A Formula To Master The Art Of Rizz
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In today’s video, you’ll learn 6 habits that instantly make you more attractive.
We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Jack Harlow, because he has an easy, authentic style of flirting that many women find extremely attractive.
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0:00 - Intro
0:21 - #1: Approach without hesitation
1:59 - #2: Assume good intent
3:37 - #3: Use the push/pull method
5:27 - #4: Be honest in situations where a lot of guys would lie
6:12 - #5: Don't be desperate for a romantic connection
6:57 - #6: Have standards beyond beauty
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He’s an example of not just talking to women you find attractive and want to date. Talk to all women and get practice at complimenting and teasing people without expecting anything back.
Flirt with the world!
Can anyone see my above comment or am I shadow banned again?
@@honkhonk5181yes bro i dont see ur comment man unfortunate 😢
thats what all players did in their child/ teenage hood 🤦🏾♂️ only if i knew. its all bout vision yk but its never too late.
@@honkhonk5181 I have been shadow banned on Anomaly's channel and I feel you bro 🥲
Pro tip: You don't actually have to replace "I'm Jack" with your name. More women will fall for you if they think you're Jack Harlow
I am Jack's sense of self worth
What about not looking like him?
@@siniquezu bro , i am Jack's love for witty fight club references
Who's Jack?
@@latetodagame1892 mc of fight club (actually is name is sabastian , but fans call him jack)
"To be attractive have standards that are beyond beauty". wish that was taught to all in school
So real
"Just something ugly people say"
No, it shouldnt be thought because then it would be normal. And people don't want the same thing they want something new. Then we had to learn something else to stand out!
B.S. Everyone pretends looks don't matter ... until they do.
I think it is, it's just really against our nature.
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Interesting, I'll look it up
Is it on Amazon?
The only ones I found on Amazon are “Casanova Secrets” and “Conversation Casanova”.
And several others that are titled “The Playbook”
Is there any rewiew of this book?
The description alone reeks of BS
@@user-zc3wh4tz5t if you have better recommendations do share?
Takeaway
1. Approach without hesitation
Have some ice breaker line ready
2. If someone makes fun assume good intent, don't lose smile, playfuly tease them back
3. Compliment in a way that is not creepy without expecting anything
Practice complimenting
4. Be honest in situation where lot of guys would lie
5. Don't be desperate for romantic connection
6. Have standards beyond be beauty
For that have other things in life that you care about and have options by developing charisma
Also using famous people as an example isn't completely transparent. As they are likely to have people already interested in speaking to them.....an average joe following these steps is way more likely to get shot down, before an interaction even really starts.
There really should be a disclaimer saying that you can do all of this and still get no results.
facts@@rileydibling9883
All false. Be handsome or rich or both at the same time. Beautiful women or women out of your league won't settle for average men. That's the cold heart truth. If you're an average guy and you managed to get yourself a beautiful woman then consider yourself lucky
3 and 1 are off especially 1. Do not have lines ready. Has to be off the cuff. Otherwise is disingenuous and women will notice.
I believe an attractive quality is not being afraid to walk away if your being treated of lesser value. If someone is genuinely not respectful to you (man/ woman), make it clear that you wont tolerate it. That’s having standards.
Did that a few years ago. Girl was interested in my house- told her to get lost.
It definitely helps in making you feeling better about yourself, but it does nothing to make her feel attracted. It's not like if she's disinterested, you casually walking away is going to intrigue her or make her think "omg, he's walking away?" and suddenly be interested in you. But yes, it's definitely better than sticking around awkwardly.
@@fuzzypanda1684 - At the end of the day, not every girl is gonna like you. And walking away from a girl who is showing little interest in you at a bar, demonstrates that you hold yourself in high value. Why focus on someone that’s not interested when their could be many others that are. Easier said than done btw
Pro tip no 1. Introduce yourself as being Jack Harlow
Pro tip no 2. Look like Jack Harlow
@@anteshell pro tip no 3. Be Jack Harlow
Pro tip no 4. Don’t be not Jack Harlow
nah, be yourself and don't try being somebody else, it's inauthentic
@@shiv_ring A special bonus tip just for you: Good sense of humour is attractive. Arguing against obvious jokes is not.
