What Do You Do When Your Voice Sounds Like a Kid?

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 1,4 тис.

  • @wildatomica5471
    @wildatomica5471 4 роки тому +1007

    I’m 16 and I sound like a crackhead like a child of 9.

    • @emmajohansson2760
      @emmajohansson2760 4 роки тому +13

      alvinkx same😭

    • @chocolatfoncee7528
      @chocolatfoncee7528 4 роки тому +11

      alvinkx same ... hang in there😔

    • @daniauwu4564
      @daniauwu4564 4 роки тому +7

      alvinkx same:’)

    • @amory-zg5cy
      @amory-zg5cy 3 роки тому +34

      I'm 19 and I sound like a 10 year old girl

    • @Curted
      @Curted 3 роки тому +23

      BRO SAME I DIDNT KNOW OTHER PPL EXPERIENCE THIS. I thought It wasnt normal Im 15 and I turn 16 In 1 month and my voice has gotten deeper from the past but Its still squeaky and I was thinking that It wasn't normal, and Its probably not normal.

  • @envygz74
    @envygz74 4 роки тому +945

    I'm 22 n black with a 10yo voice and you just save my life 😂🙌🙌💯 thank you

    • @gleidonn3735
      @gleidonn3735 4 роки тому +26

      Crazy Folks n black. Look at ur profile pic.

    • @collynn_rblx712
      @collynn_rblx712 4 роки тому +30

      Exposed

    • @shaniaplct8102
      @shaniaplct8102 4 роки тому +11

      @@gleidonn3735 what's wrong with his profile?

    • @IamINERT
      @IamINERT 4 роки тому +32

      I am 17 , black. My voice sounds like as kid as well for some reason.

    • @ohno486
      @ohno486 4 роки тому +24

      @@IamINERT me too 😂😂😂 and yeah I'm also childish and sometimes I don't even realize that I'm already 17

  • @taesspochkah
    @taesspochkah 4 роки тому +406

    I feel so stupid that I limited myself to a kid's voice for so many years that now my voice actually cracks when I try out the lowering+edge 😭

    • @hina-chan4021
      @hina-chan4021 4 роки тому +9

      omg same

    • @demonlord1802
      @demonlord1802 3 роки тому

      Same 😭😭

    • @fenix7970
      @fenix7970 2 роки тому

      im gonna asume you are joking?

    • @dinkletonne
      @dinkletonne 2 роки тому +1

      lmao mayn i guess id need to start practicing talking in this voice from now on

    • @Ambal-1
      @Ambal-1 2 роки тому

      Same 🙂

  • @akin.kilic.
    @akin.kilic. 4 роки тому +741

    I think my voice stayed this way because I was always afraid of being too loud, and when you add that Edge in, you get louder normally so I avoided that all my life, now I am 19 and I sound like a 9 year old. The thing is will my brain get used to this and convert this to my natural voice, or do I have to keep working hard to get this sound?
    EDIT AFTER 3 YEARS:
    I am now 22 years old, my voice has stayed the same, but I am in peace with myself now. A LOT of people compliment how smooth and nice my voice is, and that it is different in a good way. Learn to embrace your insecurities people. It gets better.

    • @joinerofficial
      @joinerofficial 4 роки тому +55

      My voice sounded like a 9 year old, too, until I was about 22 or 23. For me, what worked was trying to find my own sound, and then learning to accept/embrace my voice. Other thing that helps is working on breathing. A person can really add warmth or brightness depending on the breath. Another thing a great singer told me was that to find your real voice, try singing like you're telling somebody off, or really trying to convey something to them. With these three things: embracing your voice, breathing, and not being afraid to let out what you feel will really help (in my opinion). Keep on singing and think about how much fun it is for you...after all, that's the best part!

    • @bhimthapa872
      @bhimthapa872 3 роки тому +5

      _Akin same

    • @demonlord1802
      @demonlord1802 3 роки тому +16

      @s v yeah I'm also 16 & my voice is just like a 9 years old kid, people try to make fun of my always, it's Embarassing.....

    • @demonlord1802
      @demonlord1802 3 роки тому +12

      Yeah I'm 16 & same problem I also afraid to speak loudly 😣😣 thank u so much to this person 😭🙏

    • @chikaodimaria4169
      @chikaodimaria4169 3 роки тому +1

      Yea same problem

  • @sayyedsaliha17
    @sayyedsaliha17 3 роки тому +140

    Somebody : calls me
    Me : ( picks up the call) n says "hello"
    The person : hey baby where's saleha give her the phone.
    Me : 😐😐😐 you're speaking with Saleha already!!

    • @AbrarAwan-ke7mc
      @AbrarAwan-ke7mc 3 роки тому +15

      Somebody : calls me
      Me:( picks up the call )n says hello
      And in my story they thinks I am a child and in worst case they think I am a girl 😣😣

    • @tenoshrebello
      @tenoshrebello 3 роки тому +4

      We've all been there

    • @sayyedsaliha17
      @sayyedsaliha17 3 роки тому +2

      @@AbrarAwan-ke7mc 🥺🥺🥺🍭✨

    • @lifeofcamr531
      @lifeofcamr531 3 роки тому +2

      Felt

    • @vaishnavi7944
      @vaishnavi7944 2 роки тому +3

      When someone calls me
      Me : hello
      ?? : Helloow in a cute way
      Me : I'm not a kid 😭😭😭

  • @Old-USRefugee
    @Old-USRefugee 5 років тому +141

    I'm seventy, yet when I talk to someone on the phone, they think I'm a teenager. It drives me nuts! My voice never changed. For what it's worth, I've never had an "adams apple".

