Hi my amazing fam bam. So a SUPER HONEST video today where I share 10 Expensive Luxury Items I REGRET Buying and Why! I share items from Hermes, Chanel, Louis Vuitton and Cartier that if I could go back in time I would not buy again. Are you guilty like me? 😂 However on a positive note I do explain what I would have bought instead, and I’m so excited to share about the new jewelry company I LOVE. Let me know one of your luxury regrets below and let’s learn together xx Mel My Favourites: bit.ly/shopwithMIM (Update 2024) Use MIM15 for an EXTRA 15% OFF sitewide at Gingiberi
Im sorry to say it. I love bags too. I owned some bags and skarfs designer. I solgt it! Because, Honestly we cant use it all. Jewelries much better buy real gold.
It is so funny that when Coco Chanel produced costume jewellery in the beginning, she said it was for people spending less but still being elegant. It is so ridiculous now when Chanel costume jewellery is much more expensive than fine jewellery.
Spending $20,000 on a handbag is the obvious choice versus spending $200 on a *esluxscom* bag and investing the remaining $19,800, since a $20,000 bag is unlikely to increase in value.
Love the*preluxz* , will be taking it to go to work. I love all the ability to organize everything w pockets some w zippers. My first bag had the liner rip. They replaced it faster than I could ship return. Thank you!
Mel, 100% not my business, but SELL the stuff, or give it away or whatever. You're burdening yourself with reminders of mistakes. You have a huge collection of luxury items from what I can tell. Why add to it with things you consider to be failures? Just let it go. You'll feel lighter, have less regrets, and even get some of your money back. Keeping what literally makes you feel poorly is just doubling down on regret.
I’ve always felt that Chanel is regrettable. Of all the luxury brands, in my opinion, Chanel is a “luxury brand” but NOT a *quality brand*. Especially their regular (fashion) jewelry - priced like real gold, but the fake pearls and crystals are just glued, not set, so they always fall out no matter how carefully you baby it. So I’ve completely kicked Chanel outta my closet! 😏 Real Pearls aren’t even very expensive now - so Chanel could very easily make the same pieces out of vermeil (at least!) and real pearls. I feel like such a sucker.
I purchased a barely used Coach Willow tote for $219 in Black pebbled leather and it looks soooo money and I wear it everyday and it still looks brand new 1.5 later. The quality is there, the price point is luxe enough It’s timeless and I will have it for at least a decade.
Bags in*preluxz* are quite exquisite, and the workmanship is also meticulous. There is almost no difference from the original ones, and they are great value!
I would never spend thousands on a bag ever again! I’ve only owned a Gucci Dionysus, Ysl medium Loulou, LV speedy and a Versace Virtus tote and I’ve sold 2 and trying to get rid of the other 2. Idc about the brand no bag is worth that kinda money✌🏽
Sooo informative❤ but instead of regreting my silly purchases,I give them away ,as pre loved items and seeing the smile on those people surely pays for the money I lost😊❤❤❤❤❤
The idea that we all have accepted that it is ok to carry our Hermes bags wide open is frankly disturbing! I have stopped carrying my H bags because I’m stressed about this ! A 20k bag that you leave open in public because it’s complicated to get in and out of is too stressful!
I went in to Cartier to buy a Love ring and after walking around the store and seeing how many people were purchasing it/wearing it I changed my mind and got the trinity ring, large model. No regrets, that being my first Cartier piece.
4000$ for the Kelly wallet. I almost fell off my chair hahaha I am French myself but those French brand are really doing a crazy number with their prices these days!!!
Hi! My biggest mistake was buying a LV Speedy 30 Classic. I'm a top handle girl and that part is ok, but the bag is much bigger than I thought. I also thought the bag could be cross body if I added a strap, and wow, it's huge on my hips like small luggage. So, I don't wear it. I bought the 25 and it's too small for my use. So..mistakes. Great video. Loved the info. Learning a lot. 💯🤍
I've been watching you for several years now and always loved your lovely and carefree personality, as well as your candidness. I have never liked luxury stuff, even if I could afford them I wouldn't buy because I think they're overpriced and over the top, but you're so fun to watch! Love that you're starting to realize that some things are just not worth it, and that you're learning from experience. Always appreciate your honesty. ❤ from Manila 😊
I totally agree with so many of them!! Particularly speaking to me are the custom jewelleries (glad I stopped that really early on), LV holiday edition (I literally had the same realisation this year! And stopped myself from buying again!), logo scarves, and pretty but uncomfortable shoes from lux brands.
I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one lol The LV holiday animations are just so darn cute but yes we don't need anymore. Glad you realised the costume jewelry earlier on...very smart! I'm actually really enjoying exploring other gemstones and cultured pearls nowadays. Thanks so much for commenting and watching lovely xx
I appreciate your honesty! I do love my Cartier love bracelet; I understand it will scratch but that’s the beauty of it.. the scratches mean you are wearing it n enjoying it. I agree on the other purchases like the LV. Bags.
Interesting video but how anyone earns so much that they can spend tens of thousands on designer stuff is beyond me… I am 62, have a good job and own exactly two (2) vintage Chanel bags 🤣
I’ve started wearing pearl jewelry, but my favorite ones are mabe pearls. In the Princess of Wales (Catherine) tour in Germany several years ago, when she was with her kids, she wore a mabe pearl necklace she’d had made for her. It was a waterfall design and I think it had about 5 mabe pearls…gorgeous!
Mel a good seamstress could make your balmain work for you. It may have generous seams that coiled be let out or a grosgrain ribbon could be added to side seams for some additional room❤
Designer costume jewellery is the BIGGEST ripoff....anyone who works in the jewellery trade knows this. It's quite shocking that it took you this long to realise this Mel...but well - better late than never!
