“Girl worry about your own job. Are you the manager?” *looks at the username* “Kelly worry about your own job. Shut up.” Lmaooo and at the end of the video Dee called her “Kelly Karen” I’m DONE 😭
@@lifegoeson1007 definitely but I was talking about my experience.Just give example being in this generation & improving so much in others but not in education systems
Just turned 25, and yeah being an adult is difficult and a bit challenging sometimes but I find being a kid is harder. Cuz not being in control of your own life is TOUGH. I'll take adulthood over being a kid any day.
Amen! Being a kid sucks imo. But I guess that depends how you grew up. If your 15-20 and are surprised by bills I can't relate. That's like being surprised babies need diapers and food every day.
I’m 21 still living with my parents. I pay rent and contribute a lot to the house. I’ll move out when I’m done with college maybe idk I’m getting too comfortable Ngl
Nah Kelly has a point I know exactly what she’s talking about. Other people sucking at their job affects you. When my co-workers suck at their jobs it literally takes time out of my day. Makes my work day longer, I don’t play around with my time.
@@TopFlightSecurity415 I mean yeah, if she's a micro-manager that's different. But micro-manager and perfectionist aren't synonymous. I'm a perfectionist, but I don't expect everyone else to be a perfectionist. I do expect competence though. Even when I'm not in a work situation other people sucking at the their job affects me. People sucking at their jobs affect society as a whole. Since jobs are usually services done for other people. What if your doctor, lawyer, valet, cook, mechanic, waiter, bartender, etc sucked at their jobs?
Preach. We also have to get off of this idea that cooking is something that only women do. If you're a grown ass man and you can't cook, there's a problem. Cooking is a life skill, it has nothing to do with gender.
@@maralovely8100 Lol, don't let yourself be. It doesn't take much at all to find a recipe for something, follow the instructions, and get used to being in the kitchen. One of the most important things about life in general is working towards being self-sufficient. I'm not saying you have to be some five star chef, but you can at least be Chef Boyardee for a bit lol.
Kelly kind of has a point though. If you’re an adult be responsible, pull your own weight, and put forth an honest effort. Otherwise someone else has to bear the stress and make up for it and if it doesn’t get done it’s gonna go on someone’s performance review which impacts pay and promotion.
But that goes even further since finding a job is DIFFICULT. Imagine being turned down for a job at a company to find out someone Shitty got it for no good reason. Really. =_= Especially since COVID the market is much harder to get into.
Thats not always on your coworker though. Sometimes, actually its more like OFTEN, ppl just genuinely aren't a good fit for a job that they have, but bc they have to be an adult too, they cant just up and quit bc stuff aint going as smoothly as they thought. Everyone has a different learning curve, some ppl are hired bc they hav expertise in one task but are completely horrible in other tasks in the same job. Should have more beef with the person that hired them than the person themself.
Time moves faster for us adults because we dont have nothing to look forward to anymore. As kids we look forward to winter breaks, summer breaks, early release, Christmas gifts, birthdays and other new things to us in the world. Now we hate our birthdays just another reminder we're a few years closer to the inevitable doom 😫
You can make things to look forward to. And as an adult you can put together the money to carry out those plans. As a kid all those things were planned by other people and you just got to reap the rewards (gifts, vacation, etc.)
Kelly is right tho. When you overachieve at your job you are left to pick up the slack. You can't be "mean" in a cooperate job and tell your co-workers to get their asses in gear and do their work properly and you are expected to guide/ help your co-workers. The even more frustrating part is the most lackluster people are people persons they are nice friendly get along with everyone and get promoted because of this. They either stagnate get promoted/or moved(someone else's problem) or get demoted but you don't often see them getting fired. Some quit and move on to another company to leech there.
That’s not an adult problem though, that’s a personal problem for overachievers. You can just choose to focus on your own work and not “overachieve” and don’t bring all that added stress upon yourself for no reason. That’s something I had to learn the hard way. And I’m so glad I did. Now I just do the work required and worry about my damn self and I’m chillin mentally. Also therapy might help. I say that because of a lot of time being an overachiever is because of lack of fulfillment, attention or love, so working through that might help as well.
@@devronl08 that works until the problem becomes your issue, therefore forcing you to overachieve. Happens a lot in kitchens. Day shift doesn't prep for Night shift Night shift didn't filter the fryer properly A new person is started on a busy day Someone forgets their order Etc. Mostly, The customer doesn't care about all of that. All they know is that it's taken too long for what they ordered to be delivered and we all know how that dung ball rolls. In work environments where blame befalls everyone, slackers aren't welcomed. Edit: shoot, there are times when the team is in the weeds and are consequentially locked to spot meaning they cant leave their station unless someone covers for them. Would be the manager or kitchen captain job to cover but alas they too are busy af so then it falls onto either the dropper(fry person) or make up (person who sets up plates for orders) to pick up the slack being that Drop can over drop to compensate for any missed orders and Makeup only has so much room to set plates on. By your logic, these two should just focus on them, stand around and let the kitchen fail. If so, then those two would be fired. "If you have time to lean, you have time to clean" I was dropper, and was in those very situations. I'd over drop, run around asking what was needed, make a chiller run, restock the line and then return to my duties. It's not being an overachiever, it's doing your job and being damned good at it. Anyone who says otherwise is a hater who is shackled by self doubt. They dont want to look dumb by putting effort into something they don't truly care about and lack the understanding of why you care so much and instead of coming to the introspective conclusion that their attitude may be what's wrong, they will instead fault you, eventhough you are just being successful. To all my "overachievers", keep doing the damned thing. Management sees you and appreciates your effort. "Success is the persistent pursuit of a worthy idea." - Earl Nightingale, 'The Secret to a Successful Life.'
@@AlternateInfinite Thats a very specific example, and quite the lengthy message haha. There will always be outliers, nothing is absolute. Outliers aren’t the standard and never will be. In most jobs you don’t need to pick up the slack of others in order for your own job not to be in jeopardy, so there’s that. Also as you said, your example isn’t being an overachiever, so it’s a moot point and example. I was speaking of people who just naturally overachieve in a position where is isn’t needed. I never said anything about them being successful or not, I was speaking about the need to overachieve versus the payout of it, and also the reason why many individuals are overachievers in the first place. I disagree with you, that definitely doesn’t make me a hater 😂 I was a chronic overachiever until my 30’s, besides I don’t know the millions of overachievers in the world, why would I hate on them? Anyway, again your example isn’t being an overachiever but having no choice but to pick up the slack of others or shoulder the burdens of working with a team where sometimes others have to take on some of the work of their coworkers for whatever reason. Not the same thing. “Success can also be defined as working smarter, not harder” - Me
The part about life being lonely is true asf. It's worse when you're an introvert. It's hard to make true friends. Outside of my family, my friends are 3 of my co-workers and my best friend from college. And I don't even talk to my best friend as much,.
