Florence Pugh Eats 11 English Dishes Vogue - Etiquette Reaction by Jamila Musayeva
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- Опубліковано 14 чер 2024
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Etiquette Reaction to Florence Pugh Eating 11 English Dishes: In this video, I analyze Florence Pugh's table manners. I will use glimpses from her video to show some of her etiquette mistakes and explain why it was wrong and how she could have done them differently.
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We seriously need help on how to deal with little accidents and u unexpected situations. For example if you fall, or if you drop something on your clothes at a restaurant and now you have a stain, if you're trying to cut something on your plate and it slips out onto the table, etcetera etcetera.
No one talks about the proper way to go about these things! 😭😭
Something tells me that Pugh has taken etiquette lessons because she does very specific things correctly (holding utensils the right way, the way she cut the chicken, resting utensils, putting the jam on top of the desert). ☺️
But she did not want to come across as “uptight” so she was a little carefree for the video.
I do not think etiquette makes someone uptight, but the majority of people nowadays do, unfortunately. Great video, Jamila!
She comes from a very rich family herself, she was probably taught these things at home but since she herself is a more carefree person she doesn’t follow everything to a t
you are in your route to 1 million subscribers. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and your kindness. This is a totally different take on Etiquette.
Wow, thank you!
I think most of her little slips weren't actually her fault, she looked a little bit nervous and the people bringing the plates gave her just too much food to the point that it looks wasteful instead of abundant.
Could have been the case also ☺️
Jamila, thank you so much. Learning etiquette from you has really helped me with social anxiety. Could you make a video on etiquette for meeting your family in law? X
Noted ☺️
I didn’t know you weren’t supposed to push the plate aside when you’re done eating, good tip!
You are welcome 🙏🏻
@@JamilaMusayeva Is it rude to stack the plates on top of each other? I assumed people did it to help the waiter.
@@hypnoticelegance It depends on the setting (for context, I'm in the UK). People do this to help and in a place like a pub where drinks and food are served it is typically appreciated by the staff if you pass them your dishes/glasses (they smile and thank you). Although I would not advise stacking your plates even then, as it is not esthetically pleasing.
However, in any setting that is more formal than that I would highly discourage trying to help. I have worked part time when still a student in a number of restaurants and Oxbridge university colleges during formal dinners (black and white tie included) and the best you can do to help and show respect to the serving staff is to not to move at all and clearly signal to the staff what you expect them to do using your cutlery (if you don't, they will never ask, as interrupting your conversation with friends would be very rude, they'll just leave your plate with you until the signal is there).
The staff collect plates and glasses in certain order - bread plates and cutlery, starter plates and cutlery and so on, in the order they were brought to you. Imagine being a member of staff coming to collect large heavy plates and someone stacks a small bread plate with a slippery knife and some bread leftovers in between them, making your heavy stack dangerously unstable (even three pieces of high quality main course plates are quite heavy) and risking it all falling down. The staff member has to then stop collecting plates and make their way to the kitchen where they get rid of the unstable stack and come back again, which I promise you causes much frustration in the hectic environment of a restaurant. They would not want to cause any accident while collecting the plates not water time going back and forth between the dingo room and the kitchens.
Thus, the most helpful and considerate of you would be to take note of your surroundings (advisable in all situations) so that you are aware that the staff is coming to collect plates/glasses and then sit quite calmly, continuing your conversation with friends without exaggerated hand gestures (you might knock the plate out of the server's hand) and remembering to thank the staff once they've taken away your plate/glass. In addition, you might notice that the food is always served from one side and plates collected from the other.
I realise people might worry that it might be perceived as somewhat aloof to just sit and wait to be served, but I promise you it is not seen as such. Quite a contrary. There is much frustration when people help, especially among the less experienced staff, who are mortified at the prospect of dropping something and making a mess and who are very grateful to the guests who know how to cooperate and make their work easy and predictable. What happens behind your back is a fine tuned "dance" of people who know what and how to do their work and do it gracefully and efficiently. Hope that helps.
Greetings Jamila 🌼 this was another Lovely , Pleasant and Informative video. Thank you so much! Blessings to You and Your Family 🙏
Same to you!