What can I say.... I was a sucker for their designs as some are really pretty 😂 The obsession started in my 20's and I don't regret my vintage ones, the quality of those even after 20-30 years has never been an issue. However yes you are right....all designer costume jewelry even fine jewelry you are paying for the "name". I'm exploring other gemstones from boutique/local jewellers now, do you have a favourite stone you recommend that you think is underrated? x
@@MelinMelbourne Hi Mel, i collect demantoids, black opals and other rare coloured precious stones that fly under the radar but are appreciating in value as they gain more global awareness. Get them straight from reputable gem suppliers and get a good craftsman to set them in any design you like - you will shocked at how much money you save once u cut out the retailers! AND you'll have a one of a kind piece no one else in the world owns!
Hi! Greetings from Portugal, just came across your channel with this video and can relate sooooo well to two things you mentioned. 1 - how our body changes after 40. I'm actually planning content on this because it's always so hush hush and we need to speak up! 2 - heels and comfort. I hear ya. Closet full of Louboutins that simply won't take me further than 10 steps. At most. Thanks for this video!
I think I've made almost every mistake that you mentioned. I purged my closet, and have a few more designer items to consign. I'm only investing in classic quality pieces, whether it is jewelry, shoes, clothing etc. I really enjoyed your video!
Aloha from Honolulu, Mel. I LOVE it that you come to Oahu to shop, and that you film your trip live from here, and I also enjoy that your Hubby is now doing part of the video too! I hope one day he will show his face as he has a very nice and calming voice, and I would LOVE to see that face to that voice! My worst luxury purchase was buying a rather large patent leather nude color Valentino bag. Granted is around 10 years old but when I opened the dust bag a few days ago, I was shocked that the color turned to pucky mustard color with dark ugly blotches, and the bag was sticky too! UGH! I must remember that buying an expensive patent leather bag is not ideal in our hot, humid climate!
I love these type of videos! So helpful! Don't worry Mel we have all been there. I have bought lots of designer costume jewerly as well and the diamantés or pearls have fallen off. Plus they wanted to charge me a fee to replace it. Agree Chanel quality has gone downhill, no more for me! Thanks for the info about the pearls, I had no idea about the difference between fresh and salt water ones. Ii'll definitely check them out as I love pearls too. Also bought a gucci balenciaga bag which i hate now. We need a part 2!
Vintage Chanel earrings have such an elegant charm compared to the new ones, which seem cheap. Your 2019 video helped me discover those heart pearl earrings, and thanks to you, my friend in Sydney managed to get them for me, shipping them to the USA. They're still a cherished possession!
You know my wardrobe! ❤ Yes it would look so pretty with those dresses. It’s definitely a beautiful bag but I just love my other ones a lot more for some reason Xx
Chanel costume jewelry designs are very pretty and cool. So once in a while I'll buy it and/or Dior, but Chanel costume jewelry does makes a big statement. So I understand why u like them.❤
Hi Mel love your video, I have bought lots of fine jewels when i was younger especially those with tinny diamonds but as I get older i feel like is stupid, honestly it will be better to buy gold. And for the heels that are too high, you can consider to bring them to cobbler to get them cut a bit shorter, I did this recently
At least there is still some resale value on these items! But girl that first little pink chanel bag is still soooooo cute!! Id happily jingle jangle everywhere with that thing!
Thank you for the new informations about the natural sea pearls. I live in Bali, and on the next island called LOMBOK, they are famous with the natural sea pearls. I bought Triple A Pearl Earrings (similar with DIOR style, but with real Pearls!). I know its not branded, but I am very proud to choose natural real pearls rather than fake pearls :). I wore it a few times, but sometimes it feels too mature and formal for my 30s age I even bought the same pearls classic all around necklace
Oh wow - those convertible Gingiberi pearl chain earrings are absolutely stunning, beautiful designer, thanks for the tip!! LOVE the convertible aspect - gorgeous!! OMG the Ash-colored Akoya Pearls are AMAZING!!! 😍😍
Great video Mel! Thanks. Another problem I see is people who wear lots of those things are walking billboard ads. The real rich people I know are not so ostentatious. These people show their wealth in their character and their humbleness.
I still love my LV reverse monogram LYXBAGS clutch! It's versatile, fits a variety of items, and is definitely a workhorse! I think seeing it everywhere (like the LV speedy) is proof that it's already a classic.
These items are not “investments”. They are items you should purchase if they give you joy and you will use. Think a long time before actually buying. Great video. Lots of fun. 😃
Thank you so much for sharing, Mel! I love these kinds of videos as they give us a different perspective with a more resound mind. 😅 We all can learn and be more mindful.
I’m so glad you enjoyed it lovely! Sharing my mistakes and knowing it helps you guys makes it so worthwhile. Let me know what other types of content you would find helpful Xx
Hi Mel, you are totally on point with the costume jewelry I have couple of channel earrings and wont add anymore. The faux pearl glass bracelet i had was lovely until the string suddenly broke. Btw, if you decide to do a closet cleanout sale, im interested to see it. Thanks again
Yes they are really lovely, I just wished the quality was better. Luckily you only bought a couple unlike me 😂 I’ve had issues with backings falling off and I’ve actually lost earrings as a result and now I’m only left with a single earring even though i only wore them a couple of times. A couple of pearls fell off too but they did fix this but still a hassle. Oh I really do need to do a vlog sale soon I’m so bad at letting things go, was there anything in particular you would like to see included? Xx
I think the only luxury mistake I made was when I was really excited to buy one watch and it became unavailable so I settled on a different one. I still like the one I bought but it's much more formal than what I like to wear. It's not worth settling at these prices. I still wear the watch and it looks great when I do, very classy and always appropriate for just about any outfit, but when I wear a pilots watch or something with more bling It just makes me excited
Ｉfeel so, so lucky to have stumbled upon your video, Mel. Thank you for featuring Gingiberi. I did not even know about this company, in the same country I live in. I have had a look at their website, and fell in love with everything they have.
