I dated a Chinese girl and she asked me if I wanted to date her exclusively after three weeks? I said that I did. She then asked me where I thought the relationship was going? I was already in love with her and told her that I intended to ask her to marry me later in the year. She told me that she would say yes if I did. That was almost 40 years ago and we're stlll married.
That is cute af, i haven't dated since highschool, and i intend to wait until I'm set with a job and a degree, because i don't want to date around, but date to marry. Your story is super cute, and i hope i can find mrs. Right just like you found yours 😍
God I love the duo with these two guys it's very heart warming in a way, two bros chillin on motorcycles riding around China just talking about whatever
Two foreign guys warned me when I came to China "Don't fall for a girl with a very low-end job. If you do, she'll quit her job and sit around all day, drinking tea and watching Korean dramas."
this is a really fantastic way to do a cultural vlog. the first person view from a motorcycle is an endlessly entertaining backdrop to casual conversation between the two of you. just a couple of dudes tearing ass around the Chinese countryside while having a conversation. I love it.
They opened this video up saying 'this was from their personal view', them being white guys in China. So they're not naive, they're just stating things as they experienced it. You sound like an angry single chinese guy, my friend...
Great video. I work with a Chinese girl in America and we talk about these traditions / culture and she laughs because she says it's all true. Love your videos.
As a native Chinese and your new Fans, I want to give you a truly advertise: Be care the Dogs when you get into any village, those dogs are not raise like the pet dogs, esily attack stranger...
Chinese hate to 'lose face' more than other groups of people in the world. When you 'dumped' this Chinese girl, it actually made her feel ashamed more than you realized and she couldn't 'face' her family (aka parents), friends, neighbors and pets..., especially if she thought you were such a 'good catch'. I wouldn't say she was psychotic. She's just trying very hard to do everything to get you back. Too hard maybe.
Sensitive plants are amazing. For anyone who's interested, the folding works by responding to touch at the nodes and internodes by releasing a large amount of potassium ions and therefore by osmosis the limb, or leaflet loses turgor pressure and then the limb droops and the leaves fold inwards.
@@mybutthasteeth1347 Basically if you touch the plant at the little section where the leaf connects or between those sections you case a biochemical reaction that results in the release of potassium ions. By osmosis from these ions, the limb or leaflet loses the pressure that keeps it stiff (man that sounds dirty) or in shape and the drooping limbs cause it to fold inwards. Can't believe I finally get to use all 1 semesters worth of botany knowledge for a yt comment :'(
I am a Jamaican man and I am married to a woman from China. Every relationship is different, but these two kinda hit the nail on the head with how Chinese women are and how they view relationships. My wife moved to the US from china because her family put lots of pressure on her to marry a wealthy Asian man when she was barely 19! She saw how that life choice to marry a rich man landed her mother into a horrible living situation Her mother became almost a slave to her father because he made all the money!!! She would have to ask him for money to go anywhere or do anything and then give a large explanation for everything she did. Because of this, my wife is fiercely independent and strives to earn her own money and handle things on her own. She also does the cute housewife thing and cleans, does stuff around the house. Sometimes I come home and there is fresh fruit salad cut up for me or a nice lunch made for me when I leave for work! its nice to know that she appreciates me so much! I do my best to be mindful to return the favors and do little things to let her know i'm thinking and caring for her. My wife and I got involved with each other in college and right away we moved in with each other because both our living situations at the time were horrible and it just made financial sense to move in. We dated for about a year before we got married... I was terrified to marry her because you hear the horror stories about people changing after getting married or women who spend more money then the man can earn and build up insane debt for the family or they get super jealous and crazy... We have been married for 5 years and it was the best choice I ever made... I married young and sacrificed a lot of partying and missed opportunities with other women, but because we fit well together we were serious from a young age we started laying a strong foundation for our future much faster then most our age... We were serious while my peers were still dating their on and off again Ex's for the 5th time, Getting caught cheating or cheating on their partners , Tons of Drama and wasting money on dates and gifts and just silly stuff young people waste money on. My wife and I Pinched pennies for three years and saved up money for a house after our third year of marriage. Then we started saving money for a business as soon as we signed off on our house. I am now 30 years old, I own two businesses I have my own beautiful home and the mortgage on my house is less then our old one bedroom apartment. If i had wasted my time dating and fooling around I prob would have ended up broke but with a few more notches under my belt from fucking drunk girls in NYC! If you find a Chinese woman who seems loving, trusting, makes her own money and manages her money well , not super jealous and controlling (watch for the subtle hints when you date!) THEN MARRY HER....good women are hard to find in America these days. As my wife says "these bitches (yes...bitches... I love her! HAHA) are out here looking for a millionaire price who will get bored with them... I found a good man and I give him what he needs and turn him into a king"
I married a Filipina who was born and raised there, and currently still living there, because I found their approach to relationship and marriage to be more serious than the women in general here in Canada. That isn't to say all Filipinas make good wives, as there are other factors involved, but of the ones I've chatted with and met, they were far ahead of what I've dealt with here. Cultural upbringing, as well as parental upbringing, makes a huge difference. I had never really given marriage any serious thought with the women I've dated here. Any remote thought of it was a turn off. Yet, with this Filipina, I had no reservations. "Let's do this".
Chinese girls treat their dating partners differently in general. If you are white, you are automatically categorized as date-able or not date-able (due to some strict family rules). If you are Chinese, then it's a totally different aspects to look at. So your experience only relates to how Chinese girls date foreigners.
@Fred Fernackerpan Well, don't be sure. I'm married to a Chinese lady (yes, lady), been married for 20 years. I have the extended family issues to deal with, and they took her right in. Which is shocking, considering my family is from the deep south in the US.
@Fred Fernackerpan My wife's family thankfully were the exception, rather than the rule. They were aware I'm not a gazillionare, and didn't give a damn about the CCP (They left the country prior to the coronaviri outbreak). They have accepted me as family, mine have accepted them. So, both sides in the end won out.
I dated a woman from Hong Kong (in Canada) and she'd judge me on all these cultural rules that I didn't know about. I told her that my parents got divorced and she said that that means I would divorce her, so we couldn't be long-term.
As a guy who just got out of a relationship with a Chinese girl, I can testify that most of what they said are all SO FUCKING TRUE! Loved the way they narrate over a wanderlust-motorcycle ride around rural Chinese highways and villages as if during a chit-chat podcast, great job guys!
think thats just asia in general tbh when your a foreigner, its like that in the philippines except the women tend to be more open if they find you attractive.
@@Abionx Dont I know it! The sheer amount of 'come to bed eyes' I have seen in the Philippines even though I am already married and my wife is stood right next to me.
How the hell is that racist? It's actually derogatory to make that statement, because it implies that China would be backwards if it had the dating culture or several decades ago in the west.
You know what's great about white women, though? Your child will actually look like it's your own if you knock one up. Look at that C-Milk fellas daughter. It's like he never left a genetic legacy at all. It's like he never had a child.
Hans Brackhaus True. That is the problem with most interracial relationships. Except maybe for relationships with Jews, but then your child has a hooked nose and an insatiable love of money, so that would still be quite bad.
I beg to differ, I'm mixed (between irish-carribean) and my brother looks a lot like my dad and although I don't much, I share the majority of his mannerisms. All that 'genetic legacy' bullshit isn't a thing - all humans are mixes of different races. I'm assuming you're American, a country a couple hundred years old, so you're probably a mix of every european country, a slave and/or a native somewhere in you're lineage too so don't act like the other race taints you're genetic legacy. If anything it makes it stronger.
ThatsSoCailan You're not wrong. However, it is still sad to see one's genes getting washed out (white genes tend to be recessive, e.g. blue/green/grey eyes or blonde/brown hair), but at the very least they have a chance to resurface again, i.e. by a mixed child marrying another mixed child (1 in 4 for appearance-level attributes, e.g. hair and eyes). The genetic legacy is still there, even if it is hidden beneath the surface.
Chinese girls do take dating very seriously. I took a Chinese girl out on a date and next day I decided we were not compatible, and I rang her and told her so. She then told me "So, we are getting a divorce?"
+Fender I'm Asian guy, and i'll say that's not 100% true, i swear...you don't need to swear bro, most white people will trust you lol Anyway, how i see it after observing Asian girls on dating sites, most of them just simply like foreigner, not limited to white. I mean i'm Asian as well, on dating sites, i get plenty of love from Asian girls hailing from other countries, but not so much from my own country :P
There are women in the West who expect marriage in their 20s as well, and don’t want to “try it on” with a lot of dating men either and want marriage, too. We get heartbroken too. Not just Chinese ladies. It’s too bad this is what men think western women are like and we get thrown to the curb.
Don't be fooled into thinking men are evil. There are men out there who want the same traditional wants anyone else does. Its human nature so don't get discouraged. Just stay away from men who don't have the balls to take life into their own hands FOR THEIR FAMILIES(not for themselves). Find a man who takes PRIDE in his family.
if a man avoids the pitfalls of growing up in West why would he ever pick you? White women are a placeholder so that the boy can be born white man. White women are problematic, unattractive, feminists, and weight issues. If a man has taken upon himself to succeed in a society that hates him, and to learn Chinese, of course he wants the best possible woman. Think of his needs first - same reason why he avoids you. You aren't his priority. Only being hurt and making him believe you is your priority.
@Mike Epp01 It's not a eugenics issue. Feminists and shitty men arent the one having the kids. Most of the kids being born are to conservative / religous / rural, and other demographics that tend to favor traditionalism. But even in those groups the liberal attitudes towards gender roles have seeped in. They may not be radical feminists, but they are still affected.
Sadly women are now more miserable than ever (men too to a lesser extent). There are decent women out there, but for most of us we need to find a women who isn't a crazy feminist, and then try to make a mediocre situation work out for us. It's no secret why white men are getting women from asia. The problem is that even if they have children, the children end up getting raised in the western culture, and are not like their mother much of the time. Getting Asian women is just a temporary band-aid. It doesnt solve the problem of collapsing western culture.
@Mike Epp01 you are a complete idiot. eugenics is to do with purifying the human race by taking out other races, qualities of the races and the mentally ill and inferior basically and nothing to do with feminism. feminism was to give rights and freedoms as a PERSON and although ppl see it as the right to work out of the home, that is not a constant of feminism, only the right to have a choice of it or not. most men totally misunderstand this and i think you all take it as some kind of threat to manhood when really it's just avoiding being chattel and owned like a damn pet, or object. let me ask men this, would you want to be owned with no rights or choices? and if you want a reason why women want rights look at p51mustang24 or enza denino who seem to think relationships are about a man being happy and a woman being a cowed thing or obect that has to act in a way that pleases them. lol feminism isn't the problem, the problem is ppl all being so selfish they want it all their way instead of it being equality and harmony. it seems normal to me that you would expect from a partner what you would be willing to do, be or sacrifice and not about one sex or person being happy while the other is only there to please them.