Love your channel! Wish everyone was educated on the 12 -6 cutlery rule. I can’t tell you how many times I have witnessed wait staff asking if there was anything wrong with the meal or if the person is indeed finished, even at elegant restaurants. This is far too personal especially in the company of others. The person could be feeling unwell or dislike the meal or be on a diet. In any case you should not have to discuss how much or how little you have eaten with the table and the wait staff. Cutlery provides a subtle, but clear and final way to communicate you no longer wish to continue the meal. These rules are not arbitrary, they exist for a reason.
Absolutely ☺️
Tough when waiting staff nowadays don't even know the rules themselves and ask questions because they're trying to be friendly 😅
I think etiquette is just using your common sense. No one thought me, but watching this video just proved I have etiquette and table manners.
It is indeed but most of it has been forgotten.
Thank you for another lovely etiquette video, Jamila!
You are so welcome!
Keep up the good work. We look forward to watching more content like this.
Thanks, will do!
I always get so excited whenever you post. Love you and your work! Also, I never knew that you are not supposed to dip food in ketchup.
Thank you!
Please make a video on eating asian cuisine such as sushi. I am always confused to take a whole mouthful of sushi because it is unbreakable, would love to know how to converse with your friends at that point and while enjoying the cuisine.
The entire piece of sushi goes in the mouth at once. You wait until you're finished eating that mouthful to converse. All of the elements in that mouthful are delicate and easy to chew and swallow. Lots of videos out there on sushi etiquette. :)
@@wendigo1919do you know how to eat a meat roll? I've ordered sushi and it had a couple of them, and we were three so I had to cut one of them and it was so difficult even with a knife and fork! And it wouldn't be sanitary to cut it with your teeth😅
Hi Jamila,
My name is Eden and I've just started watching your channel, though I've seen other etiquette channels and videos in the past I am very impressed and pleased by your channel in particular. I don't normally comment on videos however, I wanted to suggest a new idea for a video. There are tutorials on how to compose oneself at dinner parties once arrived but not much on the logistics of hosting a dinner party or any other formal or informal meal gathering i.e. brunch, afternoon tea, lunch etc. What I want to know is how to plan, curate, and prepare a party from beginning to end ex. How many people to invite? Accounting for plus ones? How to invite someone? Seat planning? meal planning? Table setting theme? and so on.
Good day,
Eden
Maybe a book would be helpful in this. I think there are many books about hosting and party planing ❤
Jamila, I want to know how to keep your disgust hidden when someone behaves in a tacky way or when someone creates a scene. I try so hard not to react but even if I don't say anything, I can't keep the expression off my face which everybody reads. How do I keep myself calm and collected when others around me are being a mess?
Just do not pay attention to them. Unless you are teaching them. We are only responsible for our own manners.
@@JamilaMusayeva hi Jamila I hope you are fine. Can you please help me with this . I am light not fair with black hair and dark eyes.Can I change my hair colour into dark brown and my wear coloured lenses and still look natural or that new style will seem not elegant? Or shall I keep my eyes colour and hair as they are? And when I do my eyebrows with the powder they look very dark because they are black as well and I want to make them a little bit lighter so much so I decided to draw them with brown powder so is that looks nice on me ?
@@vickygareero9569 what ever you do, make sure it looks "efortless" Less is More.
@Vicky Gareero you might dye your eyebrows as well if that's easier. Also, whichever hairstyle and colour you decided on, hopefully it's easy to maintain as you hair continues to grow
In my culture, it's extremely rude to react to certain things. Part of etiquette is to not react. For example, I went on a date where my date had horrible table manners. I said nothing but it did put me off my food so I just excused myself and said I had eaten a big breakfast.
If all the world could eat with the same high manners and etiquette you have Ms Musayeva , it would be a far more pleasant experience dining out
Your content is pleasing and educatif,thank you for your efforts it s rallye appreciable.