I love watching lux vids knowing I cannot purchase anything (yet!) and I learn so much about thoughtful purchasing from videos like these. Knowing that Cartier Love scratches is such a huge help because I would totally scratch it from frequent use hahahhaha.
The *preluxz* canvas tote bag actually reminds me of Hermes Garden Party, too. Thanks for making this video on suggesting more budget friendly alternatives. Love it!
So excited to watch. Haha, heard your hubby said take it off, yes, logo scarfs and costumes jewelry pieces. The earrings and necklace from gingiberi are so pretty. I love mikimoto pearl jewelry. Good to know the alternatives brand. I stopped to collect Louis Vuitton animation collection few years ago. Awesome video Mel💕
Yup he is not a fan of anything too logo-y 😂 and will be very vocal about it….he makes me laugh though. I love mikimoto and paspley too but I think if I was to get anything from those brands I would want something that is more unique. They have sone stunning designs I love too! However I was honestly impressed with the Gingiberi ones. I’ve been really enjoying them especially the akoya pearl range. Such great prices and the lustre is better than the Tiffany pearls I own which I totally forgot to show. Def check them out and well done on stopping earlier on regarding the Lv animation collection, I should of stopped earlier too 😂 Xx
Hi, loved the video and I concur with it. My regrettable luxury items - Jimmy Choo 5 inch sandal, I wore them once and I was practically crawling. Paid $900 and then sold them at consignment & probably 100. Same thing happened with 5 inch Stuart Weiztman, never again. Now I buy the shorter heel. I bought an LV passport holder. I regret that purchase. I monogrammed it which makes it difficult to sell. Custom jewelry- Dior tribal earrings- have 5 of those but I wear them a lot. No more custom jewelry.
I don’t understand why everyone want a Love by Cartier. They are done only by machines. In the same price range you could buy some really great pieces by a traditional jeweller.
Of all the things, the only thing I like is the light blue wallet. It's pretty and one won't see it on everyone. It's worth buying the strap for it and turning it into a little bag. The jewelry can go and the money from it can be used toward the eventual purchase of one piece of fine jewelry.
Luxury shopping in South Korea is like a barnyard experience, especially in Seoul. Lines, SAs tailing your, stores are in almost every mall, at the airport, even at the hotel I stayed at. You can even see the fashion areas lined with carts with FAKE products. It really has turned me off of luxury products, and probably for a while. Thanks for your videos throughout the years, I do alot of research and usually know what I want at the store, and dont really like the fake suck up experience or even the judgemental up and down glance from SAs. I learned alot from your channel.
Hi Cynthia, don’t worry I think we are all guilty of making some bad purchases, especially me! 😂 I’m so glad you loved this video and do let me know what other type of videos you would find helpful Xx
I love your energy it's so happy and fun to watch. That medium classic Chanel bag you showed at the end looked more like a pearl than a metallic finish on camera which I found interesting since you dedicated a good portion of your this show to pearls, but as you said fake pearl isnt like real pearls 😅. The buy on sale but its too small but so cute skirt is a tempting lure to fall into. The skirt is way cute and has pockets too, so I get why you were tempted. I agree about buying slightly roomier, clothes look nicer and I can aways get the waist taken in if I need to but it isn't ever flattering if it's too tight across certain areas. 😉
I would love a vlog sale, we know you rarely sell your items. Thanks for sharing really enjoyed this video and good timing as I was so tempted to get another LV animation too 😂
Silver or anything metallic is on trend right now. Keep the silver Chanel. It’s GORGEOUS! I think metallics, much like the leopard print can be considered “ neutrals “
I can't even believe the Cartier Love bracelet isn't even solid gold for the price they charge. I've wanted it but after the gross price increases, and it's not even solid gold, absolutely no way!
Cartier love bracelet is solid 18k gold which is softer. If it was 14k gold it might not scratch as much. The scratches are all a part of developing a patina, much as a wedding band does over time. All signs of love.. cheers 🥂
I’ve been wearing my love bracelet with 4 diamonds for 7 years now. I love it more and more with scratches. It adds classic look to it in my opinion. I own the pave one but I don’t wear that one because it looks just too much for me 😅. I totally agree with you on luxury costume jewelry tho 😂
Hey Dani, our family is super close so it was an easy decision on that part :) What I need to improve on is saying no to more items…..what can I say I’m a sucker for too many things 😂
I think that just shows how your taste change, I liked buying real pearls I just get fresh water pearls, I have one strand of M pearls, I just gave my mother a bunch of pearls, I have 1 pair of south sea pearl earrings, I love pearls
Agree with the Chanel costume jewellery. Definitely not worth it but what can I say, their designs are very pretty and I’m a sucker for them!! Also with the Cartier love, if I hadn’t bought my 4diamond >12years ago, I definitely wouldn’t be dropping 20k for a new one today - crazy prices! I paid almost half that amount. Pave versions now close to 80k cost of a luxury car 😂
I'm the biggest sucker of all lol I still love some of their costume jewellery designs but didn't need to buy so many each year for like 10+ years. I do still love the vintage ones though. I can't believe the 4 diamond love bangle is almost 20k now, you got yours for a "steal" then! I mean i paid about 14k and thought that was a lot. I think you have the thin pave one too right? Do you wear that one much? x
Im South Asian so when it comes to 'costume jewellery there is quite an abundance in our culture as we have a number of celebrations where jewellery complimenting our ethnic outfits is second by nature. I never understood 'designer costume jewellery' especially when the quality of gold is horrible. I started buying minimum 14kt gold - 24 kt gold pieces since college ( now im in my 30s) from highly respected and reputable jewellers. I could not afford high end designer goods but could afford quality gold pieces in the mid-late 2000s. Around that time an oz of gold was around $800--$12000...so not even an LV or chanel wallet....however those same gold pieces are now $2100. So to anyone reading this, struggling between purchasing designer goods..if you do not care for value, resale, or heirlooms there is an abundance of items. However if you do care about those main aspects do your due diligence because there could be some pieces that will be appreciated for generations.