    • @toad7395
      @toad7395 5 років тому +4

      Maybe your voice is just like that

    • @SunilKumar-wi5dp
      @SunilKumar-wi5dp 4 роки тому +11

      I'm suffering same problem.

    • @nitin110377
      @nitin110377 4 роки тому +7

      Hi Kennet, I am suffering from the same problem,. Please share your experience after doing practice with these exercises. I have just tried for 10 mins and have started feeling pain in the neck. Not sure if I am doing correctly.

    • @sifisomakhaye4278
      @sifisomakhaye4278 2 роки тому +1

      @@nitin110377 your voice should get tired cos you were not used to these exercises but the more you practise you'll get used to it and be less tired or feel the pain

  • @trinentity
    @trinentity 4 роки тому +85

    He low key scared me when he said “here...TO HERE” 😭 at 6:45

    • @Julie-uy2xt
      @Julie-uy2xt 3 роки тому +5

      i keep repeating it😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 and laughing so hard

    • @arikagasta7421
      @arikagasta7421 3 роки тому

      Lmao.. 😂

    • @OmerMD
      @OmerMD 3 роки тому

      '_'

  • @bestenurpolat984
    @bestenurpolat984 4 роки тому +316

    i am 23 years old women. sometimes i speak other people from microphone(when playing dota). and they are like: 'are you 10 year old boy?'
    i was soprano singer at my old choir days. i am not sure, but mine could be the thinnest sound in that choir.
    with those advices, i became 15 year old boy. thank you :D
    nice video btw.

    • @CalebEade
      @CalebEade 4 роки тому +9

      Just send them your face you are pretty

    • @nabilahassiba3974
      @nabilahassiba3974 4 роки тому +1

      Hhhhhhhhhh sameee

    • @TheHouseofDeepPurple
      @TheHouseofDeepPurple 4 роки тому +10

      I have the EXACT same problem. I am 23F and I play Overwatch a lot. I have been told LITERALLY at least 30 times that I sound like a 12-year-old boy. Sometimes, people do recognise that I am a girl but quite rarely. But also in real life, my voice has never "grown up", so I also have problems sounding like a woman when singing.

    • @haffoagouf3789
      @haffoagouf3789 4 роки тому +2

      i swear im just finsh dota 2 match and im tired from people called me baby voice in every game so i went to google to search solution and here im :D

    • @hinttailer7570
      @hinttailer7570 3 роки тому

      Hahaha same😂

  • @shaniaplct8102
    @shaniaplct8102 4 роки тому +336

    Im 15 but my voice sound like a 2 year old kid

    • @ohno486
      @ohno486 4 роки тому +6

      Wtf 😂

    • @Isabella-qz6dq
      @Isabella-qz6dq 4 роки тому +21

      I'm 13 and that annoys me too

    • @skooterkooter2876
      @skooterkooter2876 4 роки тому +22

      im 2 and that annoys me

    • @osamaalswaitti7733
      @osamaalswaitti7733 4 роки тому +1

      Same its really annoying

    • @masked8256
      @masked8256 4 роки тому +4

      @@Isabella-qz6dq bruh u havent even finished puberty or even reached it. chill

  • @nazibshaik300
    @nazibshaik300 4 роки тому +243

    Video starts from 6:16

  • @shayomiahmed
    @shayomiahmed 3 роки тому +73

    I have started playing video games during quarantine. I often get asked how old I am. Due to a glitch I could hear my voice and God it sounded like I was 5. I really felt bad.

    • @cursed7094
      @cursed7094 2 роки тому +1

      SAME LMAOOO

    • @thanos3349
      @thanos3349 2 роки тому +1

      When I was 13. I sounded screeching high pitch at mics but okay in real life.
      Now I am 17 sound like a high pitch boy voice but in microphone, I sound much lower. 🙄

    • @rrinfinity3002
      @rrinfinity3002 2 роки тому +3

      I am boy and I sound like a girl 😂 embarrassing

  • @ElPasoTexasRailfan639
    @ElPasoTexasRailfan639 3 роки тому +67

    I'm 17 now but my voice hasn't changed since I was 13

  • @YeolandaKing
    @YeolandaKing 4 роки тому +205

    When I am on the phone people ask me if my Mom or Dad is home. I have to tell them I am the parent. I am 45 years old and I have always sounded like a kid. I hate having this voice, because it is so embarrassing to me.

    • @sevdamirzaei6832
      @sevdamirzaei6832 4 роки тому +7

      I can relate

    • @princesssunshine6966
      @princesssunshine6966 4 роки тому +10

      Yeolanda King this made me laugh so hard 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @dev4083
      @dev4083 3 роки тому +12

      They call me ma'am and I'm 19 and male ._.

    • @YeolandaKing
      @YeolandaKing 3 роки тому +4

      @@dev4083 I bet you get tired of hearing it. It frustrates me so much when it happens to me.