"Doing right things and expecting nothing in return"
That's such an ATTRACTIVE trait
Key moments
fake defensiveness
02:30 Smile. This shows you are unphased.
Honest Compliment
04:18 You know how to make a man smile. you just warmed my soul up.
Where are all the other ones
bro probably got smiled at and got a warming compliment while writing his comment and just left💀
@@BananaRaid HAHA he gave up
What if your teeth is jacked and hate your smile ?
Looks aren’t everything, let’s be real Jack Harlow is an average looking guy but his confidence helps, being 6’3 helps too
Love yourself first. Loving yourself gives you self confidence. And self confidence is the most attractive.
Once you love and respect yourself, anyone else's love or respect becomes redundant & useless. Let no one in.
See your need for Jesus since He died for our sins and rose again, ask Him to change your life for His glory, pray for a godly wife and He will bless you if it’s in His will❤❤❤✝️✝️✝️💯💯💯💯
Jack Harlow reminds me of my best friend w how charismatic and confident (yet humble) he is.
Totally stealing that "You just brought a smile to my face" line 😁 Shows that you're having a good time, while also subtly complimenting the person you're talking to, giving them some ownership of making you have a good time 😄
The first one approach without hesitation is honestly very dependent on the context and how attractive you are. Not just physically but the care you've put into your appearance such as appearing clean, well dressed and respectful. By well dressed I dont mean dressing expensively, simply dressing thoughtfully. Those things will make a huge difference in how your approach is received whethwry you hesitate or not. Honestly if someone appears shy and uncertain it is not likely to make me like them less, as long as they get more comfortable once we talk.
Very true. Its also showing interest in what the person is saying, beyond that first Hello. And remembering their name (something I had trouble doing). Linking something with that person's name helps ie. Jack with the curly hair, Sue with the big smile, Joe who likes red... it doesn't have to relate to their look, it can be anything, though remembering Sandeep with deep ocean near the sand didn't work, cause I tried to call him OceanBeach😳🥴(thankfully he saw the funny side too!😅)
@@MoriacMumma7 lol!! I struggle to remember names too, and without reminders like yours I would never remember any names 🤣
The question is, how long are you willing to give them to become comfortable with you?
@@Freedom_is_essential1 depends on all the above mentioned things - and the context.
Hesitation is the first killer of attraction. So despite of what you look like, go with a playful energy and just meet ppl
Step 1: Be Jack Harlow
Giving compliments is soo true. My friend who is very good with women gives compliment even to guys.
2:14 you have to actually understand that you're a human being and not every interaction with other people is meant for you to be attracted. in that interaction it is perfectly fine to be unattractive and tell those two women off. time and place for everything. sometimes i say gm. sometimes i walk past you without a word. that's life.
I just wanted to say how much I love this channel. I don’t really struggle with socializing, but I still enjoy and get use out of these videos. I’m an introvert but I grew up in a very social environment. I love that these videos actually give good life advice and not just face-value charisma skills. I learned a few things and I didn’t even have to practice them, I just noticed that I started doing these things. Also, it’s nice to know about the things that I already do and say that make me charismatic. I often get compliments on how easy it is to talk to me, and these videos have just made it easier for me to understand how the way I behave comes across to other people. I’ve learned a lot about myself and the way I socialize, and it gave me confidence to know that I have a lot of natural charisma. The most valuable lessons have been those on dealing with combative people, or deal with insults. This channel is seriously gold.
I mean, kinda. Everything in this video is very basic, 101 stuff that anyone who's taken even a cursory glance into the world of self-improvement or attracting women would already know. He's not saying anything that hasn't already been said many, many times before. Honestly, he's kinda the WatchMojo of self improvement channels.
@@fuzzypanda1684 you’d be surprised how much people don’t know 😭
Finding a balance of confidence and approachability is paramount
"If she likes and respects you, she'll make it easy for you" ⚡
Lmao you never heard of a congruence test before have ya bud
Especially if you're congruent in a triangle...
women are weird as fock.... normally im always an option
Coach Corey Wayne. Don't take other peoples stuff man.
