completely off topic comment but I tried your scent combo of the eos + pistachio and cloud perfume and girl you were COOKING with that one. Elite combo
One of the best bits of advice I’ve ever seen for gaining self confidence is to remember that “confidence is gained by doing the scary thing that required confidence in the first place” and that was mind blowing to me but it’s so true!
Jelousy comes when you desire sth other person has. Focus on what are those desires and work to get there, if u use that as an inspiration your jelousy will dissapear
You've honestly helped me improve myself so much and i'm so thankful to you 😭 I went from being that shy, insecure girl to the most confident person I know all thanks to you! You're literally amazing, we love you Lena ❤️
"Be a student, as long as you live" is an important lesson I've learned in my 20-30s🤓. I'm in my 40s now, learning a lot from you😊!Lots of love from Japan!❤
🥹I'm a freshman in highschool and you helped me at my lowest when I was in 8th grade. Thank YOU, I now stop caring what others think of me, I'm more confident. I became what I didn't think was possible. LY ❤❤❤
Love how you said hate only comes from below. It reminded me of another quote I heard "People can only talk behind your back if you're in front of them" or something like that. So powerful.
Girl I’m 28 and learned so much from this video lol I listened as I meal prepped! I’m totally stepping into a new me! I’m down 50lbs and have 50 more to lose! Love you videos truly motivate me love ya girly!
I do not know how to thank you. I start working out, feel more confident, believe in myself, and do not care about others; all of this happens because of you. Lena, you are my motivation. I see myself in you, and I am your biggest fan from Ethiopia. I love you🥰🥰🥰
watching this while deep-cleaning my room...I feel like in a way it HEALED me it was like being 'yelled' at (nicely) by my bestie about everything I needed to hear. it's like that friend that tells you what you need to hear without realizing you needed to hear that thing?? ya feel me? anyways thanks for this Lena 🥰
This advice really helped me. I live in an abusive household like physical and mental abuse and I can definitely say I know myself and what I’m Capable of. What they are doing to me doesn’t even scratch my skin🙂↔️🤚
I feel you, my friend. My mother is unfortunately also an abusive narcissist. I'm turning 24 tomorrow. So 24 years of narcissistic abuse that includes emotional, mental, physical, financial and spiritual abuse. And I'm making my way on saving up enough money to move out and all. We've got this ❤ hang in there. It's people like you and I who've been through what we've experienced who are the most mentally strongest.
@@bwingbwinggwiyomi don’t worry even though it’s hard now, I do believe this will benefit us in the future and help us choose the right people that should be in our lives. GOOD LUCK YOU GOT THISSSS🤍🤍🤍🤍
I feel the self confidence and in my neurodivergent journey, what you say resonates with me. People are not needed if they are not good for you. You know you best and if they do not like it, tough luck.
Girl I have never met someone who thought like this. I thought I was the only one bc people don’t normally talk about it and explain it in this way❤️ Yessssss I love it🥹
Yes choosing to only be around respectful people should be more of a priority instead of settling for jealous and fake friends. Be strong enough to go it alone until you find your tribe
That's what I've been doing too. Thankfully, it's easier than me for many because I grew up an introverted only child so I know how to enjoy my own company and make my own fun. I do get the occasional spouts of loneliness from being alone. But I know, deep down, it's for my own good till I find my soul tribe ❤ cause I'd rather have a few quality close friends with deep connections than 100 fake friends that are superficial relationships.
I'm so glad that I've subscribed to your channel Lena 🤧💓 You THE BEST!!!!! You've changed my life 😭 and I'm forever grateful to your channel for giving me all the positivity
Thanks you have also helped me so much with being confident in my self and made me drop my fake friend and now have the friends that mean the world to me and you have made me such a productive person . I have been watching you for 1 year or so now and I had improved in like a few months and everyone remember whatever someone says abt you is an opinion not a fact . And also tell your self this in a hard time “if someone is picking in me feel bad for them don’t make people feel bad for you “ go out their and live your life bye guys xx
I usually don’t like these mindset girly influencer videos, but I love how you just get straight to the point and talk quickly about the topics! And the topics you talk about are very useful and interesting as well! Subscribed!
Girl!!! Your helping me so much! I come from 8 years of a terrible school.. but I’m making a comback in my new school! I do gymnasium en I’m enjoing my Life again! You help me so much with this!!! Thank you!