@@TopFlightSecurity415 Same for me. I only hung out with my friend once since the whole covid thing. That was in July last year. I talk to her every week, so I guess that's good.
Technically Cinderella was sorta in the same economic class....just one off. Her stepmother and stepsisters were basically the equivalent of duchesses...it's just that they made her look poor but she was also a princess character-wise in that she was super feminine and pretty and not a horrible soulless person like her step family...which basically all put her on the level of a princess
I love these deeper videos a lot. I am obviously here for the jokes and memes etc, but I like seeing things that matter and affect us as well. I love how she balances the content, it’s nice.
Like, I’m going to be a senior next year, and all I know is how to annotate books and my times tables😭( not literally). But I’m learning more about life on TikTok, than school, which is supposed to “help prepare kids for the future”. Literally the school system is terrible, and quite frankly, school after 8th grade is useless🤷🏾♀️
The job one does make sense. When you work in corporate everything has a trickle down effect. When a person higher than you does something wrong you end up getting the short end of the stick or you end up doing someone else’s work because they either did it wrong or slack off sometimes.
Growing up is not so bad! This video makes it seem exceedingly overwhelming and tbh there are pretty good days and pretty bad days. But when life is overwhelming allow yourself to take a break and then come back and tackle one thing at a time - it’s ok if it’s not done perfectly- give yourself some grace in the process.
Got to disagree with the work thing, if you can do your job really well and someone else cannot if the other is under you then you have to always correct the, if they are on the same level you have to do more work because the work will be given to the one who is more reliable, and if it's the one on top, they may try point you as the source of the issue.
Yep especially if you’re on a team. Best believe you’ll be doing majority of the work and the other person enjoys life I had an internship where my supervisor told me not to do too much work ( I was tryna be reliable) because I stick out too much
@@luvvreni that, i understand! Use the fact that you take your time, as a tool to make well thought out decisions. And please dont over compare yourself to others. Where they are going may not be for you.
Same i’m turning 17 tho but i’m one more year to 18 and i’m not sure if i’m mentally or physically prepared to be an “Adult” and i know my parents aren’t gonna baby me anymore (which i don’t really care ) but i’m still use to it 😭
@@luvvreni I feel you ! i think the worse thing to do is compare what there doing versus what your doing cause i do the same thing but mostly all of my friends are lazy like me 😂😂😂 but take your time it goes by fast but if you take everything one at a time it will be so much more of a learning experience as well as a confidence boost and happiness as well☺️
4:20 confusing but she was talking about how capitalism isnt sustainable whatsoever. (i think) and being forced to live and die by money is a miserable way of living- and unfortunately majority of us have to.
I feel the overachiever Kelly because the slack gets put onto you and that's infuriating when you are genuinely trying your best and others are just trying to collect a check by riding the clock.
I'm in the same situation...I run my ass off at my job because the other lazy ass bitches think their too good to get a little sweaty and do what their supposed to do when the big boss isn't there that day.🙄 Absolutely makes me want to rip my hair out.
I’m 19 and still struggle with making my own appointments and shit mostly because I have very bad anxiety and even calling someone makes me anxious, I still need reassurance cuz I’m afraid of doin something wrong, I pay for SO MUCH SHIT IM POOR, I didn’t go to college, work a 9-5, and depressed asf
I wish somebody had explained how the electric bill works before I moved out. My first winter on my own my bill was well over $300 and then I finally understood why my mom yelled at me to cut the light off or to stop letting the heat out.
Girl i feel for you. It sucks your mom tries to kick you out. I have a friend that is going through that. My advice stay low, so she don’t complain, and once you get get your shit together properly move out
I have a relative who is almost SIXTY!!!! STill living with his mom aka my grandma!! She tried to kick my mom and my siblings out but he is allowed to stay and do whatever. Wtf
Dee I’m really glad you posted I’ve just been really down lately 🥲 since I’ve heard that Netflix is giving the hype house their own reality tv show. Idk who asked for this country ass shit but this is where I draw the line... I’m going to HBO max ✌🏾.
@@kidmehki yes they are idk who asked for this. I don’t know half of those people there expect Nokia dragon and Larray but I don’t watch him anymore 😭.
The reason time feels like it moves so fast is because of the percentage a year is of your life. When you’re 1, a year is your whole life. When you’re 2, a year is half your life.When you’re 30, a year is only 1/30 of your whole life
Here's the thing that has been lost for a while now, School doesn't teach you about life. You learn how to live life by yourself. Through trail and error and you improve by learning from your experience. No person on this planet is given an user manual
We all know this and yet no one has done anything to dismantle the systems teaching us BS. We all know 9-5’s makes us miserable but as a collective we haven’t done anything to make work days shorter with more pay in order to actually LIVE OUR LIVES HOW WE WERE INTENDED. This whole world is one big Joke
Imma expose myself 😂 I'm 19 no job and not in school. I have to get a job by june/July or else ill be kicked out. I have a hard time talking to people/never had the energy to go outside and socialize. This kept me from getting a job sooner. I wanted to be a night stocker but my family told me "no any job but that, you're a girl its dangerous out here". I dont want to deal with customers in fear of not knowing the right things to say or worry about what I look like, and the chance of a customer being rude knowing I can't do a damn thing about it makes me not want to go with retail. I do my best cleaning up my room and the dishes like my mom asked in return. Since I haven't dealt with my clinical depression/social anxiety for almost 6 years I will soon have to go to school. Not part time, but full time still not knowing what I want to do after a whole year passed and be stressed all over again while also having a full time job. The thought of never having time to yourself to enjoy life is annoying to me. In order to get a good paying job you have to go to college. For years at that. You pobably won't get to enjoy the money you make until your 40. Don't want go to college? Be prepared to work a 9-5 for the rest of your life just to live decently. Im wasting my youth either way and idk what route I should take.