    • @YeolandaKing
      @YeolandaKing 3 роки тому +1

      @haleigh I hope they stop doing that to you one day.

  • @zaya5360
    @zaya5360 2 роки тому +73

    You are great, I just watched
    a video of dude selling a 8 week course for nearly 400 dollars saying that we can all change our voices with long consistent practice, yet you taught me how to do it in 2 minutes.
    God bless you sir

    • @RogerLoveVocals
      @RogerLoveVocals  2 роки тому +19

      My pleasure. Thank YOU for sharing this amazing story.

  • @Jahanbakhsh35
    @Jahanbakhsh35 3 роки тому +155

    I’m 35 and 196cm (6’5). I have beard and always look angry to some people but when I speak I sound like a 14 teenage boy and most people don’t take me seriously when I speak. The thing is when I’m silent and use gesture to communicate they seem to be serious of me because of my look but when I speak they change their behaviour. Sometimes when I try to deepen my voice to sound normal like my friends I still sound like a 14 year old boy trying hard to deepen his voice to mock an adult. It’s the worst and awkward.

    • @KannaJay
      @KannaJay 3 роки тому +13

      Yo I relate a lot bro. I used to have amazing vocal range but one day I developed muscle dysphasia and now I can’t control how I sound I feel like people don’t take me seriously. It’s annoying.

    • @Utsab00346
      @Utsab00346 Рік тому +5

      same problem bro..
      😭😭😭😭😭

    • @zeinasan6455
      @zeinasan6455 Рік тому +5

      @@Utsab00346 youre so bloody tall

    • @Dhdgcvnnnfx
      @Dhdgcvnnnfx Рік тому

      You sound like a chill dude

    • @jeff-li2ck
      @jeff-li2ck Рік тому +2

      I relate man. I'm 30, constantly not taken seriously. It's a distraction.

  • @aleksandryegof2932
    @aleksandryegof2932 2 роки тому +37

    Im 17 and my voice still hasnt changed, Im tired of it. And sometimes, when im in public, i just do basic hand gestures and i dont talk anymore bcoz i know people will make fun of me.

    • @faze_kd3524
      @faze_kd3524 2 роки тому +10

      BITCH, this is so ME☠️☠️☠️ like I sound not manly and the bitches guns think I’m gay or sum and when I try to talk in deep voice, it sound wack asf☠️

    • @reothomas7624
      @reothomas7624 2 роки тому +1

      IM 17 AND SAME SITUATION

    • @closted_girl6136
      @closted_girl6136 2 роки тому

      I’m 13 and it so annoying 🧍🏾‍♀️

    • @jannikstfl
      @jannikstfl 2 роки тому

      Did it change?

    • @aleksandryegof2932
      @aleksandryegof2932 2 роки тому +1

      @@jannikstfl nope, still the same.

  • @reothomas7624
    @reothomas7624 2 роки тому +37

    It all makes sense, when i was a kid I was praised for being cute and acting cute so I grew up in that manner and now all my friends are serious and talk about mature things while I struggle as a 17 year old boy. I hate my small child like voice and being a nice guy, i act like a nice guy with my friends and I won't speak while they're talking
    I want to change all this and improve myself

    • @RogerLoveVocals
      @RogerLoveVocals  2 роки тому +5

      We all have areas we want to improve. You've done a good job of figuring out what needs fixing. Now to begin the self-work to overcome these challenges. I've got your back!

    • @r1nr1n06
      @r1nr1n06 9 днів тому +2

      You can. Be what you want to be. Freedom is being yourself without anyone's permission.

  • @Dargotsauce
    @Dargotsauce 9 місяців тому +3

    “ you literally have to get your Adams apple from here👶, TO HERE🧔‍♂️”

  • @Crazywaffle5150
    @Crazywaffle5150 4 роки тому +39

    I'm 28 and I still sound like a 16 year old. I even still look 16.

    • @amysworld5521
      @amysworld5521 4 роки тому +9

      the u can say u r 16 and nobody will know

    • @iamomarbrrr
      @iamomarbrrr 3 роки тому

      Did his tips work?

    • @Crazywaffle5150
      @Crazywaffle5150 3 роки тому +4

      @@iamomarbrrr I never used them. I was just bored and watched this video lol.

    • @ieeee_.
      @ieeee_. 3 роки тому +6

      haha im 20 and I sound like a 12 year old with a teenage face

    • @Crazywaffle5150
      @Crazywaffle5150 3 роки тому

      @@ieeee_. Lol cool. Can you get me some Honey BBQ Chips?

  • @stayteumes310
    @stayteumes310 3 роки тому +100

    No one :
    Literally no one:
    Me at 3am: eedddddddddggggggggeeeee

  • @AlfieAlpaca
    @AlfieAlpaca 2 роки тому +9

    I like the way he talks. His voice is nasaly and nerdy but somehow relaxing and engaging at the same time.

  • @arikagasta7421
    @arikagasta7421 3 роки тому +50

    But the problem is in my mind. When I try to lower my pitch, my mind says "hey, this is not me!" but my mouth says "I don't wanna sound like a kid anymore!" 😩 idk what should I do to ignore my mind.. lol..

    • @egodumpster
      @egodumpster 3 роки тому +5

      So relatable 😭

    • @carolinaschultz788
      @carolinaschultz788 3 роки тому +3

      I totally get you!