This was one of the best videos I have seen, very well done both in so many areas..content, production values, etc etc. video editing, audio syncing. Impressed with the effort on this video. Only small thing was c milk's mic had a bit of echo. I can relate to some of what you are saying as well. Even at 48, a Chinese woman I have just returned from seeing, is ready to be married. Keep up the good work.
+laowhy86 if you want the best sound, just re record all the speech later on and sync it with the video, very easy on this video specially on the motorcycles. Also the intro was cool, could of been cooler if u had slowed down some of the movements when u guys were putting on the gloves and jacket and stuff, Maybe end with a still shot and your names come in with a cool effect. The take off with the motorcycles could of been better if u guys had cranked the engine a few times before taking off hehehe. Just some suggestions, I really liked the video and the content a lot.
Winston might be my #1 favorite UA-camr because he 1. Doesn't talk with a PC filter and doesn't get wrapped up with offending the PC crowd 2. Gets great camera shots 3. Discusses the positive and negative As well, at 25:10- 25:15 lol I have had that exact experience with a former Chinese girlfriend
Yes, he gives very good information. Winston is somehow a very mature person. This happens because he lives in China. This is not always an easy thing to do. Looking from the Western perspective. He lives & learns.
Don't you think he went too far when he told everyone who disagreed with him to get bent? Speaking from your heart is one thing, being closed minded about the fact that people are different from you is quite another.
SpazzyMcGee1337 I think he just knew the oncoming PC police, SJW, and feminist finger wagging was inevitable , so he threw that out first. Well played.
Lmao. You trippin. I grew up being taught good morals and treat women right. I'm 26 btw. Last 7 years i tried being a humble guy or traditional man to get a decent girl. All girls do is walk all over you. To nice, or too good to them. Yet i would see my friends treat girls like trash. The wome. worship them. So i gave up on being a decent man. I treat them like trash because its what women like. Im decent looking guy. Not a brad pit but at least an 8. Since i became an asshole, its easy to get laid and i dont respect them or give them the time. And it works. Fuck being a gent. Jerk i shall be.
It sounds like these 2 guys were like a couple of innocent lambs who wandered into the tiger pit that is the Chinese dating scene, and the Chinese girls just went "Fresh blood!" And 7 years later they're still there...
These guys are so *NAIVE* it is frustrating. Conservative Chinese girls have no idea of dating. *Chinese girls are just as inconsiderate to Chinese men as white girls are to white men back at home.* In order for them to show off to their friends, you either need to be rich Chinese man, or be white. Progressive Chinese girls know dating, but when it comes to *white guys they will worship them and hope the white masters will take them to western heaven.* They dream of Miss Saigon or Madame Butterfly, be dumb girls who want to hang onto white men when they go back to their homelands in the West. *They will go apeshit if the white boat has passed them by, and will NOT accept that their relationship can be anything **_but_** serious.*
I’m glad I watched this video. It kind of gives me a better perspective on why my own wife was hesitant to be in a relationship with me when I asked her to be my gf. What I learned here is that in her mind I wasn’t simply asking her to be my gf. In a sense I was asking her to marry me. And what do you know, four months later we’re married. That was 4.5 years ago and things are going great. We plan on having kids next year.
yeah, he said most of the girls are progressive, and speak English really well, his wife being an exception. I took it as she was more traditional gender roles.
how the hell did you managed to take away that? lol. he proceeded to explain that she makes good money as a doctor and takes care of herself, but he likes that she still cooks and does the dishes for him.
thats something that might come in handy when you want to settle down. a western woman that takes marriage seriously is rare nowadays since they can divorce for no reason and take the house, kids and all the guys money. 100 years ago women divorced for good reasons, like the man was physically abusive or a chronic cheater or failed the children in a serious way. now women in the west most frequently divorce just because they are bored - and that should scare the shit out of any sane western man when you consider what is at stake.
There is still the gold digger culture, its kind of a world wide thing, only in china the fact you are western, white, have good career, is the equivalent of having a Lamborghini in the west... both would say yes for the same reasons, the Lamborghini is simply a different thing for each of them.
I absolutely love the premise of your videos, guys: Riding and talking, so simple and yet so refreshingly original. Great stuff. Keep up the good work!
I am a Chinese girl, your video is so true about everything! To be honest, lots of Chinese guys would hate the last part. Lots of these staffs you are saying are "forbidden topics" in China, this video is awesome!!
Tom Bratfred some people won't listen if he doesn't apologise, it doesn't mean he disagrees with it to some extent. He is running a UA-cam channel, he knows to keep people happy. Their honestly is extremely refreshing though.
ChernobylPizza you need to get out of the house and experience the outer world. maybe take a small journey out of your neighbourhood, the world is significantly more than tumblr
I can totally relate to this idea, being a Chinese guy. Dating is for the purpose of marriage, not just some casual fun. And marriage is for procreation, not just two people hanging out until old age.
I totally agree with the former but will have to disagree with the latter, for marriage does not end when procreation is done and should not be based on procreation. To me it's about 2 people loving each other until old age, whether they have children or not, and remain happy with each other's company. Children will eventually grow up and leave you one day, the one who walks through life with you is your parter. There are people who are happily married with no children, and I admire them :)
The love between two people certainly shouldn't be discounted, but parenting brings a whole another dimension to one's life experience that nothing else can replace. It's the most rewarding and terrifying experience. It's unfortunate that not all couples could have children, but we shouldn't say that children are not worth having.
Yes a Chinese girl I was briefly with came to my door crying a few nights after things were over. It was a messy process. I pretended to call the US embassy to scare her away, she wanted to come in my room and kept trying to get past me, it was 2am and she was really loud.
This is exactly the type of video I like, it had a very interesting conversation and also a lot of cool, interesting places so both audio and video were great.
I really enjoyed your topic on Chinese girls vs. Western Girls; I am an American who lived in China for eight years; I can't tell you how relieved I was to hear your perspective on Chinese girls, everything you shared I've experienced more times than I can count.
I love this new stuff you guys have on this channel, I really appreciate your personality's and your lifestyles you guys bring to this. Also it's an really new thing you have here, its almost like a talk show, but you aren't confined to a boring desk. Also its like a scenic tour, and a whole host of other things going on. Really great, after watching your vids for over six months. To then becoming a subscriber. You guys Changed My whole view point about life and china, and also Motorcycles lol. Thanks , keep up the awesome work ^_^
If Chinese girls weren't prettier, would western men still prefer them? Does it really come down to femininity and being a good wife? Also, I'll get hate for this but if you work full time and your wife works full time, then chores should be somewhat equal no? I could understand if your wife is a stay at home mom or only worked part time that she should do all the cooking and cleaning but if she works all day she's just as tired as you at the end of each day.
blah blah blah. that is why you're single. jesus. what happened to women being nurturing.... you have got to be American there is no other explanation.
Maybe the western guys should tell their Asian wives to go and get a job and help with the bills like they do in most of the western countries. Even if they have children most women in western countries still work. Then they would see whether the Asian ladies love them or marry them as a "good catch" and if they would have a time and energy to nurture them
@@terrom550 Asian women do work full time and taking care of their children and husband. You will never understand because in your eyes I see jealousy.
@MATHA NOSHTO-MAN not every Asian is a "tiger mom". Tiger mom are referred to the americanized asians and they are submissive is part of their culture to respect men heavily.
Not so much my wife, but some of the guys I know with Chinese GF's say they are extremely possessive. She gets mad if he isn't constantly texting her, doesn't immediately answer her texts or if he decides to go out after work for a drink with the guys, doesn't immediately text her to see if she has already made plans for the evening. On clothing, my wife after living in Texas and getting her US citizenship, adopted the American casual/functional way of dressing. Her Chinese GF's, sisters and mother all complain that she doesn't dress up. One time up in her home city of Yanji, Jilin, we got into a taxi, she was wearing jeans, athletic shoes and an expensive long sleeved pink and brown striped Tommy Hilfiger polo shirt. The driver said to her, "You dress like an American." When she replied she was an American, the driver replied "Bulls#!t, your Chinese, you should dress like a Chinese. After that, My wife basically called him an idiot, told him to F-off, and that we were getting another taxi.
Carl Sharp Yep Americans are very casually dressed for the most part. In the Bay Area it is hard to tell the difference between a billionaire and a homeless guy. Even the CEO of facebook wears hoodies to meetings. I like to dress casually/comfortably myself, not trashy but not in a tux.
She gets mad if he isn't constantly texting her - that's actually because Chinese men keep their gfs on a short leash and if you're not constantly texting her - means you don't care. I mean, the Chinese men "train" the Chinese girls to respond to that. They couldn't tell them that they're asking them where they are and what are they doing every 5 minutes out of their insecurity - they just tell them "It's because I love you". And Chinese women buy that line hook and sinker. So then when you aren't like that - they think it's something wrong. Just like when you have sex with a Chinese prostitute... you take your time instead of finishing after 3 minutes like your average Chinese. She thinks maybe she's doing something wrong, starts apologizing or getting mad that you're a "difficult customer" who paid for 1 hour... and yet expects more than 3 minutes of sex xD
Francis Roy I'm not sure your opinion is that accurate. Open and easy-going, yes, but accurate, no. Male and female roles have a place. Certain things just fit and work better together, like a penis in a vagina, a man being a father, a woman being the mother. It's not complicated.
I had to laugh when they said the Mongolian restaurant opens at 4:30pm. That's practically exactly when many Chinese places here open for dinner service. I've often wondered why Chinese places close for several hours after lunch so it was funny to see a place in China doing the same thing.
Lol that "I want to make it clear i respect all women" pop-up. The fact we live in a society where we have to disclaim things like this is sad. Anyways, fantastic episode! Loved the ride and talk + vlog style. :D
An unusual yet inviting style of video. I really liked seeing the countryside while listening to your casual and informative conversation. Thanks and cheers.
Awesome video. Your voices were clear and the video was clear and pleasant to watch. I must say, you guys were spot on, on every topic. I may even bold enough to say that this applies to almost all far east Asian women from developing countries.
"Starfish?" No thank you, then. I've been with an American 'starfish' and it was the most boring relationship ever. I can't imagine a whole nation of women like that. Too bad.
"Yes we can all do the same thing. No one is saying that a woman can't do this or a man can't do that. But, 'do you want to?' is the actual question" - That was some real shit.
Wow, top of my recommended up next list is an ad video called “Serpantza’s videos lead you misunderstanding China” [sic]. Someone really is out to counter you placing paid ads against you.
I love your Vlog, it's really well edited and provided with high coherence. I would like to know more about the development of the chinese people who actually moved at the last century from villages to cities, and from having nothing to wealthy people (not all of them I know, but as a nation) Thanks again for the great content
I'm Asian-American raised in the states, I wish men who approach me always have good intentions. I don't settle nor have casual liaisons, I would rather be single and focus on achieving career goals, earn enough money to purchase what I want, like my dream car and my own house. Although my family is from the S. Pacific, my parents never emphasized marriage and children as a must, higher education was a given and so is independence. I believe that they have a progressive attitude because they are educated professionals (physician and engineer) and so were my grandparents (scientists and business owners). So many couples are miserable because they don't see eye to eye or the relationship is dysfunctional but it's sad when they continue to stick together. Life is too short!
