living alone vlog🎧📎waking up at 7AM, groceries, adulting, mental break down (i wish i was kidding)
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- Опубліковано 23 вер 2024
- this week was eventful. I was not going to let that one single crazy day ruin my entire week. like I said in the vlog, respect others boundaries and always be kind. one should never speak over another person’s experience because that is truly an awful thing to do. anywayysssss other than that one day, I had a really good time and I hope you guys enjoyed the vlog.
I’ll see you all next week babes!
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Considering the politcal climate, especially regarding violence against Asian women. As one, I would be petrified too, I am glad you're safe now love.
thank you so much for understanding 🥹♥️
ofcourse men would respond to something they cannot relate to on social media. the whole situation is 100% weird and i would even feel uncomfortable if someone just quickly and oddly was that close to me and just dropped a note and left. it couldve said anything and you have no idea what his intentions were. how you reacted was very valid, dont tear down your boundaries just because others have less. have a good day and im glad i found your channel today 💗
thank u sm for understanding🥹♥️and omg exactly! the note couldve said anything. literally when i got that note i was so scared 🧍🏻♀️🧍🏻♀️🧍🏻♀️AND WELCOMEEEEE🥹🤍tysm for watchingggg
happy holidays my friend
You did NOT overreact to the note. I’m quite a bit older than you and live in the same area and the times very creepy men have approached me and gotten defensive or even violent when I turned them down is insane. You were right to leave. I would have done the same thing. Men will never understand the fear of being a woman alone, out in the world. I have pepper spray and wish stun g u n s were available without a permit in MA because I would get one.
ugh tysm for understanding 😭😭🤚🤚♥️♥️ i appreciate you so so much. That incident was seriously so scary and annoying. Men would never understand how it feels to be a woman. Ilysm♥️♥️♥️🫶🫶🫶🫶
@@thenoobalmighty8790 but that is the problem! there has been too many of this situation repeating. No, not all men are creepy but it is most that dont respect boundaries of women in general
@@via.ilyouu”men will never understand how it feels to be a woman” man I wish this was 100% true lol 🏳️⚧️
happy holidays my friend
i had a similar situation happen to me in my hometown starbucks, but the man kept coming back 4-5 times before he left. i was really scared to leave because i was alone and i thought he would follow me back home, since he had prior asked me if i lived around the area. thankfully, there were people around me who noticed the weird behavior and made sure i was okay before i left, but when i drove home i burst into tears because i was so scared and it made me really anxious. your reaction was definitely valid, reality is scary and people are fcking weird. sending love
I'm so sorry you had to go through that, people should respect people's boundaries!!! But girl you are so strong, Love your vibe and videos :)
i agree with you...
UGH the note part- fuck people saying that it’s harmless. I was browsing in a bookstore a few years ago (I was 21, and look young for my age thanks to chubby cheeks™️) and a man who I’d guess was at least 15 years older than me started a conversation, and it was all polite and friendly. It went on for about 40 minutes and I was scared to be rude so I just kept trying to kindly disengage but every time the chat came to a natural end, he tried to keep it going, and eventually asked me out. I said no as politely as I could and the only thing I was confident in working was saying I had a boyfriend (which is true). He left but I stayed in the bookstore for at least another 40 minutes because I wanted to make sure he wasn’t lingering around. Those people who say that note was harmless might think this is dramatic, but we have VERY valid reason to fear men. I don’t enjoy fearing men, I don’t like not being able to trust half of the population, but it’s simply a fact of our lives that we have to be vigilant for our safety, and it’s shit. If that offends the ‘good guys’, the simple fact of calling yourself a ‘good guy’ should say it all, and if a woman wanting basic boundaries respected is offensive then you’re not one of the ‘good guys’. You’re so right, we are proven time and time again that something as simple as saying no to an advance from a man can end dangerously, so when that situation presents itself, even if that man would never harm us, how are we to know that?
What you said about everybody having different boundaries is so true! I guess what it made me think is that it is hard for a stranger to know where another person's boundaries are. For some people it is fine, for others it is not, but from their point of view they don't know. I'm sorry you had a negative experience. I love your videos!
You’re 100% not overreacting. The men commenting on your video are so inconsiderate and definitely lack empathy , most of them never understand the fear women go threw just even LIVING .. I’m only a teenager and I’ve already had a few encounters that have left me so uneasy, nauseous and disgusted , it’s so scary and frustrating being a woman sometimes and it breaks my heart . Stay safe ❤❤. You’re videos are sooo amazing and bring me so much comfort btw
i agree too
EVERYONE WAKE UP OUR QUEEN POSTED!!!
