What Types Are Socially Compatible With INTPs (The Ardent)? | INTP Relationships | CS Joseph
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- What Types are Socially compatible with INTPs (The Ardent)? CS Joseph dissects this aspect of INTP relationships.
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The INTP-INTP conflict sounds like my inner dialog.
This should be the first comment to show up
12:58 lol
Exactly why i hate it. If i despise myself, i'll despise the other intp and they will despise me too.
What if I'm INTP and have no inner dialogue...
U mean when u counters your own arguments to check any errors
I’ve never experienced an argument like the INTP-INTP one you mention.
I criticize myself too well to ever let someone beat me at it
coolest comment I've read on youtube
Oh, I have. She was my bass player. She's no longer in the band.
xD
I think I have. As an INTP it feels like everything you say is an important truth that needs to be put out into the universe, when I have had deep conversations with heavy Ti users it's like rapid fire statements of truth, to see who can be the most profound. We rarely say much that the other hasn't already considered, so we don't have an exchange of ideas, more of a comparison of ideas. It's exhausting, and it doesn't feel like you are making any sort of connection, it's almost like you are arguing with a super fast responding AI robot (and i feel i turn into one too!) To have a connection one side has to receive what the other is giving, but INTP already has what I have (for the most part)... not saying there is zero value in intp-intp discussion, but on the whole the chemistry is just off
Same here. One of my best friends is INTP and we have amazing discussions coming from different backgrounds but a similar mindset. We end up annoying the people around us with our jabber XD
I am an INTP my entire friend group is full of introverts, one time we walked for 20 mins without saying anything until i said, "We communicate through awkward silences"
Lol, in a car is possible but walking by foot i don't believe there can Be 20 mine silence in a group :))))
@Jor in no way is that true, I'm an INTP, and couldn't function without a core group of friends (almost all of whom are also introverted).
awkward.... you aren't kidding.
@@nickkwasak Update: We now communicate through slurps of coffee.
@@disjaibled lol What type are your friends? Usually INTPs will speak if we have a topic we are passionate about.
Just dropping by to say that I love all of you INTPs out there. The world needs you lovable weirdos - an INTJ
The world needs neurotic masterminds too. INTJ and INTP's make a great team.
You're a weirdo. (
I am not weird you are weird
Thnx! My childhood email address: weirdo_girl...
my best friend is and INTJ and I've known him since early early childhood. I fucking love him and our conversations are always so insightful and intelligent. it's so refreshing. we love you too.
INTP here. I took an MBTI class with about 40 other people. The instructor separated all of the personality types. I found myself in the corner of the room all by myself. It was a really eye opening moment. That is the story of my life. Sometimes I feel cursed.
Imagine being an attractive, intelligent, female INTP....
Read more about Your/our type. It can be a curse when you are younger, but being 40 y old I would not change it for the world. Some ideas : Systems thinking and spiral dynamics..
Can you expand on what you just said? Explain what you mean about spiral dynamics, please.@@maikelnait4495
@@igglywompus Spiral dynamics is a scientific theory that explains how different people and different societies exist at different levels and what they can do to evolve. You as an INTP have huge potential to see much bigger picture of the world than an average person. Once You understand how the world works it is much easier to blend in and find your spot in it. Watch more descriptions on how our type "operates", what the plusses and minuses are and enjoy the ride;)
I mean, at least you aren't INFJ. Those guys have it rough.
12:27 INTP-INTP
15:37 INTP-ENTP
19:40 INTP-ISFJ
22:30 INTP-ESFJ
25:11 INTP-ENTJ
33:37 INTP-INTJ
37:56 INTP-ESFP
40:07 INTP-ISFP
No infj? I am eternally disappointed 😆
@@Octobris same wth... :(
No INFP either.
No ENFJ : (
No ENFJ
I, an INTP, married an ENTJ and we have been together for 19+ years. He virtually wanted me to move in with him overnight and he asked me to marry him within a couple of months. He said later that he knew right from the start that I was the person he was going to spend the rest of his life with. I think he is amazing. We are the best friends ever!
amazing!
ahhhhhh, i’m so jelly. 😭
This is very typical of us NT’s. We already know who we want to marry just after the first date! -INTP
,,Also the INTP does not give a damn how they feel and guess what, the ENTJ does not give a damn how they feel so again NO CONFLICT"
x-D
I give a damn about how others feel, and ENTJ's for some reason like to make others feel inferior... not cool.
Yes you do because of Fe but the statement is more like this (I guess):
INTP does not give a damn how they(INTPs) feel and guess what, the ENTJ does not give a damn how INTPs feel*
Yah... I found this hilarious too. Being that I've been in a long term romantic relationship with an ENTJ, I can account to the fact that this is true.
Hahahahahah
I mean it’s accurate. I hate it when people ask me how I feel about things. ‘Uhh.. feel? Dunno. I think this, though.’
"as humans we can't really thrive alone" mhm watch me..
based schizotypal
Should have just gone like this:
*Video begins*
*Awkward pause*
"Literally no one"
*Video ends*
Jay 😂😂😂😂
Savage 😂
I was thinking several minutes of hysterical laughter.
lmao
Fuck dude I’m INTP it’s true, I think if I was 100% myself all the time I’d have no friends. And I’m so smart I’m crushed by the knowledge of the cosmos. No true comraderie and cosmic nihilism, what a bad hand. I never lose debates though so I can suck myself off about meaningless victories straight on to my final dusk.
As an INTP with an ENTJ father, I feel like my growth as a person has been very well nurtured and supported.
INTP + INTP agreeeeeed, though it's more like I can see through the other INTP and easily find the things I don't like about myself in them; kind of like I can see what they are hiding, how they are putting on a show, bcz I do it the same way. It's really tiring, just beeing in the same space. ENTPs are interesting but from a distance/in discussion, I see that they lack loyalty and are too chaotic. Like you know, not the fun kind of chaotic, but rather "I just hit you with my war tank and didn't notice' kind of chaotic.
