😒The bar for moms is so high it's unattainable. Dads? Different story.
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DO NOT send hate to either of these creators! They are both great - this is an exercise in pointing out inequity. ❤
So right!! Like when a dad says he has to babysit as his wife is working…. It’s called parenting!
Please say this louder for the people in the VERY back 😂 Jen you are a truth teller and I am thankful for you. I hope you're doing well❤
Preach girl! Whenever the dad does anything, he's "helping" her, like it's her sole responsibility.
My husband cooks and cleans a lot. A lot of my friends/family always remark about how "lucky" I am. I want to scream when people say it to me. I KNOW none of my husband's friends/family tell him how lucky he is to have a wife that cooks/cleans.
That's so infuriating.
“…the bar for dads is so low it’s literally in hell”
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Glad to see you’re back❤️
Exactly. Your anger is warranted big time. Thank you for calling this out and I agree 100% Let’s ask who made the kids lunches, who lined up daycare, who makes doctors appointments and finds the doctors. Who is in charge of paying the bills and on and on. Moms! I hear you.❤❤❤
Exactly! I also choose not to affected by "Mum guilt" and all those other sh*tty terms - my kids are fed, clothed and housed - end of story! Great see you pop up again Jen, hope you're well. Whenever my oldest has to pick a YT vid, it's yours 💖
Spot on as usual! Thanks for calling it out!
I wish I could like this more than once. You are 1000% correct!! Thank you ❤❤
Truth!!!! So glad to see you. Hope you are doing well❤️❤️❤️
Perfectly said. Amen!!!
Meanwhile… mom was inside dealing with chaos and trying to keep everything chill, wishing she could go fart around on the grill in peace and quiet for an hour. 😂
Jen, you have no idea how much this resonates with me today. Not exactly about parenting but about what expected of people based on their gender.
My husband is a great father, and he does a fair bit of things at home. I have been a stay at home mum for the last 5 years. It was our mutual decision that one of us would stay home with our daughter, who is suffering from asthma. She was 6 when we decided it's the right move for our family. We split duties accordingly. I deal with day to day stuff, and he is responsible for stuff I don't like or can't due to health reasons (I suffer with few chronic conditions). It works for us. I like taking care of the service or talking to various tradesmen and sorting things out for the house. He doesn't. He doesn't like fixing stuff or building things. I do. He takes bins out because I dislike it, and he is responsible for dealing with spiders, washing car, and windows in the house. I deal with solar panels, bank and arranging for things to be fixed. We both do things we are good at. The amount of abuse we get from his family over the fact that I know when our car is due service and he does not, is unbelievable. A few days ago, our front doors needed to be fixed, and I called a repairman. His family lost it why we dared to spend our money on a specialist when he could spend hours and fix it himself. I was told directly that he should deal with stuff like that because he is a man, and he is more capable of making decisions relating to "men stuff." I don't understand why people have problems accepting that we live the way we want. We are adults on our own for 20 years, and we are more than capable of handling our lives the way we see fit.
I like this version of Jen! PREACH!
Very true Jen. To be honest I stopped reading comments on most videos. It’s either someone bashing or someone saying love you.
No one knows enough about someone to bash them and certainly not enough to say love you.
Amen, Jen!!! Kudos to you for calling it out. You do your best to feed your children healthy things - occasionally some chips or juice boxes or sugary treats but you put multiple veggies and fruits every night with dinner, you make veggie trays and leave them in the refrigerator while you are traveling for work. I’ve seen all the prep you do before you leave town. So much more than I get done. Tonight I couldn’t think of a veg to put with air fryer chicken wings so I cut up a cucumber for me and hubby and gave my son some microwave cooked broccoli (raw and made into florets.) At least i put out a veggie for us. There are nights where I have no energy to deal with veggies (if I forgot to prep before I left for work.) Some nights I make pasta in the instant pot and serve it with garlic bread and call it a night. We eat, I have to clean it all up, make dog food and get them to eat it and clean that up. By the time I get to bed I am totally pooped and I am 63! So, good for you all that you do for your family. 👏👏👏
Oh how I have missed you! Hope you're doing well and glad to see you back! Love that you're calling out this load of garbage we have to deal with 🔥🔥🔥
Bang on. Some people don’t know how to cook or don’t have time to cook. Getting food on the table is healthier than getting fast food every day. Kindness people.
