I’ve lived here for 32 years now, came here as a soldier and stayed. I’m from Charleston where I had to deal with racism multiple times a day. I’ve had 2 racist incidents in my 32 years here. Seriously. I’ve been all over this country and have been accepted everywhere I’ve went. I also have been part of the medieval scene here for the last 5 years, as a melinated Viking no doubt, and still am accepted everywhere I go. I love being here. Taught myself to read, speak and write in German. As long as you try to integrate the people here have no issue with you. I love being here and will never go back across the water to live in that uncomfortable situation. I live in Rheinland-Pfalz. Mainz to be exact. Living here is the first time I actually experienced what freedom is. I’ll never give that up.
Douglas!!! Nice to meet you brother! Man…you just put a BIG smile on my face! I’m glad to hear that you are enjoying Germany and living it up! I might need to connect with you about becoming a Medieval Viking! That’s something that is definitely up my alley! Take care and stay in touch!
Viking !! XD sorry I had to interject and ask, are you more in the reenactment side of it or larping (or both?) If it's larping, might see you around! Glad you love being here!
@@MydieLy reenactment. Only larpers I’ve seen around our way is for LOTR and an occasional stormtrooper. We try to be as authentic as we can. Even fight with real swords. Not sharp, but definitely real.
@@douglassherrod1248 i love that! I am a big fan of Mittelaltermärkte und das Mps (Mittelalter Phantasie Spectaculum). Ich liebe Subway to Sally und Schandmaul😋💕
@@nadine8742 Subway to Sally war gerade in Mai beim Worms Mittelaltermarkt. Wir haben da gelagert. War super da!!! Wars du auch dabei? Ich lebe für mittelalter. Wir leben für Mittelalter!!! Ganz nette Leute und immer Spaß da zuhaben………Kirschbier beim Rostigenritter ist immer TOP!!!-
As a native white german I never experienced racism myself. But this video inspired me to share a story from a few years ago. My grandpa is living in this small german town. He was pretty bitter back than because his neighbor who was a very close friend and his wife died within a few months. All his children and grandchildren were living at least 200km away. In my case more than 400km. He was sad and lonley and I was very worried about it. Tried to get him to move closer to us but he was totally stubborn about it. Than a black family bougth the house next to him. The one where his friend lived. I can tell you he wasn't happy! They had three pretty small children, youngest one a baby. They didn't looked like you. They were from Tansania and as dark coloured as it gets. The men was fluent in german, the two older kids, too. My grandpa made a few pretty racistic comment about it. We fougth over it more than one time. During these figths I realized this men got to over 70 years without ever talking to one black person in his live. So I bascily told him to treat them with respect and expect them to do a few thing different since they are from an other country and just get to know them. About half a year later I visit again and make a very suprised face when I found my granddad in his garden playing with the two black kids. After they left I just asks him about it and he is just acting like it is the most normal thing ever. A few months later I visit again. This time all three kids are there in the house. It is raining. Even the youngest one who can walk by now is there, too. It is totally clear from the way they behave that they are totally comfortable and know the house in and out. When they leave they say: "Tschüß, Opa." Which translates to: "Bye, grandpa." By than I was grinning like an idiot and just ask my grandfather: "Did they just call you Grandpa?" He is like "What's so funny. Their grandparents are half around the world, kids need a grandpa." And I was just like: "Yeah. Of course. These poor kids." He wasn't lonley any more. Racism has a lot to do with biases. And the best way to figth biases is to replace them with experience. And if you don't, not only do you mistreat others, you may very well rob yourself of happiness.
@@Allieislinda I was very happy about it, too. Sadly he died a few weeks ago. He didn't spend his last years in loneliness because of it. There were 7 grandchildren at his burial even if his children just had four kids.
I'm German and clicked on this video prepared to face the facts because I wanted to see what we could do better - I was not expecting that many positive experiences, I'm really glad you feel welcome here :D
If you want to ask on things that can be better, I have to admit, I understand German, live in Stuttgart as well, and always get the feeling that people expect me to just not be socially acceptable. That people associate me with the turkish-germans. I have been stopped before I go to certain bars by the bouncers who want to double-check to make sure I know that it's a particular venue. My black friends were even stopped last night after a group of us wanted to go to a gay event and they were asked if they knew it was a gay event without the bouncer even knowing who they were. I don't give a rats ass if people have had bad run-ins with certain people in the past. That does not mean everyone is the same. I find it particularly disheartening and extremely irritating, because I can't go out to a party or music event without at least one nutsack asking if I have drugs to sell. I had a better than average upbringing, and even still have a lot going for me, and yet it absolutely fills me with disgust to see this particular behavior. Back a few months ago, down by Tuttlingen, Germany, the police would board the trains, walk through and ONLY stop the people who didn't look German and ask for their passports. Everyone else who looked German "bio-deutsch" would just be ignored. I can't even walk across the border between Switzerland into Konstanz without being stopped by police. I and my boyfriend who is from Lithuania have not ever been able to board a flight here without him being tested for drugs, and literally the last time we tried to reenter Germany after a vacation in Greece, at the gate, we were stopped by police who had a hard time looking at my American passport. After a while, he finally gave it back after having been on the phone, while everyone behind us, a flow of "bio-deutscher" kept walking by without being checked and mentioned "you have a german last name." Yeah you f uneducated wheezebag. It's 2022. Do you not know any history of the US and it's immigrant past? I can not explain how irritating it is to have grown up going to a school district known for its academics, then moving, having the chance to go to private school, living with private piano lessons, voice lessons, if I wanted, learning tennis, golfing, volunteering, to come here, a place screaming tolerance, and then being treated as if I'm some criminal. Literally, this one lady began speaking in Schwäbisch before I had a better grip of understanding when I sat down on the opposite side of the aisle after having looked at me. About 3 weeks ago, this other lady grabbed her purse and held it closer to herself when I walked in and sat down in the train. Yesterday, I had drank too much because I went out with friends, and had to let loose. This guy literally began barking at me and began throwing sanitizer at me. Literally spraying me with it. If you want to learn of things to do better, treat each other with respect DESPITE what dialect they speak, where you THINK they come from, stop asking brown people for drugs at events. We brown people can want to just go and have fun. We're not all the same. Schools ought to do something about the way they only focus on negative things that kids during parent teacher conferences do because it causes morality to drop which honestly could be why Germans are so self-conscious. Learn to have manners again. To greet each other like normal again and not just when people go to stores. I've seen again and again how it used to be the standard here and not just walking around like someone has a stick up their ass, because for many, that is a sign of stuck-upedness like you're better than the next. Just because someone has had a bad experience with one or two small incidents, doesn't mean everyone is like that. And yes. People can make a change. There can be movements that happen. It happens all the time. Before 15-20 years, people from Central America were mostly seen as just lawnmowers, but now, most people are aware in the US that the civilization from about 500 years ago actually was about the same level as the Romans. People learn more about actual cultural origins, because people make it more accessible, and people talk more about it and are given better opportunity to talk about differences and similarities. At least 2 or so years ago, in high schools, it was cool if you could date someone who wasn't "white," or "white-passing" but Latino or black. Here, it feels like people shudder at the thought. The comment I made about schooling needing to also change wasn't just from me, rather it was from a social worker who works with young turkish germans who do struggle because they come here, and the negatives are focused on instead of positive reinforcement. They lose self respect, which is something that mostly fosters that irritation that so many are familiar with. People just want to be treated like normal humans. They're just so un-used to it that they get confused when it actually happens.
Honestly, I did not expect to hear “They treat us as human beings”. That blows my mind. I cannot imagine that anyone would just say “we don’t serve you ice cream” in the US. I’m glad that you feel safe in the EU, and I feel bad that you had to leave your home country to have that experience. Damn…
@@rogerh5172 Happens in California too! "If you live anywhere south of the Canadian border, you're living in the South." --Al Hajj Malik El-Shabazz (Malcolm X)
I’m an African American woman, and I visited Germany for the first time for a summer internship last year. For the two months that I was there, it was profoundly eye opening for me. Everyone was respectful and treated me very kindly. I felt like I didn’t need to fear about being treated differently because of my blackness. No one hovering over me in the stores acting like I might steal something. I just felt very accepted. And I did notice (like you mentioned in your video) that most people would talk to me in German first, which was pretty cool. There was just so much less chaos in the air. I don’t know how to explain it. But there’s an energy in the air in the United States that feels like anything could pop off at any moment, for any reason. And when I lived in Germany for that short time, I didn’t feel that at all. It brought me so much peace to my core. I’m now back in the States, but I’ve been intermittently toying with the idea of moving out to Germany permanently with my fiancé.
Try being just African, without the American attached to it. Not talking about Germany though, just travelling anywhere in general, they might treat you differently based off your name or accent when they know what country you came from. Even other black people in America look down on Africans, idk if it’s media branding/ brainwashing or something else that I’m not aware of
as a black woman, living in Germany for 35 years,I have only encountered racism 2 or 3 times, am now a German citizen & LOVE living here...being a flight attendant of 25 years I have visited almost every country in the world & am always super happy to return to Germany..I visit all major US cities regularly / almost weekly & am very much surprised at how Americans dont realise that many aspects of life in USA are hopelessly outdated..e.g. shower heads, buildings, cars etc.. also the amount of homeless people in the streets IS STAGGERING!.. also such problems as mass incarceration, health care, police brutality are terrible & there is a strange tension in the air & many mentally ill people in the streets in USA..so Yes..I love being a black German & living in real freedom & not just the Hollywood professed freedom of USA..
@@DialloMoore503 oh unfortunately Nepal & Australia are some of the few places I havent been yet, but I Imagine it's a lot like India, but not so overcrowded..India is lovely & very hospitable & has the best food in the world, so if Nepal is similar should be worth a visit, less people more open space & mountains👍🏾😊 enjoy your trip
2 or 3 times is too much! And the "only" before that make me feel really sad. Hopefully in the future black people can say they never encountered racism.
As a white german: Thank you for this video! When I hear stories like yours, I feel the values we try to build our society around are being recognized. It actually motivates me to step up and take on whatever racism is left in our society (and there sure is more than enough to do something about it).
@@TheBlackfall234 Almost ;) but about 25% of us have migration background. I live in berlin, seeing people of color is an everyday thing for me. Many of them have the german nationality, were born and raised here. I feel way closer to them, than for example some f***ing neonazi (which we unfortunatly and shamefully still have). But thanks for asking :)
Seriously, as a black man living in Jamaica, I heard the same story. the German people are very open-minded.Acourse, we will always have bad apples among good apples.
@@TheBlackfall234 Nope a German is one who chooses to live here and repects the way of life that modern Germany has to offer, my Filipino son in law is more German then I ever will be. You are welcome here if you make the effort to blend in to our way of life, you are not welcome if you want to change that and bring us back to the middle ages, you know freedom of choice and the like, respect for the female body comes to mind and so on and so on, looking at you Wade..........
I’m the daughter of a black soldier and a white German woman and have spent a lot of my life in Germany. My wife and I recently moved back to Wiesbaden, Germany from North Carolina and I honestly didn’t realize how much of my anxiety in the US was from the racism I encountered. I love being here. This is where we plan to live for the foreseeable future. I will say that I have experienced racism in Germany but I haven’t experienced it in a very long time and i’ve never experienced homophobia here.
Emma!!! Nice to meet you! First and foremost…I’m really sorry to hear about the ignorance and bigotry you experienced in the States. It’s really a shame to see how much the US is regressing back to hate ignorance. Glad to see you guys living your best life in Germany! Ironically…my wife’s sister was born in Wiesbaden!
It's really fascinating for me that you experience Germany like that. I'm not a person of color, but I am lesbian and I have some scars all over my body, so I think I have some kind of understanding for any kind of discrimination. Since I experienced it a lot, I don't want anybody to feel that way and I think that it's ridiculous to define ourselves by our skin color. But I gotta say, the discrimination I faced was in school and you know, there are always some mean guys and I hope this won't matter wherever I will go after school.
I moved to Charlotte 3 years ago from LA. Wow, the tension here is palpable compared to Cali. and we're not in the boonies either. Still can't get used to it. As an atheist, I'm forced to hang around the Jewish community because it is very inclusive of everyone. At least here in Charlotte. In LA it was the opposite. Not that I mind the Jewish community, I'm Jewish myself but being an atheist it's the constant reminder not to facepalm myself in public. Plus my wife doesn't allow me to talk religion or politics with anyone so it's constantly "yeah, the heat oh and the storm, yeah uh hah". I think it's time for us to leave the US. Glad you got out. Good luck to you.
I`m a native German and i have to say that i really enjoy watching your videos. You come across very charismatic, not beating around the bush. Germany has become a pretty openminded country. The majority of people is well aware of the bad things that happened in this country. Our legacy is to make sure that such horrible things never ever happen again. People like you, willing to contribute to the society are very welcome. Regardless of your nationality, skin color, religion or what ever. I hope to see more from you and your family in the future.
Honestly, racists in Germany make it to the news in Germany, because they are that rare. Dog bites man isn't news, man bites dog is! And another thing that comes into my mind: "Germans stare at you" is a frequent remark from Americans on youtube, black AND white. This is a cultural difference, not a race issue. Germans seek eye contact. Thanks for the Video,
@@ThomasKossatz Yes but also german racists and far right trolls are very active online and use social media extensively for self promotion and pushing their politics. That makes it seem as if there were more than there actually are. If you look at actual percentages they really are just a small (although sometimes very loud) minority.
@@EvilGNU Of course you are right! And they are happy for each well minded person that enters into an online fight with them, because that multiplies the attention they get,.
I’m a black girl from Portugal living in Baden-Württemberg/ Konstanz. I totally agree with you. When I moved to Germany a lot of my friends were worried, saying the Germans are very racist. I tell them all the time that I’m Portugal you might experience more rAcism then here. Even though a lot of black people live in Portugal. Unfortunately racist exist everywhere, but I believe the Germans just try to learn from errors from the past instead of ignoring it.
Hi, black german here, born & raised since 1970. Can we all agree that skin colour should not matter? I highly recommend that you keep and value your openmindednesd towards the native german population, join a sports club, a choir, a non-profit etc. Obviously there are bad apples everywhere, but in my experience my fellow germans are very friendly and willing to learn and also help when help is needed. Please don't accept the segregationist mindset of that chef. His statement is an action not a re-action (to racism). I see this tendency of black folks (and pretty much all other immigrant groups) to stay "with their own" here in Germany (and then complain about not being included). That does not seem like an intelligent approach and makes me a little sad. BTW - Just yesterday I was really floored to hear from an old (white german*) friend that he considers my father (emigrated from Angola in the sixties, 82 yrs old) as his own father. My father was a coach for the soccer youth in the 70s and 80s. My friend told us about worries about his son yesterday that he hasnt shared with anyone else in our close-knit northern german town. It was very touching. Anyway, thank you for this very interesting Video and keep up the good work. *It pains me to mention his skin color. It's so stupid.
As someone raised in Germany do you also stay away from using the term "race"? (Even as a white person that constatnly gives me the irks but explaining that to US citziens online is a different thing.)
@@annachristinanotyet4678The term Race/Rasse has been thoroughly discredited by the Nazis and is used almost exclusively by hardcore racists. Since George Floyd you hear more and more the terms "white" and "black" on TV which I personally strongly dislike. E.g. it is standard to say on the news: "In the United States another black man has been shot by a white police officer." I personally don't like that. "An unarmed man was killed with 60 shots by police officers in the US" would be fine for me.
@@nonnoyobisnis8705 Well that could be after George Floyd but before and still after it is still a big comment to "I don't want to make it a "RACE THING" (but it is)"
It should not matter, but it still has the (true) stereotype of, you are not a native german. You are the exception, you suffer on this stereotype I guess. This is the same as assuming 80year olds do not use instagrams. A few do, and they feel misstreated by your guess. This is just heuristic, assuming the most likely case is true. And it works in 98% of cases. This is definitly not racism, this is more commiting blunder.
@@holger_p Ich bin nicht jemand, der in Tränen ausbricht, wenn man ihn fragt, woher er kommt. Ich frage ja selbst oft andere wo sie herkommen. Das ist menschlich, i.d.R. aufrichtiges Interesse. Hängt natürlich immer vom Kontext ab. Dass mich jemand mit dieser Frage ausgrenzen will, habe ich aber noch nicht erlebt bzw. registriert. Ab und an werde ich insbesondere von älteren Menschen falsch einsortiert, aber dann korrigiere ich sie halt. No big deal.
I lived there 10 years, went as a soldier and married a local. I’m trying to move back now. I never felt scared, never felt threatened. But I also had to change the way I acted, I lived. I learned to be quieter, not so boisterous. Last trip back I had to explain to a few AA tourists that they needed to be quiet on the train that being loud is very rude. I now notice how loud Americans are.
My husband and I are thinking of moving to Germany at the end of the year. He’s latino (I’m black) and I’m super worried that he’s going to get called out in public. He’s just a very animated dude with a naturally loud voice, haha
@@Merrybandoruffians he will learn to be calmer. 😂 It’s justa changed culture , if you are open to growing and change it will happen. My parents are Dominican, it was hard changing that culture but I was young enough that I could. But coming back was hard. One memory was letting my 9 year old go to school alone. That would never happen here.
So another Thing to consider: yes i think WE are a calm Nation. But the Reaction If WE meet someone who is louder, is respectful (in many situstions). So i think you would Not have to leave the train because of a good loud Lough:) And a little more fun WE could Develop, so come and teach us:)
@@TierchenF95 that’s fine. I hope people do shame him into being quieter. I’m actually a pretty quiet person and his loud talking can be embarrassing sometimes 😂
Not gonna lie my wife and I have REALLY thinking about moving to a different country and watching this video has really inspired us to look at Germany now thank you so much for this video!!😄
I understand this!! I've been living in Japan for 7 years now. As a youtuber, many viewers ask about racism in asia (as you also mentioned). In my experience, American racism is specific to the US. In all of the other countries I visited and lived in, I've never had people refusing to service me or call me names just because I'm Black. In Japan, I feel completely safe. Like you said about Germany, everyone leaves me alone and goes about their business. If you speak Japanese, you can interact with people and really understand people (something many expats here don't do unfortunately), but I've never felt more human than when I'm outside of the US. In the US, I've always felt Black amongst everyone, Black people and other ethnicities. Everyone talks about race in the US to constantly remind everyone of their "role". It's hidden in our culture, in our jokes, and why we refuse to go certain places or do certain things. Abroad, and here in Japan, I am human first, American second, and then a woman...and then if we continue the conversation and they ask me about life in America, I may mention..."Btw, I'm called a 'Black American' in the States."😂 Of course people see that I'm Black, but in my experience, me being Black is irrelevant.
When I visited Japan as a German I was kinda disappointed because I had it quite often that shops/ cafes bars deliberately were ignoring me because I was not native Japanese. Yes of course my japanese is far from perfect but definitely good enough to understand what I wanted
I don't know about Japan, but in most of Europe we find it weird that people are called Americans, or Black Americans, Asian Americans, etc. To us you're all just Americans. And although enough people don't really like Americans, it's not limited to colour in any way.
@@lethfuil so true! 😉 Despite I like them if they are nice to me. When it comes to skin color it does not matter to me and I admit, I don't know if the person, who is near me is American or African, as long as he not talks to me and it doesn't matter anyway. If he asks a question or talks a language I can understand, I will help him/her.
The refusing service actually only tends to happen in very small sections of the American south still and tends to be seen as extremely socially unacceptable by the majority.
Yes, Europe don't have that black/white distinction. Espesially when you're actually a mix of several different ethnisity. Also the race thing is just silly and yhis videa shows that with all the different background he's still considered black just because of his look.
White German here. I really love to hear that you feel safe and welcomed here. As others already mentioned, if one looks different, stands out of the crowd, one will get looks and maybe comments. Just because the obvious difference is noticed, not necessarily in a negative way though. The famous German stare is mainly curiousity. I understand that this could be misinterpreted though :) But I have to say that the statement "a black person would not want to live amongst white people" leaves a bit of a bad taste. I would understand concerns regarding language, culture, job skills, climate, you name it. Many things could be a reason not to move elsewhere. But if the biggest concern is the colour of my neighbours skin, to be honest, I personally would consider this as racist. I mean, as an example, if I would think about moving to Asia or Africa, and I would check all or most of the boxes an the "pro" side, but a big "con" would be the colour of the skin of the natives, come on. To me it sounds like someone is looking for a comprehensable excuse without looking fainthearted. You know what I mean? Regardless, I am happy to hear that you guys feel safe and welcomed here in Germany. And I hope Germany will never disappoint you and offer the future you hope for.
Sadly, the US is so inundated with discrimination and fear of what is different…that people remain close minded. And sadly that tends to follow Americans when they move abroad. The best education in my opinion is going to places that we are completely unfamiliar with and learning as much as possible about people, history, language, food, and culture.
@@TreyDaze I have felt that, watching shows and stuff that a lot of "minorites from the USA" watch it's literally everyone is triggered because everyone is triggered because they "have to have expect" the next verbal or physical or actual violent attack around the next corner. For a while I thought that was a bit overrun but then well TikTok compilations and US-Americans learning about their own country and mishaps made me think "It is actually amazing they didn't revibe the Punk "No Future" movemnet from the 1970s-80s by now." There someone say the "Internet can't teach you."
That's the thing. I think most of the people who felt not welcome or not immigrated or something this way. It's because they stay inside their own people. Idk we have many Turkish people here and these ones who don't want to learn German (they live for fuxking 20+ years here) and are mostly with other Turkish people together have the problems. It's not that we don't accept them. It's more that they won't accept that they live in Germany and not turkey anymore. Idk. The children often went the same way. Stay in school and free time only with other Turkish kids. Idk why it's a thing among them. Because the most other nationalities don't act like this. They integrate very well. Maybe it's just our are but idk. And ofc it's not all Turkish people. But at leat here in west Germany many are like this.