But for real your vlogs are really a source of motivation and every time I watch them I just feel instantly happy! I love youuuu
STOPPPPP 😭😭😭🤚🤚🤚YOU GUYS ARE THE ABSOLUTE BEST🥹🥹🥹♥️tysm for liking my vlogs ilysmmmm
it is so motivational!
It's very important to do what you feel like you need to do to protect your safety. Safety is a priority over someone's feelings of rejection and sometimes people who don't face that issue don't understand that.Glad your okay
ur literally like the older sister i always wished for omg
this is so sweet ILYSM MUAH ♥️♥️♥️
I recently found you on instagram and have been binge watching all your youtube vidoes. they're so relatable!! it's like you're literally speaking my mind and it honestly makes me feel like i'm not alone
omg welcome! im so glad you’re here! this makes me so so happy to hear🥹🥹♥️♥️sending you so much love 🎀🎀
Tbh I do understand you . I was also scared once when a man suddenly approached me . I hope u aren't worrying anymore and ilysmm
thank you so much for understanding babe 🥹🥹♥️♥️♥️i appreciate you so so much 🤍🤍
I loved you being spontaneous, you speak out your mind and you don't invalidate your feelings even if others don't respect you for that. I learned a lot from you.
it's so annoying when people make it about themselves like "omg i would've been flattered," like this is NOT about you so go fix your self-centeredness. and i know this was already 7 months ago but i'm just so raging at some of the responses you got from the situation, and i'm sorry this happened to you i hope you're alright now!!!
anyway I love LOVE your videos, i really have just been binging on youtube lately and your videos give me so much comfort ahh
YOUR SO RELATABLE I binged on all of ur tiktoks ILYSM ❤
AHHH ILYSM🥹🥹🥹♥️♥️♥️🫶🫶
Whenever I see a new video from you on my homepage it makes me so happy and excited! Love your vlogs they’re so comforting to watch, I haven’t even finished the video as I’m commenting cause I already know it’s making me feel better 🥲
You have no idea how happy this makes me! I’m so excited for you to watch the vlog and tysm for leaving such a kind comment. i hope you have a wonderful day babe ♥️♥️♥️♥️🫶🫶
You're literally my comfort youtuber now I love you so much and I'm so sorry this happened to you...Glad you're feeling better tho! :)
i'm just obsessed with how your vlogs are mainly you being the cutest lil bean and giving us updates on your cafe dates and the weather like you're SO PRECIOUS!!!
(not gonna comment on the note incident bcs i feel like many people already gave pretty good input here, just wanna say your feelings are so valid and i'm so glad you're safe!)
OMG I feel you Via ! Last time a man suddenly approched me while I was walking to school and got very close to me trying to get my number and for some reason I found it terrifying I literally felt so violated and I thought that I was overreacting but seeing now that I am not the only one in this situation is comforting !
Via!!! Tysm for being you and just doing you things 🥰 really helps me with my feelings of anxiety sometimes, seeing that it’s okay to go out and about and be yourself. Seeing you do cosy things and put yourself out in the world makes everything seem alright!
i'm in love with your videos! you're so real and relatable and you give me the desire to start to film myself and talk about my life so that i will feel less alone
8:35 Please do not be saddened or overthink abt the comments you received abt the creepy man situation. Your feelings are completely valid. Just like you said, everyone has their own boundaries and I’m so happy you did what you needed to do to be and feel safe ❤
Yes ma’am every individual has their own boundaries, sucks that happened to you. Wish you the best, love the vlogs👽
I love your aesthetic and fashion 🤩 it’s so girly and refreshing
You are already a youtuber, you improve in each video, congrats girl.
STOPPP THIS MADE ME SMILE ILYYY
girl you HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO react that way i would literally breakdown right there if some men approach me
THAT IS THE CORRECT WAY TO ACT THOUGH I completely understand you and i love how you spoke about your thoughts and didn’t let it go
i literally love ur energy and ur vids and u as a person so freakin much ur videos are like therapy keep on striving and doing what u like hun i hope u get immaculate amount of love from the universe i love you
this makes me so happy to hear babe 🥹♥️♥️♥️ i appreciate u so muchhhh
8:20 I’m so sorry that happened to you and I honestly would’ve reacted the same way you did I hate getting approached by strangers in general and the fact ppl are saying they would be flattered just shows how sad and desperate ppl can be & you had every right to feel scared at least you’re cautious of your surroundings unlike the ppl saying otherwise they just don’t care about their life which is really sad to be honest
Since the start of 2023, I've been complimenting ppl that I found looked pretty. Usually it involves going up to them, saying "Excuse me, just wanted to say that I think you look pretty! Hope you have a nice day".
