Love this. I always agreed with your choices of no bridesmaids, wedding planner, flowers. My daughter got married at the beach 5 years ago. The ocean was a beautiful backdrop as was yours with downtown Cincinnati so a bunch of flowers..just a waste! So thankful it didn’t rain and you had a beautiful day/night!
I love watching all of your wedding content. My husband and I had a very nice, but simple wedding 26 years ago. Church wedding, cake & punch afterward. My mom found silk flowers on sale and made all of the bouquets and boutonnieres. We rented some candelabras and that was about it. My cousin video taped it and we had a photographer. At the end of the day, we were married. The wedding is only one day--the marriage is forever. ❤
Married now for 43 years. Vows and Mass in a chapel, no aisle runner, flowers and ferns from MIL's back porch decorated the chapel. Had a Best Man and Maid of honor, BIL sang at the Mass. The chapel seated 75 people. The reception, had a dinner, no dancing, had a student from CCM play background music with guitar and lute. Budget $15000, only used $5000, pocketed/saved $10,000! It's only one day of a lifetime of marriage... Congratulations Clancy and Zac❣️
So, so grateful for this video! Hardly anybody talks about non-traditional wedding decisions. You two look so happy and this has helped me plan for my own special day.
This video totally changed my mindset about flowers.. I’m getting married in summer by the beach and thinking of getting some flowers BUT this video helped me decide not to coz it’s a waste of $$$$. Thank you!💐💓
I'm so glad you're happy/content with it, but I highly recommend being joined at the hip with your new spouse from ceremony onward. I would've been so sad if I felt like I hadn't spent the day with my new husband since that's what the whole day was about. We tried to talk to each guest as much as we could, but that was not a priority for us. The day was about us and for us, not our guests. We didn't have people traveling from super far away though so I understand wanting to prioritize the guests more when they travel from far away!
Yup, I’m one of those people who regret not having a videographer at my wedding. How fun would be to have shown my son mommy and daddy’s special day. I’m glad you were able to have one at your wedding, and excited to have you share it with your viewers. ❤
I got married last October and one thing I’m really glad I did was having a faux bouquet. I decided on mainly succulents for it and it’s still on my mantle! Also, my brothers best friend recorded the entire wedding and we have two hours of raw footage. I’m so grateful for that!
Your venue was perfect!! Your wedding dress was gorgeous! And you and Zac looked incredible! Also, love that your mum chose the blue dress! She looked amazing too!!
Your take on first look is so refreshing to hear! I really try and explain the benefit of doing that, especially when we only have a 5 hour package. It's crucial!
Yes to the wedding planner! We didn't have one either, and had a day of coordinator. We did have a cash and normal registry. Kinda like you and Zach, we've lived together prior to married. So we decided to add upgrade things that we have already.
Your wedding looked so beautiful and I'm enjoying all the wedding content, as I'm a 2024 bride! It's like we're doing it together lol. Your honesty and fighting for what you want is a breath of fresh air because I feel that 😅 Also, my fiance and I loved Zac's suit, and my fiance wants to do something similar!
Honestly this was such a lovely and refreshing take to hear. Thank you for sharing all of these, and for sharing that a wedding day is ultimately just a DAY; the marriage is what is most important. ❤ I’m getting married in October and I am trying to keep that in mind every day!
Thank you for your advice! I’m planning a small wedding and will do flowers but will order some from Costco and have a small budget and make my own decorations in mason jars. But I love how relaxed you are about it. All I want to do is have a small ceremony (20 mins ) and then eat lol 😂 maybe do a dance but just want to do it in our backyard. Still want a photographer and a videographer. Also planning to have a food truck
I had a small wedding many years ago. I had lots of flowers, which I love, because my husband's aunt used to be a florist in a different state. We went to the flower markets to get all the supplies and spent a minuscule amount of money on them. Had a buffet rather than a plated meal, for variety. My BIL took photos as he is a photographer. Had one bridesmaid and one groomsman. My bridesmaid made sure I had something to eat and helped me when my wedding dress straps stretched (she shortened them using fishing line!). I do regret not having a videographer. It was not common back then. I also love that you had a photo booth. Would be so much fun to look back on it.
You picked one of my favorite views for your wedding. The Cincinnati skyline shines from Drees. I don't feel you need to do anything you don't want to do when you get married. I honestly didn't care what tradition was I did what I wanted. Brides have to pick what is important to them and go with it.