Hi Mel, I love all your videos. Thank you for sharing your insights in all the luxury bags and jewelleries. I just purchased the Tassel Love's earrings and The Starry Night's pearl necklace. I have been sourcing for something similar and glad to receive the additional discount code from you. They are so lovely and I can't wait to receive them. Have a blessing week ahead. Many thanks.😊❤
I actually love your LV scarves. If you wear them wrapped around your neck, it’s not obvious. The colors of both scarves are beautiful and quite understated.
I honestly completely forgot that you had purchased the Chanel mini with the heart charms because it probably would’ve stopped me from buying mine in the white earlier this year because I don’t have any white bags and I thought it was so cute. But the heart charms just make so much noise when you walk around wearing her.
I finally pull the trigger on my longtime wishlist Pavé Love Bracelet in small and I absolutely love it! I also have one with 6 diamonds and love that one too. 😊 Pavé and non Pavé have different esthetics both of which I love
Hi Mel from Boston MA USA. For the “regret” items will you ultimately consign/sell them or do you keep them around? I have a few regret/mistake purchases and debating on whether to consign or keep.
Hi Ellen, about 4 years ago I had a vlog sale and did sell quite a few items. I’m terrible at letting things go 😅😂 but yes I do plan on selling some of things I don’t use from this video. I’ve had so many inquires already. In terms of your regrets, if you really don’t love them anymore you should consign them and put the money to something you love. You don’t have to sell them all in one go but start off with the obvious ones first Xx
Mel, an idea: buy small gold heart charms and have a jeweler remove the large hearts off the Chanel purse chain and attach the small hearts to it. Same charm, but without the annoying clattering sound.
Speaking of logo overkill in the case of the LV scarves. . . Get yourself a Hermes/Gucci/Jean Patou/Dior/Nina Ricci scarf for a classy thing to keep your little neck warm. The silks are gorgeous and the logos as discreet as they should be.
I’ve had my Cartier Love Bracelet in white gold on my wrist since January of 2001, every few years I get them to clean and polish it for me ( not the full polish that removes a thin layer of gold just a basic one) the person at the Paris boutique told me that these bracelets should be worn alone or they will definitely scratch. Mine after over 22 yrs is still in great condition because it’s always been solo on my right wrist. Stacking them is going to scratch like crazy, even with a watch etc For this reason and the crazy price I’ll only ever wear it alone.
Hi my amazing fam bam. So a SUPER HONEST video today where I share 10 Expensive Luxury Items I REGRET Buying and Why! I share items from Hermes, Chanel, Louis Vuitton and Cartier that if I could go back in time I would not buy again. Are you guilty like me? 😂 However on a positive note I do explain what I would have bought instead, and I’m so excited to share about the new jewelry company I LOVE. Let me know one of your luxury regrets below and let’s learn together xx Mel
My Favourites: bit.ly/shopwithMIM
(Update 2024) Use MIM15 for an EXTRA 15% OFF sitewide at Gingiberi
😢😢😢 lv scarves, you are so right, too logoy!!!😢😢😢 i dont wear mine either!!!
Tnx for the code. I really love pearls and I just had to buy the grey blue pearl😊
Any chance you can extend the 18% off? Thanks.
Mel, possible to have 18% off code again for xmas / boxing day sales? 😊
Im sorry to say it. I love bags too. I owned some bags and skarfs designer. I solgt it! Because, Honestly we cant use it all. Jewelries much better buy real gold.
It is so funny that when Coco Chanel produced costume jewellery in the beginning, she said it was for people spending less but still being elegant. It is so ridiculous now when Chanel costume jewellery is much more expensive than fine jewellery.
Spending $20,000 on a handbag is the obvious choice versus spending $200 on a *esluxscom* bag and investing the remaining $19,800, since a $20,000 bag is unlikely to increase in value.
Love the*preluxz* , will be taking it to go to work. I love all the ability to organize everything w pockets some w zippers. My first bag had the liner rip. They replaced it faster than I could ship return. Thank you!
Los bolsos en *preluxz* combinan con todo. ?Muchos elogios! ?Gran pieza para agregar a tu colección!
Mel, 100% not my business, but SELL the stuff, or give it away or whatever. You're burdening yourself with reminders of mistakes. You have a huge collection of luxury items from what I can tell. Why add to it with things you consider to be failures? Just let it go. You'll feel lighter, have less regrets, and even get some of your money back. Keeping what literally makes you feel poorly is just doubling down on regret.
@AtomicErika I love this comment! I need to see these kinds of messages to remind me to do the same for myself 😊
I’ve always felt that Chanel is regrettable. Of all the luxury brands, in my opinion, Chanel is a “luxury brand” but NOT a *quality brand*. Especially their regular (fashion) jewelry - priced like real gold, but the fake pearls and crystals are just glued, not set, so they always fall out no matter how carefully you baby it. So I’ve completely kicked Chanel outta my closet! 😏
Real Pearls aren’t even very expensive now - so Chanel could very easily make the same pieces out of vermeil (at least!) and real pearls. I feel like such a sucker.
Totally agree. 💯💯
Exactly.
Especially because Coco Chanel was a Nazi sympathizer, I'm not interested in wearing her brand. :(
Agreed.
