The Lie that Men and Women are the Same
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- Опубліковано 4 лют 2025
- Dismantling the Lies of Feminism
In this video, I lay down the groundwork in order for me to go more in depth in my future videos.
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(Differences in the brains of men and women)
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(Women 40 years old, chance of pregnancy 5%)
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(Between 2016-2020, children with Depression increased by 29%. Children with Anxiety increased by 27%. Physical activity in children decreased by 18%)
publichealth.j...
(21.8% children have a mental illness)
ifstudies.org/...
(1 in 4 women are projected to be childless in the future)
How Feminism Fails Boys, Jon Stossel, @StosselTV, October 6th, 2024
(Warren Farrel, children do worse in 70 areas due to absent father)
ifstudies.org/...
(40% babies born to unwed mothers)
dadsrc.org/fac...
(25% children without biological fathers)
Pratt LA, Brody DJ, Gu Q. Antidepressant
use in persons aged 12 and over:
United States, 2005-2008. NCHS data brief,
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Health Statistics. 2011.
(Women ages 40-60 highest level of antidepressant use)
ifstudies.org/...
(87% of women want to get married before having children)
Imagine living in a society where it's controversial to point out the obvious. Godspeed, sister.
Not controversial, forbidden.
This must be how it feels like to live under an authorian society like USSR. Any obvious truth is met with attack, scorn and jail. This is what the west is heading to. We must protect the freedom of speech at all cost.
Bienvenido al siglo XXI
@@_spacegoat_ which means we as men need to grow a pair and exude fortitude and resist lunacy. It happened on our watch and our simpademic society let it happen.
Business interests above all else, bigger work force, more taxes to be collected... thats why they are told to be independent and hustle. It's got nothing to do with ideology or any of that other stuff, money runs the world.
I have major respect for you Erin. Especially with your last clip talking about a seriously difficult topic and how you overcame your own problems and fixed your marriage. God bless you.
@@AlexandarShmex Thank you
@@erinbyrd5377Feminism is the result of a conspiracy. While you are rational feminism serves an evil agenda. Even Communists didn't embrace feminism. Fascists did appear to suppress feminists.
I'm a man with no kids. When I was growing up I never understood "daycare". The thought of having my child being raised in his or her most formative years by a stranger was abhorrent to me. Thanks for your videos.
Now it’s irrelevant to you
i know 3 guys who work with children, if you knew them personally, you would never want them anywhere near your children
@@OneMountainNine - on the contrary....it's relevant to everyone as this directly affects all of society.
Impressive, easy to see how you overcame feminism. Your desire for truth has brought you much wisdom.
@@kevinward7498 I had to find a way to value the truth above all else.
I'm overjoyed to hear that it is possible to not only escape the grasp of feminism but to flourish in a positive new direction. My wife (soon to be ex) described herself as a "former feminist" while we were dating but I foolishly ignored some red flags in her behavior that spoke otherwise. Some years later I realized that feminism is so deeply embedded in her mind and heart that it is practically in her DNA. Lesson learned the hard way.
@@ItalNico the grasp of feminism? at least accept the failure for buying into a selfish lie.
A lie that the world is for woman, not ever thinking if all is for woman then what for everyone else? for children? for men?
If you buy into feminism its because of your own greed and evil, just as eve with satan in the garden.
feminism/goverment is the apple/Satan, woman eve, and adam the fool who had accepted her bs in fear of her rejecting him instead of rebuking her for her madness.
Hey Kevin how are you ?I remember you from Erin channel Far from Eden .
Wow another Erin .lol.
Can't wait for tomorrow's Brothers Grim .😊. Take care man be well see you tomorrow
@@RoninMartialArtsOrientalMeds Hi, I remember you, small world. These Erin's are amazing. LOL
Absolutely love it when Erin speaks. She is so authentic and beautiful....more importantly how she delivers her message
Thank you for the kind words
I'll probably play this on the drive home. Keep making all the great content. It's not too late to save these vvomen from the century of lies
Don’t save them, they don’t wanna be saved.
Unfortunately, due to rapid expiration of reproductive ability, it is indeed too late to save all of them. This is horrifying, of course, but also their own fault.
unfortunately I don't see women waking up until there is societal collapse (and even then they will be blaming the men).
They remain stubbornly blind to the obvious! They even cancelled Germaine Greer when she started to question where the whole feminism thing was going...
Works both ways sweetheart.
The most visous, controlling, bulling
self victimising people I know are all women.
Your posts are well-thought-out, researched, and presented in an academic way. I really enjoy watching them.
I agree with eliminating the promiscuity double standard as NO ONE should be promiscuous.
sometimes that is all to life
@dafindack7166 All to life?....
Agreed.
why?
For a man to be able to be promiuscuous, he has to be better and more handsome than 95% of men.
A woman just have to say 'yes', she does not need to better than anyone.
A man getting laid all the time is a king, a woman getting laid all the time is a slut.