@@soap3010 I think a) it's human nature and b) It's literally how the cities are created that a ton of refugess (also preferingly those cultures where everyone knows they just can't stand eachother) put in oen area and then we (white and other) people wonder why "hell breaks loose there" constantly and then you do not necessarily want to go down those allys especially not in the dark. I mean I literally live INBETWEEN people of colour, Muslims, Sinti or Roma, maybe a few black people or those who would be labeld such and yet this century has it I do not even know my own neighbours in my own house that well...nor the onces from the other side of the street. T-T....I think there are multiple situations that are like a Cat or Dog chasing their own tail coming together...
i see what youre saying, but please keep in mind that the US folks grow up and live with this disruptive mindset. Cant blame them cause they need to if theyre of a darker tone and dont wanne be shot at traffic control. sure, thats not a mindset that should be supported in any way, but even if you move abroad you cant just switch it off. Also it was a key point to this (very important) video.
Thank you so much for posting this video. I’m a Black (Dad)/Puerto Rican (Mom) south Floridian too! I lived in Japan for a couple of years and since being back in Florida early 2020, well, I’m sure you can imagine how I feel… Anyone who says that life is getting better in the US is coming from a lot of privilege for sure. It’s not. It’s scary. As a woman, as a black/Latina person, as someone who is LGBTQ with “Don’t Say Gay” in Florida, it feels like it gets harder every day. It feels like every time I read or turn on the news, there’s another sad story. But that’s just it, to many privileged people here it’s sadly just another story that doesn’t have any impact on their daily lives, so life goes on. It’s such an isolating feeling. It’s sad to say I can imagine many Americans reading my comment might agree with that. I’m light-skinned too, so I’ve got my own privilege, but I appreciate that you mentioned that you and your wife really had a hard time just knowing it was happening around you every single day, even if something didn’t happen directly to you on a given day. I always thought coming back from Japan that I’d move to California too, but like you said, that’s still the US. I’m visiting Germany, specifically Düsseldorf and Berlin, for the first time this October to see what it’s like and this question has really been weighing heavy on me. Thank you for sharing your experience, this has really helped! I think my one hurdle is just.. getting over the idea that a decision to move doesn’t have to be permanent if I don’t want it to be, and to just take the leap! Thank you again. Looking forward to future videos!
Hey Lexy! Ayyyy we’re pretty much the same lol! Thank you for sharing your background and experiences with me! You’re 100% correct. It’s a truly dark time to be in the US and with midterms coming up…it’s only going to get worse unfortunately. The ongoing war on women continues and I don’t understand how more and more people aren’t just blatantly uprising at this point. I try to be as optimistic as I can, but even in a state like Florida where we come from…bigotry, corruption, hate are so deeply intertwined into our state’s identity…it’s just crazy hard to think of a point when all of that comes to an end. I mean the largest Confederate flag in the world flies on I-75 near Tampa and people are just so content with that. That sort of thing would never fly here in Germany. You’re going to love it here! We went to the Pride Festival here in Frankfurt and we’re headed to the Pride Festival here in Stuttgart tomorrow! I linked my info in the description! Stay and touch and hit me up whenever you want!
@@TreyDaze Haha, yessss!!! How about that. Definitely a dark time, especially with the midterms looming in the near future. It’s like you said, an end to the way things are here is hard to even begin to imagine. People are so open with the hatred and the bigotry that now I’m more surprised when I have a good interaction with a stranger than when I see something bad. What a time. I know things aren’t perfect anywhere, but this is definitely not the place to be right now. I didn’t realize there were so many Pride events, that’s amazing to hear! I’m going through and watching your previous videos and I’m so glad you and your family are settling in so well! I’ll definitely be in touch! Stay safe and keep on posting!
@@TreyDaze Ohh I was at the Pride festival in Frankfurt too! Did you see the parade (on Saturday) or did you go to the "after-party"/show on Sunday? I unfortunately could only go to the parade, but it was fun and felt really freeing. I'm not sure whether I'm LGBTQ (right now I don't think so), but going there just feels like you can finally take a breath from societal norms. At least it was like that for me.
Hello, I am a German woman from Cologne. There is also Christopher Street Day in Cologne, where people from all over the world come together and celebrate. Of course there is racism in Germany, but I don't think it's as bad as in the USA. Just the way people with dark skin color have to get through a police check scared me a lot. I wish you that the attitude of the "white people" changes and your coexistence becomes more peaceful.
I highly, highly recommend England, but Germany is a wonderful choice too. Honestly the biggest thing thats gonna shake you about these places coming from the US is just how superior the urban design is. Growing up in suburbia & never knowing what a walkable, livable city designed for human interactivity is like, is something many Americans I don't think understand is missing in their life.
But maybe germans don't want to be colonised by you guys? have you thought about that? Europe is sick of foreigners comming like it is a free for all... It is time to stop this madness and decolonise europe...
@@cassandra8620 - Yes. Why not? What do you have against England? Do you have actual experience of living in England, or is your prejudice just based on ignorant rumour?
Hi Trey, I don't usually comment on UA-cam videos, but your video touched me. As a Black Brazilian living in Germany, I can relate to your experience. In the two years, I have lived here, I have had minimal uncomfortable experiences. One of them is the traditional “German stare,” but I learned how to live with it, especially since I am the single POC living in a Dorf in Bayern, whose population consists of 1500 people . I have also had a very racist comment by someone considered back then “a close friend,” but I guess it is mainly because I am Brazilian rather than for being Black. Otherwise, things have been perfect in Germany. Before moving here two years ago, I lived in the US and Canada for several years, so I have experienced different forms of racism. The form that terrifies me the most is the one experienced in the US and Brazil, primarily due to the violence used against our people and, of course, the social, professional, and mental impact of such acts on one's life. I recently visited Brazil, where I was a victim of racism at a local shopping mall. When I shared my experience with my family - who still live there - they argued that I was not at a “Black Friendly” shopping mall and that I should not be there in the first place. It profoundly saddens how racism impacts the self-esteem of our Black People. There shouldn’t be a “Black Friendly” mall at all. We are all humans, independent of ethnicity or skin color. Unfortunately, such behavior is normal for them, as it is part of their day-to-day lives. I wish all the best to you and your family. Dani
Wow! I’m gonna be honest…I’ve never believed Brazil to be a place with race issues today. A lot of it has to do with growing up in South Florida which is Brazil 2.0 lol and race never being brought up between my Brazilian friends and I. But thank you for sharing your experience. I’m also glad that you’re time in Germany has been comfortable! This is a truly great place!
It is crazy to see that even though more than 50% of the Brazilian population are Black or mixed, racism is very present in everyone’s lives. I totally agree with you concerning Florida being Brazil 2.0 🤣 it was so surreal to go to the stores there and be greeted in Portuguese 😄. Wishing you lots of happiness, health and success in your journey. BR, Dani
Mhm what a sad story. I only want to assure you that basically every foreigner, even the palest of them, complains about "the German stare". Germans are totally unaware of this issue and rest assured that people don't stare at you because of your skin colour. We don't even realize that in other people's perception, we stare. We just look at things or people. In German culture, looking at someone is neither offensive nor impolite, and there is no culture of looking at the floor or avoiding eye contact. Germans find videos on Americans behaving weirdly in elevators hillarious as we just don't understand the problem.
I had been in the german armed forces and was in Georgia for some kind of exchange program. I was shocked to experience such open racism against black people. Our liaison seargent there told us about a story, where they had a barbecue somewhere and when they asked the black first seargent to sit at their table to have a chat, the US battallion commander openly said, he won't sit with him at the table together. Such behavior would never ever be tolerated by a german soldier, no matter the rank. To be said, the battallion commander had to find a new table to sit at ;-)
What a story! Georgia is definitely one of me places where if you look “different” or speak with an accent, you will be treated like an extraterrestrial. And yes sadly…as you’ve seen it exists in numerous American institutions.
I wish you were right, but we have our share of openly racist German soldiers. I just hope they are more often of the lower ranks, not our commanding officers. But we do have indeed incidents of anti-semitism, of xenophobia, of right wing extremism in our forces. So no, the German forces are no safe haven.
@@franhunne8929 I don't say they don't exist, but it isn't openly accepted. When I was at the Bundeswehr university, there was a big skandal about students having pictures of WWII-Generals like Guderian or von Manstein in their rooms. While it is debatable whether you should admire someone for his military efforts, who at the same time doing so supported a highly criminal regime, it was way too much fuzz about this. Even high ranking officers at the university had been dismissed of their duties because of this incident, because "someone had to take his hat", but how should they even know about those pictures in the private rooms of the students?
@@mrchronos3374 The officers won't know, but the sergeants that report to them, should - ever heard of Wöchentliche Spindkontrolle? I never was at that university, but I worked at the Bundeswehr administration and got reports from those incidents. There were far too many to be called singular ... The Bundeswehr attracted far too many right wingers. I hope it is different these days, left the job some years ago.
@@franhunne8929 The University is like a regular campus and the students (officers themselves) surely don't ever get any "Spindkontrolle" anymore ;-). And by the way, there is nothing wrong about conservatism (being on the political right side) as long it is no extremism. And it's just natural, that the military is attracting more people leaning to the right (because of the values, which are necessary to make such a job), but the mandatory conscription service surely helped to get more people leaning to the left into service (which is good). I think it was a fault to abolish the conscription.
Frankfurt is one of the greatest cities in the world. Very diverse, and well-educated population. Frankfurters are used to black people, because of the many military bases there, back in the day. So much to do, see, and eat. Very peaceful vibe. Enjoy yourself!
@@kalimba04 I just got from Frankfurt Germany yesterday. Frankfurt was great, but Hamburg on the other hand was very racist. As a black men from the United States I have to be honest. I would not mind going back to Frankfurt, but Hamburg you can not pay me to go to that part of Germany the people were very foul.
@@toreyjoseph1286 that's interesting. I've never been to Hamburg, but I've always heard it was a progressive city. I'm glad you enjoyed Frankfurt. I plan to revisit there, at the end of the year.
I'm also a Black man from the America with my German wife raising my biracial kids. Yeah, I came here because I was sick and tire, of everything. In our 10 years here from Baden-Wuttemberg to Berlin, I've not had a single racial issue with another person. Nothing but positivity, friendly smiles and respect. My son has had two experiences with bad mouthing from kids, and my daughter had girls touching her hair, but kids have a level of ignorance that can be excused to some degree. Really only experienced racist or prejudice in the U.S. People also speak to me in German first here in Berlin. In BW they tend to speak to me in French first, maybe because we lived on the Dreiländerek or they thought I was a French speaking African, who knows. I've never been pulled over, never had a dirty look, idk. Maybe we're extremely blessed, Trey.
I am born in Germany and it is such a relief to hear you say that. Considering our sad history I am soooo happy to hear that people who move to Germany feel safe, respected and valued! The majority in Germany doesn’t accept racists. It is a sad, unreflected behavior of some people that if they feel bad themselves they will make others feel uncomfortable because they project the issues onto others and blame them for everything. But most people have enugh respect, empathy and knowledge. Even if I was the poorest person in the world I would not be a bully or a racist, hitting on others. I hope more people of colour will move here and settle for good!
At least Germans and Germany acknowledge their past and actively took and continue to take steps to learn from their past and make changes. I can't say the same for the US.
Germans today are more lost than Germans 80 years ago ...they are more willing to follow whatever is promoted The difference today that Horkheimer and Marcuse are to decide what is " virtuous" and not Adolf... in other words not only some European populations are to "go " but all of them and Germans follow without thinking
@Zfen89not69 Thank you for the info. Yeah, I know about the wave of Jews moving to Germany. I heard there's a large Russian wave aswell, even before the war, but more so now. I might need to explore Germany more as an option. Area wise, what is a good region to start investigating? I'd like to be somewhere not too loud, clean, nice views (either nature or architecture or both) but have everything easily accessible without a car. I work from home, so industry and employment restrictions don't concern me. Thanks for the reply. I'd love to know the backstory to your handle 😆
There are very few countries that have had such a thorough reckoning with the darkness of their past as Germany has, and I’m not even talking about European cultures only.
I can't speak for the Germans, because I'm Austrian, but I think we are quite similar in our mentality, so I dare to comment to this. Yes, there is racism here. There will always be somebody who looks down on you and considers that he is somehow "better" than you are. But this is not the majority and most people here don't accept racism when they witness it. One day I was in the subway with my baby in a stroller. The place which is reserved for strollers has already been occupied by a black woman with her child. So I tried to park my stroller next to her without blocking the entrance. One man felt entitled to complain about the black lady "taking away the place for our people". Before I even could open my mouth, the people around us started ranting on him. They forced him out of the train yelling "there is not enough place in this train for such an amount of stupidity - no place reserved for racists" and such things. I felt so sorry for this woman. She had done nothing wrong and her kid was crying, because all of the shouting and pushing going on. I was a bit irritated, because she was smiling. We then took a walk to the next park together and had a chat and I asked her "This was such a terrible situation, I'm so ashamed for this stupid man. How can you still be smiling?" She told me, that she's coming from the US and she is used to racism in every nuance. But it never happened that so many people stood up for her, that's what made her smile. So yes, there is racism and we can't get rid of all this stupid, ignorant, racist a**holes. But we can stand up, raise our voice against it... And for sure... We DO!
And you know what... I don't know why you are called "people of color" Usually I'm piggy-pink, when I'm sick I get a bit yellow or greenish, when I'm ashamed I turn bright purple, getting a bit of sun I'm crab-red and hopefully after a while I'm finally tanned. I'm a f***Ing rainbow, calling you colored? 🤣🤣🌈 (no offence - just kidding)
I feel like the difference here in Austria is, Germany has American soldiers so they've had black people for longer. My 74 year old mother says she's pretty sure she's never seen a black person until she was in her 50s. Most black people here are African immigrants and there definitely are too many racists. Honestly I bet as soon as a black man opens his mouth and has an American accent they'll be treated differently
@@stephjovi Yes, European generally* don't discriminate based on colour of skin but on national/cultural basis. So if you speak and behave as a German you are treated as a German regardless of colour, if you speak and behave as an American you are treated as a American regardless of colour (good) and if you speak and behave as an African you are treated as an African (not very good) and so on. So an African will probably feel that there are a lot of racism in Europe but a Afro-American will probably feel that it is very little of it. *By the general public that is, Europe of course also have some real racists.
I'm so glad I came across this video! My partner and I have been talking about wanting to move to Germany for years, but I've been really hesitant because our youngest child is black. I'm excited to look through your channel to see if there are any videos about your son's experience in school.
Not a person of color but youtube said this video was for me and I'm so very glad it did! I think SO many things you said are so important for all Americans to hear! 2022 and we are moving backwards as a country. I was super saddened to hear about your experience in Hawaii. I know they're going through their own bull shit...but history keeps repeating itself instead of lessons being learned and ALL people being seen as equals. We have been looking into making the move ourselves but to Italy 🇮🇹 because life is NOT getting better in the US! Thanks for putting this out there and for starting the conversation! Best of luck and continued success for you and your family💖
Popped up randomly in my feed but let me add something: when it comes to learning German everyone always mentions the articles (whether a noun is male/female/neutral etc). With so many people trying their best to learn the language many Germans won’t mind if you mess this up! We will still understand you and respect you for learning what many consider a difficult language ❤️
yeah it's really not important. Using the wrong one may sound strange for germans, but most of the time articles are redundant especially regarding the gender.
The German articles are sometimes very random - Der Löffel (The Spoon - masculine), Das Messer (The knife - neutral), Die Gabel (The Fork - feminine) or even Germans didn't know if it is Das Nutella or Die Nutella ;-) . There are some simple learning rules like "if it ends with -chen then it is neutral" but over all if you accidently use der/die Auto instead of das - nobody cares exspecially in Cologne where everything is dat (Löffel and dat Gabel with dat Messer).
Ich bin genau deiner Meinung,Deutschland und die Deutschen sind wunderbar ❤️ Ich lebe in Deutschland seit 1968 und habe nie Rassismus erlebt im Gegenteil, ich wurde immer gut behandelt. Ich war mal in Spanien in Urlaub und da habe ich Rassismus erlebt,und das paarmal 😢 Ich war froh als ich wieder in Deutschland war,hier habe ich mich wieder wie ein Mensch gefühlt. Ich kann hier in Frieden leben, und wenn man Probleme hat wird man nicht in Stich gelassen. Deutschland 🇩🇪 ist meine Heimat ❤️❤️ ich kann es mir nicht vorstellen wo anders zu leben. Ich bin Deutschland 🇩🇪 so dankbar das ich hier leben darf Danke 🙏 Deutschland 🇩🇪🥰✌️
@@naimapeukert8575 Mir bläst's das Hirn weg (um mal auf einen Englischen Spruch zurückzugreifen) sowas zu lesen. Ich beziehe mich dabei auf den "hier habe ich mich wieder wie ein Mensch gefühlt." Rein kognitiv verstehe ich was du meinst, aber... Man, kacke, das ergibt doch überhaupt keinen Sinn! Ich weiß, "Current year" und all das, aber wir leben im Jahr 2022, nicht in 17-hundert-nochwas. Wie kann es in sogenannten zivilisierten Ländern dazu kommen, dass sich Personen nicht "als Mensch" fühlen können? Bricht mir ehrlich das Herz. Ich freu mich, dass du dich bei uns sicher und... *sfz* wieder als Mensch fühlen kannst. *kopfschüttel* Ich check's nich. Ehrlich. Will nicht in meinen Kopf. Wie Integralmathe.
It makes me so proud and happy as a german also from the stuttgart area to hear you say that you are happy with us here. Just warms my heart. Thank you for this video.
Glad that i found your channel, nice content and as a native german, same age as you, its very interesting to hear what you think and experience. Also i am glad to hear that you have not experienced any racism here and hope it stays that way. I personally have never understood why a person with a different skin color should not have the same rights or be treated differently.
As a foreigner in Germany all i can say is i really don't care if a newcomer is white,black or purple.We as foreigners must contribute to the German society by work,paying taxes and so on.If someone is not prepared for the challenge of a new culture and possibly religion than Germany is not the place for you.Nobody will have problems in this country as long as they behave normally.This country is perfect for perfect people.Great video,keep up the nice work.Wish you all the best with your channel and a belated welcome to Germany.You seem like a nice guy and i am sure you're gonna like it here...
@@WesterwalderAdler Thats where it came from? Okay. I was thinking about the sowjet red army and the west german terrorist organisation "Red Army Fraction".
Really interesting video! One thing: If people talk about (more) racism in "east Germany", they don't really mean the whole area close to the eastern border of Germany. What they really mean is the area of the former GDR. So the place you visited in Bavaria doesn't count as "east" in that sense. :D
And also, it would be proofed wrong. As northern Germans we have the sayings, Bavarians are unfriendly and not open to strangers. And it's also not true. There are racists, everywhere in Germany - but it's seldom openly accepted - so you can walk through East Germany also, with every skin color, the humankind could offer. But you never should be near a "Spaziergang" of Neonazis, AfD- and Pegida-symphatisants. No matter wich place in Germany. Just mentioning, that their leaders are mostly West Germans - So don't blame East Germany for people like Kalbitz and Höcke from Bavaria and Hesse, living now as oeconomic immigrants in Thuringya and Brandenburg.
@@ratatosk8935 true. While there are more right leaning people in "East Germany" you can encounter some of them everywhere of course. The actual divide is more a rural/poor areas vs urban/rich areas one (not too different compared to the US I guess). And there are more such underdeveloped regions in East Germany.
@@ratatosk8935 That's funny, coming from middle Germany, the saying here is you northern folks are the closed off and non-talkative folks and the Bayerisch are more warm-hearted, welcoming people. That is not to say you are mean or I don't like you, but you are generally more reserved and don't like to waste a single unneccessary word to a stranger. Different perspectives I guess, though we North-Hessians are also pretty cold to strangers.
Just discovered your channel by YT recommendation and am very happy I did. I listened to what you had to say with alot of curiosity for different reasons. It would be to lengthy to explain them all. On a short note: I am happy to hear, you and your family feel safe and welcome in this country, because lots of german citizens are quite concerned on racism rising again and don't want that to happen! I wish you and your loved ones all the best for the future!
I came across your video, and I was so happy to hear that you have many positive words about the people in Germany and Germany itself. While racism is a horrible thing, I am happy you have experienced next to almost no racism in my birth country. I hope you and your young family will go on having a wonderful life in Germany and can fulfill all your hopes and dreams for the future . ❤️🇨🇦
i'm a german poc (mainly lived in the north) and ofc i've experienced some racism but really not a lot and i've very rarely felt unsafe, usually it's just uneducated comments and stereotypes. but i think there's more racism towards foreign poc, the worse someone's german is the worse the racism is gonna be in my experience despite some bad experiences i can confidently say that germany is a very safe country
It is not that easy. First of all, in German we would say "poc poc poc" to the noise of a hen. German is a very descriptive language. We put words together to describe something or we would just call it by it's name. The point is, that you are right, if you speak broken english the "racism" is more. But that's also not correct because you stumbled across the cultural German racism that looks suspicious to everyone who is not from this area. Let a northern German with deep northern accent move to a small bavarian village, let him go to the bakery and let him order. At the moment he opens his mouth he is suspicious. The difference is, that you can see that a black person is different at first, but at that moment when this person opens his mouth in the bakery and speeks a deep Bavarian accent, all would be fine. As another comment mentioned, it depends on how much you try to fit in. Our cultural problem no is, that if someone looks different, he has to proof over and over again while a white person at first sight needs not. That is sad, but as it derives as a culture from the germanic tribes, it will be hard to overcome. For me personally this means, that I always check myself wether I run in such thinking in specific situations or not, and naturly trying to stop it, if so. On the good side, this makes Germany an inclusive society. Just try to fit in and you have a warm welcome. Edit: the poc commet above wasn't meant to be insulting. I wanted to say, why I don't like this word in German. My feeling is, that these word in Germany is an insult so I am not using it.
I am a white German, travelling the world full-time since 2004, and I have experienced quite a lot of racism, in Spain as much as in Sweden or in Portugal. There are closed-minded people everywhere.
@@mijp made my Day, thx:) i really had to think twice or thrice, what an poc is, sounds harsh for me, and also thought of Chicken picking, before i finally come to People of Colour:)
@@alexandersteinmetz6857 For me it is the same. I really do not want to offend people, but I also think, that we are importing a lot of problems instead of fighting our own problems. The USA has a segregative society. The refer to themselves as Germans, Italians, Latinos, Irish ... and do seperate from each other, Germany has a "proofing based" integrative society. We had body ownership, (Leibeigenschaft), they had slavery. We had splited tribes, they where all immigrants. So, different culture, different history, different problems of racism. A black person somewhere from Africa would also have other opinions. There is a black restaurant owner who proudly calls his restaurant "Zum Mohrenkopf". He came as immigrant but not from the States. So I really would beg blacks from the USA, to not be offended by some things, it is not meant to be racism. And it isn't, because this is a different culture. It is like the "Germans are honestly being blunt" thing. Instead, let us fight the problems we do have. That is far more important than fighting things, that not really exist here. You can fight a fire in a room, but if there is no fire, you ruin all your belongings for nothing.