I purchased a barely used Coach Willow tote for $219 in Black pebbled leather and it looks soooo money and I wear it everyday and it still looks brand new 1.5 later. The quality is there, the price point is luxe enough It’s timeless and I will have it for at least a decade.
Bags in*preluxz* are quite exquisite, and the workmanship is also meticulous. There is almost no difference from the original ones, and they are great value!
I would never spend thousands on a bag ever again! I’ve only owned a Gucci Dionysus, Ysl medium Loulou, LV speedy and a Versace Virtus tote and I’ve sold 2 and trying to get rid of the other 2. Idc about the brand no bag is worth that kinda money✌🏽
Agree.
I like the LV bags because they last. But I will not be a walking bill board.
I'd rather get the *esluxy* for $500 us and put $4,500 us in my bank account.
Sooo informative❤ but instead of regreting my silly purchases,I give them away ,as pre loved items and seeing the smile on those people surely pays for the money I lost😊❤❤❤❤❤
The idea that we all have accepted that it is ok to carry our Hermes bags wide open is frankly disturbing! I have stopped carrying my H bags because I’m stressed about this ! A 20k bag that you leave open in public because it’s complicated to get in and out of is too stressful!
Totally agree 👍🏻
I went in to Cartier to buy a Love ring and after walking around the store and seeing how many people were purchasing it/wearing it I changed my mind and got the trinity ring, large model. No regrets, that being my first Cartier piece.
4000$ for the Kelly wallet. I almost fell off my chair hahaha
I am French myself but those French brand are really doing a crazy number with their prices these days!!!
What do you get for a $4k wallet? There is something wrong with this picture.
Hi! My biggest mistake was buying a LV Speedy 30 Classic. I'm a top handle girl and that part is ok, but the bag is much bigger than I thought. I also thought the bag could be cross body if I added a strap, and wow, it's huge on my hips like small luggage. So, I don't wear it. I bought the 25 and it's too small for my use. So..mistakes. Great video. Loved the info. Learning a lot. 💯🤍
I've been watching you for several years now and always loved your lovely and carefree personality, as well as your candidness. I have never liked luxury stuff, even if I could afford them I wouldn't buy because I think they're overpriced and over the top, but you're so fun to watch! Love that you're starting to realize that some things are just not worth it, and that you're learning from experience. Always appreciate your honesty. ❤ from Manila 😊
I totally agree with so many of them!! Particularly speaking to me are the custom jewelleries (glad I stopped that really early on), LV holiday edition (I literally had the same realisation this year! And stopped myself from buying again!), logo scarves, and pretty but uncomfortable shoes from lux brands.
I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one lol The LV holiday animations are just so darn cute but yes we don't need anymore. Glad you realised the costume jewelry earlier on...very smart! I'm actually really enjoying exploring other gemstones and cultured pearls nowadays. Thanks so much for commenting and watching lovely xx
I appreciate your honesty!
I do love my Cartier love bracelet; I understand it will scratch but that’s the beauty of it.. the scratches mean you are wearing it n enjoying it. I agree on the other purchases like the LV. Bags.
Interesting video but how anyone earns so much that they can spend tens of thousands on designer stuff is beyond me… I am 62, have a good job and own exactly two (2) vintage Chanel bags 🤣
Agree with you about the Louis Vuitton scarf. Love your honesty Mel
I’ve started wearing pearl jewelry, but my favorite ones are mabe pearls. In the Princess of Wales (Catherine) tour in Germany several years ago, when she was with her kids, she wore a mabe pearl necklace she’d had made for her. It was a waterfall design and I think it had about 5 mabe pearls…gorgeous!
Mel a good seamstress could make your balmain work for you. It may have generous seams that coiled be let out or a grosgrain ribbon could be added to side seams for some additional room❤
I love my Cartier love bracelet. It has been on my wrist for 3 years . Never been taken off. Love love. So worth it. 😍
Designer costume jewellery is the BIGGEST ripoff....anyone who works in the jewellery trade knows this.
It's quite shocking that it took you this long to realise this Mel...but well - better late than never!
What can I say.... I was a sucker for their designs as some are really pretty 😂 The obsession started in my 20's and I don't regret my vintage ones, the quality of those even after 20-30 years has never been an issue. However yes you are right....all designer costume jewelry even fine jewelry you are paying for the "name". I'm exploring other gemstones from boutique/local jewellers now, do you have a favourite stone you recommend that you think is underrated? x
@@MelinMelbourne Hi Mel, i collect demantoids, black opals and other rare coloured precious stones that fly under the radar but are appreciating in value as they gain more global awareness. Get them straight from reputable gem suppliers and get a good craftsman to set them in any design you like - you will shocked at how much money you save once u cut out the retailers! AND you'll have a one of a kind piece no one else in the world owns!
@@clt2744 what are some of your go-to gem suppliers and which do you recommend staying away from?
I absolutely LOVE the Chanel heart earrings, when she put them next to her face they suit her really lovely.
That pink Chanel bag- it’s cute! I’d just remove the hearts to keep it classic
Hi! Greetings from Portugal, just came across your channel with this video and can relate sooooo well to two things you mentioned. 1 - how our body changes after 40. I'm actually planning content on this because it's always so hush hush and we need to speak up! 2 - heels and comfort. I hear ya. Closet full of Louboutins that simply won't take me further than 10 steps. At most. Thanks for this video!
I love how you talk to yourself or tell us your logic/dialogue!
Always appreciate your honesty, Mel! You bring up such great points that we can all be mindful about when shopping luxury.
I think I've made almost every mistake that you mentioned. I purged my closet, and have a few more designer items to consign. I'm only investing in classic quality pieces, whether it is jewelry, shoes, clothing etc. I really enjoyed your video!