Thank you for your channel & all the insight you provide, Miss Erin. You are teaching your viewers so much. Not just quantity but quality too! Truly an angel on Earth
I love it when a youtuber puts his sources in the description and that his sources are from serious organizations. Even if no one is safe from an error, it is still an appreciable qualitative requirement. Thank you very much for your video and your work.
-his- her Erin is truly feminine.
14:56 “the cult of feminism”
That phrase may make a person pause and think. Erin has included a ton of thought-provoking points in this video. ❤
The Death Cult. What it really is. Opposite to Human Thriving.
I love this channel because I truly feel like you're talking to us directly, the camera angle, the elegance from it, your voice. And you explain topics so well. Hope more people see this channel! Thank you for the great content 🙏🏽
Your videos came at just the right time! They help me to articulate my thoughts and conversations with my kids as they navigate the rough path into adulthood. (Daughter is 17, son is 20).
Bravo Erin, great scholarship as always. When I first heard of feminism I did see possibilities for improving life for women in our society. (Not that I saw life for women as bad, but I always look for improvements). when I heard an official “feminist” speak I was shocked to see a strange hostile woman viciously attacking men in a terribly one sided anti-male tirade. I concluded she had deep personal rejection issues that she was putting on men and society thus absolving herself of any responsibility for her own unhappiness. There was no fact checking or pushback of any kind, (if you don’t agree you hate women) so she felt powerful and “feminism became more and more popular with other unhappy women. Feminism sounds good on paper, (you can have it all) but it’s a rebellion against nature that Leeds to loneliness and stress for most women. Just as it grew in popularity, it will eventually die out.
I enjoy your work and your defense of marriage and monogamy. I would love to see your channel explode and gain a million subscribers.
@@andreaswilcox9158 I think I'll have to work very very hard for that, invest money into my "studio", and just consistently read and come up with new ideas, but thank you for your support 🙏
Monogamy doesn’t work not for women and definitely not for males
Shadow banned as per usual. YT is sick
Let Elon buy UA-cam and fire 80% of their staff 😂
What?!?! Is Erin shadow banned? If so, that needs to stop!!!
I can find it easily.
@@Icarus169 Not this comment genius.
@@borisnegrarosa9113 What are you talking about. We all see your comments
The GOAT!!! 🎉 🐐🙌
You can lead a feminist to logic, but you cannot make zir think.
Your content is nicely organized and your delivery is well-paced and clear. Well done.
Well researched! I'm proud of you for taking the time to seek and accept the truth... I've been a truth seeker for the last 5 years, and this is how I found my peace in life
Hello Erin:This was lovely. Thank you. Because of this video I subscribed. On the subject of being expelled from the group, both the Australian indigenous people living in the Broken Hill area had and the Maassai people in Africa still have the custom of sending 13 - 14 year old males out to fend for themselves for about 3 months. The logic is that if they can't look after themselves, then they can't look after anyone else either. By the way, I have been to Broken Hill and it is what many people consider to be desert. It is where the movie Mad Max II was filmed. Have a really lovely day.
Brilliant video as always - I only have one point of contention: I think we're infantilizing women a little bit by saying "a women sleeps with a man on the first date because she thinks that's what she has to do for him to be her boyfriend". I both think and speak from experience that there are women who sleep with a man on the first date, or casually with full awareness of the nature of what they're doing. Now I'm not saying it's good, nor that I agree with it, but there definitely are women who sleep around casually because they want to (and I agree with you, none of us should do that (and I'm a guy)).
Where are these women?! Help a brutha out.
I disagree. Women understand that feminism has taught high value men that the 3-date rule no longer applies and a woman who doesn't put out early is either playing games or doesn't recognize his value. Erin is correct.
@@e3twx85mk I think women, ESPECIALLY feminists, don't have a clue, nor particularly care what men value, want or need. They're simply being taught that they can and should do whatever they want and not be criticized for it. Also, even if true, it's a huge part of the issue - most women going for a tiny minority of men. I don't think women are as innocent as people seem to think.
@@e3twx85mk only for the men that the women empower (i.e. Chad and Tyrone). Erin talks as if this is all men, when it is only the empowered men. However, the culture has shifted generally. Once some men get it then the other men don't see why they can't also get the same treatment... There is also the technology of dating apps, which give women a false sense of abundance of top tier men.
Most men would be happy to do it the old way because they realise that if they are getting it first date then so are all the other guys she has dated - and men know that promiscuous women do not make good (i.e. faithful) wives.
@@e3twx85mk feminism taught women that they could enjoy sex just as much as men and could behave in the same way (not that all men got that privilege, but women only see those top tier men, the rest are invisible). And the pill meant they could do it without consequences. Women led the Sexual Revolution because they were sexually empowered by the pill. This also allowed men to partake with less worries about consequences too.
Sex is the "bait" that they hope to snare a top-tier man with. But the women are all going for the same guys so those guys have a smorgasbord to choose from so do not need to commit to only one (i.e. get married).