Learn programing !hundred of tutorial on UA-cam, no degree needed ,high paying job give yourself 1 years to learn 2 language with database and you good
I suggest the military specifically the reserves they'll help you get in shape pay for college and free healthcare/insurance not only that you can put your family on the same plan Also military discounts in like 30% of America I can't really suggest a branch Try air force However dont do the navy I highly recommend you dont go there
Well in terms of your worrying about your appearance and your anxiety and what not, it's not as bad as you might think. I can 100% say I was the same, espcially having grown up in state custody my whole life, but getting my retail job actually helped me overcome a lot of that. I care about doing a good job at whatever I do, and so it forced me to have to talk to people more and confront them and whatnot, it's actually made it so I'm not as shy or scared of people. Not a cure by any means but it will definitely teach you to get over a lot of those feelings :) and you absolutely do not need college 😂😂 I never went and Ive managed to make as much as most people would after having gone to school and gotten their degree, only difference is i don't have student debt lol. Gotta start doing some research yourself and asking questions to the adults around you if you are not already and the military is always an option lime some others have said
Kelly didn't describe her issue well. In Corporate, there are people who do absolutely nothing in their roles and find any and everything to blame others for when tasks are not accomplished or if issues go wrong. In my personal employment case, I'm SUPPOSE to work with my coworkers to keep an obligated process running by doing my part in the damn job, however, I spend most of my time locked in my office, avoiding everyone, and covering my ass in emails. It's draining, but Kelly was about to cry.. I aint doing that shit 😂
@@tifzu_ Right, if it was so simple as "Just do your own job, and mind your business" it wouldn't be nothing to complain about. I feel for Kelly, but I'm being paid more than enough to deal with the BS, so 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️😂
I'm 19 about to turn 20 in a couple months and I still don't know what the fuck I want to do or even be. I'm in college my major is business but what the fuck business do I even want to do? I don't know. this adult life is stressful working and shit
Let’s start a thread of things that should or wished was taught in schools. Taxes How to get out of debt or avoid? How to avoid scams? How to manage money & not overspend? How to stay healthy as possible? Better education on drugs? Possible ways to invest money & grow your own business? How to pay your bills & avoid being broke or stay financial stable. I personal feel the school system is bad because they don’t want us to be successful or own more business & be happy
I wish their was some halfway point in between high school and college that helped kids that didn't know wth to do with their life after school. If there is shout it out, cause I did not want to go to college but felt like there was no skill I had and decided I'd have to waste money I didn't have to be successful somehow.
Is it me or these people never observe anything growing up. Because I know how pay bill, wash clothes, house maintenance in middle schools and in high school with a single mother. Like who raise them. I thought we were learn responsibility at a young age.
No obviously not.Parent should definitely teach what they learned to their children but that doesn’t happen often in my opinion.Kids & teenagers are too busy having fun so school is really the only place where we’re taught that learning things is necessary
It means your parents did what they were supposed to do. The fact that so many people are surprised about basic things that must be done shows there were a few lessons that weren't taught at home. Even though children are going to school to learn academically, parents are still responsible for teaching their children what they need to know when it comes to the "real world". You prepare your children now so they aren't surprised about the fact that they have to "do laundry".
@@johnnytsunami9132 Yea I definitely agree.But the parents had learned from the school system as well so get tricky.especially when we get some things that they didn’t.Like now in America its a new test that is required for all senior to know current things about America to graduate high school
Dee to her credit I kind of understand where Kelly Karen is coming from. Sometimes people are just shitty workers and your job is entertwined with theirs which fucks up your shit. Im personally not an overachiever. I just like to get shit done and slackers hold me the fuck up. That's why I'm a food delivery driver. I'm considered to be self employed which is a whole other thing. But I don't have to put up with beaurocracy with ANY job.
As a teen now everything feels so weird and i feel so numb to the world and time is just passing by like a train and everyday i procrastinate is another dream i want thrown in the trash 🤦🏾♀️
Her math is only correct for a person that doesn't multitask, which doesn't exist. I can work, do laundry, walk my dog, and etc basically in the same time frame. Nobody stops everything they are doing to chew gum.
You can see the pain in Dee's eyes when she was going down the list of bills LMAO!!!! Like she was having PTSD You can tell she ain't even wanna think about those things LMAO
Actually, depending on what job you have, other people not doing there job, could mean more work for you or you not being able to do your job. I mean what the janitor does or what someone does in accounting doesn't effect me the same as what someone I'm teamed up with on a project. Though sometime I can get away with if they don't do their job, it's not my fault I can't do mine. But that only works if you boss isn't looking to you for a done project, if they are, it doesn't matter, I've had to just do the person's work to a project done on time.
Alright, this is going to be long. Kelly is right; y’all acting as if you know her just due to her using the word “perfectionist.” That is an OCD trait, not a micromanager issue. When people are lazy, it affects someone else always point blank no matter the job. Ever remember being in a group project in school where someone never pulled their weight and still got the grade that is the same concept. Honestly, if you don’t remember someone like that, you were likely the jerk who stressed everyone else out and took all the credit knowing you didn’t do a thing. The homelessness issue is an adult thing that is never prepared for or even talked about, but it can happen to anybody at any time without warning. The pandemic will prove that problem very well since our government didn’t give a shit about people. One bad thing can happen, and everything you know could be gone in a flash. The chick was trying to explain how capitalism got us all royally screwed. The top ultra-wealthy will never work a day in their lives for anything they need. Jobs to them are to pass the time away. For everyone else, it is to survive on a planet that you didn’t ask to exist on. We are expected to pay for water, food, and shelter already proves how fucked society is that the basic necessities for survival put us in a never-ending cycle where we will work until the day we die. We even pay for our deaths ahead of time, and worse of all, someone right now has to pay for oxygen to breathe to keep the cycle going. Her point was the amount of money is never enough. Hence, we have to continuously keep working while never genuinely enjoying what matters to us in life which feeds into our loneliness as we search for someone to suffer with us in life.
i JUST turned 18 and im so stressed abt getting ids & opening a bank account & learning to drive which ive put off bc im SCARED lmaooo but rly so many responsibilities are just popping up in my face and my ppl are tryna make me figure it all out myself ( idk y because it builds character or sum shit ) but im literally still tryna graduate highschool and i feel like theres so much pressure to take on these new responsibilities (alone) and meanwhile figure out wtf i wanna do in life
Dee, you who Kelly was talking about lmaooo. Nah, but forreal tho, I mind my business when it comes to people not doing their jobs UNTIL it starts fucking with my job. If your lack of effort is causing me to have to do more work, then that's when I start to care cuz what you not about to do is have me out here working for the both of us while you still getting paid. Especially if the person is a man or non-POC cuz they probably already getting paid more than me. NO SIR, NO MA'AM. So I think she was just tryna say that people just be like that, they don't change, which sucks. Cuz it's like forever doing a group project with the same MF who never answers their phone or come to the group meetings but still wants the credit. If it's making her job harder, I get the frustration. But Dee you have said that you just be quitting jobs when you don't like them anymore so I see why you didn't GAF about what she was saying haha. You like, bitch just quit! lol
I'm 18 turning 19 later this year about to start my adult life. I'm already accepted in a college for August but have no idea what I am gonna major in or what type of job I am going to have after college. I'm gonna have to get a job in the summer( I don't have to but it's for my own personal gain of wealth, I hate being broke.) While my little brothers can't wait for me to move out lmao, My parents don't care too much about moving out so that's good. I have no driver's license or permit. EDIT:Just noticed how many 18-21 year olds in this comment section.
