These are the Beauty Products you will ALWAYS REGRET Buying
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- Опубліковано 12 чер 2024
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Sometimes when we shop we feel regret buying things soon after. This video is all about my biggest wastes, product fails, and why! Trust me and save your money. I'm looking at beauty tools, hair, and makeup products I thought I wanted. You will always regret it when you buy something you know you will never use.
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0:00-1:11 Introduction
1:11-1:38 The video that inspired me!
1:38-3:58 Makeup colors that don't suit you
3:58-5:54 DISCOUNT CODE for City Beauty!
5:54-8:30 Hairstyling tools with limited use
8:30-10:12 Buying products for your "Dream Personality"
10:12-12:31 Buying the wrong products for your features
12:31-13:58 Skincare tools that don't suit your lifestyle
13:58-14:31 Help Me!
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What products have you purchased that you regretted later? Have you ever shopped for a "Fantasy Version" of yourself?
Here is a link to Christina's Mycha's video that inspired this video:
These are the clothes you will always regret buying: ua-cam.com/video/XW2GnxKnue4/v-deo.htmlsi=zWZ_7kddb5qIuP_Z
As I have gotten older I shop less for the fantasy self and more for the true self. I wish I had come to that point a lot earlier in life!
Yes absolutely! I’m getting to that point now too. I’m especially bad with clothes. I have so many fancy outfits and absolutely nowhere to wear any of it.
Same!
If I only had the money I spent on “fantasy self”. Well said!
Yes...fantasy self. Clothes, hair, makeup. I now wear mostly just mascara, blush, and of course sunscreen. It's so hard, especially this time of year when all the sparkly clothing is out. But I ask myself " where are you going to wear that?" And I pass on them even though it's sooooo pretty
I’m the same, way less fantasy, always go back to what always looks good. Try to stay away from super trendy stuff. Clean and natural makeup, less looks a whole lot better on my less than perfect 57 year old skin. Love your videos.
I had to face reality: I'm 52 & have lived a life of alcohol abuse, gained a ton of weight. I'm sober now for 12 years, lost a lot of weight & my skin is dehydrated & beginning to sag. I've followed recommendations that benefit my skin. I appreciate all your recommendations!
For me. I aged and was so lost because nothing worked anymore. I was so lost and started watching make up videos. Still learning. It’s like starting all over again learning how to apply makeup. Frustrating because I have always loved makeup but it is so different when you have wrinkles. 💕
During the pandemic I began watching UA-cam beauty tutorials. I started to believe that I needed the luxury makeup “because I am worth it”. So many foundation regrets. So many eyeshadow palette regrets. So many! I now am over it and talked myself out of impulse buying. Especially sales. I would put stuff in my Sephora cart and eventually would talk myself out of them. “Do I need it? Do I have something similar already? (I bought 3 eyeshadow palettes in 2022 that are essentially the same color story 🤦🏻♀️). If I have a favorite now, why try something new unless you are running out of that favorite? “ I had many foundations that were half full just due to curiosity not need”. Over it! But I do love application techniques so I can best use what I have.
The comment that you made about shopping for the fantasy version of myself resonates so much with me. I have done that for years with clothes and makeup and end up donating the stuff or giving it away. I realized that the problem was that I didn't accept the me that I am now. I am still working on loving me and oftentimes that isn't easy when I see myself in the mirror. I don't want to waste the little time I have left on life hoping to look like someone else and not appreciating and loving the person I am. It's a daily struggle.
I'm sorry that you're facing that struggle, it's all too common for women especially as we age. When you look in the mirror next, pick one thing you like and say it out loud! You are beautiful!
Not a fantasy self, but I purchase makeup/skincare for a much younger self. There are so few celebrities or YTbers in 65-75 year old range with grey hair for inspiration.
You’re always so on the mark, Gabi! I have to admit I’m still shopping for my nebulous “fantasy self” - and I’m 74! 🤣 Thank you for your thoughtful and informative videos. Love them ❤
YOU GO GIRL!!!