Interesting fact.
I am my wife's second husband.
We married late, she in her forties, me in my thirties.
she physically cannot have children due to an earlier cancer, I never felt ready for them due to never having had a relationship.
nine years on, and we both speculate, sometimes profoundly over having children!
We're both very happy together with each other, but there's still a definite regret!
I also used to believe men and women were the same: then I got married, and learned differently!
Indeed I had to become more masculine, more problem solving, more stoical, more inclined to tell my wife to stop thinking of a hundred things before she goes to sleep and just go to sleep, in response to her being more feminine!
@@darktenor4967 Even two people is still a family. It sounds like you truly love your wife and that's a lot to be thankful for, right there.
@@erinbyrd5377 Thanks, kind of you to say so.
love my wife? Absolutely!
As I said a previous comment, my story is almost the opposite of yours, actively disliked being male, due to having experience abusive from girls as a teenager, and probably would have got swept up with the "non binary", insanity, if it weren't for meeting my wife in 2014.
Indeed, I dread to think where I'd be at this point if it weren't for her.
why can't you choose surrogacy?
@@gorilla_coder-el6kf that's a fair question.
At this point lack of children is more a regretful speculation, than an urgent need.
My wife wonders what it would've been like to be pregnant and give birth, I wonder what it would've been like for her! to be pregnant with our child.
She was actually very upset when a bout of cancer in 2019 caused her remaining ova to be eradiated in course of treatment.
"speculation", at this point however is as far as this goes. Neither of us is comfortable with children; animals, especially dogs, that's another story, and the thought of trying to be a good father; or indeed a good mother, in this current insane era is definitely a scary one.
My lady was quite up front about the fact she couldn't have children when we got together, I told her I didn't mind since at that point I'd literally never had a relationship with a woman due to my sexual abuse; by women, as a teenager, so I just couldn't imagine thinking about the idea (had we needed to, I definitely would've used protection).
It's just interesting that Erin mentioned that when men are in committed relationships, men will be more likely to think about children; cudos to her for recognizing that, because even if it's only on the level of speculation, that is certainly where I am.
@ Surrogacy, IVF treatments, all this stuff costs a lot of money, and it's not a guarantee. Sometimes, the eggs are too old and they're no longer viable. A member of my family when through IVF fertility treatments and it resulted in not a pregnancy, but a breast cancer diagnosis. A lot of people don't realize that estrogen injections can actually cause cancer. People have a lot of reasons.
This channel is an educational gem. So glad to see it.
Very well researched and constructed argument! I'm happy to see your channel gaining attention.
Awesome video, very informative and knowledgeable. Joy to my ears and eyes. Thanks! :)
Motherhood is
the unsurpassed
achievement since
humans are this
planet/universe's
greatest treasure
The point would be obvious if you actually read it.
I agree
I still don't see how motherhood is the unsurpassed achievement of the universe when the most worthless woman can give birth.
@bumpercoach Being a father, and cultivating everything needed for my wife to be a mother, is the ultimate endeavor a man can achieve. I think that’s a big reason Frodo and Sam are resounding fictional characters. I’m not trying to make this into a weird analogy, but Frodo is the only one who could carry the ring. And the moment that all men, everywhere, are struck to their core by, is the scene where Frodo can’t climb the mountain, so Sam does. “I can’t carry the ring, but I can carry you.” I think that’s the same kind of thing. Women carrying a child and accomplishing it is the ultimate and unsurpassed goal. And we men can’t carry that burden. But… I can carry her.
We must praise motherhood and fatherhood in society. If you are single and childless, there needs to be higher tax. If you are parents, there needs to be lower tax. Single and childless should be treated as second class citizens.
I can't imagine the hate you must get. Bravo for your courage.
@@Phantasm8Spirit Whenever I get some hate, it makes me stronger.
@@erinbyrd5377 also know that you have so many supporting you and your presentation of facts and sound, clear argument. The haters have no real argument, just bluster and blather. They even cancelled Germaine Greer because she has questioned where it (feminism) is all going!
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I think you should publish these essays in writing. Video essays are excellent, because we can see and experience the tone of voice from the author, but writing has more proven lasting power.
Yes, the written word has been passed down for millennia and possesses a certain permanence, so she may want to publish for the sake of legacy, but I’m enjoying the chance to see and hear the sage share her wisdom now in the current moment in which we live.
Thank you for your vids, I hope that one day your channel is going to be huge!
I think your analysis of how differences evolved in ancient tribal settings is spot on, and that is the best way to think about why differences between men and women exist. I personally think, going along with what you said, that men evolved to be the protectors and essentially the emergency responders for their tribal groups. This is part of why men have deeper voices and deeper voices tend to signify more authority to the human ear for example. Men evolved to do this in part because women are more important than men genetically to the survival of the tribe, and therefore evolutionarily its better for men to risk their lives protecting the tribe than it is for women. As a result of this, women also didn't need to evolve the same physical characteristics as men, because men were protecting them and the children of the group.