This is teaching me so much. you have to do more of these what nobody told you about growing up. for me love & money is everything, nobody told me that
Dee, don't be mad at Kelly. Often other people sucking at their job, affects your job. Deadlines, passoffs etc. Most of life we are taught to achieve for ourselves, but us regular folks (9 to fivers) have to grow up and deal with incompetent trash everyday and bosses too incompetent or afraid to correct them.
Tik tok taught me how to write a check, what to look for in apartments, how to apply for a loan, what to say in a job interview, how to fix a tire...and I don't even drive (yet) highschool isn't teaching me shit. Why don't schools give money management classes or something, what will the Pythagorean theorem do for me?
All these clips has though me more than an entire semester of college. The third clip real af everyone in highschool disappeared and college was all about getting shit done and nothing else.
I agree with the "Do your own job" sentiment, only as long as someone else's fuckups aren't messing with MY job Lol. If I gotta do extra work because of someone else dropping the ball that's annoying asf.
Shit like this makes me not wanna move out from the comfort of my parent's home for a while....and I'm in my 20s...also saving enough money for literally everything except breathing is really hard
When a person is bad at their job, that's extra work for you. Especially when you are good at your job. I've learned that the bad ones get to slack off more and not really get reprimanded. But because you are a good worker, your bosses make you pick up the slack and get upset if you slack off a little. So, yeah, Kelly has a good point.
Kelly is mad because someone else refuses to be an overachiever for a company that doesn’t even care about them. Like she really came here to flex but don’t realize she’s doing all of that for somebody else’s company.
7:20 This is such a load of crap. Yes if you add up all of the hours when you're sleeping it'll add up to several years. Having said that, if I sleep 7 hours a night this means I was awake doing stuff for 17 hours. Everything that this lady is adding up is subjective and not everybody hates their full-time job because to a lot of people it's their dream job. Sorry but I ain't drinking the koolaid
“Girl worry about your own job. Are you the manager?” *looks at the username* “Kelly worry about your own job. Shut up.” Lmaooo and at the end of the video Dee called her “Kelly Karen” I’m DONE 😭
SKSJDJS NOT KELLY KAREN
That's why i like Dee videos
@@Arcavian facts, me too. She’s real.
She said she’s in the corporate world maybe she’s in a high level of management
instablaster.
After watching this I wanna be 16 for the rest of my damn life
Right
same & I’m 17 Turing 18 in October.
@@opfreak Im 18 too Shit gets lonely and weird after high school But thank god for social media
Exactly
@@opfreak God Bless u and ur girl
The school systems didn’t prepare a lot of students anything being a 2020 graduate
It’s been like that for a while
@@lifegoeson1007 definitely but I was talking about my experience.Just give example being in this generation & improving so much in others but not in education systems
@@ajat3202 agreed.
- from a 2020 graduate lmaoooo
@@jaquaraolivialawton10 Same boat sis- 2020 graduate
@@ajat3202 oh yeah, I understand
Just turned 25, and yeah being an adult is difficult and a bit challenging sometimes but I find being a kid is harder. Cuz not being in control of your own life is TOUGH. I'll take adulthood over being a kid any day.
This is such an interesting perspective!
Amen! Being a kid sucks imo. But I guess that depends how you grew up. If your 15-20 and are surprised by bills I can't relate. That's like being surprised babies need diapers and food every day.
Yes! I see this all of the time. Give me body autonomy, even if it comes with more responsibility.
I am 25 and still feel controlled like a child ..
@@chcx5275 I'm sorry you feel that way. Out of curiosity who do you feel like is controlling you? Work? Family? "The system"?
I’m 18 about to turn 19, and I’m still living at home lol, but Imma have to move out sooner or later
Me.. they said I’m fine for a few more years...🧍🏾
Stay as long as you can. Cleanup her room wash her car without asking, and SAVE MONEY!!!!!
With the pandemic going on you really shouldn't worry about moving out unless your parents want you out.
I’m 21 still living with my parents. I pay rent and contribute a lot to the house. I’ll move out when I’m done with college maybe idk I’m getting too comfortable Ngl
Same, idk nothing ab living out in my own or doing anything for myself besides like cooking & cleaning :/
I feel sorry for the homeless woman, but she acting like her situation is a part of normal adult life. Not every adult is gonna go through that.
@Mākasu I understand, but thats just from personal experience. The concept of the video was for more general things that most adults go through.
me when i audition for the x-factor: 2:52
Her story was really extreme. I’m wondering if it was real?
@@filtrations crazy 😭😭😭
Nah Kelly has a point I know exactly what she’s talking about. Other people sucking at their job affects you. When my co-workers suck at their jobs it literally takes time out of my day. Makes my work day longer, I don’t play around with my time.
true...but she kinda comes off as a micromanager since she claims shes a "perfectionist"...nobody likes those type of people
@@TopFlightSecurity415 I mean yeah, if she's a micro-manager that's different. But micro-manager and perfectionist aren't synonymous. I'm a perfectionist, but I don't expect everyone else to be a perfectionist. I do expect competence though. Even when I'm not in a work situation other people sucking at the their job affects me. People sucking at their jobs affect society as a whole. Since jobs are usually services done for other people.
What if your doctor, lawyer, valet, cook, mechanic, waiter, bartender, etc sucked at their jobs?
@@Nefarious_Bread fair point
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Dee : "GIRL WE DON'T WANNA HEAR THIS!"
Dietician : "FIRST OF ALL"
I been seeing 111
@@brittanyb9292 look it up on google 😙 I kept seeing 11:11 I was happy vas hell finding out the definition 💃🏽
I will say this till the day I die. There is nothing more embarrassing than being an adult and not knowing how to cook.
Preach. We also have to get off of this idea that cooking is something that only women do. If you're a grown ass man and you can't cook, there's a problem. Cooking is a life skill, it has nothing to do with gender.
im prolly gonna be that person ;-;
@@johnnytsunami9132 lucky I never thought like that. Cooking is fun asf
@@maralovely8100 Lol, don't let yourself be. It doesn't take much at all to find a recipe for something, follow the instructions, and get used to being in the kitchen. One of the most important things about life in general is working towards being self-sufficient.