I'm really happy about your experience and actually a bit proud. Especially about the part were you talked about east germany. I was born in Erfurt and lived in Leipzig for a bit. It always makes me a bit sad seeing that quite a few of fellow germans paint a extremly bad picture of former GDR states even when this country got reunited over thirty years ago. Cool that you gave the people a chance and looked trough the prejudices! I wish you and your family all the best. BTW Leipzig is always worth a visit IMO, it's a beatuiful city. I would still live there if I hadn't gotten a perfect job in Hamburg.
It's so nice that you enjoy it here so much. I'm very happy for you and I hope that this country won't disappoint you. Watching your videos make me appreciate living here more.
Hi Trey! Some serious topic! Just a few thoughts here. First, there was a slight misunderstanding regarding "east". You were in eastern Bavaria, not in East Germany. That term generally means the 5 states in the former communist GDR, so Mecklenburg-Vorpommern, Brandenburg, Sachsen-Anhalt, Thüringen, and Sachsen. Of those, mainly the south-eastern corner is the one people have warned you about. Mainly Thuringia and Saxonia. They are our version of Mississippi and Alabama. The cities are ok, but in some smaller towns you could come across some of those people you really don't want to meet. Most people ARE fine, but the share of people who aren't is simply bigger than elsewhere. And it's less racist in the sense of color, it's more a general xenophobia. Not that that didn't exist everywhere to a certain degree. What may be different to America is that the fewer foreign looking people live in a place the more xenophobic people get. The fear of the unknown. In bigger cities, and especially in Western Germany (again, the old West Germany), the population is much more diverse and tolerant, exceptions notwithstanding. Second, when you began to declinate your "percentages" of "race", that's soo American. It doesn't work like that here. Nobody will ask you about what your father was or your second-degree uncle or your great-grandmother. There is an ugly ring of the Nuremberg laws in that where people were defined by their percentage of "Jewishness" or "Germanness". Also, people are not as obsessed about their "heritage" as Americans where many define themselves by the nationality or ethnicity of their ancestors, while really nobody in their "ancestorial" country would think of them like that but would just laugh at them when they would call themselve "Italian" or "German" without even speaking one word of the language. Hayley Alexis made a very interesting video about the differences regarding identity and race in the US and in Germany. Highly recommended, and she explains that much better than I ever could. ua-cam.com/video/ayep0SWcN7c/v-deo.html and this one ua-cam.com/video/K_TG6zbXCzs/v-deo.html So, nobody cares for you identifying as Latino or whatever. You're the American, for better or worse. ;-) Identity, if you must use that term at all, is much more defined by language and culture than anything else in Germany. Of course, there will be people who see a black man and have a film starting in their heads with all kinds of prejudices. But for instance, the prejudices are much more culture-based than color-based. You will probably experience that yourself someday, those people will treat you differently because you are American, whereas people from African countries or Arabs are treated much worse, especially when they are Muslims. No beating around the bush here, that kind of ethnic, xenophobic racism does exist. But it's much less of the institutional, systemic racism that is ingrained in the US, especially in the South. Not serving people like that guy in that shop did is not possible in Germany. Just like not baking a cake for a gay wedding would be against the law here. Does not mean that everybody would automatically be friendly, of course, but the law is definitely not on their side, nor the general attitude of the public. What shocks people here in Germany is how racism is such an every-day bureaucratic act in the US. The census questions about race or on forms for all kinds of things would be considered openly-racist here, and anybody who put that into a public document could go looking for a new occupation, because it's outright unconstitutional. And that's why I seriously question that statistic that says there are so and so many black or white people in Germany. That may be an estimate based on nationality, but you will never find a check-box for race or ethnicity in Germany. There simply IS no race statistic. People are people, race does not exist for the state. Again, racism is real, but not in that way. By the way, you may have noticed that you are asked about religion in some official documents which usually is shocking for Americans. That's mainly for tax because the state is NOT completely separate from the two main churches, and there is something called "Kirchensteuer", and you should have a look at your income tax on your pay slip, whether somebody entered something under religion for you. Presumably you are neither a member of the Catholic church nor of any of the Germany evengelical churches, so you shouldn't be paying taxes for that. Coming back to the census questions, this is a shocker for us and probably for everybody in Western Europe. I know that has something to do with things like affirmative action, but that itself is considered rather questionable here, as it does not really help to overcome racism but instead even cements structural racism. Education is free anyway, universities don't have and don't need quota for minorities, and generally, the system provides for everybody in the same more or less effective way. Having said that, there IS a bias towards education. Children of parents with higher education have a higher chance of gettting higher education themselves. It's a social bias, not a racist one. Our northern neighbors do much better in that regard. Social mobility there is significantly better, though Germany has gained a bit on that. By the way, I don't know if your son is in a Kita. If not, I highly recommend it. There is no better place for a kid to learn the language and get friends. Makes the transition into school much easier. Having said that, kids being kids, it can be hard on those who look differently. Not saying that it has to happen, but it can happen. Finding the right Kita and the right school may be extra important in this case. So, there are more things I could talk about, but it's already much too long. Take care!
Very well written indeed ... I especially agree with the "kids being kids" statement, even tho the "weird" experiences don't necessarily have to be bad. My nephew met a black child or person in general for the first time in Kita and he just wouldn't stop licking her arm yelling out "lade" which was his word for chocolate at that time. I'm glad they both got over it and she is still his friend :D
Ich weiß nicht, wo ihr alle her habt, dass Sachsen und Thüringen voller Rassisten sind. Er hat es sogar extra erwähnt, dass er viele solche Kommentare bekommen hat. Unglaublich bescheuert…ja hier traut sich die AFD und die Montagszügler offen auf die Straße. Dh aber nicht, dass die hier die Mehrheit bilden oder überproportional vorhanden sind. Mich ärgert sowas.
I'm living in Germany 20 km away from Heidelberg since 1980 aged 5 yo and identity myself an Eritrean German (dual citizenship). I can recall a couple of stereotypes and prejudice mostly in times of economical- or immigration crisis but I never had to deal with significant racism. I never realized how progressive Germany is towards different ethnicities and took it for granted until I crossed the border the first time. Especially during a visit to my older sister who married in Germany an US soldier and lives in the US for 2 decades now. Without going into details, on several occasions I didn't felt equally treated to non-blacks and it was quite obvious n humiliating. What surprised me the most was every time my sister or black American friends were there too it seemed like they noticed nothing. It's hard to explain... as if they got numb, my sister as well after all the years. When we grew up together in Germany she would freak out over every little thing that didn't felt right to her. She is an American citizen now so didn't say anything though before she'd say that I got soft with all the socialist free stuff from the government Greetings from Mannheim in Baden-Württemberg
What your sister said sounds a little like Stockholm syndrom. "Got soft","socialist free stuff from the government"? Did she get "clockwork oranged" on Fox "News" and OANN? When did she start to think getting "hardened" by living in a Mad Max type of society is a good thing?
Second video I've watched now and I'm super impressed by your extremely positive attitude / take on life in general. Quite frankly, I'm convinced you'd enjoy a lot of places just because of your attitude. You certainly seem like a "glass half full" kind of person. I'm super happy you like it here and I hope you can encourage a few more cool people like yourself to take the leap of faith. ;-) I have a couple black friends born and raised in Germany and their takes are a little different, unfortunately. They tend to point out a lot of the "subtle racism" that can happen on the day to day in Germany, e.g. you're shopping in a supermarket and a clerk gives 20 people a pass and then wants to check THEIR bag and the only noticeable difference between the other 20 people and them was the color of their skin... or the police going through a train and not asking anyone for their ID but then they do so with the one colored person. 😞 So I think we still have a long way to go, but at least it appears like things are getting better.
Thanks for posting this. My husband and I are a black/latino couple and we’re thinking of moving to Germany at the end of the year. As the black person in the relationship, im way more nervous about it than him. I’ve been to France, Italy and the UK and didn’t experience a lot of racism (more in Italy than anywhere else, but still honestly pretty mild) - but I wasn’t sure about how Germany would compare. Also, you mentioned that the logistics of moving to Europe were difficult. Would you mind making a video about how you guys prepared for your move and some of the things we need to consider/plan for?
Native white German here. I don't care if you are black, yellow or your skin has red polka dots with green stripes. As long as you do what you do within the German societal ruleset (which is mostly don't be an obnoxious a-hole and mind your own business) I don't give a flying F about you! The exception to that rule above is staring that is something we do A LOT.
which is strange as I too am a native German but I grew up in Malta in the 60s and I DO NOT stare as I consider it impolite LOL Upbringing DOES make a difference, and I did not notice that Germans stare because I do not and therefore have missed this fact for over 30 years now.
Hm I don't know if being brain afk in the bus and just staring at a wall or the like, is the staring everyone mentions? Personally I tend to not actively look at people cause I really don't care about them and just look where I am going. Unless someone speaks to me, or I notice that someone needs help 🤷♂. Could be the anxiety and phobia of Stangers I dunno.
This town of Moosbach is in Bavaria, so in southern Germany (thus a part of former "West Germany). When people talk to you about "the East" (of Germany), they're refering to places in the states of Thuringia, Saxony, Saxony-Anhalt, Brandenburg and Mecklenburg-Vorpommern.
@@sukatz Well ... as far as geography goes, Pommern nowadays is the Polish province of Pomerania. As far as history goes, it used to by part of the German Reich (1871-1945). So lots of "landmines" here when talking about "East" and "Germany" ... ;)
Thanks for the good content! I'm French and I'll be living in Baden Württemberg for 3 months next year, stumbled upon your channel while making research. I love your chill tone, it is relaxing to watch! I'm glad you're having a good experience in Germany! I wish racism wasn't a thing anywhere :-)
Greatings from Moosbach! I live in Moosbach and it´s nice to hear that your experiences were so good. With a Population of 2353 Moosbach is really a small Town but we welcome all people. It doesn´t matter if you are black, white or any other skin color you have.
We stayed the night at Zum Goldenen Löwen! Everyone was amazing and nice! If we’re ever in Moosbach again…I’ll let you know. Beautiful town with great people! 👍🏽
As a German, I can't have a say in that, I haven't experienced racism on any trip or was hostile to it. My best friend's wife is a black Brazilian and when she came to Germany 15 years ago she was terrified of the Germans and has never been alone. Every 3 months she flew back to Brazil and stayed there for a few weeks. Today she is one of the happiest people I know, organizes cultural events by Brazilian artists in Germany and lives a happy married life with one child. It took a long time for her to trust the people here. Many greetings
There’s a lot of fear about being a POC living in Germany due to the past. And sadly, much of the Western world outside of Europe doesn’t take the time to familiarize themselves with modern day Germany.
@@dan_kay But isn't the real problem that there are certain black-only neighborhoods in the first place? Being isolated from the rest of society…..no matter how structural, cultural or just unaffordable rents naturally creates a lot of anger.
@@guinessdraught2758 Yes, they are a problem, but not as you may think. It's the black folks in those neighborhoods who don't want white dudes living in their area. And they communicate that very clearly. I felt very unwelcomed in those areas, although I am the most chilled person on the planet when it comes to race, simply not giving a fuck.
Happy to hear that she made it here,but at the same time it's a bit scary how those stereotypes are still effecting some people around the World.It's bloody time people stop thinking about the German people as SS officers in black uniform shouting "achtung,achtung" all the time. I am 49 and i lived and visited quite a few countries in my life and let me tell you this:I have nowhere felt so respected,safe and financially stable as i feel myself here.But,it must be said that me and my family have done our best to learn the language,the culture. After 9 years in Rheinland-Pflaz we feel ourselves at home and we probably stay here forever.
I’m so happy to hear you feel safe in Germany. I wish there would be many more people of colour and Asian people here from countries all around the world. I hope your channel grows. I like that you spoke about, that there are also ignorant people. Ignorance only changes by exposure. That’s the best way to realise that people are just people wherever we go!
Hey Trey, I really wasn't sure what to expect in the comments but I gladly admit I've been so positively surprised with all the wonderful positive and loving mindsets, shared experiences and so on. I've had my own lists of topics to mention here but looking through the comments I see all of them more than named and explained. What an amazing video, thank you for that I really appreciate it. Nevertheless I also know that racism is real in Germany, in another extension than it is in the US probably - at least given by your statement and from what I've seen in news etc but maybe we have a more open discussion about it than the US is having. And maybe the reason for that is our past with Nazi Germany and our will to overcome that part of our history... another big difference concerning violence is the gun laws, you'll hardly get one in Germany while you're able to buy one in close to every store in the US. In the end I'm really glad you're feeling that welcome and safe here. Germany has some issues but it's still a very good place to be. Have a nice weekend! Leon
i´m a owner of a small fast food franchise and i have stores all over Germany. My worst experience was in a mall in a very small village close to Leipzig. I was in the store with just one other employee and a black woman with her children stepped to our shop but the employee didn't move to talk to her. She looked me directly in the face and told me she won't serve "those". i was totally shocked and did the order myself. The worst part was that i wasn't able to fire her, because i had real problems to get any people to work there. I was SOOO happy when i finally closed that shop. An other employee in Cologne (she is from Iran) she told me she lived some years in the deep east, and she could not stand the racism. BUT beside some bad spots most of the times especially in the metropol areas there is not very much racism. Germany is the country with the 2. highest immigration after the US and most of us know we need and benefit from it.
Wow! These are the stories I appreciate hearing because it helps provide a different perspective. I want to thank you for sharing and I hope you continue standing for what’s right!
may i ask what the name of that small village is? because i made a similar expirience in that region. The name of the village where i was is "Weißenfels". Imagin it is the same one :O. I was there for 4 Years and left because i could not stand all those hateful People. Now i life in Paris and even here i already had to notice racism :( (but luckly much much less)
The reunification of Germany was problematic and continues to be so. As a POC If you can stay out of the former communist part do so. Many capable and educated people left the East so what remains often are the people you want to avoid.
Husband and I faced little, if none, racism while living in Germany during the mid 70s - 80s. We lived in Durmersheim and worked in Karlsruhe. Returning to the states was a vile cultural shock. Wished we would have stayed in Germany.
@@katherinegriffith5546 And what is "our" truth? Isn't it interesting that you try to separate the "truths." But then you are proving my point for me. One more item - If you worked in Karlsruhe, there is absolutely no way that you can separate your truth, the German's truth, and the truth of the American military, especially in the 1970's and 1980's.
@@RWebster325 bro you are white not saying white people don't get racism but come on I came to Germany 1976 and I never experienced any kind of racism in that period. I'm still living here and had like maybe 1 or 2 encounters of racism so please don't assume she is lying or not telling the truth thx.
I really appreciate these everyday insights. These little stories from everyday life in the US are eye-opening. And I can't imagine that the Florida gas station incident would be possible anywhere here in Germany. I sincerely hope so. Thank you.
Hey Trae, I am just happy that you and your family feel safe and comfortable here!! I hope when the day comes and you make your first negative experience in that context, I hope it won't be too bad and that you will have built a support network that you can fall back on. I really hope y'all really find yourselves at Home a here.
I think one important thing to note: Even in the most "racist" areas of Germany, you don't need to have your "guard up" if you are black. It rarely if ever happens hat violence is happening like in the U.S. This is not the south of the US where people are hunted by some crazy loonies with guns... at worst you get looks and maybe someone saying something rude.. no one is pulling a gun on you and hunting out of town.
I am an Austrian living in California and sadly the same goes for whites in America. I have never been treated as poorly as in black neighborhoods and I truly felt unsafe ( bc of a higher risk of gun violence and burglary). In Austria, when I am in a foreigner district I get treated just fine and feel pretty safe.
when people talk about racism in Europe-it's usually not classical racism about pigmentation in the skin-it's usually about culture/religion , in other words it's about Muslims -due to some problems with certain migrants (absolutely far from all Muslims create any problems ) religion is not a color it does however impact the culture -in some parts of eastern Europe and Greece there have been historical fights against conquering Muslims-and they hear about problems in western Europe, that is why they don't want migrants from the Middle east and north Africa , they don't mind black migrants from the US, France, Brazil, Kenya ect.
Please still be careful. Violent hate crimes might not happen as often, but they do happen. Black people or even white people with black hair and a tan being beaten to death or almost to death and left paraplegic.
As a German iam never worried about leaving my house and what could happen to me. Super eye opening for me that this is not „normal“. I mean I know we have some areas that you should not visit at certain times etc. but in general I don’t have second thoughts visiting new places. Alone the fact that gun ownership is really restrictive in Germany helps with that a lot. I wouldn’t feel good thinking about my neighbors wielding guns in their garden. Another fact I was thinking about is that you get respect when you give respect. Be nice and helpful and people will thank you and give back. Germans value the „doing your part“-mentality a lot. Its not only the pay your taxes and speak the language thing…more like: be the guy helping in kindergarten grilling some food because they have a party, help your neighbor building something on his property without asking for something in return, get together and share your interests and hobbies, bring something new to the table. This sort of things.
I was stationed in Ansbach, Germany 2018-2020 and I loved it so much that it’s been my mission to move back ever since 🙏🏾 after my contract ends next year I’ll definitely be booking my one way ticket 😄 🇩🇪
I'm a black German from Hamburg, grew up here and love this place. I can only tell my experience from living in a big city like Bremen or Hamburg in the left leaning north. We are also a country with many immigrants from many different country's with many different cultures. As a black guy, it's pretty chill. Almost all people are open to me and see me as just a German guy. I only had a few racist interactions in east Germany where some guy was talking a bit of shit but nothing to outrageous and asshole are everywhere. In my childhood in every school there are some black guys, some Turks, some Asians like people from everywhere, so we are used to see different people as early as childhood. They have some cultural differences but they are almost all respected and accepted. We have our problems but when you compare it with the US and shit I heard it's not comparable to German.
hey You are right that there is a general trend, that the further south you go in Germany the more conservative and catholic the country becomes. But you brought up the two major cities of Hamburg and Bremen and those two cities happen to be historically very open and liberal because have been port cities for a very long time. So I do believe that you lived in Bremen and Hamburg is a much bigger factor than the general trend of the "liberal north". I grew up in a rural Area in the very north and as a kid I didn't know that black people existed outside of TV lmao as stupid as this might sound. People there are not racist in the sense that they actually support racism as an ideology but they are kinda close minded and like: "We don't like strangers here and we don't want any outsiders". It took me until my later highschool years to actually meet a black kid and befriend him. But yeah...times have changed quite a bit even up there. The internet happened. The older people died. The younger people are more open.
@@tonischumacher2 I wouldn't say that the South gets more conservative (used to live close to Stuttgart before migrating to Japan), but I would say that in Stuttgart especially people walk with "n Stock im Arsch" lmfao.
@@dydx_ obviously this is only a general trend and there is also other factors that play a role. Like for example people in urban areas tend to be more liberal than in the country. But this is not a rule. Just a statistical correlation.
Hi. New sub, here. I, a single Black woman, yt searched the idea of living in Germany and your content popped up. This was a really informative video. Thank you. I’m interested in moving abroad but haven’t decided on where. I’m looking for a higher quality of life than I have in California. I work remotely in IT project management and would hope to continue to work in this field. I haven’t gone through your backlog of videos yet but I’m hoping to learn more about the move process and getting a job. I’ll be on the look out for more from you and others.
only watched the first third right now and I am really happy to hear that you've had a good experience in germany since I (as a german) in my milieu had the impression that we still struggle with racism in some places. happy to hear this
Thanks a lot for sharing your experience. There is still a lot of room for improvement in Germany, but it is good to know, that you and other people from different countries feel welcome and good living in Germany. 🙂 Take care - Thomas
Congrats. It's breathtaking to see an Afro Latino doing well and living happy in Germany. I'm a Nuyorican from Manhattan. I'm a middle age mother of 4. Two are still at home. We are living in hell right now. I pray every minute of the day from my children to just make it to and from school safe. My daughter started showing an interest in learning German and had been doing research on the universities in Germany. My main concern was "our kind are not welcomed in Germany". And then we come across your video. But what about the cost of living over there? And how does someone start the process of moving out there?
Sadly im a clueless student from germany, but i still like your comment in hope that it gets some attention. Hopefully someone that can help you properly sees it. The cost of living shouldnt be much different from the US, although it increased a little due to the Ukraine conflict. Surely there are some institutions that support cases like yours moneywise. In general University in germany is almost free, you only pay for a regionwide bus and train ticket, for me its around 300 Euros every 6 month and i pay a little over 100 euros for food every month. And one thing is for sure, your concern is not needed at all, she wont be treated a single bit different from others, based on skin colour, ethnicity or else. Easiest way to start with, just choose a university you like and contact them, you will surely get an answer on what to do, or where to start :) If you or she has any other questions, feel free to ask, ill try to answer as much as i can (sorry for some bad wording)
WEEEPAAA!!! I’m here to help in anyway I can. The most difficult part about moving to Germany is the “getting here” part. Cost of living is like in the US…it’s all dependent upon where you live. We live in one of the more expensive cities in Germany (Stuttgart), but the benefits of being here or the other expensive city (Munich), are access to numerous companies. You will find several American based companies here. Do you mind if I ask you what you do career wise?
@@pennyprepperhello, is Health Clinic record keeper/ Receptionist, something like working on an Informationdesk, in an Hospital. Can you describe your Job, please?
@@pennyprepper Checkout USAJobs.gov! There are TONS of opportunities here! That will at least get you over here. Then once you’re here…you can get an idea of where you’d like to live.
I just watched your video. I am considering a move to Germany and found this helpful. I’m very disappointed in the US and the direction it seems to be going. You really sold me on Germany and I’m glad you’re finally in a place that treats you the way you should be treated
Appreciate you speaking about this. My family is relocating to Germany. I came to visit in May and felt so at ease. Would love to connect with you and your family for our next visit!