Being that women didn't need to deal as much with the dangers of the world outside the group, this allowed them to survive even when they had more subjective beliefs based on social relationships, and this is the basis for why women are more susceptible to social contagion in their peer and social groups (and peer pressure like you mentioned, which is essentially the same thing) today. Women were (and are) also critical to social cohesion in tribal groups and modern society (I think society would fall apart without women's relatively large focus on relationships in society), and them putting relationships above men's more cold hard analysis of problems, is also because of this (imho and backed by some science).
Unfortunately in the social media era this tendency towards social contagion and group think is now a detriment to society and its on a much larger scale since an online social group can be thousands or more people now, and is causing a lot of problems in modern western cultures, again imho. On social media the beliefs in these groups can really go off the rails when they're based on whatever sounds best to the group and gets the most likes. Chris Williamson did an interesting podcast with a researcher named Cory Clark, talking about some of the problems in academia with the tendency for women to want to believe subjective truth over objective truth moreso than men generally speaking. The answers to all of these questions people have about gender differences in the modern world can really be traced back to how we lived in a state of nature, and these relationships can still be seen in the relatively rare tribal societies today which still live in a state of nature.
Mens deeper voices, are more likely tied to our greater size and lung capacity. That said, testosterone given to females... permanently Deepens a females voice (discovered by FTM trans)... so there may be something else happening, too.
Females higher pitched voices, were likely designed to be more like a Baby... Making the males far more Protective of them. The higher pitched noises, also tend to travel further distances... making it easier to locate a female.. that was in trouble.
The Radical Feminists attempt to alter females vocals to be deeper... Is just causing a greater Divide... as males are turned off by masculine vocals on a female.
Men are not protectors those days are over
Your connection between freedom and responsibility, your going back to stone age tribal life, and your insistence on the family being the foundation of society - you knocked it out of the park with this one again. You articulate and present things that have been stewing in my own head for a couple years in a clear, concise, yet sympathetic way. I'm gonna share this one around. Keep it up, sister!
@@Dominic.Dybala If you have any suggestions on topics you'd like me to discuss, feel free to give me any suggestions. I'm just glad that I'm not alone in my thoughts and there are other people who are thinking about it too.
It is always great to hear sober analysis on YT.
Thank you Erin for your hard, diligent, and sacrificial work in preparing these videos. You are doing a service to humankind.
@@daniel-gardner Thank you, it's comments like these that keep me going
Incredible work. Love your content
Much appreciated!
I think an important problem is where the question of functionality enters someone's perspective.
If you question what works best first, you will develop a perspective that mostly works, and will be able to spot errors in thinking fairly easy.
If you dont question functionality until after your perspective is formed, youre stuck trying to fit thingd into available space and have no inbuilt error checking mechanism. You won't even be able to be sure that your model of functionality works, as it wasn't built up on mutually dependant functions.
This, in essense, the difference between feminism and reality.
You can hate that a thing is true, and that will never change that it is true. You can hate that your idea doesn't work, and that will never change that it doesn't work.
@@ChristnThms Absolutely
Fantastic video as always. You're a breath of fresh air.
Great vid as usual. Rare to find a woman not only critical of feminism but take an objective stance. Could you make a video on male polygamous nature and or female hypergamy? Or perhaps on female solipsism?
perhaps you mean promiscuous rather than polygamous. I think most men are on the monogamous side. The privileged/powerful men can afford polygamy.
Unfortunately Erin is a rare bird. She did mention how women don't tend to be independent thinkers so much and travel as a herd. They have been taken in by the feminism stuff and they are in denial about the consequences because they just blame men for anything that goes wrong.
Emerging from metamorphism with enduring inner and outer beauty ! Shine on !
The best way to ensure women do not feel like they do more of the work at home is by not moving in together. Both parties live on their own, handle their own household and living expenses, finances and work completely separated. That way no one feels like they owe the other anything. And in the case of separation nothing needs to be split, each go on their merry ways.
This works well if you're boyfriend and girlfriend. Not so well if you're father and mother.
I hear these arguments about 50/50 and my stay-at-home wife does not work. Now, I am filing for divorce, one of the 20-30% of men who do, because she does not clean, maxed out her credit cards, has completely neglected our relationship, and quit counseling in favor of separation. Yet refuses to do anything to separate. I pay for a petulant roommate who rarely cleans, complains almost constantly, raises our kids with tablets, and requires delusions to support this broken belief system. When I ask any questions because what she is espousing does not make sense, I am interrogating her.
Even when looking for help, I have to wade through accusations of weak boundaries, leading effectively, poor validation of emotions based on events that have not occurred, toxic masculinity, controlling behaviors, etc. Literally anything to make it my fault. Even when she projects and I have literal video proof that she is hitting me, the counselors will not look at it. One even averted her eyes so that she did not see the recording on my phone.
