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First of all, before people point their finger to the other person, they should analyze themselves. This person doesn’t know what real love is. When you engage after 1 week and then cuts off the relationship, he should start working on himself first before getting into a LTR.
One thing I can tell what not to do DON'T GET IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER Because it's like when you're not with her & having a female dog and letting it out at night SHE'LL F*** EVERYTHING IN SIGHT LMMMMAOFF 😜😂😂😜😆
I tried once. I’ll never walk down that path again. I thought I was the happiest I’ve ever been. I was the most delusional I’ve ever been - I was miserable with her. I was living overseas. I would travel back and forth from Indonesia to China once or twice a month to do QC work and source new manufacturers. Once I started dating this girl, my time up in China went from 60% work and 40% enjoying traveling to places like Guangzhou and Xiamen (just exploring the sites and sounds, not even partying and stuff like that) to about 30% work and 70% wondering what I was going to find out when I got back to Indo a few days later. I’d be gone for only like 4 days maximum, but I couldn’t shake this feeling something would eventually happen. Truth is, I don’t think anything ever really happened! But her past made it impossible to feel secure when she wasn’t in sight. She showed her true colors after we broke up. I moved back to the US after 15 years abroad and made it clear to her I needed time with zero contact. She would use other people’s phones to send me photos of the guys she was going out with. After a few months of that, she finally ended up hooking up with this guy twice her age. Couldn’t help but tell me about it all in a text through yet another person’s phone number. On Christmas. They were getting married and she was pregnant and all this stuff. So we’d been engaged (like I said, I was delusional about this woman). Two years of dating, almost getting married, and all it took was 5 months for her to f*ck a slew of guys, find one twice her age to get pregnant with and engaged to, and she was still throwing it in my face like an insane person. The fog of delusion had long since worn off and I was just happy to possibly, maybe, finally be done with it. I heard a couple years later through unsolicited grapevine banter, that she had married, had a kid, f*cked around on him, he split back to Australia, and now some poor sap from the UK was helping her raise her daughter. There, but for the grace of god…. I count my lucky stars every single time I reflect on it. Once promiscuous, there will always be drama. And I truly don’t give a damn if there are outliers. Life is too short. In my book and how I will forever choose to live the rest of my life, if you have had a promiscuous past as a woman, you aren’t worth a second of my time.
This guy is the epitome of “Complicate your life, and then justify why!”. The women aren’t the problem, he is the problem. This guy is one of those guys that can’t be helped.
It's crazy to me how some of the callers are intelligent enough to start their own companies but then lack the proper knowledge to handle such simple situations. The problem is not that the girl is/was promiscuous. The problem is that YOU brought a promiscuous girl into your life or that you didn't vet her properly at least. If the guy had done some of those mistakes (cohabitation) on some other countries, you could be viewed as a couple and lose half of your stuff for nothing. You can't save her. Matter of fact, she doesn't want to be saved. Final answer: You don't handle her, just like you don't put toothpaste back in the tube.
Gents. It’s cultural conditioning. It isn’t because they are stupid. It’s because they have been told how to treat women and women have been taught how to manipulate men. This has happened for centuries
As someone who's dealt with substance abuse.... This dude has all the signs of somebody literally "addicted." There is no rationale or reason an addict can give you. All you know is as soon as they walk out of the room you instantly get the feeling they're going to relapse and end up in the same dumb situation. I'm sorry to say this, they are a waste of time. They have to fuck themselves up bad enough that they change. All you can do is hope they figure it out before it's too late. I'm amazed he doesn't have kids with some chick yet.
I was addicted to a bpd girl few yrs ago, the addiction sucks , hard to let go and when she does drop you it’s literally withdrawal symptoms for months
@@oWMatt this RP is new to me , I have always been a blue pilled guy, I never dated much so I’m unfamiliar with how women can operate, once I found the rp I learned so much and I understand more, now I’m just disappointed and discussed with dating currently
@@mikea1534 You just need to work on yourself and the rest will follow. It won't be easy. I don't think RP is the best thing out there today. Maybe you should watch a video on YT: Sam Vaknin-Redpill nonsense ;)
Man I SO used to be this guy. I think it's a phase that all men go thru. But for him to still be there in his late 30's... damn. This dude needs to grow up.
Women are like roller coaster. The wait is long, the ride is short, and there's a line of men behind you waiting their turn. So just enjoy the ride and move on." ~TFM
First mistake was taking a "travel girl" seriously. Any chick who's willing to uproot from her home country to go live alone elsewhere especially through hostels is a NOT a good quality woman.
I’ve figured out over the years looking back that a girl I would have married was unnaturally promiscuous. We were together from literally 15-22. Looking back at 50, I remember she already had a body count of 2 at 15. I moved away after the break up, college, career, retirement but still remained about two degrees of separation from her. All I heard in passing was stories of addiction, cheating and plastic surgery. Last I heard she’s divorced and financially wrecked herself and the CHAD. Could have been me 🤷♂️
He sounds like a "NICE GUY" like I was in my past trying to save a HO, can't do it brother they are damaged beyond repair and they will break you till you can't be fixed either
If you need some content… let’s chat. I married at 32 and moved to hawaii…. Where she was from. That is a different world and everything you speak of, I have lived. One son, dated a multi millionaire, Surgeons, only fans girls, single moms and it all. What you share is probably the best advice for young men out there and you are not bashing women. You are teaching young warriors how to manage life. Mad respect brother
Seems like a good dude! Thant being said, if he’s use to an environment of chaos from growing up in it, he will gravitate to crazy because it’s like mothered milk. Also, if he’s an empathetic personality, he WILL be addicted to narcissistic people and good women will never fit the bill. GodSpeed my friend. The work begins with you.