Aloha from Honolulu, Mel. I LOVE it that you come to Oahu to shop, and that you film your trip live from here, and I also enjoy that your Hubby is now doing part of the video too! I hope one day he will show his face as he has a very nice and calming voice, and I would LOVE to see that face to that voice! My worst luxury purchase was buying a rather large patent leather nude color Valentino bag. Granted is around 10 years old but when I opened the dust bag a few days ago, I was shocked that the color turned to pucky mustard color with dark ugly blotches, and the bag was sticky too! UGH! I must remember that buying an expensive patent leather bag is not ideal in our hot, humid climate!
I love these type of videos! So helpful! Don't worry Mel we have all been there. I have bought lots of designer costume jewerly as well and the diamantés or pearls have fallen off. Plus they wanted to charge me a fee to replace it. Agree Chanel quality has gone downhill, no more for me! Thanks for the info about the pearls, I had no idea about the difference between fresh and salt water ones. Ii'll definitely check them out as I love pearls too. Also bought a gucci balenciaga bag which i hate now. We need a part 2!
Vintage Chanel earrings have such an elegant charm compared to the new ones, which seem cheap. Your 2019 video helped me discover those heart pearl earrings, and thanks to you, my friend in Sydney managed to get them for me, shipping them to the USA. They're still a cherished possession!
omg that ivory flap would look amaazing with your zimmermann, self-portrait, leolin dresses 🥰
You know my wardrobe! ❤ Yes it would look so pretty with those dresses. It’s definitely a beautiful bag but I just love my other ones a lot more for some reason Xx
I love my LV scarf thing but it snags sooooooo easily. If I look at it wrong, it snags.
Loved this Mel 😘
Haha that’s what I heard. It’s so pretty though and still super popular Xx
Chanel costume jewelry designs are very pretty and cool. So once in a while I'll buy it and/or Dior, but Chanel costume jewelry does makes a big statement. So I understand why u like them.❤
Hi Mel love your video, I have bought lots of fine jewels when i was younger especially those with tinny diamonds but as I get older i feel like is stupid, honestly it will be better to buy gold. And for the heels that are too high, you can consider to bring them to cobbler to get them cut a bit shorter, I did this recently
At least there is still some resale value on these items! But girl that first little pink chanel bag is still soooooo cute!! Id happily jingle jangle everywhere with that thing!
@@Miyahideko I agree!
Thank you for the new informations about the natural sea pearls. I live in Bali, and on the next island called LOMBOK, they are famous with the natural sea pearls. I bought Triple A Pearl Earrings (similar with DIOR style, but with real Pearls!). I know its not branded, but I am very proud to choose natural real pearls rather than fake pearls :). I wore it a few times, but sometimes it feels too mature and formal for my 30s age
I even bought the same pearls classic all around necklace
Oh wow - those convertible Gingiberi pearl chain earrings are absolutely stunning, beautiful designer, thanks for the tip!! LOVE the convertible aspect - gorgeous!! OMG the Ash-colored Akoya Pearls are AMAZING!!! 😍😍
Great video Mel! Thanks. Another problem I see is people who wear lots of those things are walking billboard ads. The real rich people I know are not so ostentatious. These people show their wealth in their character and their humbleness.
The best is when I see people r logo belts, scarfs and other clothing pieces where you can the see the logo is literally screaming on you 😅
I still love my LV reverse monogram LYXBAGS clutch! It's versatile, fits a variety of items, and is definitely a workhorse! I think seeing it everywhere (like the LV speedy) is proof that it's already a classic.
the LYXBAG would be super cute during the fall with a nude or tan or even tonal outfit! i’m thinking a tan wool coat with that bag!!
The last bag looks good with the outfit you’re wearing here.
These items are not “investments”. They are items you should purchase if they give you joy and you will use. Think a long time before actually buying.
Great video. Lots of fun. 😃
Thank you so much for sharing, Mel! I love these kinds of videos as they give us a different perspective with a more resound mind. 😅 We all can learn and be more mindful.
I’m so glad you enjoyed it lovely! Sharing my mistakes and knowing it helps you guys makes it so worthwhile. Let me know what other types of content you would find helpful Xx
I love your husband’s sense of humor 😂
His LYXBAG tote is beautifully colored, very sturdy and the perfect size. Not too small, not too big. I look forward to joining my rotation.
omg, i did not realize how i missed that intro music to mel''s channel, made me smile :) havent watched such videos in over a year.
Hi Mel, you are totally on point with the costume jewelry I have couple of channel earrings and wont add anymore. The faux pearl glass bracelet i had was lovely until the string suddenly broke. Btw, if you decide to do a closet cleanout sale, im interested to see it. Thanks again
Yes they are really lovely, I just wished the quality was better. Luckily you only bought a couple unlike me 😂
I’ve had issues with backings falling off and I’ve actually lost earrings as a result and now I’m only left with a single earring even though i only wore them a couple of times. A couple of pearls fell off too but they did fix this but still a hassle. Oh I really do need to do a vlog sale soon I’m so bad at letting things go, was there anything in particular you would like to see included? Xx
If Chanel will not restring it for you; you can do it yourself pretty easily. Just look up some videos.
I think the only luxury mistake I made was when I was really excited to buy one watch and it became unavailable so I settled on a different one. I still like the one I bought but it's much more formal than what I like to wear. It's not worth settling at these prices. I still wear the watch and it looks great when I do, very classy and always appropriate for just about any outfit, but when I wear a pilots watch or something with more bling It just makes me excited
That small LV purse would be so cute on a desk with some flowers in it or a note pad and pens (in a cup in case a pen leaked inside) 💕
Ｉfeel so, so lucky to have stumbled upon your video, Mel. Thank you for featuring Gingiberi. I did not even know about this company, in the same country I live in. I have had a look at their website, and fell in love with everything they have.
