waking up at 5AM ⏰ solo valentine’s vlog | grwm, being alone, handpicking bouquet, journaling tips

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  • hi loves, I honestly had a really good day this valentine’s which I am very grateful for. I hope you guys also had a very nice valentine’s as well. solo dates are so much fun esp when you’re doing things you actually enjoy. this is your sign to take yourself on a date as well. let me know what you guys think of the vlog :)
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 171

  • @AUGUSTMJ
    @AUGUSTMJ Рік тому +581

    I pray the stars always align for you and you live in ever increasing amounts of light, bliss and euphoria

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +109

      STOP THIS IS GONNA MAKE ME CRY

  • @sumayathatsit4676
    @sumayathatsit4676 Рік тому +521

    Things I love about Via:
    1. Your sense of humour
    2.Your Videos - my comfort place
    3. Your kindness ( stuff like your advice + giving out v-day cards)
    4. Your personality (how real you are)
    5. How hard you work on your videos
    and so much more

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +78

      STOPPPP NOT U WRITING FACTS FOR ME😭😭♥️🫶🫶🫶THIS IS SOOOO CUTE ILYSM

    • @M4angie
      @M4angie Рік тому +19

      LITERALLY SHES SO KIND AND BEAUTIFUL

    • @inyonderly
      @inyonderly Рік тому +5

      So true 🥹❤ why did that make me cry

  • @Ramj92
    @Ramj92 Рік тому +59

    I love how your videos have that structure now, we get a bit of everything, whether it's your commuting, try on hauls, eating at cafes etc. I really love that! Doing things you enjoy will always be the best. Journaling has always been something to me that really help you learn more about yourself in ways you never thought you could PLUS cute stationery is a must. Do let us know if you have a P.O box or something sending you stationery would be awesome!!

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +8

      awe im so glad you notice that🫶i’ve been trying to find an editing style i like and i think im getting closer to one♥️♥️tysm for watching

    • @Ramj92
      @Ramj92 Рік тому +2

      @@via.ilyouu I love this style, I’ve been looking forward to it ⭐️⭐️. Heck ye we got lots of cute Japanese stationary for you!!

  • @TaartjeMetSlagroom
    @TaartjeMetSlagroom Рік тому +121

    Such a calming and reassuring vlog, so happy for you that you had such a nice day! Thank you for sharing❤

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +7

      i’m so glad too! tysm for writing this ily

  • @likexchloe
    @likexchloe Рік тому +38

    i discovered your channel recently, and on days where i feel alone i watch these videos and it feels like im not alone. thank you for making these videos Via!

  • @AmysRainyDays
    @AmysRainyDays 16 днів тому

    I feel the same way about listening. That is effective communication and respect to give them your full attention when communicating.

  • @sillysailorann9700
    @sillysailorann9700 Рік тому +12

    I’m a new subscriber. I think you made my anxious self feel relieved. I’m so grateful to have run into your channel. I feel like I’ve gained more motivation to not be scared to dress how I want in public. Idk I feel like that gained confidence you have is awesome.

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +4

      aweee stop this is so sweet. i’m so glad i motivated you!! yes yes do go out and wear a cute outfit ⭐️⭐️

  • @Lele.ilyouuuu
    @Lele.ilyouuuu 6 місяців тому +1

    As for the journal advice thank you, it helped me when I first started journaling, I scribbled my heart out in disappointment, anger, and sadness, and happiness lets it all out into words on a page and I felt relief after for just getting the hard things out

  • @emy_1052
    @emy_1052 Рік тому +25

    I discovered you and your channel pretty recently and I HAVE to say, this vlog made me tear up. I've been dealing with a really low self esteem and I thought it got better without doing anything, but I realised recently it that it didn't. I'm currently trying to work on it.
    Seeing you truly concerned about others' happiness (idk how to say it but it just shows, mostly in your eyes) when you say that you went through pain and you don't want anyone to feel it makes me feel so much supported and understood. I really hope you go through wonderful things, because you seem like a genuine and amazing person. Anyway that was cheesy but it is what I felt and I had to say it 💕

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +8

      i appreciate you writing this so so much. i experience the same thing; i thought doing nothing would solve it but it really didn’t. we have to changes to actually feel better. you are so incredibly sweet for writing such a thoughtful comment 🥹🥹🥹♥️♥️i appreciate you so so much and i wish everything will go well for you love 🫶

    • @emy_1052
      @emy_1052 Рік тому +2

      @@via.ilyouu yes! We will get there someday 💕
      Lots of love 🥰

  • @AnaniasLu
    @AnaniasLu 5 місяців тому +2

    Eu sempre achei a Via linda (obviamente), engraçada, fofa e uma pessoa incrível no geral. Mas o final desse vídeo pra mim evidenciou o quanto ela é inteligente, mds