I hung out with another INTP a couple times and I was like “my showy telling of all the shit I learned doesn’t faze you because you understand every bit of it” because I can almost always grasp any concept someone throws at me. and when she started using semi-purposefully obfuscating language explaining a concept I was like “fuck, we both know you could have described that in human words. “ bc I LOVE using big words I google every single word I don’t know.
As an INTP, I am actually incredibly fascinated by ENTPs. As much as I do very strongly value loyalty and going easy on people, I similarly value the blunt honesty of ENTPs and really feel that if I put the effort into any sort of relationship with one, that I could carry a very strong bond with one.
I enjoy watching UA-cam videos from ENTPs. They are awesome at presenting information and I can actually understand what they are trying to say. Sometimes I struggle to follow the logic of INTJs and ENTJs.
I think that my brother is an ENTP, we clash all the time, I can't stand him because of how argumentatif he is, you ask him for a glass of water he wouldnt shut up about why he shouldn't be the one getting it, and he likes to play pranks on me all the time just to see my reaction. Honestly, it sucks.
I would say ENTPs are anything but not unloyal, so you should consider more before you judge something
'INTP does not give a damn about how they feel and the ENTJ does not give a a damn about how INTP feels, so once again, no conflict'
ROFL!!. So good)))
I need to find my ENTJ friend.
I see that a lot of INTPs have a lot of experience in abusive house holds
I think we are easy targets because we are not always on the defense like other in the moment types, rather our minds are constantly distracted. Also, the Si child is punk rock and can take that beating. So it's the path of least resistance for the perp. We end up being socially engineered in the pejorative at a young age with no healthy way to escape or defend ourselves.
@@we_are_all_the_same
Exactly...people see you relaxed and they pounce on you. I hate it.
@Josh Levan Sorry to hear this Josh. I hope you and your twin are now living, at the very least, content lives.
Your not wrong
@@dayv2night541 you are
I am INTP female, and my boyfriend of 3 years is also INTP. We are also fairly compatible comrades because I let him be the boss unless he is incorrect about something. 😌 It works because it is a long distance relationship: We are both reclusive loners and like-thinkers who don't have to dress up unless we want to. We don't worry about loyalty and have zero relationship drama. Except when we get together we argue freely about stuff like how to pack the car, but we don't have to be right, we are aiming for the best answer. Anyway, thank you for your videos which are witty, wise, and spot-on for me.
Yup! As an INTP female I would totally date another INTP. I am good friends with 2. We don’t clash at all. In fact it’s more creepy because we are more like clones and will say things in unison like twins do 😅 INTPs are very good at adapting because like he said, we respond. Some personalities it just won’t work. But most NT types are compatible with each other for both relationships and friendships.
I am an INTP female, not interested in another INTP.
@BLACK.SABBATH who asked? Dio is better btw
I'm an INTP and love how ENTJ's make me feel, they are fun, open minded, silly, and VERY willing to listen to my crazy thoughts.
I'm dating an ISFP and in terms of personal growth for both of us, it feels powerful, there is an understanding of each other, and ourselves that is apparent despite our very different ways of sensing reality.
However my best friend is an ESTJ, whom with there is clearly some jarring in the ways we deal with each other, but when he is in his INFP subconscious there is nobody in my life that I can have better philosophical conversations with
Thank you for the free content, I've only found MBTI stuff in the last week but I can already see how valuable this will be for the rest of my life. You are making ripples of knowledge and understanding through the universe that will last for generations. As you know, if an INTP makes a compliment, they really mean it!
much appreciated!
I am an INTP male with an ESFJ father and I can say through experience that it does get violent and will end in almost never speaking to each other unless the topic is short, sweet, and to the point. Keep up the good work man 👍
I have ISFJ and ESFJ in-laws from hell lol
-intp
I'm INTP as well, with an ESFJ mother. It doesn't get violent physically, but you could say 'violent' use of emotion; manipulation, avoidance, blame shifting, etc. Not a fan :/ It's to the point where I detach emotionally around her and avoid long conversations, because they never end well. I feel you man.
Oh man I can relate. My mother is an esfj drives me crazy. My father is an estj we get along better except when he wants my help fixing something then it usualy leads to fireworks and annoyance.
I'm an INTP and my grandma is an ESFJ, she is provably the person that makes me feel more confortable I know. We understand eachother a lot.
same. strongly strongly agree.
As an INTP, I couldn't see myself with an ENTJ. They're too controlling and can't accept when they're wrong.
Aaron exactly!
I married an ENTJ and we are totally the best friends ever. He can admit when he was wrong and apologize. In fact, that is one of the multitude of things I love about him.
Can't stand ENTJs either. Too bossy, too controlling.
As an ENTJ, after getting to know MBTI I have just learned that nobody really wants me in any level. Nothing new in practise but quite sad on paper😂✌🏻
My best friend is an ENTJ and is very controlling and I actually really love that. It means I don't have have to make decisions...I can just sit in my own mind and let her decide what we are watching or eating or what stupid store she wants to walk around for an hour. She loves the control and I love not having the control. It works out great. I could see myself marrying an ENTJ because I'm attracted to bossy guys too.
" I'm a better intp than you are" - ESFJ to an INTP
Intp : internal laugh
Intp: outwardly dying with laughter
@@popkhorne5372 i did that before read kkkkk
Hey guys.