I’m curious about the welcoming bags. We’re people happy about those??? I’m just really glad you did it your way. I didn’t do a wedding planner either. They were becoming popular in the last 90’s when I was married, but like you, I had a day of coordinator. That was all I really needed. Thank you for sharing so much Clancy. I’m sure you will help a lot of brides to be.
GIRL im so so appreciative of this video! There are lots of things you did that I genuinely thought were kind of nonnegotiable! But I know, if I ever get married, I won’t want it to be super traditional and expensive. Not having flowers or bridesmaids are things I used to be worried about because of the cost vs value of them. Instead, investing in photos, a photo booth, etc seems like such a better use of your money!
Yesss! If there’s one thing I’ve learned it’s that you can truly make this experience your own! Don’t ever feel the need to do anything or buy anything just because “that’s the way it’s always been done.”
I agree with point #1, i have a full time job and most of my wedding planning for June 2024 is done. I do admin work so planning is a big YES for me! I could see if someone hated it well maybe it'd be better to hire someone else to do it lol
Thank you for sharing Clancy! As a food allergy sufferer myself another option is to get a small dairy/egg/ nut free cake from Whole Foods for $40-50 & add a few flowers and topper so you don't miss out on dessert 🎂 also helpful if any guests have an allergy or are vegan.
You so nailed the more important things from ur wedding day! After all,it is ur day, I admire u for doing what u felt was best for u and Zac 💕 congratulations 🍾 again
Hello, i love this video, so much realizations. I will have my wedding next year, thanks for this video. Btw how did you make your seating chart? I just had a quick glimpse of it. Thank you
A couple thousand???? In my city, planners are $8000-40K + and they also charge 10-20% on top of EACH contract! With the internet, instagram, wedding wire you can easily find vendors on your own, then do your reference check. I'm a former reporter, now I'm a lawyer and I think our research skills can be stronger than others!
Happy Wednesday, Clancy!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙💙🌷💖💖💖💖💖💖🎇👍. Your wedding day was so awesome with tears, more tears and music that makes me super happy and excited. WOW!!😍😢😍. Also, the cake cutting is my favorite when you cut the cake real slow and it stands still. Well done!💖⭐💖⭐💖⭐💖⭐💖👍. And Clancy...😢your wedding dress is like a Barbie doll with magic powers and it makes me cry happy. AH!😢😊. I'm proud of you, from the bottom of my heart. Congratulations!😊😙💙💙💙💙💙💙🌷💖💖💖💖💖💖💖😊🎇🎉👍
Good for you for sticking up, no flowers,,,I my opinion is really a waste of buko money. 12yrs. ago that was my plan as well & just have a bouquet 💐 & luckily my Aunt stepped up & said she wanted to gift us the flowers🥰
I am so glad you made this video! However I do want to say, for my personal wedding I’m going to do pretty much the opposite of what you guys did lol! I really genuinely appreciate all of your input and it helped me so much at the end where you said “it’s just a day” because it literally is just a day. Yes I’m having flowers and you didn’t, it doesn’t matter, it’s just a day! My wedding is less than a month away and it is getting CRAZY😱 I’m also buying a house in the same month as the wedding… don’t recommend😳 Anyway I’m literally so happy for you and Zac!! I’ve been watching you since 2015 and we both started dating our partners practically at the same time and it’s so cool we’re both getting married in the 2023!! I love you guys so much! Thank you for being so honest about everything. I really liked the segment of your vlog where you were all by yourself the night before the wedding being super vulnerable. I feel that right now even tho that night is a few weeks from now. It’s so nice to not feel alone. You have influenced me so much Clancy, I’m truly so grateful for you❤️
Awww this comment seriously just made my day! Thank you 🥹 AND HAVE SO MUCH FUN ON YOUR WEDDING DAY!!!! That’s so exciting that it’s almost here - enjoy every minute! ❤️
I knew going into this video we were going to have vast differences because of the past wedding videos BUT I cannot miss a Clancy video 💜 AHHH I loved my bridal party and couldn’t have done it without them! Getting ready together and then helping me (throwing a shower & Bach party) but I do agree with you I only had my wedding planner for the month before to make the schedule and contact vendors and then on the day of but then I did everything else! My husband is a crier so he def broke down during our first look 😅 ALSO the flowers budget is ridiculous! We ended up with fake flowers all silk and they were great! Plus like a fraction of the price.
