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  • What’s going on with American boys these days? Why are they falling behind girls in education, health, and career prospects?
    To help answer these questions, John sat down with Dr. Warren Farrell, who’s been studying the issue for decades.
    Dr. Farrell is a political scientist and activist who wrote "The Boy Crisis," a book arguing for the importance of strong father figures in a contemporary culture that often ignores them. He started his career as a board member for the National Organization for Women, and is the only man to have served three terms in that position. Let us know what you think about Dr. Farrell’s ideas down in the comments.
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    Outline:
    [0:00] Intro
    [2:19] What is the boy crisis?
    [10:08] Causes of the crisis
    [19:04] Inequality, liberation, and empowerment
    [31:07] The casualties of identity politics
    [39:58] How dads can combat the boy crisis
    [49:16] The unique contributions of dads
    [58:42] What can single moms do about the boy crisis?
    [1:09:44] Dad deprivation weighs heavily on society
    [1:12:51] Outro
    Dad Saves America is a channel dedicated to celebrating heroic fatherhood while teaching the next generation of fathers strategies they can utilize in parenting their children. We believe strong children come from a strong family. We’ve had many experts in the studio, including Jonathan Haidt, Dr. Drew Pinsky, Troy Kotsur, John Mackey, Ben Askren, and Adam Carolla.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 40

  • @Sgstrummer17
    @Sgstrummer17 Рік тому +7

    This was an awesome talk! As a man raised in a household where we lost our dad to cancer at a young age, it helped piece together some things for me. Thank you.

  • @EricMHowardII-yh1rn
    @EricMHowardII-yh1rn 4 місяці тому +3

    I agree sons needs dads. Thank you for listening sincerely about this situation.

  • @AB-sk7se
    @AB-sk7se Рік тому +8

    My husband and I have some homework to do.

  • @stevelogan7443
    @stevelogan7443 Рік тому +8

    Read "The Boy Crisis" and it changed my life. Thank you Dr Farrell

  • @mew2wins919
    @mew2wins919 Рік тому +3

    Fantastic. Our society is so far away from this discussion becoming mainstream

  • @EricMHowardII-yh1rn
    @EricMHowardII-yh1rn 23 дні тому +1

    Dads can set an example of opening up his figurative heart and encourage his son or daughter can do the same in an truthful and respectful way .
    When everyone gets heard there are plenty of winners all around.
    The dinner table gathering can become a safe haven or a spiritual warzone.

  • @Belzediel
    @Belzediel 24 дні тому +1

    I wonder how Dr. Farrell determines the difference between a prisoner who genuinely has an insight into their potential, and prisoners who see a potential route to early release.

  • @patrickerlandson2138
    @patrickerlandson2138 2 місяці тому +1

    Love your podcast and always enjoy hearing for Warren Farrell...we do have a coutry to save as Dads. Thank you for being in the parental trenches with all of us at Father-Con.

    • @sandponics
      @sandponics 14 днів тому

      No they don't, but apparently fathers need sons, and grandsons.

  • @tedalexander5263
    @tedalexander5263 8 місяців тому +1

    Fantastic content - thanks.

  • @freiheut
    @freiheut 2 місяці тому

    thank you so much for this...

  • @clivematthews95
    @clivematthews95 7 місяців тому +1

    This is very important

  • @JSL177
    @JSL177 5 місяців тому

    It’s my first time on this channel. I have Been a big fan of WF for a long time, however A specific section (4 mins) of this interview allowed me to understand a period of my life that never made sense before. Very appreciated thank you.

    • @DadSavesAmerica
      @DadSavesAmerica  5 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing! This warms my heart and is the reason we work hard to put this content out there in the world.

    • @sandponics
      @sandponics 14 днів тому

      None of my life made any sense, but I am now rich and old, so that is OK by me.

