Interesting conversation!!! 💯 And I’d like to say this: Queer people do not need to “bring something to the table” to be respected. They don’t need to be educated. They don’t need to be accomplished or professionals. They can be illiterate, poor, jobless, sex workers, live with disability and still deserve respect. They can make their sexuality and gender identity their whole life and will still deserve as much respect. Let us divorce ourselves from this tired rhetoric that is often spread by homophobes who say “my problem is that you make it your whole life”. Non-queer people make their sexuality their whole lives. Non-queer people model their whole lives around their orientation and gender. Why can’t queer people do the same without wahala???
The categories of people you have listed: poor, illiterate, jobless, sex workers, disabled etc are not receiving respect regardless of sexual orientation, even those who are heterosexual in those categories do not receive respect. Also, rather than worry about respect for some of the categories, most especially poor and sex workers, we should be trying to get rid of or significantly decrease those categories. Most or all poor people don't want to be respected and poor, they want to no longer be poor. Also, in my estimation, most sex workers have been sexually abused and are also poor and only do sex work as means of survival. It is dangerous work and not uplifting to the spirit.
It is painful and funny that so many people judge different things and still guilty of so many others, 😂😂😂😂😂. I learnt alot , she is really outspoken, sound and fluent..Take your flowers Doyin 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@karenihenebiri1245 Well, I don't hate. sometimes , we misuse the word judging. Calling things out is not the same as judging. Judging is when you tell people there's no hope for them, like saying they have done the worst of things, like even God can not redeem them, that is judging. Abeg be careful what you open your mind to, especially when someone says please be open-minded, your question should be to what? You said you learned a lot that "gender is fluid," according to the guest on the show? Telling someone that their gender is in their head is wrong, telling someone that your body is not your sexual identity and that your sexual identity is your psychology is misleading and wrong. There is no wisdom in that please, that's not intelligence it doesn't matter who is promoting it. I don't hate, but they all need to stop misleading ppl and selling their ideas to people.
I have listened to so many trans individuals from other countries especially US and UK and I must say deevah did a good job by answering correctly. I also understand Doyin was trying to be nice and respectfully, I would have loved her to ask more intense questions.
I’m a trans-attracted Nigerian man, and I’ve been attracted for a long time. I want to share a few things that might be helpful to someone out there. For many, their first exposure to trans women may have been through pornography, which can create false ideas about what attraction to trans women entails. It’s important to distinguish between fantasy and reality, and recognize that attraction-whether to cis or trans women-is perfectly valid. Are your attractions normal? Yes!! Are you straight, gay, or something else? Here’s the thing: I’m attracted to femininity. I love women and have never been attracted to men. Trans women-whether pre-op or post-op-are women. On the other hand, gay men are attracted to men. Many men are primarily attracted to trans women who have not undergone surgery. If that’s your preference, it doesn’t change the fact that these women are still women. Attraction can be fluid, and not everything has to fit into neat labels like “straight” or “gay.” Maybe you’re bisexual. Or maybe you aren’t. The truth is, labels don’t matter as much as how you treat yourself and others. Trans women are more than just sexual partners. It’s easy to misinterpret attraction as purely sexual, especially when influenced by unrealistic portrayals. But trans women are people with full lives, emotions, and experiences, just like anyone else. Reducing someone to their gender or sexual appeal will never bring out the best in them-or in you. Cis women and trans women are both beautiful. All women-whether cis or trans-are incredible. Women carry qualities that men often don’t, and that makes them unique and wonderful. If you find yourself attracted to both cis and trans women, approach those feelings with respect. Everyone has their own struggles, and kindness will always take you further than judgment. Navigating trans attraction can be tough. It’s easy to stay on the “down low” (DL) or feel afraid of being judged as a “chaser.” Societal stigma can make it harder for men who identify as straight and are attracted to trans women. But remember: your attraction doesn’t diminish your worth. Attraction to someone-cis or trans-doesn’t change who you are. The key is respect and dignity. Whether you’re with a cis or trans woman, treat her with kindness, respect, and consent. Building meaningful relationships is about more than attraction-it’s about connection and goodwill. Your attraction is valid. The more we accept ourselves and treat others with respect, the closer we get to a world where no one feels shame for who they are or who they love.