@@TreyDaze narrowing it down to Mainz and Stuttgart. We have friends from the states in both. Stuttgart only because of my partners line of work but Mainz is a whole vibe. The city is so friendly.
I actually love the color of the wall behind you. :-) As a white German I don't feel comfortable adding much else to the conversation, but I wanted to leave you a comment for the algorithm.
Hi! As a German, I am glad to hear you like the country and have had good experiences. Moving to a different place is always a step out of one’s comfort zone and speaking in a language other than your first language can put you under stress when it doesn’t work instantly. Having English as a back up is probably quite helpful! I grew up in West Germany not far from Stuttgart and we were quite used to seeing black American soldiers in many places. But that also holds for those areas in eastern Bavaria near the Czech border (when you approach the Czech Republic from the direction of Stuttgart) they have been part of the areas where American troops have been stationed after WWII and they have had a lot of US military presence and training grounds (like the Grafenwoehr Training Area). Eastern Bavaria is not what people usually refer to as East Germany, what they mean is the former communist East. I won’t judge the current situation in East Germany, because I don’t live there and don’t have up to date first hand information.. In those areas older people had to learn Russian and may struggle with English. The population is less diverse, unemployment is higher. And that’s also where quite a few racist attacks on asylum seekers’ homes occurred in the decades following reunification. So please take care of yourself and keep making up your own mind about the situation in various parts of Germany! I’m looking forward to more of your content!
Keep the awesome commentary and spreading of information going in the comments section guys! I really appreciate it and I know others appreciate it as well! 👍🏽
Let me ask you a question... How would it make you feel if we started sending masses of white people into Africa and all black countries and started overtaking and erasing away the native black culture and population? If the thought of it makes you uncomfortable, then you should know that that's exactly how white people feel when black immigrants are coming over to europe. Just because you didn't experience any overt racism towards you it doesn't mean people welcome you here. After all what people hate is mass immigration, and not the individual immigrants.
@@clownmazard8852 What has TreyDaze to do with Africa? However, just to inform you Hinterwaeldler: Europeans once sent masses of white people to Africa, overtook everything and erased native cultures - it's called colonialization, - and in particularly the Germans one towards the Nama and Herrero: Genozid! Did any "Non-white"-people EVER do Genozids in Germany? No wait, who did Genozids in Germanys? How could you sh*t out your stupidness so loudly in a commentary section, I don't get it.
Germany’s past is not the Germany of today, Brilliant country brilliant people with a brilliant future. Not so sure about uk embarrassed to be British at the moment.
You really are to be congratulated for the wonderful, full-on way you tackle this subject of racism and how you rightly encourage people to take charge of their lives to improve their situations where they can, if they want. Listening to you, even tho I’m white and a retired person and living in Australia and a native German speaker, is just a pleasure. The only time I’ve really experienced racism of a kind is on the Swiss rail system when I spoke high German and was rudely abused during ticket check in the 1970s/1980s as a Nazi. It was a problem for me because my family had been refugees fleeing the Nazis, so being called one didn’t sit well.
gotta say i love your bachground wall! and your videos of cause! glad you like it here in germany, we're honored to have people like you contributing to this country :D love from a fellow musical lover!
Hey JJ! Thanks for your kind words! My Wife and I are trying to see Hamilton performed in German sometime this year or next year! Much love to you and take care!
Bruh. I damn near felt like you were talking directly to me! I'm also from South Florida with a wife and young son. I found your videos because I know that I want out.... But I haven't settled on where. Lol Germany, Australia, and moving back to Jamaica are the top contenders at the moment. Excellent video. I'm subscribed and looking forward to your future uploads.
I am so happy to hear you have a wonderful experience living in Germany! I lived in Germany for two years in the 80’s (Spangdahlem) as a USAF airman. But I always made it a point to move off base, travel across BRD, and found that the Germans are the most friendly people in Europe. I’ve been back several times and the Eiffel region is like coming back to my zwitte Heimat (2nd home). I continue to practice my German, lisoto SWR 3 radio, watch Taggesshau and even practice Easy German on UA-cam. Just curious, what do you and your wife do for a living over these. Grüß a fellow Latino!
I still feel so bad for not having had the guts to shout out on you in Munich's Central Station that specific Saturday morning a couple of weeks ago! You're so respectful and appreciative, I'm happy having you here - I'd have liked to tell you this in person, but I failed in doing so..... SORRY! The next beer and Kinder Schokolade bar will be on me, promised!!!
Trey, Great video. I’ve lived in many places in the US and I’ve experienced racism (I’m black, can’t be mistaken for anything else) ALL over the US. I retired from the military and moved to Germany late 2019. Never really did any tours in Europe so thought Germany was a central enough jump off point. I live in a former part of East Germany and this is the SAFEST I’ve ever felt in my life. I don’t feel apprehensive at all walking around the city. Sometimes, I think what little German language skills I have will get me in trouble, but the folks here appreciate that I’m trying and correct me as politely as ever. That’s what I worry about!!! I haven’t been able to make it back to the US since I moved here but I have one planned to tie up a few loose ends. I’m not renting a car. It’s going to be challenging but that’s an easy price to eliminate the chance of being stopped for “driving while black.” In the past, my military ID was enough to just get a ticket/warning. However, after what happened in VA, to a service member in uniform, in December 2020, I’m not taken any chances. Beyond that trip and the occasional birth of a new family member, I have no desire to be back in the US. I was once told to love it or leave it, and so I gladly chose the latter. Anyway, rant over. Hope this post found you well! 🤓 Looking forward to more content.
I could easily look you in the face and say that its getting better in America. I have an excellent poker face :). This is another win for the UA-cam algorithim. Don't know why your channel was recommended to me, but just watched two videos and found them both very informative and interesting. Good for you, man. Happiness is wherever you find it.
It is a huge misunderstanding: There is a different meaning of racism in Europe as in USA: In the US racism is about the color of SKIN. In Europe nobody don’t care about skin - there is a lot of racism here, but it is about CULTURE and this is a much different thing. If you are from the US you have the same culture and meaning of life - therefore you may have no problems. Love from Austria 🇦🇹🥰
True spoken. If immigrants integrate to the culture of the country they live in they will have it much easier. Thay can have their communities, but they should not live it and live in it. That is a phenomenon that is consistant everywhere in the world. ... even for white expats in asia or africa. If you only live in your own bubble, you don't have to wonder if they treat you differently
@Sabine I don't think I get your point. So they get german education and learn professions in germany, succeed and then decide to move to the UK to find work over there? Where is the point of rasism in that? I am not sure if I do get your statement correctly. Besides... in nursing people from foreign country is often be preffered in germany. Reason for that is that culturaly several nationality do grow up more caretaking towards especially older people as germans do. Germany do have several recruitment programms in several countries for several different fields of professions becsuse they can't find germans willing or able to do the work. P.s. before this last statement starts a discussion, I just want to say, although I am of german nationality and born and raised in germany, my antsisters came from southeast asia on both sides.
@Sabine dann lass uns auf deutsch schreiben, denn ich glaube wir reden aneinander vorbei. Nur so nebenbei, ich bin Mitte vierzig. Und ja, wie ich schon schrieb "geboren und aufgewachsen"... das bringt mit sich, dass ich auch hier zur Schule gegangen bin. Und jetzt nochmal auf Deutsch... was ist mit den Leuten aus Ghana? Ließ dir bitte mal deinen eigenen Kommentar durch. Ich bin mir ziemlich sicher, dass du dich verhaspelt hast.
@Sabine p.s. Es spricht nicht gerade für Großbritannien eine Person als Anwalt einzustellen, der in Deutschland nur als Kloputzer qualifiziert ist. Ich sag nur
One thing that I always find interesting is that the US is the only country that I could name that puts such a big emphasis on "ethnicity" in the sense that it is considered a big part of your identity, part of the census, etc. Contrast Germany, where ethnicity is not even part of our government documents (well, for obvious 1933-1945 related reasons). It's also interesting that in the US, this created (and still creates) a very much "us vs them" culture, which you have also referenced to - "Trey, there's no black people there, you'll have issues"...as if only being among "your people/skin color" means you can be left alone or respected in a community. Germany has problems with racism and hate crime, not going to deny it - but for us it is more based on behavioral patterns and religion, not skin color. Circling back to that, we have a problem with religious fundamentalism, in our case mostly Islam (whereas the US can be considered having a pretty big Christian fundamentalism problem in certain regions) - but that doesn't mean that we don't respect other people's religion or that you can't be free in your beliefs. The German expectation (mostly, and this goes for immigrants and locals likewise) is that we don't care how you look, speak or worship as long as you commit to adhere to our local rules, regulations, and cultural norms as much as possible. Concerning Islam, this means that nobody is going to bat an eye for you being a Muslim or following your religious traditions, as long as one simple, basic, and universal rule is respected: German law trumps religious law. If it's in the religion (Shariah Law for example), but not permitted in Germany, you won't make friends if you try to circumvent Germany's rules and acceptable behavior (regarding Women's rights for example). As long as whatever you do can fit within the framework of our society, we really couldn't care less... I personally work for the German Head Office of a US-led corporation that is basically everywhere on the planet, and this leads to a lot of "internal" migration being organized by the business. We have Black people, we have Indians, we have Pakistani, we have Russians or other Slavic people, we have Turks, we have Scandinavian People, Italians, Asians, the whole shebang - and all of those people that I have met have felt welcomed and integrated extremely well - the biggest hurdle was not racism, or culture shock, or religion, it was always the language. And that's how it should be in my opinion.
@kuldan5853 not sure what you mean by Christian fundamentalism problem in the US. The Salem witch trials were centuries ago and alcohol prohibition was overturned. The Amish and Mennonite communities live amongst themselves and do not go out to convert people. If you are talking about pushing back against crazy progressivism such as teaching people to be professional victims and not knowing what a woman is- then I’d say the country is in need of a change away from such ideology. If you want to blame the abortion debate on Christian’s then you are missing the point. You don’t have to be a Christian to disagree with abortion debate (too long of a debate to get into). I honestly don’t get your point?
@@nicoles9077 I was mainly aiming at the bible belt, Christian influence on politics in some states(for example this, while officially abolished, still happens in places: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religious_qualifications_for_public_office_in_the_United_States) Then the obvious that you have to pledge allegiance to "one Nation under God", which in itself is an infringement on religious freedom. Also the whole "teaching creationism in school and banning teaching about the evolutionary theory" that some areas do... I actually did not mean it as a comment on current political events (that's a whole different shitshow).
Oh, and not forgetting all the hate spewn by fundamental Christians against "non-believers" in public, be it in shops, supermarkets, or anywhere else where they encounter stuff that clashes with their own religious beliefs.. It might only be mean comments most of the time, but it is still a problem.
@@kuldan5853 dude I’m a 50 year old black woman who actually grew up in one of those Bible Belt states and I can say you sound like a typical left leaning Person who has a problem with some American traditions. You seem to forget that the US was mostly founded by religious individuals who were fleeing religious persecution in Europe. Christianity and Christian values are a part of American life. Most Americans don’t have a problem saying we are one nation under God because God was a part of our history for so long and we thank God for America. Problem is is that we have Americans (and plenty of foreigners)who hate this country for things that happened centuries ago and never give the country credit for changing. The US fought a civil war getting rid of slavery yet we have professional victims acting like we live in 1950”s America? Yes we have problems and we are not perfect, but as a 50 year old black woman not one time did a racist white person stop me from going to the library or studying. Asian Americans are the most successful ethnic group in America- that’s why people continue to come to this country. I’d say the biggest problem America has is fatherless homes and cultural rot because people have moved away from Christianity and/or spiritual grounding. When you have no spiritual grounding people fall for anything- victimhood mentally, government as a parent, not knowing the definition of a woman, just to name a few.
Great video Trey. We moved to Germany from USA for some of the same reasons - and we are white. Glad to see coming here has added benefits for black folks. We live in a small Bavarian town and there are indeed only a couple black/brown families in the whole town. I would like to think they feel welcomed too and I will do my part!
Just one comment about Moosbach. It's not in East Germany. It's in Bavaria which is southern Germany. Yes, Moosbach is on the border to Czechia, but that's not the area people meant. When people talk about East Germany they mean the former GDR with the states of Thüringen, Sachsen-Anhalt, Sachsen, Brandenburg, Mecklenburg-Vorpommern. The states of Saxony and Thuringia share a border with Czechia, and those are states where there have been a number of racist incidents in recent years. However, even there, the racists are a minority. Southern Germany is where the US military have had a presence for over 70 years now, so the locals are used to seeing people of colour. The extreme southwest of Germany had French military for a while as well and those troops also included people of African or Asian descent. In all the big cities in what was formerly West Germany people are fairly used to seeing foreigners from all over the world.
This video does in fact inspire me. Because you are so well spoken and eloquent, and because you got right to the point, making an array of very good points. I write this just after hearing you say that it is nice that people speak to you in German first. You've confirmed a notion I have had for quite some time. Assuming that you are like me is welcoming in a way. A sign that colour is of no importance (except Danish folks lie on the beach for hours bored out of their minds just to get a decent tan...) I live in Denmark. I play music together with a black German American, who happens to be a Danish adoptee. He has experienced racism in Denmark. This was a surprise to me, because I couldn't immagine that racism was alive and killing in my country. As a little boy, I saw Cassius Clay, later Mohammad Ali, on the tv. I just wanted to be that beautiful. I think envy over how good coloured people look is one of the reasons for racism, the most important reason of course being slavery needing an excuse. In a way, racism proves that they knew they were doing something unforgivable.
I really appreciate you advertising Americans of any color coming over, settling down, make a good living and be a part of german society. We are already the place to be while the reality of living in the US closes in to “the purge” movie by the day.
@@TreyDaze great to have you, and like minded folks. The “new world” stopped being “new” - ugly Germany turns out to be the cosmopolitan center we all wanted it to be.
Hi, I think this is one of the best videos I’ve seen, all the best to you and your family. I’m a 70 year old fellow from Liverpool, I really admire your approach to your new life YNWA
Since this was a long video I will have a long comment;-) I am white, very white, born in Berlin, grew up in the Black Forest and worked in Munich. The village I grew up in had not one person of color till I was 14 years old and a native German married an Asian woman. Of course we all looked like "woow, look at her", just because her color was different. However, never once anybody in the village would treat her different then you would want to be treated and the skin color was just...color, nothing more and nothing less. The reason I think that Germans in general, not all, are not racist is because of WW2 as it is taught in school up and down NOT TO BE LIKE THAT. Don't ever make the same mistake again, humans are equal, period! Now, I do live in the US and I am married to a black woman and my whole family is black. I love them with all my heart and I never once thought of anything in regards to skin color as it is the heart and brain that make a person. I see often how my family has to deal with racism at work or in their daily live and I still don't understand it how a country that has 13% of black people does not understand that skin color is just a color. However, I would say I know why and it starts with education. Watch some videos from Hayley Alexis, a black woman living in Germany, and she mentioned in a video a couple of weeks ago when she went to Auschwitz to see German history from WW2. She was amazed that Germany is fostering their horrible past and educates kids about it so we learn from it. She then compared this to the US whereas there is nearly nothing done to make sure everybody understands that slavery was wrong and evil and that we have to make sure we never do that again. She mentioned that there are no farms as museums in the US to show how bad this time period was and educate everybody about it. In order to change the US it needs to change with the education so that this false narrative that people of color are of lesser quality gets flushed out over time. However, the way things go, it looks like it takes the opposite direction, thus making it worse for the future. I am very happy for you that you found Germany to be your new home. Think of your child and how much better his education and live will be growing up in a free society where he can thrive. Watch some videos from My Merry Messy Life, an American family with 4 kids. Best, Martin
Martin…as always…I value and appreciate your comments and sharing of your personal experiences. I always feel like I owe you some form of tuition after reading your comments because they’re so valuable and educational. Thanks a lot brother!
I don't understand where Haley gets that from. I went through school learning about slavery in the US during elementary, middle and high school. We went to a play about Harriot Tubman and I was from a small town in Kentucky. So even if she were to say rural schools don't teach it, I highly doubt that's true. Looking back, we were beat over the head on the subject.
What really got me (not finished the video yet) is that you got nervous for your families` safety just staying in a town you don`t know. This really drives home what racism is about. Noone should ever worry about their safety because of their skin colour or nationality.
Interesting. You are right, but women all over the world have to fear for their safety wherever they go every day of their lives. It is funny, that racism is judged everywhere, while the omnipresent sexism is not woth mentioning. Sorry, did not mean this as attack, but I had to smile at your statement.
@@endlessstudent3512 Isn't it natural for anyone to feel a bit nervous about a new place? If you don't know the area you have to be more aware. It doesn't matter what your race or sex is.
@@ruthsaunders9507 Generally, not really. But maybe it's because I'm used to traveling foreign countries since early childhood, so maybe I'm just used to getting thrown into areas that are completely different to my home country. I'm generally calm and have never been afraid from the get go anywhere around the world (even in supposedly bad neighbourhoods). I tend to judge situations independently from each other. No reason to be afraid at all, until you notice that people start looking kinda off or something weird going on, which you can normaly already notice from afar (ex. how they look at you, facial expressions etc.). In that case, you can just avoid that situation altogether. Being aware of a truck speeding with no sign of braking and potentially driving you over and being afraid of getting driven over while there are no cars anywhere close, are very different situations. :P
I'm glad that you feel welcomed here. I grew up in a small village with people who, at least back then, were racist. Being a blonde, blue-eyed girl, I didn't realise it at that time. But thinking back, there were clearly moments, we treated black people in a way that is not okay. I feel like people become more open-minded, the more contact they have with different people. I was shocked when my parents called me, I told them about my American fellow student and she started to cry. I was really worried about her (so were my parents) because I thought I offended her or said something bad. She told me that she was used to being called African-American (and didn't mind it) and was feeling overwhelmed by just being called "American". I don't feel like I can understand that but I was happy I didn't say anything bad. The second time I got goosebumps was when a black guy told me he likes Germany, because here he doesn't have to be afraid of the police.
I’ve lived here for 32 years now, came here as a soldier and stayed. I’m from Charleston where I had to deal with racism multiple times a day. I’ve had 2 racist incidents in my 32 years here. Seriously. I’ve been all over this country and have been accepted everywhere I’ve went. I also have been part of the medieval scene here for the last 5 years, as a melinated Viking no doubt, and still am accepted everywhere I go. I love being here. Taught myself to read, speak and write in German. As long as you try to integrate the people here have no issue with you. I love being here and will never go back across the water to live in that uncomfortable situation. I live in Rheinland-Pfalz. Mainz to be exact. Living here is the first time I actually experienced what freedom is. I’ll never give that up.
Douglas!!! Nice to meet you brother! Man…you just put a BIG smile on my face! I’m glad to hear that you are enjoying Germany and living it up! I might need to connect with you about becoming a Medieval Viking! That’s something that is definitely up my alley! Take care and stay in touch!
Viking !! XD sorry I had to interject and ask, are you more in the reenactment side of it or larping (or both?) If it's larping, might see you around! Glad you love being here!
@@MydieLy reenactment. Only larpers I’ve seen around our way is for LOTR and an occasional stormtrooper.
We try to be as authentic as we can. Even fight with real swords. Not sharp, but definitely real.
@@douglassherrod1248 i love that! I am a big fan of Mittelaltermärkte und das Mps (Mittelalter Phantasie Spectaculum). Ich liebe Subway to Sally und Schandmaul😋💕
@@nadine8742 Subway to Sally war gerade in Mai beim Worms Mittelaltermarkt. Wir haben da gelagert. War super da!!! Wars du auch dabei?
Ich lebe für mittelalter. Wir leben für Mittelalter!!! Ganz nette Leute und immer Spaß da zuhaben………Kirschbier beim Rostigenritter ist immer TOP!!!-
As a native white german I never experienced racism myself. But this video inspired me to share a story from a few years ago.
My grandpa is living in this small german town. He was pretty bitter back than because his neighbor who was a very close friend and his wife died within a few months. All his children and grandchildren were living at least 200km away. In my case more than 400km. He was sad and lonley and I was very worried about it. Tried to get him to move closer to us but he was totally stubborn about it.
Than a black family bougth the house next to him. The one where his friend lived. I can tell you he wasn't happy! They had three pretty small children, youngest one a baby. They didn't looked like you. They were from Tansania and as dark coloured as it gets. The men was fluent in german, the two older kids, too. My grandpa made a few pretty racistic comment about it.
We fougth over it more than one time. During these figths I realized this men got to over 70 years without ever talking to one black person in his live. So I bascily told him to treat them with respect and expect them to do a few thing different since they are from an other country and just get to know them.
About half a year later I visit again and make a very suprised face when I found my granddad in his garden playing with the two black kids. After they left I just asks him about it and he is just acting like it is the most normal thing ever.
A few months later I visit again. This time all three kids are there in the house. It is raining. Even the youngest one who can walk by now is there, too. It is totally clear from the way they behave that they are totally comfortable and know the house in and out. When they leave they say: "Tschüß, Opa." Which translates to: "Bye, grandpa."
By than I was grinning like an idiot and just ask my grandfather: "Did they just call you Grandpa?" He is like "What's so funny. Their grandparents are half around the world, kids need a grandpa." And I was just like: "Yeah. Of course. These poor kids." He wasn't lonley any more.
Racism has a lot to do with biases. And the best way to figth biases is to replace them with experience. And if you don't, not only do you mistreat others, you may very well rob yourself of happiness.
Reading your comment made me cry. I’m so happy your Grandfather got to experience that!
cute story
@@Allieislinda I was very happy about it, too. Sadly he died a few weeks ago. He didn't spend his last years in loneliness because of it. There were 7 grandchildren at his burial even if his children just had four kids.
Thank you so much for the contribution. This is beautiful.
Such an amazing story... 😊😢😊
Thank you for sharing.
I'm German and clicked on this video prepared to face the facts because I wanted to see what we could do better - I was not expecting that many positive experiences, I'm really glad you feel welcome here :D
Same!
me too. i am so glad to hear he likes living here and feel save!
Lol... the same here, I thought now we get how horrible we are. I guess Germans tend to think not very good of themselves.
True!