Wordd
This video is surprisingly good. Well done
Your videos really stand out man!
Hello,
Just wanted to say that I absolutely love your channel. The content is incredibly helpful in improving the attitude while communicating at different social events.
Would you consider making another video on 'how to master small talk'? It's an area I'd love to improve, and your guidance would be beneficial.
Have an amazing weekend
Yes I would love a video on small talk, I find I can only get a conversation going if I ask someone what they have been passionate about lately. Some people love it and others get depressed if they have no passion.
Never clicked an ad, sponsor or anything close... Genuinely considering charisma university 😂
You just made Jack Harlow my favourite Artist right now😅😅
My notes:
1) Approach without hestitation
1) You get first impression
2) Shows confidence
3) Have opening lines
"Hi, I'm [blank]"
"Hey, I don't think I've met you yet, I'm [name]."
1) Explains why your introducing yourself
2) Implies you know a lot of people from the venue
2) If someone is teasing you, assume they're being playful and take it positively
1) Fake defensiveness, with a big smile
2) Tease them back
3) Use the push/pull method
1) Spontaneous teasing and compliments
2) Give a compliment that you would give regardless of if you were attracted to the person or not.
1) "You know how to make a man smile."
2) "You just warmed my soul up."
3) Compliment pertaining to someone's physical nature regardless if they are attractive or not.
4) Honesty in situations that most people would lie
1) Answer even if it's not what the other person may like. It's attractive in itself
You will stand out when you don't seem like you're trying hard to impress them
5) Don't be desperate for a romantic connection
1) Never instantly be all in. If you show interest in dating someone just because they're attractive, it makes you less attractive
6) Have standards beyond beauty
1) Have other things in your life that you care about more than romance
thank you, this video reminded me it is maybe time to clean my trumpet after a while
Jack is such a awesome guy and a real legend💯
I’ve been wanting a breakdown on Jack Harlow for a while, thank you! His charisma is off the charts
his name is 'Jack Harlow', his name has rizz
I would appreciate if you were to do how to have Charisma with someone youve known 10 years. You could help some old relationships get over some bumps.
Are u looking for flirting tips? Or improving your character/reputation?😅
bro move on from that girl
Yes! Great topic, this channel is literally ONLY about first impressions and it gets boring. I stay subbed anyway because theres always some good new nugget of info.
Wrong channel for that buddy. Main thing you can do is to go away for some time then come back better and more fit. Look at other channel for that but honestly it would be easier with an entirely new girl.
Bro she ain't the one trust 😭
The best tip is that women enjoy the feelings of a conversation more that the facts of it which differs a lot from men to men conversations. Being fun, interested, interesting, confident and humourous is the goal rather than trying to appear nice, kind, strong, intelligent, competent, affluent etc... If you are all of these things they will show themselves anyway in time.
“Hi, I don’t know you, but I sure as hell would like to.” - Been my go to for a long time but I’m in a relationship now so I’m not using it anymore 🤝
love your videos, keep up the good work
Confidence: Show confidence by approaching people without hesitation. Have an opening line prepared in case your mind goes blank.
Example: Instead of circling around someone you want to talk to, walk up and introduce yourself with a friendly line such as "Hi, I don't think I've met you yet, I'm Jack."
Positive attitude: If someone teases you, assume they are being playful and respond positively. Don't get defensive.
Example: If someone playfully pokes fun at you, laugh it off and maybe even playfully tease them back.
Push and Pull: Use a mix of compliments and teases to keep the conversation interesting and fun.
Example: Compliment someone on something you genuinely like, then follow it up with a playful tease.
Honesty: Be honest in your interactions. It's more attractive to be genuine than to try to be someone you're not.
Example: If someone asks you what your type is, be honest about your preferences. Don't feel pressured to say what you think they want to hear.
Standards: Have standards for who you date. Don't settle for someone just because they're attractive. Be attracted to someone's whole package, including their personality and interests.
Example: Focus on finding someone who complements you and shares your values, instead of dating someone solely based on their looks.