I am not even trying to be religious, but your sexual identity is your body and not the way you feel like she was trying to portray. Pleaae anything outside that is a mental issue. People have their struggles it's not enough to start seeing yourself as though that's who you are meant to be.
Am not judging. But let’s be clear on what the bible says. Ephesians 6:12 King James Version 12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Proverbs 14:12-16 KJV. There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, But the end thereof are the ways of death. Genesis 1:27. So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Psalm 139:14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. Changing ur sex is a total disobedience to God, in doing so you are automatically telling God he made a mistake putting you in the body he gave u. Yes God still loves us but we need to repent and accept his ways and love
I hope you too have repented and you will make heaven if Jesus comes now now. Because it will be a big shame to be preaching on UA-cam and still not make heaven.
I went to primary school with this person the interviewee, st.Anthony's nursery and primary school lokoja. at the time his name was onyebuchi, very good dancer then.
Wow, that was a very insightful episode. DOYIN thank you for always talking on controversial issues, the things some people are afraid to talk about because they're afraid of being attacked and denounced.
Well, I do not support attack on anyone but, it is wrong to say or think that your sexual identity is your psychology, it's not the way you feel, but it is your body and your features in your body, that determines your sexual identity.
Really nice watching. Happy to see an eloquent Trans Nigerian. Trans women at the moment can't really carry children. Uterine transplant is more of a hypothesis for a biological Male. I love the open conversation.
@@TheLatinoShow Where did you get this information from. if it has been in existence since the olden days as you say, why are African nations speaking against it.
Complexity in all of its complexities whahala deeyy. We cannot understand oo. We just have to go and get a degree on the pansexuals, Trans, and queer thinking. I am calming down. I appreciate people's uniqueness. It is well o. ❤❤❤❤
@@opocoyo Yeah. We Africans speak really bad English. I know many Romanians and Polish people who were never colonised by the UK, have never travelled out of their country, and yet speak far better English than our African professors. We keep making excuses and now we are looked down upon for having a low average IQ.
Please what is intelligence when you say your sexual identity is in the head, trust me, your sexual identity is your body and not your psychology. The most difficult issue in medicine is mental health. Let ppl seek help when they need one and from the right place. There's no hate here.
What a shame that Nigerians have gone this haywire. Please seek God. Americans are going through a lot because of this nonsense. May God save your soul. Emotionally I pray you you.
@obodouchenna6528 how is that intelligent to say your sexual identity is fluid and it's what you feel in your head and not what you possess, as in your body parts. ? Common, this idea is more mental than you think. When you have a habit, you need help, It's not enough to start seeing perfection in the habit or seeing yourself as that's who you are meant to be. Because a r#pist can give excuses too.
Good interviews. I just listened to your interview on the Hermaphrodite ( queen the gbola girl). And the Trans. Woman ( Deva). personally I kind of agree with the Hermaphrodite but completely disagree with the Trans. Woman stuff...
You’re not wrong. The law in Nigeria does not punish cross dressing, transgenders but homosexuality. But if a trans woman (a biological male) commits sexual acts with a biological man, that’s homosexuality and is punishable in Nigeria.
@@Chxzzy101 I have one question for you, how can a straight man be in a relationship with a transgender woman and not be gay, because both have a penis. This person is just using his intellect to confuse others.
Feedback for the host, please do your homework on areas you're not familiar with prior to bringing guests out so as not to offend or harm them by lack of knowledge. Great interview othwrwise.
For something as simple as water, we have river, pond, stream, spring, ocean, sea, etc. All efforts to differentiate and respect the ways water occurs. Then, when it comes to gender it's just female and male only. Omo, it seems quite lazy to me. There's obviously much more to gender. Even the hatred is strange, too. They're just different. Shouldn't be that big of a deal tbh.