INFP here and I just want to let you know, that I love you❤️
INTP
We love you too ❤
I'm an INTP and two of my best friends are INFPs
INFPs are awesome too
Interesting thing, at least for myself as an INTP... my internal reaction when someone says they love me is along the lines of "That's nice I guess... and thanks... but... so?". And I think that illustrates where we get into trouble. Then again, I do feel warm and fuzzy when someone says it in person... So it could be the rationality analyzing it - and brace yourself, this is the cold critical side of us, no offence intended - right now it's going "this is some random person on the Internet, telling other random people on the Internet she loves them... she's really just talking about her feelings towards an abstract concept, rather than us as people. Not interested!".
And that really illustrates where we get into trouble! We constantly have two choices: drop ugly rationality bombs like that, or put on a social mask that says "yes thank you for your love! (that I secretly see as insincere)". Learning how to be able to share what we really think... without alienating others... is an art form that can take us many years to learn.
BUT - if you do love some real INTP people in your life, they're very grateful for it - especially if you love them for who they *really* are, which includes the above type of disposition. INTP's are intimately familiar with being unappreciated by others for their frankness, so those who appreciate it matter a lot to them. And if you still like INTPs after reading the above, maybe your comment was sincere after all :P.
Gotta say, looking back from the other side of the glass, you’re strange humans.
@@danielwalley6554 that's being edgy
I'm ENTJ and INTPs are so mysterious and deep. However I always feel like I'm going come off too intrusive to them
INTPs unbelievably love being asked what they think about something.
you probably do but sometimes we are just waiting for someone to be interested and wanting to learn from us :) just let us take our time
Thats actually not true for me, im always happy whenver someone ask me for opinion! :)
As an INTP myself, my best friends are INFJ, INTJ, ISTJ and ESTJ. I will say that my deepest and most fulfilling relationships are with INJ's. I also really enjoy ENTP's and for some reason that I still don't fully understand, INFP's. I just can't have good relationships with SF's, people either have that sweet sweet N or the cold T, if they don't have any of those, I instantly dislike them, specially SFJ's. Never met another INTP so I can't say anything about that. Also, for some reason I am a INFJ magnet, literally in every social situation the INFJ's gravitate to me like moths to light.
This was so illuminating! Years ago in college, my best friend and roommate (an ENTJ who was somehow making $65,000 a year as a 20 year-old student working part time for a financial firm lol) and Iwent to see a movie; he brought along his cousin, who was almost certainly an INTJ. It was fun - even exciting, as I didn't get out much outside of class and the various campus libraries.
When we got to the theater, the INTJ noticed the projector light and commented on how the light particles were in a stream; being a physicist, I could not help but launch into an explanation of how photons "like to be together" and why. Before we knew it, we were fully engaged in an exhilarating talk/lecture as he asked all types of questions on fundamental particles.
It's like the rest of the room around us disappeared and we were the only ones in there talking. I distinctly recall (with quite a bit of bemusement as I sit here typing lol) my ENTJ friend being quite agitated with us, explaining more than a few times "yo fellas - there are girls all around here looking at y'all...looking at _us_ . Please stop, guys." We took a moment to register his concerns, with me thinking "It'll all be over soon" (with 'soon' capable of taking on almost any value _x_ ) before diving right back into the strange theory of light and matter. It is so funny when I think back at the horrified expression on the ENTJs face, along with the bevy of nondescript eyes looking at us. It's funny because he and I had had plenty of those kinds of talks in the dorm room, often for hours. Of course, there weren't any pretty women around then lol.
I enjoyed those few minutes before the movie started thoroughly, although it was more of a lecture than a traditional discourse - but I very much valued how the computer programmer INTJ mostly asked the right questions, which usually only seemed to happen (in my previous albeit limited experience) with ENTPs. For example, most people will ask a question like "Do you you think we're a computer simulation" instead of the vastly better question "what, insofar as you can discern, is the difference between a computer simulation and 'reality'?"
You might really consider putting a Paypal link in the Description box along with the others. This insightful lecture, at the very least, is worth a couple of cups of coffee.
i prefer Patreon
I'm new to studying personality types. I am an INTP . As far as I know I have never known another INTP. I must say I was shocked at the accuracy and detail of my type. I always thought a clone of myself would be my best friend . Living in my head . I'm gonna have to seek out another INTP and see how that goes.
As per INTP-ENTJ compatibility, you are spot on. I didn't know how or why ENTJ was so awesome at getting me until I started reading about Myers Briggs and I never really had the chance to test any type of compatibility with an ENTJ until I met one on a date and just like you described we really hit it off (fyi: in the bedroom too). AMAZINGLY ACCURATE! He's awesome and whether or not we're in it for the long term, I'm absolutely sure we'll be close friends for sure. I've never felt as close to someone as do to him and that was right from the start. - AWESOME ANALYSIS - You should do more on INTP-ENTJ romantic compatibility alone. I'd love to know more. Thanks!
I'm an INTP and have been together with an ISFJ for 12 years now, and we rarely ever argue or have a disagreement. She lets me make all of the decisions because she trusts my judgment and I support everything she does.
i am isfj and my best friend from highschool is intp till now, i am now 35. we are ver different but somehow can talk and laugh together
I skimmed through the comments and looks like I am the only ENTJ commenting. My INTP friend sent me here, I'll testify that it's one of the greatest friendships ever. I love the Se-Si combination, were always exchanging fun crap. It's also awesome because I have so many of these ideas and I want to bounce them off of someone, and he's perfect for that. It gives so much comfort knowing that you have your little INTP friend that has fact checked you, so when you give you presentation you know that no one will be able to debate you and win. I am invincible!
Your little intp friend
...context?
I, INTP, had a terrible experience with an ISFP I was romantically interested in. Her complete lack of loyalty, willful refusal of the truth, impulsiveness, selfishness, etc, was just too much for me. She took advantage of me, and left me for someone else on an impulse. Completely unacceptable. So she has the patented INTP apathy driven "You No Longer Exist" shun on her.