I'm not saying you have to be some five star chef, but you can at least be Chef Boyardee for a bit lol.
I don't know how to do my own damn hair
Kelly kind of has a point though. If you’re an adult be responsible, pull your own weight, and put forth an honest effort. Otherwise someone else has to bear the stress and make up for it and if it doesn’t get done it’s gonna go on someone’s performance review which impacts pay and promotion.
thank you👍
But that goes even further since finding a job is DIFFICULT. Imagine being turned down for a job at a company to find out someone Shitty got it for no good reason. Really. =_= Especially since COVID the market is much harder to get into.
Thats not always on your coworker though. Sometimes, actually its more like OFTEN, ppl just genuinely aren't a good fit for a job that they have, but bc they have to be an adult too, they cant just up and quit bc stuff aint going as smoothly as they thought. Everyone has a different learning curve, some ppl are hired bc they hav expertise in one task but are completely horrible in other tasks in the same job. Should have more beef with the person that hired them than the person themself.
Time moves faster for us adults because we dont have nothing to look forward to anymore. As kids we look forward to winter breaks, summer breaks, early release, Christmas gifts, birthdays and other new things to us in the world. Now we hate our birthdays just another reminder we're a few years closer to the inevitable doom 😫
yes! im dreading my birthday ( turning 30 :/)
You should be a motivational speaker.
Teach the young to give up before they start.
Don't need your weakness, but thanks.
You can make things to look forward to. And as an adult you can put together the money to carry out those plans. As a kid all those things were planned by other people and you just got to reap the rewards (gifts, vacation, etc.)
@@xelectrix you're absolutely right 💯. Didn't really think about vacations lol 😅
@@xelectrix does waiting for my Amazon package count? I look forward to that
Kelly is right tho. When you overachieve at your job you are left to pick up the slack. You can't be "mean" in a cooperate job and tell your co-workers to get their asses in gear and do their work properly and you are expected to guide/ help your co-workers. The even more frustrating part is the most lackluster people are people persons they are nice friendly get along with everyone and get promoted because of this. They either stagnate get promoted/or moved(someone else's problem) or get demoted but you don't often see them getting fired. Some quit and move on to another company to leech there.
This!
That’s not an adult problem though, that’s a personal problem for overachievers. You can just choose to focus on your own work and not “overachieve” and don’t bring all that added stress upon yourself for no reason. That’s something I had to learn the hard way. And I’m so glad I did. Now I just do the work required and worry about my damn self and I’m chillin mentally. Also therapy might help. I say that because of a lot of time being an overachiever is because of lack of fulfillment, attention or love, so working through that might help as well.
it depends on the job,if you're working at Popeyes you should not care if the people ordering forgot to bring their coupon
@@devronl08 that works until the problem becomes your issue, therefore forcing you to overachieve.
Happens a lot in kitchens.
Day shift doesn't prep for Night shift
Night shift didn't filter the fryer properly
A new person is started on a busy day
Someone forgets their order
Etc.
Mostly,
The customer doesn't care about all of that.
All they know is that it's taken too long for what they ordered to be delivered and we all know how that dung ball rolls.
In work environments where blame befalls everyone, slackers aren't welcomed.
Edit: shoot, there are times when the team is in the weeds and are consequentially locked to spot meaning they cant leave their station unless someone covers for them.
Would be the manager or kitchen captain job to cover but alas they too are busy af so then it falls onto either the dropper(fry person) or make up (person who sets up plates for orders) to pick up the slack being that Drop can over drop to compensate for any missed orders and Makeup only has so much room to set plates on.
By your logic, these two should just focus on them, stand around and let the kitchen fail.
If so, then those two would be fired.
"If you have time to lean, you have time to clean"
I was dropper, and was in those very situations. I'd over drop, run around asking what was needed, make a chiller run, restock the line and then return to my duties.
It's not being an overachiever, it's doing your job and being damned good at it.
Anyone who says otherwise is a hater who is shackled by self doubt.
They dont want to look dumb by putting effort into something they don't truly care about and lack the understanding of why you care so much and instead of coming to the introspective conclusion that their attitude may be what's wrong, they will instead fault you, eventhough you are just being successful.
To all my "overachievers", keep doing the damned thing. Management sees you and appreciates your effort.
"Success is the persistent pursuit of a worthy idea." - Earl Nightingale, 'The Secret to a Successful Life.'
@@AlternateInfinite Thats a very specific example, and quite the lengthy message haha. There will always be outliers, nothing is absolute. Outliers aren’t the standard and never will be. In most jobs you don’t need to pick up the slack of others in order for your own job not to be in jeopardy, so there’s that. Also as you said, your example isn’t being an overachiever, so it’s a moot point and example. I was speaking of people who just naturally overachieve in a position where is isn’t needed. I never said anything about them being successful or not, I was speaking about the need to overachieve versus the payout of it, and also the reason why many individuals are overachievers in the first place. I disagree with you, that definitely doesn’t make me a hater 😂 I was a chronic overachiever until my 30’s, besides I don’t know the millions of overachievers in the world, why would I hate on them?
Anyway, again your example isn’t being an overachiever but having no choice but to pick up the slack of others or shoulder the burdens of working with a team where sometimes others have to take on some of the work of their coworkers for whatever reason. Not the same thing. “Success can also be defined as working smarter, not harder” - Me
The part about life being lonely is true asf. It's worse when you're an introvert. It's hard to make true friends. Outside of my family, my friends are 3 of my co-workers and my best friend from college. And I don't even talk to my best friend as much,.
Being a introvert and being shy are two different things.
i still hang with my friends after college but covid put a stop to that :/
@@von8619 I know that.
What is your point....
@@TopFlightSecurity415 Same for me. I only hung out with my friend once since the whole covid thing. That was in July last year. I talk to her every week, so I guess that's good.
Technically Cinderella was sorta in the same economic class....just one off. Her stepmother and stepsisters were basically the equivalent of duchesses...it's just that they made her look poor but she was also a princess character-wise in that she was super feminine and pretty and not a horrible soulless person like her step family...which basically all put her on the level of a princess
3:23, not trying to be funny but this sounds like a bad sci-fi movie " I have been in a coma and woke up in 3005"😂
"not trying to be funny but" "😂"
@@ontariohawkins141 😂
I love these deeper videos a lot. I am obviously here for the jokes and memes etc, but I like seeing things that matter and affect us as well. I love how she balances the content, it’s nice.