Sorry gents, no one else, especially the state, wants to pay for and manage these people so you have to. How about that for boundaries or responsibility.
@@officiis10 Firstly, I am very sorry about your current situation. Even though I oppose divorce in general, I respect your decision in this case. If she's not going to change her behavior, then in order to maintain your dignity, you have to take legal measures. I will say that I've been in a similar position, where I was much like your wife, but once I started receiving help with my mental illness, I pushed myself to change because I could finally see reality. I saw that I was in the wrong. You say she lives in a world of delusions. Are the delusions self-imposed as a way to gaslight you and even herself into believing that you're the bad guy? Or is it possible that she could be having them out of sincere confusion? Either way, if someone refuses to get help for a mental illness, there are very few ways to force them to, and it has to be at a level of extremity to warrant that kind of intervention. I find your situation intriguing because I think it points to a larger, silent problem that is affecting many if not most American or Western women. For whatever reason, they're not growing up. They're not taking accountability. They're perpetually narcissistic and entitled. I want to know why this is happening because I have a little girl and I want her to grow into a mature, sovereign adult. I appreciate your comment and good luck to you, sir.
is she regularly into social media and/or have 'empowered' friends?
@@erinbyrd5377 Erin. You are right to question this general situation and to be concerned for the future of your daughter. One aspect may be the devaluing of (especially full time) motherhood by feminism and probably most all of her friends/social circle. She may not have had a good mother role model. Ads also push many of the behaviours she exhibits. Marriage for women in general seems to be devalued in today's world (where Capitalism and economics rule the roost). Women spending all their time pretending to be men (now contact sports!) and not learning and putting effort into being good/effective women (which should include being an effective mother and home-maker, but these days does not). Subjects like "home economics" are not taught in school any more (and boys got workshop skills, although there was no exclusion either way in who could choose either subject). These subjects catered to the gender differences that are now denied.
There is no *_pride_* in a woman being a good mother and a good home-maker any more. Society (and the economy, even though it should not have a say!) do not value, if not disrespect, the role of mother and home-maker. Stay-at-home mothers may be seen as "failures" by the modern feminism-indoctrinated society. Raising children well is no longer a priority and it is all being outsourced to childcare centres etc (so that women can work without interruption).
A key aspect is that husbands are not allowed to be the head of the household anymore and be able to "take charge" of a woman (when needed). Everything is "individualistic" these days. Men have no power in marriage because the women can just leave at any time for no reason and the man's life gets trashed. There is no power balance anymore, which kept both spouses in check. There is a tendency to just blame the man for everything and anything that goes wrong. @officiis10 mentioned this when he was seeking help. The man is *always* blamed. Strong default position is that the man did something wrong. This is the ideology. Women good, men bad. I experienced this as well. In my case my ex has a disorder that is incurable (and unfortunately a genetic component) and which they deny they have any disorder. She discarded me, which is typical for her disorder, and immediately moved on to the next victim. All the lies she spread about me have been widely believed (because she is such an adept liar/manipulator) as well as society has been indoctrinated that men are always the problem, are always bad, and women are always the innocent victims.
Lack of accountability for women means its easy for them not to try. They can blame it on men and get all sympathy from their female as well as male friends. And the law will always back them up.
Thankyou for your effort and work Erin. You bring well-researched and well-argued reason and wisdom to a topic wallowing in craziness and ignorance and denial - and that has a clear and present danger to the survival of society.
@@erinbyrd5377 I appreciate your kind words. She just keeps dropping out of couples and individual counseling. The explanation that I have heard that best fits the behaviors I experience is that she has made me her persecutory object. I describe is having to balance her equation. Rather than face problems, learn, and improve, she creates a narrative (at this point continues one) that places all fault and blame on me. I say problem generically because there seems to be no limit, any emotion she wants to get rid of, impulsive acts she won’t face, dealing with not following through, taking any accountability, etc. watershed moments for me have been multiple counselors refusing to look at abuse as stated above; video recording a discussion in which it was clear a delusion supporting a great deal of her toxic behaviors was not true so she claimed my tone and facial expressions were aggressive, then watching the video with her and seeing no change on my face, yet she still refused to accept it; a psychiatrist, likely sensing it was our last session, asking my wife specifically what was wrong (it’s always a vague complaint) and my wife quit on the spot; and when I said something to her during a discussion and she immediately filtered what I had said into something completely different. Besides, good people don’t use an excuse to do bad things, they just don’t do bad things. That one makes her rage.
I don’t think most people understand that it is extremely hard to vet for these things because, depending on the narrative or how long she has maintained it, she believes it is true, even in the face of recordings or documentation. Even lie detectors fail when the person believes something counter factually. Besides, these types are almost always in their stress response so the baseline is also shot. They edit history, filter events, and magical think. It takes a stupid amount of time to eventually see the cracks. No wonder she has panic attacks and anxiety issues, the dissonance is crazy. Of course, she still runs to me terrified when those happen, even if she was just abusive.