Me to a T. Been in chaos/ unstable environments/ relationships/ friendships/ biz partners all my life. Trying to figure out how to be okay with normal but I just can’t relate. It’s sucks but sometimes it feels good to know someone understands what you’ve been through.
Don't get attached. No matter how hot they are. I know it's easier said than done, but you gotta be able to walk away the moment you spot the red flags and see the damage within her. Sometimes it's not fair and it's something that happened to her, sometimes it may be self-inflicted damage through bad choices. She WILL become your problem if you ignore the signs.
They have demons and they have no problem dropping them mfs off on you before they dip out not only do you have to fight yours now you’re in a whole new fight with the darkness they leave behind
As a young man(Im 54 now)it used to bother me when a woman slept with a lot of guys in their past and they’d get the boot. Friends would say oh what’s the big deal that was in her past blah blah but in hindsight I was onto something
The alligator analogy 🐊🐊😂😂 // Yea, He.is.the.chaos. He keeps attracting the crazies because he does not value himself. He wants to be a nice guy, people pleaser etc so he let's people get away with things that they shouldn't. Probably can't even see the sheer number of ways people are violating him. - Generally speaking, I'd bet he doesn't think people (women in particular) need to work for, or earn his attention. - If he wants to improve, he'll first need to get sick of being in pain. Then he'll stop letting women play around in the emotional areas of his life and create stronger boundaries.
I've been backpacking around hostels in Australia, Europe and South East Asia when I was in my 20's. I seen women ride all round them in dorms, regret the countless trains. Then wake up and come to the realization that they were assaulted. These women are nothing but trouble
I have a strong hunch that Rich indeed had the conversation he mentioned earlier about “what did I tell you the last time we spoke” and it went in one ear and out the other. I’m guessing it’ll happen again here.
She's left. Guy is an international poon hound, Spain, argentina, Colombia and I think Cooper is correct one of these chicks who hook up on day 1 is going to fuck him over good
It's a matter of status and exhibits preselection. The problem was keeping her in line. There are things he's not saying here but a guess is that she was unfaithful to him at least once and that was towards the end of the relationship.
Because he's not looking for kids or a long term relationship, he's not search for wife material women. I bet if a girl is firm that she wants to wait until marriage then he's gonna pass on her, thus leaving himself only the hookup type women.
@@interesting2491 You bet your ass. Winnie The Pooh also once wrote the best seller "How to enter the fishhole in and out without paying". Sold millions but that was before Winnie The Pooh turned to MGTOW :D
Any woman who would rather spend her time with another heterosexual man and gives the excuse 'we are just friends' does not see you as her best option and will cheat on you. Give her an ultimatum, she has to pick you, or she can pick the male friend. If she picks the male friend, she was going to cheat on your anyways, so you just saved yourself a bunch of time. This behaviour is most common in women in their 20s.
My son's mother goes to a lgtbq body positive swing club every saturday while I have the kid! I always had a bad feeling about her. She had a promiscuous past that I chose to ignore for many years. After we broke up she went right back to her old lifestyle. Some people don't need alcohol or drugs to hit rock bottom!
Gee it’s amazing you always had a bad feeling about her but yet you have a kid with this woman. Unbelievable. Yeah it sounds a little condescending on my part but I’m sick and tired of guys -saps like yourself who fall for these women and have kids with them. Its incredible.
Hey man, I fell for something similar. Met my son’s mother while I was in the military and she was in as well. Very flirtatious and that led to us breaking up the first time and I didn’t learn my lesson from that. Long story short we reconnected a year later then 8 months later I got “trapped” into having my son by her. Traumatized me a bit because I didn’t have sex with her during the whole pregnancy and even stuck around until my son was 4 but recently found out she’s into witchcraft/voodoo whatever you want to call it and is a super whore. Talks to plenty married men, and regular men on top of neglecting my son’s development since he has autism and you have to put the work in as a parent to get him up to standard. She’s also into sex clubs in Tampa. I found all this out from the tablet she gives my son to play on because the dumass had her Apple ID linked to it. All I have to say from this situation is you live and learn and I’ll definitely not ignore the flags next time around!
Rich!!! You are the man! The crock analogy is spot on! I have read your book at least a dozen times and maybe 10 have been because I was sharing it with other brother! It’s perfect for a road-trip. Mad respect to how you show up. I have been there and done that like you and have learned by 40 what the fuck What to focus on. Keep up the good work and proud of you for standing tall as you do!
I'll be honest. The more that I hear this person talk. The more I realize that he's broken. So broken that he doesn't realize that he is avoiding something. He uses both work and girls to fix it, but it won't. One word of advice: stop this "spinning plates" BS thing. What a sad life.