Options: Having a fulfilling life with friends, hobbies, and passions will make you more attractive. It shows that you are not dependent on a relationship for happiness.
Example: Pursue your interests and develop your charisma. This will not only make you a more well-rounded person but will also make you more attractive to potential partners.
7:30 the next sentences were soooo truuuue 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
These are good tips, also remember to not care. What I mean by that is leave the ego, fear , what ifs , and most importantly never fake an opinion just to appear similar .
never clicked a video so fast when I saw the Jackman
I have to say, the push pull more than anything is huge. I know a lot of people think being nice means they'll get ignored. But it's not being nice that makes people lose interest, it's being boring. And a lot of people who get hung up about being considerate end up tying all the things that could be interesting behind their back.
thanks my man!
All this rizzonomics only works if you as a man have put in the work and can back yourself up through it. Be good at what you do best to the point where people are impressed by it. That way people know if they diss you, you’re unphased by it cuz your work speaks for itself
And even then it can fail to work. You can walk up with a great physique, solid opener, and lots of confidence, but if the universe hates you, you're still not going to get anywhere.
"Unbothered, unfazed, undaunted. Chess speaks for itself" -Hans Niemann
this is the first time i listened to someone teaching
I’ve been wondering when you’d do one on Jack Harlow haha
So what i got from this was focus on yourself and be confident
BIG UPS FOR JACK!
POV: You ended up here searching for the “Rizz for Rizz” song and this was the top result
jus be unique intresting n humourous with the words u say n everyone will love u
yes I am
Nothing can beat a simple “hello”
Masterpiece! 🔥
Jack Harlow’s game reminds me a lot of Bob Leckie from that WWII show “The Pacific” 😂😂😂 W
Oh man. Ur a geniusss
And remember people the best tip of all "Just be yourself" if you try to be something you're not well, idk waht to do about that , thats your mess to clean
Dope video.
Harlow’s so good he had a video with a million views dedicated to his craft 😭
Why is bro glazing jack harlow
jack harlow is sooooo
I am a rizz god after this video, after reading sun tzu the art of war and watching this video I became a girl magnet! Truly wonderful advice out here thank you so much
Post videos
bro is actually glazing on jack fr
Jack Harlow is smooth af
Take it from all the greats kobe Mayweather and Harlow here put what you love first and the right woman will come when the time is right love the part where have standards beyond beauty🙏🔥
Underated Video
Love #2 and "Fake defensiveness" always my go to strategy
This channel is so good.
As a guy who gets no bicthes this is useful
He's a 6 foot 3 famous rapper . That's important .
Great video as usual.
Question for whoever is managing these uploads.
Are you using a thumbnail that catches more clicks initially and replacing it after an hour or so for something more algorithm friendly?
Using that initial boost to help carry it through with a less eye catching thumbnail.
they are probably doing A/B testing. Whichever one generates the most click through within a period of time is the "winner" and stays as the official thumbnail going forward. Even months or years down the line, the "winning" thumbnail may be good enough to attract random viewers.
1. Approach without hesitation
2. Assume people who give you a hard time/ tease you have good intentions
3.Use push/pull method
4. Be honest
5. Be desperate for romance // Dont obsess over beauty
6. Have standards beyond beauty
Finding this channel helped me realize why people like me so much. At the end of the day all it comes down to being a genuine person and treating folks how you would like to be treated. Also it’s important to know your audience.
Nice guys end up last.
@@Dahblackrussian there are dozens of reasons of why that comment is total BS. most common ones are below.