What helps me keep going is watching content like this all the time, and that's why I also got the courage to post my own videos here. I wish you success
To add to 11:40 if you are with a friend or partner who often says they're so mean, a bad person, etc. they are often not just being humble - BELIEVE them!
I was really insecure and you really helped me gain confidence. You are one of the only people out there whose tips actually worked for me and who really helped me improve myself. I will always support you, and I love you so much!
I always tried to gain confidence through affirmations and good thoughts and (even though it worked a lot) I kinda forgot what confidence really is; it´s the ability to accept your strengths AND weaknesses. I had really bad social anxiety and I still struggle with it sometimes when I want to make friends (pro tip: get into customer service if you want to work on your social anxiety; you will realize how strangers dont matter in your life and it will improve your social skills A LOT). Anyway, I noticed that I tried to focus on this ideal version of me so much that I got angry when I thought about my insecurities because in my mind I should already love myself, be confident and not have those insecurities. So the first thing you should do is write down your strengths and your insecurities/weaknesses and try to get comfortable with both of them until someone could tell you your flaws and you just don´t care cause it doesn´t affect you, because you accepted it in your own head!
I watched so many videos like this and didn't even connected myself to this because I didn't really understand. But with this video I literally resonate with all advice. Thank you so much, it was so helpful 💓
Needed this video so much!!! Been in a rut and had a friend ghost me out of the blue so i needed the reminder to not waste time on people who don't pour into me, i deserve better!!!❤️💜🤞
Honestly YOU are the first and ONLY youtuber/influencer I adore, you litteraly help me improve my everyday life and routine, I owe you my whole motivation in acheaving the desir of changing my lifestyle for the better.I personnaly can't wait for thr next vid. WE LOVE YOU LENA ❤
Hii girl, I just want to thank u. I’ve been following u since 2022 /2021 when I had some issues to get through. And ur videos literally helped so much, they made me stronger and I slowly gained my life back . I know how u usually speak about ur followers in your videos , saying that u are so thankful for us, but believe me…u have to know that without even knowing u help so many people. We should thank u in the first place. U give us hope, and u are a safe place for many of us. Thank u. We are so thankful for ur words, ur kindness and ur realism. U are the reason why I was getting my life back in the first place. Just Thank u. Keep goin’, u are the best. ❤️
I’ve watched this twice now bc it was everything I needed to hear. For the last couple of days I’ve been stuck in my mind beating myself and just feeling sorry for myself when a lot of what I’m down about is controllable. Thank you for reminding me to be grateful and get unstuck.
Lena Literally This Video Is One Of My Top 5 Best Videos You Have Upload Since I Subscribed To Your Channel Around 2 Years And Half Ago Maybe 3 Years Ago! Have A Wonderful Week Girl!! ✨✨💪💪✨✨ By The Way You Go Girl!!
Everything is so true. You look so confident and you attract me, I genuinely want to be your friend because of the way you speak. You're doing a great job❤️
Another awesome video!! If possible could you do a video on multiple tips and different ways to find your style wardrobe, ideas of a main character playlist,but definitely looking forward to PCOS,app recommendations, and more content. 💯🙌
finally actually good advice, most of these I learned while growing up too and they have truly meant the world to me ever since that day. i wish everyone the best in their journey🦋🦋
Hey Lena you have helped me so much as a 13 year old. I recently started working out because of you which is something I have been so scared to do. I’m not doing a ton other than running and going on walks and stretching but without you I wouldn’t be doing any of that. I love listening to your videos while I run and they make running so much better. Thank you so much Lena ❤
Since I started watching your videos I have so much more confidence and my life is so much better since I followed your advice. thank you so much, love you 💕
I wish I had these videos 10 years ago when I hardcore suffered from being insecure. I love these positive “keep it real” videos. Keep up the great work queen !!
these lessons are going straight to my day by day journal 📝 every time I'm feeling down and my negative thoughts get to me, this is THEE youtube video I can come back to. thanks, queen 🤭🫶🏼
These tips are gold ✨. You know, in hindsight, I'm so happy I didn't get the guys and jobs I wanted in the past. Thank God!! They would have made me so miserable in the end.