I have so many comments 😂 I didn’t do a church. I didn’t do a planner. I did our own flowers and center pieces. My own bouquet, my bridesmaids ones and boutonnières. Saving money is totally doable. We did add an extra hour for cocktails and an extra hour to stay order. I also did our own back drop with 50 yards of fabric lol bc I hated how the brick looked where the dj was going.
I worked for marketing for a casino. So I was able to get a flower seller. We picked up 1000 roses and they gave us free greens for $700. Which is incredibly cheap for even 8 years ago. If I had not done that I wouldn’t of gotten flowers. I met with one florist and just my bouquet was half of the price. Insane!
Clancy, I am loving your eye makeup in this video! It’s beautiful! I would love to know how you did your eye shadow in the video! By the way, I was noticing the headboard for your bed behind you and I was wondering if you could tell me where you purchased that at. I have an adjustable bed that I have a real problem with the mattress, as big and heavy as it is, i’m having issues where the mattress will practically try to slide off to the side, and that headboard looks like it would help keep it In place! Loved seeing the pictures from the wedding! It looks like it was a beautiful night that everyone enjoyed!
Even though everyone will have regrets and non regrets and everyone who's will be different its also nice to hear others regrets and non regrets cause sometimes it maybe somethingthey didn't of doing or not doing (and I'm with you on the whole just give money and say a list of what gift cards from where because if your combining things you don't know what you will end up with)
At :18 is a good example. I’m wearing headphones and I usually don’t. It’s a ringing on your audio peaks, and you’re loud a lot haha. I don’t hear it on the last wedding video though so 🤷♀️ Its very subtle but I’m sure it’s there.
Youd be surprised by our south asian Bangladeshi, indian and Pakistani weddings. We can easily have 1000+ guests and we have 4/6 functions for one wedding
I have pictures of our wedding where me and my husband cheer our drinks and the next sequence is us walking away drinking. It really is a crazy busy day and you barely see each other besides for pictures and sitting down to eat
Ugh my husband and I were supposed to do a private cake cutting but then the dj announced “it’s time for the bride and groom to cut the cake” and then we did it in front of everyone on the dance floor with a huge spotlight on us😅 that’s the one thing that went wrong but none of the guests even realized. We didn’t do a first look and that was one thing we were both 100% set on. We got married at a church so it might’ve been easier than if we had the ceremony and reception at the same place. We were able to leave some time in between and got all of our pictures done in a decent time. We also extended cocktail hour to be 2 hours and we were able to attend an 1.5 of it! (Plus we were able to have some time alone and we sat in the empty decorated ballroom and they brought us plates of every appetizer for us). We had a 2pm ceremony and 4pm cocktail hour. I wish we added an extra half hour to the reception though, I didn’t realize how long it would take people to move from the cocktail hour space to the actual reception space/ballroom. We were waiting for 30 minutes before we did our entrance. I felt like we wasted time we could’ve been dancing or hanging out with everyone.
I love watching your videos and You just made my day. I was watching the video and you have accidentally written two times ; second dress title,(second time was transportation but it says second dress and it was just funny because i am listening and waiting for you to mention second dress and you just speak about transportation- i honestly thougt that three glasses of wine made me drunk)( and soory formy bad english it my third language) :) :)
Hey! Clancy how r u doing I hope you are doing good and I was eagerly waiting for this video you are my inspiration and I wish you have a wonderful Wednesday💓🤗💫
Not getting married as of yet but I think I would hire a planner not to plan my wedding but more to make my vision come to l8fe so I say I want xyz and they do it. Less stress on me especially day of.
i thought i was having a small wedding with 50 and then you said 115 haha! but so excited for that intimate vibe and not having to worry about running out of time to say hi to everyone!
Love your videos!! Happy birthday God bless you and your husband 🤍 God loves you don’t forgot to pray! You should listen to Joyce Meyer I feel like you’d love her.