Yeah, guess I was an INTP Doormat® there. Wouldnt be the first time. Dangit. I might be smart, but im not smart enough to realize when people are using me. But once I finally get it through my thick skull, the Fi Demon comes out.
Sounds like a really immature ISFP. Sorry for that experience, we’re not all like that. :)
I hate ISFP. Sorry but Fi dominant persons are scary sociopaths
intp - Your pain is all but too familiar. a friend of mine is an ISFP as well. Very similar situation going on.
let's not forget that some people are just crappy no matter what type they are (INTP)
Can't fu**ing stand ISFPs sometimes.... and ESTJs should die :D .... use your logic dude and date an ENFJ, INTJ OR ENTJ. Stop choosing bad matches.
I'm an INTP married to an ESFP. Much of what you said in the ESFP compatibility video seems to ring true for us. I am in absolute awe of the areas where she excels as they are the same areas that I am lacking. I've been exposed to so many new experiences and grown as a result of them.
esfp and intp are duals in socionics, the best intertype relationship
My INTP INTJ friendship is a tad different.
He's like "hey you want some wire I don't need?"
And I'm like "sure, you want some ancient computer chips I don't need?"
"Sure"
I made jewelry and he made a computer.
When we're not trading random stuff we're bouncing ideas and random thoughts off each other, friendly debates, and just joke about random stuff. We make each other think about every conclusion we come to without upsetting the other somehow. That's the great thing about the INTP INTJ friendship. We got mutual respect. There's not as much ego stroking, but we do show interest in each other's hobbies and interests.
'entj is afraid he's a bad person' right on the money
'entj is afraid he's stupid'
Read me like a book
-entj
I’m an INTP and my best friend for 6 years is an ESFJ. Our personalities are very different but I feel like we have the same mind and think the same things in situations.
He is you but with a full developed Fe
@@Rokiotop900 Doesn't make any sense
@@TaxingIsThieving whoa the second time you replied to him. Might be a coincidence, it's just a funny coincidence
Same here with my intp friend he may say something and I thought about it inside my mind
Just watched INTP-INTP and it is the opposite of what I have with my INTP friends. We are usually getting along great.
I believe if the intp somehow recognizes that the other person is equally start ,there is a level of respect and willingness to listen to the person
They become ENTP together
I've had a couple of INTP friends, no issue. ENTPs on the other hand pose more conflict (not to be conflated with animosity), but I get along with ESTPs smoothly. In fact they are my favorite type friendship-wise. I can't comment on ENTJs since I don't believe I've met one, but I find INTJs either very uninteresting or oddly confounding.
ESFJ narcissistic mother and me INTP... so accurate.
My best friend is most definitely INTJ and I’m for sure INTP. We feel like we are the same person sometimes even though we are definitely our own type. It’s awesome and it’s a perfect weird ass friendship.
I think the INTP/INTJ friendship is perfect
Absolutely
As an INTP I LOVE the way you explain the sexual relationship aspect of compatibility, who's on top... its an honest and fair and a bold assessment of reality, well done and you have my ear for being brave enough to say what you mean and call a spade a spade, for the sake of knowledge and understanding, kudos.
Awesome lol :)
SMASHED THAT NOTIFICATION FASTER THAN THE SPEED OF LIGHT.
GO FOR IT lol
As an INTP I can confirm that you did not
@@adammartinelli8274
As an INTP, I can confirm that the statement above is hyperbolic.
@@kakkoiihusbandohikkikomori6847 As an INTP, I can confirm that I took it as such. I may be overly analytical, but I'm not that literalistic :)
Adam Martinelli as an INTP, I can say that this is exactly how I would’ve responded to all of this.
im INTP and all my best friends are INFP
Same here
I'm an INFP that recently made friends with and has a crush on a suspected INTP. 😔✌️
How are you even alive?
@Tom You know, objectively this probably makes a lot of sense. I mean, I've heard a bit about the infp/intp relationship. Yet, if it's not too personal could you elaborate a bit on what you mean by the incompatiblities within the relationship?
@Tom Could you explain what this means?
Very interesting insights, as an INTP.
You just made some comments about our type that could perhaps be interpreted as unflattering, but I'm not offended in the least due to your excellent manner.
Thank you. Going to finish watching this now.
Man, you work so hard to make these videos absolutely amazing, you deserve more a hell of a lot more views,likes & subscribers. Thank you!!! Dude!!! , Very well done!!!!!!!.
( A humble tip- make 6 different videos, for ex- 1.- INTP-ENTP 2-INTP-ENFJ etc).
I don’t know if you will see this comment as the video was posted a while ago but I would like to sincerely thank you from the bottom of my heart for your content. I am an INTP and have seen nearly every one of your videos.
I have had depression for a long time and have never reached out and made any friends since elementary school however I decided to try as a 20 year old at my job. I met a great ESFP and I rewatched some of those videos and now we have a fantastic friendship that I am really grateful for.
Without your videos I would’ve probably felt that I didn’t have anything to say or relate to her with. I made conversation based on her cognitive functions and it’s worked wonders.
Let me tell your child function one last time - Thank you!
You are most welcome
Excellent work. I can attest to the ENTJ friendship being optimal. My best friend since college is ENTJ. It's the most natural, effortless, friendship I've ever experienced.
The communication thing is very true. I go to my INTP sister for ideas for my sculptures alllll the time. Her suggestions are usually super helpful. It doesn't always end with me adding a jet pack to something, but you never know!
Looking back, I can see that we had a really rocky relationship with each other when we were younger. She would say something like, "You don't actually believe that do you? That's so stupid!" That, of course, wasn't very pleasant, so I just walked away and made crafts by myself. After a long night of argument, we came to terms and built things back up again. Communication is sooo key. I cannot drill this into people enough times, haha.
me and my dad are both intps, and I find the only way I can have a good relationship with him is to (painfully) listen to what he has to say, or remind me of/to do, even though I mostly find it obvious and slightly offensive because he thinks that I don't know it already.