    • @IIIII...
      @IIIII... 6 місяців тому

      Get therapy. Childhood trauma is a big reason why your voice sounds like a kid.

  • @jayfosho8833
    @jayfosho8833 3 роки тому +3

    wow that was amazing, sometimes people say i sound different or if i pick up the phone they won't know its me
    ive always wondered what my actual normal speaking tone is, werid as it sounds
    but the way you explained it made so much sense.

  • @HealingWithSherise
    @HealingWithSherise 3 роки тому +6

    This guy explains things perfectly! Thanks buddy !

  • @seanyraps
    @seanyraps 4 роки тому +26

    Thank you so much man you honestly helped me so much to learn how to play with my voice. And these tips are also very good for people looking into doing voice acting. It can really teach you how to play around with your voice for different characters! Great Video!🤟🙌

  • @ColonelFlickage
    @ColonelFlickage 2 роки тому +66

    This video is such a breakthrough for me. I've had this issue with having a different voice when I get nervous, and it's become this whole guessing came as to what's going on physically because I could feel a difference in the back of my throat but could never explain it. Lowering my larynx is literally the answer and instantly I sound like Batman idk how I can talk to my friends like this now lol

    • @RogerLoveVocals
      @RogerLoveVocals  2 роки тому +9

      Wonderful! Your friends are going to be impressed with your Batman voice. lol. And it sounds like you'll feel more confident speaking. That's the goal!

    • @onatics
      @onatics Рік тому +3

      Same, its weird right?

    • @ezioauditore2194
      @ezioauditore2194 11 місяців тому +1

      Hey there, could you help me out?

  • @enzop6861
    @enzop6861 3 роки тому +17

    "What are you doing, sleeping next to Roger's wife?"
    Well it's pretty complicated, you see...

  • @peppermint2319
    @peppermint2319 3 роки тому +1

    I’m so glad there are people like me

  • @user-jv3zw1gf4w
    @user-jv3zw1gf4w 5 років тому +118

    The problem is, my voice isn't breathy. It's a normal volume, and has a clear sound. The thing is, my voice is SO high pitched, but when I use the methods in the video (or any other method) it hurts extremely badly. It feels like I'm straining my voice so hard.

    • @subratarabidas6517
      @subratarabidas6517 5 років тому +5

      go slow, make the transition in months, not minutes

    • @jadenkorr591
      @jadenkorr591 4 роки тому +13

      It might help you to lower the larynx by yawning slightly instead of moving your tongue. Just a slight yawn and drop your larynx more only until it feels comfortable. Also with the edge sound it might help to not exaggerate it as much and try to keep the airflow through mouth not the nose. You can use your fingers to close your nose and make sure it's going through the mouth.

    • @astraightfemalewhodoesntma674
      @astraightfemalewhodoesntma674 3 роки тому +5

      I don't want to strain my neck so I'm just gonna sound like a 4 year old :3 amateur!

    • @egodumpster
      @egodumpster 3 роки тому +1

      Me too!

    • @TheConspiredOne
      @TheConspiredOne Рік тому +4

      start smoking. or don't.

  • @amysworld5521
    @amysworld5521 4 роки тому +63

    ima girl i sound so bad ,i sound like a small 2 year old on the phone no one wants to call me now ,im so saddddd.
    :[

    • @user-tc5xy2pc7d
      @user-tc5xy2pc7d 3 роки тому +6

      i sound like a 10 year old boy😭😭

    • @aquaisnotades
      @aquaisnotades 3 роки тому +4

      But girls with baby voices are pretty cute though

    • @peepee4677
      @peepee4677 3 роки тому +2

      @@aquaisnotades Aw thankS 💜 I needed that lol

    • @cheesecake6636
      @cheesecake6636 3 роки тому

      @@aquaisnotades i agree.

    • @confusedcat-sm9cy
      @confusedcat-sm9cy 3 роки тому

      unfortunately girls voice doesn't really change like boys

  • @alaouiamine3835
    @alaouiamine3835 6 років тому +6

    Thank you so much
    You're a miracle

  • @abcsport-activebodycontrol7203
    @abcsport-activebodycontrol7203 5 років тому +4

    This is truly amazing. Thanks alot.

  • @lavapirate
    @lavapirate 2 роки тому +30

    so for those of us who do all sorts of voices and impressions must be crazy. Honestly though, I discovered Roger prob 15-20 years ago and to this day i recommend his teachings to other aspiring singers as I tell them I learned SO much from him - probably more than the 3 years of vocal classes in college!

  • @munz5938
    @munz5938 3 роки тому +3

    This guy is a legend I wish the best for you, you have saved my life you genius

  • @subratarabidas6517
    @subratarabidas6517 5 років тому +2

    THANKS, will practice this

  • @belabotum876
    @belabotum876 2 роки тому +2

    This is still me and I’m 50!! I have a elocution coach and this is the only thing I’ve left to work on!