Im highly allergic to nuts, dairy, eggs and gluten. My cake lady made me a vegan gluten free carrot cake for the top cake to be cut and the rest is fake cake. She made sheet cake pre cut them and put them in little boxes decorated for the rest of the people. Amazing
Please please be careful discussing your allergens and how you treat them😩. Eating them can be soo dangerous and stating that can give people the false sense that because you survived others will. Allergies are still soo misunderstood and a lot of people don’t know about Epinephrine and how it can save lives. I encourage anyone who has read this comment to look up Red Sneakers For Oakley😭💕.
I would never eat or experiment with tree nuts, which causes me to go into anaphylactic shock. Of course you just have to know which kind of allergy you have - a stomachache from eating dairy if you’re lactose intolerant isn’t a huge deal, but anaphylaxis is!
@@ClancyBurkeX you had talked about cross contamination and even tho we are around the same age 😂 my mom heart dropped because in previous videos you talked about not carrying an EpiPen😭
As Clancy said, not all allergic reactions are at the same severity. If someone knows they go into anaphylactic shock after having something, then don’t be dumb and follow the advice of a UA-camr over your physician 🥴
I agree flowers are too expensive! I got married and only had a maid of honor! Small wedding! $40,000 or more for these weddings, I heard, is a nice down payment on a house!❤️😎🌞
It was refreshing to see that you went against traditional wedding norms and seeing it from your perspective
Love this. I always agreed with your choices of no bridesmaids, wedding planner, flowers. My daughter got married at the beach 5 years ago. The ocean was a beautiful backdrop as was yours with downtown Cincinnati so a bunch of flowers..just a waste! So thankful it didn’t rain and you had a beautiful day/night!
Your wedding photos look amazing, BUT seeing your dad with you really melts my heart ❤️
I love watching all of your wedding content. My husband and I had a very nice, but simple wedding 26 years ago. Church wedding, cake & punch afterward. My mom found silk flowers on sale and made all of the bouquets and boutonnieres. We rented some candelabras and that was about it. My cousin video taped it and we had a photographer. At the end of the day, we were married. The wedding is only one day--the marriage is forever. ❤
Married now for 43 years. Vows and Mass in a chapel, no aisle runner, flowers and ferns from MIL's back porch decorated the chapel. Had a Best Man and Maid of honor, BIL sang at the Mass. The chapel seated 75 people. The reception, had a dinner, no dancing, had a student from CCM play background music with guitar and lute. Budget $15000, only used $5000, pocketed/saved $10,000!
It's only one day of a lifetime of marriage... Congratulations Clancy and Zac❣️
So, so grateful for this video! Hardly anybody talks about non-traditional wedding decisions. You two look so happy and this has helped me plan for my own special day.
This video totally changed my mindset about flowers.. I’m getting married in summer by the beach and thinking of getting some flowers BUT this video helped me decide not to coz it’s a waste of $$$$. Thank you!💐💓
I'm so glad you're happy/content with it, but I highly recommend being joined at the hip with your new spouse from ceremony onward. I would've been so sad if I felt like I hadn't spent the day with my new husband since that's what the whole day was about. We tried to talk to each guest as much as we could, but that was not a priority for us. The day was about us and for us, not our guests. We didn't have people traveling from super far away though so I understand wanting to prioritize the guests more when they travel from far away!
Yup, I’m one of those people who regret not having a videographer at my wedding. How fun would be to have shown my son mommy and daddy’s special day. I’m glad you were able to have one at your wedding, and excited to have you share it with your viewers. ❤
I am in tears at the end. So happy for you Clancy your wedding looked perfect.
Thank you!💞💞
I got married last October and one thing I’m really glad I did was having a faux bouquet. I decided on mainly succulents for it and it’s still on my mantle! Also, my brothers best friend recorded the entire wedding and we have two hours of raw footage. I’m so grateful for that!
Wow that’s so awesome that you were able to keep it!!
Your venue was perfect!! Your wedding dress was gorgeous! And you and Zac looked incredible! Also, love that your mum chose the blue dress! She looked amazing too!!
Thank you so much!!💞
Your take on first look is so refreshing to hear! I really try and explain the benefit of doing that, especially when we only have a 5 hour package. It's crucial!
This is amazing. Thank you for taking time to do this, your perspective is such a breath of fresh air.
I love this video!! It has changed my perspective on many things. Thank you so much!
Yes to the wedding planner! We didn't have one either, and had a day of coordinator. We did have a cash and normal registry. Kinda like you and Zach, we've lived together prior to married. So we decided to add upgrade things that we have already.