He also never really listens to what I have to say, and it feels like he assumes I'm dumb. However I know this is how he shows he cares about me, so at the end of the day I appreciate it.
I have an esfj father and let’s just say we’re not having deep conversations, ironically it’s very apathetic.
Esfp dad here, shits difficult.. lol
Same here my dad is esfj and I am an INTP that sucks
Same except ESFJ is my mom
ISFP's can say stuff everyone is thinking but can't put into words.
ENTP's are open minded, creative, keep things interesting and are great friends to talk to. An ENTP and INTP as friends can expand on ideas and improove them on an infinite level. Some can be annoying and you avoid them or you're great friends with them. Good debates too.
Two or more INTP's creates an INTP super Nova of Ideas.
ISTP's blows an INTP's theries and limiting beliefs out of the water. Wow that's possible! I really can do that to! Awesome! I really need to remove limiting believes and possibles.
ENTJ/INTJ - Open Minded, gives space, can accept new ideas, gives good feed back, improves the mood of a room, logical while having a good ballance of emotions too. Good to talk to.
INFP - Too much emotion Intensity but their cool to hang around and are inspiring with how they keep trying from failure to success and are very open. INTP's are INFP magnets for some reason.
ISTJ- Closed Minded, Ridged hate spontaneous changes. INTP's don't get along.
ISFJ- Respectable, Speaks their mind. If you or society goes rouge with open mindedness and crazy ideas an ISFJ is a good anchor point to reset back to common sense if they have good values.
INTJ's - Either I don't like you for some reason even though we're both quiet. Or we get along great. You're a genius.
ESFJ - Hell
I went from watching the intro where you were very point to point and calm, and then skipped to chapter INTP-ENTJ and holycow what happened in my brain was mindboggling. Definition of 0-100 Real Quick. XDDD GREAT video!
Three things: 1) Very astute of you, Mr. ENTP, to make mention of your ENTJ circumstance in an INTP video; though, as you have also mentioned, I think you already knew that. 2) The "two bottoms" comment was priceless humor. Cheers to you for that. 3) As always... Thank you for your time, as well as for sharing your knowledge and insight.
Much appreciated, you're welcome
If im gonna do the time i might as well do the crime
*-Cs Joseph*
Shadow747 so annoying repeating that all the time,ok we get it we find entp annoying and irritating haHhahH
I am INTP and most of my close friends are ENFP or ENTP. Although I have experienced lots of weird things, I am ok with them. I really like watching discussions of ENTP-ENFP. When they can not agree on some subject, they ask my opinion. Even if ENTP's argument seems more logical, I use my vote for ENFP by supplying more strong argument (to troll ENTP). Then ENFP really defends himself (he definitely used my arguments better than me against ENTP). However, ENTP's endleess patience for discussion is worth to see :) If I support ENTP, however, ENFP could able change the subject skillfully:) or simply accept he might be wrong then change the subject. Anyway, I like the friendship of ENTP-ENFP guys.
@22:10 Reminds me of a story of how an administrative worker told my INTP father (a chemist trained as a micro-biologist) that chemistry was just like cooking. His response to her was to let him know when she planned to do some experiments so he can get the hell out of dodge. I don't know what her type was, but that scenario sounds similar.
Chemistry IS a lot like cooking. Want to see a liquid brought up to boiling really fast? Add 15N nitric acid to 15N ammonia solution. However, I don't recommend trying that with pasta.
Rewritten version:
1- INTP here, asking for advice.
2- Ok, so my two best friends are ESFP and ISFJ. ESFP and I are disagreeing a lot recently, usually about rules/responsibility. She either argues back with "I do what I want" one something like that, or just laughs it off. ISFJ either tries to break up the argument or sides with ESFP.
3- I have an INTJ friend, but I almost never see her because she's busy.
4- I'm pretty sure I'm an INTP, but I do start lots of new projects and don't finish them. Also, my Ne parent tends to only activate when I'm imagining someone's reaction to something I said or commented, in extreme hypotheticals like Ne inferior, or when I make a conscious decision to think of possible futures for someone in the case it has something to do with me. (Maybe because I'm way too young to start using a parent function properly yet.)
5- I can't take my peers seriously because I've stupid-zoned almost all of them.
I'm INTP and always thought ENFP would be my perfect partner.
inexperienced INTPs think that. you must be a noob INTP. it's ok though. :D they seem perfect but the communication problems and lack of mutual understanding will be the downfall.
I always loved the interactions between Light Yagami (INTJ) and L (INTP)
Isnt Light more of an ENTJ ?
@@popkhorne5372 he is
Me & my misses are INTP & ESFP ... this is super interesting && am totally blown away how this may explain why we are still together today !! lol
I have an INTJ as a boyfriend and he is the best relationship I ever had. He absolutely is my Superman as you said. I have found that when we put together his NI and my TI we put together the most wonderful projects (We are both musicians and we both compose )
Believe me ESFP and INTP friendship works 100%. Like my best friend is INTP and it’s like a match made in heaven. I get the spotlight😂😂. I have both introverted and extroverted friends and i definitely feel better around introverted friends cause i am definitely the loudest. Most of my other friends are ESFJs,ENFJ and ENTP though. I give her fashion advice that she doesn’t always take. I’m her make-up artist. I kind of get her out of the bubble. We run in different circles now,but she doesn’t have many friends beside me and like 3 others so she often hangs out with my gang. I kind of bring her to the real world. Like she usually has no clue about what’s going on neither in media or at school or what events are next. And she kind of brings me to her world which is more like science,books etc.
10 minutes into the video and we still have not heard about INTP camraderie. I'm eager to get to the content! It looks interesting! Okay, it's getting good now! Thank you for this! Subscribed!