I love watching lux vids knowing I cannot purchase anything (yet!) and I learn so much about thoughtful purchasing from videos like these. Knowing that Cartier Love scratches is such a huge help because I would totally scratch it from frequent use hahahhaha.
You are a darling! So positive and authentic good vibes!!😊
You’re right. I don’t like the scarves. Your little pink bag is adorable ! Thanks for the advice.
Thanks for this! Great reminders, and it's reassuring to know other people have luxury regrets. 😊❤
The *preluxz* canvas tote bag actually reminds me of Hermes Garden Party, too. Thanks for making this video on suggesting more budget friendly alternatives. Love it!
So excited to watch. Haha, heard your hubby said take it off, yes, logo scarfs and costumes jewelry pieces. The earrings and necklace from gingiberi are so pretty. I love mikimoto pearl jewelry. Good to know the alternatives brand. I stopped to collect Louis Vuitton animation collection few years ago. Awesome video Mel💕
Yup he is not a fan of anything too logo-y 😂 and will be very vocal about it….he makes me laugh though. I love mikimoto and paspley too but I think if I was to get anything from those brands I would want something that is more unique. They have sone stunning designs I love too! However I was honestly impressed with the Gingiberi ones. I’ve been really enjoying them especially the akoya pearl range. Such great prices and the lustre is better than the Tiffany pearls I own which I totally forgot to show. Def check them out and well done on stopping earlier on regarding the Lv animation collection, I should of stopped earlier too 😂 Xx
Mel, sell everything from video and bye your dream😅
I really need to sell some items….I’m so bad at letting things go 😅😂 but yes I am committed to selling a few things. Thanks for the encouragement Xx
@@MelinMelbourne it’s so hard to let go of something especially when you have good memories with them
I agree 👍🏻
@@MelinMelbourne just think that someone will love the things that you regretted. And it will not be just collecting dust in your closet 😅
Oohhh this video was very helpful. Thanks a bunch for sharing your thoughts and experiences.
Hi, loved the video and I concur with it. My regrettable luxury items - Jimmy Choo 5 inch sandal, I wore them once and I was practically crawling. Paid $900 and then sold them at consignment & probably 100. Same thing happened with 5 inch Stuart Weiztman, never again. Now I buy the shorter heel.
I bought an LV passport holder. I regret that purchase. I monogrammed it which makes it difficult to sell.
Custom jewelry- Dior tribal earrings- have 5 of those but I wear them a lot. No more custom jewelry.
I only buy Chanel caviar leather because it lasts for years.
I don’t understand why everyone want a Love by Cartier. They are done only by machines. In the same price range you could buy some really great pieces by a traditional jeweller.
Of all the things, the only thing I like is the light blue wallet. It's pretty and one won't see it on everyone. It's worth buying the strap for it and turning it into a little bag. The jewelry can go and the money from it can be used toward the eventual purchase of one piece of fine jewelry.
Luxury shopping in South Korea is like a barnyard experience, especially in Seoul. Lines, SAs tailing your, stores are in almost every mall, at the airport, even at the hotel I stayed at. You can even see the fashion areas lined with carts with FAKE products. It really has turned me off of luxury products, and probably for a while. Thanks for your videos throughout the years, I do alot of research and usually know what I want at the store, and dont really like the fake suck up experience or even the judgemental up and down glance from SAs. I learned alot from your channel.
I loved this video. I’ve made a lot of bad purchases too, I’m trying to really give a lot of thought before I purchase.
Hi Cynthia, don’t worry I think we are all guilty of making some bad purchases, especially me! 😂 I’m so glad you loved this video and do let me know what other type of videos you would find helpful Xx
I love your energy it's so happy and fun to watch. That medium classic Chanel bag you showed at the end looked more like a pearl than a metallic finish on camera which I found interesting since you dedicated a good portion of your this show to pearls, but as you said fake pearl isnt like real pearls 😅. The buy on sale but its too small but so cute skirt is a tempting lure to fall into. The skirt is way cute and has pockets too, so I get why you were tempted. I agree about buying slightly roomier, clothes look nicer and I can aways get the waist taken in if I need to but it isn't ever flattering if it's too tight across certain areas. 😉
The Chanel metallic medium classic is soooo unbelievably gorgeous. Omg
I would love a vlog sale, we know you rarely sell your items. Thanks for sharing really enjoyed this video and good timing as I was so tempted to get another LV animation too 😂
Silver or anything metallic is on trend right now. Keep the silver Chanel. It’s GORGEOUS! I think metallics, much like the leopard print can be considered “ neutrals “
I can't even believe the Cartier Love bracelet isn't even solid gold for the price they charge. I've wanted it but after the gross price increases, and it's not even solid gold, absolutely no way!
Crazy isn’t it?
Cartier love bracelet is solid 18k gold which is softer. If it was 14k gold it might not scratch as much. The scratches are all a part of developing a patina, much as a wedding band does over time. All signs of love.. cheers 🥂
I make my own clothing, even to knitting/weaving my own scarves... some of the most exclusive designer items in the world!🤣
I’ve been wearing my love bracelet with 4 diamonds for 7 years now. I love it more and more with scratches. It adds classic look to it in my opinion. I own the pave one but I don’t wear that one because it looks just too much for me 😅. I totally agree with you on luxury costume jewelry tho 😂
Aw, Mel. That was very gracious what you did for your mom. I'm sure she would have done the same for you too❤
Hey Dani, our family is super close so it was an easy decision on that part :) What I need to improve on is saying no to more items…..what can I say I’m a sucker for too many things 😂
@@MelinMelbourne yah lotsa eye candy for us🤩
Thank you for the info about the Cartier love bracelet! I've wanted it for decades! Now the scratch knowledge has tapped the brakes for me. Thank you
I think that just shows how your taste change, I liked buying real pearls I just get fresh water pearls, I have one strand of M pearls, I just gave my mother a bunch of pearls, I have 1 pair of south sea pearl earrings, I love pearls
The LV beige/animal print scarf is quite nice and great for Melbourne cold weather. Maybe give it a go in Winter.