Your wedding looked so beautiful and I'm enjoying all the wedding content, as I'm a 2024 bride! It's like we're doing it together lol. Your honesty and fighting for what you want is a breath of fresh air because I feel that 😅 Also, my fiance and I loved Zac's suit, and my fiance wants to do something similar!
Thank you!!❤️ and enjoy this time! It really does go by so quickly - but as long as you make decisions that make sense for YOU…you can’t go wrong!
Thank you so much Clancy 🥹 This calmed my nerves so much! Also, decision fatigue is real 😅
Honestly this was such a lovely and refreshing take to hear. Thank you for sharing all of these, and for sharing that a wedding day is ultimately just a DAY; the marriage is what is most important. ❤ I’m getting married in October and I am trying to keep that in mind every day!
This was very helpful! Thank you for sharing 😊
Thank you for your advice! I’m planning a small wedding and will do flowers but will order some from Costco and have a small budget and make my own decorations in mason jars. But I love how relaxed you are about it. All I want to do is have a small ceremony (20 mins ) and then eat lol 😂 maybe do a dance but just want to do it in our backyard. Still want a photographer and a videographer. Also planning to have a food truck
I had a small wedding many years ago. I had lots of flowers, which I love, because my husband's aunt used to be a florist in a different state. We went to the flower markets to get all the supplies and spent a minuscule amount of money on them. Had a buffet rather than a plated meal, for variety. My BIL took photos as he is a photographer. Had one bridesmaid and one groomsman. My bridesmaid made sure I had something to eat and helped me when my wedding dress straps stretched (she shortened them using fishing line!). I do regret not having a videographer. It was not common back then. I also love that you had a photo booth. Would be so much fun to look back on it.
You picked one of my favorite views for your wedding. The Cincinnati skyline shines from Drees. I don't feel you need to do anything you don't want to do when you get married. I honestly didn't care what tradition was I did what I wanted. Brides have to pick what is important to them and go with it.
I’m curious about the welcoming bags. We’re people happy about those??? I’m just really glad you did it your way. I didn’t do a wedding planner either. They were becoming popular in the last 90’s when I was married, but like you, I had a day of coordinator. That was all I really needed. Thank you for sharing so much Clancy. I’m sure you will help a lot of brides to be.
I hope people liked them!! Haha I never really asked but I think they’re a nice gesture!
GIRL im so so appreciative of this video! There are lots of things you did that I genuinely thought were kind of nonnegotiable! But I know, if I ever get married, I won’t want it to be super traditional and expensive. Not having flowers or bridesmaids are things I used to be worried about because of the cost vs value of them. Instead, investing in photos, a photo booth, etc seems like such a better use of your money!
Yesss! If there’s one thing I’ve learned it’s that you can truly make this experience your own! Don’t ever feel the need to do anything or buy anything just because “that’s the way it’s always been done.”
So helpful and authentic. Really helped put things into perspective! Thank you!
Hope your having a good Wednesday and please keep us more posted on the job progress! Sending you two love as always and stay safe :) ❤
Thank you!! 💞💞
I agree with point #1, i have a full time job and most of my wedding planning for June 2024 is done. I do admin work so planning is a big YES for me! I could see if someone hated it well maybe it'd be better to hire someone else to do it lol
Thank you for this Clancy! I ended up booking a videographer for my wedding because of your advice from previous vlogs. Thank you :)
Aww yay! Trust me - you won’t regret it!!!
Everything sounds and looks magical.
Thank you for the tips Clancy!! Great video, and such a beautiful wedding! ♥️
Thank you!!❤️
I'm getting married in August and doing so many things the same way you did! It's exciting to hear that those choices were perfect for you
I LOVED all the wedding pictures in this video ❤❤❤
Thank you!!:)
Thank you for sharing Clancy! As a food allergy sufferer myself another option is to get a small dairy/egg/ nut free cake from Whole Foods for $40-50 & add a few flowers and topper so you don't miss out on dessert 🎂 also helpful if any guests have an allergy or are vegan.
Great tip!! 💞
Loved hearing about all the highlights of your wedding ❤ always get excited for my Clancy and Jenna Wednesday 😊 sending you an up thumb 😊
Thank you for watching!