Thank you for this. I’m fairly new to Myers Briggs, and this has made so many connections, it’s made me giddy! Fantastic tool for making sense of the world for someone who never feels they truly fit in. My sister is an ESFJ, as I have now classed her, and lo and behold, that’s EXACTLY how we interact. Mind blown.
Myers Briggs is crap, outdated and wrong. I recommend staying away from it
@@CSJoseph you’re winding me up?
@@johntree6425 Myers Briggs is a test used to determine types. The types themself are called Jungain Analytical Psychology
From my personal experiences I get along very well with NFs (ENFJs and me can get misunderstood initially but we get along once we get past those).
NTs are pretty great. I get along with them great although ENTPs can sometimes want me to shutdown lol but I love them.
SPs are hit or miss for me. I tend to get along with ISTPs and ISFPs. I love how ISTPs are so intelligent hands-on and their social awkwardness is cute. I love deep convos with ISFPs and I love the adventures with them.
SJs are very much a struggle for me. Unless they make an effort to be and not be in your business I feel frequently misunderstood by them. I like ISTJs the most of SJs
I'm not afraid of you cs Joseph BUT your coolness Tempts me!😁
Actually me and my best friend are both INTPS and we get along very well. Yeah we really disagree aloooooot but thats what fulls our relationsship. I think that it works because we see each other as people who have interesting ideas and can argue without putting on our own emotions.
We both are just interested in getting to an answer and we are not so muuch interested in getting to an answer.
So yeah i really enjoy it
Ok nevermind I mistyped him he is an INTJ
I cannot imagine an INTP/ESFP friendship
Hahah it's me and my brother...
My best friends are
1. INFP. x5 of them. BEST for love companion too. It just works.
2. ENFJ.
3. INTP.
4. ISFJ.
I find INFJs very difficult because they think they know everything and I see that as ignorance
i concur with the infp as good, chill, life-long friends, house-mates (since only we can tolerate their mess).. but love companion... uhhh... hmmmm... 🤔🤔 i dunno about that.. i guess it’d be like loving a dog...?
and i have the same problem with infj’s: either or simultaneously: too sensitive, too fussy, or at times just plain angry with a disclaimer saying “sorry to be offensive” before the anger hidden within vague messages... but worst of all: they often accuse other people of making generalizations when they themselves make infinitely more of them. it’s a wild viscous circle. ugh!
same here
i am surrounded by a lot of infp idk how
I am a female INTP with an ESFP boyfriend. Conceptually, I never imagine myself dating an ESFP but here I am dating one and worrying about our long term future because I have learnt from the many other sources that theoretically we N types should go for other N types so we can relate on our abstract thoughts and doing otherwise can be dissatisfying, and I can see how that makes sense. Much to my surprise, I find myself having good chemistry with this ESFP(probably because of the compatibility of cognitive functions you are describing here), but the conflict arises when I have the need to tell him the truth(I am obsessed with discovering and discussing the truth), whilst he is very sensitive and cannot handle it and sometimes does not see the point. Also, the truth can sometimes change once you accumulate more knowledge so that bothers him that I continuously adjust my theories on things. I can see if we are able to overcome this, how beneficial we will be for each other. He brings me back to the real world, helps with assimilate with other humans and I help him see the big picture that he misses living in the moment. Your video gave me relieve.
esfp and intp are duals in socionics, the best intertype relAtionship
This is totally anecdotal, but Im an INTP who used to have an INTP roommate and our relationship was nothing like how this video portrayed 2 INTPs to interact with each other. I think it comes down to having Fe in our stacks, but we rarely criticized each other on ideas as a principle, rather we heard each other out and entertained the ideas the other person had and never got in arguments over ideas, or resorted to name calling, or personal attacks ever. We had so many unspoken principles between us that we both followed but never had to say that there was rarely (if ever) an argument between us.
the only problem is actually getting outside to find this rare compatible creatures
@@lavamaster2863 nah, it's fine. Been working with infp, have close friend with 2 infj, 1 entj, have fun connection with 2 infp, has good time with suspected 2 enfj(unsure). Sometime it feel like they just come to me or we are just connected, no need to worry. The hardest truth is when you feel we are in different mode (example: in survival mode vs in enjoying life mode), you would feel lonely. Another challenge is how to survive when they're not around, how to feel okay basically with the self.
I was waiting for this!
Don't see anyone commenting about that "Chaos is a ladder" phrase (GOT soundtrack "Chaos is a ladder" plays in the background and all the INTJs laugh evilly).
Pahahahaha!!! That INTP-INTP match!! I already know that's a bad idea! I can barely deal with myself, much less, another of me! Can't even imagine lol!
Insightful. I reviewed most of the big fights I've had in professional and academic environments and it was almost always with...other INTPs. People who thought they knew what was best when obviously they were idiots. I'd explain this and they'd be like "That's rubbish." and I'd be like "Well, that was deep." and they're like "Why should I explain myself to you?" and I'd be like "Because you couldn't explain, even if you wanted to."...OMG, flashbacks.
Damnit I just realized that my Si child and/or Fe inferior is making me feel extreamly good every time you like a comment with that heart mark icon of yours. I'm soooo manipulable. HAHAHA.
Funny my friends are ENFJs, ESFJ, ISTJ and ENFP. Except for the ISTJ I'm always surrounded by extroverts because they are the only one to push me outside my comfort zone. Without them I'd be too lazy to interact with the social world (I mean the irl social world). At first it was exhausting to deal with all of their feelings and their needs but with time (8 years for most of them now) we sort of found a peaceful balance between us. They allow me not to respond my messages for a week or two max, after they just throw me off my bed to discover the outside world yet again. And it's really benefic for me. I think INTPs left alone too long become unhealthy and trapped in our "I'm a nerdy nerd genius out of the box weirdo f all the humanity I just need my computer and wifi to be untertained". Thanks to these difficult interaction with others my "chameleon superpower" is at his best and I can control my anxiety quite good in a room full of strangers as long as I have at least one friend beside me. It doesn't mean that it doesn't drain me any longer, it's just that now I can tolerate and be more patient with stressfull interactions.