Ask any woman how many nice guys have come and gone, ask why theyve come and gone... theyll probably tell you being nice to get recognized is not being nice, thats being transactional. no one likes someone who is being fake because they have something to gain. be nice for the sake of being nice. if youre anticpating something in return for your your kindness, that just sends major creeper vibe. word travels quick. acting like an incel dont help. And when you dont get what you were after, you post that comment. be genuine. if you have a sh*t attitude youll attract sh*t. dont be a simp. dont be a neckbeard. have confidence. exude confidence. if at first you dont succeed try and try again. work on yourself , youll get there. eat righ sleep right achieve and make new goals. people WILL notice. do not expect someone to invest their time if its clear you dont invest in yourself. there are 7.5 billion people in this world, get out there, learn at least one thing from every experience. build your confidence , amass your knowledge and experiences. we already know the definition of insanity, if nothing is working, maybe its time for a change.
that all may come off as derogatory etc, its actually quite the opposite. what you put out in the world is what youll get back. the mirror effect. best of luck
@@salfyoutube6592 lmao triggered nice essay. "Just be confident bro"? Bet you're one of those r/relationships weirdos who is single and yet giving out platitudes as relationship advise that doesn't work most of the time
@@CandorHispanusjust about everything that was written was already specified on this channel. nerd.
@@salfyoutube6592 maybe, just maybe, you have to work on YOURSELF if you feel the need to post that kind of comment. Also nice guys =/= good guys, there's a reason that term is so specific.
Keep summarizing goo
Toldja, Holey Eternal Omnipresent Greetingz 🤩
Hi my name is…..followed up with a quick and what’s your? Or some derivative is the best pickup line of all time. Be super confident and relaxed. Then the next step is super critical. You need to match their response and energy. If you match their energy in the first few seconds. You’re golden and she’s now interested. This goes for people in general.
Ultimate tip : *BE F***ING RICH*
Lesson: be nice, be playful, never be desperate.
Nice Plug my man..... nice plug.
THANK YOU SO MUCH I NEEDED THIS SO BAD YOU JUST CURED ME BROSKI. I WILL NOW BE THE RIZZARD OF OZ. ALL THE GYATTS ARE NOT SAFE. ALL THE GYATTS WILL BE MINE XDDDDD
Excelent as always! you rock!
i like how they don’t use this video as a way to say “men are dominant blah blah blah women are only things to help men blah blah blah” nice work here guys
fellas presence of the mind is the only key! just dont overanalyze what you are going to say, what she’ll think of you, just start meditating and be present fully in the moment and you shall see magic
What's with the 1 second cuts?
Can't concentrate or absorb what I'm seeing if it's flashing in front of me like I'm Chuck and I'm downloading The Intersect into my brain
This is the best charisma breakdown in a long time!
Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.
@@ericgaston5763 I know. He's a pretty cool dude.
yess i love him
Is there any good books on charisma and how to master things like that?
Don't have depression. Don't meet wrong people and don't be in wrong places, so you actually want to speak to anyone instead of despising them. Easy.
Haha, "don't have depression", so that's what I was missing. Thank you!
You're placing your life into an outer locus of control my brother, it's when we let those things we can't control slip on by, focusing on what we can do-when we focus on what We. Can. Do.
The whole world can seem against you, it really can-it's when you keep standing back up and doing what you can, regardless of how many times you're brought back to your knees, that's when we realize we are more than just the obstacles we face, we are the one overcoming those obstacles, a d learning while we do so.
Keep it up brother, we all fall down. Getting back up is hard, so damn hard, and it can feel like nobody understands. If nobody else is there to witness or validate your strength, or your progress-let yourself be witness enough, validate your own progress to yourself.
Much love, I wish you the best on your journey friend.
Listen to Andrew tate interviews. You need a kick in the pants from a loving father figure
@@Ruben-co6pz lmfao
@@TMCoachJonathanhe makes my brain hurt
Never knew who Jack Harlow was until now.
My takeaway - I'm going to buy some juice boxes!👌
Oh boy ai faint wait to use this on my boys 🤓
30 Shocking psychological facts about attracting people
1 People are more attracted to individuals who exhibit confidence and high self-esteem.
2 Physical attractiveness plays a significant role in initial attraction, but personality traits and behavior ultimately determine long-term attraction.
3 Similarity in interests and values increases the likelihood of attraction and compatibility.
4 Familiarity breeds attraction, as people tend to feel more comfortable and drawn to individuals they have interacted with before.
5 People are more attracted to those who demonstrate a sense of humor and the ability to make them laugh.
6 Body language and nonverbal cues can have a significant impact on attraction, as individuals tend to be drawn to those who exhibit open and approachable body language.
