She Pulled Away After You Chased Her

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  • Опубліковано 6 сер 2023
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    I’ve lost count of the number of women who have pulled away from men. Everything is going great. There is high attraction, a lot of sweet talk, and a lot of intimacy, then BAM! Right out of nowhere the girl pulls away and starts acting as though she doesn’t want the relationship anymore. And according to female logic, it’s your fault for allowing her to rush the seduction.
    It’s an easy fix as long as you don’t get rattled and give in to your emotions in this situation and become emotionally unstable.
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  • @brown_recidivist
    @brown_recidivist 11 місяців тому +22

    She needs to know that you have options whether you have options or not. Anytime I had multiple women interested in me they all thought I was seeing someone else lol

  • @mystykalmn4434
    @mystykalmn4434 11 місяців тому +30

    Chase excellent not women, women will always come and go and learn to have self-control self-love and self-respect. Stay Strong Stoic and Focus everyone

  • @caucasianafrican1435
    @caucasianafrican1435 11 місяців тому +11

    I wish all this wasn't true.... but it is. Note to self: suck it up buttercup, and deal with reality.

  • @oscargonza2748
    @oscargonza2748 11 місяців тому +23

    She will chase if she's attracted to you, if she doesn't chase she was never attracted to you to begin with

    • @supratrd900
      @supratrd900 11 місяців тому

      This, If she was never attractive to you. It doesn't matter if you are on your purpose and focusing on you. She won't care what you do if she was never attractive to you to begin with. I've walk away from girls who have rejected me, even after getting on my purpose. Never even heard from those girls again.

    • @PyroShields
      @PyroShields 2 місяці тому

      Men go for attraction , women however don't.

  • @frankmorris6690
    @frankmorris6690 11 місяців тому +8

    EXCELLENT content as always

  • @Glaadyy
    @Glaadyy 11 місяців тому +8

    i have bought your book, really good hope to put your advice in practice very soon. greetings from Italy

  • @macogorkmen2318
    @macogorkmen2318 11 місяців тому +5

    Best way is to have 2 girlfriends so you always have 1 alternative to another means you do not feel to chease any of them which make them after you.

  • @m.sspeckyy7494
    @m.sspeckyy7494 11 місяців тому +8

    Thank you coach for this gem

  • @AdagioPhoenix
    @AdagioPhoenix 11 місяців тому +48

    A man must be like a shark and hunt his prey at first. Afterwards he must let the girl come to him as if she was a cat.

    • @AdagioPhoenix
      @AdagioPhoenix 11 місяців тому +3

      @@vwqwe-gh6td just an example.

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 11 місяців тому +6

      More like a lion

    • @AdagioPhoenix
      @AdagioPhoenix 11 місяців тому

      @@oscargonza2748 sure, whatever works.

    • @timgibney5590
      @timgibney5590 11 місяців тому +3

      No that is her job. Your job is to be aloof and get a lot of money and confidence and just do light flirting. Women pick relationships. Men pick careers

    • @AdagioPhoenix
      @AdagioPhoenix 11 місяців тому +4

      @@timgibney5590 a man for sure gotta focus on himself for purpose of growth. Nothing wrong with a man going after what he wants, even if what he wants happens to be a lady. But this is not to be confused with chasing. A man must hunt, not chase.

  • @Sonu-nv1gd
    @Sonu-nv1gd 11 місяців тому +8

    To the point 👌

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm 3 місяці тому

    I know a woman from work we were getting along and I asked her out and she said no. Maybe I went too fast for her. So I immediately went no-contact as far as socializing goes and looking for her and looking at her at work. She was flirting with me so I know there's probably interest so I'm hoping she'll come back to me and ask if my date invitation is still open. It's been about 10 days and I know it's been hard for her.

  • @Tommy-mh3jd
    @Tommy-mh3jd 11 місяців тому

    i have tryed to get a girlfriend but i keep getting friend zoned

  • @junaidjalal4804
    @junaidjalal4804 11 місяців тому

    If a girl do foreplay but dont do intercourse and say i dont have feelings if there are no feelings with you how can i don with you?

  • @miltonpowell9520
    @miltonpowell9520 11 місяців тому

    Facts 🔥🔥🔥

  • @XVNRX
    @XVNRX 11 місяців тому +3

    1:40 was my life in April
    Except she stayed over 3 weekends in a row at my apartment and then a month later she pulled away
    Was able to go to the beach for a weekend with her last month (July 14-16) and we haven’t talked since July 16th , it sucks bc it’s been really destroying me because we had a good time but I know not to contact her but I really want her …

    • @animesloversunited9069
      @animesloversunited9069 11 місяців тому +1

      Talk to other girls, channel that energy,

    • @XVNRX
      @XVNRX 11 місяців тому

      @@animesloversunited9069 I have been trying but it’s hard finding a connection

  • @harrypotter_petronus
    @harrypotter_petronus 11 місяців тому +8

    What if by the time she was gone she was being smashed by another guy ? I don't understand this advise sometimes if she is allowed to pull back as long as she want then whrere is the commitment? 😆😆 She can just come and go and will it keep going on like this?