I love how you 2 just hall ass around China and give great advice. But wish your camera was not just looking at the handlebars of you bike But all and all I love your videos
Comparing a U.S. woman to a Chinese woman. I was married to a white woman from So. California . She would never assist with any household chores ! Never ! Now I have a 54 y/o girlfriend from So. China . And it's winter here in Ohio . I wake up at 7 A.M. and she is no where to be found in the house. Well , where the hell is she ? I finally do find her. The temperature is 5 degrees outside and she is outside with a snow shovel , shoveling snow from the driveway ! And she does not even have any good winter footwear. In the mean time my ex wife is still too lazy to even buy curtains for the windows. She would have bitched if I had purchased window curtains but is too lazy to do it herself. Luce is outside on a pretty cold morning shoveling snow without even so much as a hint from me that she should do so ! I think that says it all !!
Yeah it says that you were married to a lazy white woman and that you are now married to a deligent chinese woman. It also says that you are either too poor or too cheap to buy your wife any good winter footwear. If the first is true I a truly sorry. If it is the second you should be a better husband
John Sinclair , Actually I was married to two white women like that . After two strikes I did not try for a third one ! As for Luce and her footwear , we have only been together for two months and I certainly did not expect her to be out shoveling snow ! At most I expected going out from the house into the truck and from the truck directly into the front door of a shopping mall. And she does have proper winter boots now.
Yeah my experience wife is a lazy Fuckin bitch. I love Asian chicks they are much better than my lazy know it all foul mouth pig wife. Santa Claus dose more work than her
+RasputinReview Truely, I am a chinese, and I have got a glimpse of how Europe girls make up themselves. They are too heavy from my points. I like the figure and face of the typical western girl. But the makeup......Orz.
I lived in Asian for 5 years and in various Asian countries and this habit/ attitude that you described about Chinese girls is very quite similar in other Asian or SE Asian countries. Therefore it is more of an Asian costume rather than unique to the Chinese girls. Once you start going out with a Asian girl, all friends and family members keep often asking when you are going to get marrige. Louis
29:30"Chinese women are not very active" "Yes, uh, one might say...Starfish" "Starfish is a very good analogy" "Basically I guess they..because of the whole general thing, they don't feel like they have to be putting any effort in." ^^^100000000000000000%^^^ It's so fucking true, and it's super super weird and unpleasant. Not just the "inactivity" bit, but the weird sounds, the general apathy towards sex in general because, as pointed out, all their previous boyfriends basically treated them like a human blowup doll. I love how C-Milk was like "after we had sex she'd be like "is that what sex is supposed to be like?" Cause that happens without fail. I've been with Chinese girls that straight up said that they hated sex, but when you get to know them intimately you realize they've never had a partner who was considerate of her needs and wants. Like you know that episode of South Park where they boys go on a quest to find the Clitoris? Obviously that's banned in China, but I wonder how many Chinese women have had their partner go on that quest. Or how many average Chinese women have actually even had an orgasm courtesy of their partner. Also the whole awkward breakup bit. "I barely dated this girl..all of a sudden I get a notebook at my door, every page was filled with every message I'd ever sent her, she'd been jotting all that stuff down, then showing up at my door crying every night"...100%
@@sverre371 Youth is slightly less valuable as a man. As a women it becomes very difficult to enter a relationship after 30, but for men they can still usually attract younger women up to at least 40. After 30 a lot of women find that men will fuck them still, but the good men are searching for younger women to actually marry.
@@p51mustang24 Maybe right, but i don't see the point at my age to fool around with a teenager without any skills exept breathing and demanding marriage.
I don't know if they mentioned this part but Chinese women don't like to kiss. This may also hold true for other Asian women from other Asian countries as well. You may see them kissing passionately on Chinese TV but in real life they don't French kiss so to speak...they don't like to make out or don't even understand it....after growing up dating Western women that particular part is big let down and hard to get used and/or give up
In my experiences "kissing" Chinese men, I can understand why the women don't like to kiss. Guys I've met kissed as if they were dehydrated dogs finding water for the first time. Licking all over the face, aggressive tongue thrusting, and heavy breathing.
vh9network fun fact, In the book Wealth of Nations, which was published before the revolutionary war, the author even mentioned that people in the "American Colonies" got married much earlier, 18-20 range while people in England got married five to ten years later. Crazy hu?
The girls you guys are talking about are mostly uneducated. It's like say American people all like fast food and always order French fries with Diet Coke. Guangdong is a very traditional place. I would say most Chinese girls bear huge family pressure to marry or whatever, but they actually have a strong sense of personal determination. The thing is that obeying to parents is almost sacred in Confucius culture.
My fiancee's white, though everytime I'm asked (and a lot always initially assumes Asian), I always start with describing her as half British, a quarter Italian, and a quarter German, only to wait for the reaction of realizing that my fiancee is white to sink in. I get treated differently soon after, in some ways better than the normal looks I'd get, where people starts smiling and show their interest on me and my fiancee. I will admit, consciously or not, I have succumbed to using this to elevate some of my social status and social standing with friends from the military/business as well as family settings. Not academia, though, since whether a person is of any socially constructed race, they look at people through the lens of intellect, knowledge, and contribution to research rather than some superficial pigmentation of the skin. I digress, my fiancee obtained a masters degree before I even completed my bachelor's degree, and have started teaching before I got into grad school. Whenever asked, the Asian side of the family would find it absurd and just can't understand that two people of different social status/education level can fall in love. I'm certain I will obtain my Ph.D. eventually, but to them, having a girlfriend/fiancee that has gone 'further' in life than you as a man is almost unacceptable. Just thought I'd share my two cent on the opposite side of the spectrum relative to this video. And, hey, I love playing with shy grass whenever I'm in Taiwan, too! It's just so awesome seeing the leaves contract!
Its sad how that mindset is scary to some people as that's how its supposed to fucking be. we really fucked ourselves straying from that as I hate to tell you that mindset aligns with our nature. women's peak fertility is in the early 20s and you hit the wall at 30 where if your lucky you get 1 kid before you run the risk of downie baby's. and simply dating around trying to find "the one" is stupid as well there is no "the one" just pick something that works as thats what you get
Well I'm watching this some 6 years later, and I can conclude that after many years being with Thai women, and having lived in Thailand for five years before. Chinese women are exactly the same as Thai women in their mannerisms and actions.
Always loved your Videos and Travelogues now as a team you two are so relaxed and interesting. Very professional. Looked like an old Hakka Village you stumbled on by the way. I visited have many in the Xingning area. My GF is Hakka, they are lovely people.
This must be life as it is just INSIDE China, I live in Vancouver and I haven't heard of Chinese girls cooking dinner for any guys, they all seem to want to be taken out for very expensive dinners themselves...
Luke Du Yes, exactly!! It would be SO refreshing to meet an old-fashioned but modern Chinese girl who worked hard like myself, but really was into cooking at home and enjoying my compliments!!
TheSpritz0 Not to bash Canada or anything, but a lot of the corrupt rich chinese families that everyone HATES in China end up moving to Canada and dumping a bunch of money into real estate to launder their dirty money. Canada gives them free citizenship (or visa) to foreigners who invest a lot in the country. Very unfair and corrupt policy. Most of the Chinese people in Canada are the outcast rich people from Shanghai etc. Its a shame😩
TheSpritz0 - no difference in China. Chinese women are all about money, they don't marry for love, they marry for money and security... So materialistic and shallow, better off steering clear.
I'm sure it is the reality of the situation, as interpol has a list of people that China wants returned for crimes, etc... and Canada won't do it, as they say that China's penal system is inhumanitarian.
It works they way you mentioned because you're a cacausian. If you're just another asian you'll get turned down for the dinner 90% of the time. Well, not to blame anyone for this but its simply a sad truth.
well, they made it clear in the beginning that this is only from their POV and their experience, of course they can't tell this from the view of a native chinese man. but I believe it's probably everywhere in the world a bit easier for you when you are the "exotic" guy /girl.
Long story short, find a relationship that works for you: if you want to live with gender roles, find a partner who does, if you want a partner with equal responsibilities, find a partner who does. As long as it works for the couple, that's what matters :). I like you for being straight about your own opinions. I am not built to be a housewife, and instead have a loving partner who wants to share responsibilities, but I know that some women and men do like that traditional household. As long as it's communicated from the get go, it's all good.
Good to know these cultural differences. I can understand some of my stateside Chinese friends better now, since their family pressure makes sense after watching this. We need to stop trying to pretend all people are equal/same and start learning to understand our differences logically.
If we’re are all going to be the same equal peoples than in that it won’t exist different sex genders different skin colours different nationalities different religions different names and we will all have the same names sex genders skin colours nationality religion 😊😅😂🎉
@@johnharvey4448 If we’re are all going to be the same equal peoples than in that it won’t exist different sex genders different skin colours different nationalities different religions different names and we will all have the same names sex genders skin colours nationality religion 😊😅😂🎉
Sorry this is off the subject of the video,but what brand are those motorcycles.What is the engine displacement?Are those the biggest bikes you can get in China?And where are your mirrors?Really like the purple color on yours.Thanks for all the great info.
Was the place/turn off on the left? Good information, and new subscriber here... first vlog I watched was about the hotels.. interesting and very good info. Thank You. Cheers. would be cool to ride with you guys there.
Are the rules of the road the same as in Thailand, Malaysia and the Philippines, where people really don't use their mirrors and the expectation is for the trailing vehicle to yield to the vehicle in front when it is turning/changing lanes? It was great fun renting a 125 and traveling around the countries. I bought a couple of cheap backpacks from a market along with a needle and fishing line and made a saddlebag out of them to carry my and the girlfriend's stuff. I racked up over 10,000 kilometers in the 11 months I spent there. As for China, I've only been to Hong Kong for a few weeks and never paid attention to the driving.
The reason the girls take casual relationships very seriously is because in most Asian cultures, sex outside of marriage is looked poorly upon. If their family knew they were doing it, it would cause a lot of dishonor to everybody. The fact that the girls are willing to have sex with you after a few dates, is them taking a HUGE leap of faith and risk, going against their culture expectations and upbringing. They expect you to take it seriously in return. Though obviously you get the odd new generation or more liberal types who don't feel this way, but the vast majority will.
As for not sharing the basic chores with a partner, that is on you as an individual and by just saying that of course it would be nice to have an easy life. Yet that my friend is not what life is about. I remember as a boy how I was used to wash up the dishes, clean shoes, take the rubbish out and basically do my part for the family I loved. Yet as a boy way back in the 50s I also watched my father do nothing around the house to help my mother out. I knew exactly how she must have felt. So guys, if you want to live with your head stuck in a newspaper and ignore helping your partner, to show her a little joy or at least work things out together, then you will miss out on what life has truly got to offer. There is nothing more rewarding, than being able to both share and give to the one your with. Anything below that and I would pity the woman that gets stuck with you! Enjoyed the rest though, apart from when your riding too fast into what looked like private areas! Maybe I was shocked that you went into certain areas, it looked so private.