If you want to ask on things that can be better, I have to admit, I understand German, live in Stuttgart as well, and always get the feeling that people expect me to just not be socially acceptable. That people associate me with the turkish-germans. I have been stopped before I go to certain bars by the bouncers who want to double-check to make sure I know that it's a particular venue. My black friends were even stopped last night after a group of us wanted to go to a gay event and they were asked if they knew it was a gay event without the bouncer even knowing who they were. I don't give a rats ass if people have had bad run-ins with certain people in the past. That does not mean everyone is the same. I find it particularly disheartening and extremely irritating, because I can't go out to a party or music event without at least one nutsack asking if I have drugs to sell. I had a better than average upbringing, and even still have a lot going for me, and yet it absolutely fills me with disgust to see this particular behavior.
Back a few months ago, down by Tuttlingen, Germany, the police would board the trains, walk through and ONLY stop the people who didn't look German and ask for their passports. Everyone else who looked German "bio-deutsch" would just be ignored. I can't even walk across the border between Switzerland into Konstanz without being stopped by police. I and my boyfriend who is from Lithuania have not ever been able to board a flight here without him being tested for drugs, and literally the last time we tried to reenter Germany after a vacation in Greece, at the gate, we were stopped by police who had a hard time looking at my American passport. After a while, he finally gave it back after having been on the phone, while everyone behind us, a flow of "bio-deutscher" kept walking by without being checked and mentioned "you have a german last name." Yeah you f uneducated wheezebag. It's 2022. Do you not know any history of the US and it's immigrant past? I can not explain how irritating it is to have grown up going to a school district known for its academics, then moving, having the chance to go to private school, living with private piano lessons, voice lessons, if I wanted, learning tennis, golfing, volunteering, to come here, a place screaming tolerance, and then being treated as if I'm some criminal. Literally, this one lady began speaking in Schwäbisch before I had a better grip of understanding when I sat down on the opposite side of the aisle after having looked at me. About 3 weeks ago, this other lady grabbed her purse and held it closer to herself when I walked in and sat down in the train. Yesterday, I had drank too much because I went out with friends, and had to let loose. This guy literally began barking at me and began throwing sanitizer at me. Literally spraying me with it.
If you want to learn of things to do better, treat each other with respect DESPITE what dialect they speak, where you THINK they come from, stop asking brown people for drugs at events. We brown people can want to just go and have fun. We're not all the same. Schools ought to do something about the way they only focus on negative things that kids during parent teacher conferences do because it causes morality to drop which honestly could be why Germans are so self-conscious. Learn to have manners again. To greet each other like normal again and not just when people go to stores. I've seen again and again how it used to be the standard here and not just walking around like someone has a stick up their ass, because for many, that is a sign of stuck-upedness like you're better than the next. Just because someone has had a bad experience with one or two small incidents, doesn't mean everyone is like that. And yes. People can make a change. There can be movements that happen. It happens all the time. Before 15-20 years, people from Central America were mostly seen as just lawnmowers, but now, most people are aware in the US that the civilization from about 500 years ago actually was about the same level as the Romans. People learn more about actual cultural origins, because people make it more accessible, and people talk more about it and are given better opportunity to talk about differences and similarities. At least 2 or so years ago, in high schools, it was cool if you could date someone who wasn't "white," or "white-passing" but Latino or black. Here, it feels like people shudder at the thought. The comment I made about schooling needing to also change wasn't just from me, rather it was from a social worker who works with young turkish germans who do struggle because they come here, and the negatives are focused on instead of positive reinforcement. They lose self respect, which is something that mostly fosters that irritation that so many are familiar with. People just want to be treated like normal humans. They're just so un-used to it that they get confused when it actually happens.
Honestly, I did not expect to hear “They treat us as human beings”. That blows my mind. I cannot imagine that anyone would just say “we don’t serve you ice cream” in the US.
I’m glad that you feel safe in the EU, and I feel bad that you had to leave your home country to have that experience. Damn…
Honestly, even today they’re certain places in the South that you will still experience this.
@@rogerh5172 Happens in California too! "If you live anywhere south of the Canadian border, you're living in the South." --Al Hajj Malik El-Shabazz (Malcolm X)
It's like Jim Crow never ended. Jeez.
@@DirkLoechel, it never did. Jim Crow merely changed his clothes.
From the stories I'd expect some low key / closet racism in the US but full on 1930s? That's wild.
I’m an African American woman, and I visited Germany for the first time for a summer internship last year. For the two months that I was there, it was profoundly eye opening for me. Everyone was respectful and treated me very kindly. I felt like I didn’t need to fear about being treated differently because of my blackness. No one hovering over me in the stores acting like I might steal something. I just felt very accepted. And I did notice (like you mentioned in your video) that most people would talk to me in German first, which was pretty cool.
There was just so much less chaos in the air. I don’t know how to explain it. But there’s an energy in the air in the United States that feels like anything could pop off at any moment, for any reason. And when I lived in Germany for that short time, I didn’t feel that at all. It brought me so much peace to my core. I’m now back in the States, but I’ve been intermittently toying with the idea of moving out to Germany permanently with my fiancé.
Try being just African, without the American attached to it. Not talking about Germany though, just travelling anywhere in general, they might treat you differently based off your name or accent when they know what country you came from. Even other black people in America look down on Africans, idk if it’s media branding/ brainwashing or something else that I’m not aware of
as a black woman, living in Germany for 35 years,I have only encountered racism 2 or 3 times, am now a German citizen & LOVE living here...being a flight attendant of 25 years I have visited almost every country in the world & am always super happy to return to Germany..I visit all major US cities regularly / almost weekly & am very much surprised at how Americans dont realise that many aspects of life in USA are hopelessly outdated..e.g. shower heads, buildings, cars etc.. also the amount of homeless people in the streets IS STAGGERING!.. also such problems as mass incarceration, health care, police brutality are terrible & there is a strange tension in the air & many mentally ill people in the streets in USA..so Yes..I love being a black German & living in real freedom & not just the Hollywood professed freedom of USA..
Thanks for sharing.
What do you think about Nepal?
@@DialloMoore503 oh unfortunately Nepal & Australia are some of the few places I havent been yet, but I Imagine it's a lot like India, but not so overcrowded..India is lovely & very hospitable & has the best food in the world, so if Nepal is similar should be worth a visit, less people more open space & mountains👍🏾😊 enjoy your trip
@@gigiarmany4332
Thanks!
2 or 3 times is too much! And the "only" before that make me feel really sad. Hopefully in the future black people can say they never encountered racism.
Nice share ....hope you'll having a great life in the future and grow old here in Germany...Best wishes
As a white german: Thank you for this video! When I hear stories like yours, I feel the values we try to build our society around are being recognized. It actually motivates me to step up and take on whatever racism is left in our society (and there sure is more than enough to do something about it).
"white german"
As far as i know thats the only type of german.
@@TheBlackfall234 Almost ;) but about 25% of us have migration background. I live in berlin, seeing people of color is an everyday thing for me. Many of them have the german nationality, were born and raised here. I feel way closer to them, than for example some f***ing neonazi (which we unfortunatly and shamefully still have). But thanks for asking :)
Seriously, as a black man living in Jamaica, I heard the same story. the German people are very open-minded.Acourse, we will always have bad apples among good apples.
@@TheBlackfall234 Nope a German is one who chooses to live here and repects the way of life that modern Germany has to offer, my Filipino son in law is more German then I ever will be. You are welcome here if you make the effort to blend in to our way of life, you are not welcome if you want to change that and bring us back to the middle ages, you know freedom of choice and the like, respect for the female body comes to mind and so on and so on, looking at you Wade..........
@@noneofyourbiss2142 dna disagrees with you.
I'm an old Black guy, all I can say to Black people is:
-watch more UA-cam videos
-PLEASE travel someplace outside the US, at least once.
I’m the daughter of a black soldier and a white German woman and have spent a lot of my life in Germany. My wife and I recently moved back to Wiesbaden, Germany from North Carolina and I honestly didn’t realize how much of my anxiety in the US was from the racism I encountered. I love being here. This is where we plan to live for the foreseeable future. I will say that I have experienced racism in Germany but I haven’t experienced it in a very long time and i’ve never experienced homophobia here.
Emma!!! Nice to meet you! First and foremost…I’m really sorry to hear about the ignorance and bigotry you experienced in the States. It’s really a shame to see how much the US is regressing back to hate ignorance. Glad to see you guys living your best life in Germany! Ironically…my wife’s sister was born in Wiesbaden!
Another whiter country. Got it. Me too . As an Asian. Asian hate in the US are real! Especially from the some “you can’t say the name” people.
America has a transgender four-star general. Also won Woman of the Year. Homophobia?
It's really fascinating for me that you experience Germany like that.
I'm not a person of color, but I am lesbian and I have some scars all over my body, so I think I have some kind of understanding for any kind of discrimination. Since I experienced it a lot, I don't want anybody to feel that way and I think that it's ridiculous to define ourselves by our skin color.
But I gotta say, the discrimination I faced was in school and you know, there are always some mean guys and I hope this won't matter wherever I will go after school.
I moved to Charlotte 3 years ago from LA. Wow, the tension here is palpable compared to Cali. and we're not in the boonies either. Still can't get used to it. As an atheist, I'm forced to hang around the Jewish community because it is very inclusive of everyone. At least here in Charlotte. In LA it was the opposite. Not that I mind the Jewish community, I'm Jewish myself but being an atheist it's the constant reminder not to facepalm myself in public. Plus my wife doesn't allow me to talk religion or politics with anyone so it's constantly "yeah, the heat oh and the storm, yeah uh hah". I think it's time for us to leave the US. Glad you got out. Good luck to you.
I`m a native German and i have to say that i really enjoy watching your videos. You come across very charismatic, not beating around the bush. Germany has become a pretty openminded country. The majority of people is well aware of the bad things that happened in this country. Our legacy is to make sure that such horrible things never ever happen again. People like you, willing to contribute to the society are very welcome. Regardless of your nationality, skin color, religion or what ever. I hope to see more from you and your family in the future.
Nice to meet you Alex! And thank you for your kind words! Germany is an incredible country! I hope we stay here forever!
Honestly, racists in Germany make it to the news in Germany, because they are that rare. Dog bites man isn't news, man bites dog is!
And another thing that comes into my mind: "Germans stare at you" is a frequent remark from Americans on youtube, black AND white. This is a cultural difference, not a race issue. Germans seek eye contact.
Thanks for the Video,
@@ThomasKossatz Yes but also german racists and far right trolls are very active online and use social media extensively for self promotion and pushing their politics. That makes it seem as if there were more than there actually are. If you look at actual percentages they really are just a small (although sometimes very loud) minority.
@@EvilGNU Of course you are right! And they are happy for each well minded person that enters into an online fight with them, because that multiplies the attention they get,.
Yes that is the key...Germans like you if you come to work and not live off teh system and you learn the language
As a German I am really happy to hear that you and your family feel comfortable and welcome here in Germany! 😊
I’m a black girl from Portugal living in Baden-Württemberg/ Konstanz. I totally agree with you. When I moved to Germany a lot of my friends were worried, saying the Germans are very racist. I tell them all the time that I’m Portugal you might experience more rAcism then here. Even though a lot of black people live in Portugal.
Unfortunately racist exist everywhere, but I believe the Germans just try to learn from errors from the past instead of ignoring it.
Greetings from the Seerhein neighbor! :)
Hi, black german here, born & raised since 1970.
Can we all agree that skin colour should not matter?
I highly recommend that you keep and value your openmindednesd towards the native german population, join a sports club, a choir, a non-profit etc.
Obviously there are bad apples everywhere, but in my experience my fellow germans are very friendly and willing to learn and also help when help is needed.
Please don't accept the segregationist mindset of that chef. His statement is an action not a re-action (to racism).
I see this tendency of black folks (and pretty much all other immigrant groups) to stay "with their own" here in Germany (and then complain about not being included). That does not seem like an intelligent approach and makes me a little sad.
BTW - Just yesterday I was really floored to hear from an old (white german*) friend that he considers my father (emigrated from Angola in the sixties, 82 yrs old) as his own father. My father was a coach for the soccer youth in the 70s and 80s. My friend told us about worries about his son yesterday that he hasnt shared with anyone else in our close-knit northern german town. It was very touching.
Anyway, thank you for this very interesting Video and keep up the good work.
*It pains me to mention his skin color. It's so stupid.
As someone raised in Germany do you also stay away from using the term "race"? (Even as a white person that constatnly gives me the irks but explaining that to US citziens online is a different thing.)
@@annachristinanotyet4678The term Race/Rasse has been thoroughly discredited by the Nazis and is used almost exclusively by hardcore racists.
Since George Floyd you hear more and more the terms "white" and "black" on TV which I personally strongly dislike.
E.g. it is standard to say on the news: "In the United States another black man has been shot by a white police officer." I personally don't like that.
"An unarmed man was killed with 60 shots by police officers in the US" would be fine for me.
@@nonnoyobisnis8705 Well that could be after George Floyd but before and still after it is still a big comment to "I don't want to make it a "RACE THING" (but it is)"
It should not matter, but it still has the (true) stereotype of, you are not a native german. You are the exception, you suffer on this stereotype I guess.
This is the same as assuming 80year olds do not use instagrams.
A few do, and they feel misstreated by your guess.
This is just heuristic, assuming the most likely case is true. And it works in 98% of cases. This is definitly not racism, this is more commiting blunder.
@@holger_p Ich bin nicht jemand, der in Tränen ausbricht, wenn man ihn fragt, woher er kommt.
Ich frage ja selbst oft andere wo sie herkommen. Das ist menschlich, i.d.R. aufrichtiges Interesse.
Hängt natürlich immer vom Kontext ab.
Dass mich jemand mit dieser Frage ausgrenzen will, habe ich aber noch nicht erlebt bzw. registriert.
Ab und an werde ich insbesondere von älteren Menschen falsch einsortiert, aber dann korrigiere ich sie halt. No big deal.
I lived there 10 years, went as a soldier and married a local. I’m trying to move back now. I never felt scared, never felt threatened. But I also had to change the way I acted, I lived. I learned to be quieter, not so boisterous. Last trip back I had to explain to a few AA tourists that they needed to be quiet on the train that being loud is very rude. I now notice how loud Americans are.
My husband and I are thinking of moving to Germany at the end of the year. He’s latino (I’m black) and I’m super worried that he’s going to get called out in public. He’s just a very animated dude with a naturally loud voice, haha
@@Merrybandoruffians he will learn to be calmer. 😂 It’s justa changed culture , if you are open to growing and change it will happen. My parents are Dominican, it was hard changing that culture but I was young enough that I could. But coming back was hard. One memory was letting my 9 year old go to school alone. That would never happen here.
So another Thing to consider: yes i think WE are a calm Nation. But the Reaction If WE meet someone who is louder, is respectful (in many situstions). So i think you would Not have to leave the train because of a good loud Lough:)
And a little more fun WE could Develop, so come and teach us:)
@@Merrybandoruffians If you are very loud in trains, most people will look at you very annoyed, but this will probalbly be the total reaction
@@TierchenF95 that’s fine. I hope people do shame him into being quieter. I’m actually a pretty quiet person and his loud talking can be embarrassing sometimes 😂
Not gonna lie my wife and I have REALLY thinking about moving to a different country and watching this video has really inspired us to look at Germany now thank you so much for this video!!😄
Heyyyy!!! I wish you guys the best of luck in your decision! The US isn’t going anywhere…you can always return if you want! But most do not 👍🏽
Do it! Depending on your profession there might be a lot of jobs for you as well (Germany is currently suffering from a lack of professionals) :)
Weather is meh, but you get to a lot of hot country within 3 hours of flight =D
I understand this!! I've been living in Japan for 7 years now. As a youtuber, many viewers ask about racism in asia (as you also mentioned). In my experience, American racism is specific to the US. In all of the other countries I visited and lived in, I've never had people refusing to service me or call me names just because I'm Black. In Japan, I feel completely safe. Like you said about Germany, everyone leaves me alone and goes about their business. If you speak Japanese, you can interact with people and really understand people (something many expats here don't do unfortunately), but I've never felt more human than when I'm outside of the US. In the US, I've always felt Black amongst everyone, Black people and other ethnicities. Everyone talks about race in the US to constantly remind everyone of their "role". It's hidden in our culture, in our jokes, and why we refuse to go certain places or do certain things. Abroad, and here in Japan, I am human first, American second, and then a woman...and then if we continue the conversation and they ask me about life in America, I may mention..."Btw, I'm called a 'Black American' in the States."😂 Of course people see that I'm Black, but in my experience, me being Black is irrelevant.
When I visited Japan as a German I was kinda disappointed because I had it quite often that shops/ cafes bars deliberately were ignoring me because I was not native Japanese. Yes of course my japanese is far from perfect but definitely good enough to understand what I wanted
I don't know about Japan, but in most of Europe we find it weird that people are called Americans, or Black Americans, Asian Americans, etc.
To us you're all just Americans. And although enough people don't really like Americans, it's not limited to colour in any way.
@@lethfuil so true! 😉 Despite I like them if they are nice to me. When it comes to skin color it does not matter to me and I admit, I don't know if the person, who is near me is American or African, as long as he not talks to me and it doesn't matter anyway. If he asks a question or talks a language I can understand, I will help him/her.
@@SoneaT That's personal interaction and can vary, of course. :P
The refusing service actually only tends to happen in very small sections of the American south still and tends to be seen as extremely socially unacceptable by the majority.
If you live in America, people want you to think "I'm black."
If you live in Germany, people want you to think "I'm home."
Yes, Europe don't have that black/white distinction. Espesially when you're actually a mix of several different ethnisity. Also the race thing is just silly and yhis videa shows that with all the different background he's still considered black just because of his look.
White German here. I really love to hear that you feel safe and welcomed here. As others already mentioned, if one looks different, stands out of the crowd, one will get looks and maybe comments. Just because the obvious difference is noticed, not necessarily in a negative way though. The famous German stare is mainly curiousity. I understand that this could be misinterpreted though :)
But I have to say that the statement "a black person would not want to live amongst white people" leaves a bit of a bad taste. I would understand concerns regarding language, culture, job skills, climate, you name it. Many things could be a reason not to move elsewhere. But if the biggest concern is the colour of my neighbours skin, to be honest, I personally would consider this as racist. I mean, as an example, if I would think about moving to Asia or Africa, and I would check all or most of the boxes an the "pro" side, but a big "con" would be the colour of the skin of the natives, come on. To me it sounds like someone is looking for a comprehensable excuse without looking fainthearted. You know what I mean?
Regardless, I am happy to hear that you guys feel safe and welcomed here in Germany. And I hope Germany will never disappoint you and offer the future you hope for.
Sadly, the US is so inundated with discrimination and fear of what is different…that people remain close minded. And sadly that tends to follow Americans when they move abroad. The best education in my opinion is going to places that we are completely unfamiliar with and learning as much as possible about people, history, language, food, and culture.
@@TreyDaze I have felt that, watching shows and stuff that a lot of "minorites from the USA" watch it's literally everyone is triggered because everyone is triggered because they "have to have expect" the next verbal or physical or actual violent attack around the next corner. For a while I thought that was a bit overrun but then well TikTok compilations and US-Americans learning about their own country and mishaps made me think "It is actually amazing they didn't revibe the Punk "No Future" movemnet from the 1970s-80s by now." There someone say the "Internet can't teach you."
That's the thing. I think most of the people who felt not welcome or not immigrated or something this way. It's because they stay inside their own people. Idk we have many Turkish people here and these ones who don't want to learn German (they live for fuxking 20+ years here) and are mostly with other Turkish people together have the problems. It's not that we don't accept them. It's more that they won't accept that they live in Germany and not turkey anymore. Idk. The children often went the same way. Stay in school and free time only with other Turkish kids. Idk why it's a thing among them. Because the most other nationalities don't act like this. They integrate very well. Maybe it's just our are but idk.
And ofc it's not all Turkish people. But at leat here in west Germany many are like this.
@@soap3010 I think a) it's human nature and b) It's literally how the cities are created that a ton of refugess (also preferingly those cultures where everyone knows they just can't stand eachother) put in oen area and then we (white and other) people wonder why "hell breaks loose there" constantly and then you do not necessarily want to go down those allys especially not in the dark.
I mean I literally live INBETWEEN people of colour, Muslims, Sinti or Roma, maybe a few black people or those who would be labeld such and yet this century has it I do not even know my own neighbours in my own house that well...nor the onces from the other side of the street. T-T....I think there are multiple situations that are like a Cat or Dog chasing their own tail coming together...
i see what youre saying, but please keep in mind that the US folks grow up and live with this disruptive mindset. Cant blame them cause they need to if theyre of a darker tone and dont wanne be shot at traffic control. sure, thats not a mindset that should be supported in any way, but even if you move abroad you cant just switch it off. Also it was a key point to this (very important) video.
Thank you so much for posting this video. I’m a Black (Dad)/Puerto Rican (Mom) south Floridian too! I lived in Japan for a couple of years and since being back in Florida early 2020, well, I’m sure you can imagine how I feel… Anyone who says that life is getting better in the US is coming from a lot of privilege for sure. It’s not. It’s scary. As a woman, as a black/Latina person, as someone who is LGBTQ with “Don’t Say Gay” in Florida, it feels like it gets harder every day. It feels like every time I read or turn on the news, there’s another sad story. But that’s just it, to many privileged people here it’s sadly just another story that doesn’t have any impact on their daily lives, so life goes on. It’s such an isolating feeling. It’s sad to say I can imagine many Americans reading my comment might agree with that. I’m light-skinned too, so I’ve got my own privilege, but I appreciate that you mentioned that you and your wife really had a hard time just knowing it was happening around you every single day, even if something didn’t happen directly to you on a given day. I always thought coming back from Japan that I’d move to California too, but like you said, that’s still the US. I’m visiting Germany, specifically Düsseldorf and Berlin, for the first time this October to see what it’s like and this question has really been weighing heavy on me. Thank you for sharing your experience, this has really helped! I think my one hurdle is just.. getting over the idea that a decision to move doesn’t have to be permanent if I don’t want it to be, and to just take the leap! Thank you again. Looking forward to future videos!
