I disagree with you regarding following up on scheduled dates. My time is valuable to me, and so if I’ve made plans with someone and am not sure if they’re committed, I’ll send a quick “Hey checking in to confirm we’re meeting here at this time.” I don’t see that as needy, but as being protective of my time and energy. This actually happened to me recently, and I’m glad that I followed up instead of driving an hour to be stood up. The rest of this I completely agree with.
I can’t tell you how tired I am of hearing that women want masculine men with leadership qualities… Then proceed to argue every single decision, suggestion, or proposal, because… feminism (?). At some point the man gets tired of having a partner that’s an adversary, rather than an ally. Then we’re the a-holes because we give in, or leave.
Oh please, there are females obsessing over losers who have no masculine or leadership qualities. They are just physically attracted to them. Nothing to do with being a bad boy or being nice guy... its all about looks.
The issue is that you didnt stop arguing and figure out a solution. Sometimes, women are just emotional and you gottabe able to reconize and move accordingly. She really wants to resolution to the feeling shes feeling, and anything she just said doesnt even have to make sense. She said it so you could understand what shes feeling. From there, you can redirect or say something that relieves that feeling. The more that happens the more she can trust you cause you can handle her. If someone is too much for you, theyre just too much for you. Theres some unhinged females out there and its important you can identify when someone is overly emotionally unregulated and resistant to change.
Most women want to be "strong & independent boss babes" but still expect men to make the first move. If you constantly wait on men to make the first move instead of taking initiative yourself, you are not strong nor a boss.
Be a man that doesn't care. Just be happy be yourself. Women will not enhance your life. When you dont care your life will be simple and rewarding doing other things
I agree 💯 women will never enhance our lives. My ex partner has blocked me, in the end she didn't offer everything positive towards my life, just filled it with more drama. So goodbye to the little boss queen.
Foreal you know. Just live your life and care less bout if she wants to stay or leave cos come to think of it Are women really worth all these headaches? Are they?
I know when i was young ( and i think this still stands true today ) girls did like the ass holes who treat them like crap, but they will tire of this behaviour over time and move on, and contrary to belief they do like the nice guys, who are kind, can make them laugh and have empathy for others BUT you cannot be a doormat who let's them walk all over you, all women will push this limit ( especially nowadays ) every now an then you have to push back and show dominance, basically you have to have self confidence, an inner confidence, and if one is insecure, lacks self confidence females sniff this out very quickly.
So many women are wanting men to change, however no one’s perfect, we all have faults, but don’t accept faults of their own. Men, if you’re sensitive, just be you
So.. there's this girl in my class that's showing a bit of interest in me like playing with my book anytime we sit next to each other and always wanting to greet me and I don't want be too forward to assume that she's into me because I was thinking of walking up to her next time and asking her out, but what do you all think?
My brother told me that women are hardwired to want men to be strong. If men are weak they don’t have a chance with most quality women. Christine is just saying the facts in her videos.
One practical bit I want clarity on is: do you need to make the decisions all the time? Like if you're well into seeing her for more than a few days and you're like "idk. What would you like to do?" Cuz sincerely we guys don't want all the responsibility either and we genuinely have run out of ideas, but we do like this woman. So we just wanna be with her regardless. Is it ok to switch it up every now and then?
This is a woman giving you advice. So, she is speaking womanese. Woman assume if you take her desires into consideration, it's because you are insecure. They think that because they are insecure and so if they consider others, it is out of insecurity. Most men do not do this out of insecurity. Most men are easy-going and do not get easily ruffled if they don't get their way about what to do on a date, what restaurant to go to, etc. To most men, these are minor matters, and it is not a big deal. The problem is that women interpret this as insecurity and it triggers their own insecurity if they are with a man they perceive as being insecure. It is their perception that matters, not the reality. You could be the most confident, secure guy in the world, but if she perceives you as insecure or lacking confidence, she will freak out and lose attraction for you. The advice she gives is correct but because she is a woman, she does not understand the underlying psychology of how a man thinks.
So, I said to mine, "I want to be sure you understand -- I get up and do stuff as soon as you ask because it is unhealthy to sit for a long time, AND I like to pitch in." She looked at me oddly while that sank in.