You won’t believe how much I needed this, especially with all that I am trying to heal from at the moment! Thank you! You gained yourself a new subbie! Blessings to you!🥰✨🥹
All great advice!! And all things I equally advocate for myself and my friends, especially my younger friends. It's hard because these are all traits and habits that can only come with time and experience, but confidence is truly achievable by anyone ❤️
Lena I’m just so proud of you for building yourself and your career and your life🥹 you’re such genuine person who deserves it all and I loveee watching you grow. Thank you for being you !!!!
Lena. I'm sorry girly pop but like. I have been BINGING your videos. I had been looking at morning routines the other day and found your channel and I ended up finding myself back to your channel every single day since. I'm getting married in a week and had been wanting to find some motivation to make some healthier life choices and GIRL. You are her. You have been my motivation to just keep going. To keep pushing myself. Like actually please keep being so inspiring people. You genuinely help change lives.
Lenaaaa !!! Idk if you remember me, but I’ve literally watched you since 2020 & I’m so proud of how far you come - keep killing it! Also, I love this video! ❤
The positive energy boost I've needed, love you lena you inspire me more and more everyday it helps me so much as a school student of the age of 14 to watch you be so positive about life especially considering that school can be such a negative space xx
completely off topic comment but I tried your scent combo of the eos + pistachio and cloud perfume and girl you were COOKING with that one. Elite combo
AHHH my signature scent hehe glad you love
new viewer here! can I get the deets on this combo?
@@justjojo702 ariana grande cloud perfume + eos vanilla cashmere lotion + brazilian crush pistachio and salted carmel body spray = the golden combo !
@@AshleyBlue2002kindly let me know the fragrance name
@@Kayu07those are the fragrance names, the pistachio one is by Sol de janeiro
“Stop wasting energy being jealous of other peoples success. It’s only proof that you can do it too” EXACTLY
“Confidence isn’t a feeling, it’s the willingness to try”
WOWWWWW
One of the best bits of advice I’ve ever seen for gaining self confidence is to remember that “confidence is gained by doing the scary thing that required confidence in the first place” and that was mind blowing to me but it’s so true!
LOVE THAT ♥
It's literally what bravery itself is. Doing the thing that you're scared of anyway, and you end up learning the most about it after you've done it ❤
Can we get an in-depth video on how you overcame jealousy? working on that myself. you are always on time with great videos
Yes would love that too!
Yes please!!
I would love that as well! ❤
Be in competition with who you were yesterday, not other people. 🎉
Jelousy comes when you desire sth other person has. Focus on what are those desires and work to get there, if u use that as an inspiration your jelousy will dissapear
You've honestly helped me improve myself so much and i'm so thankful to you 😭 I went from being that shy, insecure girl to the most confident person I know all thanks to you! You're literally amazing, we love you Lena ❤️
I am so proud of you ❤❤
That’s amazing. Love this for you!!
Cackling at the “working out will give you free feel good hormones, and I don’t know about you but I love free stuff” LOVE a wise and funny gal 😂💜✨
"Be a student, as long as you live" is an important lesson I've learned in my 20-30s🤓. I'm in my 40s now, learning a lot from you😊!Lots of love from Japan!❤
🥹I'm a freshman in highschool and you helped me at my lowest when I was in 8th grade. Thank YOU, I now stop caring what others think of me, I'm more confident. I became what I didn't think was possible. LY ❤❤❤
So proud of you my love 🤍
@@lenalifts AHH This means so much to me,🥹❤️ thank you
Enjoying your video. Thanks so much for the effort you put in your videos.
Your probably one of the only few influencers who actually give out interesting tips and make it work ❤
Love how you said hate only comes from below. It reminded me of another quote I heard "People can only talk behind your back if you're in front of them" or something like that. So powerful.
The only time that doesn't apply is with genuine criminals who have done wrong and deserve to be criticised 😂
our glow up teacher is backkkk
missed uuu ❤
6:22 “ur gonna reject someone’s dusty son” LMAO 😭😭
Frrr 😂😭💀
💅🏼💅🏼💅🏼
best fitness influencer to exist!!
right??????? xx
Girl I’m 28 and learned so much from this video lol I listened as I meal prepped! I’m totally stepping into a new me! I’m down 50lbs and have 50 more to lose! Love you videos truly motivate me love ya girly!