The relationship was over before it started. Just get the p-sleeve and keep it moving. Stop investing your time and emotion into this woman. Get out of the matrix man. 😆
When you're a Clark kent and she's always looking for superman there's nothing much you can do. But with the little self-respect and dignity left of you, you can redeem yourself by improving your life wholistically.
I was dating a 50 something divorcee. She said when younger she had so many boyfriends she forgot their names. 6 years post divorce after extensive dating nobody has met her friends supposedly....
You don't deal with women like that period end of story. There is no silver bullet to make a wife out of 304. All of her 304 habits, preferences, etc are there to stay forever, so why would you invite such chaos into your life ? Once you know that's who she is the only thing to do is to show her way back to the streets.
So there’s rare exceptions. I have read (taking it at face value) stories of how women stopped being H03s. Almost always it takes time of them being single and not riding the carousel to reroute their brains. From a minimum of 6mo to usually 2 or more years. During that time, they develop self control. The only con that I have seen is you get the timid boring version of her and she makes you wait in all of these stories which is usually what kills relationships and marriages and they also lie. It’s best if you find a girl with a very low notch count and consistent with her past behaviors. If she does happen to lie to you and there’s kids involved find out if she took her time and focused on not being a h03. If she did, tread carefully.. if she didn’t, plan your exit strategy
I tell you what I do , I don’t it’s simple. But most guys fall for their shit. If you want the truth about a woman ask her ex he’ll tell you everything you need to know. Also listen to what she says her ex said about her they tell on themselves every-time if you pay attention.
This is what happens when a Man is thinking with his “little Head” instead of his “Big Head!” I understand this because I once was between 15-34 Years of age at one time!
Speaking from experience.. people can change.. that being said they have to be willing to change.. and willing to get the help to change. Change doesn’t happen automatically. My wife has a past , as her childhood was horrible she did a lot of horrible things as a young adult, but she got help. She is a completely different woman now in her 30s as she was in her 20s. The fact that she had many partners as did I, doesn’t bother me because 1. I don’t have a self esteem or insecurity issues I know I’m the best lover she ever had and ever will have. two, if I judged her based on her past, I would have missed out on the wonderful woman she is today, she cares for the home, make’s wonderful dishes , we literally have the best conversations on a daily, amazing sex life, this woman rubs my back, manicures my feet, this is what you get when you quit the boy mentality and grow up and become a man. She doesn’t have to work although she has her side hustles and is going to school to get her masters in psychology as she wants to help others that have suffered abuse as well. The entire key here is, the person has to be ready for change and actively seek out help and put in the work.. if the woman doesn’t see anything wrong with the way she is living and thinks the problem is you run the other way and drop her like a bad habit.
Hope you two live happily ever after like Adam & Eve. You two are not supposed to be 100% uncorrupted. That's the whole point of marriage or being in a loving relationship with a woman. You are together because you love eachother despite you past luggage =) prove Richard, the whole MGTOW and me wrong.
Yeah the common thread is the struggle with letting go. I get it, they had good qualities but you can never take them seriously. Just have fun and thats it.
This is the battle of rational thought vs sexual need/wants. I dated a similar lady…she was 38 yo with a fantastic body, fake implants, long blonde hair, green eyes, 5’9 120lbs, tattoos, party girl, high body count, and fun. Sure the sex was great! But she couldn’t pair bond well and she had a high need for attention. These women will never be good long term companions.
You know as a Muslim Arab 🎉 ❤ I’m proud that we don’t fit in that ‘crazy shitty promiscuous girl’ moving in with a bf or finessing a guy etc ! God Bless Us ! Keep your legs closed ! ❤ locked 🔒
Simple. In business, one must learn when to cut your losses and move on. With women, the earlier the greater the sanity. Just walk away. If she inquires, tell but don't argue, and don't stick around for the drama. Life is tough enough without that.
Almost all people have been promiscuous at some point in their lives . Promiscuity for a lot of people is a life phase stage , people change as they get older. I don't care if a woman has a promiscuous past,if she's in love with me and I love her that's all that matters
I have an ex from years ago, still super hot, a grown kid, been ran through by a couple hundred guys! She really can’t understand why good men don’t want anything to do with her….
If you can have access to beautiful women for sex and company but they have a lot of red flags would you still go for it even if it was a short term relationship?
1. accept it 2. dont accept it and let her go Pretty simple Trying to change a girl like that is the same when women tries to change a criminal guy and thinks he is a good person.