  • @Ricecookerxdd
    @Ricecookerxdd Рік тому +9

    I AM PROUD OF YOU VIA .. YOU ARE SUCH A POSITIVE PERSON .. JUST KNOW THIS THAT ALL OF US ADORE YOU AND TAKE YOU AS OUR LEADER YOU ARE VERY GOOD HUMAN BEING.. WE LOVE YOU💜💜

  • @abi9372
    @abi9372 Рік тому +8

    I really like that how self assured person you are . I am less confident in myself nowadays but after seeing you I think I can be like you - a confident person 😊.

  • @tthaaiis
    @tthaaiis Рік тому +33

    The journaling talk really got into me, I'll definitely give it a try! I have recently found you through tiktok and followed you here too, I really like your views on life and hearing what you have to say. I hope you have a great week filled with other good days ☺

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +5

      yesss!! def start journaling it helps sm! and tysm love!!😭🫶♥️♥️♥️♥️🌷

  • @peachielizzie
    @peachielizzie Рік тому +14

    the bouquet you made turned out so cute!!

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому

      i agree she looks so pretty! and tysm love 🥹🫶🫶

  • @SMOseptember
    @SMOseptember Рік тому +221

    You make me want to go out and do so many things!!!:)

  • @vlvtscrlt
    @vlvtscrlt 2 місяці тому

    I love how your vlog randomly appear on the suggested video and tbh I don't regret myself for clicking on your video. I really love when people can talk through their journal and it motivate me to have one too. Thank you for everything ❤️❤️

  • @faith870
    @faith870 Рік тому

    This is my first time watching you, and I‘m obsessed. I absolutely love who you are as a person, your personality, how you carry yourself, your sense of humor, you‘re such a stunning person inside and out. ❤️🫶🏻

  • @the1..
    @the1.. Рік тому +1

    vulnerable , I think vulnerability is the most human trait I can find in a human. It is a very beautiful trait.

  • @Jigyasha-q3l
    @Jigyasha-q3l 11 місяців тому +1

    Happy valentines♥

  • @nel6019
    @nel6019 Рік тому +8

    Love solo valentines tbh ❤❤

  • @cryu_0
    @cryu_0 11 місяців тому

    Watching your videos just leaves me with such a calm an peaceful vibe....Today´s valentines and I was feeling kinda off because as usual I´m not doing nor receiving anything special but watching this made me realize I can celebrate it anyways by pamper myself. Love your vlogs fr

  • @000S1-d3h
    @000S1-d3h Рік тому +2

    what helps me sleep early is setting the mood early so by 8 i would be in bed watching a show and having a cup of tea that way by 9:30-10 i would fall asleep

  • @yuna_l2
    @yuna_l2 Рік тому +7

    Thank you for sharing your valentines with us Via, it put a smile on my face :) I hope you have a great rest of your week!!

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +2

      tysm for watching love!! i hope u have an amazing day as well🫶🫶🫶

  • @NAZMAFARHATBINTINAUSHADAHMADMo

    i totally get all the advices and everything which u were saying , i'm glad that u had a great day and i pray u keep having it. ;)

  • @kauikay
    @kauikay Рік тому

    i just found u and i love u with my little heart girl, love seeing other women being happy just as themselves. yes we feel lonely, but sometimes its okay to find your own fun with yourself. so happy that you have found your own peace.

  • @nicolejones3686
    @nicolejones3686 Рік тому +2

    Hi Via, I loved that you did the "Valentine things" by yourself, you made them look fun 😄
    And as for journaling, I'm working at it, but it still feels weird to me 😅, however I have been feeling better every time I write and process it, so I guess it does help 😁
    Thank you for your videos 😊❤

  • @megalight210
    @megalight210 Місяць тому

    Your videos are magical: I was so freaking mad 5 minutes ago and now I'm a whole new person. I really wish I had a friend like you 💖

  • @kami8041
    @kami8041 Рік тому +4

    Yaaayyy i left everything that i have to get done to watch you , finally i was waiting for this vlog 🫶

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +1

      STOPPPP I APPRECIATE U SO SO MUCH

  • @o0zy_pr
    @o0zy_pr 4 місяці тому +1

    I was looking for videos to watch when I came across your channel on my birthday and honestly my birthday was a mess. I sat down and loved the content and I was just binge watching all of ur videos lmao I LOVE UR CONTENT SO MUCH #INSPIRATIONAL keep up the rizzful work

  • @Andy_mimi
    @Andy_mimi Рік тому +3

    No WAY we have the same wake up alarm that just gave me pstd lmaoo

  • @daisydudu
    @daisydudu Рік тому

    Im honestly so proud of via, I've watching her since a month now, and the comfort she gives me, I started going out all by myself and hot comfortable with being alone in myself watching her like yeahh it's actually so funnn! How come I never realised it. Im so proud of her for coming so far and doing things for herself I love you sm🫀

  • @Staryuta
    @Staryuta Рік тому +3

    Wow, I never rlly knew what was the purpose of journaling but now after watching ur video you have inspired me to start journaling!