I’m always here for the glow up videos!! 💖✨🫶🏼
me to
omg i always see u!! we follow like so many of the same influencers and ur comments are always so sweetttt xx
@@josie_nomnom who are u talking to
@@Lisosouku i’m talking to @LindaThao lol
@@josie_nomnom thank you gorgeous!! I’m always watching so many UA-camrs because they bring joy and love into my life 💞😭
LENA UR SO GEORGEOUSSS the way u put ur highlighter?? ur lip color??? girl u are STUNNINGGG
I do not know how to thank you. I start working out, feel more confident, believe in myself, and do not care about others; all of this happens because of you. Lena, you are my motivation. I see myself in you, and I am your biggest fan from Ethiopia. I love you🥰🥰🥰
watching this while deep-cleaning my room...I feel like in a way it HEALED me it was like being 'yelled' at (nicely) by my bestie about everything I needed to hear. it's like that friend that tells you what you need to hear without realizing you needed to hear that thing?? ya feel me? anyways thanks for this Lena 🥰
AWW i Love that this video helped you and that you watched while deep cleaning ok double productive queen
This advice really helped me. I live in an abusive household like physical and mental abuse and I can definitely say I know myself and what I’m Capable of. What they are doing to me doesn’t even scratch my skin🙂↔️🤚
I hope you can leave soon.
I pray that you’re able to leave that household soon :( keep your faith!
I feel you, my friend. My mother is unfortunately also an abusive narcissist. I'm turning 24 tomorrow. So 24 years of narcissistic abuse that includes emotional, mental, physical, financial and spiritual abuse. And I'm making my way on saving up enough money to move out and all. We've got this ❤ hang in there. It's people like you and I who've been through what we've experienced who are the most mentally strongest.
@@bwingbwinggwiyomi don’t worry even though it’s hard now, I do believe this will benefit us in the future and help us choose the right people that should be in our lives. GOOD LUCK YOU GOT THISSSS🤍🤍🤍🤍
Ever since I have started watching you Lena , my life has taken a drastic change for the better so thank you so much ❤
Idk If somebody needs this but remember you are worthy and everything will turn out great at the end ❤!
I feel the self confidence and in my neurodivergent journey, what you say resonates with me. People are not needed if they are not good for you. You know you best and if they do not like it, tough luck.
Girl I have never met someone who thought like this. I thought I was the only one bc people don’t normally talk about it and explain it in this way❤️ Yessssss I love it🥹
I don't know how long I've been following Lena, but I'll be thankful for ever, thanks to her I feel much better with myself ❤❤
Yes choosing to only be around respectful people should be more of a priority instead of settling for jealous and fake friends. Be strong enough to go it alone until you find your tribe
That's what I've been doing too. Thankfully, it's easier than me for many because I grew up an introverted only child so I know how to enjoy my own company and make my own fun. I do get the occasional spouts of loneliness from being alone. But I know, deep down, it's for my own good till I find my soul tribe ❤ cause I'd rather have a few quality close friends with deep connections than 100 fake friends that are superficial relationships.
Okay but your skin is GLOWING! You look so beautiful!
I'm so glad that I've subscribed to your channel Lena 🤧💓 You THE BEST!!!!! You've changed my life 😭 and I'm forever grateful to your channel for giving me all the positivity
Thanks you have also helped me so much with being confident in my self and made me drop my fake friend and now have the friends that mean the world to me and you have made me such a productive person . I have been watching you for 1 year or so now and I had improved in like a few months and everyone remember whatever someone says abt you is an opinion not a fact . And also tell your self this in a hard time “if someone is picking in me feel bad for them don’t make people feel bad for you “ go out their and live your life bye guys xx
I have been watching ur vids for the last couple of months and after I started watching u MY LIFE CHANGED THANK U SO MUCH LENA LYY❤️❤️
@@DarshikaNair-p4f Same with me
I usually don’t like these mindset girly influencer videos, but I love how you just get straight to the point and talk quickly about the topics!
And the topics you talk about are very useful and interesting as well!
Subscribed!
Girl!!! Your helping me so much! I come from 8 years of a terrible school.. but I’m making a comback in my new school! I do gymnasium en I’m enjoing my Life again! You help me so much with this!!! Thank you!