7 The mere-exposure effect suggests that individuals become more attracted to those they are repeatedly exposed to.
8 The availability heuristic suggests that individuals are more attracted to those who are perceived as being scarce or hard to obtain.
9 A person's scent can play a role in attraction, as certain pheromones may be perceived as attractive to others.
10 Individuals tend to be attracted to those who share their level of physical and emotional intimacy.
11 The reciprocity principle suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who show interest and attraction towards them.
12 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit kindness and empathy towards others.
13 The halo effect suggests that individuals are more likely to be attracted to those who possess desirable qualities, even if they may lack in other areas.
14 People tend to be attracted to those who are perceived as being successful and accomplished in their careers or personal lives.
15 The similarity-attraction hypothesis suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who are similar to themselves in terms of demographics, personality, and values.
16 Physical touch, such as holding hands or a gentle touch on the arm, can increase attraction and foster feelings of closeness and intimacy.
17 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit confidence and assertiveness in social situations.
18 The balance theory suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who share their attitudes and beliefs, while avoiding those who hold conflicting views.
19 Physical proximity can increase attraction, as individuals tend to be drawn to those who are in close proximity to them.
20 People tend to be attracted to those who are attentive and responsive to their needs and emotions.
21 Stare people in the eyes while talking with them, always cut to the point, and try to be the one who ends the conversation wherever possible.
22 Physical touch, such as holding hands or a gentle touch on the arm, can increase attraction and foster feelings of closeness and intimacy.
23 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit confidence and assertiveness in social situations.
24 The balance theory suggests that individuals tend to be attracted to those who share their attitudes and beliefs, while avoiding those who hold conflicting views.
25 Physical proximity can increase attraction, as individuals tend to be drawn to those who are in close proximity to them.
26 Never discuss your problems. If you must talk about yourself; use self deprecating humor or say modestly positive things.
27 The mere-thought effect suggests that individuals may become more attracted to someone simply by thinking about them or being reminded of them.
28 People tend to be attracted to those who are perceived as being trustworthy and reliable.
29 The similarity-attraction effect suggests that individuals are more likely to be attracted to those who are similar to them in terms of physical appearance, personality, and interests.
30 People tend to be attracted to those who exhibit a sense of passion and enthusiasm towards their hobbies and interests.eople tend to be attracted to those who ar
Genius...!!
8:40 gnnj
@@sreyashgupta219 The important thing is to help.
Tldr
#21-26 are repeats of #15-20 my guy
I came to this video after a lot of people telling me "I think you got the rizz!"
But I am convinced that all of what they say is an utter joke 😂 idk but I do not even know how to actively woo a woman into liking me romantically hahahaha
skibidiest UA-cam homepage RECOMMANDTION IVE EVER GOT
jack harlow is as smooth as silk
Dark hair is my choice too !
never heard of this man, but he seems chill. awkward a bit, but chill
I love this video!!!! Yeeeessssss!!! Thank you so much!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks! I'm officially a rizzler.
Step 1: Be Jack Harlow.
Got it!
PLEASE COVER THE DEBATE BETWEEN MICHAEL KNOWLES AND Bronte Remsik
Jack just cooking 24/7 lol
These Habits can help but a Woman will find what she likes about you regardless. I've seen Woman who like The Strong, Slient Type, to The Muscular Jock, heck I was a Loner in school and even I got a Love Letter. My best advice Try your best.
You seemed to contradicted yourself in the last sentence.
@@sudhakar7889 Not sure how I can't write all the types women are into I can just tell you what I was back in school, the girl liked Loners. Try your best is a general term anyone can use.
@@user-em6ie2be7x yeah, I didn't see a contradiction either. Best to be/present your best version of you. Nobody likes to be lied to & a lot of women want something other/more than looks imo (though that helps). (Looks/money aren't top on my list. Top 10, but lower top 10😉😅)
Are you a loner but Rich?
Maybe, just maybe, that love letter was a joke from a dude or something. I hope not.
"A new administration" is wild😅🤣
Be tall, be famous..
Be attractive, don't be unattractive.