Stephen Nicholas traffic laws in china are usually ignored haha. When I was living in china, motorcycles would generally go on any side of the road, or even go on the sidewalks. Traffic is very uniform and regulated in the west.
Your dad didn't help your mom because he worked his ass off probably as do most men in situations like that. You think cleaning a house is hard? You think men who work to keep their families in a house and fed have an "easy life" just because they don't take out the garbage?
Hey I just loved this video and this act of riding through the rural part of China which we don't often get to see! I would like to know whether you people were actually having the conversation while riding your bikes or you added the conversation part while editing the video and I loved the bikes both of you rode and would like to know about these bikes, I mean how many CC engines they have, bhp, mileage and all! :-D
I just learned about you guys love these style videos I used to drive around like that in Thailand really miss it. PS where exactly in mainland China is this? Also do you guys still work normal jobs for a living or what is the setup cause I don't quit get it. Greetings from Holland.
My friend recently flew to China for a couple weeks to get married, then back to UK alone. She paid for everything, which sounds unusual from what I've seen on a number of these videos. Here in Scotland over the past 5 or 6 years I've dated quite a number of Chinese women, gained a lot of insights, and after watching this it has me thinking about the different circumstances and their varied attitudes. In fact, each encounter is a story in itself.
Thanks you guys so much. I'm dating a girl from guizhou and your comments are really helpful. One thing still bothers me though. I noticed that she really does not often express her love on a daily basis. Like I'm the one who's always asking how she's doing, or taking the initiative for almost everything. That's a big change for me compared to european girls who are much more caring and "lovey-dovey" on a regular basis. It's been 8 months now and I kind of got used to it. Anyways, I know she actually does love and care about me. But I was just wondering if this is something normal for chinese girls. Is it?
+Yamapopi My Chinese girlfriend is like this. And I tend to be more of an emotional, lovey guy, so it was unexpected, and a bit hard to get used to. Basically, in Chinese culture, love is more in actions than in words. My girlfriend has said that it sometimes feels awkward to say "I love you" just because it can feel cheap for her to say it.
+Yamapopi that sounds pretty much spot on for a huge majority. of course there are exceptions, but there are quite a few girls that take a more pragmatic approach to love
Not all girls are the same in any place, so yeah, my Chinese wife is way more lovey than the average girl, always wanting me to say I love her and stuff like this. I like it, but it wasn't by my initiative that we do this kind of stuff. Your girl is more reserved emotionally and that's ok.
Please do not think that I am an idiot, but were you two talking in real time as you were riding and if so, were you doing it by phone or some other means.
ADVChina So you are talking as a western guy, how it works in china although you know exactly, that it is way easier for a western guy to simply run around and get women galore, as you are exotic, rich and the future for them. And you compare that with western women, who are toe to toe with you. Funny to see, that people do not care about that and show their half decent characters a youtube video. Guys: It is normal, that you can be direct and get the ladies. You are in a country still with a lot of poverty. They look up to you and want that life...no matter who you are! What a crap video, where 2 western guys talk about, wjat essentially usually is sex tourism. And you think, you got it....Jesus, what a video of donkeys
Bramley Tablet And they love the money, IF they are coming from poor background. That is natural and no offense intended. Same with thai girls. Sure it is easy...I mean you just go there and say "boom boom" and done! Sure it is something different than dating a rich l, priviledged western girl (no matter what race they are).
Absolutely enjoy watching these informative videos while being mobile. The establishment's such as hotels coffee shops etc kept me glued video after video. I was in the Marines and the hotel had ice cold air con. The " locals" froze their asses off. But seeing you guys do what you enjoy and bringing Asian information to us in our own understanding is simply top shelf. Great work gents i'm very happy for you both.
A regular viewer of ADVChina and Serpentza. I love your work and it really is fascinating seeing your perspective of the Chinese society. Although this is the first time I have to disagree. I get it that you are generalizing and thats ok, but you didn't mention it in this video and I just felt the obligation to point out my disagreement as a man. I do feel that its manly to treat my girlfriend with a home cooked dinner, a clean apartment and fresh bed sheets. And I do that because I know she thinks thats sexy. Just as I think its sexy to have a girlfriend who can do the same for me. I see no difference there. I see that not all people like to cook, and thats fine, why we have restaurants. But in my experience this is not a typical manly or womanly thing. So to expect this is in my opinion wrong. If you do it and are happy both of you, I'm happy. Just wanted to point that out. Im not that type of man, and I feel I'm happier cause of it, and I know that's not just me, at least here in Sweden. Thanks for a good show, Peace and Love.
I think Chinese people have a totally different process to get into marriage from the West. Sadly, I have to say that most Chinese girls who date foreigners think westerners are actually living the same world of similar social culture as theirs. In China, people’s confession of ‘like you’ makes this relationship serious. Generally Chinese people will not start a relationship if they don't think that they are not ready to be boyfriends or girlfriends. If they sleep, that relationship will be very serious and are ready and at least willing to be married. If not, that’s considered jerks who are wasting others’ time and emotionless. It’s considered unmoral and animal-like if a person only wants to sleep with someone before knowing her well. Girls are also considered easy. I am a Chinese girl.
I dated a Chinese girl and she asked me if I wanted to date her exclusively after three weeks? I said that I did. She then asked me where I thought the relationship was going? I was already in love with her and told her that I intended to ask her to marry me later in the year. She told me that she would say yes if I did. That was almost 40 years ago and we're stlll married.
That is cute af, i haven't dated since highschool, and i intend to wait until I'm set with a job and a degree, because i don't want to date around, but date to marry. Your story is super cute, and i hope i can find mrs. Right just like you found yours 😍
I don't think it's as romantic as story as you think, bro! lol
Sounds very contractual.
That being said - it sounds awesome!
You gave me hope. Road bumps early just language and culture. Oh and fn WeChat sucks you know what.
sounds very typical for a chinese engagement. Though it usually happens in like 3 months
You are like 14 little dude... 😂🤣 good one though!
Winston, do not worry about the dogs, you do not have to be faster than them, only faster than C-Milk
You just have to bark and bite harder! ;)
Why's he called c-milk?
@@vincentfegley6068 His rapper name in China was "condensed milk" because he is so white.
@@briantayler1230that's hilarious
God I love the duo with these two guys it's very heart warming in a way, two bros chillin on motorcycles riding around China just talking about whatever
dickhead your username fits your comment.
Huh? Original poster seemed pretty nice...
@@dreamsteal4773 go back to minecraft you poisonous weasel
@@dreamsteal4773 hmm then your handle should be "limp dick internet troll" to match your comment..
@@iCipher some people just can't handle a simple joke...
Two foreign guys warned me when I came to China "Don't fall for a girl with a very low-end job. If you do, she'll quit her job and sit around all day, drinking tea and watching Korean dramas."
spicykimchi1 lol..I think you thinking too much
so true couldnt agree more
You are one? :D lol
either way they'll still watch those terrible korean dramas
spicykimchi1
I think this is true of asian women the world over.
this is a really fantastic way to do a cultural vlog. the first person view from a motorcycle is an endlessly entertaining backdrop to casual conversation between the two of you. just a couple of dudes tearing ass around the Chinese countryside while having a conversation. I love it.
They opened this video up saying 'this was from their personal view', them being white guys in China. So they're not naive, they're just stating things as they experienced it. You sound like an angry single chinese guy, my friend...
dirtmerchant1980 me too, love the idea!
Left out some important facts though, like that Chinese girls have horizontal vaginas.
The other guys mic is a bit rough. He's a good speaker in his other vids
The main guys speech is very clear, surprising when he's in a helmet.
Great video. I work with a Chinese girl in America and we talk about these traditions / culture and she laughs because she says it's all true. Love your videos.
As a native Chinese and your new Fans, I want to give you a truly advertise: Be care the Dogs when you get into any village, those dogs are not raise like the pet dogs, esily attack stranger...
Yep! Watch out for the dogs : )
hahaha I been chased by dogs to... funny I thought it was a one time thing...
hahaha lol
In my wife's village, the dogs followed me around because i was the only one willing to pet them.
ppl desigh a dog hole in the wall, and dog can go in and out as they like.
Chinese hate to 'lose face' more than other groups of people in the world. When you 'dumped' this Chinese girl, it actually made her feel ashamed more than you realized and she couldn't 'face' her family (aka parents), friends, neighbors and pets..., especially if she thought you were such a 'good catch'. I wouldn't say she was psychotic. She's just trying very hard to do everything to get you back. Too hard maybe.
What if ur a black or brown guy..? Would she still feel ashamed or relieved?
U mean they are yellow
You are an idiot. skin colour is what they are born with.
Jack Foobar white people kindve are pink. like, get a white person to squeeze their skin or say suck/give a hickie and see what I mean...
Tell her to go and get a job and help with the bills
Sensitive plants are amazing. For anyone who's interested, the folding works by responding to touch at the nodes and internodes by releasing a large amount of potassium ions and therefore by osmosis the limb, or leaflet loses turgor pressure and then the limb droops and the leaves fold inwards.
i understood some of those words
@@mybutthasteeth1347 Basically if you touch the plant at the little section where the leaf connects or between those sections you case a biochemical reaction that results in the release of potassium ions. By osmosis from these ions, the limb or leaflet loses the pressure that keeps it stiff (man that sounds dirty) or in shape and the drooping limbs cause it to fold inwards. Can't believe I finally get to use all 1 semesters worth of botany knowledge for a yt comment :'(
@@CR-rm4iy probably makes it harder to graze
@@mybutthasteeth1347 basically if a unnatractive woman touches ur ding dong it goes down.
I am a Jamaican man and I am married to a woman from China. Every relationship is different, but these two kinda hit the nail on the head with how Chinese women are and how they view relationships. My wife moved to the US from china because her family put lots of pressure on her to marry a wealthy Asian man when she was barely 19! She saw how that life choice to marry a rich man landed her mother into a horrible living situation Her mother became almost a slave to her father because he made all the money!!! She would have to ask him for money to go anywhere or do anything and then give a large explanation for everything she did. Because of this, my wife is fiercely independent and strives to earn her own money and handle things on her own. She also does the cute housewife thing and cleans, does stuff around the house. Sometimes I come home and there is fresh fruit salad cut up for me or a nice lunch made for me when I leave for work! its nice to know that she appreciates me so much! I do my best to be mindful to return the favors and do little things to let her know i'm thinking and caring for her.
My wife and I got involved with each other in college and right away we moved in with each other because both our living situations at the time were horrible and it just made financial sense to move in. We dated for about a year before we got married... I was terrified to marry her because you hear the horror stories about people changing after getting married or women who spend more money then the man can earn and build up insane debt for the family or they get super jealous and crazy...