I feel compelled to point out that it sounds like what you are actually referring to here is "weak and needy men" rather than "good men". True, if i was a woman i wouldn't like a weak man either. Yet the problem is many women nowadays have mistaken men's "kindness" for "weakness". A good and decent man isnt necessarily weak, and you don't know whether a guy is weak or not if you won't even bother to find out more about him a little bit just because he isn't good looking, tall or naturally good with women in the first place
Be your self but don’t have the piss taken out of you. Make them laughing. Don’t promise the world & remember every woman is different. If your with a woman that wants you to do everything think of everything and arrange everything and does nothing for you. Ask your self is this the woman you want to be with it’s give and take in a relationship.
I think you are very spot on here. Maybe I'm not relationship material yet and could be hiding from them until I get my leading role back or as I would say in billiard terms "Getting my killer instinct back". Which means missing because of shooting with lack of authority. Thanks for the video
What about if I am somewhat interested in someone but not completely sure if I want to pursue something with her. I've been in situations where I've hanged out with a girl as a friend just to see if she's someone worth pursuing but eventually lost interest in that person because of various reasons. Is it right or wrong?
I understand the whole false pre thence thing but I’ve always found these videos confusing , I’m genuinely nice to woman should I stop this if I like someone 😊
True , no wonder there are lots of single men , I’m told to stop being nice but also don’t treat them bad , I’ve asked girls out after being friends if a girl can’t see how great you may be move on is my mantra.
I don't know if this is was intended or not, but the comic delivery in this video is on point. I lol'd bunches. Thanks for helping me get all this sorted out in my head. Been stumped by this for ages. You make it make sense.
Tyrese Gibson was a good man to Samantha but she divorced him. Kaka, Brazilian football legend was a good man to his wife but she divorced him too. Fellaz be nice to your daughters instead since women perceive being nice as weakness.
They love guy's who have plenty woman. They love bad guy's who cheat. They make children with the bad guy's and later in life choose the good guy to be a simp stepfather to help them raise her childrens.
I'm not sure that 'nice' is the correct label for these types. More like effeminate or insecure or uncertain. Some are just desperate crawlers. You can be nice, but still take charge.
It all depends on how attractive you are. Because players do the exact same thing especially if the girl already has a boyfriend . Start being friendly and then try to slide in. Players then try to make it seem like the other guy is more nefarious. It's all mind games my man. Only reason the friendzoned guy is friendzoned in the first place is because the girl already had a boyfriend or she doesn't find them overly attractive.
I fixed this situation by dating and soon marrying a woman who is submissive by nature and into BDSM. She not only accepts that I’m a gentleman but she requires it for me to lead, be masculine and dominant. I open doors, help her out of the car, pay for everything, do everything around the house that’s required and protect her. We’re quite the couple with me at 6’4”, broad shoulders and her at 4’10” and very curvy. She not only allows me to be the “man” but it’s expected. In return she is an amazing wife, she’s super feminine, dresses and acts like a lady in public though she always wears a “collar” to let others know she’s taken. She can cook…..I mean she can cook guys! Keeps a clean home, dresses sexy for me, and the bedroom playtime is simply insane. Do to her submissive/BDSM culture she is hyper loyal and really cares about me. When she’s says “I love you” I can really feel it. This is the most loving and intense relationship I’ve ever been in and I feel like I cracked the code on finding a loyal, loving woman. She currently has a really good career but when we are married I’ve told her she can stay home if she wants as I make more than enough to take care of us both.
I disagree with you regarding following up on scheduled dates. My time is valuable to me, and so if I’ve made plans with someone and am not sure if they’re committed, I’ll send a quick “Hey checking in to confirm we’re meeting here at this time.” I don’t see that as needy, but as being protective of my time and energy. This actually happened to me recently, and I’m glad that I followed up instead of driving an hour to be stood up.
The rest of this I completely agree with.
True, but from HER perspective it comes off as weak..
I can’t tell you how tired I am of hearing that women want masculine men with leadership qualities…
Then proceed to argue every single decision, suggestion, or proposal, because… feminism (?). At some point the man gets tired of having a partner that’s an adversary, rather than an ally.
Then we’re the a-holes because we give in, or leave.
This is so true. They say men are intimidated, but in reality men want an partner. Not war in his own home
Oh please, there are females obsessing over losers who have no masculine or leadership qualities. They are just physically attracted to them.