I think we've all purchased something that didn't work out because I did exactly what you said... my coloring is nothing like Kim K's so when I don't end up looking all smoky & sexy, stuff sits in the drawer. And like you, I've recently begun purging products galore because I'm happier with less items. I'm up at 5am, I don't want to have to decide on which foundation, which powder, which blush will work best that day. I put the items that are working at this particular time of my life in a small makeup bag and use 'em every single day. The only decision I want to make in the morning is should I have a nude lip or a pink lip? That's IT. Then I'm out the door and punching into work by 630am. Done. Easy... just the way I like it!!
I just returned from Belgium (I went for the Christmas markets & loved it). I noticed many of the women there do their makeup very French- clean good skin, subtle but nicely placed eyeshadows, and simple lips. I was struck by how polished they looked. and how young. Even older gals like myself looked polished and not overdone.I realized a lot of this buying we do is driven by the crazy world of influencers and "Black Friday or Sephora sales". I have narrowed down my content creators to people like you- real, honest, and promote the best in us- not the best products or reviews that will get them more samples etc. and you know what? I am buying less and loving what I have even more. GREAT video.
Love this comment. Agree!
Yup! Especially hair products...hair product cemetery is in my bathroom. I appreciate your kindness in talking to us about this, no judgement, only heartfelt pieces of advice! Thank you!
Hairstylist cemetery!! Lol!!! Yes! Perfectly said. You should see my shower….why? Why do I have like 6 shampoo options?!? Also, thank you for such kind words. It truly means the world to me.
I love your videos and you are spot on. I recently turned 75 but still look and feel much younger. I have spent so much money since I began watching this type video and regret so much of it. It doesn't help that I am so unhappy with my life. I also suffer from depression and have most of my adult life. I will do no more impulse buying from now on. Most of the eyeshadow I have purchased this year works for me thankfully. Merry Christmas to all of you that watch these videos and read the comments. Thank you Gabi for your wit and wisdom.
OMG!! I've been on Fantasy Island . . . FOREVER! I have so much crap I could have a beatuy garage sale! Thank you for this video 😊
You are so welcome! And I feel you. I’m the same way. It’s actually outrageous.
I no longer shop for the "fantasy me". And unfortunately, menopause and severe skin issues make wearing makeup a challenge. But i do enjoy watching your vids and contemplating your wisdom ~ Thank you, Gabi! 🙇♀️
Same problem here. In one year my face, eyelids change drastically. I'm still trying to accept it.
By the way, I used to love shimmer and glitter.
I was purchasing most products from an influencer and found myself only wearing it once and moved onto the next person. Did I I tell you that I’m 79 years young? I’m totally out of that mindset and wear simple easy to use makeup that works for my Nordic skin. What a waste of money and time. Although, I have plenty of time but not the $$$$$$. Thanks for reminding your followers of that.
Thank you for breaking down this topic and providing great advice. I am not a fantasy seeker, but can see how that can influence shopping. As a 56 year old woman, most celebrities have work done on their faces, so I try not to compare as I know that it’s a losing battle. 😂 You give fabulous tips to help make informed decisions. Thanks Gabi.
Lifestyle is key! I am casual and daily foundation, shadow, brow treatment, lip stick, and mascara are not for me. When I dress up occasionally, certainly. But most of the time I concentrate on skin care, light blush, etc.
Love your videos! This is a great perspective/filter to have - I have a PILE of trendy beauty items that I bought for the "fantasy" and not what fits me. This mental adjustment will totally help me declutter without guilt or question. Thank you!
Yes!! I found it so helpful when Christina said that in her video. It was very eye opening actually because I do the exact same thing!
I don't necessarily buy due to a fantasy version, but as I grew older and turned to influencers to find products that would work for the "changing me", I constantly made the mistake of thinking what worked for her will work for me. 😏
Not so! Drawers full of fails. I'm now super careful; just because this lovely mature woman says this new holy grail foundation won't pill, or settle into her wrinkles or whatever, doesn't mean it will perform that way on my skin! 😉
Same!!!! 💯
Me too. I have done this so many times. I pass stuff along to my granddaughter and daughter.
Yes I’m guilty of buying for a fantasy self. Trying really hard to it the pause button and think through my purchases!