@@leonelorozco2514 true but he should be made man and have kids by now. imagine growing old and thinking about yourself only whole life and not having your next gen (kids). i think having family is huge aspect in ones life next to money/ career etc. this is very hard to achieve today tho
Rich, you're the best friend every guy wish he could confide in. You ask the right questions. "Tell me bout your mother?" asked Dr Freud, "Tell me about your father?". Dude is hooked on women gone wrong. Indeed, I've drank from the cup. Its a thrill. Also, Its an intoxicating cup. And, its just as easy for a woman or a man to stay drunk on it if they don't stop to sober up to ask why? I wonder if there are any men who have wondered why they seek out women like their mothers' ? (Besides Freud) What, if Mom was a bad girl? Is that what a fellow seeks out as a grown man? I bet that's what others seek until they understand the pathology of their behavior. Rich you've saved men from bad choices or spending thousands of dollars and hours in psychotherapy to understand their relationships; because, you share how you made sense of your own experiences then built on it with research and giving good advice. Thx
"How Do I Deal With a Girlfriend With a Promiscuous Past" ? - the bigger question is how do I find out that she had a promiscuous past. I'm an old married for almost 30 years guy, who's wife was a virgin when we had s... for the fist time. Maybe that's why we're still together, but also because she's logical like a mane, she's not materialistic, she's strong but also listens and follows my advice, she's financially responsible. So nowadays I'd say a man should just assume that a woman he's about to day had a promiscuous past and he'd be right 90% of the time.
I have dated nordic girl For a year. Everything is going good and she accepts this consept.. except now ..She wants go with Friends to travelling. Which I responded relation is done if you choose to go.
They have demons and they have no problem dropping them mfs off on you before they dip out not only do you have to fight yours now you’re in a whole new fight with the darkness they leave behind
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First of all, before people point their finger to the other person, they should analyze themselves. This person doesn’t know what real love is. When you engage after 1 week and then cuts off the relationship, he should start working on himself first before getting into a LTR.
One thing I can tell what not to do
DON'T GET IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER
Because it's like when you're not with her
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having a female dog and letting it out at night
SHE'LL
F***
EVERYTHING
IN
SIGHT
LMMMMAOFF 😜😂😂😜😆
Would love to connect for a phone call
You don’t. Leave her
Simple and effective
100%
Don't ever commit seriously to her and always wear a rubber
A new doll has a zero notch count
Exactly
A woman with a promiscuous past will bring nothing but drama and misery to your life... You will never be able to trust her.
Yes and it is the same thing with promiscuous men. He can't expect to get with a virgin when he's a train wrag himself.
As a woman just like an ex friend I known
I tried once. I’ll never walk down that path again. I thought I was the happiest I’ve ever been. I was the most delusional I’ve ever been - I was miserable with her. I was living overseas. I would travel back and forth from Indonesia to China once or twice a month to do QC work and source new manufacturers. Once I started dating this girl, my time up in China went from 60% work and 40% enjoying traveling to places like Guangzhou and Xiamen (just exploring the sites and sounds, not even partying and stuff like that) to about 30% work and 70% wondering what I was going to find out when I got back to Indo a few days later. I’d be gone for only like 4 days maximum, but I couldn’t shake this feeling something would eventually happen.
Truth is, I don’t think anything ever really happened! But her past made it impossible to feel secure when she wasn’t in sight. She showed her true colors after we broke up. I moved back to the US after 15 years abroad and made it clear to her I needed time with zero contact. She would use other people’s phones to send me photos of the guys she was going out with. After a few months of that, she finally ended up hooking up with this guy twice her age. Couldn’t help but tell me about it all in a text through yet another person’s phone number. On Christmas. They were getting married and she was pregnant and all this stuff. So we’d been engaged (like I said, I was delusional about this woman). Two years of dating, almost getting married, and all it took was 5 months for her to f*ck a slew of guys, find one twice her age to get pregnant with and engaged to, and she was still throwing it in my face like an insane person. The fog of delusion had long since worn off and I was just happy to possibly, maybe, finally be done with it.
I heard a couple years later through unsolicited grapevine banter, that she had married, had a kid, f*cked around on him, he split back to Australia, and now some poor sap from the UK was helping her raise her daughter. There, but for the grace of god….
I count my lucky stars every single time I reflect on it. Once promiscuous, there will always be drama. And I truly don’t give a damn if there are outliers. Life is too short. In my book and how I will forever choose to live the rest of my life, if you have had a promiscuous past as a woman, you aren’t worth a second of my time.
Not true your problem with trust is you.
@@troyrager1352even studies back it up
He's like a tatted out chick, lots of trauma and drama on his side. Crazy attracts crazy.
"She wants Spider-Man, but she walks past Peter Parker every day." ~ Ethan
Damn that's a great analogy.
I salute you sir. Fantastic allegory!
Do you mean she ignores Peter Parker?
@@useruser_notinuse same thing
And she fantasises about the green goblin when she's in bed with Spiderman.
She didn't get raped, she had a train ran on her
100%, she wilfully done it, and after that regret it and she calls it grape
“She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”
I bet she's been under other guys during his turn too
Bullshit! And outdated
Men are Success Objects And Women Are Beauty Objects.
Men want a Woman Without A promiscuous Past While Women Want a Man With A Financial Future
pure fax
But, he already knew she was promiscuous when he started dating her. He just likes slutty f*male's as long as they're attractive.
Feather in your cap for digesting that, but this guy was happy with her past, and she wanted a more men when she had the guy with the finances.
Men are such wimps 😂
Trick question- you don't deal with it. You leave.
250 comments and yours is the only sane one.
@someone else lol I mean, is there really anything else to do? Not from our perspectives. 👍
This guy is the epitome of “Complicate your life, and then justify why!”. The women aren’t the problem, he is the problem. This guy is one of those guys that can’t be helped.