From the place of love, the problem is this confusion you are spreading. It's so sad. Please correct what you said. Your sexual identity is your body and it's features and components, please, it's not your psychology, meaning it's not how you feel. It is what your body is. If you ever have to feel your sexual identity, then you are saying there's a psychological issue going on somewhere you don't want to admit. We all have a lot we struggle and deal with personally, but that's not enough to start seeing ourselves as may be that's who we were meant to be. Example, if pedophile say they are naturally attracted to minors only and nothing else, can we now say that's enough reason for them to be that way? Or that's their identity? This topic is more mental that you think and the few into this act are seeking help genuinely. It's a struggle and it is real but where money is involved it changes everything 💯
Now, according to that your Analogy. First, there are societies that do not believe in that term as the act may be considered normal. Normal is subjective to everyone as it left for us to deem. Now In this case, if the pedophilia occurs between two consenting people, with the acceptance of the legal guardian of the minor, who are we to deem it a crime or abnormal? Pedophilia is a crime when the case is not as above id believe. I.e 1. The minor is not consenting. 2. The Guardian of the minor is not consenting. 3. That particular society deems it wrong. So people with gender dysphoria, who choose to match their psychological and mental self to their physical self WITHOUT HURTING OTHERS should not be deemed abnormal or criminals Id say. Also, you said the bodies should be the determinant of sexual orientation, lmaoo. Everything single part of your external and internal body is controlled by your nervous system. You using your eyes to see oh, you wanting to do things with your hands oh,you wanting to walk oh. Everything is by the help of your nervous system. So you cannot just disregard the mental part and it’s just so hypocritical to say that especially when it occurs naturally in all other lifes I.e in lower animals and in plants. If it occurs naturally in all other bios why is humans where we draw the line? Please, Let us just all live together with love and support even if we disagree with other peoples nature and the choice to accept it.
@@Low_BP Let me start with your examples, first, as you mentioned it occurs in lower animals, have you ever seen a male dog trying to be a female dog? I have seen a male dog humping another male dog, my question is, is animal now the standard for sexual orientation? Pedophilia inherently involves a power imbalance between an adult and a child, regardless of whether the adult, child, or guardian consents. Children are not capable of providing informed consent in the same way adults are, Pedophilia is sex with children please note that, it’s not just sex with teenagers so it can never be right. You watch where this world is going soon You seemed to be ok with incest as well if someone identifies as one. See, there’s why we must have order, when all these acts are unleashed, you will be shocked the length human will go. On the other hand, gender dysphoria is a medical condition where an individual feels his/her gender identity does not align with their physical body, gender identity is not a feeling, it is physical, if you have to feel your gender then that’s a psychological problem right there, and they need help it’s not enough to start saying you are in a wrong body. I will not criminalize anyone on that but all I am saying is that there’s a problem they need to address and stop promoting mental issues like this, imagine the guest saying gender identity is fluid and is in your head is off, inaccurate and misleading. It’s even sad where many healthcare insurance oversea will cover cost for transgender procedure and would not cover cost for someone seeking IVF. We need to be careful when discussing gender issues to avoid normalizing mental behaviors under the guise of subjective morality.
No, don't be carried away. gender is not fluid and it's not your pyschology. gender is your body. if someone has to feel he or her gender that's a pyschology issue this people are promoting under the guise of selective morality.
This is very nice I see all these women in the comments commending him, we need more trans women in Nigeria, they need to get into sports and teach women how it's done, they also need to get into beauty pageants see how fine he looks even finer than the host, they should pack all the beauty pageant awards, I love this, the patriarchy stay winning. Awon ode gbo gbo
@@charliayoung2229i hope you know he’s being sarcastic because this is what happens in the west trans winning beauty pageants, competing in women’s sports, entering women’s bathroom and yet nobody bats an eye because they are supposedly oppressed.
My suggestion to Deeva is just stay the way you are as a trans. Focus on your life and career. You don’t need to do any advocacy for anybody. I don’t see the essence of this particular show. If you tell nobody you are trans nobody will know. So why broadcast it here? Just live your life quietly like everyone else. God loves you. One day I pray He will reveal Himself to you and help you to have the right sexual orientation which matches the biological gender He assigned to you. God does not make mistakes but the devil somehow comes in to warp what God has designed. Same way people are born with inexplicable physical anomalies is the same way they are born with inexplicable mental and psychological anomalies.