Man I hate paying rent and lights etc😂. It's so ghetto, stay with your parents until you're really ready
Like, I’m going to be a senior next year, and all I know is how to annotate books and my times tables😭( not literally). But I’m learning more about life on TikTok, than school, which is supposed to “help prepare kids for the future”. Literally the school system is terrible, and quite frankly, school after 8th grade is useless🤷🏾♀️
all fax
facts
So your parents didn't teach you anything?
Facts
@@Von803 really you learn through experience but word from parents definitely help
Me: **Lowkey agreeing with what Kelly was saying**
Dee:“It’s not your company Kelly mind your business”
Me: “Yeah Kelly mind your business” 🤨😠
The job one does make sense. When you work in corporate everything has a trickle down effect. When a person higher than you does something wrong you end up getting the short end of the stick or you end up doing someone else’s work because they either did it wrong or slack off sometimes.
That's a personal problem.
@@von8619 okay but if it’s that personal in your opinion why reply to my comment
I'm 16 and I just want to cry everyday don't want to grow up nor do I want to stay young
You have an enigma my friend. But honestly life is simple, people just makes it more difficult.
Same.
same. i get too overwhelmed thinking about not being a youth in 10 years. it really upsets me. working on it though.
@@sarahrantala4895 I am older and want to help yall so bad but not sure how to do it exactly.
Growing up is not so bad! This video makes it seem exceedingly overwhelming and tbh there are pretty good days and pretty bad days. But when life is overwhelming allow yourself to take a break and then come back and tackle one thing at a time - it’s ok if it’s not done perfectly- give yourself some grace in the process.
Got to disagree with the work thing, if you can do your job really well and someone else cannot if the other is under you then you have to always correct the, if they are on the same level you have to do more work because the work will be given to the one who is more reliable, and if it's the one on top, they may try point you as the source of the issue.
Yep especially if you’re on a team. Best believe you’ll be doing majority of the work and the other person enjoys life
I had an internship where my supervisor told me not to do too much work ( I was tryna be reliable) because I stick out too much
Why do people still say 9 to 5. It's been 8 to 5 for so long now.
Blame Dolly Parton, that damn song makes people think we get an extra hour than we actually do lmao.
@@Nandoswitharando and beyonce.
Exactly. Lunch ain't paid for
*7-5*
College is really a waste of time depending on what you want, I'm glad I dropped out and found something that better fits my career choice
Me, 19, a college sophmore after looking at this video: 🧍🏽♀️
Me, also 19, and a college sophomore: 🧍♀️same
literally, me too girl LMAAAO
Me 4
Being an adult is hard af, but I wouldn’t want to go back to being younger than age 25. Hell no.
I'm turning 18 this summer, I'm not that eager for this
i took my time growing up!! i wasn't trying to be an adult before my time!!!
@@rp6635 same but im 18 and graduating next month and I feel so behind compared to my friends
@@luvvreni that, i understand! Use the fact that you take your time, as a tool to make well thought out decisions. And please dont over compare yourself to others. Where they are going may not be for you.
Same i’m turning 17 tho but i’m one more year to 18 and i’m not sure if i’m mentally or physically prepared to be an “Adult” and i know my parents aren’t gonna baby me anymore (which i don’t really care ) but i’m still use to it 😭
@@luvvreni I feel you ! i think the worse thing to do is compare what there doing versus what your doing cause i do the same thing but mostly all of my friends are lazy like me 😂😂😂 but take your time it goes by fast but if you take everything one at a time it will be so much more of a learning experience as well as a confidence boost and happiness as well☺️
4:20 confusing but she was talking about how capitalism isnt sustainable whatsoever. (i think) and being forced to live and die by money is a miserable way of living- and unfortunately majority of us have to.
This hitting too close to home. I'm turning 20 this year 😭😭 idk where the time went
I feel the overachiever Kelly because the slack gets put onto you and that's infuriating when you are genuinely trying your best and others are just trying to collect a check by riding the clock.
I'm in the same situation...I run my ass off at my job because the other lazy ass bitches think their too good to get a little sweaty and do what their supposed to do when the big boss isn't there that day.🙄 Absolutely makes me want to rip my hair out.
When in Rome...
That’s a lot of responsibilities
I think I fell asleep with the first one but it was worth watching Dee's "Hello friends" which reminds me of Sssniperwolf Lia.
I’m 19 and still struggle with making my own appointments and shit mostly because I have very bad anxiety and even calling someone makes me anxious, I still need reassurance cuz I’m afraid of doin something wrong, I pay for SO MUCH SHIT IM POOR, I didn’t go to college, work a 9-5, and depressed asf
I wish somebody had explained how the electric bill works before I moved out. My first winter on my own my bill was well over $300 and then I finally understood why my mom yelled at me to cut the light off or to stop letting the heat out.
Were you shocked when you saw that bill ? If I had a high bill I would have been saying did I leave the lights on that long ?
@@kendrawilliams198 my heart skipped a beat or two, yes.
I think the moral of that woman’s story was “you can become homeless and there’s nothing you can do about it and nobody has to help you”
I’m 21, still living with my mom. She tries to kick me out every other day, while my 30yr old bro has moved back in like four times.
Bout to be 26 tommorow. Still living with the folks.. its a lot tougher than it used to be..
Girl i feel for you. It sucks your mom tries to kick you out. I have a friend that is going through that. My advice stay low, so she don’t complain, and once you get get your shit together properly move out
I have a relative who is almost SIXTY!!!! STill living with his mom aka my grandma!! She tried to kick my mom and my siblings out but he is allowed to stay and do whatever. Wtf
“Hello friends I’m Dee” girl 😭
Dee I’m really glad you posted I’ve just been really down lately 🥲 since I’ve heard that Netflix is giving the hype house their own reality tv show. Idk who asked for this country ass shit but this is where I draw the line... I’m going to HBO max ✌🏾.
Girlllll bye 😂😂😂
Hold on they getting a tv show? 😒
@@kidmehki yes they are idk who asked for this. I don’t know half of those people there expect Nokia dragon and Larray but I don’t watch him anymore 😭.
A lot of these issues are because of late stage capitalism.
The reason time feels like it moves so fast is because of the percentage a year is of your life. When you’re 1, a year is your whole life. When you’re 2, a year is half your life.When you’re 30, a year is only 1/30 of your whole life
oh thats fax
vsauce moment
And when you're a moron, you have no life.
This video really made me depressed thinking about what my life in the future is going to be like😂
Here's the thing that has been lost for a while now, School doesn't teach you about life. You learn how to live life by yourself. Through trail and error and you improve by learning from your experience. No person on this planet is given an user manual
We all know this and yet no one has done anything to dismantle the systems teaching us BS. We all know 9-5’s makes us miserable but as a collective we haven’t done anything to make work days shorter with more pay in order to actually LIVE OUR LIVES HOW WE WERE INTENDED. This whole world is one big Joke
WAIT YOU GOT TO PAY FOR GARBAGE
I feel for Kelly in those situations where someone doing thier job badly makes more work for you.