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +2

      i’m so happy to hear this ♥️

  • @AUGUSTMJ
    @AUGUSTMJ Рік тому +6

    joy looks so good on you

  • @noe1598
    @noe1598 Рік тому +6

    Your editing is getting better and better, loved the vlog!

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +1

      this is so sweet omg tysm♥️♥️🫶

  • @violeta8445
    @violeta8445 11 місяців тому

    Today I discovered your channel and I’ve been watching your videos past hour. You don’t even know how just listening to you or see you do things on your own helped me.. it’s like my whole mindset changed. I always felt so anxious to go and walk around alone, but see you do it made me realize it’s normal. It’s not weird. It’s all in my head and it’s something I need to change 🥹🤍

  • @puwawa
    @puwawa 11 місяців тому +5

    watching this today on valentine’s day a year later ❤

  • @Bruh-xz9hi
    @Bruh-xz9hi Рік тому +1

    hey i found your channel recently,like yesterday,and i just love it,it's becoming my safe haven these days, and thanks for that,your videos are so comfortable and i love this place i don't know where you live but it looks amazing and beautiful (sorry any mistakes, I'm still learning English and I'm trying to be more confident with it)

  • @joanasilva4537
    @joanasilva4537 Рік тому +2

    you're such a nice person, i just ly sm! thank you for this video! i truly appreciate you

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +2

      i appreciate u sm more♥️♥️🌷🫶🫶🫶

  • @ezgiii888
    @ezgiii888 Рік тому +2

    You help me so much that go outside by myself 😊

  • @syzygy55555
    @syzygy55555 Рік тому

    you're literally the most adorable person to ever exist

  • @dnrsdln1151
    @dnrsdln1151 Рік тому

    UA-cam randomly suggested this video and it made me automatically subscribe. Wow! This video made me feel so good and inspired about myself. It made my eyes teary since I realized I have not yet done so good for myself since I’m too focused on other things. Thank you for reminding me to treat myself better, and it doesn’t matter if I do it alone :))))

  • @mikwan119
    @mikwan119 Рік тому

    Something I learned a little while back was that everything has a balance. Yin and Yang. To appreciate warm we need the cold (or vice-versa), to want food we need hunger. In order to experience the good we must experience the bad, we can learn things from both as well. I think its comforting knowing that most things in life will have that balance of bad and good.

  • @ikramaskar9440
    @ikramaskar9440 Рік тому +2

    I was coming back watching your old videos and you just hit 100k congrats!! I love your videos so much you truly deserve it!!

  • @magicmagicalvwithapen4697
    @magicmagicalvwithapen4697 Рік тому

    bruh what u said about journaling is so true. my journal is like my baby. whenever i cry about hw, insteadof overthinking about school i just cry in my head how i want to write in my journal instead.😅

  • @gyu9722
    @gyu9722 Рік тому +1

    This was so therapeutic to watch I enjoyed every second of it. I think that's blessing to enjoy your own company and spending time with your own self. I hope you have lots of happy days like this day in future 💗

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +1

      i am so happy to hear this! i hope everything is going well for u love ♥️♥️♥️

    • @gyu9722
      @gyu9722 Рік тому

      @@via.ilyouu thank youuuu 🥹🫶🏻

  • @AUGUSTMJ
    @AUGUSTMJ Рік тому +2

    you’re such a delight

  • @OutOfTheLoops
    @OutOfTheLoops 11 місяців тому

    Dig the videos. I wish i saw these kinds of videos when i was in high school. Oh well. Keep on being real & posting it all! 🎉 congratulations on the growth, hopefully a milli soon! Cant believe you started a year ago, you were already good at editing, putting a video together & thats impressive.
    Goodluck!