So true!!! We need more people saying this!! Xx
Amen sister! Miss you hope all is well.❤
So good to see you and HELL YES to the video. Miss you and hope you’re doing well💕
I hope you’re doing well Jen ❤ and hell yes to this video
I've been thinking about you a lot in the last few days! And I seen this pop-up. I was so happy! Really miss you! You're looking great!
Preach it, my friend. Well said.
Omg thank you thank you thank you for always speaking up!!! I agree with all of your comments for moms and dads. I’ve always worked full time and cleaned and cooked and ran my kids around without thinking twice and the criticism of , as a mom, not being available for my kids was amazing. As long as kids are fed and have happy parents , it’s that simple.
I was so happy to see a post from you ❤ I miss you
Amen Sister!! Ridiculousness! And I will say that it never ends, as grandparents even. The Nana is the one in charge of all the planning, healthy meals, gettwbaths, etc, whereas, Papa gets "come play with me" AUGHH! Enough Already!
I love this series!
Gworl!! No words. I feel ya 💯👌🏾
So love your honesty. Welcome back, Jen! This gal from Fort Dodge, Iowa has missed you❤
Thank you Jen! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Jen you have out done yourself here. YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Great to see you Jen!
Miss you , great to see you quickly .Hopefully more soon .Have a great holiday ❤
Miss you!
Thank you for this
Right on Jen!! It's incomparable the things moms do for their kids and families, compared to dads. And I don't mean that is all households, but lets face it, it is most households. It is disgusting the things moms have to do and think about CONSTANTLY day in and day out for their families. That is called mental load and it is a real thing. Thanks for bringing attention to this. So many people just assume it is the wives role to fulfil ALL the needs of their families and it is not, it is a partnership.
Great points Jen. ❤
Truer words have never been spoken
Amen sister!!! Sorry to say its been front and center for so long we are blind to it! Almost! Thank you for the reminder!
AMEN - the bars so high I can't even see it anymore.
This is a really powerful short. You totally made your point: well done. Interesting that no one is pointing out how unhealthy pancakes are, especially with all the presumably artificial food dyes.
I watch one channel where the mom makes food from scratch and still gets told her food is garbage and isn’t good enough for her kids. So at the end of the day can’t please everybody.
It’s women who are doing this to each other unfortunately. And WELCOME BACK!!!! HAPPY EASTER!!!! ❤
You’re exactly right.
Yes!! But sadly it’s been that way since the beginning of UA-cam..they use to have forums to bash them now they just make channels to make money or mean comments..
This 💯! You tell em Jen 💛
you Go Girl!! I love you !!
Thanks for sharing this information, Jen. You are greatly missed on UA-cam.
Very well said 👏🏻👏🏻
This 💯%!!! Yes, Jen, yes!!! 💜✨
Well said! Period...
Most of all, great to see a post from you! Hope you’re doing as well as possible!
Glad to see you!
yes, gorl. thank you for pointing out this BS.
Miss seeing you ❣️ Preach 🙌
YES YES YES YES!!! PREACH QUEEN!!! ❤❤❤
Preach it sister! 👏 💯
Amen! Truth.
I feel the same and yet I have found myself praising a dad who does these type of things because I'm so use to them not doing it, on UA-cam that is. My x use to cook dinner for us if he got home first. He's really a great dad in many ways not only because he cooks lol! I do praise anyone who cooks, cleans well I'm really just a positive reinforcement kinda person.Tell the kids hi for me. Love and hugs from Texas 💕
I don’t think we will ever be able to change the way that people react to things and the comments that are made on social media. People are going to form their opinions right or wrong. They are going to voice their opinions right or wrong. The only thing that we can control is the way that we allow them to affect us. We just can’t let them take up space in our head as frustrating as that is it’s important to our mental health to recognize that we have no control over other people’s opinions. We can’t change the world and the way it thinks. What we can do is have a greater influence and positive effect on our children and the people around us. Those are the people that matter the most and bring us the most joy in life.
I don’t know. I think Jen pointing out this inequality can actually have affect on some who may not see it otherwise. The moment we stop doing something because we think we can’t change it is the moment we stop changing things. I say, we keep making these things seen and heard until we change them!
Yes, Jen!!
Couldn’t have said it better!!!
Nice to see your face! You've been in my thoughts! ❤
Welcome back! 🔥
Way to go Jen!