Hey Lexy! Ayyyy we’re pretty much the same lol! Thank you for sharing your background and experiences with me! You’re 100% correct. It’s a truly dark time to be in the US and with midterms coming up…it’s only going to get worse unfortunately. The ongoing war on women continues and I don’t understand how more and more people aren’t just blatantly uprising at this point. I try to be as optimistic as I can, but even in a state like Florida where we come from…bigotry, corruption, hate are so deeply intertwined into our state’s identity…it’s just crazy hard to think of a point when all of that comes to an end. I mean the largest Confederate flag in the world flies on I-75 near Tampa and people are just so content with that. That sort of thing would never fly here in Germany. You’re going to love it here! We went to the Pride Festival here in Frankfurt and we’re headed to the Pride Festival here in Stuttgart tomorrow! I linked my info in the description! Stay and touch and hit me up whenever you want!
@@TreyDaze Haha, yessss!!! How about that.
Definitely a dark time, especially with the midterms looming in the near future. It’s like you said, an end to the way things are here is hard to even begin to imagine. People are so open with the hatred and the bigotry that now I’m more surprised when I have a good interaction with a stranger than when I see something bad. What a time. I know things aren’t perfect anywhere, but this is definitely not the place to be right now.
I didn’t realize there were so many Pride events, that’s amazing to hear! I’m going through and watching your previous videos and I’m so glad you and your family are settling in so well! I’ll definitely be in touch! Stay safe and keep on posting!
@@TreyDaze Ohh I was at the Pride festival in Frankfurt too! Did you see the parade (on Saturday) or did you go to the "after-party"/show on Sunday? I unfortunately could only go to the parade, but it was fun and felt really freeing. I'm not sure whether I'm LGBTQ (right now I don't think so), but going there just feels like you can finally take a breath from societal norms. At least it was like that for me.
Hello, I am a German woman from Cologne. There is also Christopher Street Day in Cologne, where people from all over the world come together and celebrate. Of course there is racism in Germany, but I don't think it's as bad as in the USA. Just the way people with dark skin color have to get through a police check scared me a lot. I wish you that the attitude of the "white people" changes and your coexistence becomes more peaceful.
I highly, highly recommend England, but Germany is a wonderful choice too. Honestly the biggest thing thats gonna shake you about these places coming from the US is just how superior the urban design is. Growing up in suburbia & never knowing what a walkable, livable city designed for human interactivity is like, is something many Americans I don't think understand is missing in their life.
But maybe germans don't want to be colonised by you guys? have you thought about that? Europe is sick of foreigners comming like it is a free for all... It is time to stop this madness and decolonise europe...
England⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️you must be joking😂😂😂😂
@@cassandra8620 Yea,
Netherlands are wonderful too, don’t have to learn another language in the Netherlands.
@@cassandra8620 - Yes. Why not? What do you have against England? Do you have actual experience of living in England, or is your prejudice just based on ignorant rumour?
@@wiseonwords I think they were referring to British politics which are a bit willy-nilly at the moment. And have been since 2016-ish.
Hi Trey,
I don't usually comment on UA-cam videos, but your video touched me. As a Black Brazilian living in Germany, I can relate to your experience. In the two years, I have lived here, I have had minimal uncomfortable experiences. One of them is the traditional “German stare,” but I learned how to live with it, especially since I am the single POC living in a Dorf in Bayern, whose population consists of 1500 people . I have also had a very racist comment by someone considered back then “a close friend,” but I guess it is mainly because I am Brazilian rather than for being Black. Otherwise, things have been perfect in Germany.
Before moving here two years ago, I lived in the US and Canada for several years, so I have experienced different forms of racism. The form that terrifies me the most is the one experienced in the US and Brazil, primarily due to the violence used against our people and, of course, the social, professional, and mental impact of such acts on one's life. I recently visited Brazil, where I was a victim of racism at a local shopping mall. When I shared my experience with my family - who still live there - they argued that I was not at a “Black Friendly” shopping mall and that I should not be there in the first place. It profoundly saddens how racism impacts the self-esteem of our Black People. There shouldn’t be a “Black Friendly” mall at all. We are all humans, independent of ethnicity or skin color. Unfortunately, such behavior is normal for them, as it is part of their day-to-day lives.
I wish all the best to you and your family.
Dani
Wow! I’m gonna be honest…I’ve never believed Brazil to be a place with race issues today. A lot of it has to do with growing up in South Florida which is Brazil 2.0 lol and race never being brought up between my Brazilian friends and I. But thank you for sharing your experience. I’m also glad that you’re time in Germany has been comfortable! This is a truly great place!
It is crazy to see that even though more than 50% of the Brazilian population are Black or mixed, racism is very present in everyone’s lives. I totally agree with you concerning Florida being Brazil 2.0 🤣 it was so surreal to go to the stores there and be greeted in Portuguese 😄. Wishing you lots of happiness, health and success in your journey. BR, Dani
Mhm what a sad story. I only want to assure you that basically every foreigner, even the palest of them, complains about "the German stare". Germans are totally unaware of this issue and rest assured that people don't stare at you because of your skin colour. We don't even realize that in other people's perception, we stare. We just look at things or people. In German culture, looking at someone is neither offensive nor impolite, and there is no culture of looking at the floor or avoiding eye contact. Germans find videos on Americans behaving weirdly in elevators hillarious as we just don't understand the problem.
I had been in the german armed forces and was in Georgia for some kind of exchange program. I was shocked to experience such open racism against black people. Our liaison seargent there told us about a story, where they had a barbecue somewhere and when they asked the black first seargent to sit at their table to have a chat, the US battallion commander openly said, he won't sit with him at the table together. Such behavior would never ever be tolerated by a german soldier, no matter the rank. To be said, the battallion commander had to find a new table to sit at ;-)
What a story! Georgia is definitely one of me places where if you look “different” or speak with an accent, you will be treated like an extraterrestrial. And yes sadly…as you’ve seen it exists in numerous American institutions.
I wish you were right, but we have our share of openly racist German soldiers. I just hope they are more often of the lower ranks, not our commanding officers. But we do have indeed incidents of anti-semitism, of xenophobia, of right wing extremism in our forces. So no, the German forces are no safe haven.
@@franhunne8929 I don't say they don't exist, but it isn't openly accepted. When I was at the Bundeswehr university, there was a big skandal about students having pictures of WWII-Generals like Guderian or von Manstein in their rooms. While it is debatable whether you should admire someone for his military efforts, who at the same time doing so supported a highly criminal regime, it was way too much fuzz about this. Even high ranking officers at the university had been dismissed of their duties because of this incident, because "someone had to take his hat", but how should they even know about those pictures in the private rooms of the students?
@@mrchronos3374 The officers won't know, but the sergeants that report to them, should - ever heard of Wöchentliche Spindkontrolle? I never was at that university, but I worked at the Bundeswehr administration and got reports from those incidents. There were far too many to be called singular ... The Bundeswehr attracted far too many right wingers. I hope it is different these days, left the job some years ago.
@@franhunne8929 The University is like a regular campus and the students (officers themselves) surely don't ever get any "Spindkontrolle" anymore ;-).
And by the way, there is nothing wrong about conservatism (being on the political right side) as long it is no extremism.
And it's just natural, that the military is attracting more people leaning to the right (because of the values, which are necessary to make such a job), but the mandatory conscription service surely helped to get more people leaning to the left into service (which is good). I think it was a fault to abolish the conscription.
As a black male from the US. I will be visiting Hamburg and Frankfurt for the first time in June I hope all goes well.
You’ll blend right in. Both cities are extremely diverse.
Frankfurt is one of the greatest cities in the world. Very diverse, and well-educated population. Frankfurters are used to black people, because of the many military bases there, back in the day. So much to do, see, and eat. Very peaceful vibe. Enjoy yourself!
@@kalimba04 I just got from Frankfurt Germany yesterday. Frankfurt was great, but Hamburg on the other hand was very racist. As a black men from the United States I have to be honest. I would not mind going back to Frankfurt, but Hamburg you can not pay me to go to that part of Germany the people were very foul.
@@toreyjoseph1286 that's interesting. I've never been to Hamburg, but I've always heard it was a progressive city. I'm glad you enjoyed Frankfurt. I plan to revisit there, at the end of the year.
@@kalimba04 I will now be headed to Cartagena Colombia in September.
I'm also a Black man from the America with my German wife raising my biracial kids. Yeah, I came here because I was sick and tire, of everything. In our 10 years here from Baden-Wuttemberg to Berlin, I've not had a single racial issue with another person. Nothing but positivity, friendly smiles and respect. My son has had two experiences with bad mouthing from kids, and my daughter had girls touching her hair, but kids have a level of ignorance that can be excused to some degree. Really only experienced racist or prejudice in the U.S.
People also speak to me in German first here in Berlin. In BW they tend to speak to me in French first, maybe because we lived on the Dreiländerek or they thought I was a French speaking African, who knows. I've never been pulled over, never had a dirty look, idk. Maybe we're extremely blessed, Trey.
I am born in Germany and it is such a relief to hear you say that. Considering our sad history I am soooo happy to hear that people who move to Germany feel safe, respected and valued!
The majority in Germany doesn’t accept racists.
It is a sad, unreflected behavior of some people that if they feel bad themselves they will make others feel uncomfortable because they project the issues onto others and blame them for everything. But most people have enugh respect, empathy and knowledge. Even if I was the poorest person in the world I would not be a bully or a racist, hitting on others. I hope more people of colour will move here and settle for good!
At least Germans and Germany acknowledge their past and actively took and continue to take steps to learn from their past and make changes. I can't say the same for the US.
Germans today are more lost than Germans 80 years ago ...they are more willing to follow whatever is promoted
The difference today that Horkheimer and Marcuse are to decide what is " virtuous" and not Adolf... in other words not only some European populations are to "go " but all of them
and Germans follow without thinking
@@cutbyoccam1948
They don't acknowledge anything ...they repeat the same things
only their shepherds are different
@Zfen89not69
Thank you for the info.
Yeah, I know about the wave of Jews moving to Germany. I heard there's a large Russian wave aswell, even before the war, but more so now.
I might need to explore Germany more as an option. Area wise, what is a good region to start investigating? I'd like to be somewhere not too loud, clean, nice views (either nature or architecture or both) but have everything easily accessible without a car. I work from home, so industry and employment restrictions don't concern me.
Thanks for the reply. I'd love to know the backstory to your handle 😆
There are very few countries that have had such a thorough reckoning with the darkness of their past as Germany has, and I’m not even talking about European cultures only.
I can't speak for the Germans, because I'm Austrian, but I think we are quite similar in our mentality, so I dare to comment to this.
Yes, there is racism here. There will always be somebody who looks down on you and considers that he is somehow "better" than you are.
But this is not the majority and most people here don't accept racism when they witness it.
One day I was in the subway with my baby in a stroller. The place which is reserved for strollers has already been occupied by a black woman with her child. So I tried to park my stroller next to her without blocking the entrance.
One man felt entitled to complain about the black lady "taking away the place for our people".
Before I even could open my mouth, the people around us started ranting on him. They forced him out of the train yelling "there is not enough place in this train for such an amount of stupidity - no place reserved for racists" and such things.
I felt so sorry for this woman. She had done nothing wrong and her kid was crying, because all of the shouting and pushing going on. I was a bit irritated, because she was smiling.
We then took a walk to the next park together and had a chat and I asked her "This was such a terrible situation, I'm so ashamed for this stupid man. How can you still be smiling?"
She told me, that she's coming from the US and she is used to racism in every nuance. But it never happened that so many people stood up for her, that's what made her smile.
So yes, there is racism and we can't get rid of all this stupid, ignorant, racist a**holes. But we can stand up, raise our voice against it... And for sure... We DO!
And you know what... I don't know why you are called "people of color"
Usually I'm piggy-pink, when I'm sick I get a bit yellow or greenish, when I'm ashamed I turn bright purple, getting a bit of sun I'm crab-red and hopefully after a while I'm finally tanned.
I'm a f***Ing rainbow, calling you colored? 🤣🤣🌈
(no offence - just kidding)
What an amazing story! You’re spot on as well! I can tell Germans and other Europeans don’t passively tolerate ignorance. And I appreciate that!
I feel like the difference here in Austria is, Germany has American soldiers so they've had black people for longer. My 74 year old mother says she's pretty sure she's never seen a black person until she was in her 50s. Most black people here are African immigrants and there definitely are too many racists. Honestly I bet as soon as a black man opens his mouth and has an American accent they'll be treated differently
@@stephjovi Yes, European generally* don't discriminate based on colour of skin but on national/cultural basis. So if you speak and behave as a German you are treated as a German regardless of colour, if you speak and behave as an American you are treated as a American regardless of colour (good) and if you speak and behave as an African you are treated as an African (not very good) and so on.
So an African will probably feel that there are a lot of racism in Europe but a Afro-American will probably feel that it is very little of it.
*By the general public that is, Europe of course also have some real racists.
@@cynic7049 Hmm it's a shame, but that's a good point.
I'm so glad I came across this video! My partner and I have been talking about wanting to move to Germany for years, but I've been really hesitant because our youngest child is black. I'm excited to look through your channel to see if there are any videos about your son's experience in school.
Not a person of color but youtube said this video was for me and I'm so very glad it did! I think SO many things you said are so important for all Americans to hear! 2022 and we are moving backwards as a country. I was super saddened to hear about your experience in Hawaii. I know they're going through their own bull shit...but history keeps repeating itself instead of lessons being learned and ALL people being seen as equals. We have been looking into making the move ourselves but to Italy 🇮🇹 because life is NOT getting better in the US! Thanks for putting this out there and for starting the conversation! Best of luck and continued success for you and your family💖
Popped up randomly in my feed but let me add something: when it comes to learning German everyone always mentions the articles (whether a noun is male/female/neutral etc).
With so many people trying their best to learn the language many Germans won’t mind if you mess this up! We will still understand you and respect you for learning what many consider a difficult language ❤️
i second this, a messed up article is a non problem, shit happens we won't be mad, we all make mistakes.
You know what, when I was learning German I was so worried about this but it's nice to know that it's not that big of an issue.
yeah it's really not important. Using the wrong one may sound strange for germans, but most of the time articles are redundant especially regarding the gender.
The German articles are sometimes very random - Der Löffel (The Spoon - masculine), Das Messer (The knife - neutral), Die Gabel (The Fork - feminine) or even Germans didn't know if it is Das Nutella or Die Nutella ;-) . There are some simple learning rules like "if it ends with -chen then it is neutral" but over all if you accidently use der/die Auto instead of das - nobody cares exspecially in Cologne where everything is dat (Löffel and dat Gabel with dat Messer).
@@DSP16569 Es ist natürlich DAS Nutella!! ;P
Ich bin genau deiner Meinung,Deutschland und die Deutschen sind wunderbar ❤️
Ich lebe in Deutschland seit 1968 und habe nie Rassismus erlebt im Gegenteil, ich wurde immer gut behandelt.
Ich war mal in Spanien in Urlaub und da habe ich Rassismus erlebt,und das paarmal 😢 Ich war froh als ich wieder in Deutschland war,hier habe ich mich wieder wie ein Mensch gefühlt.
Ich kann hier in Frieden leben, und wenn man Probleme hat wird man nicht in Stich gelassen.
Deutschland 🇩🇪 ist meine Heimat ❤️❤️ ich kann es mir nicht vorstellen wo anders zu leben.
Ich bin Deutschland 🇩🇪 so dankbar das ich hier leben darf
Danke 🙏 Deutschland 🇩🇪🥰✌️
Du bist toll ♥️
@@melaniek.8563 Dankeschön sehr lieb von dir ❤️
@@naimapeukert8575 Mir bläst's das Hirn weg (um mal auf einen Englischen Spruch zurückzugreifen) sowas zu lesen. Ich beziehe mich dabei auf den "hier habe ich mich wieder wie ein Mensch gefühlt."
Rein kognitiv verstehe ich was du meinst, aber... Man, kacke, das ergibt doch überhaupt keinen Sinn! Ich weiß, "Current year" und all das, aber wir leben im Jahr 2022, nicht in 17-hundert-nochwas.
Wie kann es in sogenannten zivilisierten Ländern dazu kommen, dass sich Personen nicht "als Mensch" fühlen können? Bricht mir ehrlich das Herz.
Ich freu mich, dass du dich bei uns sicher und... *sfz* wieder als Mensch fühlen kannst.
*kopfschüttel* Ich check's nich. Ehrlich. Will nicht in meinen Kopf. Wie Integralmathe.
eyy cooler Nachname.. noch nie jemanden getroffen der den gleichen hat wie ich haha
Du bist super ❤❤❤
It makes me so proud and happy as a german also from the stuttgart area to hear you say that you are happy with us here.
Just warms my heart. Thank you for this video.
Glad that i found your channel, nice content and as a native german, same age as you, its very interesting to hear what you think and experience. Also i am glad to hear that you have not experienced any racism here and hope it stays that way. I personally have never understood why a person with a different skin color should not have the same rights or be treated differently.
As a foreigner in Germany all i can say is i really don't care if a newcomer is white,black or purple.We as foreigners must contribute to the German society by work,paying taxes and so on.If someone is not prepared for the challenge of a new culture and possibly religion than Germany is not the place for you.Nobody will have problems in this country as long as they behave normally.This country is perfect for perfect people.Great video,keep up the nice work.Wish you all the best with your channel and a belated welcome to Germany.You seem like a nice guy and i am sure you're gonna like it here...
Thanks a lot! We love it here!
Pretty kind words from the red army least expected of all... XD
@@robertbretschneider765 Not sure what do you exactly mean,but my user name is purelly about the fanbase of Manchester United. 😁
@@WesterwalderAdler Thats where it came from? Okay. I was thinking about the sowjet red army and the west german terrorist organisation "Red Army Fraction".
*lol* "This country is perfect for perfect people"! Dont tell me youre perfect! You know NOBODY IS PERFECT!!!
Really interesting video! One thing: If people talk about (more) racism in "east Germany", they don't really mean the whole area close to the eastern border of Germany. What they really mean is the area of the former GDR. So the place you visited in Bavaria doesn't count as "east" in that sense. :D
And also, it would be proofed wrong. As northern Germans we have the sayings, Bavarians are unfriendly and not open to strangers. And it's also not true. There are racists, everywhere in Germany - but it's seldom openly accepted - so you can walk through East Germany also, with every skin color, the humankind could offer. But you never should be near a "Spaziergang" of Neonazis, AfD- and Pegida-symphatisants. No matter wich place in Germany. Just mentioning, that their leaders are mostly West Germans - So don't blame East Germany for people like Kalbitz and Höcke from Bavaria and Hesse, living now as oeconomic immigrants in Thuringya and Brandenburg.
@@ratatosk8935 true. While there are more right leaning people in "East Germany" you can encounter some of them everywhere of course. The actual divide is more a rural/poor areas vs urban/rich areas one (not too different compared to the US I guess). And there are more such underdeveloped regions in East Germany.
@@ratatosk8935
That's funny, coming from middle Germany, the saying here is you northern folks are the closed off and non-talkative folks and the Bayerisch are more warm-hearted, welcoming people. That is not to say you are mean or I don't like you, but you are generally more reserved and don't like to waste a single unneccessary word to a stranger. Different perspectives I guess, though we North-Hessians are also pretty cold to strangers.
As someone living in Bavaria, yep, skin color doesn't matter to people that much here. But if you don't drink alcohol, oh boy.
Luckily he didn’t stop in Dresden
Just discovered your channel by YT recommendation and am very happy I did.
I listened to what you had to say with alot of curiosity for different reasons.
It would be to lengthy to explain them all.
On a short note: I am happy to hear, you and your family feel safe and welcome in this country, because lots of german citizens are quite concerned on racism rising again and don't want that to happen!
I wish you and your loved ones all the best for the future!
I came across your video, and I was so happy to hear that you have many positive words about the people in Germany and Germany itself.
While racism is a horrible thing, I am happy you have experienced next to almost no racism in my birth country. I hope you and your young family will go on having a wonderful life in Germany and can fulfill all your hopes and dreams for the future . ❤️🇨🇦
Nice to meet you Margrit! Thanks for watching with an open heart and mind! Take care!
I dont give a f....if you are black, green, pink...You are a human THATS IT 😂😂
i'm a german poc (mainly lived in the north) and ofc i've experienced some racism but really not a lot and i've very rarely felt unsafe, usually it's just uneducated comments and stereotypes. but i think there's more racism towards foreign poc, the worse someone's german is the worse the racism is gonna be in my experience
despite some bad experiences i can confidently say that germany is a very safe country
It is not that easy.
First of all, in German we would say "poc poc poc" to the noise of a hen.
German is a very descriptive language. We put words together to describe something or we would just call it by it's name.
The point is, that you are right, if you speak broken english the "racism" is more.
But that's also not correct because you stumbled across the cultural German racism that looks suspicious to everyone who is not from this area.
Let a northern German with deep northern accent move to a small bavarian village, let him go to the bakery and let him order. At the moment he opens his mouth he is suspicious.
The difference is, that you can see that a black person is different at first, but at that moment when this person opens his mouth in the bakery and speeks a deep Bavarian accent, all would be fine.
As another comment mentioned, it depends on how much you try to fit in. Our cultural problem no is, that if someone looks different, he has to proof over and over again while a white person at first sight needs not.
That is sad, but as it derives as a culture from the germanic tribes, it will be hard to overcome.
For me personally this means, that I always check myself wether I run in such thinking in specific situations or not, and naturly trying to stop it, if so.
On the good side, this makes Germany an inclusive society. Just try to fit in and you have a warm welcome.
Edit: the poc commet above wasn't meant to be insulting. I wanted to say, why I don't like this word in German. My feeling is, that these word in Germany is an insult so I am not using it.
I am a white German, travelling the world full-time since 2004, and I have experienced quite a lot of racism, in Spain as much as in Sweden or in Portugal. There are closed-minded people everywhere.
@@mijp made my Day, thx:) i really had to think twice or thrice, what an poc is, sounds harsh for me, and also thought of Chicken picking, before i finally come to People of Colour:)
@@alexandersteinmetz6857 For me it is the same.
I really do not want to offend people, but I also think, that we are importing a lot of problems instead of fighting our own problems.
The USA has a segregative society. The refer to themselves as Germans, Italians, Latinos, Irish ... and do seperate from each other,
Germany has a "proofing based" integrative society. We had body ownership, (Leibeigenschaft), they had slavery. We had splited tribes, they where all immigrants.