We have been married for 5 years and it was the best choice I ever made... I married young and sacrificed a lot of partying and missed opportunities with other women, but because we fit well together we were serious from a young age we started laying a strong foundation for our future much faster then most our age... We were serious while my peers were still dating their on and off again Ex's for the 5th time, Getting caught cheating or cheating on their partners , Tons of Drama and wasting money on dates and gifts and just silly stuff young people waste money on. My wife and I Pinched pennies for three years and saved up money for a house after our third year of marriage. Then we started saving money for a business as soon as we signed off on our house. I am now 30 years old, I own two businesses I have my own beautiful home and the mortgage on my house is less then our old one bedroom apartment. If i had wasted my time dating and fooling around I prob would have ended up broke but with a few more notches under my belt from fucking drunk girls in NYC!
If you find a Chinese woman who seems loving, trusting, makes her own money and manages her money well , not super jealous and controlling (watch for the subtle hints when you date!) THEN MARRY HER....good women are hard to find in America these days. As my wife says "these bitches (yes...bitches... I love her! HAHA) are out here looking for a millionaire price who will get bored with them... I found a good man and I give him what he needs and turn him into a king"
nice story, it was good to read
sort of funny how her saying is pretty much close to Russian woman's saying "to get married with general you should get engaged with lieutenant"
I married a Filipina who was born and raised there, and currently still living there, because I found their approach to relationship and marriage to be more serious than the women in general here in Canada. That isn't to say all Filipinas make good wives, as there are other factors involved, but of the ones I've chatted with and met, they were far ahead of what I've dealt with here. Cultural upbringing, as well as parental upbringing, makes a huge difference.
I had never really given marriage any serious thought with the women I've dated here. Any remote thought of it was a turn off. Yet, with this Filipina, I had no reservations. "Let's do this".
congratulation! looks like you have found the right one.
In other words more community and family accountability and support?
Loved the format! And speaking as a Kiwi with a Chinese wife (in New Zealand), everything you said was spot-on!
+Tim Elley Thanks Tim!
I enjoyed the bikes and the conversation. I want a bike now.
Chinese girls treat their dating partners differently in general. If you are white, you are automatically categorized as date-able or not date-able (due to some strict family rules). If you are Chinese, then it's a totally different aspects to look at. So your experience only relates to how Chinese girls date foreigners.
And should be obvious
oh mannn as a white man i totally expected them to talk about what its like to be a Chinese man trying to date in china? lol. derp.
@Fred Fernackerpan Well, don't be sure. I'm married to a Chinese lady (yes, lady), been married for 20 years.
I have the extended family issues to deal with, and they took her right in.
Which is shocking, considering my family is from the deep south in the US.
@Fred Fernackerpan My wife's family thankfully were the exception, rather than the rule. They were aware I'm not a gazillionare, and didn't give a damn about the CCP (They left the country prior to the coronaviri outbreak).
They have accepted me as family, mine have accepted them.
So, both sides in the end won out.
I dated a woman from Hong Kong (in Canada) and she'd judge me on all these cultural rules that I didn't know about. I told her that my parents got divorced and she said that that means I would divorce her, so we couldn't be long-term.
As a guy who just got out of a relationship with a Chinese girl, I can testify that most of what they said are all SO FUCKING TRUE! Loved the way they narrate over a wanderlust-motorcycle ride around rural Chinese highways and villages as if during a chit-chat podcast, great job guys!
being straight forward in china is a thing...
"i like you, let's make out"
boom: 2 billion people ;)
buweahahahaha!!
think thats just asia in general tbh when your a foreigner, its like that in the philippines except the women tend to be more open if they find you attractive.
@@Abionx Dont I know it! The sheer amount of 'come to bed eyes' I have seen in the Philippines even though I am already married and my wife is stood right next to me.
Speak for yourselves...things are different in india *2 billion*
Daslllu 😂😂😂😂😂😂that was funny
So basically Chinese dating culture is like what it was in the West prior to the 60's sexual revolution?
lol racist much?
What about rigidity or hardness.
Jewish revolution more like!
How the hell is that racist? It's actually derogatory to make that statement, because it implies that China would be backwards if it had the dating culture or several decades ago in the west.
@Dennis Vidal Blacks had intact families under racism and segregation. Come to your own conclusion.
The mindset of Chinese girls described here is exactly the mindset of American girls in the 1950's.
I wasn't quite old enough to date but I was there the entire decade.
You know what's great about white women, though? Your child will actually look like it's your own if you knock one up.
Look at that C-Milk fellas daughter. It's like he never left a genetic legacy at all. It's like he never had a child.
Hans Brackhaus True. That is the problem with most interracial relationships. Except maybe for relationships with Jews, but then your child has a hooked nose and an insatiable love of money, so that would still be quite bad.
I beg to differ, I'm mixed (between irish-carribean) and my brother looks a lot like my dad and although I don't much, I share the majority of his mannerisms. All that 'genetic legacy' bullshit isn't a thing - all humans are mixes of different races. I'm assuming you're American, a country a couple hundred years old, so you're probably a mix of every european country, a slave and/or a native somewhere in you're lineage too so don't act like the other race taints you're genetic legacy. If anything it makes it stronger.
ThatsSoCailan You're not wrong. However, it is still sad to see one's genes getting washed out (white genes tend to be recessive, e.g. blue/green/grey eyes or blonde/brown hair), but at the very least they have a chance to resurface again, i.e. by a mixed child marrying another mixed child (1 in 4 for appearance-level attributes, e.g. hair and eyes).
The genetic legacy is still there, even if it is hidden beneath the surface.
Awesome video guys, I love bikes, it was so refreshing to watch an interesting bike drive with commentary. Well done and thank you.
Big thumbs up from me guys. This is a great format and works so well :)
+True Mexico Thanks True Mexico!
+laowhy86 Pleasure mate. Looking forward to the next one.
Chinese girls do take dating very seriously.
I took a Chinese girl out on a date and next day I decided we were not compatible, and I rang her and told her so.
She then told me "So, we are getting a divorce?"
Don't get it wrong. Just a joke. A smart girl who is trying to cover her mood while you are turning her off.
Maybe they take life seriously.
She was probably just being nice...
+Fender
I'm Asian guy, and i'll say that's not 100% true, i swear...you don't need to swear bro, most white people will trust you lol
Anyway, how i see it after observing Asian girls on dating sites, most of them just simply like foreigner, not limited to white. I mean i'm Asian as well, on dating sites, i get plenty of love from Asian girls hailing from other countries, but not so much from my own country :P
AtriasNaradan why is that? whats your country?
There are women in the West who expect marriage in their 20s as well, and don’t want to “try it on” with a lot of dating men either and want marriage, too. We get heartbroken too. Not just Chinese ladies. It’s too bad this is what men think western women are like and we get thrown to the curb.
Don't be fooled into thinking men are evil. There are men out there who want the same traditional wants anyone else does. Its human nature so don't get discouraged. Just stay away from men who don't have the balls to take life into their own hands FOR THEIR FAMILIES(not for themselves). Find a man who takes PRIDE in his family.
if a man avoids the pitfalls of growing up in West why would he ever pick you? White women are a placeholder so that the boy can be born white man. White women are problematic, unattractive, feminists, and weight issues. If a man has taken upon himself to succeed in a society that hates him, and to learn Chinese, of course he wants the best possible woman. Think of his needs first - same reason why he avoids you. You aren't his priority. Only being hurt and making him believe you is your priority.
@Mike Epp01 It's not a eugenics issue. Feminists and shitty men arent the one having the kids. Most of the kids being born are to conservative / religous / rural, and other demographics that tend to favor traditionalism.
But even in those groups the liberal attitudes towards gender roles have seeped in. They may not be radical feminists, but they are still affected.
Sadly women are now more miserable than ever (men too to a lesser extent). There are decent women out there, but for most of us we need to find a women who isn't a crazy feminist, and then try to make a mediocre situation work out for us.
It's no secret why white men are getting women from asia. The problem is that even if they have children, the children end up getting raised in the western culture, and are not like their mother much of the time.
Getting Asian women is just a temporary band-aid. It doesnt solve the problem of collapsing western culture.
@Mike Epp01 you are a complete idiot. eugenics is to do with purifying the human race by taking out other races, qualities of the races and the mentally ill and inferior basically and nothing to do with feminism. feminism was to give rights and freedoms as a PERSON and although ppl see it as the right to work out of the home, that is not a constant of feminism, only the right to have a choice of it or not. most men totally misunderstand this and i think you all take it as some kind of threat to manhood when really it's just avoiding being chattel and owned like a damn pet, or object. let me ask men this, would you want to be owned with no rights or choices? and if you want a reason why women want rights look at p51mustang24 or enza denino who seem to think relationships are about a man being happy and a woman being a cowed thing or obect that has to act in a way that pleases them. lol feminism isn't the problem, the problem is ppl all being so selfish they want it all their way instead of it being equality and harmony. it seems normal to me that you would expect from a partner what you would be willing to do, be or sacrifice and not about one sex or person being happy while the other is only there to please them.
This was one of the best videos I have seen, very well done both in so many areas..content, production values, etc etc. video editing, audio syncing. Impressed with the effort on this video. Only small thing was c milk's mic had a bit of echo. I can relate to some of what you are saying as well. Even at 48, a Chinese woman I have just returned from seeing, is ready to be married. Keep up the good work.
+GNX157 thank you so much dude! that means so much!
mic issue is being resolved in this coming episode!!!
+laowhy86 if you want the best sound, just re record all the speech later on and sync it with the video, very easy on this video specially on the motorcycles. Also the intro was cool, could of been cooler if u had slowed down some of the movements when u guys were putting on the gloves and jacket and stuff, Maybe end with a still shot and your names come in with a cool effect. The take off with the motorcycles could of been better if u guys had cranked the engine a few times before taking off hehehe. Just some suggestions, I really liked the video and the content a lot.
+CRlSTO
>re record all the speech
no no no
Winston might be my #1 favorite UA-camr because he 1. Doesn't talk with a PC filter and doesn't get wrapped up with offending the PC crowd 2. Gets great camera shots 3. Discusses the positive and negative
As well, at 25:10- 25:15 lol I have had that exact experience with a former Chinese girlfriend
Yes, he gives very good information. Winston is somehow a very mature person. This happens because he lives in China. This is not always an easy thing to do. Looking from the Western perspective. He lives & learns.
Don't you think he went too far when he told everyone who disagreed with him to get bent? Speaking from your heart is one thing, being closed minded about the fact that people are different from you is quite another.
SpazzyMcGee1337 I think he just knew the oncoming PC police, SJW, and feminist finger wagging was inevitable , so he threw that out first. Well played.
SpazzyMcGee1337
You’re taking it too personally...I say too- get bent, and fuck off with your insufferable defensive bs.
_"His wife's a doctor, folks!"_
Ben Shapiro intensifies
If you expect or want a women to be a traditional wife (domestic goddess ) then you have to be a traditional husband (provide for all her needs)
African men often the king..
Doesn't sound like a good bargain.
PaulIvanish what would a good bargasin be?
Equality. I guess?
Lmao. You trippin. I grew up being taught good morals and treat women right. I'm 26 btw. Last 7 years i tried being a humble guy or traditional man to get a decent girl. All girls do is walk all over you. To nice, or too good to them. Yet i would see my friends treat girls like trash. The wome. worship them. So i gave up on being a decent man. I treat them like trash because its what women like. Im decent looking guy. Not a brad pit but at least an 8. Since i became an asshole, its easy to get laid and i dont respect them or give them the time. And it works. Fuck being a gent.