Around 85% are genuinely flattered and it makes their day (They either say they are flattered or smile A LOT). 10% are neutral and 5% don't like the compliment. It also helps boost my confidence as well as theirs (if they liked the compliment).
Hi, it's my first time seeing one of your vlogs and I can say now: omg protect this angel at all cost. We're glad you're safe now, really. Keep taking care 🥺
your boundaries are completely valid, do not ever let anyone tell you otherwise.
i feel sooo comfy watcching your videos. keep doinng it girl!
ilysmmm 🥹🫶♥️
I understand you, I would have reacted the same way. Love your work ✨🌼
tysm for understanding ily
Nah, girl, you're SO valid in your reaction. The men gaslighting you in the comments are probably the same dudes that would get soooo butthurt from rejection that they'd act in an immature or harmful way.
you're literally my favorite UA-cam channel ever
No cap... I WAS shaking after listening to her story and also how she was almost breaking into tears 😔😔
I feel like men forgot how to actually approach women. Like not using notes or child like ways to “pick up women”. That man could have simply asked you “do you mind if I interrupt you for a little” to try to talk to you or something. You would have simply said no and moved about your day. Acting like you are in grade school makes everything so creepy, I’m sorry that happened to you but happy you are safe:)
i love watching you so much
STOP I LOVE U SM ♥️♥️♥️🙈
"i hate cold windy days" clip looked just like a movie clip.. its pretty!
she is literally an icon
No seriously ur feelings r so valid, when I was 15 I was knocking on my friends house and her neighborhood wasn’t very safe but I really wanted to see her and a man walked passed, paused, and looked at me and told me I was cute. He continued approaching me and I was already so terrified I started banging on my friends door, he said “don’t be scared” as he was getting closer to me like WHAT.
I totally feel u I remember my best friend used to always make fun of me cuz I panicked out every time a boy talked to me
This is one of my most favorite channels on yt bcz You are a star to me
Via you did not do anything wrong people should respect your feelings don’t care about those stupid people and live your life how you want I’m rooting for you always 🫶🏻🫶🏻
i was yawning every time you did it, is so contagious 🥱
LMFAOO STOPPP😭😭🤚🤚
Hey if you feel uncomfortable that's okay it's totally normal and just focus on yourself and your happiness that's it ✨
via you're so strong, don't be sad ok? u look more beautiful when u smile
I really like ur vibe😖💟
here is a flower for you🌷:))
I really feel comfy watching your videos ❤❤you are so beautiful and really respect how you try to be hard worker ,and l like your ideas ,thoughts and your speak
Maybe this is slightly judgemental of me, because i know everyone likes different ways of flirting, but i genuinely dont see the appeal in what that guy did. Like,,, the men complaining in your comments about "how are we supposed to talk to women then if you guys dont like anything?" Is so strange to me in regards to this example. I don't know if im making sense, but in what world is slipping someone a note of an overused pickup line and ur Instagram makes you worthy of being dated? I know that might seem a bit mean, but legitimately, you watch a woman study in a library, walk up behind her and drop a cheesy note, leave before she can even see your face. Genuinely how is anyone shocked that this isn't considered an effective dating technique??? She doesn't know your name or face or your personality and whether your a safe person or not, all she knows is that you Googled pick up lines and were watching her study. Why would she hit you up? 😭😭...
i was just thinking about you because my mood was off and now I am so excited to watch your video
STOP THIS MAKES ME SO HAPPY ILYSM MUAH♥️♥️♥️♥️
You react how you want to, I would've found that scary to, I had men honk out of cars and stop and stare at me at the bus stop or my neighbor following me home and threatening my bf, always stay safe and protect yourself❤ but it's good to talk about these thing and to let them out
What is your experience with financial need for saving money on a 1 bedroom apartment, and what is the math breakdown on grocery shopping 🛒 🛍️ bills and other bills for a single person to live by Via ?
nah wasnt an overreaction- ur allowed to feel how you feel, sorry that happened to you :(
thank you babe ily🫶🫶🫶
This is my first time watcing your video!, and i completely understand you :)
Whenever i go to the bus or in a store i hate when a guy approach me ot try to talk to me i ignore them or either walk away :(
Its so annoying and scary!!