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 11 місяців тому +2

      If she has the upmost respect for you she will not come and go or just pull away, no, she will do everything in her power to maintain her relationship with you, but there is nothing wrong to give each other space to grow the relationship, bruh

    • @harrypotter_petronus
      @harrypotter_petronus 11 місяців тому +2

      @@oscargonza2748 what do you mean by space to grow? They can't just disappear for weeks and months

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 11 місяців тому +6

      It means not to spend to much time around her or she will get bored with you and leave you cause you're acting like a needy clingy child and that will turn her off, you must be busy doing other things besides being around her too much otherwise she will think that you have nothing else going on in your life besides her, bruh

    • @harrypotter_petronus
      @harrypotter_petronus 11 місяців тому

      What if even after doing other things they try to pull away. let's say talking few minutes everyday even less than 10 minutes. doesn't it show less interest?

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 11 місяців тому +4

      If she still pulls away while intermintently chatting with her, then why do you bother with her? It's quite clear she's only using you for attention and validation, if this chick is into you she will give you her time and attention without pulling away, she's being disrespectful and does not care for you, she only wants to talk to you whenever she likes but only to inflate her ego with your free attention, block her until she starts investing more in the relationship, don't let her feed you scraps just move on, bruh

  • @user-te3mg3wn8w
    @user-te3mg3wn8w 11 місяців тому +1

    Hi Chris what should I do because I have a new girlfriend and I am not seeing my girlfriend for a week so will my girlfriend miss me if I do not see my girlfriend for a week

    • @user-te3mg3wn8w
      @user-te3mg3wn8w 11 місяців тому

      @@vwqwe-gh6td yech yech

    • @user-te3mg3wn8w
      @user-te3mg3wn8w 11 місяців тому

      @@vwqwe-gh6td I am just asking

    • @user-te3mg3wn8w
      @user-te3mg3wn8w 11 місяців тому

      @@vwqwe-gh6td because

    • @user-te3mg3wn8w
      @user-te3mg3wn8w 11 місяців тому

      @@Mike_Cosentino how

    • @sammysam6522
      @sammysam6522 11 місяців тому +1

      If she's invested in you, or attracted to you. The space you have apart will help the attraction flourish. Distance makes the heart grow fonder
      Attraction is built in space

  • @adityapatil5417
    @adityapatil5417 11 місяців тому +4

    Beacuse of hypergamy girl love a men who is higher value tha he ' but what decicide value? does it personality, wealth , social value or status what decide value ' plz comment bro

    • @timgibney5590
      @timgibney5590 11 місяців тому

      yes

    • @suhridsaha5934
      @suhridsaha5934 11 місяців тому

      Depends on different women, maximise 2 areas as much & u will be noticed & not ignored but adored❤.

  • @OM-pu9yi
    @OM-pu9yi 11 місяців тому

    what if she comes after 5 weeks? is she still girlfriend material?

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 11 місяців тому +6

      5 weeks is quite a long time, she may be with someone else, i wouldn't trust her at all, just block her and move on

    • @OM-pu9yi
      @OM-pu9yi 11 місяців тому

      ty bro, I was not sure if taking her back@@oscargonza2748

  • @IntegraDIY
    @IntegraDIY 11 місяців тому +9

    1:40 that means she got revenge sex towards her ex, and now they got back together. Revenge sex or just wanted to try another guy.
    If I’m talking to a woman, and she makes it very obvious she’s pulling back, I take away my attention 100% completely and never looking back until she comes around.. another one is lined up by that time.

    • @harrypotter_petronus
      @harrypotter_petronus 11 місяців тому

      What if by the time she was gone she was being smashed by another guy ? I don't understand this advise sometimes if she is allowed to pull back as long as she want then whrere is the commitment? 😆😆 She can just come and go and will it keep going on like this?

  • @hufficag
    @hufficag 6 місяців тому

    If a man only wants sex, then he will initially pursue a little, then after sex, he's good, not hungry anymore, then the woman starts pursuing. Then you have a relationship based on only sex and nothing in common. Or a man just has sex and refuses every woman who asks for a relationship, staying single.
    If a man truly sees a connection, a rare type of woman that you don't meet every single year. Say an expert in Egyptology or a girl I met who reads 50 books a year and is super feminine, submissive and interesting, teaching classical Chinese. Last time I met a girl like that was in 2011 on a university campus, 12 years ago. I don't care about the sex, I refused her sex. The connection is more important. Why would a man pursue initially if he doesn't know yet what kind of woman it is? Then as he gets to know her, he pursues her more and more. This steady increment in pursuit is the opposite of what the coach advocates, and it results in what could have been the most rewarding and meaningful relationship imploding. She blocks you.
    Why would you pursue a woman if you don't know her yet. Forget her, just a random stranger. With this girl I didn't even bother asking her number in the beginning, she added me on her phone. And in the end she deleted me.
    Back in 2011 I was in that situation described in the video. That smart introverted library girl kept coming to my apartment, bringing food. I never took her out. She said I love you, I said we just met a couple weeks ago, I don't have any feelings yet. Sometimes she'd stop coming. Then she'd resume coming over. I wasn't bothered, wasn't clingy, genuinely didn't care. That's the formula for success, to have no feelings for a girl. Eventually she just gets frustrated and blocks you, that's what happened in 2012.

  • @TraeZoe
    @TraeZoe 11 місяців тому +5

    So you’re on the womans time and shes chose every male interaction shes wanted lol got it