Jerk i shall be.
It sounds like these 2 guys were like a couple of innocent lambs who wandered into the tiger pit that is the Chinese dating scene, and the Chinese girls just went "Fresh blood!" And 7 years later they're still there...
Except that's not all all the case. They've been all over China and had many different Chinese girlfriends and eventually settled.
These guys are so *NAIVE* it is frustrating. Conservative Chinese girls have no idea of dating. *Chinese girls are just as inconsiderate to Chinese men as white girls are to white men back at home.* In order for them to show off to their friends, you either need to be rich Chinese man, or be white.
Progressive Chinese girls know dating, but when it comes to *white guys they will worship them and hope the white masters will take them to western heaven.*
They dream of Miss Saigon or Madame Butterfly, be dumb girls who want to hang onto white men when they go back to their homelands in the West. *They will go apeshit if the white boat has passed them by, and will NOT accept that their relationship can be anything **_but_** serious.*
and both are married!! haha
Jesus mary sunshine, just speak for yourself, k? I think Asian men are very attractive.
Tadgh Smith hahahahaha
I’m glad I watched this video. It kind of gives me a better perspective on why my own wife was hesitant to be in a relationship with me when I asked her to be my gf. What I learned here is that in her mind I wasn’t simply asking her to be my gf. In a sense I was asking her to marry me. And what do you know, four months later we’re married. That was 4.5 years ago and things are going great. We plan on having kids next year.
Says his wife is the exception.. Buys a house just to marry her... Oh C-Milk...
I took it that he said she was an exception to the "progressive" type of woman he dated -- more traditional.
raosprid Hmm.
yeah, he said most of the girls are progressive, and speak English really well, his wife being an exception. I took it as she was more traditional gender roles.
JamesMichaelDoyle I took it as he was looking for more progressive women, I didn't think he'd settle down with a traditional woman.
how the hell did you managed to take away that? lol.
he proceeded to explain that she makes good money as a doctor and takes care of herself, but he likes that she still cooks and does the dishes for him.
I don't date Asian women anymore. They treat relationships like some serious business transaction. Quite odd.
Because in China to have a western boyfriend is "very cool" and significantly rises woman's status. Weird culture.
If you are white, handsome and have a good career prospect, asian women will most likely say YES when you confess to them.
thats something that might come in handy when you want to settle down. a western woman that takes marriage seriously is rare nowadays since they can divorce for no reason and take the house, kids and all the guys money. 100 years ago women divorced for good reasons, like the man was physically abusive or a chronic cheater or failed the children in a serious way. now women in the west most frequently divorce just because they are bored - and that should scare the shit out of any sane western man when you consider what is at stake.
Irish Jester who files the majority of divorces in the west. thats all you need to know
There is still the gold digger culture, its kind of a world wide thing, only in china the fact you are western, white, have good career, is the equivalent of having a Lamborghini in the west... both would say yes for the same reasons, the Lamborghini is simply a different thing for each of them.
I absolutely love the premise of your videos, guys: Riding and talking, so simple and yet so refreshingly original.
Great stuff. Keep up the good work!
I've lived in China (Shanghai) for 3 years now, and this video just made me realize I need to get out of the city more. Very nice video guys.
+Cameron Chaloux yeah man! do it! The Chinese countryside is full of surprises!
+laowhy86 Lol, everyone finds surprises out of their motherland.
I am a Chinese girl, your video is so true about everything! To be honest, lots of Chinese guys would hate the last part. Lots of these staffs you are saying are "forbidden topics" in China, this video is awesome!!
+Ying Huang Thank you Ying! It means a lot to us that you watched the video!
Your show is so addictive! I've sworn it off a dozen times but like a bad case of herpies I just can't get rid of it.
Great job guys!
Love it that you're being direct and honest about gender roles.
Yeah some honest stuff not the constant fake stuff you are fed about patriarchy and rape culture
Unfortunately still being apologetic about it.
One of them was being apologetic about it, the other was straightforward and said he liked it and believed most men did.
Tom Bratfred some people won't listen if he doesn't apologise, it doesn't mean he disagrees with it to some extent. He is running a UA-cam channel, he knows to keep people happy. Their honestly is extremely refreshing though.
ChernobylPizza you need to get out of the house and experience the outer world. maybe take a small journey out of your neighbourhood, the world is significantly more than tumblr
I can totally relate to this idea, being a Chinese guy.
Dating is for the purpose of marriage, not just some casual fun. And marriage is for procreation, not just two people hanging out until old age.
True stuff, my man
I totally agree with the former but will have to disagree with the latter, for marriage does not end when procreation is done and should not be based on procreation. To me it's about 2 people loving each other until old age, whether they have children or not, and remain happy with each other's company. Children will eventually grow up and leave you one day, the one who walks through life with you is your parter. There are people who are happily married with no children, and I admire them :)
Fobulous TV That is also true
The love between two people certainly shouldn't be discounted, but parenting brings a whole another dimension to one's life experience that nothing else can replace. It's the most rewarding and terrifying experience.
It's unfortunate that not all couples could have children, but we shouldn't say that children are not worth having.
Well said!!!
Yes a Chinese girl I was briefly with came to my door crying a few nights after things were over. It was a messy process. I pretended to call the US embassy to scare her away, she wanted to come in my room and kept trying to get past me, it was 2am and she was really loud.
This is exactly the type of video I like, it had a very interesting conversation and also a lot of cool, interesting places so both audio and video were great.
+august vctjuh Thank you August!
I really enjoyed your topic on Chinese girls vs. Western Girls; I am an American who lived in China for eight years; I can't tell you how relieved I was to hear your perspective on Chinese girls, everything you shared I've experienced more times than I can count.
... another awesome video from you guys, really good, thanks!! :)
TL:DR - 'China is old fashioned'.
I love this new stuff you guys have on this channel, I really appreciate your personality's and your lifestyles you guys bring to this. Also it's an really new thing you have here, its almost like a talk show, but you aren't confined to a boring desk. Also its like a scenic tour, and a whole host of other things going on. Really great, after watching your vids for over six months. To then becoming a subscriber. You guys Changed My whole view point about life and china, and also Motorcycles lol. Thanks , keep up the awesome work ^_^
+DontTouchMyMarbles what an awesome comment! thanks for the feedback man!
If Chinese girls weren't prettier, would western men still prefer them? Does it really come down to femininity and being a good wife?
Also, I'll get hate for this but if you work full time and your wife works full time, then chores should be somewhat equal no? I could understand if your wife is a stay at home mom or only worked part time that she should do all the cooking and cleaning but if she works all day she's just as tired as you at the end of each day.
blah blah blah. that is why you're single. jesus. what happened to women being nurturing.... you have got to be American there is no other explanation.
Maybe the western guys should tell their Asian wives to go and get a job and help with the bills like they do in most of the western countries. Even if they have children most women in western countries still work. Then they would see whether the Asian ladies love them or marry them as a "good catch" and if they would have a time and energy to nurture them
@@terrom550 Asian women do work full time and taking care of their children and husband. You will never understand because in your eyes I see jealousy.
@@cindyl.3699 jealousy? over what? I've been just realistic why lot of Asian women like to marry western guys
@MATHA NOSHTO-MAN not every Asian is a "tiger mom". Tiger mom are referred to the americanized asians and they are submissive is part of their culture to respect men heavily.
Not so much my wife, but some of the guys I know with Chinese GF's say they are extremely possessive. She gets mad if he isn't constantly texting her, doesn't immediately answer her texts or if he decides to go out after work for a drink with the guys, doesn't immediately text her to see if she has already made plans for the evening.
On clothing, my wife after living in Texas and getting her US citizenship, adopted the American casual/functional way of dressing. Her Chinese GF's, sisters and mother all complain that she doesn't dress up.
One time up in her home city of Yanji, Jilin, we got into a taxi, she was wearing jeans, athletic shoes and an expensive long sleeved pink and brown striped Tommy Hilfiger polo shirt. The driver said to her, "You dress like an American." When she replied she was an American, the driver replied "Bulls#!t, your Chinese, you should dress like a Chinese. After that, My wife basically called him an idiot, told him to F-off, and that we were getting another taxi.
Carl Sharp Yep Americans are very casually dressed for the most part. In the Bay Area it is hard to tell the difference between a billionaire and a homeless guy. Even the CEO of facebook wears hoodies to meetings.
I like to dress casually/comfortably myself, not trashy but not in a tux.
She gets mad if he isn't constantly texting her - that's actually because Chinese men keep their gfs on a short leash and if you're not constantly texting her - means you don't care. I mean, the Chinese men "train" the Chinese girls to respond to that. They couldn't tell them that they're asking them where they are and what are they doing every 5 minutes out of their insecurity - they just tell them "It's because I love you". And Chinese women buy that line hook and sinker. So then when you aren't like that - they think it's something wrong.
Just like when you have sex with a Chinese prostitute... you take your time instead of finishing after 3 minutes like your average Chinese. She thinks maybe she's doing something wrong, starts apologizing or getting mad that you're a "difficult customer" who paid for 1 hour... and yet expects more than 3 minutes of sex xD
Damn you got a really rare waifu huh. I never even heard of that home city.
Kevin Low
It's Dong Bei... so maybe it's best you didn't hear of it xD
She should have pulled the handbrake and given him a slap aswell.
Gender roles are neither good nor bad, they merely are what they are, and they work for the couple, or not.
Francis Roy I'm not sure your opinion is that accurate. Open and easy-going, yes, but accurate, no. Male and female roles have a place. Certain things just fit and work better together, like a penis in a vagina, a man being a father, a woman being the mother. It's not complicated.
@Francis Roy wise words
I had to laugh when they said the Mongolian restaurant opens at 4:30pm. That's practically exactly when many Chinese places here open for dinner service. I've often wondered why Chinese places close for several hours after lunch so it was funny to see a place in China doing the same thing.
I'm guessing that the workers are taking a nap before they reopen at 4:30pm.
Lol that "I want to make it clear i respect all women" pop-up. The fact we live in a society where we have to disclaim things like this is sad. Anyways, fantastic episode! Loved the ride and talk + vlog style. :D
+Toast TOAST!!!
+loawhy86 Are you eating me yet? Or are you still on dat silly diet.
i feel like im drifting further and further away from you Toast. I wanna be friends, but I can't have you inside of me
laowhy86 Viv would never understand your oral relationship with Toast.
I respect all non-woke women 🗿 🍷
An unusual yet inviting style of video. I really liked seeing the countryside while listening to your casual and informative conversation. Thanks and cheers.
If I had a girlfriend doing the dishes and cleaning for me that would be the moment I would actually start doing it myself out of shame lol.
America used to be whitemen utopia.
yeess if my bf did that to me i'd think its cute but also feel guilty lol
maybe ill cook and he"ll clean dishes
@@mozambique9113 Say that to the Irish immigrants of the 1850s.