I couldn't stop staring at your beautiful nails!! I loved it as always!! the only one thing I would think it could improve it's a little bit brighter light, the contrast with the other video clips made it a like even a little bit darker, but you look flawless as always. Tons of love and thank you for all your content!!🥰🥰🥰
Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you, Jamila. I loved watching your video, thank you for everything you do, know that you are appreciated!
Thank you so much! 🤍
@@JamilaMusayeva you are very welcome friend.
Thank you. That was really helpful.
I really enjoy these videos. Great job.
Glad you like them!
Love your videos!
Glad you like them!
Slurping is important in East Asian cultures.
And I think it’s disgusting.
But she eating English food
@@thegardener3650 Western people wiping their butt holes with dry toilet paper is beyond revolting. Get a bidet.
not everybody is East asian and you still have to respect other peoples cultures and foods
@@nyawilitips It's a 2-way street, bruv.
Love your vedios!
Thank you for sharing good manners..
Glad you like them!
i love these reactions videos!
Glad to hear it ☺️
Your videos always make me peaceful.
thank you!
great video and nice explanations; I started to apply some of the things in my day life as is helping me when going to more formal places or events and I'm terrified by how this celebrities are eating. :(
Absolutely learned a lot thank you ☺️
Happy to hear!
I really want to learn and apply these etiquettes in my daily life...thank you so much for teaching these..
You are welcome
@@JamilaMusayeva your welcome 😍
Hi Jamila, thank u very much for these type of videos, your impressions and comments are very helpful. Just a question... so in continental eating... would the fok always be upsidedown? Or this would depend on the meal? What if we are eating something like rice. Also when we finish eating... and we rest our cutlery in the 12'hr position... I normally leave the fork... how could I explain... in the "normal" position (I mean in the same position as when it was resting on the left side before starting the meal) but I noticed in this video you put the cutlery on the plate with the fork upsidedown. Is this the only way or both ways of the fork are correct?
Could u please let me know which of your videos to watch for this, please? I am confused on how to use the fork while eating with continental, thought fork could go in any of the ways? Upside down or in the normal position? But I think Im wrong? Im confused 😅 THANK YOU!
Thank you for the video. I always learn something 😊 I wonder if it's ok to touch the cake with your hands while transferring to the plate. Especially if you're serving other people, in a birthday party for example. Thank you!
Your piece of cake yes. Others, not.
just to let you know it's "especially" :) you can try a cafe knife and a metal spatula, that really helps!
@@mjones1187 Thank you so much for the information, I will definitely buy the spatula and knife. Also thank you for the grammar, I will edit it 😳😅 English is not my 1st language but I really appreciate the corrections 😇
@@ileanagarcia857 not a problem, the spatula helps with the balancing act! XD awh not to worry, you've done a great job in spite of that!
Hey! Jamila I really really love your videos so so so much and your videos are too too helpful to me in my life you are my inspiration and I wish you reach 800K Subscribers very very soon!💫💕🙂
Thank you very much 🙏🏻
Love your all video ❤⭐
Thank you so much 😀
Hi Jamila, Would love to know about Debutante Balls and Etiquette Guide to them.
Thank you Jamila ❤
You are welcome.
very helpful tips
Glad to hear that ☺️
Thank you ❣️
Welcome
At 7:05 she places the knife and fork at the 'finished' angle, but the tines are still down. The tines should be up at this point. If anyone reading this comes from a Western country where the tines are kept down in the 'finished' position I'd be curious to know, so feel free to respond.
Seriously- If I could find where or who designed Florence’s blouse - I would be only too happy to have that blouse as well - it’s captivating
Jamila... I was once taught that when you are indicating that you are still eating, prongs will be facing down... and when finished prongs facing up...Here you showed that the prongs facing down means finished? Have I been taught incorrectly? xx Thank you! (genuine question)
Thank you for this beautiful video! I love listening to your voice
Could you please make a video on how to eat fish properly?
I have shown it in my online dining etiquette course: you can find it in the description box below.
@@JamilaMusayeva Ah okay, thank you I'll look it up :)
How the way to eat drumstick with fork ? I always use my bare hand
Could you do a video on eating at a buffet? Thank you
Noted ☺️
Yes, I was thinking etiquette at a buffet would be good to know, when she said not to move your plate.