@@neoglacius always on social media. I definitely think it is an addiction. I have looked at her screen time on her phone before, it’s been between 10 and 14 hours average per day, the vast majority being social media. Chores weren’t getting done. Once I realized I was on a hamster wheel, I checked and realized why we didn’t have enough time. Her solution was to turn screen time off.
Thank you, Erin. A very well put & concise rebuttal of a toxic ideology harming us all. Bravo!
Thank you Byrd have a great day be well peace and harmony 🙏
Thank you very much Erin for the work that you do, we need more people like you!
You are preaching to the CHOIR!! I used to believe this lie and this is so refreshing to hear
Bang on on everything you said. Keep up the good work Erin!
Hello...I was wondering if you are considering doing a video on no fault divorce?
Well thought out. Truly worried for humanity at the moment.
at the moment? It has been worry worthy for the past two decades
Thank you for sharing, this conveys such a strong message
Rural and urban people aren't the same.
Thanks for posting this. It is very insightful to listen to!
Excellent stuff and thank you very much ❤
I know these kind of hot topics get more attention to your channel but, I do miss the infp videos:(
Something to consider about women and reproductive ethics is that women have been largely enabled to make those mistakes via abortion.
I found this very thoughtful- thank you. It has helped me understand the impact of feminism in our society. Culture is definitely downstream of biology. The longer we deny this, the more this unhappiness will be sustained.
spot on!!
And its more than just unhappiness since society is failing to reproduce itself. This means eventual collapse unless we change our ways to be more sensible.
Your videos are really good. Society really needs more women like you to be frank.
Completely agreed how feminism works against a traditional family from its start to end, but at the same time, its impossible for a normal earning couple to sustain themselves and a child unless the man has generational wealth or so. Imo a working wife can help bring in more cash but at some point, preferably few years early in the marriage, the couple has to find out a way to create some sort of a business and somehow get their bread and butte from the self owned business. I dont understand any other to survive in this economy let alone forming a family unless again the man has tons of generational inheritance.
not to mention that he will be thrown under the bus in split courts, so bye bye to the generational inheritance
I've got by myself to good earnings.
Form simple construction job.
Women are unhappy about male good earnings no matter how much effort, saving money and refusing "to live" caused good earnings.
It's pathological envy.
I had to get it easy.
In my case I was so disgusted by this attitude that it caused divorce.
Fun fact:
My ex-wife did everything to outrun me to the court. Even though I decided to end relationship, she figures as divorcing me.
😂
Be careful with "official data".
Women do not use their jobs to help pay the bills. Most of those women use that money to buy nice things for themselves, while expecting the man to still be the provider role.
feminism changed the culture and that changed the economy and work such that a man's wage alone could not support a family.
This was by design not an accident. Capitalism prefers everyone to be working. They want as large as possible "labour resource" (to keep wages low). And more taxpayers too.
In the 50s and 60s women had to resign when they got married, or, at least, were pregnant with their first child. Society placed having children and raising them properly above having cheaper labour for Capital.
@@NewfolderD my ex forced me to divorce her through her increasingly more obvious promiscuous activities. She did not want to take responsibility for the divorce because she wanted to play the victim card. I'm sure I'm not the only one. As you say: Be careful with "official data". Women have the power and they use it!! And they are also more manipulative than men (stats: 2/3 women vs. 1/3 men).
Interesting take, I have never seen an Essay reading. I would recommend getting a teleprompter so it looks like you are looking at the camera. One of the few times I watched the whole vid.
great video, the topic of differences between men and women is a much harder topic to go into than people think, that's because we were raised in a society that internalized the notion that men and women are mostly the same with some gendered differences like physical characteristics, we are seeing, now, a rise on the conversation about how different men and women really are but I feel like most people talking about it doesn't really get that the myth of sex equality is one of the pillars of our modern liberal value system, and that breaking that myth will push for a significant change in society. For some time now I've been thinking about what will come after, if women aren't mostly equal to men, what should be the role of women be in our modern society? mothers? housewives? I don't think we can just go back to how things were in the past anymore, cleaning a house is much easier now than in the past, not getting pregnant is also much easier, so less babies out of wedlock to account for in society, women can make money on their own much easier now, women have a lot more free time compared to the past that will have to be funneled into something, and more importantly, women don't directly need men anymore to survive, so what should we say to our daughters moving forward?
First!!! 😂
Also I think you'll like that Occult Feminism book ❤
@@PricelessBinkey1337 I've read it, it's great!
@erinbyrd5377
I would love to see you and Rachel do a collab
What about the book The end of woman by Carrie Gress?… It’s pretty good too 😁
@ I read that one too! lol
@ Sweeeettt!!
Finishing the year on a high note!