As for the ESFJ part, my father is one of them and he's the person I treasure the most on Earth. He was a very dedicated dad and he'd always respect my pace, and take me to forests and peaceful environments so I could blossom during my childrenhood. Also he's a mathematician/physician and has a huuuuuge knowledge about everything (and I'm lowkey jealous) so maybe that's why we can talk easily, mostly'about science and eclectic facts. But yes in fact he was sometimes severe and pernickety with me, and I didn't take theses moments well at all but I have the chance that aside this part of his personnality his the most caring and loving person I know. My ISTJ mother was the real problem.
Anyway, I really like your videos, ENTPs are usually my favorite type of people (fictional AND non fictional) cause you're a sexy mysterious puzzle to me and I want to solve you. - INTP french girl if that matters
my puzzle keeps getting more complicated by the day. Railgun just shoots the puzzle and asks questions later
I think INTP relationships all depend on how much time an INTP works on developing their social awareness.
If INTPs recognize their social faults and take the time to understand them they would be more understanding in their interactions with other INTPs.
I know that as an INTP, I can spot an introverted thinker from a mile away. I don’t want to loose out on their potential contribution when we work on a team but I also know their faults (they are also mine) so I try to ground myself in reality - which may close me off to their full conceptual understanding.
I also know that they are like me and don’t always trust authority or blindly do what they are told. So I don’t trust them as much as I would trust someone else - until they show me they understand when they need to follow the rules.
If the relationship is more familial (like a sibling) then it is a bit harder to find common ground because we are
Not invested in each other through a contract.
I know my colleague at work wants the best result for a common vision in a company.
Familial bonds are different.
I can understand being sick of someone similar to me in an INTP-INTP interaction, but one of my best friends is an INTP too. I feel we are both too passive to get on each others nerves. I lived with him for several years in college and neither of us like fought for intellectual superiority or anything, we both have our separate individual fascinations to share with one another now and again and had a shared love of video games and cheesy old sci-fi movies. Admittedly as the one with the stronger sense of social awareness and responsibility I picked up some of his slack on household chores and whatnot which I resented somewhat at times, but that's just a reality of living with someone.
INTP vs INTP, mutually assured projection.
INTP here. I'm so impressed with your intuition Jo-jo. How did you learn about all of this? How much do you believe in it related to psychology? I am truly interested to know. My ISFP friend says that MBTI is complete nonsense because he took a psychology course once in college. I swear you describe all of my relationships to a t....almost to the point of getting emotional or being liberated that I can understand why my childhood was so bad growing up. My mom is an ESFJ. My dad is an ISFJ and he was abusive to me growing up like you described and my brother is an ISTJ. I feel like just telling you that, you understand my pain without having to say any more. Very liberating.
My INTP friend competes with me exactly the way you describe. I am secure enough though to often de-escalate and not usually engage too much when he challenges me constantly. I also respect ENTJs exactly like you describe even though I'm not always close to the ones I know but I would like to be perhaps.
I would love to just suck up all of your knowledge. You would make for an interesting friend to have....as long as you don't "shrink" me too much because I would be at a disadvantage. haha
2 INTPs in a house. Who will answer the phone and who will open the door? 😂
no one obviously
I'm in that kind of relationship. We use rock-paper-scissors game to deside. It does the job =>
INTP - I would take the door any day over the phone.
Nei5er that’s what makes it work. It’s like ‘omg you opened the door? Why??’
As an INTP married to ENTP i can say you totally nailed it hahahaha! Whoops
I'm an INTJ with an INTP best friend. I ask for his opinion on nearly everything because he keeps my ass grounded. He'll also give me a much needed dose of logic when I'm anxious. I don't think he's smarter than me, he's like medicine. Wouldn't trade my INTP for anything.
You said the exact thoughts i had about ESFPs and the reason i wasn't sure about being with them in a relationship, thank you so much
I enjoyed watching your video, specifically because I’m an INTP and you are basically our exact opposite; it’s interesting because your mind works exactly the same as an INTPs but you are just the more socialable aspect of a person that an INTP could never imagine being as extroverted as you but we can relate to you because we’re like minded.. I can tell just from your white board.. Total NTP move, lol love the diagram
Intp-intp "you are everything I hate about myself"
I definitely want to encounter an (ideally female) ENTJ now. Two of my closest friends are INTJ, and there's a good dynamic.
But what you're describing with the ENTJ? I'd be in a constant intellectual high... Damn that sounds amazing.
It is the dopest
Like a marriage between a leopard and a snail.
Happy like this: ua-cam.com/video/RtgZwmRG4MY/v-deo.html
Ok that caught me off guard, you made me laugh @@roksaan
35:06 the moment he started talkin about feelings, i was just like im out 🤣
Loved watching you argue with yourself for a minute and 24 seconds through intp stereotypes 10/10
@C.S. Joseph Thanks for that video, really interesting ! I wondered if you had some interesting insights on Extraverts VS Introverts, cause all I read everywhere is that it's related to what gives you or drains your energy, do you need to spend time alone to gain energy or do you need to go out and meet people. Well I ask you that cause I'm an INTP and my best friend is an ENTJ ( perfect combination according to your video!), and we really share the same thoughts about social interactions, he's an extrovert but he prefers staying alone and has just a few close friends and he'd rather stay at home reading a book than going to a bar and meet a lot of people. The main thing that parts us and make it obvious that he's an extrovert and I'm an introvert is that he's SUPER confortable in social situations, talks to everybody, initiates conversations, becomes incredibly popular within seconds etc, and I'm super inconfortable as I hate small talk and I just want to get out of there as soon as possible and I prefer one-one-one or really small groups interactions. So my thought is: Why an extrovert like him does behave just like me, just having few close friends and spend most of his time reading alone at home instead of going out, I really start to think that this E vs I thing is much more complex than it seems
My friend and I are both INTP. it’s never been smooth, a lot of effort to keep the friendship from crashing and burning over almost nothing. But it does happen. However we have gotten over it just like that. He’s falling into the basement dweller stereotype, it’s got us all worried but I feel there’s no way I can help that without it ending in the chaos we try harder then necessary to avoid.