Imma expose myself 😂 I'm 19 no job and not in school. I have to get a job by june/July or else ill be kicked out. I have a hard time talking to people/never had the energy to go outside and socialize. This kept me from getting a job sooner. I wanted to be a night stocker but my family told me "no any job but that, you're a girl its dangerous out here". I dont want to deal with customers in fear of not knowing the right things to say or worry about what I look like, and the chance of a customer being rude knowing I can't do a damn thing about it makes me not want to go with retail. I do my best cleaning up my room and the dishes like my mom asked in return. Since I haven't dealt with my clinical depression/social anxiety for almost 6 years I will soon have to go to school. Not part time, but full time still not knowing what I want to do after a whole year passed and be stressed all over again while also having a full time job. The thought of never having time to yourself to enjoy life is annoying to me. In order to get a good paying job you have to go to college. For years at that. You pobably won't get to enjoy the money you make until your 40. Don't want go to college? Be prepared to work a 9-5 for the rest of your life just to live decently. Im wasting my youth either way and idk what route I should take.
There’s the military
Learn programing !hundred of tutorial on UA-cam, no degree needed ,high paying job give yourself 1 years to learn 2 language with database and you good
I suggest the military specifically the reserves they'll help you get in shape pay for college and free healthcare/insurance not only that you can put your family on the same plan
Also military discounts in like 30% of America
I can't really suggest a branch
Try air force
However dont do the navy I highly recommend you dont go there
Well in terms of your worrying about your appearance and your anxiety and what not, it's not as bad as you might think. I can 100% say I was the same, espcially having grown up in state custody my whole life, but getting my retail job actually helped me overcome a lot of that. I care about doing a good job at whatever I do, and so it forced me to have to talk to people more and confront them and whatnot, it's actually made it so I'm not as shy or scared of people. Not a cure by any means but it will definitely teach you to get over a lot of those feelings :) and you absolutely do not need college 😂😂 I never went and Ive managed to make as much as most people would after having gone to school and gotten their degree, only difference is i don't have student debt lol. Gotta start doing some research yourself and asking questions to the adults around you if you are not already and the military is always an option lime some others have said
Every detail is exactly the same for me but my mom won't kick me out.... Yet.
Kelly didn't describe her issue well. In Corporate, there are people who do absolutely nothing in their roles and find any and everything to blame others for when tasks are not accomplished or if issues go wrong. In my personal employment case, I'm SUPPOSE to work with my coworkers to keep an obligated process running by doing my part in the damn job, however, I spend most of my time locked in my office, avoiding everyone, and covering my ass in emails. It's draining, but Kelly was about to cry.. I aint doing that shit 😂
Yea I don’t even work in corporate but I understand what she meant. It must be stressful.
@@tifzu_ Right, if it was so simple as "Just do your own job, and mind your business" it wouldn't be nothing to complain about. I feel for Kelly, but I'm being paid more than enough to deal with the BS, so 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️😂
@@sydneyc100 it really depends on the job tbh
@@jevislife5675 For sure!
i am at the point where i just cook a pot of soup every 2 days.
This compilation was unexpectedly eye opening...
I'm only 20 but bet I've already thought of my retirement days.
I'm 19 about to turn 20 in a couple months and I still don't know what the fuck I want to do or even be. I'm in college my major is business but what the fuck business do I even want to do? I don't know. this adult life is stressful working and shit
I got a sugamama she got it covered
Let’s start a thread of things that should or wished was taught in schools.
Taxes
How to get out of debt or avoid?
How to avoid scams?
How to manage money & not overspend?
How to stay healthy as possible?
Better education on drugs?
Possible ways to invest money & grow your own business?
How to pay your bills & avoid being broke or stay financial stable.
I personal feel the school system is bad because they don’t want us to be successful or own more business & be happy
I wish their was some halfway point in between high school and college that helped kids that didn't know wth to do with their life after school. If there is shout it out, cause I did not want to go to college but felt like there was no skill I had and decided I'd have to waste money I didn't have to be successful somehow.
Wow this video is high key depressing 😭
Is it me or these people never observe anything growing up. Because I know how pay bill, wash clothes, house maintenance in middle schools and in high school with a single mother. Like who raise them. I thought we were learn responsibility at a young age.
The cocaine thing took me chile....
No obviously not.Parent should definitely teach what they learned to their children but that doesn’t happen often in my opinion.Kids & teenagers are too busy having fun so school is really the only place where we’re taught that learning things is necessary
It means your parents did what they were supposed to do. The fact that so many people are surprised about basic things that must be done shows there were a few lessons that weren't taught at home.
Even though children are going to school to learn academically, parents are still responsible for teaching their children what they need to know when it comes to the "real world". You prepare your children now so they aren't surprised about the fact that they have to "do laundry".
@@johnnytsunami9132 Yea I definitely agree.But the parents had learned from the school system as well so get tricky.especially when we get some things that they didn’t.Like now in America its a new test that is required for all senior to know current things about America to graduate high school
Dee being done over the whole compilation from the beginning 😭
Dee to her credit I kind of understand where Kelly Karen is coming from.
Sometimes people are just shitty workers and your job is entertwined with theirs which fucks up your shit.
Im personally not an overachiever. I just like to get shit done and slackers hold me the fuck up.
That's why I'm a food delivery driver. I'm considered to be self employed which is a whole other thing.
But I don't have to put up with beaurocracy with ANY job.
People say your 20's are the best years of your life. Fuck no there the worst cuz thats when your trying to figure shit out, making mistakes, etc....
Time went 'so slow' as a child because you were wayy more present in the moment. So be present
Time moves slow when you're a child...not fast
As a teen now everything feels so weird and i feel so numb to the world and time is just passing by like a train and everyday i procrastinate is another dream i want thrown in the trash 🤦🏾♀️
@@von8619 that's what I meant
@@tamia1408 I recommend just picking one dream you want to do and just Start Now. That's what I did and a year later it's working out
Her math is only correct for a person that doesn't multitask, which doesn't exist. I can work, do laundry, walk my dog, and etc basically in the same time frame. Nobody stops everything they are doing to chew gum.
Wow, i didn't know everyone worked from home...you're eyes are not the only ones on this planet.
Time is eating us up. Slowly but quickly at the same time 🥲
I kinda get what the women saying with the points
lemme just stay a broke child ugh
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Lol all I know is you gotta be really aggressive in life.