What helps me keep going is watching content like this all the time, and that's why I also got the courage to post my own videos here. I wish you success
This is exactly what I needed right now. I literally grabbed my journal out of my drawer and started reflecting!!!!
Best UA-camrs that I ever watched for motivation. Your the reason why I chase my dreams❤
Best way to start the week 🙌🏻🌼 sending love from South Africa 🇿🇦
To add to 11:40 if you are with a friend or partner who often says they're so mean, a bad person, etc. they are often not just being humble - BELIEVE them!
I dated a man who proclaimed he's the 'nicest asshole I've ever met.' Well, he was correct on one account...
I was really insecure and you really helped me gain confidence. You are one of the only people out there whose tips actually worked for me and who really helped me improve myself. I will always support you, and I love you so much!
livingg for the sit-down videos💗
no to external happiness this is my sign!! high five from Morocco Lenaaaaa
Girl, you're literally the QUEEN of motivation & inspiration
Girl this is literally 1 of the best videos I’ve seen on UA-cam wow
I see your channel growing Lena, getting close to 1 million! Get it sis! ❤🎉
I always tried to gain confidence through affirmations and good thoughts and (even though it worked a lot) I kinda forgot what confidence really is; it´s the ability to accept your strengths AND weaknesses.
I had really bad social anxiety and I still struggle with it sometimes when I want to make friends (pro tip: get into customer service if you want to work on your social anxiety; you will realize how strangers dont matter in your life and it will improve your social skills A LOT). Anyway, I noticed that I tried to focus on this ideal version of me so much that I got angry when I thought about my insecurities because in my mind I should already love myself, be confident and not have those insecurities.
So the first thing you should do is write down your strengths and your insecurities/weaknesses and try to get comfortable with both of them until someone could tell you your flaws and you just don´t care cause it doesn´t affect you, because you accepted it in your own head!
Found another good youtuber.
So happy.😄
Subscribed♥
I love how you speak STRAIGHT to the POINT.
OMG it’s a great day when lena posts! I love your videos they’ve helped me so much!
I watched so many videos like this and didn't even connected myself to this because I didn't really understand. But with this video I literally resonate with all advice. Thank you so much, it was so helpful 💓
Needed this video so much!!! Been in a rut and had a friend ghost me out of the blue so i needed the reminder to not waste time on people who don't pour into me, i deserve better!!!❤️💜🤞
Honestly YOU are the first and ONLY youtuber/influencer I adore, you litteraly help me improve my everyday life and routine, I owe you my whole motivation in acheaving the desir of changing my lifestyle for the better.I personnaly can't wait for thr next vid. WE LOVE YOU LENA ❤
I was waiting for a video like this, I’m grateful that you made it
I love you girl!! Thank you for this video, I'm feeling so low and ugly lately, I needed this❤❤
Hii girl, I just want to thank u. I’ve been following u since 2022 /2021 when I had some issues to get through. And ur videos literally helped so much, they made me stronger and I slowly gained my life back . I know how u usually speak about ur followers in your videos , saying that u are so thankful for us, but believe me…u have to know that without even knowing u help so many people. We should thank u in the first place. U give us hope, and u are a safe place for many of us. Thank u. We are so thankful for ur words, ur kindness and ur realism. U are the reason why I was getting my life back in the first place. Just Thank u. Keep goin’, u are the best. ❤️
This is EXACTLY what I needed! I just need to watch this everyday because girl you are hyping me up! 🌺👏🏻🙌
To get things you've never had you need to do things you've never done. That one really stood out to me!
Thank you sm!!! 💗 Let's keep smiling ladies!
When is the journal going digital for us international girlies ? 😭😭 Always loved your videos, loved seeing you grow ❤
PLEASEEEE 🇵🇪🥹
Girl you look like an angel with that light !!
This is so helpful ❤ i really needed this 😊
If I ever feel unmotivated, especially going to the gym I watch your videos. It’s like getting a pep talk ❤
You’ve motivated me so much and taught me to become a better version of myself ❤
I’ve watched this twice now bc it was everything I needed to hear. For the last couple of days I’ve been stuck in my mind beating myself and just feeling sorry for myself when a lot of what I’m down about is controllable. Thank you for reminding me to be grateful and get unstuck.
we want a podcast!