There was a meme going around about a father that went to his kid's game after work and you would think he came up with the cure for cancer for the way he was being praised. I called it out for what it is; bullshit. I got roasted in the comments. It's insane that the bar for men is non-existent that the smallest thing they do is celebrated while we as moms do it on a daily basis and get lambasted. Makes my blood boil
Amen, sister ❤ Being celebrated for showing up to a game? As a mom of 3 who all played sports, I know all of the backstory already. Who do they think did all the transportation to and from practices, shopped for and bought all the equipment, ordered the uniforms, CONSTANTLY WASH the uniforms, fill out all the forms and pay fees, communicate with coaches, purchase and haul snacks & drinks for the team, and also attend every game???
Preach!
PREACH, baby Girl!
Well said Jen!!!🇨🇦💕👏
I've seen the comments you mention the worse part is that when I have seen it.... it has been women bashing other women and telling men what a great job they are doing every single time..... women need to be more supportive of each other
Been thing about you. Glad to see you.
If the woman made the pancakes, people would criticize her for using food dyes 🤷🏻♀️
For sure!
YES, this!!! 😮
You go girl miss you on utube 😭🇨🇦
Yessss!❤❤
Ty Jen ty, ty....❤
Right on! 😁
I dont know where to start jeepers. Narccisits always have to be the best at everything and do not appreciatte anything. It goes both ways. And yes we, which ever side is on the side that is being made to feel like we are not good enough...well yes we are. Life is not a competition of who can do it better in a partnership. It should be team work. One does certain things the other does the other things that keeps the family together. It should never be about who can do it better and that is what is happening to much right now in so many family relationships. Trying if it is trying is good. Advocating their way is just better is not. I hear you loud and clear. hugs and luv
Yep
Hell to the yeah!!
Amen!
Agreed about the double standards and low bar for men. But … that dad made character pancakes that were so artistic! Maybe compare the same meals. lol
I grew up in the 80s eating Spaghetti Os and Doritos. I dare anyone critique my single mom about the food she provided. Great to see you Jen!
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I deal with this ALL THE TIME on my channel. Mom shaming. Mom guilt. I do grocery Hauls and cleaning videos. And I get murdered in the comments haha. It's crazy!
🎉🎉 when my daughter was 5 I was a nurse and decided to go back to school to become a funeral director/embalmer. I was gone most of the week so my husband took over as he should and did all the things and I will never forget when a bunch of moms saw me one day and said we can’t believe your husband does all that he does to help while you are gone. How do you get him to do that and I looked at them in awe and said what do you mean, how do I get him to do it, he’s her father and it’s his job just as much as it is mine .
Nice glasses! They fit your face shape really well.
Agreed! We also should stop this "get it all done" mentality that we perpetuate, setting unrealistic expectations for each other.
Amen amen
Amen
❤ Ive missed u ....😂
The bar is so low that it’s in hell 😂! So glad you are back!!!
LOUDER!!!!
YES. Holy cow people online are nuts.
I've never clicked on anything as quick as I clicked on this when I saw your name pop up. I feel like I've been missing a friend... partially because we share a lot of the same viewpoints, including on topics such as this 🎉
Yes spicy!🌶️ I am just learning more about feminism and supporting women. Even as I woman, I was taught that I’ll never achieve as much as a man could, so why bother? Women are weak and I’ll always be weak. Nope. No. I am unlearning these messages myself. And I am looking forward to learning more from you! ❤
yes!!!!!
Good to see your face :)
Or you can not worry about what other people think. It's too exhausting. People are going to do what they are going to do but I can control my reaction
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I watched a video recently and the comment was made that fed is fed. I absolutely love that statement. You never know someone’s backstory behind these videos. Maybe the parent has made so many decisions the entire day that they could not make one more decision. Maybe they are struggling to make it to payday and literally using as much as possible in their Pantry and freezer. Maybe their kid has food aversions and will only eat those items and you just want them to eat. Either way, it seems like so many people are quick to judge anymore and feel safe to comment and critic others behind the safety of their devices. It’s so sad. Just remember to be kind, because you never see the whole story, but only a few seconds of a bigger picture.
Jen, stay strong and don't let others BS upset you or put you down.
I totally agree. It's pretty ridiculous. There wasn't anything wrong with either video. I've missed you and have been sending you good thoughts. I've been burnt out and hoping you were not.