You can see the pain in Dee's eyes when she was going down the list of bills LMAO!!!! Like she was having PTSD
You can tell she ain't even wanna think about those things LMAO
Dee makes the most entertaining reaction videos.💣
Actually, depending on what job you have, other people not doing there job, could mean more work for you or you not being able to do your job. I mean what the janitor does or what someone does in accounting doesn't effect me the same as what someone I'm teamed up with on a project. Though sometime I can get away with if they don't do their job, it's not my fault I can't do mine. But that only works if you boss isn't looking to you for a done project, if they are, it doesn't matter, I've had to just do the person's work to a project done on time.
Alright, this is going to be long. Kelly is right; y’all acting as if you know her just due to her using the word “perfectionist.” That is an OCD trait, not a micromanager issue. When people are lazy, it affects someone else always point blank no matter the job. Ever remember being in a group project in school where someone never pulled their weight and still got the grade that is the same concept. Honestly, if you don’t remember someone like that, you were likely the jerk who stressed everyone else out and took all the credit knowing you didn’t do a thing. The homelessness issue is an adult thing that is never prepared for or even talked about, but it can happen to anybody at any time without warning. The pandemic will prove that problem very well since our government didn’t give a shit about people. One bad thing can happen, and everything you know could be gone in a flash. The chick was trying to explain how capitalism got us all royally screwed. The top ultra-wealthy will never work a day in their lives for anything they need. Jobs to them are to pass the time away. For everyone else, it is to survive on a planet that you didn’t ask to exist on. We are expected to pay for water, food, and shelter already proves how fucked society is that the basic necessities for survival put us in a never-ending cycle where we will work until the day we die. We even pay for our deaths ahead of time, and worse of all, someone right now has to pay for oxygen to breathe to keep the cycle going. Her point was the amount of money is never enough. Hence, we have to continuously keep working while never genuinely enjoying what matters to us in life which feeds into our loneliness as we search for someone to suffer with us in life.
i JUST turned 18 and im so stressed abt getting ids & opening a bank account & learning to drive which ive put off bc im SCARED lmaooo but rly so many responsibilities are just popping up in my face and my ppl are tryna make me figure it all out myself ( idk y because it builds character or sum shit ) but im literally still tryna graduate highschool and i feel like theres so much pressure to take on these new responsibilities (alone) and meanwhile figure out wtf i wanna do in life
Dee, you who Kelly was talking about lmaooo. Nah, but forreal tho, I mind my business when it comes to people not doing their jobs UNTIL it starts fucking with my job. If your lack of effort is causing me to have to do more work, then that's when I start to care cuz what you not about to do is have me out here working for the both of us while you still getting paid. Especially if the person is a man or non-POC cuz they probably already getting paid more than me. NO SIR, NO MA'AM. So I think she was just tryna say that people just be like that, they don't change, which sucks. Cuz it's like forever doing a group project with the same MF who never answers their phone or come to the group meetings but still wants the credit. If it's making her job harder, I get the frustration. But Dee you have said that you just be quitting jobs when you don't like them anymore so I see why you didn't GAF about what she was saying haha. You like, bitch just quit! lol
I'm 18 turning 19 later this year about to start my adult life.
I'm already accepted in a college for August but have no idea what I am gonna major in or what type of job I am going to have after college.
I'm gonna have to get a job in the summer( I don't have to but it's for my own personal gain of wealth, I hate being broke.)
While my little brothers can't wait for me to move out lmao, My parents don't care too much about moving out so that's good.
I have no driver's license or permit.
EDIT:Just noticed how many 18-21 year olds in this comment section.
Can we PLEASE stop comparing animals to human babies. That shit is seriously weird as hell
This is why living a simple nomadic life is better
This is teaching me so much. you have to do more of these what nobody told you about growing up. for me love & money is everything, nobody told me that
Dee, don't be mad at Kelly. Often other people sucking at their job, affects your job. Deadlines, passoffs etc. Most of life we are taught to achieve for ourselves, but us regular folks (9 to fivers) have to grow up and deal with incompetent trash everyday and bosses too incompetent or afraid to correct them.
Tik tok taught me how to write a check, what to look for in apartments, how to apply for a loan, what to say in a job interview, how to fix a tire...and I don't even drive (yet) highschool isn't teaching me shit. Why don't schools give money management classes or something, what will the Pythagorean theorem do for me?
All these clips has though me more than an entire semester of college.
The third clip real af everyone in highschool disappeared and college was all about getting shit done and nothing else.
*Adult exists*
The system: That's gonna cost you your soul.
Kelly get outta my screen...I'm dying 😂
Can you react to the christian adhan vs the muslim adhan
I agree with the "Do your own job" sentiment, only as long as someone else's fuckups aren't messing with MY job Lol. If I gotta do extra work because of someone else dropping the ball that's annoying asf.
At 18 I realized so much things I went into depression for a few months lol man what a journey
People act like cooking food is hard lol just look up easy recipes.
Shit like this makes me not wanna move out from the comfort of my parent's home for a while....and I'm in my 20s...also saving enough money for literally everything except breathing is really hard
Dee react to dons life doing an ari grande ponytail
Kelly karen😂😂
When a person is bad at their job, that's extra work for you. Especially when you are good at your job. I've learned that the bad ones get to slack off more and not really get reprimanded. But because you are a good worker, your bosses make you pick up the slack and get upset if you slack off a little. So, yeah, Kelly has a good point.
Kelly is mad because someone else refuses to be an overachiever for a company that doesn’t even care about them. Like she really came here to flex but don’t realize she’s doing all of that for somebody else’s company.
Wrong video Kelly 😂
Either I'm really educated or some of y'all parents weren't teaching you along with school.
3:20 You see, and you get on our ass for calling you shady 😂😂😂
7:20 This is such a load of crap. Yes if you add up all of the hours when you're sleeping it'll add up to several years. Having said that, if I sleep 7 hours a night this means I was awake doing stuff for 17 hours. Everything that this lady is adding up is subjective and not everybody hates their full-time job because to a lot of people it's their dream job. Sorry but I ain't drinking the koolaid
3:20
girl saying she went into a coma and woke up and found out her family is dead
dee: GIRL
dee's mind: im going to hell just fo laughing
Damn, my mama ain't teach me shit
🥴 I kinda feel Kelly but only because most of the time when people suck at their job you have to pick up their slack. Other then that idgaf.
Time really do be moving fast as hell. But maybe that's because I count based off of paychecks.
Is the woman talking bout homelessness John Wick, like who's preparing somebody for all this growing up🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Omg the voice at 13:27 I didn't know you could produce such sound frequencies