Thank you for your practical and informative video. I am just wondering if we were invited for a meal, but because of some religion reasons or any other reasons, we wouldn't like to eat some meals, How we should behave in that situation.
Just let the dish be and place your cutlery at ending position when everyone else is done eating. No need to move the plate away.
How to elegantly eat fast food 😂
Hello Jamila! My husband actually introduced me to you! He thought I would love you and your content and he was right. Thank you so much for all you do! Really appreciate you! I apply the things I learn from you and am better for it. Your elegance and class shine through all you do. Thank you!!
Awesome! Thank you! 🙏🏻
Keeep it up!!!!!
Thanks 🙏🏻
while studying etiquette, I came across such a rule that scrambled eggs are eaten with a spoon and fork. First, eat the yolk with a spoon, then the rest with a fork. what is your opinion?
Wouldn't scrambled eggs be completely mixed? Or are you talking about soft boiled eggs or french eggs?
Florence Pugh . She is amazing 🥰🥰my favorite video , and she was so natural , cute and funny.
Lots of love and respect from pakistan
Thank you!
There's a lot more etiquette dear jamila but this is basics great job❤
Absolutely Jamila, I am with you on the comments made, public figures are role models either they want it or not, and should behave like one.
Plz make a video on the topic of hair
Noted
🙏🏼May God bless you with many more great things in life.
Please make more videos like that,,,, ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Noted ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva it helps a lot ❤️❤ you're like an etiquette angel, so elegant, so pretty❤️
Question: you mentioned something about a crossiant being dipped in latte but I'm a bit confused here. There are two types of croissants one is the crispy, flaky one and the other which has a bread like texture. Could you please tell the difference between them as well as how and when they are or can be eaten...?
there is only one type of croissant! It's a flaky buttery layered pastry. If a croissant is bready then it was definitely made wrong! ☺
@@MissFade i used to think so too until I saw a crossiant shaped bread, with a consistency and sponge of a bread and people consuming it by cutting it half and putting butter on it.
@@prachibansal6670 i believe you are referring to a crescent roll, or like an American or other foreign version, because croissants are only made with pate feuillétée, which can't have a bready consistency,
@@MissFade oh..maybe...I'm asian actually so not very knowledgeable about this...but yeah that Cresent roll you're talking about is what people here are selling in the name of crossiant. I wonder what crossiant sandwich is in terms of texture coz they are quite popular here too.
If it’s more bready, it may be what is called a crescent roll.
More videos like this 🥺
Noted ☺️
jamila your outfit looks amazing on you! beautiful woman masallah! and kow i will watch the video 😂
Thank you so much!!
Personally I find it very bad manners if people slurp food or chomp it with their mouths open
Absolutely ☺️
Can’t wait for 1 million subscribers 🎉🎉🎉
We are on the way 🎉
Hopefully 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Put subtitles too thankyou❤
I love your videos
Thank you!
The reach across the table struck me as very odd considering how natural Florence's table manners seem to come to her UNTIL I realized she used a Tide stick in another video! So it's possible that it was intentional product placement- which was a bit clever if you ask me.
Thanks for breaking down all of these little details. Now every time I watch a "celebrity eats" video I immediately rush to your channel!
Wondering about the proper way of eating beans on top of an egg...seems like a faux pas...thank you for clarifying..
I would love to see a drinking etiquette video from you.
What exactly?
What if you’re eating croissant 🥐 and latte in someplace other than 🇫🇷 like Pocatello, Idaho. Can you dip the croissant or is 🇫🇷 the only place this is allowed?
questions : in the starting of the video you say that , " she gets first the Tea and then the Milk on top of it , that's the correct way of serving the tea" but what if I am having full milk tea ?
And another question : Is toast is allowed to dip into the tea ?
P.S : Love your videos and your channel , learned alot from it .
Thank you. You dont dip your toast into tea.
What do you mean by full milk tea?
@@JamilaMusayeva Thanks for replying and by full milk tea I mean , it's a type of in which water is not added just milk , teapowder and sugar (and some spices if wished) . It's kinda of an Indian method of making tea and normally the moms make it . It's kinda of like a tea latte ..