  • @bolt9110
    @bolt9110 7 місяців тому +5

    30:00 the problem with saying "yeah men can be stay at home dads too now", shows a lack of understanding of female arousal and attraction. A woman earning significantly more has been shown to precipitate divorce. Women bristle at thr idea of having to support a man "long term" , and be the breadwinner.
    Also if the woman is working and seeing corporate sharp suited, dominant , aggressive, go getting men in the office, being chased by other women (mate copying), and then comes back home to a stay at home low earning Dad smelling of baby milk, she's not goig to be aroused. Its a downward spiral...
    She initiate divorce, get primary custody, get child support, get alimony etc.
    Men have zero choice to be stay at home Dad because women would leave

    • @anneb889
      @anneb889 5 місяців тому

      The stay at home dad just has to be the Casanova of the stay at home moms…like in Mr Mom the one mom was trying to join up with Michael Keaton. Lol. I actually agree with you. For most of the relationships I know where the wife makes more (he doesn’t even stay home, he is still working) the husband is pretty henpecked.

    • @simonlandon9616
      @simonlandon9616 3 місяці тому +1

      If the high earning woman divorces the stay-at-home dad... She won't get spousal support, HE will. Lol.

  • @mindfulway513
    @mindfulway513 Рік тому +3

    Honest and deep conversation about interesting topics. So many thinks dads and also mums need to know!
    Thanx a lot!
    i am following you from Germany. Am Teacher in the german school system facing the same problems you‘ re discribing. Unfortunately no publisher dares to translate this book ‚Boy Crisis‘ into German language…..
    The feminist gender paradigm has taken control of leading media……

    • @sandponics
      @sandponics 14 днів тому

      When I was a boy at school we troublesome boys often got corporate punishment, we liked it as it made men of us. Today the young women often have more balls than the young men.

  • @eilatharel287
    @eilatharel287 4 місяці тому +1

    reached minute 18 and I so disagree with what he says, that because dads are more of the time away they are less significant to the kids. we home-school our kids. i spend so much more time with the kids than my husband does, who works full time. He is at least as significant as me, if not the more significant parent, because he is much more fun, he is very involved, and he does things with them that i can't

    • @simonlandon9616
      @simonlandon9616 3 місяці тому

      Good point... And he does make it seem all men are gone far away.
      MANY men own their own businesses.
      I own my own business... Here's my POV: yes the hours are long... But they are flexible. My kids come to my business, play at my business, grow up learning WAY more about hard work and business than if I had a cubicle where kids are not allowed.
      You can be a man that works and still be very involved with your kids.
      BTW- good for you for homeschooling!

    • @sandponics
      @sandponics 14 днів тому

      As a hunter gather I am often out of the cave hunting for game, and leave my wife back in the cave looking after the kids and preparing a meal for me when I return, she often also goes out to gather a few nuts and berries, and I am the biggest nut she ever found. Have a nice day!

  • @rafresendenrafresenden.1644
    @rafresendenrafresenden.1644 Рік тому +1

    cool

  • @spunkybuddy
    @spunkybuddy Рік тому +1

    Here from BB. U2?

  • @amiteshdas2989
    @amiteshdas2989 7 годин тому

    Since gender is a social construct, a female parent can play the role of father as well as a male parent. So that way a dad is not needed if mom can be a dad. That two parents is better than one is another matter.

  • @bolt9110
    @bolt9110 7 місяців тому +1

    59:00 Stop having the baby of men out of your league you never had any chance of locking down because he had better female options than you.
    Stop divorcing your husband. Be better, more appreciative wives.
    . Lose the entitlement. A relationship is an exchange of value; so be valuable enough to your man that he Willingly wants to be with you. .

    • @bolt9110
      @bolt9110 7 місяців тому

      @@nemaveze9277 Sounds like someone wasn't spanked enough by their last bf ;)

  • @GhazDakkaDaKrumpa
    @GhazDakkaDaKrumpa 8 місяців тому

    Step one wake up
    Step two get a job

  • @alexsandersmith1880
    @alexsandersmith1880 Рік тому

    Guilty

  • @khaiplusdotcom404
    @khaiplusdotcom404 Рік тому

    I guess lol

  • @fool1124
    @fool1124 7 місяців тому +1

    i get it, solution is to put dads at home and moms go to work and climb the corporate ladder, feminists win

    • @sandponics
      @sandponics 14 днів тому

      Woman, look to your house, and leave men's work to men.

  • @fapstronaut3671
    @fapstronaut3671 2 місяці тому

    Its Very sad There IS only 7k views on this gem.

    • @sandponics
      @sandponics 14 днів тому

      That is because no one cares, and neither should you. People live under the illusion that other people care for them, but in reality they don't, they only care for themselves, and in a hundred years time most of us will hopefully have been forgotten.