Interesting conversation!!! 💯
And I’d like to say this: Queer people do not need to “bring something to the table” to be respected. They don’t need to be educated. They don’t need to be accomplished or professionals. They can be illiterate, poor, jobless, sex workers, live with disability and still deserve respect. They can make their sexuality and gender identity their whole life and will still deserve as much respect. Let us divorce ourselves from this tired rhetoric that is often spread by homophobes who say “my problem is that you make it your whole life”. Non-queer people make their sexuality their whole lives. Non-queer people model their whole lives around their orientation and gender. Why can’t queer people do the same without wahala???
The categories of people you have listed: poor, illiterate, jobless, sex workers, disabled etc are not receiving respect regardless of sexual orientation, even those who are heterosexual in those categories do not receive respect. Also, rather than worry about respect for some of the categories, most especially poor and sex workers, we should be trying to get rid of or significantly decrease those categories. Most or all poor people don't want to be respected and poor, they want to no longer be poor. Also, in my estimation, most sex workers have been sexually abused and are also poor and only do sex work as means of survival. It is dangerous work and not uplifting to the spirit.
True.
It's gender dysphoria, not disphoria.
It is painful and funny that so many people judge different things and still guilty of so many others, 😂😂😂😂😂.
I learnt alot , she is really outspoken, sound and fluent..Take your flowers Doyin 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@karenihenebiri1245 Well, I don't hate. sometimes , we misuse the word judging. Calling things out is not the same as judging. Judging is when you tell people there's no hope for them, like saying they have done the worst of things, like even God can not redeem them, that is judging. Abeg be careful what you open your mind to, especially when someone says please be open-minded, your question should be to what? You said you learned a lot that "gender is fluid," according to the guest on the show? Telling someone that their gender is in their head is wrong, telling someone that your body is not your sexual identity and that your sexual identity is your psychology is misleading and wrong. There is no wisdom in that please, that's not intelligence it doesn't matter who is promoting it. I don't hate, but they all need to stop misleading ppl and selling their ideas to people.
The devil is a liar, it's important to pray for your pregnancy even before you get it.
the honest truth
Well educative …and goshhhh I love her diction and how supple she speaks.
I have listened to so many trans individuals from other countries especially US and UK and I must say deevah did a good job by answering correctly. I also understand Doyin was trying to be nice and respectfully, I would have loved her to ask more intense questions.
I’m a trans-attracted Nigerian man, and I’ve been attracted for a long time.
I want to share a few things that might be helpful to someone out there.
For many, their first exposure to trans women may have been through pornography, which can create false ideas about what attraction to trans women entails. It’s important to distinguish between fantasy and reality, and recognize that attraction-whether to cis or trans women-is perfectly valid.
Are your attractions normal? Yes!!
Are you straight, gay, or something else?
Here’s the thing: I’m attracted to femininity. I love women and have never been attracted to men. Trans women-whether pre-op or post-op-are women. On the other hand, gay men are attracted to men. Many men are primarily attracted to trans women who have not undergone surgery. If that’s your preference, it doesn’t change the fact that these women are still women. Attraction can be fluid, and not everything has to fit into neat labels like “straight” or “gay.” Maybe you’re bisexual. Or maybe you aren’t. The truth is, labels don’t matter as much as how you treat yourself and others.
Trans women are more than just sexual partners.
It’s easy to misinterpret attraction as purely sexual, especially when influenced by unrealistic portrayals. But trans women are people with full lives, emotions, and experiences, just like anyone else. Reducing someone to their gender or sexual appeal will never bring out the best in them-or in you.
Cis women and trans women are both beautiful.
All women-whether cis or trans-are incredible. Women carry qualities that men often don’t, and that makes them unique and wonderful. If you find yourself attracted to both cis and trans women, approach those feelings with respect. Everyone has their own struggles, and kindness will always take you further than judgment.
Navigating trans attraction can be tough.
It’s easy to stay on the “down low” (DL) or feel afraid of being judged as a “chaser.” Societal stigma can make it harder for men who identify as straight and are attracted to trans women. But remember: your attraction doesn’t diminish your worth. Attraction to someone-cis or trans-doesn’t change who you are.