To all my virgin INTP’s: having sex is fun but it won’t be the planet-aligning thing you think it will be. Learn social skills and recognize that they are precisely that, skills. Don’t be too arrogant and you’ll find friends if you remain social. I’ve gone through periods of heightened copulation and it’s not what you think it will be. Keep your circles tight and focus on developing yourself psychologically and physically. Sex without meaning behind it is very hollow.
very well said #dopest
INTP here. I've had a few arguments with another INTP before, good guy and I honestly wish the best for him, and those talks can degrade as fast as they can improve in quality. We both are so stoic and steadfast in our own views that we just HAVE to try and prove to the other that one of us is more right. While this is happening though, I realize that it seems super childish, but I'm still too stubborn to back out for the most part. Even when I do point out that we should probably just "agree to disagree" or at least find one common ground to stop the needless arguement, one of us will very quickly bring up an issue about the other's point and it spirals down all over again XD. At times, we could be explaining the same idea to each other, but not even realize it until we have already argued about it for the past 20 minutes. It is really quite the experience, if I do say so myself. For other INTPs out there though, I'd like to say this. If you ever start getting into an argument with another INTP, please do others a favour and just take it to a different chat room or use DMs if you're online, or at least take it elsewhere if it's in person, heck you could even just wait (at least try, since I know it will be churning in your head, eating you up,) and realize that your likely petty disagreement might be making another person uncomfortable about it all and is really not worth the trouble to continue.
Im always gaged on how precise you present your data :3 thanks
I'm an INTP, so is my identical twin- she's my best friend and vice-versa.But for outside friends, I have had quite a few ESFJ girl friends. Fascinating and amazing,learned a lot from them
As an INTP, I find that I have a great affinity for ESFPs and prior to this I didn’t understand why.
intp and esfp are duals in socionics, the best intertype relationship
The personalities that I like are in the mid to the bot. :(
Now I know why I have a friend that is INTJ.
I'm an INTP and my best friend is an ENTJ. It makes sense.
Do you have an INFJ to INTP compatibility video planned? Would love the deeper insights to the functional stacks and their compatibility - specifically as to how romantic relationships would play out between the two.
yes I do.
I’m looking forward to that one
In terms of cognitive functions, I think that one of the problems for INTPs is that in Western society not only do extroverts outnumber introverts 3:1 in general, but SJs traditionalists and enforcers (Si > Ne) outnumber nonconformist and possibly degenerate NTPs (Ne > Si) 6:1 (16:1 vs. INTPs).
On average I'd expect that being out of step in a life-long competition rigged against them can encourage a person to get very used to either using their Shadow functions or shutting the world out - something an INTP can manage (Si child vs. Se trickster distraction) far more than an ENTP can afford to do (Si inferior vs. Se demon pain). Likewise ENTPs can shut hypocritical bastards out of their "us"-group better than INTPs.
How those people being shut out (for the NTP's emotional and physical well-being) react is a good indication of how unequitable the power exchange has been. If the NTP really is the immature one, it's on the "adult" in the relationship to be a responsible adult about the conflict.
Can NTPs be good friends? Sure! The INTPs are ignoring and the ENTPs are avoiding/driving away the ones they really can't stand. Logic, for the win.
Likewise, SPs are doing their best to drive our more-workaholic-than-thou NTJ cousins to drink, etc. :)
Ronald B. M. Irvin you sure it’s 3:1?? That seems unlikely
Depends on the source. Isabel Myers estimated introversion at 25% of the population, while the Myers-Briggs organization in 1998 later showed Introverts 50.7% and Extroverts 49.3% of the USA.
Introverted types at personalitymax.com/personality-types/population-gender/ sum up to 34%
( How different people will respond to the sorting questions can be skewed by how the question is worded. )
"Researchers estimate extroverts make up 50 - 74 percent of the population...
...The other 16 - 50 percent of the population consists of introverts"
www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/thrive/201205/are-extroverts-happier-introverts
I'll assume the writer was aiming for "26 - 50 percent". Split the difference at 2:1, and note that much can depend on what criteria researchers are using for "extroversion" and "introversion"?
My guess is it’s like 40-60 intuitively, For ever two introverts, three extroverts. Which obviously isn’t a way to do statistics though
It's actually 15:1 if you consider that INTP is one of the 16 and not against itself, although there's an idea...
Hmm. INTP married to ENTJ. Much accurate, but it is also very hard. ENTJ is always right and cannot entertain other possibilities. We are very compatible, but SO opposite (Especially the P/J facet) we almost push each other to further extremes of our personalities.
13:07 To be honest, as INTP, we would give a direct example on why we consider someone as clumsy/idiot/untrustworthy, to back up our argument. it's pretty fun to argue like that.
Yesssss definitely believe INTP is a better care giver than ESFJ...
INTP encourages child to think for themself
ESFJ wants to think for the child and will use emotional manipulation
Unfortunately I see the same in my SFJ mother. Always wanting to take away the challenges of life that’ll actually help me grow
yes.. it’s quite common, infantalising adult children to keep them dependent.
My ENFP father did that in a similar way.
Haha, my INTP mom also believes she's the best mom in the world 😅
I hate esfj ego as isfp