Nothing to do with being a bad boy or being nice guy... its all about looks.
She doesn't respect him. Instead of arguing with her, Just leave her. It's not worth the aggravation. Find a woman who respects you instead.
The issue is that you didnt stop arguing and figure out a solution. Sometimes, women are just emotional and you gottabe able to reconize and move accordingly. She really wants to resolution to the feeling shes feeling, and anything she just said doesnt even have to make sense. She said it so you could understand what shes feeling. From there, you can redirect or say something that relieves that feeling. The more that happens the more she can trust you cause you can handle her. If someone is too much for you, theyre just too much for you.
Theres some unhinged females out there and its important you can identify when someone is overly emotionally unregulated and resistant to change.
Most women want to be "strong & independent boss babes" but still expect men to make the first move. If you constantly wait on men to make the first move instead of taking initiative yourself, you are not strong nor a boss.
THIS 👏👏👏
Be a man that doesn't care. Just be happy be yourself. Women will not enhance your life. When you dont care your life will be simple and rewarding doing other things
I agree 💯 women will never enhance our lives. My ex partner has blocked me, in the end she didn't offer everything positive towards my life, just filled it with more drama. So goodbye to the little boss queen.
Foreal you know. Just live your life and care less bout if she wants to stay or leave cos come to think of it
Are women really worth all these headaches? Are they?
Women........'i like bad boys'
Women........'where have all the good men gone?
Me...........🤔🤨
They are in her friend zone
I've been struggling with this for years! I can't seem to ever get it right! I find it hard to change who I've been or how I was raised!
I know when i was young ( and i think this still stands true today ) girls did like the ass holes who treat them like crap, but they will tire of this behaviour over time and move on, and contrary to belief they do like the nice guys, who are kind, can make them laugh and have empathy for others BUT you cannot be a doormat who let's them walk all over you, all women will push this limit ( especially nowadays ) every now an then you have to push back and show dominance, basically you have to have self confidence, an inner confidence, and if one is insecure, lacks self confidence females sniff this out very quickly.
So many women are wanting men to change, however no one’s perfect, we all have faults, but don’t accept faults of their own. Men, if you’re sensitive, just be you
Beautiful vid!😘
So.. there's this girl in my class that's showing a bit of interest in me like playing with my book anytime we sit next to each other and always wanting to greet me and I don't want be too forward to assume that she's into me because I was thinking of walking up to her next time and asking her out, but what do you all think?
My brother told me that women are hardwired to want men to be strong. If men are weak they don’t have a chance with most quality women. Christine is just saying the facts in her videos.
Excellent topic I can relate to a lot in this one men are always learning if they choose to.
One practical bit I want clarity on is: do you need to make the decisions all the time? Like if you're well into seeing her for more than a few days and you're like "idk. What would you like to do?" Cuz sincerely we guys don't want all the responsibility either and we genuinely have run out of ideas, but we do like this woman. So we just wanna be with her regardless. Is it ok to switch it up every now and then?
This is a woman giving you advice. So, she is speaking womanese. Woman assume if you take her desires into consideration, it's because you are insecure. They think that because they are insecure and so if they consider others, it is out of insecurity. Most men do not do this out of insecurity. Most men are easy-going and do not get easily ruffled if they don't get their way about what to do on a date, what restaurant to go to, etc. To most men, these are minor matters, and it is not a big deal. The problem is that women interpret this as insecurity and it triggers their own insecurity if they are with a man they perceive as being insecure. It is their perception that matters, not the reality. You could be the most confident, secure guy in the world, but if she perceives you as insecure or lacking confidence, she will freak out and lose attraction for you. The advice she gives is correct but because she is a woman, she does not understand the underlying psychology of how a man thinks.
Exactly, you’ve said it perfectly. It’s so irritating.
So, I said to mine, "I want to be sure you understand -- I get up and do stuff as soon as you ask because it is unhealthy to sit for a long time, AND I like to pitch in." She looked at me oddly while that sank in.