I am the epitome and Queen of "The Fantasy Self." I've definitely got better as I've got older, but I'm still a work in progress. It goes across the board: hair, skin, makeup, anything beauty related, clothes, shoes, jewelry, electronics and appliances, kitchen gadgets, furniture, bedding, decor! You name it! I see someone online have it, I like it, run and buy it; but the low key me uses it maybe once, if ever! I have a huge house filled with all of this "stuff", when in fact, I could easily live in a studio apt or tiny house in the Country without any of it! I'm an EXTREMELY natural & low maintenance person, but my house tells a completely different story and it looks as if I'd be high maintenance! I'm just glad I'm not alone in this, whew! Thanks for sharing, Happy Holidays, cheers! 😘
Do you ever want to just donate and start fresh with less? I always have this feeling that I should declutter and live in a more minimalist way but it’s just so hard to do that.
Gabi, thanks for the tips and the great advise! I'm older (70), so I have committed all these offenses! But I learned over the years, and love that you are saving people the time, heartache, and money that it took me to learn these! Keep these great vids coming! Happy Holidays!
Hi Gabi, I do not shop for a fantasy me regarding color. I will buy products that are advertised to help with aging skin. I am 61 and try hard to fend off the obvious signs of aging while embracing the changes to my skin. I love the help that you offer and the obvious concern that you put into your posts. Thank you. Dee
This video was so on target--I just had a color analysis and did a makeup declutter. As a "True Summer" I had lots of warm eyeshadow colors. It has been a transition, however, nude lipstick NEVER looks good on me. No pink nudes--I need bright pink! Yes, I make up shop for the Fantasy Version of myself. Thank you so much!
Love this video. So needed this reminder with all the end of year sales
It's so hard sometimes to remind yourself you don't need it all!
I loved your final survey question. My answer is how I found your channel and enjoy learning from your content greatly. I shop for makeup the way I always have. So I I guess that could be a fantasy version of me. I shop for makeup the way I have since I was in my 20's or 30's. I wear my makeup the same and have wondered since my late 40's and early 50's why it just doesnt look right anymore. It accentuates my aging instead of helping. When I was younger make up was always for 'decoration' let's say. But after watching you makeup is more about making the best of what I have and where I am at. Thank you so much for helping me solve these mysteries.
I adore you! I’m one of your more mature followers and the hair and makeup vids of women over 50, awesome! Thank you for caring! Happy Holidays and Merry Christmas!🎄🎁 ❤
Aaaaw you're so sweet. There are lots of mature makeup tutorials coming out in the New Year so stay tuned for that. I appreciate your support!
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Oh my gosh! I was just talking about city lips with a friend of mine. This is my holy grail. I'm almost out. I've been scraping the barrel out.
This video definitely shared some wisdom. Before investing in a tool that requires daily commitment it is sometimes difficult to realize that you are focusing on who you idealizing yourself to be. Maybe in reality you aren't dedicated or just will not have the time based on other priorities to daily use a product. / tool. It seems obvious but it is so easy to buy that tool thinking that just having the tool fixes the problem - when only daily dedication will fix the problem.
That was the perfect description, buying for your fantasy self, never thought of that, very clever. I’ve been more mindful recently, because I realized that I wasn’t looking the way I wanted to. I found myself buying them because of the hype from YT videos, everything shadows, lip products, mascara, powder, brushes, etc. Now I analyze and ask myself the questions before I purchase. Your video was great Gaby thank you so much!! ❤
You’re beautiful, you were fortunate to came across someone that appreciated your style 😊😊
This is such a great video, Gabi!! I love how you gave a shout out to who/what inspired you.
You’re always so on point! ❤ Thanks so much for sharing.
You are so welcome! Thank you for taking the time to comment. I think it’s super important that we give credit to the artists/creators that started an idea or trend and I just found Christina’s video to be so amazing.
Definitely one of my favorite videos! This is sooo me! Thanks, makes me feel better that everyone does this. Love u!
You're so welcome!
Gabby thank you for another great video! I just turned 60 and over the last year stopped covering my roots with my lifelong brown. Now that i am grey how do my makeup colors need to change? Do i have to redo my whole makeup drawer? How do i play up my new look?