❤❤but I'm glad your doing okay❤❤
I 100% AGREE.You're not being overreacting, its true. Many incidents happened where a man kills the woman who rejected him where I come from.
I like honest vlogs and don't feel scripted. The first minute made me subscribe!
9:12 GOD I LOVE THIS WOMEN SO MUCH MY RESPECT FOR HER HAS INCREASED EVEN MORE😭😭😭💞💞💞🌷
Personally, I'll have the exact same reaction as you. I'm really paranoid when I'm alone and plus, when I study I don’t want to be disturb by annyone like...Just leave me alone ! And the library is supposed to be a quiet place so...
And personally I find the note kinda awkward...
Kiss ❤ love ya Via !
where are ur scarfs from?! They are super cute!!
GIRL U R SO CUTE AND PRETTY😭😭 u have the sweetest resting face
I love your vlogsss😭💞💞💞💞💞
Me too.. i cant stand when guys or anyone in general approaches me like that... Like wtf what is wrong with you man.... Let me live my life peacefully
omfg when you were talking about that man who approached you I felt obviously so sorry that it happened to you but also relieved because the exact same thing happened to me!!!! It's SO scary I completely get it. I was paranoid everytime I went to that area for a good 2 weeks. you didn't overreact AT ALL
It is a really common reaction via anyone would be scared even me you will be flattered only when u wanna seek attention it's oki to be scared at such situation just remember everyone here loves you and haters r just jealous and insecure❤❤❤
I'm 37 years old and your single and being Alone is very inspiring to watch your videos and blogs
my comfort girl's back with a new video yay
i am backkkk🫶🫶🫶🫶ilysmmm🥹♥️
19:11
I would also be broke eating outside that often and getting ubers!
But sometimes it is just needed and we deserve it.
ur jewelry is always so pretty
Oh my god almost the same thing happened to me but I am 14 and the man was old so I was terrified and i gave a fake number bc he wouldn’t leave me alone, thankfully im okay now! I’m soo sorry that happened to you. Hope you’re doing well!❤
Okay but as a woman myself I would have been scared myself. Just saying this because as a woman you know when you gut instincts kick in. You know when you are getting a certain vibe and when you don’t like it. Like yeah we all perceive things differently but if you found it creepy then yeah you probably weren’t getting them good vibes from him. Like you know when you know. 🤷🏻♀️ Ain’t nobody wanna be stalked by some creep.
The stew looked so good!
Everyone has different boundaries. Personally I don’t mind being approached but that’s not the case for everyone
you are literally the personification of the voice in my head lmaoooo
I get scared when a man just smiles at me in public, I would be so scared if one left a whole note 😳 so sorry you received backlash for sharing how you felt about it
I just realized you live in Boston. Have you been to Commonwealth Books? I went to Boston for a history trip last year and that bookstore was gorgeous!!
Definitely my kind of UA-camr ❤ just subbbed
11:39 that shirt is sooo cute!!
Really enjoying the intro 😂
VIA! where do you get your earrings?! i am obsessed
i get them all on etsy!!
Is your necklace also from etsy? I love it ❤
Im so gald that i found u , I started following u on instagram and came to know about ur youtube. Honestly!!! I never liked watching peoples vlog cause they act very lavish or productive infornt of camera which to me is kinda fake. (Note - not all vlogger). But once I thought to give a try to watch ur vlog I got addicted to it I would wait till ur new vlog would come out.... Ur very real and relatable. Love ur vlog andre ur editing 💗
STOP THIS MADE ME SMILE SO BIG OMG😭🤚🤚🤚this is literally such a compliment thank you. i sometimes wonder if i’m a little too real since I feel like i’m not as productive as how other vlogs are portrayed. but tysm for saying this ily♥️♥️😭
Omg girl i also do not like to be approached by men 😭 makes me really uncomfortable, even if they have good intentions i just don't like it makes me feel watched and you have the right to feel like that we are all different.
wtf i would honestly cry too if my followers said that and if i wasd in such situation, me i wouldnt find that flaterring i hate when men approach me like that. and before like amillion years ago men used to kill women because of their rejection . AA IM O FUCKING HEARTBROEKN SEEING U CRY LIKE THAT! honestly makes me wanna cry too, u dont deserve this ur honestly so fucking sweet and people saying its a joke, but i also respect other people boundries but seeing u cry isnt worth itt\j
Please do more videos and videos on living alone and being Single please please please?