So, different culture, different history, different problems of racism.
A black person somewhere from Africa would also have other opinions. There is a black restaurant owner who proudly calls his restaurant "Zum Mohrenkopf". He came as immigrant but not from the States.
So I really would beg blacks from the USA, to not be offended by some things, it is not meant to be racism. And it isn't, because this is a different culture. It is like the "Germans are honestly being blunt" thing.
Instead, let us fight the problems we do have. That is far more important than fighting things, that not really exist here.
You can fight a fire in a room, but if there is no fire, you ruin all your belongings for nothing.
Yes, it's true. Stupid people (Like, morons) will pick on you if your German is poor, I've had that a few times in the past, and I'm white European.
I'm really happy about your experience and actually a bit proud. Especially about the part were you talked about east germany. I was born in Erfurt and lived in Leipzig for a bit. It always makes me a bit sad seeing that quite a few of fellow germans paint a extremly bad picture of former GDR states even when this country got reunited over thirty years ago.
Cool that you gave the people a chance and looked trough the prejudices!
I wish you and your family all the best.
BTW Leipzig is always worth a visit IMO, it's a beatuiful city. I would still live there if I hadn't gotten a perfect job in Hamburg.
It's so nice that you enjoy it here so much. I'm very happy for you and I hope that this country won't disappoint you. Watching your videos make me appreciate living here more.
Hi Trey! Some serious topic! Just a few thoughts here.
First, there was a slight misunderstanding regarding "east". You were in eastern Bavaria, not in East Germany. That term generally means the 5 states in the former communist GDR, so Mecklenburg-Vorpommern, Brandenburg, Sachsen-Anhalt, Thüringen, and Sachsen. Of those, mainly the south-eastern corner is the one people have warned you about. Mainly Thuringia and Saxonia. They are our version of Mississippi and Alabama. The cities are ok, but in some smaller towns you could come across some of those people you really don't want to meet. Most people ARE fine, but the share of people who aren't is simply bigger than elsewhere. And it's less racist in the sense of color, it's more a general xenophobia. Not that that didn't exist everywhere to a certain degree. What may be different to America is that the fewer foreign looking people live in a place the more xenophobic people get. The fear of the unknown. In bigger cities, and especially in Western Germany (again, the old West Germany), the population is much more diverse and tolerant, exceptions notwithstanding.
Second, when you began to declinate your "percentages" of "race", that's soo American. It doesn't work like that here. Nobody will ask you about what your father was or your second-degree uncle or your great-grandmother. There is an ugly ring of the Nuremberg laws in that where people were defined by their percentage of "Jewishness" or "Germanness".
Also, people are not as obsessed about their "heritage" as Americans where many define themselves by the nationality or ethnicity of their ancestors, while really nobody in their "ancestorial" country would think of them like that but would just laugh at them when they would call themselve "Italian" or "German" without even speaking one word of the language.
Hayley Alexis made a very interesting video about the differences regarding identity and race in the US and in Germany. Highly recommended, and she explains that much better than I ever could. ua-cam.com/video/ayep0SWcN7c/v-deo.html and this one ua-cam.com/video/K_TG6zbXCzs/v-deo.html
So, nobody cares for you identifying as Latino or whatever. You're the American, for better or worse. ;-)
Identity, if you must use that term at all, is much more defined by language and culture than anything else in Germany. Of course, there will be people who see a black man and have a film starting in their heads with all kinds of prejudices. But for instance, the prejudices are much more culture-based than color-based. You will probably experience that yourself someday, those people will treat you differently because you are American, whereas people from African countries or Arabs are treated much worse, especially when they are Muslims. No beating around the bush here, that kind of ethnic, xenophobic racism does exist. But it's much less of the institutional, systemic racism that is ingrained in the US, especially in the South. Not serving people like that guy in that shop did is not possible in Germany. Just like not baking a cake for a gay wedding would be against the law here. Does not mean that everybody would automatically be friendly, of course, but the law is definitely not on their side, nor the general attitude of the public.
What shocks people here in Germany is how racism is such an every-day bureaucratic act in the US. The census questions about race or on forms for all kinds of things would be considered openly-racist here, and anybody who put that into a public document could go looking for a new occupation, because it's outright unconstitutional.
And that's why I seriously question that statistic that says there are so and so many black or white people in Germany. That may be an estimate based on nationality, but you will never find a check-box for race or ethnicity in Germany. There simply IS no race statistic. People are people, race does not exist for the state. Again, racism is real, but not in that way.
By the way, you may have noticed that you are asked about religion in some official documents which usually is shocking for Americans. That's mainly for tax because the state is NOT completely separate from the two main churches, and there is something called "Kirchensteuer", and you should have a look at your income tax on your pay slip, whether somebody entered something under religion for you. Presumably you are neither a member of the Catholic church nor of any of the Germany evengelical churches, so you shouldn't be paying taxes for that.
Coming back to the census questions, this is a shocker for us and probably for everybody in Western Europe. I know that has something to do with things like affirmative action, but that itself is considered rather questionable here, as it does not really help to overcome racism but instead even cements structural racism. Education is free anyway, universities don't have and don't need quota for minorities, and generally, the system provides for everybody in the same more or less effective way. Having said that, there IS a bias towards education. Children of parents with higher education have a higher chance of gettting higher education themselves. It's a social bias, not a racist one. Our northern neighbors do much better in that regard. Social mobility there is significantly better, though Germany has gained a bit on that.
By the way, I don't know if your son is in a Kita. If not, I highly recommend it. There is no better place for a kid to learn the language and get friends. Makes the transition into school much easier. Having said that, kids being kids, it can be hard on those who look differently. Not saying that it has to happen, but it can happen. Finding the right Kita and the right school may be extra important in this case.
So, there are more things I could talk about, but it's already much too long.
Take care!
Very good comment.
Very well written indeed ...
I especially agree with the "kids being kids" statement, even tho the "weird" experiences don't necessarily have to be bad.
My nephew met a black child or person in general for the first time in Kita and he just wouldn't stop licking her arm yelling out "lade" which was his word for chocolate at that time. I'm glad they both got over it and she is still his friend :D
Ich weiß nicht, wo ihr alle her habt, dass Sachsen und Thüringen voller Rassisten sind. Er hat es sogar extra erwähnt, dass er viele solche Kommentare bekommen hat. Unglaublich bescheuert…ja hier traut sich die AFD und die Montagszügler offen auf die Straße. Dh aber nicht, dass die hier die Mehrheit bilden oder überproportional vorhanden sind. Mich ärgert sowas.
I'm living in Germany 20 km away from Heidelberg since 1980 aged 5 yo and identity myself an Eritrean German (dual citizenship). I can recall a couple of stereotypes and prejudice mostly in times of economical- or immigration crisis but I never had to deal with significant racism. I never realized how progressive Germany is towards different ethnicities and took it for granted until I crossed the border the first time. Especially during a visit to my older sister who married in Germany an US soldier and lives in the US for 2 decades now. Without going into details, on several occasions I didn't felt equally treated to non-blacks and it was quite obvious n humiliating. What surprised me the most was every time my sister or black American friends were there too it seemed like they noticed nothing. It's hard to explain... as if they got numb, my sister as well after all the years. When we grew up together in Germany she would freak out over every little thing that didn't felt right to her. She is an American citizen now so didn't say anything though before she'd say that I got soft with all the socialist free stuff from the government
Greetings from Mannheim in Baden-Württemberg
What your sister said sounds a little like Stockholm syndrom. "Got soft","socialist free stuff from the government"? Did she get "clockwork oranged" on Fox "News" and OANN? When did she start to think getting "hardened" by living in a Mad Max type of society is a good thing?
Monnem ❤
Second video I've watched now and I'm super impressed by your extremely positive attitude / take on life in general. Quite frankly, I'm convinced you'd enjoy a lot of places just because of your attitude. You certainly seem like a "glass half full" kind of person. I'm super happy you like it here and I hope you can encourage a few more cool people like yourself to take the leap of faith. ;-)
I have a couple black friends born and raised in Germany and their takes are a little different, unfortunately. They tend to point out a lot of the "subtle racism"
that can happen on the day to day in Germany, e.g. you're shopping in a supermarket and a clerk gives 20 people a pass and then wants to check THEIR bag and the only noticeable difference between the other 20 people and them was the color of their skin... or the police going through a train and not asking anyone for their ID but then they do so with the one colored person. 😞
So I think we still have a long way to go, but at least it appears like things are getting better.
Thanks for posting this. My husband and I are a black/latino couple and we’re thinking of moving to Germany at the end of the year. As the black person in the relationship, im way more nervous about it than him. I’ve been to France, Italy and the UK and didn’t experience a lot of racism (more in Italy than anywhere else, but still honestly pretty mild) - but I wasn’t sure about how Germany would compare.
Also, you mentioned that the logistics of moving to Europe were difficult. Would you mind making a video about how you guys prepared for your move and some of the things we need to consider/plan for?
Native white German here. I don't care if you are black, yellow or your skin has red polka dots with green stripes. As long as you do what you do within the German societal ruleset (which is mostly don't be an obnoxious a-hole and mind your own business) I don't give a flying F about you!
The exception to that rule above is staring that is something we do A LOT.
Das stimmt schon irgendwie xD
yeah, but we stare at everything extraordinary equally :D
@@endlessstudent3512 true! XD
which is strange as I too am a native German but I grew up in Malta in the 60s and I DO NOT stare as I consider it impolite LOL Upbringing DOES make a difference, and I did not notice that Germans stare because I do not and therefore have missed this fact for over 30 years now.
Hm I don't know if being brain afk in the bus and just staring at a wall or the like, is the staring everyone mentions? Personally I tend to not actively look at people cause I really don't care about them and just look where I am going. Unless someone speaks to me, or I notice that someone needs help 🤷♂. Could be the anxiety and phobia of Stangers I dunno.
This town of Moosbach is in Bavaria, so in southern Germany (thus a part of former "West Germany). When people talk to you about "the East" (of Germany), they're refering to places in the states of Thuringia, Saxony, Saxony-Anhalt, Brandenburg and Mecklenburg-Vorpommern.
That makes sense! Thanks for the explanation!
Strangely the Danish equivalent of go to hell is go to Pommern
@@sukatz Well ... as far as geography goes, Pommern nowadays is the Polish province of Pomerania. As far as history goes, it used to by part of the German Reich (1871-1945).
So lots of "landmines" here when talking about "East" and "Germany" ... ;)
and Berlin...
@@sukatz wow... interesting. Do you know why?
Thanks for the good content! I'm French and I'll be living in Baden Württemberg for 3 months next year, stumbled upon your channel while making research. I love your chill tone, it is relaxing to watch! I'm glad you're having a good experience in Germany! I wish racism wasn't a thing anywhere :-)
Thanks for sharing your experiences! We visited a good friend in Germany and loved it!
Greatings from Moosbach! I live in Moosbach and it´s nice to hear that your experiences were so good. With a Population of 2353 Moosbach is really a small Town but we welcome all people. It doesn´t matter if you are black, white or any other skin color you have.
We stayed the night at Zum Goldenen Löwen! Everyone was amazing and nice! If we’re ever in Moosbach again…I’ll let you know. Beautiful town with great people! 👍🏽
As a German, I can't have a say in that, I haven't experienced racism on any trip or was hostile to it. My best friend's wife is a black Brazilian and when she came to Germany 15 years ago she was terrified of the Germans and has never been alone. Every 3 months she flew back to Brazil and stayed there for a few weeks. Today she is one of the happiest people I know, organizes cultural events by Brazilian artists in Germany and lives a happy married life with one child. It took a long time for her to trust the people here. Many greetings
There’s a lot of fear about being a POC living in Germany due to the past. And sadly, much of the Western world outside of Europe doesn’t take the time to familiarize themselves with modern day Germany.
Do some trips to certain blacks-only neighborhoods in the US. You'll make different experiences, as did I during my time in Texas.
@@dan_kay But isn't the real problem that there are certain black-only neighborhoods in the first place? Being isolated from the rest of society…..no matter how structural, cultural or just unaffordable rents naturally creates a lot of anger.
@@guinessdraught2758
Yes, they are a problem, but not as you may think. It's the black folks in those neighborhoods who don't want white dudes living in their area. And they communicate that very clearly. I felt very unwelcomed in those areas, although I am the most chilled person on the planet when it comes to race, simply not giving a fuck.
Happy to hear that she made it here,but at the same time it's a bit scary how those stereotypes are still effecting some people around the World.It's bloody time people stop thinking about the German people as SS officers in black uniform shouting "achtung,achtung" all the time.
I am 49 and i lived and visited quite a few countries in my life and let me tell you this:I have nowhere felt so respected,safe and financially stable as i feel myself here.But,it must be said that me and my family have done our best to learn the language,the culture.
After 9 years in Rheinland-Pflaz we feel ourselves at home and we probably stay here forever.
I’m so happy to hear you feel safe in Germany. I wish there would be many more people of colour and Asian people here from countries all around the world.
I hope your channel grows.
I like that you spoke about, that there are also ignorant people.
Ignorance only changes by exposure.
That’s the best way to realise that people are just people wherever we go!
Hey Trey, I really wasn't sure what to expect in the comments but I gladly admit I've been so positively surprised with all the wonderful positive and loving mindsets, shared experiences and so on. I've had my own lists of topics to mention here but looking through the comments I see all of them more than named and explained.
What an amazing video, thank you for that I really appreciate it.
Nevertheless I also know that racism is real in Germany, in another extension than it is in the US probably - at least given by your statement and from what I've seen in news etc but maybe we have a more open discussion about it than the US is having. And maybe the reason for that is our past with Nazi Germany and our will to overcome that part of our history... another big difference concerning violence is the gun laws, you'll hardly get one in Germany while you're able to buy one in close to every store in the US.
In the end I'm really glad you're feeling that welcome and safe here. Germany has some issues but it's still a very good place to be.
Have a nice weekend!
Leon
i´m a owner of a small fast food franchise and i have stores all over Germany. My worst experience was in a mall in a very small village close to Leipzig. I was in the store with just one other employee and a black woman with her children stepped to our shop but the employee didn't move to talk to her. She looked me directly in the face and told me she won't serve "those". i was totally shocked and did the order myself.
The worst part was that i wasn't able to fire her, because i had real problems to get any people to work there. I was SOOO happy when i finally closed that shop.
An other employee in Cologne (she is from Iran) she told me she lived some years in the deep east, and she could not stand the racism.
BUT beside some bad spots most of the times especially in the metropol areas there is not very much racism. Germany is the country with the 2. highest immigration after the US and most of us know we need and benefit from it.
Wow! These are the stories I appreciate hearing because it helps provide a different perspective. I want to thank you for sharing and I hope you continue standing for what’s right!
may i ask what the name of that small village is? because i made a similar expirience in that region. The name of the village where i was is "Weißenfels". Imagin it is the same one :O.
I was there for 4 Years and left because i could not stand all those hateful People. Now i life in Paris and even here i already had to notice racism :( (but luckly much much less)
@@MrHollos you nearly nailed it. the shop was is Günthersdorf thats just a few kilometer from Weißenfels.
really a dark spot for Germany :/
you could say that about every country
The reunification of Germany was problematic and continues to be so. As a POC If you can stay out of the former communist part do so. Many capable and educated people left the East so what remains often are the people you want to avoid.
Husband and I faced little, if none, racism while living in Germany during the mid 70s - 80s. We lived in Durmersheim and worked in Karlsruhe. Returning to the states was a vile cultural shock. Wished we would have stayed in Germany.
Ms. Griffith, I was in the US Army during the period that you state, I will say that you either ignored it or you are not telling the truth.
@@RWebster325 I was speaking our truth of the German's not the American military.
@@katherinegriffith5546 And what is "our" truth? Isn't it interesting that you try to separate the "truths."
But then you are proving my point for me.
One more item - If you worked in Karlsruhe, there is absolutely no way that you can separate your truth, the German's truth, and the truth of the American military, especially in the 1970's and 1980's.
Greetings from Baden-Baden Katherine. Durmersheim is about 10 km away from my home town. Glad to hear, you liked it here „im badische“ 😁
@@RWebster325 bro you are white not saying white people don't get racism but come on I came to Germany 1976 and I never experienced any kind of racism in that period. I'm still living here and had like maybe 1 or 2 encounters of racism so please don't assume she is lying or not telling the truth thx.
I really appreciate these everyday insights. These little stories from everyday life in the US are eye-opening. And I can't imagine that the Florida gas station incident would be possible anywhere here in Germany. I sincerely hope so. Thank you.
Hopefully lots of people see this! So sad to hear the myths about other countries over and over again. Good job 👏🏻
Hey Trae, I am just happy that you and your family feel safe and comfortable here!! I hope when the day comes and you make your first negative experience in that context, I hope it won't be too bad and that you will have built a support network that you can fall back on.
I really hope y'all really find yourselves at Home a here.
Thanks Andre!
I think one important thing to note: Even in the most "racist" areas of Germany, you don't need to have your "guard up" if you are black. It rarely if ever happens hat violence is happening like in the U.S. This is not the south of the US where people are hunted by some crazy loonies with guns... at worst you get looks and maybe someone saying something rude.. no one is pulling a gun on you and hunting out of town.
I am an Austrian living in California and sadly the same goes for whites in America. I have never been treated as poorly as in black neighborhoods and I truly felt unsafe ( bc of a higher risk of gun violence and burglary). In Austria, when I am in a foreigner district I get treated just fine and feel pretty safe.
when people talk about racism in Europe-it's usually not classical racism about pigmentation in the skin-it's usually about culture/religion , in other words it's about Muslims -due to some problems with certain migrants (absolutely far from all Muslims create any problems ) religion is not a color it does however impact the culture -in some parts of eastern Europe and Greece there have been historical fights against conquering Muslims-and they hear about problems in western Europe, that is why they don't want migrants from the Middle east and north Africa , they don't mind black migrants from the US, France, Brazil, Kenya ect.
Please still be careful. Violent hate crimes might not happen as often, but they do happen. Black people or even white people with black hair and a tan being beaten to death or almost to death and left paraplegic.
@@e.458 Where? When?
@@e.458 Where??
As a German iam never worried about leaving my house and what could happen to me. Super eye opening for me that this is not „normal“. I mean I know we have some areas that you should not visit at certain times etc. but in general I don’t have second thoughts visiting new places. Alone the fact that gun ownership is really restrictive in Germany helps with that a lot. I wouldn’t feel good thinking about my neighbors wielding guns in their garden. Another fact I was thinking about is that you get respect when you give respect. Be nice and helpful and people will thank you and give back. Germans value the „doing your part“-mentality a lot. Its not only the pay your taxes and speak the language thing…more like: be the guy helping in kindergarten grilling some food because they have a party, help your neighbor building something on his property without asking for something in return, get together and share your interests and hobbies, bring something new to the table. This sort of things.
I was stationed in Ansbach, Germany 2018-2020 and I loved it so much that it’s been my mission to move back ever since 🙏🏾 after my contract ends next year I’ll definitely be booking my one way ticket 😄 🇩🇪
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I’m glad you and your family have found a new home where you feel safe and respected. ❤️
I'm a black German from Hamburg, grew up here and love this place.
I can only tell my experience from living in a big city like Bremen or Hamburg in the left leaning north.
We are also a country with many immigrants from many different country's with many different cultures.
As a black guy, it's pretty chill. Almost all people are open to me and see me as just a German guy. I only had a few racist interactions in east Germany where some guy was talking a bit of shit but nothing to outrageous and asshole are everywhere.
In my childhood in every school there are some black guys, some Turks, some Asians like people from everywhere, so we are used to see different people as early as childhood. They have some cultural differences but they are almost all respected and accepted.
We have our problems but when you compare it with the US and shit I heard it's not comparable to German.
hey
You are right that there is a general trend, that the further south you go in Germany the more conservative and catholic the country becomes. But you brought up the two major cities of Hamburg and Bremen and those two cities happen to be historically very open and liberal because have been port cities for a very long time. So I do believe that you lived in Bremen and Hamburg is a much bigger factor than the general trend of the "liberal north".
I grew up in a rural Area in the very north and as a kid I didn't know that black people existed outside of TV lmao as stupid as this might sound. People there are not racist in the sense that they actually support racism as an ideology but they are kinda close minded and like: "We don't like strangers here and we don't want any outsiders".
It took me until my later highschool years to actually meet a black kid and befriend him. But yeah...times have changed quite a bit even up there. The internet happened. The older people died. The younger people are more open.
@Alfonso Di Grezia as a black 😭😭💀
@@tonischumacher2 I wouldn't say that the South gets more conservative (used to live close to Stuttgart before migrating to Japan), but I would say that in Stuttgart especially people walk with "n Stock im Arsch" lmfao.
@@dydx_ obviously this is only a general trend and there is also other factors that play a role. Like for example people in urban areas tend to be more liberal than in the country.
But this is not a rule. Just a statistical correlation.
Is there an expectation to be fluent in German to work in Germany?
And are there schools for English speaking kids ?
Hi. New sub, here. I, a single Black woman, yt searched the idea of living in Germany and your content popped up. This was a really informative video. Thank you.
I’m interested in moving abroad but haven’t decided on where. I’m looking for a higher quality of life than I have in California. I work remotely in IT project management and would hope to continue to work in this field. I haven’t gone through your backlog of videos yet but I’m hoping to learn more about the move process and getting a job. I’ll be on the look out for more from you and others.
While I can't give you any specific pointers, I can say that IT professionals are quite saught after here.
only watched the first third right now and I am really happy to hear that you've had a good experience in germany since I (as a german) in my milieu had the impression that we still struggle with racism in some places. happy to hear this
Thanks a lot for sharing your experience. There is still a lot of room for improvement in Germany, but it is good to know, that you and other people from different countries feel welcome and good living in Germany. 🙂 Take care - Thomas
Congrats. It's breathtaking to see an Afro Latino doing well and living happy in Germany. I'm a Nuyorican from Manhattan. I'm a middle age mother of 4. Two are still at home. We are living in hell right now. I pray every minute of the day from my children to just make it to and from school safe. My daughter started showing an interest in learning German and had been doing research on the universities in Germany. My main concern was "our kind are not welcomed in Germany". And then we come across your video. But what about the cost of living over there? And how does someone start the process of moving out there?