  • @sblmarineelectrical5449
    @sblmarineelectrical5449 2 роки тому +22

    This guy is the coolest, best advice out of everything iv watched. Great content, great host. Definitely an expert with good advice

  • @CoinCollectorUAE
    @CoinCollectorUAE 2 роки тому +3

    THANKS SO MUCH, IM LITERALLY SOO HAPPY WITH MY VOICE NOW!!! YOU ARE A GIFT TO MAN KIND BRO

    • @RogerLoveVocals
      @RogerLoveVocals  2 роки тому +3

      Glad I could help! If you love your voice, you'll use it. :)

  • @Missjuliep
    @Missjuliep 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much sirrr! You have boosted my self esteem now I can as lousy as I want. 💃💃💃

  • @princessrufflesgritz1951
    @princessrufflesgritz1951 2 роки тому

    This is informative reallly! You are helping us!! 💗

  • @taesspochkah
    @taesspochkah 4 роки тому +3

    I think you saved my life😭

  • @ElioLappi
    @ElioLappi 6 років тому +47

    This helped alot. I could instantly FEEL what he said for edge as well as feeling the adams apple move. I have the most kiddy voice ever and I always thought it was because of a hormone deficiency. I'm going to be using a lot more with my tongue and adams apple from now on! Thank you very much

    • @CoinCollectorUAE
      @CoinCollectorUAE 2 роки тому +1

      Hey there! It's probably soo late.. But I was wondering, is your voice better after?
      Thanks bro! i want to use this , but idk if it'll work

    • @pugh.joseph
      @pugh.joseph 2 роки тому +3

      @@CoinCollectorUAE A slight yawn can help lower the larynx too (see for yourself in a mirror), but don't constantly keep the larynx in an unnaturally low position, just allow it to rest comfortably in your throat. Also the edge he is talking about basically means that the vocal folds aren't making much contact, so relaxing your larynx (and your neck and shoulders) will help with the closure of these. The vocal folds not making much contact can also cause damage your voice as it dries the larynx and can result in a raspy voice.

  • @umerwajahat1540
    @umerwajahat1540 4 роки тому

    Thankyou very much. Really helpful and it works!! could instantly feel the difference

  • @TitanBricks
    @TitanBricks 3 роки тому

    You're a legend!

  • @kawtarrrr12
    @kawtarrrr12 2 роки тому +3

    Thank u so much you saved my life 🥺❤ I'm 20 years old n I seemed like 5 years old after seeing this video 😩 thank u a bunch 💗

  • @pinv0
    @pinv0 3 роки тому +3

    Happy birthday! Everyone!

  • @kartikradhakrishnan8645
    @kartikradhakrishnan8645 5 років тому +1

    Thank you so very much, I love it!

  • @shairaabshire
    @shairaabshire 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for this! 😢

  • @susme2888
    @susme2888 2 роки тому +15

    I am 14 and recorded myself talking and when I listened to it I legit broke down cause I thought that my voice changed from 6th grade but it still sounds the same after 2years

    • @RogerLoveVocals
      @RogerLoveVocals  2 роки тому +9

      Your voice is still maturing. Give it time. :)

    • @srilatha5053
      @srilatha5053 Рік тому +3

      Same bro I doing it rn 😢😢and i legit broke down too🥺

    • @amrithmuralikp6823
      @amrithmuralikp6823 10 днів тому

      ​@@srilatha5053Did it changed

  • @terrait
    @terrait 6 років тому +156

    Can you do a video on how to fix sounding anxious (voice not being smooth and sometimes skipping)? Also sometimes when talking to certain people one might tend to talk higher. Would the fix in that situation be the same as described in this video? Thanks

    • @BlackHoodBeatz
      @BlackHoodBeatz 4 роки тому +1

      that's just how the human mind reacts to certain things there's no fix

    • @MrFree-vj8qj
      @MrFree-vj8qj 4 роки тому +13

      @@BlackHoodBeatz you decide how your voice sounds, not others, you practice because it's all muscles in the end, and muscles can be trained to work better in all circumstances

    • @krash6951
      @krash6951 2 роки тому

      Still got this problem?

    • @NeinCookiesforu
      @NeinCookiesforu 2 роки тому

      @@krash6951 yeah this was 3yrs ago I'm curious too lol

    • @CatEyedGoddess
      @CatEyedGoddess Рік тому

      I can relate to your comment.

  • @ganeshnaik914
    @ganeshnaik914 Рік тому +2

    Im born today 😭 thank you god bless you

  • @muhammadaminullah5367
    @muhammadaminullah5367 3 роки тому

    One of videos that changedy life. Thanks.

  • @sambou6286
    @sambou6286 Рік тому +5

    That part of " who the heck are you buddy? what are you doing in Roger's body?? was hilarious..... Thank you so much Roger for keeping your video fun and informative.. and providing this wealth of information!!!

    • @RogerLoveVocals
      @RogerLoveVocals  Рік тому +2

      Glad you enjoyed it and found it helpful! And thanks so much for the encouraging comment.

    • @sambou6286
      @sambou6286 Рік тому +1

      @@RogerLoveVocals You are welcome dear Roger. You are indeed a true inspiration to all of us and a beautiful soul. Knowing you for me was a massive discovery. May God reward you profusely in the best possible way for your selfless spirit.