@@shaneashby5890 Yep. Fuck these guys. Simps ruin their own lives.
Mentally healthy women dont sleep around. Leave her.
He's not mentally healthy either
Thank you.
And mentally healthy men don't date promiscuous women
Street guy with a street girl. What's the problem? That's all this guy can get.
It's crazy to me how some of the callers are intelligent enough to start their own companies but then lack the proper knowledge to handle such simple situations.
The problem is not that the girl is/was promiscuous. The problem is that YOU brought a promiscuous girl into your life or that you didn't vet her properly at least.
If the guy had done some of those mistakes (cohabitation) on some other countries, you could be viewed as a couple and lose half of your stuff for nothing. You can't save her. Matter of fact, she doesn't want to be saved.
Final answer: You don't handle her, just like you don't put toothpaste back in the tube.
this should not be a surprise. some of the richest men get taken to the cleaners or fall for cough cough thing yet they made it big
Gents. It’s cultural conditioning. It isn’t because they are stupid. It’s because they have been told how to treat women and women have been taught how to manipulate men. This has happened for centuries
That's because most are lying. Look at the body language and expressions, compared to what comes out of their mouth.
Lmao you don’t put toothpaste back in the tube Lmao 🤣!!!
the answer is, you don't deal with women with a promiscuous past. kick her to the curb and get rid of the $lut. its that simple.
A promiscuous woman is like a double black diamond run at a ski resort: you should already know what you’re doing before you get on it.
Double black says it all
As someone who's dealt with substance abuse.... This dude has all the signs of somebody literally "addicted." There is no rationale or reason an addict can give you. All you know is as soon as they walk out of the room you instantly get the feeling they're going to relapse and end up in the same dumb situation. I'm sorry to say this, they are a waste of time. They have to fuck themselves up bad enough that they change. All you can do is hope they figure it out before it's too late. I'm amazed he doesn't have kids with some chick yet.
Your saying he’s addicted to this gal he’s got?
@@aidangutierrez5736 He's addicted to self-deception ... in every way
He didn't mention if he already has kids
I was addicted to a bpd girl few yrs ago, the addiction sucks , hard to let go and when she does drop you it’s literally withdrawal symptoms for months
That's what I'm dealing with at the moment. I feel like an addict going thru withdrawal.
@@oWMatt it took me months to get better, then I found the RP now I’m all kinds of fked up
@@mikea1534 what do you mean by all kinds of fkd up?
@@oWMatt this RP is new to me , I have always been a blue pilled guy, I never dated much so I’m unfamiliar with how women can operate, once I found the rp I learned so much and I understand more, now I’m just disappointed and discussed with dating currently
@@mikea1534 You just need to work on yourself and the rest will follow. It won't be easy. I don't think RP is the best thing out there today. Maybe you should watch a video on YT: Sam Vaknin-Redpill nonsense ;)
My mom told me as a young man " women will run game on you and you won't even see it".
When we don't know what to look for, we don't see it.
Run game very fast and smooth 😂
Man I SO used to be this guy. I think it's a phase that all men go thru. But for him to still be there in his late 30's... damn. This dude needs to grow up.
problem most men are molded to be like this.
Most men are simps ! My guy left me for 😮a promiscuous girl too 😮
Women are like roller coaster. The wait is long, the ride is short, and there's a line of men behind you waiting their turn. So just enjoy the ride and move on." ~TFM
Low class attitude. You also have the choice to have standards and say no
First mistake was taking a "travel girl" seriously. Any chick who's willing to uproot from her home country to go live alone elsewhere especially through hostels is a NOT a good quality woman.
Dude, she's using you.
She sees you as the beta provider.
Dump her.
I’ve figured out over the years looking back that a girl I would have married was unnaturally promiscuous. We were together from literally 15-22. Looking back at 50, I remember she already had a body count of 2 at 15. I moved away after the break up, college, career, retirement but still remained about two degrees of separation from her. All I heard in passing was stories of addiction, cheating and plastic surgery. Last I heard she’s divorced and financially wrecked herself and the CHAD. Could have been me 🤷♂️
He sounds like a "NICE GUY" like I was in my past trying to save a HO, can't do it brother they are damaged beyond repair and they will break you till you can't be fixed either
She had PTSD and needed a place to live as well as a daddy.
😂😂😂😂😂
PTSD for sure... Post Traumatic S!*t Disorder
Sounds like my Ex: PTSD, Traumatic childhood but had 3 kids by 2 dudes and refused to be accountable for her shit behavior.
@@jourdanshepard31 my step son is going through this as well, but he cheated with a cheater.
@@towardsthelight220 I’ve been there. Be safe out here king
If you need some content… let’s chat. I married at 32 and moved to hawaii…. Where she was from. That is a different world and everything you speak of, I have lived. One son, dated a multi millionaire, Surgeons, only fans girls, single moms and it all. What you share is probably the best advice for young men out there and you are not bashing women. You are teaching young warriors how to manage life. Mad respect brother
Well said.
You dated a millionaire? Cool!