I wouldn't call it tea latte...I have seen a few places where they boiled tea,milk and water together and pour it in the tea pot just the sugar is left to be added later. Perhaps that could be done with Indian version tea.
@@JamilaMusayeva we have toast called as "rusk" could be considered an important accompaniment with tea. They are hard and can be eaten by dunking in the tea as they go soft after dunking. How to eat those if not dunk..?
@@prachibansal6670 yeah that is also an Indian version but the tea with water in it , it's more of version you will find in restaurants or on streets or if you're making tea for lots of people but at home you don't have to add water if you are just making it for 3-4 people , like it varies according to choices and quantity...
This might be a stupid question, but why is the American style of using a fork with the tines up considered improper?
From an American standpoint, I've never seen anyone eat using a fork with the tines down in real life. So follow-up question: Would eating with the tines up (American style) be considered proper in America?
Thank you for your video, I have a question, as you mention one should not make sound while eating, but leafy green salads make considerable noise. One just can’t swallow spinach or romaine lettuce properly, without grinding it thoroughly. therefore in front of guests I never serve it.
You can chew with your mouth shut and that wont make much noise especially when everyone else is also eating.
Hi, does anyone know why I can't access her instagram?
Love from India💗
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For the most part You can tell if the food is bad or slightly off by smelling it before you eat, it prevents you from getting sick . In some places its good to smell your food because, if the food has gone bad in any way , you wouldn’t want to eat and get sick. If your not sure that something is safe to eat its better to be safe then sorry. I personally don’t have this habit but I wish I did it’s smart. Because food poisoning is not fun.
I disagree. If food has gone off you will be able to catch the scent as you approach your plate or fork and do not need to raise it to your nose like a blood hound on a trail. It's rare to be served food that has gone off and generally you should avoid eating at such places. Additionally most cases of "food poisoning" are from microbes that are not going to show up in scent like e coli or salmonella.
Interesting fact: Florence's father is a restaurateur! I wonder if that had some influence on her table manners.
Anyway, I am really enjoying this series! :)
She was a lot better than others so I think may be she grew up in that setting.
i have contamination ocd and i have to smell every single bite of food before i eat it, even from the same dish, the whole time i'm eating it LOL
Zendaya did the same thing with the dessert though, she touched it with her finger I think. But she did not reach acrross the table
A rather pressing presentation!
How would we know if the food item is fresh if we don’t smell it first?
Hi 👋 I’m from Italy 🇮🇹 from Florence
Hi from Baku
After finishing our dinner at the restaurant. My friend sat across from me put all of her paper napkins into my bowl, so I did the same after. Is that acceptable? Thank you for the video
Not acceptable
@@JamilaMusayeva Hello Jamila. What should we do with the paper napkins?
@@amarachiadigwe2038 I have the same question. What should we do with the paper napkins after using them? 🤔
I think you place them to the left of the plate when finished eating
@@RumiRose12 💕💕
I don't think that the people should be natural in the public places: just imagine somebody farting at the table just because it is natural for him/her. And if you have to sit near the slurping person, I don't think you will enjoy her naturalness.
Absolutely agree with you ☺️
You are queen 👸💯🧿💪👍❤️🙏
Thank you ❤️
Do you have Chinese in your case, not only English and Azerbaijan?
Have Chinese what?
@@JamilaMusayeva i mean, do you speak Chinese too? I saw your Chinese speaking channel.
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What would you say that in some cultures people eating with their hands sharing one plate. Is this considered unhygienic?
It is not unhygienic at all, and it is an important, vital part of their culture. Even if their cultures, there are rules and customs that one must abide by.
did you know guys that Jamila means Beautiful?
Yes I know ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva Sure thing you do, I was informing people in the comments section haha
I love your conent
I just wanted to mention...it isn't fork and knife, it's knife and fork always. The latter is considered rude...
I had to Google her to find out who she is……
I was suggested by one of the subscribers to do a reaction video on her. I did not know her prior either.
I only recognize her from Little Women.
@JamilaMusayeva,
2 skills I gained from your lesson.