One of the best videos I ever came across.. U literally covered all areas at once and talked to the point.. U go girl ❤❤
Lena Literally This Video Is One Of My Top 5 Best Videos You Have Upload Since I Subscribed To Your Channel Around 2 Years And Half Ago Maybe 3 Years Ago! Have A Wonderful Week Girl!! ✨✨💪💪✨✨ By The Way You Go Girl!!
This is goldddd omggg so good. You crammed it full with so many tips its soooo goodddd❤
Everything is so true. You look so confident and you attract me, I genuinely want to be your friend because of the way you speak. You're doing a great job❤️
thank you for deep intro! ❤ its coming from the inside
yay i started following ur tips last year and everything is working thanksss lenaa
Another awesome video!! If possible could you do a video on multiple tips and different ways to find your style wardrobe, ideas of a main character playlist,but definitely looking forward to PCOS,app recommendations, and more content. 💯🙌
finally actually good advice, most of these I learned while growing up too and they have truly meant the world to me ever since that day. i wish everyone the best in their journey🦋🦋
Hey Lena you have helped me so much as a 13 year old. I recently started working out because of you which is something I have been so scared to do. I’m not doing a ton other than running and going on walks and stretching but without you I wouldn’t be doing any of that. I love listening to your videos while I run and they make running so much better. Thank you so much Lena ❤
She is going strong with the content!! I love the videos 😍❤️.
I usually don’t resonate with these types of tips but the way you word it and express yourself is so good !!
honestly you are truly That Girl
You’re always so attractive and confident as well, Lena! ❤❤
@@marccolomayt82094 *sniff sniff* is that a blink i smell??
(no hate lol im one too hehe*
Gurll perfect time for this video I'm tryna have that mindset for this summer
Since I started watching your videos I have so much more confidence and my life is so much better since I followed your advice. thank you so much, love you 💕
Girl how did u know this was the video I needed rn😭💖
QUEEN POSTED 🎉❤👑
I wish I had these videos 10 years ago when I hardcore suffered from being insecure. I love these positive “keep it real” videos. Keep up the great work queen !!
I watch a lot of UA-cam and I have to say, this is one of my favorite videos I’ve seen in a while! You are beautiful and you have such a good energy
Facts. Loving this motivation you're giving.
Girly, I had to watch the video twice cause I felt so called out the first time LOL
The setback point came at the exact right time , after this video am the happiest girl alive now sending you love from Kenya
these lessons are going straight to my day by day journal 📝 every time I'm feeling down and my negative thoughts get to me, this is THEE youtube video I can come back to. thanks, queen 🤭🫶🏼
These tips are gold ✨. You know, in hindsight, I'm so happy I didn't get the guys and jobs I wanted in the past. Thank God!! They would have made me so miserable in the end.
You won’t believe how much I needed this, especially with all that I am trying to heal from at the moment! Thank you! You gained yourself a new subbie! Blessings to you!🥰✨🥹
All great advice!! And all things I equally advocate for myself and my friends, especially my younger friends. It's hard because these are all traits and habits that can only come with time and experience, but confidence is truly achievable by anyone ❤️
Lena I’m just so proud of you for building yourself and your career and your life🥹 you’re such genuine person who deserves it all and I loveee watching you grow. Thank you for being you !!!!
I RAN OMGGG!! I’m sorry I’m lateeeee!! LOVE YOU SOOOOO MUCH LENA!!!❤
hey lena i found you a week ago and have been binging all your videos i love you so much!
Lena. I'm sorry girly pop but like. I have been BINGING your videos. I had been looking at morning routines the other day and found your channel and I ended up finding myself back to your channel every single day since. I'm getting married in a week and had been wanting to find some motivation to make some healthier life choices and GIRL. You are her. You have been my motivation to just keep going. To keep pushing myself. Like actually please keep being so inspiring people. You genuinely help change lives.
Lenaaaa !!! Idk if you remember me, but I’ve literally watched you since 2020 & I’m so proud of how far you come - keep killing it! Also, I love this video! ❤
Lena your videos is the best go go queen❤
best way to start the week!!
I’ve been thinking about it a lot, thanks!!! ☺️
Seriously great advice!
The positive energy boost I've needed, love you lena you inspire me more and more everyday it helps me so much as a school student of the age of 14 to watch you be so positive about life especially considering that school can be such a negative space xx
I’m gonna need this Lena THANK YOU!❤