Thank you! 😎👍🙏
Just finished the video, and now I'm going to just binge watch the ones i missed. Thank you Erin 😊 🙏🏽 I believe the purpose of feminism is to ultimately control both men and women. Women are very important when it comes to raising the future of humanity, and it's just crazy to me that we accept an ideology that wants to do the complete opposite. Men are different and can do things better that women can't and vice-versa. We both have strengths and weaknesses for a reason. And we come together to fill that other part and blend our strengths together, all while reducing the effectiveness of our weaknesses. I hope one day we can start talking about that more than always hearing about "The patriarchy."
The war on men isn't to hurt men. Men are just in the way to destroy women and children. The reason "patriarchy" is a thing is because it fundamentally protects women and children. Men wouldn't protect something that wasn't valuable. Women and children are quite literally the most valuable thing on this planet, not just on a survival level but in so many different ways. The goal of feminism is simply to push through that protect to infect and destroy women and children. (All my opinion). Erin, you're incredible, and I hope you continue helping us all!!!
Mostly agree. I think a number of women in the ideological movement are quite OK with hurting men. It is an attraction to some of them.
I think the economic system/ideology aspects to why women have been pushed out of the home and into "careers" also needs to be considered.
"The patriarchy." is the boogyman that they use to bash men with. Its a vague entity that they use to justify most of what they do.
Older women teach younger women that's in scripture. Unfortunately, the older women of today have a bad teachings due to feminism, it's a shame
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God bless, sister!
can we please setup a Go Fun Me for this lady's witness protection program, she is a treasure
You are a very wise lady, love your videos and the way you explain things very clearly.
About 60% of the human race fall into these categories,but that leaves
40% of the human race these "rules" do not apply to.
Do not forget about masculine women/feminine men and balanced people like myself.🤔
Excellent work sister.
One point of dissimiilarity negates equality, and they are numerous.
This same principle negates other forms of egalitarianism.
This is why we are supposed to be focus on INDIVIDUAL rights, not "social justice".
Keep spreading the good word, Erin.
You knocked it out of the park.
Spot on. You’re extremely insightful.
You are wonderful. Thank you.
You got my subscribe big sis.
finally, a rational mind
I am a man, and I was raised by a single mother, and so I have always respected women who took the role of men, such as Boudicca. I have always believed that leaders brook other human beings like pawns on a chessboard. Therefore, I have never been able to respect submissive women, and although I am not a feminist (since I am a man), I have always preferred feminist women in an odd way.
Everyone should be respected even if they are submissive or dominant. By your logic men who do just men's role should also be respected.
Moreover being feminist is not equivalent to being dominant. Both are completely different things. Are you submissive by any chance?
@Home-o2v4h Those who lead always exploit those who follow. To be a follower is to allow yourself to be exploited. A leader would be wise to pretend to respect his followers, but it will always be impossible for him to truly do so.
Political leaders like Trump or Biden will send men to their deaths in war while they face no repercussions. CEOs will let their workers be fired due to technological advantages making those jobs unnecessary, and they too will have no remorse. On a ship, the captain will have his own comfy room while the crew has to sleep with no privacy in the hammocks below deck. In patriarchal societies, ugly old men will take beautiful young women for their wives either by openly forcing them, or by taking advantage of their financial troubles.
This may seem heartless to you, and it does to me too, but it is the way of the world. The followers ask very little in return from the leaders. They could always overthrow the leaders, which they have done before, but they always instate new leaders. There will never be an egalitarian society.
Those of us who want to do good in the world, be it for the environment or any other cause, will have to do so with the understanding of this sad leader-follower dynamic.
Women, through feminism, have decided that they no longer want to be followers.
Nice
we are fucked up in ways that I can't even begin to imagine how to un-fuck. We all know the damage done, we all talked about it extensively, but no one can ever propose a solution because let's be realistic, we're trapped. People often mention extreme solutions, but if you start thinking them through step-by-step, they all fall apart. The economy shaped by the dual income model is now so entrenched that it's impossible to even think of alternatives
@@F13077 I know. It's mind-boggling and it seems unfixable. This is why I direct my content towards women, because I think they're the ones most capable to correct our current situation.
@@erinbyrd5377 Well, I wish you the best, you certainly have your work cut out for you. To even bring these debates into the mainstream will take tremendous effort from content creators.
@@erinbyrd5377 wmn most effectet LOL, not most capable..they have to clean there own mess thats all
@@starkid9736 yeah well I don't even blame you for spewing vitriol, this shit took it's toll on all of us. Still, try to keep an open mind, huh?
easy to solve, its matter of incentives, less taxes for married couples with kiddos after 5years , with a bonus if declines 'no fault' with the one doing wrong paying, in other words economic incentive plus an accountability frame
Shocking!! A strong and vibrant society requires strong and functional families.
@@Hambond477 This seems completely lost on modern society.
Great content as always, Erin.
You have truly earned your spactacles today.