Sadly im a clueless student from germany, but i still like your comment in hope that it gets some attention. Hopefully someone that can help you properly sees it. The cost of living shouldnt be much different from the US, although it increased a little due to the Ukraine conflict. Surely there are some institutions that support cases like yours moneywise. In general University in germany is almost free, you only pay for a regionwide bus and train ticket, for me its around 300 Euros every 6 month and i pay a little over 100 euros for food every month.
And one thing is for sure, your concern is not needed at all, she wont be treated a single bit different from others, based on skin colour, ethnicity or else.
Easiest way to start with, just choose a university you like and contact them, you will surely get an answer on what to do, or where to start :)
If you or she has any other questions, feel free to ask, ill try to answer as much as i can (sorry for some bad wording)
WEEEPAAA!!! I’m here to help in anyway I can. The most difficult part about moving to Germany is the “getting here” part. Cost of living is like in the US…it’s all dependent upon where you live. We live in one of the more expensive cities in Germany (Stuttgart), but the benefits of being here or the other expensive city (Munich), are access to numerous companies. You will find several American based companies here. Do you mind if I ask you what you do career wise?
@@TreyDaze Health Clinic Record Keeper/Receptionist
@@pennyprepperhello, is Health Clinic record keeper/ Receptionist, something like working on an Informationdesk, in an Hospital. Can you describe your Job, please?
@@pennyprepper Checkout USAJobs.gov! There are TONS of opportunities here! That will at least get you over here. Then once you’re here…you can get an idea of where you’d like to live.
Thanks for ur perspective, brother from another mother ✌️🙃 keep on making the world a better place
I just watched your video. I am considering a move to Germany and found this helpful. I’m very disappointed in the US and the direction it seems to be going. You really sold me on Germany and I’m glad you’re finally in a place that treats you the way you should be treated
Appreciate you speaking about this. My family is relocating to Germany. I came to visit in May and felt so at ease. Would love to connect with you and your family for our next visit!
Ciara!!!! Nice to meet you! You guys are gonna love it here! Do you mind if I ask where you guys are headed?
@@TreyDaze narrowing it down to Mainz and Stuttgart. We have friends from the states in both. Stuttgart only because of my partners line of work but Mainz is a whole vibe. The city is so friendly.
@@CiaraCanCook the area around Mainz is so beautiful - and has a lot to offer. Hope your move goes well and Herzlich willkommen!
@@sisuguillam5109 danke!!
@@CiaraCanCook 😃
I actually love the color of the wall behind you. :-)
As a white German I don't feel comfortable adding much else to the conversation, but I wanted to leave you a comment for the algorithm.
Hey Sonia! Very nice to meet you and thanks for your kind words!
Shout out Tampa, Fl keep doing big things good to see folks doing something positive.
I'm from Ghana great video champ keeping doing this great stuff. love from Ghana.
Hi! As a German, I am glad to hear you like the country and have had good experiences. Moving to a different place is always a step out of one’s comfort zone and speaking in a language other than your first language can put you under stress when it doesn’t work instantly. Having English as a back up is probably quite helpful!
I grew up in West Germany not far from Stuttgart and we were quite used to seeing black American soldiers in many places. But that also holds for those areas in eastern Bavaria near the Czech border (when you approach the Czech Republic from the direction of Stuttgart) they have been part of the areas where American troops have been stationed after WWII and they have had a lot of US military presence and training grounds (like the Grafenwoehr Training Area). Eastern Bavaria is not what people usually refer to as East Germany, what they mean is the former communist East. I won’t judge the current situation in East Germany, because I don’t live there and don’t have up to date first hand information.. In those areas older people had to learn Russian and may struggle with English. The population is less diverse, unemployment is higher. And that’s also where quite a few racist attacks on asylum seekers’ homes occurred in the decades following reunification. So please take care of yourself and keep making up your own mind about the situation in various parts of Germany! I’m looking forward to more of your content!
Keep the awesome commentary and spreading of information going in the comments section guys! I really appreciate it and I know others appreciate it as well! 👍🏽
Let me ask you a question... How would it make you feel if we started sending masses of white people into Africa and all black countries and started overtaking and erasing away the native black culture and population? If the thought of it makes you uncomfortable, then you should know that that's exactly how white people feel when black immigrants are coming over to europe. Just because you didn't experience any overt racism towards you it doesn't mean people welcome you here. After all what people hate is mass immigration, and not the individual immigrants.
@@clownmazard8852 I hope everyone had an awesome day today! I made some amazing pasta and paired it with wine from the South of France!
@@TreyDaze I guess you will need this kind of humor from time to time. Love your anwere.
@@clownmazard8852 What has TreyDaze to do with Africa? However, just to inform you Hinterwaeldler: Europeans once sent masses of white people to Africa, overtook everything and erased native cultures - it's called colonialization, - and in particularly the Germans one towards the Nama and Herrero: Genozid! Did any "Non-white"-people EVER do Genozids in Germany? No wait, who did Genozids in Germanys? How could you sh*t out your stupidness so loudly in a commentary section, I don't get it.
My brother is speaking facts. Thanks for sharing 👍🏾.
I am a German and it's heart warming how you talk about our country. I offen just see the country's past.
PS you son is so cute
Germany’s past is not the Germany of today, Brilliant country brilliant people with a brilliant future. Not so sure about uk embarrassed to be British at the moment.
You really are to be congratulated for the wonderful, full-on way you tackle this subject of racism and how you rightly encourage people to take charge of their lives to improve their situations where they can, if they want. Listening to you, even tho I’m white and a retired person and living in Australia and a native German speaker, is just a pleasure.
The only time I’ve really experienced racism of a kind is on the Swiss rail system when I spoke high German and was rudely abused during ticket check in the 1970s/1980s as a Nazi. It was a problem for me because my family had been refugees fleeing the Nazis, so being called one didn’t sit well.
Thank you for your kind words! And thank you for sharing your experiences with us all. These kinds of conversations are pivotal!
gotta say i love your bachground wall! and your videos of cause! glad you like it here in germany, we're honored to have people like you contributing to this country :D love from a fellow musical lover!
Hey JJ! Thanks for your kind words! My Wife and I are trying to see Hamilton performed in German sometime this year or next year! Much love to you and take care!
Bruh. I damn near felt like you were talking directly to me! I'm also from South Florida with a wife and young son. I found your videos because I know that I want out.... But I haven't settled on where. Lol Germany, Australia, and moving back to Jamaica are the top contenders at the moment. Excellent video. I'm subscribed and looking forward to your future uploads.
I am so happy to hear you have a wonderful experience living in Germany! I lived in Germany for two years in the 80’s (Spangdahlem) as a USAF airman. But I always made it a point to move off base, travel across BRD, and found that the Germans are the most friendly people in Europe. I’ve been back several times and the Eiffel region is like coming back to my zwitte Heimat (2nd home). I continue to practice my German, lisoto SWR 3 radio, watch Taggesshau and even practice Easy German on UA-cam. Just curious, what do you and your wife do for a living over these. Grüß a fellow Latino!
I still feel so bad for not having had the guts to shout out on you in Munich's Central Station that specific Saturday morning a couple of weeks ago! You're so respectful and appreciative, I'm happy having you here - I'd have liked to tell you this in person, but I failed in doing so..... SORRY! The next beer and Kinder Schokolade bar will be on me, promised!!!
No worries! We’ll see you again for sure! Take care!
Trey,
Great video.
I’ve lived in many places in the US and I’ve experienced racism (I’m black, can’t be mistaken for anything else) ALL over the US. I retired from the military and moved to Germany late 2019. Never really did any tours in Europe so thought Germany was a central enough jump off point.
I live in a former part of East Germany and this is the SAFEST I’ve ever felt in my life. I don’t feel apprehensive at all walking around the city. Sometimes, I think what little German language skills I have will get me in trouble, but the folks here appreciate that I’m trying and correct me as politely as ever. That’s what I worry about!!!
I haven’t been able to make it back to the US since I moved here but I have one planned to tie up a few loose ends. I’m not renting a car. It’s going to be challenging but that’s an easy price to eliminate the chance of being stopped for “driving while black.” In the past, my military ID was enough to just get a ticket/warning. However, after what happened in VA, to a service member in uniform, in December 2020, I’m not taken any chances.
Beyond that trip and the occasional birth of a new family member, I have no desire to be back in the US. I was once told to love it or leave it, and so I gladly chose the latter.
Anyway, rant over. Hope this post found you well! 🤓
Looking forward to more content.
That video in VA was unreal!!! Glad to hear you are enjoying Germany! The quality of life is way better here for folks that look like us!
I could easily look you in the face and say that its getting better in America. I have an excellent poker face :). This is another win for the UA-cam algorithim. Don't know why your channel was recommended to me, but just watched two videos and found them both very informative and interesting. Good for you, man. Happiness is wherever you find it.
I love your video it seems like everyone tha who to moves over to Germany seems to be so much happier it seems alot better over there
It is a huge misunderstanding:
There is a different meaning of racism in Europe as in USA: In the US racism is about the color of SKIN.
In Europe nobody don’t care about skin - there is a lot of racism here, but it is about CULTURE and this is a much different thing.
If you are from the US you have the same culture and meaning of life - therefore you may have no problems.
Love from Austria 🇦🇹🥰
True spoken.
If immigrants integrate to the culture of the country they live in they will have it much easier.
Thay can have their communities, but they should not live it and live in it.
That is a phenomenon that is consistant everywhere in the world.
... even for white expats in asia or africa. If you only live in your own bubble, you don't have to wonder if they treat you differently
@Sabine how long, since they migrated and are they living amongst other of their origin?
@Sabine I don't think I get your point.
So they get german education and learn professions in germany, succeed and then decide to move to the UK to find work over there?
Where is the point of rasism in that? I am not sure if I do get your statement correctly.
Besides... in nursing people from foreign country is often be preffered in germany. Reason for that is that culturaly several nationality do grow up more caretaking towards especially older people as germans do. Germany do have several recruitment programms in several countries for several different fields of professions becsuse they can't find germans willing or able to do the work.
P.s. before this last statement starts a discussion, I just want to say, although I am of german nationality and born and raised in germany, my antsisters came from southeast asia on both sides.
@Sabine dann lass uns auf deutsch schreiben, denn ich glaube wir reden aneinander vorbei.
Nur so nebenbei, ich bin Mitte vierzig. Und ja, wie ich schon schrieb "geboren und aufgewachsen"... das bringt mit sich, dass ich auch hier zur Schule gegangen bin.
Und jetzt nochmal auf Deutsch... was ist mit den Leuten aus Ghana?
Ließ dir bitte mal deinen eigenen Kommentar durch. Ich bin mir ziemlich sicher, dass du dich verhaspelt hast.
@Sabine p.s. Es spricht nicht gerade für Großbritannien eine Person als Anwalt einzustellen, der in Deutschland nur als Kloputzer qualifiziert ist.
Ich sag nur
One thing that I always find interesting is that the US is the only country that I could name that puts such a big emphasis on "ethnicity" in the sense that it is considered a big part of your identity, part of the census, etc.
Contrast Germany, where ethnicity is not even part of our government documents (well, for obvious 1933-1945 related reasons).
It's also interesting that in the US, this created (and still creates) a very much "us vs them" culture, which you have also referenced to - "Trey, there's no black people there, you'll have issues"...as if only being among "your people/skin color" means you can be left alone or respected in a community.
Germany has problems with racism and hate crime, not going to deny it - but for us it is more based on behavioral patterns and religion, not skin color.
Circling back to that, we have a problem with religious fundamentalism, in our case mostly Islam (whereas the US can be considered having a pretty big Christian fundamentalism problem in certain regions) - but that doesn't mean that we don't respect other people's religion or that you can't be free in your beliefs.
The German expectation (mostly, and this goes for immigrants and locals likewise) is that we don't care how you look, speak or worship as long as you commit to adhere to our local rules, regulations, and cultural norms as much as possible. Concerning Islam, this means that nobody is going to bat an eye for you being a Muslim or following your religious traditions, as long as one simple, basic, and universal rule is respected: German law trumps religious law. If it's in the religion (Shariah Law for example), but not permitted in Germany, you won't make friends if you try to circumvent Germany's rules and acceptable behavior (regarding Women's rights for example).
As long as whatever you do can fit within the framework of our society, we really couldn't care less...
I personally work for the German Head Office of a US-led corporation that is basically everywhere on the planet, and this leads to a lot of "internal" migration being organized by the business. We have Black people, we have Indians, we have Pakistani, we have Russians or other Slavic people, we have Turks, we have Scandinavian People, Italians, Asians, the whole shebang - and all of those people that I have met have felt welcomed and integrated extremely well - the biggest hurdle was not racism, or culture shock, or religion, it was always the language. And that's how it should be in my opinion.
@kuldan5853 not sure what you mean by Christian fundamentalism problem in the US. The Salem witch trials were centuries ago and alcohol prohibition was overturned. The Amish and Mennonite communities live amongst themselves and do not go out to convert people. If you are talking about pushing back against crazy progressivism such as teaching people to be professional victims and not knowing what a woman is- then I’d say the country is in need of a change away from such ideology. If you want to blame the abortion debate on Christian’s then you are missing the point. You don’t have to be a Christian to disagree with abortion debate (too long of a debate to get into). I honestly don’t get your point?
@@nicoles9077 I was mainly aiming at the bible belt, Christian influence on politics in some states(for example this, while officially abolished, still happens in places: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religious_qualifications_for_public_office_in_the_United_States)
Then the obvious that you have to pledge allegiance to "one Nation under God", which in itself is an infringement on religious freedom.
Also the whole "teaching creationism in school and banning teaching about the evolutionary theory" that some areas do...
I actually did not mean it as a comment on current political events (that's a whole different shitshow).
Oh, and not forgetting all the hate spewn by fundamental Christians against "non-believers" in public, be it in shops, supermarkets, or anywhere else where they encounter stuff that clashes with their own religious beliefs.. It might only be mean comments most of the time, but it is still a problem.
@@nicoles9077 Even more to follow up with:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religious_discrimination_in_the_United_States
@@kuldan5853 dude I’m a 50 year old black woman who actually grew up in one of those Bible Belt states and I can say you sound like a typical left leaning Person who has a problem with some American traditions. You seem to forget that the US was mostly founded by religious individuals who were fleeing religious persecution in Europe. Christianity and Christian values are a part of American life. Most Americans don’t have a problem saying we are one nation under God because God was a part of our history for so long and we thank God for America. Problem is is that we have Americans (and plenty of foreigners)who hate this country for things that happened centuries ago and never give the country credit for changing. The US fought a civil war getting rid of slavery yet we have professional victims acting like we live in 1950”s America? Yes we have problems and we are not perfect, but as a 50 year old black woman not one time did a racist white person stop me from going to the library or studying. Asian Americans are the most successful ethnic group in America- that’s why people continue to come to this country. I’d say the biggest problem America has is fatherless homes and cultural rot because people have moved away from Christianity and/or spiritual grounding. When you have no spiritual grounding people fall for anything- victimhood mentally, government as a parent, not knowing the definition of a woman, just to name a few.
very important to talk about this, came for the food content, stayed for this! Great videos!
Thank you!
Klasse Videos, mach weiter so! Grüße aus Stuttgart
Great video Trey. We moved to Germany from USA for some of the same reasons - and we are white. Glad to see coming here has added benefits for black folks. We live in a small Bavarian town and there are indeed only a couple black/brown families in the whole town. I would like to think they feel welcomed too and I will do my part!
Just one comment about Moosbach. It's not in East Germany. It's in Bavaria which is southern Germany. Yes, Moosbach is on the border to Czechia, but that's not the area people meant. When people talk about East Germany they mean the former GDR with the states of Thüringen, Sachsen-Anhalt, Sachsen, Brandenburg, Mecklenburg-Vorpommern. The states of Saxony and Thuringia share a border with Czechia, and those are states where there have been a number of racist incidents in recent years. However, even there, the racists are a minority.
Southern Germany is where the US military have had a presence for over 70 years now, so the locals are used to seeing people of colour. The extreme southwest of Germany had French military for a while as well and those troops also included people of African or Asian descent. In all the big cities in what was formerly West Germany people are fairly used to seeing foreigners from all over the world.
This video does in fact inspire me.
Because you are so well spoken and eloquent,
and because you got right to the point,
making an array of very good points.
I write this just after hearing you say
that it is nice that people speak to you
in German first.
You've confirmed a notion I have had
for quite some time.
Assuming that you are like me
is welcoming in a way.
A sign that colour is
of no importance
(except Danish folks
lie on the beach for hours
bored out of their minds
just to get a decent tan...)
I live in Denmark.
I play music together with a black German American,
who happens to be a Danish adoptee.
He has experienced racism in Denmark.
This was a surprise to me, because I couldn't
immagine that racism was alive and killing in my country.
As a little boy, I saw Cassius Clay,
later Mohammad Ali, on the tv.
I just wanted to be that beautiful.
I think envy over how good coloured people look
is one of the reasons for racism,
the most important reason of course being
slavery needing an excuse.
In a way, racism proves
that they knew
they were doing something unforgivable.
Bless ya people! All the best from Germania
I really appreciate you advertising Americans of any color coming over, settling down, make a good living and be a part of german society. We are already the place to be while the reality of living in the US closes in to “the purge” movie by the day.
It feels like we escaped a nightmare. And we’re thankful to be here!
@@TreyDaze great to have you, and like minded folks. The “new world” stopped being “new” - ugly Germany turns out to be the cosmopolitan center we all wanted it to be.
Glad to have you as a fellow citizen. Greetings from Frankfurt
(where every second person has a migration background 😊)
Thanks a lot Harry!
Hi, I think this is one of the best videos I’ve seen, all the best to you and your family. I’m a 70 year old fellow from Liverpool, I really admire your approach to your new life YNWA
Love this! Its great to hear!
Since this was a long video I will have a long comment;-)
I am white, very white, born in Berlin, grew up in the Black Forest and worked in Munich. The village I grew up in had not one person of color till I was 14 years old and a native German married an Asian woman. Of course we all looked like "woow, look at her", just because her color was different. However, never once anybody in the village would treat her different then you would want to be treated and the skin color was just...color, nothing more and nothing less. The reason I think that Germans in general, not all, are not racist is because of WW2 as it is taught in school up and down NOT TO BE LIKE THAT. Don't ever make the same mistake again, humans are equal, period! Now, I do live in the US and I am married to a black woman and my whole family is black. I love them with all my heart and I never once thought of anything in regards to skin color as it is the heart and brain that make a person. I see often how my family has to deal with racism at work or in their daily live and I still don't understand it how a country that has 13% of black people does not understand that skin color is just a color. However, I would say I know why and it starts with education. Watch some videos from Hayley Alexis, a black woman living in Germany, and she mentioned in a video a couple of weeks ago when she went to Auschwitz to see German history from WW2. She was amazed that Germany is fostering their horrible past and educates kids about it so we learn from it. She then compared this to the US whereas there is nearly nothing done to make sure everybody understands that slavery was wrong and evil and that we have to make sure we never do that again. She mentioned that there are no farms as museums in the US to show how bad this time period was and educate everybody about it.
In order to change the US it needs to change with the education so that this false narrative that people of color are of lesser quality gets flushed out over time. However, the way things go, it looks like it takes the opposite direction, thus making it worse for the future.
I am very happy for you that you found Germany to be your new home. Think of your child and how much better his education and live will be growing up in a free society where he can thrive. Watch some videos from My Merry Messy Life, an American family with 4 kids. Best, Martin
Martin…as always…I value and appreciate your comments and sharing of your personal experiences. I always feel like I owe you some form of tuition after reading your comments because they’re so valuable and educational. Thanks a lot brother!
@@TreyDaze Thanks for that. I have lived and experienced so much in my live that I am happy to share it with whomever is interested in it.
I second that! Have been watching Hayley for a long time, she's awesome! :) My Merry Messy LIfe is great, too.
I don't understand where Haley gets that from. I went through school learning about slavery in the US during elementary, middle and high school. We went to a play about Harriot Tubman and I was from a small town in Kentucky. So even if she were to say rural schools don't teach it, I highly doubt that's true. Looking back, we were beat over the head on the subject.
What really got me (not finished the video yet) is that you got nervous for your families` safety just staying in a town you don`t know. This really drives home what racism is about. Noone should ever worry about their safety because of their skin colour or nationality.
Interesting. You are right, but women all over the world have to fear for their safety wherever they go every day of their lives. It is funny, that racism is judged everywhere, while the omnipresent sexism is not woth mentioning. Sorry, did not mean this as attack, but I had to smile at your statement.
@@endlessstudent3512 Isn't it natural for anyone to feel a bit nervous about a new place? If you don't know the area you have to be more aware. It doesn't matter what your race or sex is.
@@ruthsaunders9507
Generally, not really.
But maybe it's because I'm used to traveling foreign countries since early childhood, so maybe I'm just used to getting thrown into areas that are completely different to my home country.
I'm generally calm and have never been afraid from the get go anywhere around the world (even in supposedly bad neighbourhoods).
I tend to judge situations independently from each other.
No reason to be afraid at all, until you notice that people start looking kinda off or something weird going on, which you can normaly already notice from afar (ex. how they look at you, facial expressions etc.). In that case, you can just avoid that situation altogether.
Being aware of a truck speeding with no sign of braking and potentially driving you over and being afraid of getting driven over while there are no cars anywhere close, are very different situations. :P
@@GoaDuFF I guess a persons personality and personal experiences will dictate a lot that. I've been all over and caution is always a good thing.
Nice things you said about my home country. Feel very welcome here - have a nice time! ♥
I'm glad that you feel welcomed here. I grew up in a small village with people who, at least back then, were racist. Being a blonde, blue-eyed girl, I didn't realise it at that time. But thinking back, there were clearly moments, we treated black people in a way that is not okay.
I feel like people become more open-minded, the more contact they have with different people. I was shocked when my parents called me, I told them about my American fellow student and she started to cry. I was really worried about her (so were my parents) because I thought I offended her or said something bad. She told me that she was used to being called African-American (and didn't mind it) and was feeling overwhelmed by just being called "American". I don't feel like I can understand that but I was happy I didn't say anything bad.
The second time I got goosebumps was when a black guy told me he likes Germany, because here he doesn't have to be afraid of the police.