This was a great post. Great advice that was thoughtfully presented!
Thank you for the terrific advice that will save me money and prevent me from unnecessary landfill deposits. I’ll have to rewatch this video and write each point down that applies to me and add them to my New Years goals.
You are speaking to me here!!! I have been thinking about this topic a lot lately and purging what really doesn’t fit my lifestyle. ❤
I'm so glad! It's so nice to start the new year fresh like that. I have to go through my kid's rooms. They have a CRAZY amount of clutter.
Wow, this was right on. I love makeup, but a 61yo grandma, does not go with the trends of today. If I were younger, I totally would be all over it. Thank you for the honesty.
thanks, I needed this talk more than anyone will ever know💖💝💘💞
Thank you very much for this video. I have absolutely been shopping for my 'fantasy self'. 😮
I think this video spoke to me the most. Yes I shop for a version I want to be, but sadly I am not that 30 year old anymore I’m pushing 60 and you have helped me so much❤ thank you
Thanks for sharing! That is such a sweet message. I’m happy to know that it was helpful for you!
This one was an eye opener Gabi. Thank you so much 😉😉
Hi Gabi. Yes I have shopped for my fantasy self, but with what I am learning in your videos I am getting better at shopping for what will actually work for me. Thank you very much for this video too!
You are so welcome! I’m so happy to hear that you found this one helpful.
Gabby, I'm loving your earrings!! 😍😊
I think that I am mainly buying for the real me. I have definitely still bought things that just don't work. Great video, Gabi!
I'm a beginner with makeup and have been trying to get the right stuff, but I am still doing trials for clean makeup products. love all the topics you do.
You are so on point and funny! To answer your question when I was younger yes I bought products that were more trendy, not so. much opposite of myself and yes they sat in a draw! Now that am older I need to be careful not to buy products too young for me or products that claim to reverse the aging process. Your channel really really helps me with this! By the way you do you at the bus stop!
I’m definitely guilty of this. Great video! Thanks for keeping it real.
Personally, celebrities are the LAST people I look to for inspiration. I know the colors that suit me, and create my own looks.
I love that!
You give the best advice ❤
Omg how many useless hair tools have I bought 😮which are still in my cupboard!! Hubby doesn't know😉 great video Gabi 🤩, I turn to you for the make up tips ,!!!
To answer your question, sometimes. Sometimes I forget how old I am (51) and look for very cute dark purple or dark red brown lipsticks only to look like a Nosferatu when I put it on. I have full lips and I like the idea of dark sophisticated lipstick but sadly at my age usually it doesn't look good anymore. Also, sparkly eyeshadows or eyeshadows in most colors other than neutral. I am sad I didn't play with make up when I was younger, now it's much more difficult to look good with anything other than neutral colors.
Hey Gabi! Newer viewer, and I've been really into makeup and beauty for a year now, now at age 33! I think because I started really getting into it so "late" I never had a fantasy look for myself, I already was minimalist with makeup before (just mascara, eyeliner and brows) but now I take care of my look more. I love skin tints and lippies!
I love that you’re enjoying makeup and taking the time for yourself! I love skin tints too. Which one is your favourite?
I love all your advice!
Thanks for the comment! It means a lot.
When I was in my 20’s I used to do that, shopping for my fantasy self. As older I get, not so much. I liked your video but make me happy to find out I’m well committed with my hair tools and skin care routine. No regrets here.
I think my biggest issue is finding makeup that suits my 67 year old self - my skin is also combination - where I can still break out on my chin but my lips and under eyes are as dry as the Sahara desert. I often don’t wear foundation - I generally wear mineral tinted SPFs. It seems to work best. Love your channel - you’re so down to earth, honest, funny and kind. And a natural beauty. ❤
This is my issue also, combo skin, yet all Foundation/ makeup labelled for mature skin, auto means dry skin! Not all mature women have dry skin, ugh!
@@MyCrownstar Sooo true!
Thank goodness for another discount code from City Beauty Gabi. I atarted purchasing from them because of you. Thanks Gabi.❤❤❤
Fabulous video! ❤
Thank you!! 💕
Great video! really helpful thank you
You're welcome. Thanks for watching!