  • @lucasbrander109
    @lucasbrander109 2 роки тому +6

    It’s crazy but it’s true… love this video hopefully I’m gonna train myself to have a deeper voice

  • @eugannicegarcia175
    @eugannicegarcia175 3 роки тому

    omg it works...thanks for having this video it help me so much

  • @gabriel4d
    @gabriel4d 2 роки тому +1

    I love this video, so sarcastic, funny, but also helpful 👏

  • @Dtzeo503
    @Dtzeo503 5 років тому +21

    omg thanks for this video i was wondering why i still sound like a 12 year old even though i am 23.

  • @vayohedge
    @vayohedge Рік тому +5

    You are so hilarious,,,my neighbors almost chased me out of the hood because of my laughter....
    I will try this when no one is around..thank you for making my morning

    • @RogerLoveVocals
      @RogerLoveVocals  Рік тому +2

      Honored to bring a smile to your face, and I do hope this helps. Thanks for the great comment.

    • @DRJVNAVY
      @DRJVNAVY Рік тому +1

      Me too it's great info but it's funny. He has such passion and he isn't afraid to tell it how it is

  • @isabelita861
    @isabelita861 8 місяців тому

    I love this guy!!!

  • @Sophia-vx8gj
    @Sophia-vx8gj Місяць тому

    Wow thank you!!! 🙏🏼

  • @ScubaLui
    @ScubaLui 4 роки тому +5

    Great. I mean GRRREAAAAATTTT! I've been searching for tips on how stop my Asian students sounding like a baby when they speak English. I'm gonna try this with them and see what happens. Thanks :-)

  • @baileyhooper5337
    @baileyhooper5337 5 років тому +95

    Time stamp 6:20

  • @collinator68
    @collinator68 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks to you, I can now sound exactly like the voice on the Duluth trading company commercials, thank you!.

  • @user-nh6mx3nb7f
    @user-nh6mx3nb7f 9 місяців тому +1

    I needed this. I talk with mostly air!! I'm a 37 yr old Hispanic woman and I have a high pitch weird voice! I sound different in my head but once I heard a recording of myself I was mortified!!! 😂😂 I also tell my children who are still little but too old to baby talk to speak normal because then they will get used to speaking that way. Glad to hear that I just didn't make that up!

  • @magosianogowska5523
    @magosianogowska5523 Рік тому +4

    sometimes the problem is caused by experiencing trauma in childhood. it’s not a choice.. please don’t feel guilty thinking it’s your fault/ your choice

    • @MBT372
      @MBT372 Рік тому +1

      That's me...

  • @MrFree-vj8qj
    @MrFree-vj8qj 4 роки тому +5

    Breathing technique also plays an important role, you need a book or his method to learn all of it
    As voice manipulators, singers and voice actors we can decide exactly how we'd like to sound, and you can do the same with a bit of daily practice, either buy his excellent method or book and go through it or get a singing or backing exercise on youtube an practice 10 15min daily talking rapping or singing what he demonstrated over it

  • @sudn6100
    @sudn6100 5 років тому +1

    thank you so much.....

  • @iramhuh
    @iramhuh Рік тому +2

    Thanks bro I really thought I had a problem but me and my friend sound like a kid too, thanks and appreciate you amazing example too

  • @solarseren
    @solarseren Рік тому +6

    The problem is I have a very shy and quiet personality and have been speaking lowly my entire life. It’s hard to sound more mature 😭

    • @RogerLoveVocals
      @RogerLoveVocals  Рік тому +1

      A soft airy voice is going to sound less authoritative. Try adding more edge to your voice. It will require more breath support, but it doesn't have to be that much louder. Here's a link to a video I did recently on adding edge:
      ua-cam.com/video/RMhPdeQRNOg/v-deo.html
      Hope this helps!

  • @demonlord1802
    @demonlord1802 3 роки тому +11

    Thank u soooooooo much for this video, I was depressed 😭 I'm 16 & my voice sounds like a 9 years old kid or a girl. People always make fun of this 🙂 it's too Embarassing😣

  • @TRYICE313
    @TRYICE313 6 років тому

    Thank You!

  • @behstephen7221
    @behstephen7221 Рік тому +2

    this video is very human , very easy to watch

  • @modernmind
    @modernmind 6 років тому +200

    This is a great video. Wondering if you could point to a set of exercises to improve the "edge" in one's voice. Thanks.

    • @MrFree-vj8qj
      @MrFree-vj8qj 4 роки тому +11

      use any singing exercise on youtube and keep saying the same Edgy words he said over it practice daily until your brain remembers and remind yourself to use it while speaking with others, that's how we master the voice as singers and it's even easier for speech because we do it all the time

    • @marshmellowdalamacorn3339
      @marshmellowdalamacorn3339 3 роки тому +1

      Ok edge lord 🙄🙄🙄
      /s

    • @happybrains6401
      @happybrains6401 2 роки тому

      Great question

    • @gurgurgur
      @gurgurgur 2 роки тому +1

      Sing praise of god with love it will change your voice

  • @NH-ge4vz
    @NH-ge4vz 3 роки тому +3

    I was always insecure about my voice as a kid when I was 13.. I already had a late puberty so when my voice finally started to lower when I was 15 I was a bit dissapointed in the end result. 2 years later nothing too much happened. I don't sound like a 10 year old but I still despise my voice.