The key is respect and dignity.
Whether you’re with a cis or trans woman, treat her with kindness, respect, and consent. Building meaningful relationships is about more than attraction-it’s about connection and goodwill.
Your attraction is valid. The more we accept ourselves and treat others with respect, the closer we get to a world where no one feels shame for who they are or who they love.
I learnt a lot from this in-depth and sensitive interview / topic. Live your life beautiful Deeva. Thanks Doyin,
I am not even trying to be religious, but your sexual identity is your body and not the way you feel like she was trying to portray. Pleaae anything outside that is a mental issue. People have their struggles it's not enough to start seeing yourself as though that's who you are meant to be.
Am not judging. But let’s be clear on what the bible says. Ephesians 6:12
King James Version
12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Proverbs 14:12-16 KJV. There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, But the end thereof are the ways of death. Genesis 1:27. So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.
Psalm 139:14
I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. Changing ur sex is a total disobedience to God, in doing so you are automatically telling God he made a mistake putting you in the body he gave u. Yes God still loves us but we need to repent and accept his ways and love
I hope you too have repented and you will make heaven if Jesus comes now now. Because it will be a big shame to be preaching on UA-cam and still not make heaven.
..crap
Oya, tell me what the Koran say. The after that, tell me what Ifa say.
You are not intelligent
Tell me why you are here in the first place? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I went to primary school with this person the interviewee, st.Anthony's nursery and primary school lokoja. at the time his name was onyebuchi, very good dancer then.
I went to St. Anthony Lokoja too. 2006 set. I was in cultural dance group. The Onyebuchi name rings a bell.
I was in 2007 set
Oh my God..he was your classmate then. This is sad. Very sad.
@@ini2108 his sister was my classmate. Sandra Okeke. I still have a picture of him from primary school. This one shock me abeg. Wth
Wow, that was a very insightful episode. DOYIN thank you for always talking on controversial issues, the things some people are afraid to talk about because they're afraid of being attacked and denounced.
Well, I do not support attack on anyone but, it is wrong to say or think that your sexual identity is your psychology, it's not the way you feel, but it is your body and your features in your body, that determines your sexual identity.
Alexandria is just so lovable. I pray the Lord her soul to keep!
I am straight live in Europe, you are intelligent just be careful cause of where you live right now good luck
All her comments about hypocrisy in Nigeria are perfectly true. Abi na ghosts dey DM her?
Wow i can't believe i stayed all through this amazing discussion. It has some sort an achievement feeling
Classy, glowing, stunning 💖✨ much love
Really nice watching. Happy to see an eloquent Trans Nigerian. Trans women at the moment can't really carry children. Uterine transplant is more of a hypothesis for a biological Male. I love the open conversation.
Yeah, we can't carry children with the level of science and technology we have now
This trans situations should spare africa.they should be found in America alone.we still love God ,we have not gotten here
But it has been existence in Africa since the olden days nah u can do ur reach on old transgender
who brought Christianity to your country if not the white slave master . what did our ancestors worship before then?
@@TheLatinoShow Where did you get this information from. if it has been in existence since the olden days as you say, why are African nations speaking against it.
Because of religion, if Africans where spiritualist why are we against it. Africa has changed from many things because of colonial religion etc
@@primejeggar9770 Colonialism!
Colonialists came and shoved their religion and ways down our throats. Still white washed up to this day
It takes a lot of guts to publicly identify as trans in a homophobic/transphobic country like Nigeria. Much respect to her❤
Complexity in all of its complexities whahala deeyy. We cannot understand oo. We just have to go and get a degree on the pansexuals, Trans, and queer thinking. I am calming down. I appreciate people's uniqueness. It is well o. ❤❤❤❤
Doyin is directly promoting the lgbtqi. Nothing more nothing less… You’re putting your hands in another man’s sin.
May God help you out🙏
I love her diction, she speaks so well❤
What's the big deal with Diction? I don't get it
She could do better. You have bad professors. With a degree in English she should speak better.
She is speaking broken English.
The bar is in hell.