Omg. Fantasy self 😂 loved that.
100% shop for Fantasy Me. Thanks for giving me the language and awareness to get that straight. Love your videos!
Thank you Gabi for a great video. I like products that work for me. I try to be true to myself and what I can afford. Merry Christmas 🎄 my friend!
Same to you! Merry Christmas Karen!
Great video, Gabi, especially the fantasy self product purchases. Mine is red lipstick. After watching videos during the pandemic, I was convinced I could pull off a red lip. Um...nope. Now there are 10 tubes moldering away in my drawer. Live and learn!
Yes! I’ve spent a lot of money shopping for my fantasy self….especially clothing! My makeup is also very glam too….i need to try to buy clothes and makeup for everyday. I’m trying! Lol
I’m most definitely shopping for my fantasy self.😅 that was enlightening!
I hear you, great advice, thank you. My bathroom cupboard is now only half full 😁 Like yourself, I gave as much away as possible, threw away out-dated stuff and refused for six months to buy any nrw type or brand if I already had one. Liberation! 😅
Wonderful!
Another great video! I love your earrings! Can you tell me where you bought them?
Love this video. Can you do a tutorial for over-50 blue eyes polished look?
Thanks Gabi, I am growing out my layers & going for the blunt bob on my fine hair. As for makeup, I got rid of some palettes & lipsticks. If felt good to simplify my make up to a couple of small palettes & I love a good stick eyeshadow because they don’t take up alot of room & are easy to travel with. My favorite mascara has been the volumizing one from Well People which is available through Ulta or Target. Thanks as always for your information. 😊
You Gabi are just too darn smart!! ☺I have an eye shadow palette that I have used like twice. Yup, I'm looking at most of the shades in it and thinking......what Was I Thinking?? I think I'm going to give it to my granddaughter to "play" with. I'm sure she would have better success than I. Thanks for the fabulous video Love it!
I just discovered YT beauty channels in 2016 and was hooked 🙄. The last few years has become about buying less, what I KNOW I will use and only restocking staples. I've given away so much product & continue to; I only want what I KNOW I wear regularly ✌🏾😉
You will help so many with this topic! Now at 66, I'm FINALLY GETTING AWAY FROM EXCESSIVE BUYING. It's taken a very long time, and I rely on (financial expert Suzie...... 🤦) advice:. DO I WANT IT, OR DO I NEED IT....... always sets me straight. 🙋🎄✌️
Yes, I probably hope to create a fantasy version of myself. That's the fun of makeup. However, I am mature and have learned over the years to not follow the trends so much. Also, good products are an investment that usually pay off. Thank you for asking such a great question! I enjoy your videos!
Bonjour Gabi et merci pour tous ces conseils
You’re welcome! Thanks for watching! Xox
I did of course at one point when I was way younger, thank goodness now I know better. Lol 😂 thanks for the video, it was great!
You Gabi! You’re my fantasy person! 😍
You are too sweet!! ❤
love those earrings.
Thanks for your videos! I'm not guilty of shopping for my "fantasy self" but what I am guilty of sometimes is buying on impulse, like retail therapy when I'm feeling down. One question - what's your favourite lip gloss, but WITHOUT the plumping effect. I seriously can't stand any fragrance or that tingling thing from the peppermint oil or whatever - that's a huge NO!
Sometimes yes
Love the storage cabinet on your counter, where did you find it?
Oh it’s just from Amazon. My mom got it for me. It’s so cute right?
I regret buying Pillow Talk! Blush, eyeshadow, lipstick and liner! In fact any CT lipstick!
OMG YES!!!! I think about this ALL the time. I look at results for women who are far younger than me and then I purchase. I am soooo wrong I know it...but I keep thinking one of them surely will work. I guess I am the perfect target. I am a skin care junkie and try it all. LOL. So I totally fit in that category. UGH!!!!
I 100% shot for my fantasy self as well as my younger self. This was great thank you for this.
I use a Matt foundation with a slightly glow primer and it looks amazing and my skin looks healthy not oily. Dior Matt with CT Wonder glow underneath.