You so nailed the more important things from ur wedding day! After all,it is ur day, I admire u for doing what u felt was best for u and Zac 💕 congratulations 🍾 again
Thank you! 💞
Hello, i love this video, so much realizations. I will have my wedding next year, thanks for this video. Btw how did you make your seating chart? I just had a quick glimpse of it. Thank you
A couple thousand???? In my city, planners are $8000-40K + and they also charge 10-20% on top of EACH contract! With the internet, instagram, wedding wire you can easily find vendors on your own, then do your reference check. I'm a former reporter, now I'm a lawyer and I think our research skills can be stronger than others!
Happy Wednesday, Clancy!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙💙🌷💖💖💖💖💖💖🎇👍. Your wedding day was so awesome with tears, more tears and music that makes me super happy and excited. WOW!!😍😢😍. Also, the cake cutting is my favorite when you cut the cake real slow and it stands still. Well done!💖⭐💖⭐💖⭐💖⭐💖👍. And Clancy...😢your wedding dress is like a Barbie doll with magic powers and it makes me cry happy. AH!😢😊. I'm proud of you, from the bottom of my heart. Congratulations!😊😙💙💙💙💙💙💙🌷💖💖💖💖💖💖💖😊🎇🎉👍
Good for you for sticking up, no flowers,,,I my opinion is really a waste of buko money. 12yrs. ago that was my plan as well & just have a bouquet 💐 & luckily my Aunt stepped up & said she wanted to gift us the flowers🥰
These are really really great tips! This will be so helpful to future brides❤🎉
Thank you!!❤️
I am so glad you made this video! However I do want to say, for my personal wedding I’m going to do pretty much the opposite of what you guys did lol! I really genuinely appreciate all of your input and it helped me so much at the end where you said “it’s just a day” because it literally is just a day. Yes I’m having flowers and you didn’t, it doesn’t matter, it’s just a day! My wedding is less than a month away and it is getting CRAZY😱 I’m also buying a house in the same month as the wedding… don’t recommend😳
Anyway I’m literally so happy for you and Zac!! I’ve been watching you since 2015 and we both started dating our partners practically at the same time and it’s so cool we’re both getting married in the 2023!! I love you guys so much! Thank you for being so honest about everything. I really liked the segment of your vlog where you were all by yourself the night before the wedding being super vulnerable. I feel that right now even tho that night is a few weeks from now. It’s so nice to not feel alone. You have influenced me so much Clancy, I’m truly so grateful for you❤️
Awww this comment seriously just made my day! Thank you 🥹 AND HAVE SO MUCH FUN ON YOUR WEDDING DAY!!!! That’s so exciting that it’s almost here - enjoy every minute! ❤️
I knew going into this video we were going to have vast differences because of the past wedding videos BUT I cannot miss a Clancy video 💜 AHHH I loved my bridal party and couldn’t have done it without them! Getting ready together and then helping me (throwing a shower & Bach party) but I do agree with you I only had my wedding planner for the month before to make the schedule and contact vendors and then on the day of but then I did everything else! My husband is a crier so he def broke down during our first look 😅 ALSO the flowers budget is ridiculous! We ended up with fake flowers all silk and they were great! Plus like a fraction of the price.
Omg I’ve seen so many brides do the fake silk flowers and I seriously cannot tell they’re fake at all! They look beautiful!!!
I also did my thank you cards right away after the wedding lol
I totally regret not having a second dress lol I couldn’t do anything in my dress
No matter how much we try something literally will go wrong on our wedding day that’s a fact😂
100000% 😂
@ClancyBurkeX keep up the good work ❤
Clancy and Zac your wedding looked beautiful
Happy Bday Clance! 🎉
I have so many comments 😂 I didn’t do a church. I didn’t do a planner. I did our own flowers and center pieces. My own bouquet, my bridesmaids ones and boutonnières. Saving money is totally doable. We did add an extra hour for cocktails and an extra hour to stay order. I also did our own back drop with 50 yards of fabric lol bc I hated how the brick looked where the dj was going.
I worked for marketing for a casino. So I was able to get a flower seller. We picked up 1000 roses and they gave us free greens for $700. Which is incredibly cheap for even 8 years ago. If I had not done that I wouldn’t of gotten flowers. I met with one florist and just my bouquet was half of the price. Insane!
Zac had flowers too! Not just you! You guys did have some flowers!