@@opocoyo Yeah. We Africans speak really bad English. I know many Romanians and Polish people who were never colonised by the UK, have never travelled out of their country, and yet speak far better English than our African professors. We keep making excuses and now we are looked down upon for having a low average IQ.
Her composure is one to be studied 🥰 such an intelligent woman. Thank you so much for the education doyin
Please what is intelligence when you say your sexual identity is in the head, trust me, your sexual identity is your body and not your psychology. The most difficult issue in medicine is mental health. Let ppl seek help when they need one and from the right place. There's no hate here.
She still looks a man dressed as a woman.
Man not woman please
😂😂@@thomaskyesmen4054
What a shame that Nigerians have gone this haywire. Please seek God. Americans are going through a lot because of this nonsense. May God save your soul. Emotionally I pray you you.
She's well spoken. I enjoyed the conversation
She is so intelligent and outspoken.
@obodouchenna6528 how is that intelligent to say your sexual identity is fluid and it's what you feel in your head and not what you possess, as in your body parts. ? Common, this idea is more mental than you think. When you have a habit, you need help, It's not enough to start seeing perfection in the habit or seeing yourself as that's who you are meant to be. Because a r#pist can give excuses too.
Olojukokoro.
This hostess, you are promoting evil.
The black jeanie mai....so beautiful Doyin
Doyin just gained a fan. I love people who are open minded🥰. Deevah is one of the most intelligent of them all🥰. Sending love from here❤️
From your name it shows you are a confused being
We are gradually normalizing trans and LGBTQ in Nigeria. 😮
Very intelligent she speaks well🔥
Doyin, I think you should try newscasting. I think you will be great at it. The outfit is giving sophisticated newscaster. 🥰❤️
I actually cried watching this 😭😭 ❤❤
Doyin, you're doing better 👍
Good interviews.
I just listened to your interview on the Hermaphrodite ( queen the gbola girl). And the Trans. Woman ( Deva). personally I kind of agree with the Hermaphrodite but completely disagree with the Trans. Woman stuff...
She speaks so beautifully and fluently ❤❤❤
Doyin is very smart and intelligent
Very interesting interview with much clarity
This damn host going along with the bafoonery
Great interview. Lovely Deeva. Keep educating girl
The vocals refused to trans along😅
😅😅😅
I don't think that transwomen can carry uterus now,but probably it will happen soon
I agree, it takes more than a uterus to carry a fetus!!!!!!
Exactly
Diva is so pretty and out spoken
Its a lie I am a transgender woman we can't carry baby. She lied
For her thinking about whether she’ll let her kids do same, means she doesn’t fully like it.
Please do they work on their voices too
I’m still asking this question
A boy child that was born with female hormone what should he do ?
ask JESUS CHRIST , he will direct you. shalom
@@omalichstella-ti6lg how u take pass waec?
Deevaah you make me proud to be part of the queer community ❤❤. Love you family. Keep Living you and spreading light 💖💖.
I thought homosexuality is punishable to 14 years in Nigeria,,,but i was wrong ...
I support lgbtq love from Rwanda 🇷🇼
You’re not wrong. The law in Nigeria does not punish cross dressing, transgenders but homosexuality. But if a trans woman (a biological male) commits sexual acts with a biological man, that’s homosexuality and is punishable in Nigeria.
@@acadekoya if you're a Nigerian your laws are fascist and inconsiderate,,,
Why hate your homosexual brothers and sisters?
@@acadekoyaYou are very stupid for even having this mentality 🤔
Thank you Doyin and Deevaah...for this it was very interesting and insightful. All the way from🇿🇦♥️
Wow two intelligent and intellectual people ❤❤
No, they are not intelligent, because you can never say gender is in your head, and it's not how you feel. It is your body.
She’s so beautiful and intelligent
I am more confused halfway to this conversation 😂😂😂😂
Your intellectual capacity isn’t up to pace with this.
@@Chxzzy101 I have one question for you, how can a straight man be in a relationship with a transgender woman and not be gay, because both have a penis. This person is just using his intellect to confuse others.
He's so beautiful and intelligent but still a male.