@@Ozzianman for real, or the Italians, or anyone who was poor. Sounds like someone ignorant or not native to America
Great idea for a series guys, looking forward to more of these vids
+leviathan 0000 making the new episode right now!
Awesome video. Your voices were clear and the video was clear and pleasant to watch.
I must say, you guys were spot on, on every topic. I may even bold enough to say that this applies to almost all far east Asian women from developing countries.
+urpoche thank you! great comment!
Hi, I discovered you two on China Uncensored and love your channel. You’re so fun to watch! 👍 and interesting topics.
"Starfish?" No thank you, then. I've been with an American 'starfish' and it was the most boring relationship ever. I can't imagine a whole nation of women like that. Too bad.
@sneksnekitsasnek I'll switch to fisting then, thank you.
starfish???
@@myshiteu4934 meaning they just lay there like a chicken (or star fish) in bed , which is kind of awkward
@@kumkan3588 ohhhh😂😂
my girlfriend is chinese. she is the best in bed ive ever seen. not even remotely starfish. anyway... lol
"Yes we can all do the same thing. No one is saying that a woman can't do this or a man can't do that. But, 'do you want to?' is the actual question" - That was some real shit.
A woman couldn't make it through Navy Seal training. ;-)
Wow, top of my recommended up next list is an ad video called “Serpantza’s videos lead you misunderstanding China” [sic]. Someone really is out to counter you placing paid ads against you.
I love your Vlog, it's really well edited and provided with high coherence.
I would like to know more about the development of the chinese people who actually moved at the last century from villages to cities, and from having nothing to wealthy people (not all of them I know, but as a nation)
Thanks again for the great content
I'm Asian-American raised in the states, I wish men who approach me always have good intentions. I don't settle nor have casual liaisons, I would rather be single and focus on achieving career goals, earn enough money to purchase what I want, like my dream car and my own house. Although my family is from the S. Pacific, my parents never emphasized marriage and children as a must, higher education was a given and so is independence. I believe that they have a progressive attitude because they are educated professionals (physician and engineer) and so were my grandparents (scientists and business owners). So many couples are miserable because they don't see eye to eye or the relationship is dysfunctional but it's sad when they continue to stick together. Life is too short!
Relatable stuff,
I dated a Chinese girl from Guangzhou at my university and the things these guys talk about are spot on.
Great video. Put's me at ease to just watch the scenery and listen to the conversation.
I love how you 2 just hall ass around China and give great advice. But wish your camera was not just looking at the handlebars of you bike
But all and all I love your videos
Comparing a U.S. woman to a Chinese woman. I was married to a white woman from So. California . She would never assist with any household chores ! Never !
Now I have a 54 y/o girlfriend from So. China . And it's winter here in Ohio . I wake up at 7 A.M. and she is no where to be found in the house. Well , where the hell is she ? I finally do find her. The temperature is 5 degrees outside and she is outside with a snow shovel , shoveling snow from the driveway ! And she does not even have any good winter footwear. In the mean time my ex wife is still too lazy to even buy curtains for the windows. She would have bitched if I had purchased window curtains but is too lazy to do it herself.
Luce is outside on a pretty cold morning shoveling snow without even so much as a hint from me that she should do so ! I think that says it all !!
Yeah it says that you were married to a lazy white woman and that you are now married to a deligent chinese woman.
It also says that you are either too poor or too cheap to buy your wife any good winter footwear. If the first is true I a truly sorry. If it is the second you should be a better husband
John Sinclair ,
Actually I was married to two white women like that . After two strikes I did not try for a third one !
As for Luce and her footwear , we have only been together for two months and I certainly did not expect her to be out shoveling snow !
At most I expected going out from the house into the truck and from the truck directly into the front door of a shopping mall.
And she does have proper winter boots now.
Donald Miller well did ur first wife at least hv a job?
Yeah my experience wife is a lazy Fuckin bitch. I love Asian chicks they are much better than my lazy know it all foul mouth pig wife. Santa Claus dose more work than her
platt platt just do it!
I can't remember the last time i saw a woman without full makeup other than my mother... so many women just cake on makeup. and it looks awful
+RasputinReview hahahaha
+RasputinReview Truely, I am a chinese, and I have got a glimpse of how Europe girls make up themselves. They are too heavy from my points. I like the figure and face of the typical western girl. But the makeup......Orz.
I lived in Asian for 5 years and in various Asian countries and this habit/ attitude that you described about Chinese girls is very quite similar in other Asian or SE Asian countries. Therefore it is more of an Asian costume rather than unique to the Chinese girls. Once you start going out with a Asian girl, all friends and family members keep often asking when you are going to get marrige. Louis
29:30"Chinese women are not very active"
"Yes, uh, one might say...Starfish"
"Starfish is a very good analogy"
"Basically I guess they..because of the whole general thing, they don't feel like they have to be putting any effort in."
^^^100000000000000000%^^^
It's so fucking true, and it's super super weird and unpleasant. Not just the "inactivity" bit, but the weird sounds, the general apathy towards sex in general because, as pointed out, all their previous boyfriends basically treated them like a human blowup doll.
I love how C-Milk was like "after we had sex she'd be like "is that what sex is supposed to be like?" Cause that happens without fail. I've been with Chinese girls that straight up said that they hated sex, but when you get to know them intimately you realize they've never had a partner who was considerate of her needs and wants. Like you know that episode of South Park where they boys go on a quest to find the Clitoris? Obviously that's banned in China, but I wonder how many Chinese women have had their partner go on that quest. Or how many average Chinese women have actually even had an orgasm courtesy of their partner.
Also the whole awkward breakup bit.
"I barely dated this girl..all of a sudden I get a notebook at my door, every page was filled with every message I'd ever sent her, she'd been jotting all that stuff down, then showing up at my door crying every night"...100%
Well, the Chinese women and their parents are not wrong. Dating without the intention of marriage is wasting her youth.
But this guy's were very sarcastic.
And she is wasting your time too, does it not go both ways?
@@sverre371 Youth is slightly less valuable as a man. As a women it becomes very difficult to enter a relationship after 30, but for men they can still usually attract younger women up to at least 40.
After 30 a lot of women find that men will fuck them still, but the good men are searching for younger women to actually marry.
@@p51mustang24 Maybe right, but i don't see the point at my age to fool around with a teenager without any skills exept breathing and demanding marriage.
@@p51mustang24 LMFAO yeah good luck with that, I get that old men want young women but unless they're a millionaire celebrity they won't get it.
Did you return to the Mongolian Yurt Village? Is there a video?
Thanks!
They did. They traded their motorcycles in and left on horseback.
I don't know if they mentioned this part but Chinese women don't like to kiss. This may also hold true for other Asian women from other Asian countries as well. You may see them kissing passionately on Chinese TV but in real life they don't French kiss so to speak...they don't like to make out or don't even understand it....after growing up dating Western women that particular part is big let down and hard to get used and/or give up
RedQNZ then how do you initiate foreplay?
The thai girls I've been with kissed normally.
I would say this is true. And then they'll complain I do it strange.
They love to kiss.
I like kissing my husband thousands times and I dress good, I do make up! Half Japanese
In my experiences "kissing" Chinese men, I can understand why the women don't like to kiss. Guys I've met kissed as if they were dehydrated dogs finding water for the first time. Licking all over the face, aggressive tongue thrusting, and heavy breathing.
Really liked this, good job guys!!!
+X Acolyte thank you!
In America as recent as the 80s/90s it was quite common for people to get married in their early 20s.
vh9network fun fact, In the book Wealth of Nations, which was published before the revolutionary war, the author even mentioned that people in the "American Colonies" got married much earlier, 18-20 range while people in England got married five to ten years later. Crazy hu?
most of Asian women act feminine. not only Chinese women.some other Asian country as well
The girls you guys are talking about are mostly uneducated.
It's like say American people all like fast food and always order French fries with Diet Coke.
Guangdong is a very traditional place. I would say most Chinese girls bear huge family pressure to marry or whatever, but they actually have a strong sense of personal determination. The thing is that obeying to parents is almost sacred in Confucius culture.
My fiancee's white, though everytime I'm asked (and a lot always initially assumes Asian), I always start with describing her as half British, a quarter Italian, and a quarter German, only to wait for the reaction of realizing that my fiancee is white to sink in.
I get treated differently soon after, in some ways better than the normal looks I'd get, where people starts smiling and show their interest on me and my fiancee. I will admit, consciously or not, I have succumbed to using this to elevate some of my social status and social standing with friends from the military/business as well as family settings.
Not academia, though, since whether a person is of any socially constructed race, they look at people through the lens of intellect, knowledge, and contribution to research rather than some superficial pigmentation of the skin.
I digress, my fiancee obtained a masters degree before I even completed my bachelor's degree, and have started teaching before I got into grad school. Whenever asked, the Asian side of the family would find it absurd and just can't understand that two people of different social status/education level can fall in love. I'm certain I will obtain my Ph.D. eventually, but to them, having a girlfriend/fiancee that has gone 'further' in life than you as a man is almost unacceptable.
Just thought I'd share my two cent on the opposite side of the spectrum relative to this video. And, hey, I love playing with shy grass whenever I'm in Taiwan, too! It's just so awesome seeing the leaves contract!
Its sad how that mindset is scary to some people as that's how its supposed to fucking be. we really fucked ourselves straying from that as I hate to tell you that mindset aligns with our nature. women's peak fertility is in the early 20s and you hit the wall at 30 where if your lucky you get 1 kid before you run the risk of downie baby's. and simply dating around trying to find "the one" is stupid as well there is no "the one" just pick something that works as thats what you get
Where the hell are the chicks?
outside, but don't quote me on that
That's s why
On the back of their bikes.
hiding from you Tim...
I Love Watching your travelogues... They are cool and relaxing... Keep up the good work guys
Well I'm watching this some 6 years later, and I can conclude that after many years being with Thai women, and having lived in Thailand for five years before. Chinese women are exactly the same as Thai women in their mannerisms and actions.
Always loved your Videos and Travelogues now as a team you two are so relaxed and interesting. Very professional. Looked like an old Hakka Village you stumbled on by the way.
I visited have many in the Xingning area. My GF is Hakka, they are lovely people.
+Archiebald Arsledon thanks man! you are right, a hakka village it was indeed! c-milk
As a Chinese girl, I think there are many subtleties before dating in Chinese relationship... you probably didn't get because of cultural issues...
Fun to see that none of the revs counters in both bikes are not working and the speed clock in one is not working either.Nice video guys
This must be life as it is just INSIDE China, I live in Vancouver and I haven't heard of Chinese girls cooking dinner for any guys, they all seem to want to be taken out for very expensive dinners themselves...
You have a different breed of Chinese girls there. They are Rich pampered type from Mainland China or from Rich Old established HK families.
Luke Du
Yes, exactly!! It would be SO refreshing to meet an old-fashioned but modern Chinese girl who worked hard like myself, but really was into cooking at home and enjoying my compliments!!
