Have you created the course on non-aggressive communication? Your content and knowledge is so incredibly helpful, I really appreciate the help in my current situation. Kind regards.
What if your ex is FA and he left you because of his fears not anything you did??? I started therapy months ago to help better set boundaries in all relationships including with my family, he’s aware of that. He told me it’s nothing I did. He thinks his ex messed him up, that could be a factor, but knowing a little about his upbringing, I think that’s the root of his avoidant personality, it was chaotic and when I asked about his dad his demeanor shifted as if he was a kid again. I didn’t push too much, but I get the feeling his ex that cheated was probably the only female he let in and her betrayal really shook him and reinforced his lack of trust issues. I now know I have FA tendencies, we triggered each other for the same reasons, self protection. I’m more aware now of all of this, but he won’t communicate if I reach out with emotional stuff, only light stuff. It’s frustrating. I’ve not reached out in 2wks since he didn’t respond to my last 2 texts. Ignoring is a trigger of mine that makes me feel rejected and abandoned. Not sure what to do. Please help, I miss him so much
Why was I good in communication with my ex when we were texting but in person I wasn't? I'm shy and it's so hard for me to communicate my needs in person and he thought I wasn't interested in him sometimes.
Similar was happening with my ex where she was avoiding in person deeper level conversations with me, unfortunately she's the one who dumped me! I tried to have one last mature conversation with her, but she only apologized and cried, and said she's not going to change(something that I never even asked her to do), and wished me good luck! To this day I still wonder what any of this meant. It's been about 2 moths of no contact and I am starting to move on knowing that I would never know what happened, what she thought, what she wanted, what she really felt.., until she feels the courage to talk to me, I can only continue to wonder about it! Have peace and be strong!
I am confused as it was sooooo strong both ways, equally give and take, after our short trip, that's when he started to be avoidend, I mentioned that I understand space and everyone needs it, but not answering after saying thank you for the nice trip ect amd hearing back 3 days after made me insecure. I mentioned how it made me feel and that I understand everything as long as there is comunication( just to say I need space I contact you in 2, 3 days ) anyway, we spoke, he understood, apologised, and then again the same shit... So here I am said I need to let this go. He agrees bur likes all my social media? Is that a sign of reconnecting?
My ex declined talking to me post breakup so I left him alone. He struggled to talk in the relationship about anything important he would deflect or make a joke and avoid it so I didn't push. Not surprisingly he never reached out. I would not soothe what he did. He has to be responsible. Tough because we loved each other but he had to deal with his fear or it would be wasted energy talking.
I have had nvr been a believer of such things. But after I had a break , and then I wanted to reunite with my ex ,I tried love spells. Honestly speaking was completely speechless with the spiritual power of Dr ikenga. Everything happened as he said to me
Have you created the course on non-aggressive communication? Your content and knowledge is so incredibly helpful, I really appreciate the help in my current situation. Kind regards.
What if your ex is FA and he left you because of his fears not anything you did??? I started therapy months ago to help better set boundaries in all relationships including with my family, he’s aware of that. He told me it’s nothing I did. He thinks his ex messed him up, that could be a factor, but knowing a little about his upbringing, I think that’s the root of his avoidant personality, it was chaotic and when I asked about his dad his demeanor shifted as if he was a kid again. I didn’t push too much, but I get the feeling his ex that cheated was probably the only female he let in and her betrayal really shook him and reinforced his lack of trust issues. I now know I have FA tendencies, we triggered each other for the same reasons, self protection. I’m more aware now of all of this, but he won’t communicate if I reach out with emotional stuff, only light stuff. It’s frustrating. I’ve not reached out in 2wks since he didn’t respond to my last 2 texts. Ignoring is a trigger of mine that makes me feel rejected and abandoned. Not sure what to do. Please help, I miss him so much
Why was I good in communication with my ex when we were texting but in person I wasn't? I'm shy and it's so hard for me to communicate my needs in person and he thought I wasn't interested in him sometimes.
@Emma Ava how is your person going to help more than the one from the video?
@@biancadelarosa7986 and same question to you as well, how is your person going to help more than the one from the video?
Similar was happening with my ex where she was avoiding in person deeper level conversations with me, unfortunately she's the one who dumped me! I tried to have one last mature conversation with her, but she only apologized and cried, and said she's not going to change(something that I never even asked her to do), and wished me good luck! To this day I still wonder what any of this meant. It's been about 2 moths of no contact and I am starting to move on knowing that I would never know what happened, what she thought, what she wanted, what she really felt.., until she feels the courage to talk to me, I can only continue to wonder about it! Have peace and be strong!
Heal your attachment style and build communication skills with other people (friends family )
Another good source of information.
I am confused as it was sooooo strong both ways, equally give and take, after our short trip, that's when he started to be avoidend, I mentioned that I understand space and everyone needs it, but not answering after saying thank you for the nice trip ect amd hearing back 3 days after made me insecure.
I mentioned how it made me feel and that I understand everything as long as there is comunication( just to say I need space I contact you in 2, 3 days ) anyway, we spoke, he understood, apologised, and then again the same shit...
So here I am said I need to let this go. He agrees bur likes all my social media? Is that a sign of reconnecting?
My ex declined talking to me post breakup so I left him alone. He struggled to talk in the relationship about anything important he would deflect or make a joke and avoid it so I didn't push. Not surprisingly he never reached out. I would not soothe what he did. He has to be responsible. Tough because we loved each other but he had to deal with his fear or it would be wasted energy talking.
Please do a vedio on effective communication
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thanks..
I want to learn non violent communication
I have had nvr been a believer of such things. But after I had a break , and then I wanted to reunite with my ex ,I tried love spells. Honestly speaking was completely speechless with the spiritual power of Dr ikenga. Everything happened as he said to me
On his face book page
This sounds amazing! Can you share more details about this Dr?
course on communication with your input woud be amazing thank you!