Seems like a good dude! Thant being said, if he’s use to an environment of chaos from growing up in it, he will gravitate to crazy because it’s like mothered milk. Also, if he’s an empathetic personality, he WILL be addicted to narcissistic people and good women will never fit the bill. GodSpeed my friend. The work begins with you.
I am also from Belgium. He can consult me. Narcisme België.
Great words David. I salute you.
He first needs to know that in English “good night” is used as a farewell, and not a greeting as in other languages.
Me to a T. Been in chaos/ unstable environments/ relationships/ friendships/ biz partners all my life. Trying to figure out how to be okay with normal but I just can’t relate. It’s sucks but sometimes it feels good to know someone understands what you’ve been through.
“Fix yourself first” I really needed to hear that.
Don't get attached. No matter how hot they are. I know it's easier said than done, but you gotta be able to walk away the moment you spot the red flags and see the damage within her. Sometimes it's not fair and it's something that happened to her, sometimes it may be self-inflicted damage through bad choices. She WILL become your problem if you ignore the signs.
Your comment should be read every day, it’s a great reminder.
They have demons and they have no problem dropping them mfs off on you before they dip out not only do you have to fight yours now you’re in a whole new fight with the darkness they leave behind
Great comment, very true
As a young man(Im 54 now)it used to bother me when a woman slept with a lot of guys in their past and they’d get the boot. Friends would say oh what’s the big deal that was in her past blah blah but in hindsight I was onto something
Love how Rich try to extract the truth out of the story. Keep up the great work, Rich!
He's codependent, nothing to be ashamed of. Must men are. He needs to deal with that before getting back in a relationship. Best luck mate.
The alligator analogy 🐊🐊😂😂 // Yea, He.is.the.chaos. He keeps attracting the crazies because he does not value himself. He wants to be a nice guy, people pleaser etc so he let's people get away with things that they shouldn't. Probably can't even see the sheer number of ways people are violating him. - Generally speaking, I'd bet he doesn't think people (women in particular) need to work for, or earn his attention. - If he wants to improve, he'll first need to get sick of being in pain. Then he'll stop letting women play around in the emotional areas of his life and create stronger boundaries.
I've been backpacking around hostels in Australia, Europe and South East Asia when I was in my 20's. I seen women ride all round them in dorms, regret the countless trains. Then wake up and come to the realization that they were assaulted. These women are nothing but trouble
Respectful, straightforward and no-BS responses from Rich. Good therapy session.
He’s attracted to the drama.
I was literally looking this specific topic up. Thamk you for posting it. I refuse to date or waste time with a woman with a major promiscuous past.
I have a strong hunch that Rich indeed had the conversation he mentioned earlier about “what did I tell you the last time we spoke” and it went in one ear and out the other. I’m guessing it’ll happen again here.
She's left. Guy is an international poon hound, Spain, argentina, Colombia and I think Cooper is correct one of these chicks who hook up on day 1 is going to fuck him over good
Bloke goes crazy for a beautiful girl. That’s the real problem here.
It's a matter of status and exhibits preselection. The problem was keeping her in line. There are things he's not saying here but a guess is that she was unfaithful to him at least once and that was towards the end of the relationship.
@@kevinjohnson8220 Yeah, dude was all over the place blabbing nonsense like a female... I avoid those guys
You got so much patience man…. This guy deserves everything that’s happening
He sounds like he's attracted to the danger of dating women like his ex. He's like the male version of a girl who chases only bad boys.
Because he's not looking for kids or a long term relationship, he's not search for wife material women. I bet if a girl is firm that she wants to wait until marriage then he's gonna pass on her, thus leaving himself only the hookup type women.
Remember, from the streets did she emerge to the streets she shall return. - Winnie the Pooh
Is that chapter 3 of the cheek slaying gospel?
@@interesting2491 You bet your ass. Winnie The Pooh also once wrote the best seller "How to enter the fishhole in and out without paying". Sold millions but that was before Winnie The Pooh turned to MGTOW :D
Any woman who would rather spend her time with another heterosexual man and gives the excuse 'we are just friends' does not see you as her best option and will cheat on you. Give her an ultimatum, she has to pick you, or she can pick the male friend. If she picks the male friend, she was going to cheat on your anyways, so you just saved yourself a bunch of time. This behaviour is most common in women in their 20s.
Seems like a good dude. Probably hilarious to talk with
My son's mother goes to a lgtbq body positive swing club every saturday while I have the kid! I always had a bad feeling about her. She had a promiscuous past that I chose to ignore for many years. After we broke up she went right back to her old lifestyle. Some people don't need alcohol or drugs to hit rock bottom!
Gee it’s amazing you always had a bad feeling about her but yet you have a kid with this woman. Unbelievable. Yeah it sounds a little condescending on my part but I’m sick and tired of guys -saps like yourself who fall for these women and have kids with them. Its incredible.
Well you're right. I got duped and it was my fault for thinking people can change. Never claimed otherwise. But thanks for chiming in.