1) The cut of a Chicken Breast. ( Very smart & Tidy)
2) The cutting of the cake.
I want to share my experience at a Italian/Greek restaurant.
I ordered King Prawn ( Starter)
Came a long with Houmess, Fresh Cream or Cheese with bread.
(Main) Salmon served with Rice, Variety of salad and fries.
The fresh cream or cheese is the starter to the main course because the taste is 10 out of 10.
Try it out if you haven't really delicious. ( Fresh Cream or Cheese). It's packed with lots of ingredients, have to taste it properly.
The drink was served, non alcoholic drink, the drink name I can't say because I don't know. However wine taster would really love to try it because it is the rape of wine. ( It is not wine).
I will be discovering more of the Greek, Italian culture & food and soon discover the Azerbaijan traditional food & culture as advertised by you.
Broaden the knowledge.
Good Day Jamila.
I am so relieved to hear someone addressing sniffing food before eating it. I am shocked at how common this is becoming. It's extremely off-putting.
You are so beautiful and interesting woman!
Thank you! 😊
Okay, excuse me as I feel I need to point this out... The cake wasn't cut correctly. You never just take the top layer of this sort of cake. It needs to be cut all the way down. This is a different kind of cake from a wedding cake where it would be acceptable to cut the cake by layer. I believe this style cake needs to be cut the whole way down :) xxx
that's literally what she did tho? she cut the cake whole way down.
i once saw a gentlemen dating a lady and dunking a biscuit in his coffee- That is horrendous enough but it slipped into the coffee and rather than leave it he used his fingers to try and retrieve it !
Oh no! 🙈🙈
😂 at least use a spoon to recover it right?
@@RumiRose12 You would think so Katie , you would think so!
😘😍😘😍🤪
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nice girl
Hey Jamila are you part of the Kabalah? Because you have the red Kabalah Jewish cult bracelet.
No, it is a red bracelet with a diamond. Has nothing to do with any organization.
@@JamilaMusayeva Thank you for your response. I saw many celebs like Paris Hilton, Britney etc. with those red Kabalah bracelets.
I smell food all the time 😅😆 I have sensitive stomach 😅
Instead of saying "in this episode'' maybe it would be better to say "in this segment". Just a suggestion.
Episode or segment, I do not think it makes much difference.
@@JamilaMusayeva It actually does because I thought the show had a bunch of episodes with the same celebrity since you kept saying episode. You might think you know a lot but if a viewer takes their time to make a good suggestion maybe you should try taking it instead of disregarding it. I miss the days when you first began your channel and actually cared to listen to the suggestions of your viewers. But lately aside from what you want to hear you tend to come across as very rude in your replies. I guess I am disappointed because I expected better from someone who teaches "proper etiquette".
@@jiakapoor3889 shut up there is episodes
@@jiakapoor3889 she’s not privileged to speak English fluently like you do . English is her 4th or 5th language and unlike you she was raised in none English speaking country, so please have some respect and empathy towards people
Yeah, I have also noticed she replies very rudely to people who don’t say what she wants to hear. Surprised to see this behavior on an etiquette channel.
Using a knife to cut an egg?, is that proper etiquette?, not in my country.
Shes british, its customary to have something with the tea. It's actually pretty weird not to offer biscuits with tea tbh.
Nobody would consider it rude in the UK, as someone who grew up around my parents restaurant, it was very common to see both elderly and young contumers request their tea with biscuits. Point is, I feel like some etiquette rules are universal while some are very cultural
And etiquette does not make you a better person. It indicates your class status. That is all.
I often get a good laugh at actors portraying rich / upper class people and holding their eating utensils incorrectly, esp the claw grip on a fork while sawing their protein with a knife. One would think that movie producers / directors would give their actors lessons on how to hold their eating utensils. The producers / directors prob also don't know how to do it. They also close their teeth against the fork instead using their lips.
What is the etiquette of bringing your own salad dressing...not specifically for health reasons. What about dogs in restaurants? Bringing your own salad dressing and dogs in restaurants is rampant in the USA. I'm not a fan of either
This is not acceptable in a formal dining experience.