Clancy, I am loving your eye makeup in this video! It’s beautiful! I would love to know how you did your eye shadow in the video!
By the way, I was noticing the headboard for your bed behind you and I was wondering if you could tell me where you purchased that at. I have an adjustable bed that I have a real problem with the mattress, as big and heavy as it is, i’m having issues where the mattress will practically try to slide off to the side, and that headboard looks like it would help keep it In place!
Loved seeing the pictures from the wedding! It looks like it was a beautiful night that everyone enjoyed!
You sound incredibly frugal and your decisions for your wedding reflect that. You did you good for you.
Will you be doing a cost breakdown of your wedding?
No, probably not!
Such helpful and realistic tips! Question: did you have anything in the center of your tables? Like did the venue provide any “table decor”? Candles?
Is there any way you would share what your invitations looked like? I need inspo 😅
There’s a ringing in the audio and I can’t focus on anything but that
thank you for sharing all those beautiful wedding pictures!
Thank you for watching!:)
Even though everyone will have regrets and non regrets and everyone who's will be different its also nice to hear others regrets and non regrets cause sometimes it maybe somethingthey didn't of doing or not doing (and I'm with you on the whole just give money and say a list of what gift cards from where because if your combining things you don't know what you will end up with)
HOW DOES YOUR HAIR LOOK SO HEALTHY?? YOU ARE GORGEOUS!
Haha aww thank you!! 🥹💞
The coney dog is actually from coney island, but Cincinnati does have a regional variation!
Most beautiful bride ever!
Awww thank you!!
What’s the weird ringing on the audio? Is the mic gain on or something? Never heard that before on your vids and it’s not pleasant 😢
I don’t hear a ringing?!?! It’s the same audio setup as my regrets video because I filmed them back to back!
At :18 is a good example. I’m wearing headphones and I usually don’t. It’s a ringing on your audio peaks, and you’re loud a lot haha. I don’t hear it on the last wedding video though so 🤷♀️ Its very subtle but I’m sure it’s there.
I don’t hear anything?
@@charleneb5361must be your head phones. I went back to that part and hear no ringing.
I hear it too.
That lipstick looks sooooo good!!!
Thank you!❤️❤️
Youd be surprised by our south asian Bangladeshi, indian and Pakistani weddings. We can easily have 1000+ guests and we have 4/6 functions for one wedding
Oh wow! You guys definitely know how to party!!! 💃🏻 haha
Definitely, but it can be very stressful too. Having back to back functions in a space of a week or 2 can be very overwhelming
Is a wedding planner the same as a coordinator?
No bridal party sounds good to me! I have no friends 😂
I have pictures of our wedding where me and my husband cheer our drinks and the next sequence is us walking away drinking. It really is a crazy busy day and you barely see each other besides for pictures and sitting down to eat
this video audio was EXTREMELY echoy 😬 pls try to fix ?
Wow your second dress looked amazing!!
Thank you!! 💞💞
Ugh my husband and I were supposed to do a private cake cutting but then the dj announced “it’s time for the bride and groom to cut the cake” and then we did it in front of everyone on the dance floor with a huge spotlight on us😅 that’s the one thing that went wrong but none of the guests even realized.
We didn’t do a first look and that was one thing we were both 100% set on. We got married at a church so it might’ve been easier than if we had the ceremony and reception at the same place. We were able to leave some time in between and got all of our pictures done in a decent time. We also extended cocktail hour to be 2 hours and we were able to attend an 1.5 of it! (Plus we were able to have some time alone and we sat in the empty decorated ballroom and they brought us plates of every appetizer for us). We had a 2pm ceremony and 4pm cocktail hour. I wish we added an extra half hour to the reception though, I didn’t realize how long it would take people to move from the cocktail hour space to the actual reception space/ballroom. We were waiting for 30 minutes before we did our entrance. I felt like we wasted time we could’ve been dancing or hanging out with everyone.
Did you have any issues with the public being around for the wedding? I have been to Devou Park and would be worried about the public interrupting!
No, not at all!!
I love ya but let’s be very clear, the coney dog was NOT a cincy thing it is a Detroit (Michigan) thing!!!
Could you hear Taylor Swift? I was curious about that!
Audio is very... tingy??