Hey man, I fell for something similar. Met my son’s mother while I was in the military and she was in as well. Very flirtatious and that led to us breaking up the first time and I didn’t learn my lesson from that. Long story short we reconnected a year later then 8 months later I got “trapped” into having my son by her. Traumatized me a bit because I didn’t have sex with her during the whole pregnancy and even stuck around until my son was 4 but recently found out she’s into witchcraft/voodoo whatever you want to call it and is a super whore. Talks to plenty married men, and regular men on top of neglecting my son’s development since he has autism and you have to put the work in as a parent to get him up to standard. She’s also into sex clubs in Tampa. I found all this out from the tablet she gives my son to play on because the dumass had her Apple ID linked to it. All I have to say from this situation is you live and learn and I’ll definitely not ignore the flags next time around!
Rich!!! You are the man! The crock analogy is spot on! I have read your book at least a dozen times and maybe 10 have been because I was sharing it with other brother! It’s perfect for a road-trip.
Mad respect to how you show up. I have been there and done that like you and have learned by 40 what the fuck What to focus on.
Keep up the good work and proud of you for standing tall as you do!
I understand this guy so much because i have been doing the same and i am 26. I keep chasing who*es
The token reference to the dynamic of ‘crazy women = great sex’ will always get a chuckle out of me.
I'll be honest. The more that I hear this person talk. The more I realize that he's broken. So broken that he doesn't realize that he is avoiding something. He uses both work and girls to fix it, but it won't. One word of advice: stop this "spinning plates" BS thing. What a sad life.
The relationship was over before it started. Just get the p-sleeve and keep it moving. Stop investing your time and emotion into this woman. Get out of the matrix man. 😆
When you're a Clark kent and she's always looking for superman there's nothing much you can do. But with the little self-respect and dignity left of you, you can redeem yourself by improving your life wholistically.
I was dating a 50 something divorcee. She said when younger she had so many boyfriends she forgot their names. 6 years post divorce after extensive dating nobody has met her friends supposedly....
By running away quickly and never look back
You don't deal with women like that period end of story. There is no silver bullet to make a wife out of 304. All of her 304 habits, preferences, etc are there to stay forever, so why would you invite such chaos into your life ? Once you know that's who she is the only thing to do is to show her way back to the streets.
So there’s rare exceptions. I have read (taking it at face value) stories of how women stopped being H03s. Almost always it takes time of them being single and not riding the carousel to reroute their brains. From a minimum of 6mo to usually 2 or more years. During that time, they develop self control.
The only con that I have seen is you get the timid boring version of her and she makes you wait in all of these stories which is usually what kills relationships and marriages and they also lie.
It’s best if you find a girl with a very low notch count and consistent with her past behaviors. If she does happen to lie to you and there’s kids involved find out if she took her time and focused on not being a h03. If she did, tread carefully.. if she didn’t, plan your exit strategy
The commercial before this video was where to seek help for a poly relationship. That was so ironic and hilarious.
yeah it is
You don't if you know about her past. If you're unsure, monitor her movements. You should know who she truly is within 3 months.
Another quality video by Rich saving mens lives 🙏
if she offered him crack rock he would tk it for the hell of it
they def had done coke together lol
I tell you what I do , I don’t it’s simple. But most guys fall for their shit. If you want the truth about a woman ask her ex he’ll tell you everything you need to know. Also listen to what she says her ex said about her they tell on themselves every-time if you pay attention.
@@daciasanderoguys1801 absolutely will they will tell you their red flags with almost no inquiry needed.
16:02 gets me cracking up😂😂 so why drive it rich says 😂
This is what happens when a Man is thinking with his “little Head” instead of his “Big Head!” I understand this because I once was between 15-34 Years of age at one time!
Only the little head did the thinking??
Don't deal with her at all...leave her. Save yourself. She's bi polar probably borderline. Get out and safe your sanity. She needs to work on herself.
He like crazy 😆
Speaking from experience.. people can change.. that being said they have to be willing to change.. and willing to get the help to change. Change doesn’t happen automatically. My wife has a past , as her childhood was horrible she did a lot of horrible things as a young adult, but she got help. She is a completely different woman now in her 30s as she was in her 20s. The fact that she had many partners as did I, doesn’t bother me because 1. I don’t have a self esteem or insecurity issues I know I’m the best lover she ever had and ever will have. two, if I judged her based on her past, I would have missed out on the wonderful woman she is today, she cares for the home, make’s wonderful dishes , we literally have the best conversations on a daily, amazing sex life, this woman rubs my back, manicures my feet, this is what you get when you quit the boy mentality and grow up and become a man. She doesn’t have to work although she has her side hustles and is going to school to get her masters in psychology as she wants to help others that have suffered abuse as well. The entire key here is, the person has to be ready for change and actively seek out help and put in the work.. if the woman doesn’t see anything wrong with the way she is living and thinks the problem is you run the other way and drop her like a bad habit.
Hope you two live happily ever after like Adam & Eve. You two are not supposed to be 100% uncorrupted. That's the whole point of marriage or being in a loving relationship with a woman. You are together because you love eachother despite you past luggage =) prove Richard, the whole MGTOW and me wrong.
Thank you! I appreciate that.
@@sinfulyetsaved eventually she will crave the past dick come back after 10 years wel see
you settled for a 304. No man wants to invest in a girl who others got without any investment. You settled.