i wanna give you a hug so bad ❤️ us girls all probably had some kind of situation like that and the feeling is horrible, like you feel the fight or flight response click in you. you reacted like a normal person and whoever thinks you were “rude” can go f themselves 🙄
Your intro is so amazing LOL 😂😂😂😂😁😁😁😁 and as your little sis i will support u my little sunshine everytime .Be strong and f*ck it all these boys
men will NEVER understand how terrifying it is to be a woman.
1) so i rarely comment on yt videos, cause someone might take my words wrong and ofc because i am hell of an introvert.
so like i was in worst cause of my mental health, it was so fked up last week. but idk why and how just god made me come across your video suggestion of ep.3 of your journal series and trust me, even if you dont know me, you actually healed me a lot.
2) and damnnn, person like you is also getting hate for merely expressing your feeling, your fear. this generation of boys are actually so worse and yes i am also single like you from past 21 years (context of that particular video of yours).
and lastly, when i saw your tears, it actually scared me a lot. please just please ignore all their BS comments, they dont deserve you at all girl.
i wish i could do something irl to make you feel you okay w this situation, but we live so far away T_T
love you xoxo
hi I like your camera effect plaese answer me what's the name of your camera that you're using for vloging plaese answer me ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏
It's not even a matter of over reacting or anything. I feel like in that kind of situation, treat it like driving. If you don't feel safe, do what makes you feel comfortable, no matter if your instructor (in this case people who told you your reaction is over dramatic) is yelling at you saying that you could've made that left turn. :)
As a guy myself I’m disappointed with all these other guys representing men like this in my life I’ve been approached by creepy people and I reacted and got stressed so you didn’t overreact you had every right to walk off
Love eating cereal at night . Also what is that next to the pita bread? Looks like Shakshouka I could be wrong. 18:01 I see some leftover stew. " Your mom coming to beat you" thats what uncle roger would say lol.
NOT ME ALSO GETTING A COLD AND MY PERIOD AT THE SAME TIME IN THE SAME WEEK 😭😭😭😭😭😭
NOOO OMG FEEL BETTER! drink hot soup it helps!
omg you're so sweet
I love your videos, the weird man scared me
I Need to Know where you got. YouR earings 😢
you are safe place thats the cemment
Anyone who approaches from BEHIND after WATCHING you is acting like a stalker. Be careful and sit with a wall behind you and you should be facing entry points so you can see someone approaching you.
You should have kept the note and shown it to the police or photographed the information so they could find out if it was legitimate contact information. If he's approached other women like this, they would need something about him for their notes. Also tell the people who work at the place where this happened about the incident--they may know who he was, or have seen him and could point him out to the police.
Whether a prank, dare, or stupid weak attempt at attention, the creep obviously lacked the insight that women are threatened by men watching and approaching them from behind. Also, be careful, he could have used distraction so while you were reading the note he could do something.
You might have distanced yourself from him and stood near others and looked to see his face. If you don't know who he is or looks like, he might keep on, and sometimes people get emboldened and graduate to bolder actions, if not caught.
Also he could walk right up to you anywhere at anytime and you would never know it was the guy.
Maybe you could take a class like self-defense, kickboxing or gun safety&practice or something to make yourself feel less vulnerable, more empowered, and strong. Or buy and practice with pepper spray.
I heard deep slow breathing helps with feeling more centered.
Including some little protein in the morning may be good.
And Rarely consume huge massive quantities of carbs continuously...like liquid oats and sugar and sweets...it may put you on the sad path of diabetes when you are older, because of the huge spikes of simple carbs. Being emotionally derailed with sugar, the monthly visitor and stressful circumstances can't possibly be good for anyone's health. I heard Vitamin C is helpful for dealing with stress...along with exercise
I hope you feel better and empowered. Your lonely vlogs are interesting, but I wonder if it could also be interesting to see how you methodically solve all your problems.
I enjoyed seeing assertively expressed sentiment that your "feelings are valid" and yet permitting others to have their own feelings, too. Articulate and smart women have Articulate and smart friends. Carry on!
I love youu
Dang he could’ve at least say “excuse me can I give this to you” you know? It’s not the gesture it’s the approach 😭