  • @my.name.is.yana.
    @my.name.is.yana. 11 місяців тому

    i watch your vid for the first time and GIRL i LOVEE how u make ur videos and these subs AHHH YAS and also the last part that was pretty sensitive and precious for me......thank you. i wish you more good days and even better! send ya good vibes

  • @maloriemilliner
    @maloriemilliner Рік тому

    I loved your content❤ it feels warm and honest, thank you for sharing your day😊

  • @Hanyyy_548
    @Hanyyy_548 Рік тому +1

    Via thank you so muchhh I started journaling because of you and I swear it helped me so much 🫶🏻

  • @Kazouchan
    @Kazouchan Рік тому +1

    I love your videos, they are so well done, very soothing. You make everything interesting and cool !

  • @cat70705
    @cat70705 Рік тому +2

    Onigoshhh I love your content and videos. I relate to you so much and I feel so much less lonely. I’m so sad you only started to post four months ago 🥲😂 looking forward to all of your videos and thanks for posting!!!

  • @alexandrac.6352
    @alexandrac.6352 Рік тому

    Your whole vibe is beautiful girl ✨✨ Keep going you’ll have a lot to realize in your 20’s but you’ll also become the girl you always wanted to be 🙌🏼💓 Much love and light to you ☺️💝🙏🏼

  • @dina_kazakova
    @dina_kazakova Рік тому +2

    I adore your videos
    It makes me feel so good relaxed and comfortable!
    Thank you sooooooo much

  • @xiaojiewen8552
    @xiaojiewen8552 Рік тому

    good things are temporary; bad things are temporary. It hits me

  • @rararespatiana6903
    @rararespatiana6903 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for this vlog make me feel better again ❤

  • @Teateateaatum
    @Teateateaatum 11 місяців тому

    I really like your vlogging and I feel like I also want to start a vlog but I think I am too young. I feel like I will vlog when I get older. Love your videos ❤ really inspire me!

  • @RED-light_
    @RED-light_ Рік тому +1

    Your videos make me feel like im not alone ❤

  • @shimmer410-o2i
    @shimmer410-o2i 2 місяці тому

    Omg everything is so aesthetic 💖

  • @kami8041
    @kami8041 Рік тому +1

    I just watched ur vlog m almost done with it , and all i can say is i like ur energy and i lvy too 🥺🫶

  • @selena7245
    @selena7245 Рік тому +2

    What a wonderful valentines :) Thank you for all the recent uploads!

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +1

      tysm for watching 🥹🥹♥️🫶🌹🌹🌹

  • @depressednour1328
    @depressednour1328 Рік тому +1

    ily sm💗 and love your vlogs you don't know how much comfort you give me💗💗

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +1

      i love u so much♥️♥️🫶🫶🫶🫶

  • @elleo2521
    @elleo2521 Рік тому +1

    Love the editing! 😍
    Don’t feel pressured by society. I’m turning 30 in March and I’m single and I’m happy. We have to be content with ourselves before we can be in a romantic relationship bc it can never fill the void… it’ll just make things more complicated. Sorry you’ve had a tough week and I’m glad you had a nice Valentine’s Day!
    Also, do you live in NYC? I feel like we could be bffs haha I also try to keep my word to my friends and resonated a lot with what you talked about at the end (during your journaling) 🫶

  • @peperika7845
    @peperika7845 Рік тому

    Oh my goodness i loved this vlog, so funny and cute! omg really brought my spirits up from my cold campus. ah!! love it

  • @vividlyxx2914
    @vividlyxx2914 Рік тому +1

    omggg i missed seeing your tiktoks since i deleted the app but so glad to find out you started vlogging!

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому

      omg hiiii love!! so glad you’re here ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @purnitaroy8336
    @purnitaroy8336 9 місяців тому

    You are becoming my fav channel

  • @giorgiafasolato8531
    @giorgiafasolato8531 Рік тому

    I am living alone for the first time, in a foreign country and your videos are really helping out Via ❣

  • @Caufhyii
    @Caufhyii Рік тому

    Hi Via! I'm not into journing in paper anymore cuz of trauma from the past (People read my journals and diaries out loud like it was comedy). So I found this app called Drawer Journal last year! It's like texting a friend with photos and you can tag your text too.I did pay for premium since I wanted a somewhat dark theme version. I'm sensitive to brightness. So yeh I've been journaling more since you tell us you're journaling.

  • @marybrown348
    @marybrown348 Рік тому +1

    omg i love ur vlogs plsss upload more!!! and more tatte!

  • @finclec
    @finclec Рік тому

    Girl, you are so gorgeous! I love this VA blog, I’m in love with your sternum tattoo.

  • @BUBBLE-xx9bk
    @BUBBLE-xx9bk Місяць тому

    One day I saw your video while scrolling and now I look forward to every single one 😚😼

  • @suhmanthuh-s2m
    @suhmanthuh-s2m Рік тому +2

    cant wait 🫶

  • @eudaemonia-bk7kp
    @eudaemonia-bk7kp Рік тому

    I love your videos sooooo much Via!!!!!