@kateene1621 actually, this is funny 😁 😂
Trans Woman but yes still biologically Male, don’t you think She knows this?? LOL!!! I always find this comment funny
God help you people
This interview was far better than the ones with Daniel and interesting
I totally agree 🙂
Feedback for the host, please do your homework on areas you're not familiar with prior to bringing guests out so as not to offend or harm them by lack of knowledge. Great interview othwrwise.
Facts
For something as simple as water, we have river, pond, stream, spring, ocean, sea, etc. All efforts to differentiate and respect the ways water occurs.
Then, when it comes to gender it's just female and male only. Omo, it seems quite lazy to me. There's obviously much more to gender.
Even the hatred is strange, too. They're just different. Shouldn't be that big of a deal tbh.
So beautiful
Thank you
Not everything has to have a variety. Lol. Some things are either black or white.
Quite intelligent
Omo I no understand anything 😢
I don't know we have it in NIGERIA menny of them in THAILAND
Omo conversations dey go on for this doyin’s corner
God this lady is so outspoken and the diction and vocabulary de sweet me
I dont blame you. Jesus can help you
Thank u
From the place of love, the problem is this confusion you are spreading. It's so sad. Please correct what you said. Your sexual identity is your body and it's features and components, please, it's not your psychology, meaning it's not how you feel. It is what your body is. If you ever have to feel your sexual identity, then you are saying there's a psychological issue going on somewhere you don't want to admit. We all have a lot we struggle and deal with personally, but that's not enough to start seeing ourselves as may be that's who we were meant to be. Example, if pedophile say they are naturally attracted to minors only and nothing else, can we now say that's enough reason for them to be that way? Or that's their identity? This topic is more mental that you think and the few into this act are seeking help genuinely. It's a struggle and it is real but where money is involved it changes everything 💯
Now, according to that your Analogy.
First, there are societies that do not believe in that term as the act may be considered normal.
Normal is subjective to everyone as it left for us to deem.
Now In this case, if the pedophilia occurs between two consenting people, with the acceptance of the legal guardian of the minor, who are we to deem it a crime or abnormal?
Pedophilia is a crime when the case is not as above id believe. I.e
1. The minor is not consenting.
2. The Guardian of the minor is not consenting.
3. That particular society deems it wrong.
So people with gender dysphoria, who choose to match their psychological and mental self to their physical self WITHOUT HURTING OTHERS should not be deemed abnormal or criminals Id say.
Also, you said the bodies should be the determinant of sexual orientation, lmaoo.
Everything single part of your external and internal body is controlled by your nervous system.
You using your eyes to see oh, you wanting to do things with your hands oh,you wanting to walk oh.
Everything is by the help of your nervous system.
So you cannot just disregard the mental part and it’s just so hypocritical to say that especially when it occurs naturally in all other lifes I.e in lower animals and in plants.
If it occurs naturally in all other bios why is humans where we draw the line?
Please, Let us just all live together with love and support even if we disagree with other peoples nature and the choice to accept it.
@@Low_BP Let me start with your examples, first, as you mentioned it occurs in lower animals, have you ever seen a male dog trying to be a female dog? I have seen a male dog humping another male dog, my question is, is animal now the standard for sexual orientation?
Pedophilia inherently involves a power imbalance between an adult and a child, regardless of whether the adult, child, or guardian consents. Children are not capable of providing informed consent in the same way adults are, Pedophilia is sex with children please note that, it’s not just sex with teenagers so it can never be right. You watch where this world is going soon
You seemed to be ok with incest as well if someone identifies as one. See, there’s why we must have order, when all these acts are unleashed, you will be shocked the length human will go.
On the other hand, gender dysphoria is a medical condition where an individual feels his/her gender identity does not align with their physical body, gender identity is not a feeling, it is physical, if you have to feel your gender then that’s a psychological problem right there, and they need help it’s not enough to start saying you are in a wrong body. I will not criminalize anyone on that but all I am saying is that there’s a problem they need to address and stop promoting mental issues like this, imagine the guest saying gender identity is fluid and is in your head is off, inaccurate and misleading.