  • @anobamjelishsana8939
    @anobamjelishsana8939 3 роки тому +1

    People complain a lot about my essense of mother tongue that it's like a kids voice today I'm thinking of not speaking at all to any complainers..... Then I go search 🔍 on UA-cam Ted talks and finally this video ...its helpful thanks 😊 Roger

  • @WavyAndroid
    @WavyAndroid 9 місяців тому

    you're a life saver THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

  • @mr1ddub
    @mr1ddub Рік тому +5

    Finally, a person who is not just regurgitating other people's lessons for likes and views. This is great stuff from an actual teacher not just some wannabe youtuber who ran out of content.

    • @RogerLoveVocals
      @RogerLoveVocals  Рік тому +4

      What a beautiful way to express your appreciation, and I'm so glad you find my teaching helpful. Thank you for your kind words!

    • @mr1ddub
      @mr1ddub Рік тому +2

      @@RogerLoveVocals And I appreciate your appreciation.🤗

  • @sqop4329
    @sqop4329 3 роки тому +8

    I'm a 14 y/o female and I went from a 6 year old girl to a 16 y/o guy 😭🤚🏻

  • @sujathasundaramoorthy1298
    @sujathasundaramoorthy1298 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much.

  • @ehalawaimai
    @ehalawaimai 15 днів тому

    Thank you!

  • @user-ly4wt9xp4i
    @user-ly4wt9xp4i 3 роки тому +13

    I’m 18 and I’m doing an apprenticeship in a bank and when it’s time to answer the phone they ask me how old I am or if they can speak to someone else. People tell me I sound fine in person but I sound like a kid on the phone. Is it because I get nervous on the phone?

  • @Hardability
    @Hardability Рік тому +3

    I’m a teen with the voice of a 5 year old. similar to boruto dub voice

    • @washbasin8197
      @washbasin8197 Рік тому +1

      Same 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @RogerLoveVocals
      @RogerLoveVocals  Рік тому +1

      First of all, don't be discouraged. Though some people's voices change earlier than others, it will eventually. Have you found the other vids/posts I have on here about "speaking with authority" or "adding edge" to your voice. Also try searching for any of the posts about low larynx exercises. Learning how to drop the jaw and lower the larynx will help shorten and thicken the vocal cords which will result in a deeper pitch. That's essentially the first step in developing your chest voice.

    • @RogerLoveVocals
      @RogerLoveVocals  Рік тому +1

      Did you see my answer to Try_Hrd? I hope that helps.

  • @kristendrayton
    @kristendrayton 2 роки тому +2

    This is so simple, like why is this not taught in school? Thank you 😊

  • @deepaucla
    @deepaucla Рік тому

    Thanks for the wonderful tips!

    • @RogerLoveVocals
      @RogerLoveVocals  Рік тому +1

      You are so welcome! Thanks so much for letting me know you found them helpful.

  • @nancybeard812
    @nancybeard812 Рік тому +8

    My voice was abnormally high even for a child. I got mocked all the time because of it. Had a voice teacher when I was ten. She recorded me while I didn’t know she was doing it. She played it back and I was so embarrassed to hear it. I asked her to stop playing it. But why did I sound like that? I didn’t benefit from her help. I was wondering if my hearing was way off because when I speak I hear a normal voice. But when I hear myself speak from a recorder, I sound completely different. It seems there is a disconnect from my hearing and my brain somehow. It’s been a lifelong curse. I can lower my voice, but it sounds artificially low in my ear and not at all like myself or what I perceive to be normal. I wish I knew what was wrong with me. I’m now in my 60’s.

    • @RogerLoveVocals
      @RogerLoveVocals  Рік тому +5

      First of all, I'm so sorry that you didn't get better counsel when you were younger. But be encouraged. I may not be able to solve everything here in a YT comment, but let me at least address some of your questions.
      As far as recording your voice goes, you will never hear yourself in the same way as a recording does. The reason is that what you hear when you speak is a result of bone conduction and directional sound. Your brain is actually getting more information about your own voice from the vibrations in your head when you make sound. And the sound that does leave your mouth is going away from you.
      The recording (depending on the quality of the device) gives a more accurate version of what other people hear because sound is directional. It is headed toward them and they don't get the added bone conduction from their own heads that you do.
      Regarding how artificial your voice sounds to you when you lower it, remember that you've been producing sound that way all these years and your brain is programmed to "recognize" you. Anything else will seem odd even if it's a result of better vocal production techniques.
      Here's my advice... Do the vocal exercises I outline here and lower the voice (even if it feels artificial at first). Then record yourself so you can see if you like the sound that others hear better than when you speak as you have been. Dial in the sound you like. Record often to measure your progress. After a while your brain will reprogram itself to associate the new bone conduction sounds as your "new normal."
      It takes time, but other than overcoming the years of vocal habits, age is not a factor. You can do this!
      Not exhaustive, but hope this helps, 😊

    • @Blowersism
      @Blowersism Рік тому +2

      Don't feel bad! I have the same problem .