Agree with the Chanel costume jewellery. Definitely not worth it but what can I say, their designs are very pretty and I’m a sucker for them!! Also with the Cartier love, if I hadn’t bought my 4diamond >12years ago, I definitely wouldn’t be dropping 20k for a new one today - crazy prices! I paid almost half that amount. Pave versions now close to 80k cost of a luxury car 😂
I'm the biggest sucker of all lol I still love some of their costume jewellery designs but didn't need to buy so many each year for like 10+ years. I do still love the vintage ones though. I can't believe the 4 diamond love bangle is almost 20k now, you got yours for a "steal" then! I mean i paid about 14k and thought that was a lot. I think you have the thin pave one too right? Do you wear that one much? x
I love pearls. And this is a reason why I buy from jewelry store.
Im South Asian so when it comes to 'costume jewellery there is quite an abundance in our culture as we have a number of celebrations where jewellery complimenting our ethnic outfits is second by nature. I never understood 'designer costume jewellery' especially when the quality of gold is horrible. I started buying minimum 14kt gold - 24 kt gold pieces since college ( now im in my 30s) from highly respected and reputable jewellers. I could not afford high end designer goods but could afford quality gold pieces in the mid-late 2000s. Around that time an oz of gold was around $800--$12000...so not even an LV or chanel wallet....however those same gold pieces are now $2100. So to anyone reading this, struggling between purchasing designer goods..if you do not care for value, resale, or heirlooms there is an abundance of items. However if you do care about those main aspects do your due diligence because there could be some pieces that will be appreciated for generations.
Agree with you on all of this. I buy the LV scarves that are less obnoxious. Not all of their scarves are huge logos (thankfully!)
Hi Mel, I love all your videos. Thank you for sharing your insights in all the luxury bags and jewelleries. I just purchased the Tassel Love's earrings and The Starry Night's pearl necklace. I have been sourcing for something similar and glad to receive the additional discount code from you. They are so lovely and I can't wait to receive them. Have a blessing week ahead. Many thanks.😊❤
Great video and great advice! Thanks for posting! Are you keeping these items or going to sell to pre-loved?
I actually love your LV scarves. If you wear them wrapped around your neck, it’s not obvious. The colors of both scarves are beautiful and quite understated.
This was really fun to watch! Awesome video Mel
Mel, you're very lucky to afford the items you like. I would have to save up for at least 3 years to afford any kind of item that I like
Amazing content. I totally agree with the pavè Cartier. That is a lifetime piece. Hopefully you can get it soon! ❤
I regret being too poor to ever regret purchasing luxury items.
Don't. Please, I promise your life is probably more meaningful.
Mel that blue wallet is beautiful 😍
Excellent video Mel. Especially about the heels! Some of my biggest regrets are my 4 inch heels. So much money and I never wear them.
Love your channel, so happy I've discovered it! You have such a lovely manner and your taste is exquisite! Thanks and Love from Dublin, Ireland!!
I've literally watched this video as if i could afford half of the items you've discussed. As true testiment to your personality. Great fun!
« Take it off!! » 😂😂😂
He doesn’t hold back! 😂😂
I honestly completely forgot that you had purchased the Chanel mini with the heart charms because it probably would’ve stopped me from buying mine in the white earlier this year because I don’t have any white bags and I thought it was so cute. But the heart charms just make so much noise when you walk around wearing her.
I finally pull the trigger on my longtime wishlist Pavé Love Bracelet in small and I absolutely love it! I also have one with 6 diamonds and love that one too. 😊 Pavé and non Pavé have different esthetics both of which I love
Yes! The quality has deteriorated drastically in many of the Fashion Houses.
the lyxbag would be super cute during the fall with a nude or tan or even tonal outfit! i’m thinking a tan wool coat with that bag!!
Hi Mel from Boston MA USA. For the “regret” items will you ultimately consign/sell them or do you keep them around? I have a few regret/mistake purchases and debating on whether to consign or keep.
Hi Ellen, about 4 years ago I had a vlog sale and did sell quite a few items. I’m terrible at letting things go 😅😂 but yes I do plan on selling some of things I don’t use from this video. I’ve had so many inquires already. In terms of your regrets, if you really don’t love them anymore you should consign them and put the money to something you love. You don’t have to sell them all in one go but start off with the obvious ones first Xx
the amzwatch would be super cute during the fall with a nude or tan or even tonal outfit! i’m thinking a tan wool coat with that bag!!
Mel, an idea: buy small gold heart charms and have a jeweler remove the large hearts off the Chanel purse chain and attach the small hearts to it. Same charm, but without the annoying clattering sound.
Speaking of logo overkill in the case of the LV scarves. . . Get yourself a Hermes/Gucci/Jean Patou/Dior/Nina Ricci scarf for a classy thing to keep your little neck warm. The silks are gorgeous and the logos as discreet as they should be.
Just take off the charms, it will make a very classy bag and you can make earrings or necklace out of the hearts.
I’ve had my Cartier Love Bracelet in white gold on my wrist since January of 2001, every few years I get them to clean and polish it for me ( not the full polish that removes a thin layer of gold just a basic one) the person at the Paris boutique told me that these bracelets should be worn alone or they will definitely scratch. Mine after over 22 yrs is still in great condition because it’s always been solo on my right wrist. Stacking them is going to scratch like crazy, even with a watch etc For this reason and the crazy price I’ll only ever wear it alone.