It’s even sad where many healthcare insurance oversea will cover cost for transgender procedure and would not cover cost for someone seeking IVF. We need to be careful when discussing gender issues to avoid normalizing mental behaviors under the guise of subjective morality.
totally correct
So intelligent
Yes I believe it existed in the bible days, this is because there was a law prohibiting it. It means they were doing it.
I understand what mental stability it can take it needs therapy as well.
First transgender in Nigeria that doesn’t sound trashy and uneducated.
Nice interview ❤
Madness ! Trans community can never hold here in Nigeria. I pray for God opens your eyes
God made them and nothing you can do about it
God doesn’t create mistakes
So you are now a saint
@@EbyTube God wanted him to be a boy, he chose to act like a girl
@@anyafrances2193what about intersex
It's educating
PERTAINING OF TO MY 2 COMMENT BELOW CONCERNING *WIRING: *BEING WIRING OF THE *MIND(NOT SOLELY BRAIN)!😍😘💥💕💖😊
This was an intelligent conversation
No, don't be carried away. gender is not fluid and it's not your pyschology. gender is your body. if someone has to feel he or her gender that's a pyschology issue this people are promoting under the guise of selective morality.
God forbid Bad Thing.. ❤️
Abioooooooooo
So Dem dey Nigeria.
God help usooooo
I think he's cough 😷 is just as a matured male gender 🫣. I'm in love with your manly coughing 🙄🙄🙄.
Wow! I like her level of intellect. She is highly intelligent. I have learnt alot from her. Can I get her handle please?
How is she highly intelligent, can you explain..
@inmythoughts718 😂😂😂
So Doyin you want to help them?
🎉waw so outspoken
Thunder
You should not encourage this nonsense.
Beauty with brain ❤
Doyin good job 👍👍
Am super proud of you my baby@deevaah luv you
May all your son be like her amen.
Keep deceiving yourselves
Damn, I'm straight. But I find her so fucking attractive!!!!
U are gay, why are u gay
No gay man can find her attractive, believe me
That's because you are attracted to the person he's trying to be and not the man he's originally is. 😂😂😂
This is not a trans woman thisnis a real woman look at the breast the (clivage) they look so natural i think she's really pretending i think😅
This is very nice I see all these women in the comments commending him, we need more trans women in Nigeria, they need to get into sports and teach women how it's done, they also need to get into beauty pageants see how fine he looks even finer than the host, they should pack all the beauty pageant awards, I love this, the patriarchy stay winning. Awon ode gbo gbo
U must be unwell
You need the Light.
@@charliayoung2229i hope you know he’s being sarcastic because this is what happens in the west trans winning beauty pageants, competing in women’s sports, entering women’s bathroom and yet nobody bats an eye because they are supposedly oppressed.
What are you promoting?
😂😂😂😂 they should really go into sports. I got your message bro
My suggestion to Deeva is just stay the way you are as a trans. Focus on your life and career. You don’t need to do any advocacy for anybody. I don’t see the essence of this particular show. If you tell nobody you are trans nobody will know. So why broadcast it here? Just live your life quietly like everyone else. God loves you. One day I pray He will reveal Himself to you and help you to have the right sexual orientation which matches the biological gender He assigned to you. God does not make mistakes but the devil somehow comes in to warp what God has designed. Same way people are born with inexplicable physical anomalies is the same way they are born with inexplicable mental and psychological anomalies.
Just crazy world Doyin
Learnt alots information is key
That's true doh am attracted too to transgender
Come oooo, I can't still understand this lady, may be she uses terms to confuse person, was she a male before turn to female or intersex
Yes he was a male but transitioned to female 😊
That Child... I am that child
Feel free to be trans and move around those of the same, but to promote lgbtq in nigeria, that will not get you anywhere
Dee vah is beautiful❤❤❤
CORRECTION IN MY COMMENT BELOW: *OMNIPOTENT
I learn a lot😢❤❤❤❤❤
Doyin nice ❤❤❤
I like Doyin when it comes to things like this. She ask the right questions but her arrogance, nagging and laziness etc, are what I don't like
Must you belittle others trans people saying they’re not educated cmon now that’s absurd
She's trying to make a point..
All of Una Dey mad
Nah knowledge you need
Dee vaaah is beautiful 🎉🎉