Stop obsessing 😍 over someone with these 2 powerful techniques
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I've been in similar situation for more than a year now... And when I got to know her better, when I found out about her little flaws and insecurities, I loved her even more than ever before. We were getting along basically in everything, except she just didn't feel the same. And I can feel this sadness and emptiness in me now that we discussed it, it's almost like a pressure in my chest... All I can do is cry and sleep. And the worst thing is, we work together so the physical distance is not an option for me at this moment. Not a single thing can make me smile and every sunny day feels like a foggy winter evening...
Thanks, you were right about denying, sometimes very intrusive and annoying
This is so true with emphasis on adopting the qualities you're interested in
Thankyou I really needed this..❤
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It's so simple??? You're Great!!! Kisses from Poland 🇵🇱
Thank you !
it hard sometimes to stop even after someone does something awful to you ❤
She's basically saying that if you're obsessed over somebody, start to date them and it will pass😂😂
(she's not wrong, though)
Francesca,
I am very thankful towards you, because you made me, already by your earlier video (maybe seven months ago), understand about obsession,
yes, about my obsession.
So, I did really accept. Accept, about my obsession, and also realize, that
this "my" object is a real person.
!! who was actually also obsessed about me.
a very weared situation, indeed.
and then me and him , months later, were not so anxious ( or shy) anymore.
we tried it, and now we are there and here.
Thank you ❤
Francesca! I am obsessing over your voice, your accent, your eyes, your intelligence, is this Normal?
What if we knew that the person is flawed, we know they're not perfect, still we want them for who they truly are 🫣
That's when you focus on adopting those qualities
You probably don't know them well enough. You have to see them as someone who's just as common as everyone else.
That sounds like love
@@JennyKravitz how it can be love if they don't feel same ?
@@reks1710it’s not love. U ignored the rest of the replies and wanted to focus on delusion
I like to ask “What do you think about foreign policy?” It’s never failed to give me the ick
Thanks beautiful
Universe send this msg to me, thankyou so much Di❤ & Thank you so much 🌌universe❤
Hello Sis! Please makes video on
How to stop repeating the same mistakes!😢
Juicy forbidden fruit 😂 love it😁
Ignored the person .
It it possible that oxytocin and serotonin are the most dominant and but because of some anxiety or anxious attachment and maybe trauma (there is still a little bit of healing to do) that there is a dose of dopamine? and another person triggers it in some moments sometimes
If I'm obsessed with that person physically then what????🙂🙂
Ok, how then do long-term relationships exist?
But what to do when you want that person but are not interested in them as per last line you said
Ahhh so while my oxytocin was going off, my ex's dopamine was going off and eventually he was forcing my brain to switch from the stable brain chemicals to the temporary ones, which makes sense considering eventually you're forced into using your limbic brain in order to survive.
😂lucky guy
I know why I'm obsessed. It's because I get no bitches. The moment I start being interested in someone else, I lose all the obsession. Then of course, I get obsessed with the new girl, that doesn't reciprocate, and the cycle continues
If you want to stop obsessing, ask them out on a date to the Tate & then ask them if they want to master….
Another cheap one that ruins the name of psychology.