@@BalkanManic these "others" no longer exist in reality, only in your imagination, to prey on your insecurities
He looks like the farcry dude 😂😂
Yeah the common thread is the struggle with letting go. I get it, they had good qualities but you can never take them seriously. Just have fun and thats it.
Long story longer... lol 🤣
This is the battle of rational thought vs sexual need/wants. I dated a similar lady…she was 38 yo with a fantastic body, fake implants, long blonde hair, green eyes, 5’9 120lbs, tattoos, party girl, high body count, and fun. Sure the sex was great! But she couldn’t pair bond well and she had a high need for attention. These women will never be good long term companions.
You know as a Muslim Arab 🎉 ❤ I’m proud that we don’t fit in that ‘crazy shitty promiscuous girl’ moving in with a bf or finessing a guy etc ! God Bless Us ! Keep your legs closed ! ❤ locked 🔒
lol yol are lucky
Based
Good to luck to you Gianni!
I enjoyed that short and long clip
Simple. In business, one must learn when to cut your losses and move on. With women, the earlier the greater the sanity. Just walk away. If she inquires, tell but don't argue, and don't stick around for the drama. Life is tough enough without that.
Complicate life, justify it. Complicate life, justify it.
It's like buying a fiat 500 , when you wanted a Porshe, changing the floor mats is not going to satisfy you.
Rich Cooper says so many things I agree with
I don’t know how some people even put a sentence together 🤦♂️
Words are hard, man...
Almost all people have been promiscuous at some point in their lives . Promiscuity for a lot of people is a life phase stage , people change as they get older. I don't care if a woman has a promiscuous past,if she's in love with me and I love her that's all that matters
4:17 Rhymes more with "rain" that she was ran through 😂😂😂
Ok I see, he failed every shit test.
And Rick should have added: “And don’t get anyone pregnant!”
I have an ex from years ago, still super hot, a grown kid, been ran through by a couple hundred guys! She really can’t understand why good men don’t want anything to do with her….
If you can have access to beautiful women for sex and company but they have a lot of red flags would you still go for it even if it was a short term relationship?
1. accept it
2. dont accept it and let her go
Pretty simple
Trying to change a girl like that is the same when women tries to change a criminal guy and thinks he is a good person.
Why would you deal with it? No sense in dumpster diving. That is trash that should be discarded.
I always fast forward to Rich talking only. Yeah I know I am bad listener. I don't like to listen to simping stories. It is painfull.
lmao
rich is black pill thou
No he is not. Has a girlfriend, succes and a positive mind set.
@@leonelorozco2514 true but he should be made man and have kids by now. imagine growing old and thinking about yourself only whole life and not having your next gen (kids). i think having family is huge aspect in ones life next to money/ career etc. this is very hard to achieve today tho
He does have kidz. He has a daughter
Hi Rich. 🥰🥰🥰
It amazes me how little common sense some men have. If you have to call in… it’s time to cut it off
Rich, you're the best friend every guy wish he could confide in. You ask the right questions. "Tell me bout your mother?" asked Dr Freud, "Tell me about your father?". Dude is hooked on women gone wrong. Indeed, I've drank from the cup. Its a thrill. Also, Its an intoxicating cup. And, its just as easy for a woman or a man to stay drunk on it if they don't stop to sober up to ask why? I wonder if there are any men who have wondered why they seek out women like their mothers' ? (Besides Freud) What, if Mom was a bad girl? Is that what a fellow seeks out as a grown man? I bet that's what others seek until they understand the pathology of their behavior. Rich you've saved men from bad choices or spending thousands of dollars and hours in psychotherapy to understand their relationships; because, you share how you made sense of your own experiences then built on it with research and giving good advice. Thx
The same you would any other woman. You love her protect her take care of her trust her and don’t take your problems out on her.
Don't settle. You'll ALWAYS regret it.
Over 5 bodies is settling 💯 of the time.
Rich didn't ask the most important question: did she swallow ??!
Regret does not equal "grape" .
That guy is a huge red flag himself. It's no wonder he attracts similar types of women.
"How Do I Deal With a Girlfriend With a Promiscuous Past" ? - the bigger question is how do I find out that she had a promiscuous past. I'm an old married for almost 30 years guy, who's wife was a virgin when we had s... for the fist time. Maybe that's why we're still together, but also because she's logical like a mane, she's not materialistic, she's strong but also listens and follows my advice, she's financially responsible. So nowadays I'd say a man should just assume that a woman he's about to day had a promiscuous past and he'd be right 90% of the time.
I have dated nordic girl For a year. Everything is going good and she accepts this consept.. except now ..She wants go with Friends to travelling.
Which I responded relation is done if you choose to go.
Im not insecure or jeleous. Thinking Longterm this.
Im 30 , got looks, Fit ,money is crowing all good , I got options
European people travel and aren't hung up on counts
They have demons and they have no problem dropping them mfs off on you before they dip out not only do you have to fight yours now you’re in a whole new fight with the darkness they leave behind
Run fellas it’s not worth it
Find a new girlfriend.
He and the girl are just alike. To save another woman his misery and another man her misery, they should marry and work things out.
What if an old hookup texted her asking for sex? Mine entertained him before blocking him😭
Don’t deal with it because you don’t get involved with someone like that.