I feel compelled to point out that it sounds like what you are actually referring to here is "weak and needy men" rather than "good men". True, if i was a woman i wouldn't like a weak man either. Yet the problem is many women nowadays have mistaken men's "kindness" for "weakness". A good and decent man isnt necessarily weak, and you don't know whether a guy is weak or not if you won't even bother to find out more about him a little bit just because he isn't good looking, tall or naturally good with women in the first place
I only saw yours video mam ,,, I want to know ,,, how woman involved her feelings in information ,,,and messed up ,,,,
Be your self but don’t have the piss taken out of you. Make them laughing. Don’t promise the world & remember every woman is different. If your with a woman that wants you to do everything think of everything and arrange everything and does nothing for you. Ask your self is this the woman you want to be with it’s give and take in a relationship.
thank you
Again you are on 🔥
I did a lot of what you said not to do
I think you are very spot on here. Maybe I'm not relationship material yet and could be hiding from them until I get my leading role back or as I would say in billiard terms "Getting my killer instinct back". Which means missing because of shooting with lack of authority. Thanks for the video
It's not complicated, just decide and do.
What about if I am somewhat interested in someone but not completely sure if I want to pursue something with her. I've been in situations where I've hanged out with a girl as a friend just to see if she's someone worth pursuing but eventually lost interest in that person because of various reasons. Is it right or wrong?
Very true statemenrs in this video. the man lacking understanding of his masculine role will face these problems.
I understand the whole false pre thence thing but I’ve always found these videos confusing , I’m genuinely nice to woman should I stop this if I like someone 😊
I'm a 'Good Guy' ; juzt waiting for my life to end Baby!😁❤ Ya Witch! haha.
I thought that going from good to bad it’s not me to be bad so I can’t do it
I wonder why men have given up 😂 good video, though. Thanks
True , no wonder there are lots of single men , I’m told to stop being nice but also don’t treat them bad , I’ve asked girls out after being friends if a girl can’t see how great you may be move on is my mantra.
The title should be nice guys, rather than good men.
I don't know if this is was intended or not, but the comic delivery in this video is on point. I lol'd bunches. Thanks for helping me get all this sorted out in my head. Been stumped by this for ages. You make it make sense.
Tyrese Gibson was a good man to Samantha but she divorced him. Kaka, Brazilian football legend was a good man to his wife but she divorced him too. Fellaz be nice to your daughters instead since women perceive being nice as weakness.
They love guy's who have plenty woman.
They love bad guy's who cheat.
They make children with the bad guy's and later in life choose the good guy to be a simp stepfather to help them raise her childrens.
I'm not sure that 'nice' is the correct label for these types. More like effeminate or insecure or uncertain. Some are just desperate crawlers.
You can be nice, but still take charge.
It all depends on how attractive you are. Because players do the exact same thing especially if the girl already has a boyfriend . Start being friendly and then try to slide in. Players then try to make it seem like the other guy is more nefarious. It's all mind games my man. Only reason the friendzoned guy is friendzoned in the first place is because the girl already had a boyfriend or she doesn't find them overly attractive.
Do you like good men?
Women want to be backseat drivers. If your leading everything it's not a relationship and her input doesn't matter.
Any man who thinks they're good probably aint so good. I always say that I'm an asshole, I know that I'm not "good" or "bad"...mostly bad lol
Make a woman work for you and you the Boss.
Speaking as a Short Man, I'll make sure to make my wife get an abortion if it is a daughter.
Let tall guys have daughters.
I fixed this situation by dating and soon marrying a woman who is submissive by nature and into BDSM. She not only accepts that I’m a gentleman but she requires it for me to lead, be masculine and dominant. I open doors, help her out of the car, pay for everything, do everything around the house that’s required and protect her. We’re quite the couple with me at 6’4”, broad shoulders and her at 4’10” and very curvy. She not only allows me to be the “man” but it’s expected. In return she is an amazing wife, she’s super feminine, dresses and acts like a lady in public though she always wears a “collar” to let others know she’s taken. She can cook…..I mean she can cook guys! Keeps a clean home, dresses sexy for me, and the bedroom playtime is simply insane. Do to her submissive/BDSM culture she is hyper loyal and really cares about me. When she’s says “I love you” I can really feel it. This is the most loving and intense relationship I’ve ever been in and I feel like I cracked the code on finding a loyal, loving woman. She currently has a really good career but when we are married I’ve told her she can stay home if she wants as I make more than enough to take care of us both.
You used to write Penthouse letters, right?
and men like bad women😆🤣
Not for Marriage