I didn’t have a wedding party, flowers, or a registry either. No regrets! 😅
Your “transportation” 23:45 text slide accidentally says “second dress”.
I love watching your videos and You just made my day. I was watching the video and you have accidentally written two times ; second dress title,(second time was transportation but it says second dress and it was just funny because i am listening and waiting for you to mention second dress and you just speak about transportation- i honestly thougt that three glasses of wine made me drunk)( and soory formy bad english it my third language) :) :)
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Clancy! I LOVE your lipstick in this video. What colour/brand is it?
I’m wearing the too faced melted matte liquid lipstick in “suck it” with a mac lipstick in “faux” on top!
Hey! Clancy how r u doing I hope you are doing good and I was eagerly waiting for this video you are my inspiration and I wish you have a wonderful Wednesday💓🤗💫
Thank you!!💞💞
Didn't notice no flowers. I had none either. Go you ❤❤❤
Great advice!
Your wedding planner would have noticed the pins in your dress well before you walked down the aisle though lol
Maybe, maybe not - my wedding coordinator didn’t until the last minute! lol
Not getting married as of yet but I think I would hire a planner not to plan my wedding but more to make my vision come to l8fe so I say I want xyz and they do it. Less stress on me especially day of.
That totally makes sense!!
happy birthday to you!!!!
Thank you but it’s not my birthday 😂❤️
Can I ask who was your photographer ? 😮 your pictures were gorgeous!!!!
Her name is Lindsey and she owns her own business - her Instagram is tagged on my Instagram pictures!
i thought i was having a small wedding with 50 and then you said 115 haha! but so excited for that intimate vibe and not having to worry about running out of time to say hi to everyone!
Do you feel you might have needed a wedding planner if you had been working full time?
I did most of my planning (booking all vendors, booking dates, et .) when I was working full-time!
Love your videos!! Happy birthday God bless you and your husband 🤍 God loves you don’t forgot to pray! You should listen to Joyce Meyer I feel like you’d love her.
Im highly allergic to nuts, dairy, eggs and gluten. My cake lady made me a vegan gluten free carrot cake for the top cake to be cut and the rest is fake cake. She made sheet cake pre cut them and put them in little boxes decorated for the rest of the people. Amazing
I know it’s “rude” to talk money but what was the grand total for your wedding? Your wedding was very tasteful I just like to gage this sort of thing
She replied in another comment that she will not be discussing finances of her wedding.
must be expensive then… since average is 30k it’s at least 50k.
Thanks so much. Im getting married December 2023 💛💛💛
Ahhh that’s so exciting! Enjoy every minute of it!
Love the video! Just wanted to let you know its a bit echoy😅❤❤
I think it’s because that area of the room is so empty 😂 this gives me motivation to furnish it!!!
I thought only Detroit had coneys. I learned something new today.
I just started watching…I hope the choosing of the f groom ends up being the smartest decision.
I'd love to see a budget break down. What you spent and where for the wedding.
As for flowers at a wedding…. If you get married around Easter and Christmas, the church is usually already decorated! Bonus!
That’s such a good tip!!!
Please please be careful discussing your allergens and how you treat them😩. Eating them can be soo dangerous and stating that can give people the false sense that because you survived others will. Allergies are still soo misunderstood and a lot of people don’t know about Epinephrine and how it can save lives. I encourage anyone who has read this comment to look up Red Sneakers For Oakley😭💕.
I would never eat or experiment with tree nuts, which causes me to go into anaphylactic shock. Of course you just have to know which kind of allergy you have - a stomachache from eating dairy if you’re lactose intolerant isn’t a huge deal, but anaphylaxis is!
@@ClancyBurkeX you had talked about cross contamination and even tho we are around the same age 😂 my mom heart dropped because in previous videos you talked about not carrying an EpiPen😭
As Clancy said, not all allergic reactions are at the same severity. If someone knows they go into anaphylactic shock after having something, then don’t be dumb and follow the advice of a UA-camr over your physician 🥴
Happy birthday
Happy birthday 🎂 to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday to Clancy, happy birthday to you 🎂 💖 😘 💗
People totally still use my favors 15 years later! We had custom shot glasses filled with jelly bellys.
I agree flowers are too expensive! I got married and only had a maid of honor! Small wedding! $40,000 or more for these weddings, I heard, is a nice down payment on a house!❤️😎🌞