Thank you for that
Erin, just in case I'm being thick, are these lecture masterpieces dated somewhere I've managed to overlook? If not then is there some way you could do that? Chronologyzing (if there is such a word) these episodes is an attractive idea. Just a thought.
Also regarding words, you've taught me one: gynocentric. It's immediately obvious what it means, but I've never put that prefix/suffix combination together. Duh!
With me there's always a duh moment!
@@curtismarkham2664 I will make a playlist if that helps. And it's not my word, I got it from Rollo Tomassi, who I highly recommend.
Excellent.
In a good way, You remind me of/sound like Emma Watson as Hermione without the accent on playback speed at 2.0, I mean it as a compliment. Lovely voice
I love these videos but they scare me because i am a very masculine woman, not sure how to change the way of thinking or living when it’s all i know.
@@extraudxa You don't have to be scared, no one is saying you have to change who you are or confirm to a "traditional" feminine behaviour or aesthetic. Everyone has their own particular personality quirks with a combination of strengths and weaknesses. You play to your own strengths, that just makes sense, why would you want to force yourself to be someone you are not, that never works.
Every human has value. Many men love women like yourself. I personally always found the girls who were "tomboys" to be the most fun when I was a kid. Girly girls were just too alien to be of much interest. It's just catching frogs, building dens and lighting fires is so much more fun than Barbie dolls and Disney princesses.😊
@@extraudxa I just want to say to you that it's okay. I grew up being masculine too. I was raised by my dad and I feel like it's easier to relate to men sometimes. It doesn't make you any less. We've been trained to fulfill one gender role - the masculine one. I've tried doing different things to get in touch with my feminine side including crochet, jewelry making, cooking, baking, decorating. Femininity is associated with details, with small things. I'm here for you.
we all have our natural individual balances of these two aspects masculine and feminine. Thats part of what makes us unique. I'm a man interested in the big things, but also in the details, with small things.
Erin, what is your take on spirituality & the spiritual world?
Ephesians 6:12
@@EugeneLorey I've always been a highly spiritual person. I consider myself to be a Christian.
@erinbyrd5377 Care to elaborate? There are many many types and flavors of the vast Christian religion. For instance, LDS consider themselves Christian as do Ethiopian Coptics.
@erinbyrd5377 Christianity is pretty broad, care to elaborate?
@@erinbyrd5377 what do you think about the impact of the highly materialistic (atheistic, anti-religion, hedonistic) Enlightenment and its ideologies (Liberalism (and offshoot Feminism) and Capitalism and its reactionary Communism) on the domain of family and marriage and gender relations?
Do you think spirituality (if not organised religion specifically) is required for everlasting life (in the mundane sense of societal reproduction/sustainability)?
Do you think the individualism of the Enlightenment and its ideologies, including Feminism, is counter to spirituality and relationships in general as it intrinsically devalues reciprocity in relationships (as it more highly values the imposition of individual will ("freedom") and thus exploitation (rather than submission and nurture/sacrifice (e.g. parents made conscious sacrifices for each other, for their children and for "the marriage"/union - individualism prioritises sacrifice only for self and submission is antithetical to empowering "individual will")))?
In the future expect:
1. Women sharing men
2. Lesbian
3. Women single and living alone or with other women and families
4. Women selectively being with older men
You seem very rational, intelligent and calm. Can you elaborate on how having a mental illness impacts your life? Answer to your own comfort level, of course.
Yeah, you're right there. It seems so simple, but we're kinda lost in the mix of tech and media. I'm doing well with my kiddos, that's about all I gots
the ideologies are leading us astray. They leverage tech and media to their agenda.
Good luck with your kids. They are our future. Well done for doing a good job with them.
Happy Christmas Erin, thank you for the insightful videos in 2024. Please find attached link to Christmas Carol, I hope you likie it. - Greg Lake ‘I Believe In Father Christmas’ (Official Lyrics Video)
I couldn't agree more Erin. Rather than feminism, I think the watchword should be "complimentarity" of the sexes. With regard to the issue of men being the favoured sex, this is born out by so many women preferring to be called by men's names; such as Alex, Sam, Charlie, Frankie, Vic, Jo etc, etc. On another note, could you please explain the acronyms you use as I find it difficult to follow what you are saying, not knowing what they mean. Also, could you give us an idea of what is your next project, at the end of each video? Thanks
I love your content, you are such a inspiration to our youth.
And yes men should use a hand held drill😂
You are very articulate 😅
Great video! I agreed with every single word!
👍great.
Well presented Erin. Would you say that one of your aims in producing these videos is to address the declining number of children born to Western women? That seems to be an issue that is worth taking much more seriously. I look forward to seeing how your work develops.
agreed. Societal reproduction is in jeopardy. This is clearly an existential threat, yet one society is denying.
The implication is clear: change or die. Feminism is clearly taking us down a nihilistic path. Erin is doing great work in explicating this general topic, but I fear insufficient numbers of women are hearing her.
They are never the same. One is strong and the other one isn't
Brilliant!