The Dangerous Trap Of Comparison (with Brent Hatchett) | The Leader's Cut w/ Preston Morrison
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- Опубліковано 21 сер 2024
- Preston sits down with Brent Hatchett to discuss the topic of comparison. What are the dangers of it? How can we shift our perspective on it? And how do we approach seasons of "not yet" while our peers may seem to be "ahead" of us?
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When Brent said that if the Lord is on your side your not a failure. That helped me alot.
Success is obedience at Gods pace!! Whew that statement took my perspective to a different level
Brent said “yup” 8,000 times this episode 🤣🤣🤣
This was such a poignant and heartwarming conversation. I really felt the Holy Spirit talking to me.
Coming from an African household were my mom would always compare me to my peers/classmates, this is one stronghold I need to break!
Trust I understand this heavily!
YES.
Pray to God to bring down these strongholds! Let Him fight for you 🙌🏽🔥
Look!!! This conversation was right on time. The dream that led the conversation and the message👏🏾🙌🏾
What I got off top….God’s timing is perfect and I need to stop comparing my journey to others. Those who are doing the thing I want to do….I need to be cheering them on sincerely as I prepare for what God has for me 👍🏾
Spot on.
I looooooove Ps Brent's authenticity & openness! Absolutely refreshing and inspiring! May your journey be filled with wisdom and joy and amazing Holy Spirit moments.
Joseph’s life illustrates the principle that one who is faithful in little will be given charge over much.
This was sooo good.. when he said “ it appears you’re more concerned with who isn’t here than with who is.. and if you’d like I’ll leave”. I almost threw my phone❤❤❤❤
I enjoy listening to both Tim and Preston in different ways. Both strong commutators :)
“If everything is a contest, you’re limiting the teachers you can learn from.” 😮😮😮
Focused on who isn’t here than who is😭😭that’s so good
If I am battling the insecurity of comparison, then I might be tempted to hit the pause button on my battle just so I could try to top you….
Omg! This is the greatest thing I have heard today
It's nuts to me that anyone would compare you and Tim. You are like tomatoes and cucumbers - great together with your own nutritional value but very different and thank God for it! I started listening to Tim in the first place when he was the lead pastor of Embassy because of you, Preston. It's amazing the amount of value he has added to my spiritual life, but your messages are the ones I binge like Netflix 😉 because they feed my soul every. single. time. The Holy Spirit pointed you out to me as an example of how to grow my relationship with Him the way I want and darn if He wasn't right about that! lol! Your example continues to inspire me and He has lit a desire in me to help others do the same. So if I were to ask you to pray about anything, it would be that I get even closer to Him and hear Him even more clearly. It's simply not sufficient to me right now. I am going to be leading a discipleship small group aimed at helping people who want to mature a little more in the Lord. Maybe they are still trying to understand something they are still struggling with or they want to go to whatever deeper level they need to. Overall, I just want to help people prioritize that relationship for the sake of everything else in their lives. So my own focus will be on getting closer so I can be in better step with Him and hopefully my own flame will be bright enough to light the candles of others. There is nothing like being connected to Him AND knowing it!
Hello fam👋 , If a voice is telling you that you are missing the moment. That's not God,as long as you walk with him, you can never be late to anything. Profound stuff fellas God bless!!!
Please join with me in prayer for wisdom and discernment regarding a job... I want to follow God's plan. Thank you and God bless! I love this podcast and found it thru Tim Ross 😊
Comparison is the thief of joy ❤
Nail on the head for me, now working on focusing on the Father!
Thank you for content that cuts off dead branches and prunes us. ❤
That boy Preston be spittin facts😭🔥My goodness this was so good!
Hello Pillar family!!! Glad to be here… please pray for my sister who is ending a relationship. ❤❤
Here for you sister. I pray that through it all, she gets understanding. 🙏
Brent! That’s was such a great opening. Got me all pumped up to listen to y’all 🫡🫡
What’s Poppin Pres,
Prayers for my family. My great-grandmother is 86. She owns 2 homes; one my entire family was raised in & the other in a different city that has a lot of familial connections. I want these homes to stay within our family, but my family isn’t as one as it should be or wise to handle this transition. So prayers for God to intervene and bless my great-grandparents with a legacy of children to handle with care what they’re leaving behind.