Gabi, I must admit that depending on the product, I'm still a work in progress on buying for my "fantasy version" but great content like this helps to keep my impulse buying for the wrong version of myself in check😘
Thanks for sharing Deannah! I am VERY bad for fantasy self purchases with clothing. If you look at my wardrobe, it looks like I live the world's most exciting life and yet, I rarely go anywhere and just spend all my time making videos or with my kids LOL
I hear ya
Thank you, Gabi! I always try to purchase products that look best with my hair color and skin type. My hair is the same color as yours and I have combination skin. I have purchased a few things that really didn't work for me after watching a UA-cam video. Big mistake. lol
Often, it starts with my fantasy self, and then I realize what I am doing and I don't end up buying it (but sometimes I still do)❤
Gabi I I recently found you, I think you are so awesome and beautiful! I love your content , I am a 60 yr old and so happy that you feature us mature women! I have yet to find my foundation color so I have a drawer full, I m not fortunate enough to have a store close by to have a consultation on that, any advice? I would say I am a light to med. neutral to warm, Brown eyes, use to be dark brown hair but went semi blonde to disguise my grey, and was too harsh on me now at this age. I really don’t use foundation but prefer the skin tints but still is such an ordeal finding the right shade. lol thank you! I am so inspired by your content! Happy Holidays!
Sorry. I had to use Google translateled. 😁. I understand English perfectly, but I don't write it well. The subject of your video has a lot to do with me, but I think I'm someone who really likes to live my fantasy world. Especially when I don't work (nursing). I wear sophisticated clothes even just to walk around the block 🤗. I made me up like I was going out at night 🤣. Sometimes I feel the stares (I'm Brazilian, but I live in Denmark). Here in Denmark people are very minimalist 🤗. I'm 53 years old and I accept myself as I am. I love my fantasy world, but we definitely have to be a little realistic and try to curb excess unnecessary purchases. After all, not everyone has so many square meters for so many things 🤣. Merry Christmas to you and your family. Kisses 😘
Christina is amazing love her content…
Her content is so amazing! She’s also Canadian and lives so close to me! I had no idea!
Definitely shopping for a fantasy version of myself.
Yes I do/did and have to hold back buying for my fantasy self and it’s ridiculous. 🤦🏻♀️ 🤡😂😅😵💫💀 Loved this video!!! I’ll have to def check out the vid you mentioned because I need that one too. I need a major purge 😅Thanks! I love your leather jacket!!! It’s so hard to find a nice one! ❤❤
I had a waver once and got rid of it eventually. I bought it because a cute blonde with long hair at my work had waved her hair and it looked fabulous. It was a lot of work and wasn’t really for me. Also I’m a low maintenance person and don’t like to fool much with hot tools. If I curl my hair I put it in rollers and dry it or sleep on it.
Gosh that’s a tough question to answer. Maybe, sometimes!😅
Haven't we all? Lol!
I love your videos thank u🥰 I have trouble with clothes I went to school in uniforms and worked in uniforms. I am 72 don’t know how to dress to look updated and fun. Please give some advice 🙏
As a 54 year old woman who hasn't worn much make up through out my life and have finally started, this video is very insightful! I frequently shop for my fantasy self..much to my dismay.
I recently got the Marilyn Monroe PR Box from Wet n Wild. I absolutely love it and would highly recommend it. The make up lasts all day on my skin and makes me feel a bit glamorous. It works on my fair skin tone. The illuminator is fabulous. The red lip liner, lipstick and gloss are so pretty. Now that my hair is white silver the red is really working for me.
I didn’t even know they had a Marilyn Monroe collection! That is so cool. And yes - red lipstick is SUCH a classic and elegant beauty look. I absolutely love it on women with white hair.
I'm too mature now for dress ups in makeup 😂 and I think its fun if you're a teen or going to a music festival 😂
Loved this video Merry Christmas 🎄 from Down Under New Zealand xx
I do shop for a "fantasy self" which happens to be ME before menopause. I used to be in the cosmetics industry & pretty proficient. Now at 62, I know the old way doesn't work, but sadly the age appropriate modifications don't work either. I'm in NowhereLand with my makeup and never feel attractive anymore!