  • @camillewoll2058
    @camillewoll2058 Рік тому

    ahh your bouquet is so cute!! i love buying little bouquets for myself sometimes too, they make me happy :)) loved this vlogg🧡🧡

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +1

      YESSSS buying your bouquet is sm funnn♥️♥️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @im_just_vidu
    @im_just_vidu Рік тому

    I had a pretty bad day today & that's specially why I'm rewatching this video, cuz I remember you been so happy on the valentine's day vlog.

  • @justinexox9
    @justinexox9 Рік тому +1

    AHHHH VIA POSTED !!

  • @Stephanie-ll9hs
    @Stephanie-ll9hs Рік тому

    so in love with your energy 🥰

  • @Jirehniie
    @Jirehniie Рік тому

    Actually, I hope you know that you have a bubbly personality and it’s a lot of fun for me watching your video.

  • @adkari
    @adkari Рік тому

    your handwriting is so cute i love it

  • @eve3416
    @eve3416 Рік тому

    ur so pretty I love ur vibeeee :33

  • @babushka1717
    @babushka1717 Рік тому

    i really needed this vlog today and for the future. ❤

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +1

      i appreciate you so so much🫶🫶♥️

  • @ch.09h93
    @ch.09h93 Рік тому

    that was soo amazing . i'm a senior this year i dont have time to do that but i will make sure to do it the next year

  • @miapia333
    @miapia333 Рік тому

    first video i'm watching of yours and I think i'm in love. thank you

  • @clarasue1209
    @clarasue1209 Рік тому +1

    love ur vids, tyy 💞

  • @jiminham2005
    @jiminham2005 Рік тому

    I knew m so late anyway happy Valentin Day m so happy for u Always makes me feel better thanks u so Much My biggest supporter in life is u Really in fact u make me try to step out of my comfort zone and see the world as it is and I will always keep your words in my mind luv u💗🦋💌💞💓

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +1

      OMG UR NEVER TOO LATE LOVE and yes i’m so glad i can help u in any way🥹🥹🫶♥️♥️♥️🌹✨⭐️sending lots of love your way

  • @hannah-jv5hh
    @hannah-jv5hh Рік тому

    i loved every second of this!! just found your channel and immediately fell in love

  • @000S1-d3h
    @000S1-d3h Рік тому

    the part im scared of the most when writing down things i love about myself etc.. is im scared of being a narcissist or selfish im scared saying these things i love about myself will one day turn me into them but i will try journaling again i want to understand myself better thank you

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому +1

      yes same omg😭😭but yes yes def journal more. it really helps u understand your emotions better

  • @M4angie
    @M4angie Рік тому

    I couldn’t comment earlier.I just wanted you to know that you’re the sweetest and you inspire me so much🤍🤍

    • @via.ilyouu
      @via.ilyouu  Рік тому

      aweee stop ilysmmm♥️🫶🫶🫶🫶🌹

  • @mikisgood
    @mikisgood Рік тому

    I LOVE AND ADORE YOUR VLOGS SM ALSO ILYYY💗💗

  • @rosex7924
    @rosex7924 Рік тому

    love your videos so much im crying

  • @batayan1312
    @batayan1312 Рік тому

    We have the same ringtone set as our alarm… When it went off at the beginning my body tensed up so hard it hurt 😭

  • @samarashed4916
    @samarashed4916 Рік тому

    You are now my bestieeeeee

  • @berilcoban1835
    @berilcoban1835 Рік тому

    URE SUCH AN AMAZING PERSON I LOVE U AND YOUR VIDEOSSSS AND AND AND ITS SO COMFORTING💕😭🫶

  • @Isaa.218
    @Isaa.218 Рік тому

    what camera do you use? and I LOVE YOUR HUMOUR LIKE GIRLLLL, it so nice.

  • @user-or5du7dt5y
    @user-or5du7dt5y Рік тому

    i am so thankful for 18:18

  • @cheurah
    @cheurah 7 місяців тому

    15:20 “no way that was like a pore strip” HELP☠️☠️

  • @sarahmack347
    @sarahmack347 Рік тому +1

    thank you for this amazing video!! sending you lots of lovve!!)

  • @kamilians6431
    @kamilians6431 Рік тому +1

    Hi! Which app do you use to create your videos?

  • @aleyna0179
    @aleyna0179 Рік тому

    omg i love you

  • @simransonkusare4602
    @simransonkusare4602 8 місяців тому

    Wow ❤