I love you Big Bro
Thank you for the discussiom! Please consider listening in silence without “ yup” so many times, it is very distracting…
If I’m competing with you, I’ll never humble myself enough to learn from you. So good.
Brilliant stuff - finding this podcast has been an amazing resource while navigating my calling and waiting season, particularly scriptural truths in navigating real world circumstances ❤
THIS was SO GOOD and so God for me!! Saw a random IG post, then searched for whole topic on YT. I came back into my home state region bc the LORD ASKED ME TO! Did not want to leave FL to go back to NJ. The amount of comparison and immediate ministry jealousy stabbings I got on onset and observed to this Day😮😮😮!!
YES, PRAYER PLS. the knives come completely out of my heart! The strife demons too. And healing oil, and to return to my cave with Fresh Focus..! Bc I was SENT back, I did not went back. A Purpose. Thank you!!
Obedience to God is not even about a number, not about an outcome but a process of walking with God that was for me
Cain and Abel had comparison in their story as well. At least Cain, that is. This is a note taking episode!
My goodness. I so needed to hear this today. I have been struggling with so much, and GOD knew I needed to hear this. Thank you, men of GOD, for this. You have truly blessed me.
To think I thought this episode wasn’t relevant to me. Thank the Holy Spirit for leading me to watch this video. I didn’t realize that I was struggling with comparison. It was like I was getting read like a book but in the best way possible. I admire Preston as a leader. From what I can tell he leads from a place of being with God and not doing for God.
Interesting how coveting, jealousy, insecurity, comparison and pride are so tightly knit. I watched the episode of Humility with Tim last night and following up with this.. seems like a continuation of the same subject
THIS IS SOOOOOOOOO GOOD!!!!
My best friend is my Paul and I am Timothy. It’s taking me a while to accept her being Paul and I’m grateful for God giving her tolerance to allow me to move at a slow pace because now I see how beautiful our friendship is. God you are so wonderful so beautiful so wanted so needed so loved. I just love you, Father!!! I’m ROOTING FOR ALL OF US💯💯💯💯.
Thank you!
if i had a dollar for every time Brent said "Yup" 😂😂😂😂😂
i hate it😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you both for this home cooked meal
Takeaways
1. Its your race and just chill
2. there are my brothers / sisters
3. Find your identity in GOD
4. Lean in to your GOD and find out where he wants you to be
5. If you compare it would be hard to learn from the person you are comparing with
so much to chew on and come back to you.
“Yep”
security, confidence, and boldness come with competence. Plenty of people out here with insecurity (doing things without competence), just another form of pride...
Going through a season of waiting and in hiding and coming to terms of it’s just not yet.. praying that God develops in me the character needed to get to the place for the next step.
First and foremost may God bless you guys for everything spoken on this podcast. Soo good! Thank you Jesus. May the information I received remain in my my heart moving forward. Stepping away from comparisons! Praise God!
Prayer for ya boy: My mental thoughts have been a struggle. Probably all my life but as of recently they really stood out because of some information I received. It hurt me to my core and I want it gone soooooo bad. Just gone. Like out of here and to never come back!
I realize there are steps to take to move forward and protect myself from future thoughts from this same topic. Although, I struggle to do so I have been super busy walking toward the things that God has me working on that I tend to neglect it. And it comes back and bites me and it hurts almost as strongly as before. Also, as I am trying this I realize that it needs to be worked on so that I can put my best self forward for God to use. Anyway, Thank you and God bless!!!!
I feel like you've been in my living room. Been following Tim Ross a while now and I secretly hope for a face to face conversation, prolly hafta be in "the basement" due to the venerablity I'm willing to bring. 🙌🏾
“Yup”
where is the cave in practical way? the only way i can think of just hide from people, especially from church?
The yupping ugh 😂😂😂 stop please
Yes please! 😂 I'm still listening through it though 😉🥴
Yes please!!!!!! I was thinking the same exact thing!!!!!! Lol
I literally came to the comment section to find this comment 😂
My bad guys! I'll do better with my "yups" next time! I appreciate you for listening through it though!!! 🤗
@@brenthatchett I listened to the whole thing! Fire 🔥