  • @debbie3453
    @debbie3453 4 роки тому +22

    My voice sounds great irl but like a kid on video

    • @karip4567
      @karip4567 4 роки тому +8

      I heard that the way you sound on camera and on videos is what other people hear and how your voice actually sounds

    • @noobplayer952
      @noobplayer952 4 роки тому +2

      Yeah same in real like it's perfect but when I record it it like Im a great kid :)

    • @amysworld5521
      @amysworld5521 4 роки тому +11

      @@karip4567 if it is true then i wont go outside

    • @kimaya.3563
      @kimaya.3563 4 роки тому +7

      @@karip4567 yeah when I recorded my voice and played it to my sister, she said it sounded just like me, I couldn't believe it,
      She recorded her voice and she played it for me, and I was 'yeah, that's how you sound'
      She couldn't believe it either

    • @carleight.1452
      @carleight.1452 3 роки тому

      I heard it’s because of the walls of your skull, interesting

  • @arcalite7635
    @arcalite7635 Рік тому +1

    So helpful 😇

  • @INDIANXxhgpp9907
    @INDIANXxhgpp9907 3 роки тому +6

    2:00 uku and guitar thin and thin
    3:20 adams apple tongue
    6:00 2 min fix
    7:20 yogi bear voice
    8:10 air vs edge

  • @EthanDoezYT
    @EthanDoezYT 2 роки тому +9

    I’m 20 and my voice just can randomly change from a semi high pitched 17 year old to a deeper voice that sounds like a guy going into his 30s. I can also do voice impressions so I can control my voice when I think about it and it can range anywhere from a deep dark menacing voice to a chipmunk so I have a lot of range but still. Sometimes pre-teen girls sound deeper than me sometimes. Idk why my natural voice changes. I don’t even talk that much which is weirder. I’m usually pretty quiet. Also no my voice doesn’t change like a voice crack. It doesn’t happen mid conversation. Just for a few hours I’ll have a way deeper voice and then later after not speaking I’ll speak again and have a lighter voice. Idk why it does that.

    • @RogerLoveVocals
      @RogerLoveVocals  2 роки тому +1

      Interesting. Some people's voices are affected by allergies or other triggers. This doesn't sound like an allergic reaction, but it might be worth checking out.

    • @EthanDoezYT
      @EthanDoezYT 2 роки тому

      @@RogerLoveVocals yeah I do have allergies almost 24/7 but I don’t think there’s a way to get rid of them permanently.

    • @dine8259
      @dine8259 Рік тому

      You are trapped in some way of being lazy. Example : If we want to throw a ball , our mind coordinates with our hand and creates energy to throw. So we first realise that we are going to speak and then our natural voice will come. Try it and think about it. I say 100 % this is caused by psychological reasons . Don't yell try to understand that you are going to speak ( feel the Patten)

  • @elliehomes
    @elliehomes 3 роки тому

    Love it!

  • @angelokojie7525
    @angelokojie7525 4 роки тому +15

    6:45 lowkey scared me

  • @beamertoy
    @beamertoy 3 роки тому +4

    I legit looked and sounded like a girl in my youth so I figured it worked best for me. Now I crave more edge and lower tone but mentally I don't allow this and too ashamed to change in front of family and friends. I don't want them to think "he's just trying to be something he's not"

    • @PacManFc-jj9iy
      @PacManFc-jj9iy 3 роки тому +3

      I was raised mostly by women bro so I adopted the air sounding high pitch. But man let me tell you bro who gives a fuck what they think my advice get your own place practices your voice and when they see you again you change.

  • @okashaatiq334
    @okashaatiq334 2 роки тому +1

    You are great man,you are so chill and cool. Thankyou,I thought that it's my original voice that is childish 😂❤️

    • @RogerLoveVocals
      @RogerLoveVocals  2 роки тому +2

      Thanks, Okasha. Your voice is an amazing instrument. It only needs training.

  • @siddhimehta9223
    @siddhimehta9223 2 роки тому

    Tysm for making this awesome informative video...👌👌👌

  • @Blackbird357
    @Blackbird357 3 роки тому +4

    I Lost it whe he said "you got to talke more edgy" lol

  • @_ruted
    @_ruted 3 роки тому +8

    i feel like talking on a higher pitch because my normal voice is too monotone and deep to understand.

  • @OPEY5
    @OPEY5 27 днів тому

    Thank you so much

  • @ultrasam6908
    @ultrasam6908 2 роки тому +1

    this video was really helpful thanks

  • @tadessezewdu5162
    @tadessezewdu5162 5 років тому +5

    You are best. but to lower my Adam apple is a problem. i couldnt do that

  • @Mumble8988
    @Mumble8988 3 роки тому +13

    I’m gonna be honest, whenever I try to get my adams apple to go lower, it just ends up sounding like I’m trying too hard and not like my voice is genuinely deeper.

    • @Mumble8988
      @Mumble8988 2 роки тому

      @Quetzalcoatl I don’t know. To me it still sounds high, but people say my voice is deeper.

    • @Mumble8988
      @Mumble8988 2 роки тому

      @Quetzalcoatl I don't have any co-workers, and I hardly trust my family, but it does come from them mostly yes.

    • @Mumble8988
      @Mumble8988 2 роки тому

      @Quetzalcoatl The problem though is, it doesn't, and that's what I don't get. I'll listen back to it in a recording and it sounds Deeper in the recording than it does to me when I'm speaking.

    • @Mumble8988
      @Mumble8988 2 роки тому

      @Quetzalcoatl No like, when I record videos

    • @Mumble8988
      @Mumble8988 2 роки тому

      @Quetzalcoatl I’m 20, turn 21 on October 19th, and I mean, sure, I guess?