TheSpritz0 Not to bash Canada or anything, but a lot of the corrupt rich chinese families that everyone HATES in China end up moving to Canada and dumping a bunch of money into real estate to launder their dirty money. Canada gives them free citizenship (or visa) to foreigners who invest a lot in the country. Very unfair and corrupt policy. Most of the Chinese people in Canada are the outcast rich people from Shanghai etc. Its a shame😩
TheSpritz0 - no difference in China. Chinese women are all about money, they don't marry for love, they marry for money and security... So materialistic and shallow, better off steering clear.
I'm sure it is the reality of the situation, as interpol has a list of people that China wants returned for crimes, etc... and Canada won't do it, as they say that China's penal system is inhumanitarian.
It works they way you mentioned because you're a cacausian. If you're just another asian you'll get turned down for the dinner 90% of the time. Well, not to blame anyone for this but its simply a sad truth.
Exactly! Their analysis is biais by the fact they have way easier with Chinese women there compared to the local men
well, they made it clear in the beginning that this is only from their POV and their experience, of course they can't tell this from the view of a native chinese man. but I believe it's probably everywhere in the world a bit easier for you when you are the "exotic" guy /girl.
Long story short, find a relationship that works for you: if you want to live with gender roles, find a partner who does, if you want a partner with equal responsibilities, find a partner who does. As long as it works for the couple, that's what matters :).
I like you for being straight about your own opinions.
I am not built to be a housewife, and instead have a loving partner who wants to share responsibilities, but I know that some women and men do like that traditional household. As long as it's communicated from the get go, it's all good.
In Alabama you know from birth that you have to marry your cousin 🤭
@@PureVikingPowers 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Good to know these cultural differences. I can understand some of my stateside Chinese friends better now, since their family pressure makes sense after watching this. We need to stop trying to pretend all people are equal/same and start learning to understand our differences logically.
KaiTakApproach Yes. People are different and so fair doesn’t always = the same. Westerners are so brainwashed by the twisted media about this.
If we’re are all going to be the same equal peoples than in that it won’t exist different sex genders different skin colours different nationalities different religions different names and we will all have the same names sex genders skin colours nationality religion 😊😅😂🎉
@@johnharvey4448 If we’re are all going to be the same equal peoples than in that it won’t exist different sex genders different skin colours different nationalities different religions different names and we will all have the same names sex genders skin colours nationality religion 😊😅😂🎉
Sorry this is off the subject of the video,but what brand are those motorcycles.What is the engine displacement?Are those the biggest bikes you can get in China?And where are your mirrors?Really like the purple color on yours.Thanks for all the great info.
+Bruce Klein Built the bikes ourselves based on Suzuki GN 125 we prefer mirrorless over DSLR thanks, the purple is fun!
Was the place/turn off on the left? Good information, and new subscriber here... first vlog I watched was about the hotels.. interesting and very good info. Thank You. Cheers. would be cool to ride with you guys there.
Are the rules of the road the same as in Thailand, Malaysia and the Philippines, where people really don't use their mirrors and the expectation is for the trailing vehicle to yield to the vehicle in front when it is turning/changing lanes?
It was great fun renting a 125 and traveling around the countries. I bought a couple of cheap backpacks from a market along with a needle and fishing line and made a saddlebag out of them to carry my and the girlfriend's stuff. I racked up over 10,000 kilometers in the 11 months I spent there.
As for China, I've only been to Hong Kong for a few weeks and never paid attention to the driving.
Yeah. They never resolved whether it was on the left or the right.
Having no mirrors is crazy. Keeping an eye on your surroundings while still seeing in front of you is so important.
The reason the girls take casual relationships very seriously is because in most Asian cultures, sex outside of marriage is looked poorly upon. If their family knew they were doing it, it would cause a lot of dishonor to everybody. The fact that the girls are willing to have sex with you after a few dates, is them taking a HUGE leap of faith and risk, going against their culture expectations and upbringing. They expect you to take it seriously in return. Though obviously you get the odd new generation or more liberal types who don't feel this way, but the vast majority will.
As for not sharing the basic chores with a partner, that is on you as an individual and by just saying that of course it would be nice to have an easy life. Yet that my friend is not what life is about.
I remember as a boy how I was used to wash up the dishes, clean shoes, take the rubbish out and basically do my part for the family I loved.
Yet as a boy way back in the 50s I also watched my father do nothing around the house to help my mother out. I knew exactly how she must have felt.
So guys, if you want to live with your head stuck in a newspaper and ignore helping your partner, to show her a little joy or at least work things out together, then you will miss out on what life has truly got to offer. There is nothing more rewarding, than being able to both share and give to the one your with. Anything below that and I would pity the woman that gets stuck with you!
Enjoyed the rest though, apart from when your riding too fast into what looked like private areas!
Maybe I was shocked that you went into certain areas, it looked so private.
Stephen Nicholas traffic laws in china are usually ignored haha. When I was living in china, motorcycles would generally go on any side of the road, or even go on the sidewalks. Traffic is very uniform and regulated in the west.
Your dad didn't help your mom because he worked his ass off probably as do most men in situations like that. You think cleaning a house is hard? You think men who work to keep their families in a house and fed have an "easy life" just because they don't take out the garbage?
Really enjoyed it watched the whole thing stoned and I highly rate the show lads. Cheers from the UK
My wife gets upset if I try to do the dishes
Insisting that she will cook always
It’s nice
She is never upset either…so strange for me
"My fiance, the doctor..." I love it.
Hey I just loved this video and this act of riding through the rural part of China which we don't often get to see! I would like to know whether you people were actually having the conversation while riding your bikes or you added the conversation part while editing the video and I loved the bikes both of you rode and would like to know about these bikes, I mean how many CC engines they have, bhp, mileage and all! :-D
+prakhar prabhat we use helmet intercoms, the bikes we built ourselves, they are 125cc and have Suzuki gn engines and frames and have 12hp
I just learned about you guys love these style videos I used to drive around like that in Thailand really miss it. PS where exactly in mainland China is this? Also do you guys still work normal jobs for a living or what is the setup cause I don't quit get it. Greetings from Holland.
ADVChina Haha! I Drive A Suzuki CAR, Also Known As GEO METRO! I Have Also Had A Suzuki SWIFT GT And Another Suzuki Car Called CHEVY SPRINT!
My friend recently flew to China for a couple weeks to get married, then back to UK alone. She paid for everything, which sounds unusual from what I've seen on a number of these videos. Here in Scotland over the past 5 or 6 years I've dated quite a number of Chinese women, gained a lot of insights, and after watching this it has me thinking about the different circumstances and their varied attitudes. In fact, each encounter is a story in itself.
Thanks you guys so much. I'm dating a girl from guizhou and your comments are really helpful.
One thing still bothers me though. I noticed that she really does not often express her love on a daily basis. Like I'm the one who's always asking how she's doing, or taking the initiative for almost everything.
That's a big change for me compared to european girls who are much more caring and "lovey-dovey" on a regular basis.
It's been 8 months now and I kind of got used to it. Anyways, I know she actually does love and care about me.
But I was just wondering if this is something normal for chinese girls. Is it?
+Yamapopi My Chinese girlfriend is like this. And I tend to be more of an emotional, lovey guy, so it was unexpected, and a bit hard to get used to. Basically, in Chinese culture, love is more in actions than in words. My girlfriend has said that it sometimes feels awkward to say "I love you" just because it can feel cheap for her to say it.
+Yamapopi that sounds pretty much spot on for a huge majority. of course there are exceptions, but there are quite a few girls that take a more pragmatic approach to love
Not all girls are the same in any place, so yeah, my Chinese wife is way more lovey than the average girl, always wanting me to say I love her and stuff like this. I like it, but it wasn't by my initiative that we do this kind of stuff. Your girl is more reserved emotionally and that's ok.
Please do not think that I am an idiot, but were you two talking in real time as you were riding and if so, were you doing it by phone or some other means.
+Donovan Dunlap we use a radio intercom system, we have a video about it
ADVChina So you are talking as a western guy, how it works in china although you know exactly, that it is way easier for a western guy to simply run around and get women galore, as you are exotic, rich and the future for them. And you compare that with western women, who are toe to toe with you.
Funny to see, that people do not care about that and show their half decent characters a youtube video.
Guys: It is normal, that you can be direct and get the ladies. You are in a country still with a lot of poverty. They look up to you and want that life...no matter who you are!
What a crap video, where 2 western guys talk about, wjat essentially usually is sex tourism. And you think, you got it....Jesus, what a video of donkeys
ADVChina Thank you. And great video.
MrStubbs1981 GROW UP... Chinese women love western men because of how Chinese men treat them compared.
Bramley Tablet And they love the money, IF they are coming from poor background. That is natural and no offense intended. Same with thai girls. Sure it is easy...I mean you just go there and say "boom boom" and done! Sure it is something different than dating a rich l, priviledged western girl (no matter what race they are).
Absolutely enjoy watching these informative videos while being mobile. The establishment's such as hotels coffee shops etc kept me glued video after video. I was in the Marines and the hotel had ice cold air con. The " locals" froze their asses off. But seeing you guys do what you enjoy and bringing Asian information to us in our own understanding is simply top shelf. Great work gents i'm very happy for you both.
There’s an echo , but I kind of agree with the Chinese mentality, If a guy is with me for years and doesn’t marry then wtf are we doing??
The only problem is that marriage 8s screwed up in the West
I think the chinese mindset is more common around the world then the western approach to dating.
A regular viewer of ADVChina and Serpentza. I love your work and it really is fascinating seeing your perspective of the Chinese society. Although this is the first time I have to disagree. I get it that you are generalizing and thats ok, but you didn't mention it in this video and I just felt the obligation to point out my disagreement as a man. I do feel that its manly to treat my girlfriend with a home cooked dinner, a clean apartment and fresh bed sheets. And I do that because I know she thinks thats sexy. Just as I think its sexy to have a girlfriend who can do the same for me. I see no difference there. I see that not all people like to cook, and thats fine, why we have restaurants. But in my experience this is not a typical manly or womanly thing. So to expect this is in my opinion wrong. If you do it and are happy both of you, I'm happy. Just wanted to point that out. Im not that type of man, and I feel I'm happier cause of it, and I know that's not just me, at least here in Sweden. Thanks for a good show, Peace and Love.
I think Chinese people have a totally different process to get into marriage from the West. Sadly, I have to say that most Chinese girls who date foreigners think westerners are actually living the same world of similar social culture as theirs. In China, people’s confession of ‘like you’ makes this relationship serious. Generally Chinese people will not start a relationship if they don't think that they are not ready to be boyfriends or girlfriends. If they sleep, that relationship will be very serious and are ready and at least willing to be married. If not, that’s considered jerks who are wasting others’ time and emotionless. It’s considered unmoral and animal-like if a person only wants to sleep with someone before knowing her well. Girls are also considered easy. I am a Chinese girl.
never wanted to ride a motorcycle but this looks crazy fun
I prefer the mindset of Chinese women than American girls. Also Chinese women are more loyal, less % divorce and more respectful.
you two are a good combo