Don't take Friday classes because I'm lazy af and so should you lol wtf.
Really sit
Lots of bad advice
Not tryna be an incel but this is defo some blonde, out a touch, white girl advice
Don’t pick a major right away you’ll hate it
Advice for 304's
Break up with high school girl/boyfriend?! Really? Doesn’t that seem like a pretty big generalization to say to everyone that they don’t need that person? My parents met in high school, and it worked out.
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this is awful advice
if you actually want to be successful in life
1. take all classes push through hard work it will be worth it when your successful work hard to play hard
2. personally i wouldn’t date casually i date to marry but its just your preference but dont give up on relationships so easily like that
3. WORST ADVICE I HEARD. DONT LET YOURSELF GET PEER PRESSURED UNDERSTAND YOUR LIMITS SO DONT DRINK IF YOU DONT WANT TO WHO CARES IF ITS NOT A CUTE LOOK DONT CARE ABOUT PLEASING OTHERS LIKE THAT
You are writing a book right? I guess thats the suprise
your mom goes to college.
Back to School is a movie where the father goes to his sons college
Oh... no....
i cant see shi whats written from her
Leave California
😂
California is beautiful and Los Angeles has a lot of wonderful areas especially USC.
The politicians and the fools that voted for them are what’s making it bad.
The state is amazing. People who love it should fight for it.
Not abandon it…
maybe they don’t want to!
this is a joke r8?
This is terrible advice
Honestly a lot of this advice is bullshit.
What kind of advice is this..🤦♀️🤦♀️
you're promoting drinking like it's something mandatory. Harlot.
How? she isn’t encouraging it. Also stop calling people names.
Only those who are blameless and sinless can cast the first stone, James😂
@@a.h.i267 what a bad comment. Throwing the first stone refers to a physical act, as was a custom at the time. Anyone found committing adultery were to be killed, stoning them being one form of punishment. So, what you're trying to say here isn't correct at all. It is not wrong to say, "that is a sin". you made such a smart comment a.h.i good job!!
as a non-drinker, the majority of people are going to drink anyway and they need good advice on how to do it as safely as possible. “Ease into it” is good advice. Don’t get blackout drunk your first time, guys.
@@the-face-of-the-earthease into it and possibly become an addict, great advice. Didn't know older people could be so stupid.
This is horrific advice